My Girlfriend Rubs Her Male Orbiter In My Face!
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- čas přidán 18. 12. 2022
- What it means and what you should do if your girlfriend rubs her male orbiter in your face.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer whose longterm girlfriend has a male orbiter who obviously is still romantically interested in her. They go out in the evenings occasionally to drink wine and hangout together. She threatens to end the relationship and calls him insecure when he communicates he doesn’t like her hanging out with him or rubbing him in his face. She says that he will be very unhappy if she dumps him like all her previous ex-boyfriends. He asks if he’s being unreasonable or if he should put his foot down.
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The disrespect should make you instantly replace all feelings towards her with disgust.
Yup exactly u shouldn't even be able to look at here the same
Dump her man. You can’t put up with someone constantly disrespecting your boundaries.
Yep, but unfortunately, a desperately thirsty man will start seeing mirages.
You can't. She will ruin you.
Run from this girl like the plague. The fact that she thinks what she’s doing is normal is a huge red flag. Even if he puts his foot down and explains like Corey said, she would just lie about her interactions moving forward. Run away now
"let people do what they wanna do, so you see what they'd rather do!
" That'll answer all the questions you have.
Exactly 💯
She'll just find a way to hide it on u
Move on asap. She sounds like a narcissist.
Bingo
A girl with true desire for you won’t need additional attention from orbiters. Never let a girl you’re in a relationship rub or threaten you with any guy. Demote her to FWB. Done deal.
If your gf is waving a male orbiter around you, you better drop her and re-evaluate your choice in women. If the girl has tendencies like that to wave anything in front of you, she belongs in the streets.
Respect is the one thing I value most highly in relationships. If the girl won't respect me and submit to my boundaries, they're not worth the trouble.
Absolutely 👌 and as Corey often says: if she doesn't respect you, she'll never love you.
The fact she brought up the idea of her bf being single and alone like her previous exes goes to show she has done this before and nobody was bold enough to put her in her place causing her to constantly get away with it. I’d say Bob, use Corey’s convo of what he would tell her and let her know. If she doesn’t reciprocate and value you and your boundaries, then it’s time to move on to better pastures.
This is the best response to this situation imo. Well said.
Lets just be honest shes probably slept with 1 of them anyway or allowed him access
Leave, she is cheating and you deserve better. Be the hero you need and walk away
As a woman, I can assure you: if we talk glowingly about ANY guy, it's because we like him. We tend to verbalize our thoughts, and when we're thinking about someone a lot, we can't help but talk about them. It's the same as on the flip side, we can't stand a coworker or a friend is being a bridezilla and we kvetch about them constantly. It's doubly bad that she's talking about the guy to YOU, instead of to one of her girlfriends. We don't gush to guys we respect about other guys. EVER.
I suspect that. I always felt that if your gf mentions a guy she's NOT related to without you prompting her in some way, it's because she likes him. I didn't always recognize it back in the day, but I always heard my replacement's name before I realized what was going on.
Yep. A woman who is in love with and respects her man would not do this. She would not talk about any other guy or even consider spending time with another guy one to one. If she does, she doesn't love and respect him, so he has to respect himself by looking at her actions and walking away, no matter how much it hurts.
All true. If she's talking about someone else, you're in trouble. She's your queen and you're her king. You get the food, she cook. Be passionate. I have a friend that acts like a jerk, but he's actually good, take care of his woman, very alpha male and I'm there watching, learning. He's an inspiration for me and so does the Coach.
I need this. Had an ex who did all these and I was made to think this is normal, and I shouldnt stop her from meeting these platonic friends of hers 1 on 1 on dinner/drinking dates.
@@00Qan - Yeah, she clearly wasn't in love with you when she did that. She may have still had interest in you, but she may have been testing you to see if you stood up to her. As Corey says, you will never truly own a woman's heart unless she knows that you are willing to walk away and mean it. It demonstrates internal strength which is extremely attractive to women and earns us so many respect points, escecially if she is smoking hot.
