Girlfriend Chats With Several Male Orbiters

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  • čas přidán 23. 08. 2022
  • What it means and what you should do if your girlfriend chats with several male orbiters and guys she used to sleep with.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is new to my work. He met his new girlfriend 5 months ago. They moved in together after only 3 months of dating. She pressed him on his body count and he complied. Her’s was twice his. She keeps in contact with many of them and said she would never give them up for anyone because they are all great friends of hers. He says her phone is constantly blowing up with these thirsty guys and is unsure of what to do.
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Komentáře • 173

  • @mohammadzareie5193
    @mohammadzareie5193 Před rokem +206

    Guys the most important thing in a relationship is peace and mind comfort. Leave everything and everybody that fucks with your brain.

  • @paintopurpose
    @paintopurpose Před rokem +54

    Don’t ask a clown why they’re a clown. Ask why you keep buying tickets to the circus. To stay in a situation means you’re teaching the other person that you tolerate it

  • @darknight892
    @darknight892 Před rokem +63

    Set and enforce healthy boundaries, be ready to walk away from someone who is not treating you with respect and love.

  • @flurry6351
    @flurry6351 Před rokem +51

    Tell her your boundaries and if she keeps breaking them - walk away and never look back

    • @kennethprimmmd8093
      @kennethprimmmd8093 Před rokem

      You.nailed.it.

    • @robfolks
      @robfolks Před rokem

      Or just say...We will be just friends till you choose to only be with me.

    • @CaptainAngelo
      @CaptainAngelo Před 2 měsíci

      @@robfolks I wouldn’t friend zone myself with a female, because of her bad behavior. But I would say is look obviously you don’t qualify to be in a committed relationship with me, you care more about having your side pieces then you do a committed boyfriend, good luck, luck, wish you well, I’m outta here. That’s it, you called turkey. Why would you want this person back in your life anyway? They already show, a really bad habit with validation issues, because that’s exactly what this is.

  • @thebookeshow
    @thebookeshow Před rokem +97

    “She’s not yours it’s just your turn” 😂 loving the added humor. Corey the goat 🙏🏾

    • @jayceparkey2086
      @jayceparkey2086 Před rokem +18

      He jokes about it, but that sentence is the whole pretense for this lesson

    • @Vran4743
      @Vran4743 Před 10 měsíci +2

      It's true, tho

  • @joziewales1965
    @joziewales1965 Před rokem +87

    I make it a point to set up concrete barriers when it comes to exs. If your girl still needs to communicate with ex boyfriends or guys she’s banged under the guise as being “friends” then it’s over for me. I never tell them they can’t communicate with them I just say that if they are then we’re going to stay friends. To me that means shit ain’t over between her and them. Once you’ve slept with someone it’s very easy to sleep with them again regardless of their relationship status.

    • @bluesmoke8826
      @bluesmoke8826 Před rokem +5

      You are right. Gotta find women that are completely and have been single for a long time.

    • @joziewales1965
      @joziewales1965 Před rokem +21

      @@bluesmoke8826 I can handle women who’ve had relationships. Serious ones. But I have to see evidence that they’re over. I’m not going to invest my time and resources into someone who isn’t completely done with previous relationships.

    • @joziewales1965
      @joziewales1965 Před rokem +2

      @Ron Star it’s always there

    • @baschii7603
      @baschii7603 Před rokem

      Coach treats it different. I also handled it the way you did. I would appreciate to have a proper statement from the coach.

    • @CGJUGO80
      @CGJUGO80 Před rokem +4

      Great comments Jozie

  • @humzaha
    @humzaha Před rokem +126

    It's funny how a lot of these recent videos are relevant to what I've been through. Do the right thing, folks - even if it is hard.

    • @shortingthetrend
      @shortingthetrend Před rokem +4

      Proof your phone is listening to you. When coach pops up on your feed it means you need his.help. read the book it's greattt

    • @jeffstone4624
      @jeffstone4624 Před rokem +2

      Me too! Coach is channeling.....

