Why She’s No Longer Excited About You
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- How to determine why she’s no longer excited about dating and seeing you and how to turn it around.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a new viewer whose girlfriend is no longer is excited about seeing and dating him. He is confused and mad about his girlfriend’s behavior. She takes longer and longer to reply to his messages, turns him down for dates and generally displays a lack of interest in getting together, having fun and romance. She makes no effort to reach out to him and treats him like a second-class citizen. Valentines day is coming up and he was planning an elaborate Valentines Day celebration for the two of them, but due to her current behavior and lack of effort, he is not sure of what to do.
“Women who value, respect and appreciate you, will make it a priority to see and spend time with you. They are submissive, kind, respectful and express genuine excitement about seeing you. When women reciprocate interest and enthusiasm, give them the gift of your time. When women you care about treat you like an option instead of a priority, give them the gift of missing you. If their attitude changes and they reach out to you, then make a date. If they let you go and make no effort to keep you in their lives, then you should walk away and never look back. Why? Spending time with you is a privilege, not a right. Never let anyone waste your time or take you for granted.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it
Wise words
Facts !!
Nothing to negotiate without any sex. Gay male girlfriend!!!
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I’m going through this right now. She’s riding the fence from both sides so it’s crazy. It’s like she knows every trick in the book. When I ask she gives, I walk away she chase, she lose interest, then come back, act cold but still loves me. She’s driving me crazy cause when I’m out the door she chases just to get me back and then it’s a cycle smh. I’m telling all y’all dudes young and new. Don’t catch feelings, think with your head and not your emotions. Emotions are the devil lol
dude I am going crazy as well this shit is not fun at all .
amirhossein gh Safe love is real!!! Also got to match her energy, do more for you, entertain yourself. Im doing it all and pursuing my purpose, these females ain’t worth it. I’m definitely trying to get on this alpha male staff. They only like you when you aggressive and walk away smh. The good man I tried to be gets no love.
She belong to the streets. She's side chick, not main chick material. All guys should have 2 groups of girl, Main chick & side chick. Put the committed ones in main group & place these hot-cold ones at the side for a slow wednesday, never your main friday, sat nights.
Tell that bitch to fuck off
@@antwan7836 yeah that is right, I mean I tried I wasn't needy and stuff, didn't call or text everyday yet she got more distant to the point she broke up with me saying I didn't love her and didn't chase her basically!wtf I mean. this was our second breakup the first one I was needy and acting like a little bitch a year ago but this time I am shocked. she tried a lot to get a reaction out of me but I didn't show anything I think the breakup was the last bullet in her gun :)) we still talk tho I am confused but I will focus on being alfa shit as well.how is everything with you?
Drop it brother. Ghost her. Get back to your life. Focus on you and your work. And if she’s attracted to you, she’ll comeback to you and if not, the better. You’ll be a much better position. Take it from us who’ve been there and done that times over and have learned the hard way. Learn the easy way, walk away. Save your money from the Valentine’s Day niceties. 💪🏾
This worked for me. Id absolutely recommend
Put all that energy into yourself now.... become more fit... figure out how to make more money... have fun with friends... plenty of women out there
Been dealing with them for over 40 years. When they get hinky just smile and say goodbye. Life's to short.
hinky?
It’s also “too” short
“She belongs to the streets!” Probably the best quote from coach Corey and the way he says it is so funny.
It is a great one, also love when he says you can bullshit yourself but you can't bullshit the coach..!!
Where’s she belong? She belongs to the streets!!! 😂😂
We was saying it long before Cory. Cory's great but this is not his saying. If anyone gets credit for it it's future
I have learned the HARD way ! There is someone else in the picture! And she is valueing him more than you !
You got that right, you're just a consolation prize , she has other interests, her actions will tell you all you need to know
This happened before we brokeyp
@@jinxjinx2027 it usually is another guy, I was dating a girl 2 months, I was a rebound she went back to him really sucks, I did everything right, but her emotions were too strong for him... she was only out of it for 4 months had a 2-year relationship ,,I only had two months, she went to him and I went back to black.... I did not Chase I told her what I wanted, no friends, romance only, I left the door open, it's been three years ago haven't heard a peep🐤
@@johnbingaman3645 did y’all have sex?
Submissive, kind, and respectful. Why anyone would tolerate otherwise is just a lack of self-respect.