In fact, when you're dating a high value woman with lots of options and she starts to develop strong feelings, usually she will subconciously give one final test of strength by doing something like this. If you pass, that's when her feelings of high interest are solidified and she falls deeply in love with you. Most guys don't pass.
Loyalty, respect, honesty! If you don’t have these three traits you are out. It’s that simple.
Dude, I just blocked my narcissist ex who has been "just friends" with a guy for 9 months of our 12 month relationship. They met on a dating app, just like we did. She broke it off with him to date me exclusively. And a few months into our relationship she introduced him to me. She swore they were friends all the way up to posting vacation photos with him on facebook for me to see. Just a week after giving me an ultimatum to propose to her. That was a great feeling. And unfortunately that's what it took my dumbass to see she's been manipulating me and wasted an entire year of my life. For a full year she would slowly push my boundaries further and further to see what she could get away with. Every time I would back off and show her what I wouldn't tolerate she would come back and lie to me that it wasn't what I thought and reel me back in. Yet her behavior became worse and worse and she made me out to be the reason why. Constantly accusing me of being a cheater or being in love with my ex I broke up with and hadn't talked to in over a year. She'd tell me things like other guys she's dated and her "friend" don't treat her this way. When I told her to break it off with him she did it in front of me. A week later I saw her get a phone call from him and she told me she had just had dinner with him as friends. When I objected she turned it back on me and how terrible I was. If I wasn't so bad to her she wouldn't need to have him. That shit never stopped and went on for another 6 months only getting worse and worse. The more I'd empathize with her the more she knew she could get away with. I thought she was playing him up until the day I realized I'd been played the whole time. Run.
Should have broken up the first time she went on a date with him.
Especially since they met on a dating app. Do you really think they didn't have feelings for each other?
@@kristjanorn3342 I did break up with her. But she hoovered me back.
@@jamestacular James, you did great. A year is really damned good. People do this dance for a lot longer. Screw mgtows who shame you on CZcams. You might know that it's normal to fall for up to 7 hoovers before shutting it down.
@@mrsherwood2599 thanks. She’s still hoovering. Dropping off gifts at my house and texting me from a new number. Shits getting weird.
@@jamestacular you know what to do. She'll give up when there's no oxygen. They always do.
Move on, stay single for a while, let the next women come to you, this is too toxic to be put up with, this situation never ends well.
Thanks coach.
I had a girl like this. She would hang out with her male friends, telling me nothing is going on. Eventually, I said enough was enough, I ended it, then she started sleeping with one of those guys.
It’s important to establish boundaries, no matter how cute she is….watch her behaviour not her words
It’s very hard to find a loyal and trusting woman. I can see the disrespect in all relationships around me from friends to family. Women following and liking multiple guys posts etc it’s almost like a bookmark for later when things go south lol. Stay alert my friends be clear on your boundaries from get go and do NOT compromise on it when it comes to this type of situation!
This I see it too. Women openly flirt with other men while bf just looking on laughing like it’s ok.
What should you do if your girlfriend is liking other guys posts on instagram? Like if she’s liking posts of personal trainers topless etc
“It was just that one time” lol
Once you get a woman to open up deeply they will often talk about their actions in the past and it will tell you, more than likely, how they react when things aren't perfect.
Bruh, if a girl ever said anything that wild to me I would put her to the test. Let's see how sad I get.
You are an absolute master at communicating relationships and enforcing healthy boundaries of self-respect and great character. Love you Corey
A girl that has any kind of respect for you wouldn't put herself in a situation being one-on-one with another male in a "date" like scenario, especially if it's something she feels she doesn't have to tell you about. I had this problem in my previous relationship and I was always gaslighted, her telling me I'm insecure. I should've had more respect for myself and not tolerate her behavior. Fortunately that's the past and I'm moved on from that. Thank you Coach for your advice, you're a life saver and you really know how to be real with your audience and give us the confidence to not tolerate red flag behavior.