    • @Frank.Melendrez
      @Frank.Melendrez Před rokem +5

      Same! 💯 “ no one will ever say or do anything to you, that you don’t invite them to do”
      no words could ever be so true…

    • @00cd9
      @00cd9 Před rokem +5

      I am willing to bet her body count is more than twice his - especially how he told his first (the old saying goes women lie down) - and her crying by his reaction gives it away that the number she gave him wasn't the truth. Focus on yourself gents don't take women seriously until they show us they are worth taking seriously💯

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 Před rokem +2

      @@00cd9 Exactly. Like if he said "4" she knows it's a huge problem if she's in the triple digits.

  • @croatiancroissant28776
    @croatiancroissant28776 Před rokem +43

    I’m so glad there’s somebody speaking the truth about guy “friends”. I told a girl, years ago, this was the deal with her orbiters. I let her see for herself with each and every one of them…..and then I left when she wouldn’t stop. She expected me to refrain from having female orbiters.
    Simple fact was this:she liked the attention. I now have a girl that doesn’t seek out attention. There’s a peace of mind that comes with that, which has allowed our relationship to thrive.

  • @daphneduryea9136
    @daphneduryea9136 Před rokem +11

    You shouldn't even have to ask her to cut off the orbiters. If she respects you, she would've already done it.

  • @DanTheVocalist
    @DanTheVocalist Před rokem +11

    What i do find interesting is that the woman was at least honest about her history with these guys. Most women will NOT tell you which friends shes fucked around with before. You have to find that out yourself, just trust your gut

  • @davidmyers2419
    @davidmyers2419 Před rokem +13

    Dude if she says I'm not giving up hanging out with other dudes. Then she doesn't want to be exclusive. It's that simple, run.

  • @aaronlang2764
    @aaronlang2764 Před rokem +33

    I love the part about the ratchet girl saying she'll stop but going back on her word after. I always set strict boundaries on DMs, snap and other social media quickly when I meet a lady. The problem is later down the road if you back off on them, aka was labeled as being jealous. My ex has slept with three of her "just friends" in the past six months.

    • @earthpart3
      @earthpart3 Před rokem +20

      That's what they always do make you feel like you're jealous or controlling lol. The best way to deal with it is to say hey I'm not going to control you you could do whatever you want so can I so if you want to continue this behavior I'll just go find somebody else who doesn't act like this

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 Před rokem

      Social media for women is crack cocaine, heroin, and nicotine. It makes her feel loved and cherished more than you ever can. A girl that is pair bonded to her smart phone can never properly bond with a man.

    • @itadakihokkaido4305
      @itadakihokkaido4305 Před rokem

      Wan that do that have no self-respect and have mental problems

    • @joeykanakanui4994
      @joeykanakanui4994 Před rokem

      How did you find out?

  • @richardrichard9953
    @richardrichard9953 Před rokem +9

    Lost a Girlfriend that way but in the end it worked out really good for me.

  • @lp3761
    @lp3761 Před rokem +22

    SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!!!!

  • @polloNOOBkiter
    @polloNOOBkiter Před rokem +14

    If your girl chats with several male orbiters then there’s only one place where she belongs…

  • @modernman7576
    @modernman7576 Před rokem +25

    She's just keeping them around for attention and they're just waiting for you to slip up. I'd you are focusing on your grind and bettering yourself you shouldn't have to constantly worry about what she's doing. The fact that your gut it telling you that something is wrong is telling. I had a similar situation a few years ago with my current gf. I told her that she wasn't respecting our relationship and that if she wanted to be with those other guys I would demote her to a fwb relationship and not be committed. Hasn't been a problem since.

    • @davidm2299
      @davidm2299 Před rokem +2

      I love your style bro!

    • @baschii7603
      @baschii7603 Před rokem +1

      Wait till things are going bad, then you will see if she holds her word or wants to change the rules again;).

    • @Al-ms6me
      @Al-ms6me Před rokem

      Demotion.....they need this to happen to them more often

  • @cynthiar7918
    @cynthiar7918 Před rokem +5

    You’re cracking me up with the red pill humor today!
    Sound advice as usual 👍.