Don't over-pursue. Use the power of the walk-away.
@@bobjasinski1955 I forget her and move on with my life. Best choice.
Absolutely!
Care less until she comes back around. Then, care even less than that. Repeat this process until she’s obsessed with you.
They go crazy and ruin your life
@@miguelangeldomingueztejeda4270 Just don't validate them when they come back & stay on your purpose. Then you can get the honeymoon phase back & maintain it.
In thy streets she belongeth
If you're having problems with the no texting thing, waiting for her to make an effort because you always text first/drunk dial, delete her number and texts from your phone and forget about her. If she texts, interact and do your thing. After every exchange delete it all again. If things get back on the right track then add her number back into your phone.
Dude, Corey is spot on. People really need to stop wasting other people's time.
Love is like a fart... if you have to force it, its probably just crap
Sound like he has “oneitis”. She knows she’s his only option because he got clingy. I’ve learned that even in a long term relationship you’ve got to be scarce because women don’t really want all of your attention, all the time. They’ve got to miss you or you get dealt with exactly like this guy did.
The "meeeehhh meehhh" hit so deep lmfao! Corey, I love how goofy you can be. Your timing is perfect and balanced. I take shit so serious with so much going on. I'm trying to be humorous like that. You're an icon my man!
Passing out 👑 to all the Kings in the comment section.
also, if the the girl does reach out, dude needs to back off on the lovey-dovey shit as well. Those things are 'kitty treats' you hand out sometimes when she deserves them by her behavior and not the 'meals' you feed her all the time. Even if she says it first, don't always reciprocate -- make playful jokes, "well of course you love me -- how could you not?" etc., etc. Overdoing the love talk' leads to the 'friend walk.'
thats a good one at the end i like that man
He's definitely way more into her than she is into him , He also sounds too blue pilled
Well he is new to corey’s work 🤷🏿♂️
That Tom Brady analogy didn’t age well 😂😢
Had the same thought 😮💨
Tom prolly stopped following Corey’s principles!
Sometimes I think these Corey videos are almost telepatic about my situations. Right on time to get my mind straight and keep my center!
Yo same bro
As a girl.. 😔 I feel someone else is more interesting than you 😔
We turn down dates with plp we don't really wanna date. We make excuses cuz we just don't wanna be around that person.
If I were really into someone. I'd be all over him. Women love to be clingy to someone we really like.
And I agree with the ending..be upfront and express your feelings. If it mattered shed change if it didn't shell end things and its better that way. I think everyone deserves the same energy when it comes to dating. Save your valuable time
This information and your book: 3% man is gold! However, women should know that high value men (100k/year and more) don’t have to constantly entertain their women, bc here’s a little secret: it’s the woman that is being shi*-tested by these men. We’re the one’s that paying attention, deciding if we want to leave this great single life.. and that’s why these women can find 100’s of men to date (sex) but ZERO men (who have options) trying to marry. We’re not dumb, if you’re requiring us to jump through all these hoops and you can’t cook anything besides spaghetti there’s no way in this world we’re signing a govn contract with you 😂
Fax!
Damn, nice. I want to add this: ''Every woman wants a good man until she finds one that requires her to be a better woman''.
@@adcppk9884 love this quote, who said it? or where you read it from?
@@00-CD I do not know, sadly. I've read it in a youtube comment section. Someone said it was from Patrick O'neal, but I couldn't manage to confirm it.
@@jhart9272Ike it or not, having resources is as important to being a man as beauty is to being a woman. We put high value on very attractive women (just being honest) but the argument can be made that there are a lot of horrible beautiful women out there... that’s not going to change the fact that gorgeous women have high SMV. Same goes for men.. Accumulating resources is a skill that women place a very high value on, ironically so do private schools for her kids, great dental/healthcare, good food, vacations that last longer than a weekend, quality clothes, baseball camps etc for teenagers, good colleges and universities etc.... . I live in the real world man. Life is like a game of chess: you can have different strategies, but there are rules. Women value your ability to get and keep resources, men value beauty and submissive behaviors.
There are other important qualities, and Corey covers them extensively in his book. You can read/listen to his book 13 times in 1 mos (I listen to it all the time). But it will take years and many 50 to 60 hr work weeks to accomplish a 6 figure salary.