Corey is 100% correct. But even if you have to have this conversation then she is not relationship material. She’s a playmate that belongs to the streets.
Set boundaries from the get go. If she doesn’t follow, get another girl on your fun bus!
Behaviour like this shouldn’t even be asked not to be done. This chick is for the streets. Worthless
This guy is acting like a passive-naïve doormat.
Went through something similar recently. Girlfriend took a dude out to dinner whom she was 'tempted' by and who was 'dark and has addictions ' and needed 'fixing'. After three years, I walked away. Completely disrespectful to me and felt betrayed. As Corey says, she belongs to the streets. I am a cool, loyal dude. She lost out big time.
She don’t respect you then, drop her!!
What a shit show this relationship is. Never believe a woman when she says “he’s just a friend.” Even in the extremely rare case she’s actually telling the truth, who cares. Never believe it. He’s just a “friend” until he isn’t. Have higher standards gentlemen. This woman is communicating so many things to this dude including that she doesn’t respect him.
There are now 8 billion people on the planet. Dude seriously, tell her to kick rocks. Retain your dignity and move on.
I had dealt with Male Orbiters that had a history with my ex, and was told not to worry about them because if I had something to worry about she would have been sleeping with them. This male orbiter ended up sleeping with my ex 3 years prior to our break up, which I was just told a couple days ago. After being broken up for 6 months. It's like Corey says.. Liers and cheaters do it and make excuses for it
Absolutely incredible video! Spot on coach! Sometimes the conversation must be had, if the conversation ends it then it's for the better.
1 in 10,000 men have the courage to enforce boundaries like that.
You really say it like it is coach, I'm sorry that CZcams is demonetizing you when you drop the f-bomb But sometimes it's got to be said as reality is reality. What you teach, we Men really need. Thank you
Thank you Corey. Your advice doesn’t only apply to intimate relationships, but to life in general. I play football and I never used to be good at negotiating and would just accept the first offer that was given to me. Now I’m the highest earner on my team, thanks to you!
I don't care how secure you are in your LTR; if your gf is absolutely obsessed with another dude...
You have a problem, sports fan.
Looks like youtube is playing with your views too. All integrity dating content seems to be getting the hose. Great video. It deserves to be viral.
I think the horse is already out of the barn! Just let her go. My experience is that these kind of women are just going to keep on being trouble once you start asking the question how would you feel etc. you’ve already lost
23:19 “IT’S NOT A DATE”
Lmao
I love those roleplay from Corey
Cheat on her, tell her you cheated, and then dump her. Normally i'd say just dump her and move on, but she'll never learn to not be a 304 if you don't do something drastic. If possible, cheat on her with her friend, open up the wallet and bring her on a nice date, the dump should be devastating for her to learn
The fact that she tells him everything the orbiter says to her to include compliments tells you that she’s messing with the writer’s head. She’s attacking mentally and she’s definitely have the upper hand in this situation because the boyfriend obviously has allowed this to go for too long. It hurts but she’s definitely not girlfriend/wife material, she’s just immature and doesn’t value the boyfriend. Leave her before it’s too late, you’ll be stuck in a vicious circle with her and the main thing is: you will never trust her.
I mostly agree with you but in this case he should really dump this girl especially after she said "you will be miserable after we separate" and "you are insecure". Not dumping her is appropriate if you think she does this because she is naïve and dump but this girl is clearly manipulative.
if theres one thing i learned about my 3procent journey is that you cant take anything personal that she or anyone else does , focus on your own purpose and mission in your life and anything will fall in place , thanks coach ive been from a very needy and insicure guy to a guy who takes things day by day and enjoy the expirience good or bad with woman i never be the weak guy i was before . sorry for my bad english ! Thanks coach for your hard work and make me realize life is great if you just believe in it and go for the things that you want in life
Life is very simple my friend your either strong or weak and this is the result off being weak the harsh truth. Focus on yourself and goals and get stronger mentally,physically and financially and build your confidence you can do it.