  • @TheRealReport1
    @TheRealReport1 Před rokem +1

    Looking good coach. Thanks for the continued lessons and great comedy! Funny that “people can hide who they are for 90 days” is beyond true. Works with friends too. Great friend I spent a full month with made me realize he’s a horrible PoS. Took 9 years of only hanging out once in a while and then constantly for work/ conference trip to reveal the truth.

  • @danemyburgh
    @danemyburgh Před rokem +7

    Ordered your 3% man book 5 days ago and it's already here in New Zealand sitting on my coffee table. Time to get to work! 👌

  • @shortingthetrend
    @shortingthetrend Před rokem +28

    My wife use to do this when we first started dating. Many women are Daddy girls with inconsistent discipline and they tend to have more male friends. My wife admitted after 10yrs she likes men better than women cus women are drama. She is an amazing woman now, she doesn't talk to ex's or men at all. I had to teach her these things, I actually have her listen to 3% man and also all videos I reply to (including this one) and she is learning to be a woman of high value. I should reiterate, she IS a high value woman now. Thanks to 3% man I took my masculinity back and I helped my woman overcome her own insecurities. She is an amazing woman. I love her very much.

    • @nikhilabraham5000
      @nikhilabraham5000 Před rokem +5

      Good for you MAN. Do share what all did you teach your wife and How ? Good life ahead friend

    • @shortingthetrend
      @shortingthetrend Před rokem +8

      @@nikhilabraham5000 I'm being 100% honest and I'm not trying to suck up to coach here, but honestly his book opened my eyes. I had developed borderline personality disorder and when I was told the diagnosis it was almost like I was given an excuse to be a d**k. The last thing my mother said to me before she passed away was, "just because you have BPD doesn't mean you can say and do what you want there will be consequences one day" and she was right.
      Everything I've ever done is because of me or something I didn't do. I stopped courting my wife and in her words she said, "I begin to feel like nothing more than a hole and an errand girl" (this was after a emotional affair she had in April).
      Coach is right, you should never stop courting and giving and having mystery about yourself because some other man 13 years younger started telling my wife how beautiful she was and telling her things that I was not saying anymore and resentment started to build between us and we became toxic for a while.
      The key to undoing everything was repetition and waking up in a good mood. I also understood her childhood, in which she was a daddy's girl and always given attention and always made to feel special and always got what she wanted she even had the inconsistent discipline.
      After listening to coach's book 35 times, I started to apply the things that he was saying and I will be honest it took my wife a few months to come around but as coach says repetition is the key to success so I told my wife I wouldn't have sex with her on certain nights because I needed her to see me wake up in a good mood. I started to feel like the sex was only given so that I wouldn't give her a hard time and for a while that was actually the truth.
      As coach says, when your woman feels heard and understood the legs open if she feels unsafe or is in a bad mood because of how you have treated her then the legs close.
      And technically we're not really legally married yet we have been living together for 13 years, two of those years was homeless on the streets and she stood by me. She even helped out by pretending to be pregnant and holding signs on off ramps, helping with recyclables, and eventually my investments paid out and we've been in a house now in placentia for about 5 years. We've both been clean from pill addiction since January 2015. I'm now an investor in stocks and crypto and she is a counselor for drug addicts.
      Thanks to coach for literally saving my life and my wife.

    • @nikhilabraham5000
      @nikhilabraham5000 Před rokem +2

      @@shortingthetrend Awesome Man. This is what I wanted to hear. Because its different from what you read in books and what you do in real life as people are different. And I know friend that you are 100% honest and not trying to suck up to coach here. I am really amazed at the effort you put to understand her childhood. I would really appreciate if you could share more about how you got her back, like "what exactly you said, when you said and the physical non-sexual intimacy". Your experience would be an enlightenment to many others facing similar issues. Good life ahead friend

    • @shortingthetrend
      @shortingthetrend Před rokem +2

      @@nikhilabraham5000 all right... When I get off work I will write up more.