Wow, thats a good one. Treat dating as you would make friends. your not going to date and girl your meet and youre not going to be friends with every person you meet. thats a sign of relieve!
I had a chick choose going to be at 730 instead of following through with our plans at 745. She was dropped the next day. After No contact, she is back saying she misses me about two weeks later. No contact works, gents. Be Strong, recognize your worth, and do you. If a chick wants to see you, she will. If she doesn’t reach out, she weeded herself out and did the hard part for you.
Always comes down to interest level.
I actually just finished the how to become a 3% man and realized how many stupid mistakes I have been making. I actually screwed up by saying I love you too fast ( which I don’t usually do). I was going to order that girl flowers for Valentine’s Day I came across the last chapter where Coach Corey said not to buy any gifts if you’re not dating the person I quickly jumped on my computer canceled the order, I initiated the no contact rule without even knowing and got the confirmation in the book so I’m focusing on my photography business and improving myself if it’s meant to be between us it will happen otherwise screw it. But coach Corey thanks for your amazing work man you’re a blessing.
Sound advice. I would demonstrate my interest, then step back and leave the ball in her court. But just don't sit around waiting on her, otherwise you are operating from a position of weakness. Don't be pathetic. Be active and do interesting things that you enjoy which makes you a more interesting person and will make women more attracted to you, whether it's this woman or another.
Have this girl who keeps telling how crazy she is about me. But, there are times when she complains and tells me how she wants me to be more like the other men she has dated, more romantic, more pursuing and all that Hollywood crap. She tells that sometimes she misses how her exes treated her to what I said: the day I become like one of them, is the day you lose attraction for me and I become one of them. She never brought up the topic again.
Until she cheats on you with some simp beta male who gives her the attention you don't. Ask me how i know. I'm that simp beta male they cheat with lol. I'm working on changing tho.
Whatching your Videos and reading your book has become a Ritual to me 😂. I dont recount the last time i missed one of your Videos the positive energy is always outstanding for me never badmouthing female nature or complaining. exactly what people need these days. Big thanks for these Videos👍
If you’re always “inviting yourself” to hang out with her? Walk away. What I mean is she says “Let’s get together, I’ll let you know”. The weeks go by and you reach out and ask to get together and she right away says yes? She’s just going along and you’re boosting her ego is all. If she really wanted your company she’d reach out without any encouraging from you.
I treated a guy I was seeing like this because he wasn’t being very reliable which made me lose respect for him and I lost interest. I liked him a lot actually
Read the book bro! She has a low-level of attraction and interest. Walk away and invest your time into yourself and someone new. Hang out, hook up and have fun.
I've been following you forever and this philosophy is definitely a basic fundamental for anyone that has Self Respect. Always great advice!🙋
this is what I have seen from a woman on a dating site I was calling her so I stopped 6 months later she asks what happen to me any am I busy. I said the same thing Corey said why would I
be interested in someone who not excited and your action fall short well she was shocked that I did this to her and what to know if I am with someone 😂 I said I can use one more lol 😂
Haha always room for one more
Nice photo Jim. CAG much?
If she doesn’t hit the ball back, find a new partner to play tennis with
@@travis6694 Yes
Throwback to that under armour commercial where Brady showed that he never skipped a day training. Kobe was the same way(R.I.P. to him). Can't help but be the best(or at least elite) if you outwork everyone.
You re awesome Coach! Iv been reading the book nearly 100 times now and still do to make sure I know the material! Your advice is gold and so helpfull! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
0ln9 pupils,😊❤
I had to go back to watch Tom's combine videos, He ran like a baby giraffe. It just shows how much work he put in
I have a simple rule: You should always have a spat or a breakup just before Christmas or Valentines Day (if you get the opportunity). I did this to one girl a few years ago. She picked a fight a couple o' days before V-day, threatened to leave, and I said OK. Valentines Day evening she was on the phone pleading with me to meet her and her friends at a bar (so I would pay for drinks for her and her friends - I'm no fool.). I didn't give in saying 'we still have issues to work out'. Just throwing this into the mix. She wasn't worth it. I'm intuitive like that.
Your rule doesn't match your example. If you have a great girl and she's completely into you, why would you break up before Xmas or Valentines.
She was 'So tired' 🤣
dripping tired
Going through something similar. I’ve watched this before my relationship long ago but yeah I got complacent and became a needy guy like this guy but I’m not like him exactly but I came almost close to him.