What she tells you is tip of the iceberg. By telling you, she is relieving the guilt.
When she says: I’m going to dress nicer for you and do my makeup more”.
I think: for me? You’re going to work for the next 8 hours and the next time I see you it’s in gym clothes when we meet at the gym.
She’s relieving herself of the guilt dressing up and doing makeup for her coworkers. It tells her it’s ok because she told you it’s for you, even though it’s for someone else she makes herself think it’s for you.
Then you go through her phone and realize it’s for her coworkers. Just saying, actions vs words. Always
#OddlySpecific
@@cactusjackhausen8508 are you saying these behaviors are a one off? I typically don’t understand hashtag responses
Holy shit Corey! This is one of the best videos I’ve ever seen!!
It's rare to find a fine lady with loyalty in mind these day. Keep your eyes open guys, and don't settle for anything else but that.
gentleman it is not your job to explain anything of any sorts to people to this level! recognize comprehend accept and move on politely without resentment. Reality is this guy settled based on availability @ the time he was needing someone. If you are comfortable in your own presence and living your life you would never have more than 1 or few encounters with someone like this from the beginning. Now he’s overly invested without recognizing he’s too good for her. Ironic There are certain things you can explain and teach someone and then there are things that really show a big gap in personal development that show you she’s not where you are. if she was a 5 or 6 out of 10 would he get this far with her in time and effort? NO
Integrity is a high value to have. Never forget that men. 💪🏾
Leave and leave
Not a healthy long term prospect but great practice flexing boundaries brother. Have the balls to walk away. She’s shown her cards. Acceptance ain’t easy and see what happens when you drop the hammer. Its super hard when you're emotionally invested and I get that. I've been there.
One time my girlfriend did that, I told her to collect her stuff and leave, I opened the front door for her and she left. A week later we reconnected. After that she has never done it again. Coach CW taught me well.
Wow, sounds exactly like my most recent ex, almost word for word, my ex turned out to be a narcissist with borderline flavor. This woman is a complete waste of time. Move on.
Cory needs to go on fresh and fit, debate Rollo and the rest of these dudes. Would be interesting.
They are a lost cause.
I remember watching my pulling away first wife getting ready in front of the mirror to go out without me. I knew she was meeting other dudes. I looked at her in the mirror getting her eye makeup on. I told myself that day “ I am never doing this again” Moved on and upgraded.
If she did it once she will repeat.
Something is wrong with him. She is not into him. She wants the other. He should have wished her the best with him. Even better obtain his info and message him telling him how much she thinks about him and wish him well.
If her actions continue after you confront her, leave her man. I was in a similar situation. Still am, except she was my cheating ex. Hangs out with her “friend” on a consistent basis. This will cause nothing but mental pain here on out.
It's a red flag well there's many after hearing this. If she's allowing this going out etc with another single man and not you its a problem ⚠️ ️all I can say I hope you figure this out my man. I've been there while I was once married so I can relate with this guy.
Lol I almost wish a girl would do this to me just because it would feel so good to leave her 😂
Same here! 😂😂
High level interest has nothing to do with someone who was not taught certain mannerisms and behaviours. Etiquette of what is appropriate and what isn’t. If you cant leave her alone and count on her not to embarrass you or your family or kids as she represents you when she is attending everything in life when you aren’t there as her partner and vice versa if you cant have that level of comfort her representing you and your entire family you dont even waste any more time and cut her off and wish her the best even without her doing anything this absurd!
Thanks!
The dude doesn't respect himself otherwise he'd dump her immediately with the first mention of a "replacement"
He wants to plough her strawberry fields 😂😂😂😂
Ooooohh you, you got what I neeed, but you say he’s just a friend, you say he’s just a friend , ooohhh you…
She's gaslighting him
My girlfriend is South Korean, and she often tells me that dating there is entirely different than here, but she seems to be responding extraordinarily well to Coach's teachings, so maybe it's not so different after all. lol
Reality is reality. You can ignore it, but not the consequences of ignoring it. What I teach is self evident once you learn it and see it for yourself in the real world.