    • @nikhilabraham5000
      @nikhilabraham5000 Před rokem +2

      @@shortingthetrend Sure buddy. Eagerly awaiting to know your life experience.

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 Před rokem +5

    Either way you look at it. Integrity is a must in all relationships. 👍🏾

  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 Před rokem +8

    Yikes. I mean I’m friends with females but I don’t talk to ones I messed around with. That’s a big red flag. Also moving in after 5 months? Cmon man

  • @tonygee6418
    @tonygee6418 Před rokem +4

    I always love hearing the ending music 🎶
    (It encourages me to
    move forward thereafter)

  • @bodazaphfa
    @bodazaphfa Před rokem +6

    This one is already over, sadly.
    Break the lease bro and kindly send her on her way…unless she does a 180, but I’d still live on my own. It makes it a lot easier if / when things go south.

  • @ptrsrfns
    @ptrsrfns Před rokem +5

    You're a good man Coach Corey Wayne.

  • @tcpfuzz9215
    @tcpfuzz9215 Před rokem +21

    I let my latest girl of about 18 months go last night, which sucks because I have never clicked with anyone like I did with her. Absolutely amazing woman besides the fact that she has some really deep insecurities from a bad childhood. When I asked her what was up, she told me she's a bad girlfriend (instantly heard Corey saying "Listen when people tell you about themselves."), and by her own admission was starting to sabotage the relationship because she realized she couldn't afford the trip she promised me for my birthday. Rather than disappoint me then, she wanted me to already be disappointed with her by the time it rolled around so it wouldn't be as big of a blow. Hell, I would have been perfectly happy to go to just grab a drink with her and my friends. Instantly knew there was no future there if that's the kind of thing she pulls just to shield herself.
    In retrospect, her communication skills were awful. In person, she would be all over me, talk about our future, and tell me how much she loves me, my ability to open her up, and how safe and secure she feels with me. Away from me, she would basically treat me platonically (this was the sabotage). Because she was willing to weaken our relationship to avoid my potential disappointment with her, I asked her if she thought she was capable of going to the lengths of having an affair. I believe she has been 100% faithful to me, btw. She said she would never physically cheat on me and I asked if she could guarantee emotional faithfulness as well. She couldn't. Another nail in the coffin. Appreciated her honesty, though.
    Anyway, saw it coming thanks to reading and watching Corey's stuff over the years, nipped it in the bud, and simultaneously convinced her to get help with no hard feelings. Gotta let these ones go no matter how much it sucks. Full focus on purpose now and maybe a refresher on initially evaluating a woman ;) This one, though--she belongs to the streets.

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer Před rokem +2

      Sounds alot like my situation bro , but in your case at least your one was UPFRONT and HONEST , i on the other hand did not get that same type of honesty in regards to our relationship.

  • @thegrandlevel313
    @thegrandlevel313 Před 11 hodinami

    17:53 100%.
    And for that tiny fraction of a fraction that is not the case, he’s going to reach out and make sure to invite you and even make sure that she knows that he wants you to be aware and that you’re not after her like that.
    I have had a couple relationships where we were long term friends, ended up dating, the relationship ended and it was a decade almost after which I reached out because I didn’t want to be with her, I just missed my friend.
    Every time I speak to them, I ask about her kids and her man, and I’ve made sure he and I had that conversation and that he was ok with it.
    That is a completely different kind of scenario.

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 Před rokem +9

    It’s true about guys blowing up women’s phones. I was on the second date with this girl I’ve been seeing for the last three weeks and as she was showing me pictures on her phone notifications from bumble popped up. I couldn’t read them but it did make me wonder…..even though this woman is totally into me after the second date I still have to be aware that there are other dudes out there that will try to get her attention. But I’m all right with that because I’m James Bond!

    • @fhaze10
      @fhaze10 Před rokem +11

      Till James bonder comes along 😂

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 Před rokem +3

      If a girl is even somewhat attractive she is constantly being offered sex by other guys whether on dating apps, social media, or walking around town from the time she is 15 years old. If she wants to go with someone else there's nothing you can do. Don't worry about it. Hang out, have fun, and hook up. Remember that 97% of the other guys don't know what they are doing.