The quote has a great lesson. Have read your first book 22 times.
How the 🤭🤭🤬do you know exactly my dilemma each time!!!
When Coach Corey Wayne says the date and I look at my Calendar, ooo that fresh!!!
He was right about Brady’s drive. Too bad in the end the relationship failed. But two high powered career people is tough on a relationship
Simple: your turn is over.
Can I just say good job Brady on number 7! Success follows that guy everywhere to think the Patriots thought he was the problem lol guess that settles it
Most PUAs keep saying you can get all the woman u want if you self improve, get game, keep in shape, raise your value & stay masculine but they always forget to mention that only if the woman has high enough interest in you. Every woman have their own preference, we are not going to be a 9 or a 10 to every girl. Just be realistic & measure your own SMV right & you wont be depressed & delusional as the cat ladies. Heck even a 5 interest level is not worth it. If she doesn't say a good morning to me, im gone. i rather focus on improving my investment skills, practicing my fluency in 3rd & 4th language or getting skills cert.
Gotta say coach, you are spot on with your analysis of the dating relationship and what women think and how they act...I've been putting your teaching into practice and it always works Corey.
Thank you for always stepping in to help when I need you most. Thank you for taking the time to help me, it really meant a lot. You share wisdom o. This platform like not other. Keep going man!
After watching a couple of your videos I finally decided to order your first book as I am in a very complicated relationship situation. Looking forward to read it 10-15 times.
Be like Tom Brady. Figure out what the other team is doing. Love it man
IDK. Pulling back and distancing yourself sounds like passive aggressive BS. Sure pull back if you've been overdoing it, but don't pull back just to try and get her interested. If someone is not treating you fairly or with respect address it with them in person like a man. A woman behaves passive aggressively. That is feminine behavior. A man deals with things directly, and is not attached to the outcome. He just wants to make things happen, and move on to the next thing he needs to take care of. Passive aggressive behavior takes way too much time and energy, and is channeling way too much negative feelings and thought. Just talk to her. If she doesn't change then just say hey this isn't working and bounce.
100% disagree dude
Why would she change? You seriously think you can ask a woman to respect and value you? You can't ask for it
This didn’t even need a long explanation - she’s just not that interested. Doesn’t mean she’s seeing someone else, doesn’t mean she chasing a “Chad”. She’s just not interested. Or she thinks he’s not interested in which case the relationship was going to end anyway.
@@alexanderstevens145 Much more often than you perceive or would ever believe.
Haven't watched the video yet... gonna see if Corey mentions Brady winning another super bowl 😂
YESSSS I WAS RIGHTTTT!! 😂
This video is seriously one of your best Corey!
It's because she's excited on the streets!
Don’t call, don’t text. Leave her alone. By the way.. No one cried about Tom Brady winning. We were all happy! The coaches for Tampa Bay represent diversity!!
Great Video coach!!!!
Really needed that detail!!!
Keep it up..
Love your videos! Filming suggestion: set your camera to "manual" mode so you'll be in focus the whole time
The goat talking about goats 🐐 🙌 💯
Yo Corey I love how you keep bringing up the Goat! 🤘
She gives you a mercy F'#$%!😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
Same people don’t like Valentine’s Day they feel it’s stupid
Because I had a whole organization of people who dislike me lie to her and sabotage me and she believed it.
I was dating a girl 2 years ago, she said I think we should remain as friends and don't expect anything more, well you all know what that means, and then she said we can still hang out and I would like to do things with you, I never said anything, she would call every once in a while I just would make a date,l was walking with her go to hold her hands she pulls her hand away and says we're just friends now!!!, I tried to kiss her goodnight she said you can hug me, well we know what that means, so I left it go.. I asked her out twice she gave me the I'll let you know I'm not sure maybe all the excuses my parakeet died, I did not reach out 4 weeks later she asked me out, I made a date, end of the day I tried to kiss her, only a hug, I walked away, she reaches out about once a month real flaky like a box of cornflakes, maybe Frosted Flakes, she asked me to do something 2 weeks ago oh, I said when are you free to get together let me know, never heard anything from her till this morning, the day after Valentine's Day, send me a real nice picture or her, I mirror her now I do not respond, (what does this mean,) low interest,, her actions speak, I don't even know why she reaches out...