That’s all cool talk Corey, and most of men understand it but in my experience women do not reason well when you talk to them this rationally especially ones that play games with their man
Calmly emphasise this and if they get angry or unreasonable calmly walk away and mean it. We cannot fix others and their patterns of thought
I’d let her go, when she gets back her shit is outside the door and her number is blocked. People will treat you how you treat yourself.
What do you do in a long term long distance relationship😅. These problems have been popping up this year her saying its just a friend. But shes always texting him hes blowing her phone up even when we hanging out. When we are on phone shes sighing blowing her breath and when I ask whats wrong she says nothing. I’m going to keep reading the book but felt like reaching out. Since shes hanged out with this orbiter multiple times but seems to do it when i’m away busy or handling business. Recently she showered at his house and that rings red flags idk how to display confidence and approach her on that without displaying insecurity. Yet, when away she hits me up sounds excited to hang out but when we finally do her interest drops to very low. She sighs sounds bored ect like that.
Jeez I’ve watched less than 2 minutes of this video and I already don’t approve of this relationship. I would never hang out one-on-one with someone like that from the opposite sex especially if my wife didn’t want me to. Once you meet someone who puts you first and you fully trust this person, you’ll never want to settle for anything less ever again.
I mean HE should be the one giving out the ultimatum, not her. He should be the one saying you’re going to regret it if you lose me. I’m shaking my head so hard at this guy for putting up with any of this. She has no respect for him and knows she can get away with it
My now ex did this and now she’s spending Xmas on her own. She backed the wrong horse.
I doubt she is spending xmas alone
@@altomi33 she told me yesterday and it’s her own fault. She’s moved to another country as she thinks money is more important than family and friends. She treated me like crap last Xmas and I did a lot for her. I have little sympathy for her.
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FWB only my friend
Hahaha, I don't buy the "some girls are naive" thing. They know. They also know they can't admit it.
Just he fact that she even thinks that this behaviour is ok in the first place would be enough for me to send her packing.
Later. Bye.
This girl has always kept in touch with me over the years and always was the one that reached out. My other friend was getting married and I asked her to be my date to the wedding which she said yes. The day before I went to watch her swim at college also, her parents like me a lot and even offered to drive me down to watch her 3 hours away! The wedding went well and we kissed. I told her I enjoyed it and she said “the kiss was perfect, I enjoyed it as well and I hope there is more in the future”. Didn’t get to hookup though, her parents own guns haha. A few days went by and she texted me about her finals at school and how she didn’t do too well. That turned into texting more. And she stopped responding after a few days of her venting about school and I didn’t set a date (I know, I fucked up, my bad). I didn’t reach out and figured she’d text me again which she did a week later. She said she was home again and didn’t see me coaching at swim club practice like she thought she would. Which I immediately said “I’d love to see you when are you free to get together” and I haven’t gotten a response since. It’s been two days now. The first time she stopped I figured since I screwed up she’d be like that cat and come back which she did. The second time I tried to make a date and got ignored. Since a week passed I figured enough time had passed since she reached out to me. I guess I’m asking what might have happened since I didn’t ask her out the first time. And why she chose to ignore my date request.
I don’t know dude women always have other options swimming around some guy Musta been talking to her in between, if she’s interested, she’ll make contact I just let it go you don’t want someone that’s lukewarm anyway
The only thing you did wrong was continue to text her for a few days without asking her out. Maybe she sensed weakness which is why she backed away a bit. Then after a week when she reached out you just jumped straight into asking her out instead of smoothly transitioning into it after a few texts back and forth, which could come across as a bit unatural and jarring. Other than that there are probably other guys she is talking to.