    • @Mixmastermez
      @Mixmastermez Před rokem +1

      Yup.. There will always be other dudes you just gotta be that man so the others are boys.

  • @alexcardinell7281
    @alexcardinell7281 Před rokem +5

    He should watch the video on "When to dump women that violate your boundaries"

  • @fernandomoralesyt
    @fernandomoralesyt Před rokem

    YOU ARE THE BEST!!!

  • @raygipson8896
    @raygipson8896 Před rokem

    Good morning Coach 👍👍

  • @DarthVeach
    @DarthVeach Před 7 měsíci +1

    I should have been smart enough to set boundaries and also should have left way before the relationship ended on its own. She had a couple guy "friends" that she would lie about to me because I think she knew they wanted more. And would get defensive and start fights if I told her straight up that she was naive for believing they were just friends and I didn't think it was appropriate when they were texting / calling her. I guess I was in a no win scenario and didn't see it until it was too late

  • @andrewmontgomery8428
    @andrewmontgomery8428 Před rokem +4

    A quality woman wouldn't do this crap in the first place. Don't get mad if she's doing this, just get up and leave.

  • @SusieQ1971
    @SusieQ1971 Před rokem +16

    I left a man I really loved for this same behavior. Communicating and taking out to dinner 3 other single, attractive women he claimed were "just friends" yet all 3 of them he had tried to date before I met him and they friend zoned him. One used him as her personal handyman, the other for free dinners and dog sitting, and the 3rd I don't think wanted much to do with him but he kept going into her restaurant she worked at to talk to her. I found he had asked her out to lunch behind my back and he claimed again it was just friends. Yet admitted when I asked him point blank if he was attracted to them that yes 2 of the 3 he was (the slim ones). He also carried a bikini pic of one of them in his phone. When I showed him the men asking me out he got pissed even though I turned them down and said I had a boyfriend. But he wasn't willing to cut off communication with these 3 women because "we've been friends for 20 years". Uh no you've been pursuing them on and off for 20 years. I gave him so many warnings, even cried to him about how much anxiety and pain it was causing me. He claimed I was being too controlling and I'm just insecure. So I bounced after 4 months. He told everyone I was controlling, insecure, and crazy. And one of them contacted me chewing me out for dumping him and said think of me as just his sister. I said sorry you guys have an emotional connection even if it's not sexual. He should be getting that from me not 3 other women. The irony was she friendzoned him herself 2 years prior but I'm the bad guy for not wanting to be with a man who needs relationships with single women.

    • @itadakihokkaido4305
      @itadakihokkaido4305 Před rokem +1

      A Damn mess!!! Sorry about that. I'm in the same boat with my lady, now....sigh....

    • @SusieQ1971
      @SusieQ1971 Před rokem

      @@itadakihokkaido4305 Ya I think these ppl are narcissists who just use ppl for attention and ego boosts and treat us in a way they would never tolerate being treated themselves.

  • @tagalong9251
    @tagalong9251 Před rokem +3

    Not worth the headache fellas leave it to the next chump in line to deal with

  • @marcleroux3426
    @marcleroux3426 Před 6 měsíci +1

    if you say something youre insecure and jealous but damn if susan dares phone or text you all hell breaks lose. healthy boundaries are there for a reason, if she doesnt like it well then go to your "friend"

  • @Iamtemjin
    @Iamtemjin Před rokem +5

    Hey Corey, will you upload that email with the 70-year old man? I truly wanna hear his story.

  • @grimlockarts8386
    @grimlockarts8386 Před rokem +2

    Orbiters are disrespectful period! Be diplomatic is laying down your boundaries and make sure she realizes it's not ok and it's disrespectful to you and your relationship.