Sounds like the story of my ex, are you dating my ex ? Lol
There are personal admissions that girls will actively mess with men. Putting them through emotional swings, basically pimping all the goodness and tenderness out of you, whole time they were never emotionally connected and just wanted/needed something to do to spice up her life. Unfortunately this trend of "cutting ppl off" or as I say "Thanos snapping" away their problems (and people) out of existence. Instant gratification so patience is at an all time low. Concept of men are "trash" phonetically disposable and many entities and media organizations affirm this mindset. To the left to the left did not help in the slightest.
Also a women exhibiting behavior of avoiding touch means you'll seldom be physically attractive to her, either ever or at the given moment. In most cases of infidelity, physical coldness is a telling sign of a spouse cheating on their significant other as their passion and drive no longer about you.
‘Prequalify your dating prospects..reality is almost 100% don’t make the cut’ bruh 😅
It’s either a hell yes or it’s a fuck no.
Lots of men and women can’t deal with confrontation so they act passive aggressive. Sometimes it’s not a game, they just suck at communication and want out. Instead of dancing around the issue, be direct and ask whats up. If they still won’t tell you, that’s still an answer. Secure adults don’t enjoy mind games or making the other feel like crap. If they come back later, 👎 unless you want more of the hot/cold.
Best comment!
Corey your advice is excellent.
I really needed this, thanks Corey
You are funny sir 'Because she belongs to the streets'😆😆😆😆🤣
HUGE problem ....5 min into this video...3 damn commercials??? One was for you🤷🏻♂️😆 This has happened way to many times. L-A-M-E
If she's no longer interested, no problem because there's plenty of girls on the dating sites. If she comes back tell her to wait for you, believe the book 📖 you won't have time to think about her.
I am in no contact with my ex for a month now. Event though she was stalking my Instagram, even did almost the same picture as mine. I would definitely say, it is not that there is another guy. My ex was not good communicator if there is a problem there was Passive aggressive behavior, punishing you, since there was a lot of hungry guys in her social media waiting the perfect moment. So she received from there the validation. If she is not good communicator and just backs away without working on it, then you can do shit. When you have dominant mother and absent father, it is really bad situation. It really hurts, but working on yourself, pursuing your goals and even psychotherapy and sport will definitely help!
thats good advice bro! how can you tell if someone is stalking your insta?
@@rickmorgan1441 its kind of difficult if they don't watch your stories or like your photos
THERE’s A GOAT 🐐 AT 11:47 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😝😝😜😜
Corey Whats up brother great video much love and support from NY
Brady might be good but can he do it on a cold, wet night in Stoke?
@@thomasgallegos2832 but he’s never been to Stoke lol so you’re wrong
Hilarious
@@sliqdaddy91 thanks 😉
She doesn't feel excited about you anymore because women are always looking at possible replacements when it comes to men. If another man can provide her and her future offspring with a better life than you can, then her survival instinct will take over and choose the better option. It's a brutal reality but it's true, she thinks that she can do better so she's always looking for higher value men. That's why casual dating is the best scenario as you don't invest in women long term. If you guys need any help, just ask.
Who finally going through this right now.
Best coach 🙏
so true!
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She Belong To The Streets
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Part 2 would be awesome !
just dip out disappear, no text no calls, that'll be exciting😂
Law 16 - Use absence to increase strength and honor.
@@KingofNewYorkkk can u elaborate a lil more on the absence part especially with calling and texting should u let her mind wonder?
Pure gold
She doesn't send me anything anymore but post all over Instagram
She belongs to the Streets dude 💯😂💯💯💯
Coach much love.
My ex came to my workplace after months of not speaking. She has a bf and my coworkers have seen her there before. I work very far from her. what does this mean?
She is looking for attention Ryan. Either she wants you or she wants both. She is looking for something he isn’t giving her. You have to figure out what it is. If it doesn’t benefit you...leave her behind
Hello from Pompano Beach
Regardless of the “relationship”, the frame always has to be “I’m going to get that BJ, and it’s going to be her idea”. Reverse engineer from there. (With the help of great insights like from Corey’s book)
He needs to read the book before the date.
So much football talk and then the ads is putting me off watching your videos Corey.
Bye then
Knew we get a little Tom Brady action in this video. Good for him
And now Tom Brady is divorced….
@8:29!! keep it comin' coach :-D