Also, the sweet spot when it comes to women is push/pull. You shouldn't always wait for her to reach out otherwise it can communicate game playing or lack of interest on your part. The key is to lead by taking one step forward (texting/calling/asking her out) then pull away for a few days in order to encourage her to chase you (no reaching out or anything) If she doesn't chase, then you take another step forward by reaching out. The only time you stop all forward movement is when you are rejected in one way or another. Then you wait for her to get in touch with you. In the case when she stopped responding after your 3 day text conversation, i would have waited 5-7 days then reached out, asked how she is doing etc, then smoothly transitioned into asking her out. I may have even suggested a quick phone call and asked her out over the phone.
As corey says don’t be a robot don’t over think this stuff if it’s been a few days just text again one more time or call or maybe you’ll see her in person again at practice. My main point here is be the catch act the catch and know you’re catch don’t sit around wandering if she’s keen or not you’re a 3% man no time for worrying have multiple prospects in rotation to filter out the good and bad
Too much texting, you build attraction in person. Date other girls in your locality
Hey guys am wondering if I’m overreacting? My gf and I have been together 5 years, and we are having issues lately. Hanging out less and texting less then before. She says I don’t make enough money etc. Anyways, she’s been sick the last few weeks and she tries the remedy of ginger and lemon often. I was at her place last night and there’s a random ring at the door bell around 8pm. She goes downstairs and I stay upstairs. She’s down there for about a minute and I get curious. I come down and she’s looking outside holding a bag. A black truck which dropped off the bag is sitting idle about 30 yards away. When I come to the door and look outside, the truck drives away. When we come back inside I ask who it was and she says she has no idea. Inside the bag is a bunch of Ginger tea and stuff for someone who’s sick. I ask if it was a guy in the truck and she says she didn’t see the person. She is playing dumb but it seems super suspicious 🤨
Really? Bro, you've already answered your own question. You know good and well that's the guy she's got on the side the orbiter that's hanging around. Waiting to shoot his shot. He just waiting for his chance. Don't trust her
Help, so recently i cold approached a girl talked for a bit and asked for her number she gave it with no problem...4 days later i text "hey jessica Bob here how are you?" And she never responded...2 days kater after i send that text i see her again at the gym... i didnt approach her again but when she walked past mee she just ignored me like i insulted her or something bad...can someone explain? Thabks
Next time call her, texting is for children.
I wouldn’t have waited 4 days to text, you should do it around a day to 2 days in my experience I’ve found women just assume you’re wanting a booty call if you leave it too long I’m 22 so I can’t say this applies for older women however I would text again maybe the next week or if you see her at gym approach her again make small talk and ask her on a date there on the spot
This is a conversation you should have had much earlier.
I know that this is off topic but how do you handle it when a woman's family is too involved in your relationship?
It doesn’t matter once she is in love she will disown her family for you. I’ve seen it happen and you have too.
What does it mean if this happens, not with your exclusive girlfriend, but with a girl you date?
Cheers!
Who cares, she ain’t yours just drink the milk and let the farmer feed the cow
She is dating with his permission 🤣 he's too soft. She will use him until she finds a real man who can mark her limits. That guy need to grow up a pair of balls.
I said that just listening the beginning of the video. Finished watching I know I am right. Corey, is too bad you have to explain the obvious.
Hide the salami 😂
But if I remember Correy said in his book that..if you don't keep her happy and her attraction level is going lower then she will give you warnings like in the book he gave an example about a guy's gf of wife told him how she had this sexy dream about a guy.. and he told her that why don't you show me what you did in that dream.. so could this be related to that or am I missing something
that's why you read the book 10-15 times instead of cherry picking
@@CoachCoreyWayne aye aye cap'n I'm on my third read right now
But she can change......jk
I have a question and I was hoping for an answer. Same old story, we started great, suddenly she says it´s too fast. She never initiates conversation but always responds, sometimes seconds after I text her. Two days ago I decided to apply the "No contact, give her time to miss you" strategy. I´m ok with that, I have no expectations that she will contact me this week or even the other. My question is this: We were in the middle of a conversation. The last thing I told her was "Tomorrow I´ll tell you about this great thing that just happened to me". That was on Saturday night. How should I handle it? Will the strategy work when I kinda left the conversation with no explanation? I was thinking of finishing that conversation, but she always has something to comment, even when I give short answers like "OK" or "Yeah". So I have no choice but to leaver her on "seen". Will it work, or will she get mad and never talk to me again?