  • @markypoo-u2
    @markypoo-u2 Před rokem +7

    I love your thoughts on the rp community. I got on a kick a few months ago listening to rp stories, but they always didn’t sit right with me at the end. Turns out it’s because they don’t take accountability for their choice in partners, they usually blame women for everything in the relationship and often they’re just mean spirited. It’s refreshing hear you give balanced advice.

    • @croatiancroissant28776
      @croatiancroissant28776 Před rokem

      It’s ok to blame female nature, as females are basically the same, but most RP guys don’t know how to deal with that nature. They haven’t figured it out yet, and probably never will. It’s like keeping a honey bee as a pet, and then bitching that bees have stingers.
      Plus, most of those guys are acting out of desperation. They’re afraid to leave, and they get walked on for it.

  • @estebanmunoz7486
    @estebanmunoz7486 Před rokem

    Corey, yu da best! thanks for the knowledge

  • @starseed855
    @starseed855 Před rokem +1

    I had the same experience but now I don't fall for it anymore again

  • @agihtiassalam8628
    @agihtiassalam8628 Před rokem

    This video strongly related to my case

  • @wulfclaw4921
    @wulfclaw4921 Před rokem +3

    She's a narcissist setting up a food drive.
    Cut that sh!t loose and make distance. Accepting her disrespect is a lack of your self respect. She's triflin !

  • @DanTheVocalist
    @DanTheVocalist Před rokem +5

    She belongs to the streets. You need to choose wisely who you trust and care for. This guy just picked the wrong woman, weve all done it

  • @Jervdbur
    @Jervdbur Před rokem +1

    My ex gave her number and meet up with a guy. Now she belongs to the streets. Not because i'm yealous (maybe a bit) but this is not loyal and its (micro) cheating/lining up replacement. Its hard.. thnx coach

  • @JK-vy8vh
    @JK-vy8vh Před rokem +1

    There’s other women that wouldn’t even think about doing that, let alone do it. If she even wants have you present with a previous f buddy to catch up I think it’s time to line another gf up especially since he’s already scratching his head with this current female.

  • @xerxesroms4062
    @xerxesroms4062 Před rokem +6

    If she doesn't make you her number one, Don't waste your time.Plus we all know what she is doing.

  • @VoiceOfThe
    @VoiceOfThe Před rokem +4

    Haven’t watched this yet, just read the description. Sounds like she’s not with her first choice. If she was and she was head over heels for him she wouldn’t be engaging with the orbiters. Unless she’s a fruit-loop, broken or damaged girl.

  • @baschii7603
    @baschii7603 Před rokem +1

    Coach, how to deal with women which never let the relationship flow when it's good, they dont let you be the driver of the funbus and always want to get the control back. You have to put them in their place every few weeks, it's annoying and destroys the intimacy.

  • @an_easy_name_to_remember4749

    Hey Coach, I’m getting the impression that you were saying that it would be OK to go with her to a place where they are former lovers of hers, so as long as you’re there? Is that what you were really meaning? I don’t know who would be happy about even getting into that position to begin with. Probably best to not take a woman like that seriously at all or get in that kind of position, where even if you are there the scene for some deception or behind the back hanky-panky.

  • @timothylloyd3852
    @timothylloyd3852 Před rokem +8

    No way , no how . In a committed, exclusive relationship Never tolerate that shit .
    It’s called the “container “ and if the partner is not willing to keep all their sexual energy in the container as in no flirting, no texting and no emotional involvement whatsoever with another guy . Not have any other guys in her phone that means performer lovers or even potential new lovers. If she’s not willing to do that , I’m out. Simply make her a friend with benefits wear a raincoat if you want to do that but for me, once I’m committed exclusive if she decides to do that I’m out for good. If it’s dating with no commitment that’s one thing other than that cross my boundary I’m out for good .

  • @droflivelife
    @droflivelife Před rokem

    My girlfriend has a good male friend. They had a thing for each other but he was married. Now they text very often and I'm jealous about it. Also she stopped talking about a guy at work and also texts other guys that I don't know. She treats me well but never been able to tell me she loves me. She told me early days when we were friends she is not sure she can ever be with one guy. She has had many partners and lots of ONS. She tells me they are just friends and I need to trust her. She is a flight attendant and wants to do trips away. This is very difficult for me to accept. But I love her and we have an amazing connection.

    • @chrisburk9424
      @chrisburk9424 Před rokem +4

      You have to decide how much you can tolerate. If it was me, I would WALK AWAY from that passive aggressive NONSENSE and forever CLOSE THE DOOR. Take care of yourself first and then find a Woman who is more aligned to your Ideals/Goals and who won't be keeping her options open.

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn Před 8 měsíci +2

      RED FLAG: "She told me early days when we were friends she is not sure she can ever be with one guy." Bruh....

    • @droflivelife
      @droflivelife Před 8 měsíci

      @Josh-fp2qn yeah mate it's well and truly over. She turned out to be a fearful avoidant. Was a traumatic experience.

  • @jeffstone4624
    @jeffstone4624 Před rokem +2

    Also if she's a social media nut and doesn't change her status....after 2 years.....them STREETS!!!

  • @earthpart3
    @earthpart3 Před rokem +4

    I wish these people would write in follow-up so we could know how they turned out

  • @hamza1517
    @hamza1517 Před rokem +6

    Hhahhahahahhahahha 13:22 my reaction everytime I see my gf.

  • @Drvenjola
    @Drvenjola Před rokem

    Where can I find that guy Corey is talking about "dark love" ?

  • @bretsiegrist8254
    @bretsiegrist8254 Před rokem +1

    Get used to it. Hyperamy. Take your time at everything

  • @ammu.live100
    @ammu.live100 Před rokem

    Sir I'm going through relationship problems. I met a girl, we started liking and she got very attracted to me. Then We came in a relation and fell in love.
    But now she is acting weird.
    She use to love me a lot but now she she is acting cold & don't want me anymore for no reason.
    We never fight, we never argued, I never disrespected her still this happened to me.
    When I asked her why?
    She said that she don't feel the same for me anymore. She don't feels the same as she feels with her friends.
    Now she is ignoring me on social media and don't want to meet or hangout.
    I asked her for a chances to make this better but she is not willing to do so.
    We both are in different classes and academic blocks & have no common friends.
    I don't know what should I do now. What's the reason behind this.
    I just love her and she gets irritated whenever I try to explain her what I feel for her.
    All she wants is just to come out of this relation.

    • @lalala9749
      @lalala9749 Před rokem

      you try too hard with explanations, you're always available while she's most likely meeting or hearing from others, you're losing value, you're killing your mystery, you're essentially stabbing yourself in the back, if you want to go further, let her go, but you do it first and regain your power, be a man make her in your position regain power then you maybe will regain her passion for you now there is nove and because of that she don't care and if women care she will have that little fights also..so the reason you never fight here is the bad sign also.

  • @yonathantapia398
    @yonathantapia398 Před rokem

    How I had fun with Master Corey Wayne's jokes, so I learn his Teachings better, she belongs to the streets🤣

  • @Androgyny_Trinity
    @Androgyny_Trinity Před rokem +2

    10:35 😂😅😅😂

  • @jayslungsbloodclot2733
    @jayslungsbloodclot2733 Před rokem +1

    10:35 lmao

  • @aphysique
    @aphysique Před rokem

    Indoor Olympics ....lmao 😜😂😆

  • @susanparkes5096
    @susanparkes5096 Před rokem

    Any guy who won't divulge his previous dating history is not mysterious, he's evasive and given to lying by omission.

  • @Josh-fp2qn
    @Josh-fp2qn Před 8 měsíci

    A girl I know purchased a house with her new boyfriend. They broke up. LOL

  • @paulmckeown8378
    @paulmckeown8378 Před rokem +4

    Get rid.... simple.

  • @sonsolar
    @sonsolar Před rokem

    This content was a god send to me 5 years ago, doesn't seem to work as well now with the younger gals. Less and less traditional options

  • @IntegraDIY
    @IntegraDIY Před rokem

    She WANTS to keep in touch? You already know she’s been getting smashed on the side already. Time to say BYE ✌️😵‍💫

  • @1HunterRoss
    @1HunterRoss Před rokem +3

    Corey is really at war with the red pill at the moment

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Před rokem +12

      I don’t like incompetence, stupidity or toxic nonsense that does nothing to help people.