I hate to bring bad news but she doesn’t sound very interested with the way you’ve described it such as her replying just ok and yeah. Another thing is she is probably waiting for you to message because you said you’d tell her tomorrow. Best advice is be confident in what you say and not over analyse it. Match and mirror behaviour if she isn’t matching your energy then she isn’t all that interested. Message her about what you wanted to tell her then get to the point take her out on a date
@@haychedee9664 What I meant is that even when I respond with just "OK" or "Yeah", she has something to add. She has never left me on seen, even if it takes her 5 hours to respond. The conversation was something like this:
Me: "I got a proposal to sing in a band"
Her: "Oh that´s great! You´re gonna be famous!"
After that, I didn´t respond anymore. There´s no way to end a conversation with her because she ALWAYS responds. But at the same time she never initiates conversations or asks me to hang out. I have to be the one to ask for those things.
That makes sense apologies! well that’s a good thing however how long have you and this girl been chatting for and how many dates have you been on? The other thing is don’t take it so seriously if she’s replying to your blunt messages that’s a good thing it means she’s keen because she wants to keep talking. if it’s very early days she won’t initiate much so unless you’ve been on 3 dates it’s mostly your responsibility to lead and when she’s fallen for you she should initiate more so as time goes on if not then move onto the next hope that helps
And for ending conversations just make yourself sound busy “I gotta get to work now lovely chatting to you keep in touch” or “I’m heading out with some buddies of mine love to chat to you soon” then message her when you want in a days time couple days time etc
You’re using a technique to try to manipulate her. Be genuine, girls can tell when your using a tactic
my bestfriends girlfriend does something similar.. she will tap my hand/shoulder like 1-3x a night
When they start telling you about these other guys just start telling her about hot Suzy at the office.
For the streets brother
Way too many ads in such a short video
Indifference mans no
WALK AWAY!
My X wife did the same, notice the X...
Your ex-girlfriend*
This feels like a very easy thing to fix. Move on bro
No need to talk and explain how it’s wrong what’s she doing. Just leave and don’t look back.
Bruh get out of that relationship lol walk tf away. You gotta set that boundary. And if she doesn’t respect it- find a gal who does. Easy. If she’s beautiful and was attracted to you, then you’ll have other beautiful women attract led to you. Period.
beautiful people get divorce too when their personalities clash after the lustful honeymoon
If you need to get help dealing with a woman, you're dealing with the wrong woman.
Back to the streets
Show her the door if she continues with this
Show her the door. I fixed your reply for you.
What if she continues its such an off putting and alarming thing to say and do with zero empathy that he should say go do what you want we should never talk again in this life time! To even try to use this as a way of gaining your attention non negotiable you cut her off immediately without explaining yourself! its that disrespectful to the point if she playing games to get your attention she doesn’t belong in your vicinity yet alone life! There are many people in this life men and woman that wont stoop to such trash levels and if they do you let them know you enjoyed the time you spent with each other but this is the end. ! NO GAMES especially to that level of disrespect
having these kind of over talking and explaining with people in general leads you to have to convince someone or make them understand. If you have to make someone understand to this level of common sense and big disrespect then there are different levels of understanding and core competencies and values. I assure u even if she responds well and stops she will have other big holes in her character because she has not developed etiquette in life regardless of her status or job title or education!
Time to find someone else who respects you