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn Před 8 měsíci

      @@CoachCoreyWayne What do you think about the blackpill people?

  • @carstuff4u942
    @carstuff4u942 Před rokem +1

    Rich Cooper anyone?? :)

    • @creamycanoli201
      @creamycanoli201 Před rokem +1

      Nah my dad recommended him to me and I knew immediately he had a lot of anger and bitterness within himself. His work isn’t all bad but when it comes to women I wouldn’t take his advice. Corey Wayne in my opinion is the best all around life/ dating coach. He is the reason I was able to figure out what my mission and purpose was.

  • @AndrewEvenstar
    @AndrewEvenstar Před rokem +1

    Solution is to remove her social media altogether

    • @casadorn1585
      @casadorn1585 Před rokem +1

      That’s extreme, let her be, leave her

    • @AndrewEvenstar
      @AndrewEvenstar Před rokem

      Not for Muslim girls it isnt. It's expected. And I'm not American.

    • @damianstasek8946
      @damianstasek8946 Před rokem

      Andrew Evenstar it doesnt matter what she is, women are the same across the planet. If you force her to be with you neither of you will be truely happy.

  • @Eric-pu7lp
    @Eric-pu7lp Před rokem

    😂😂😂

  • @WachoDude
    @WachoDude Před rokem

    When the girl asked him how many girls have he slept with yeah we should say “im a gentleman I dont kiss and tell” but I’ve also came to realize than having more partners as a MAN it adds value to us. The more girls we have sex with it adds value to us whereas for a women the more men she has sex with she’s being degraded more, so why shouldn’t we be a man and be upfront and tell her the truth or whatever number we want? I mean if it offends them it’s a it or leave it your going to date me and find out eventually.

    • @damianstasek8946
      @damianstasek8946 Před rokem

      Because it isnt important. Nothing good comes from it.

    • @user-td4wl8by8d
      @user-td4wl8by8d Před rokem +1

      If it's important to you then it's important. Don't compromise if it's a significant boundary for you. If you're looking for a long term relationship you'll just be wasting time if she doesn't meet your requirements, and the higher the body count the less likely she'll want, or be able, to commit and stay with you.
      At the end of the day, if you don't want your future kids to be raised by a streetwalker, then you need to vet them out. If she brings up the topic and gives you a (likely reduced) number about her past that's more than you will accept, you've saved yourself weeks, months, or years of time.
      There's another bus every 15 minutes.

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 Před rokem

      Recently a girl asked me how many other girls had been to my house. I said thousands at least. That was the end of the topic.

    • @WachoDude
      @WachoDude Před rokem

      @@sdickinson5234 that’s exactly what I mean, there’s no need to be shy about it, I believe honesty is such a strong factor and being a man and upfront about it is much better

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 Před rokem

      @@WachoDude a bit later I realized I should have added something like "but you're the best one so far"

  • @otiugeid1497
    @otiugeid1497 Před rokem

    lmfao

  • @jayslungsbloodclot2733

    Wth.. this made me unsub to all those toxic redpil channels 4:56

  • @alokmishra5867
    @alokmishra5867 Před rokem +6

    Coach u r too obsessed with red pill I think

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Před rokem +7

      It’s fucking up a lot of men. It’s not helping.

    • @rana.5655
      @rana.5655 Před rokem

      @@CoachCoreyWayne Nopes, women are the ones fucking up men.

    • @alokmishra5867
      @alokmishra5867 Před rokem

      @@CoachCoreyWayne but I think their observation is great in comparison to u coach about female nature.

  • @nadanada-px7vf
    @nadanada-px7vf Před rokem

    First lol

  • @darknight892
    @darknight892 Před rokem +3

    Set and enforce healthy boundaries, be ready to walk away from someone who is not treating you with respect and love.