Enforcing Your Boundaries With A Disloyal Woman

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  • čas přidán 26. 12. 2023
  • Why you must enforce boundaries with a disloyal woman who violates them.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 24 year old viewer who dumped his now ex girlfriend of 2 years who he lived with for 3 months after he caught her texting her ex again. When they first started dating her ex caused a lot of problems. He told her if she ever texted him again he would be done. Well, he got busy with life and the MCAT test and she says he made her feel alone. So what does she do? She started texting the ex again and he caught her. Now he is entertaining giving her another chance even thought he originally told her he’d be done if it ever happened again. Now she is acting sassy and he is trying to win her approval and validation instead of letting her earn another chance with him. He asks my opinion.
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Komentáře • 75

  • @extractedentertainment8213
    @extractedentertainment8213 Před 7 měsíci +31

    First sign of disrespect or disloyalty = back to the streets, she's not going to change.

  • @BillyT531
    @BillyT531 Před 7 měsíci +22

    "throwing the hot dog down the hallway..." 🤣🤣

  • @yungdynamic471
    @yungdynamic471 Před 7 měsíci +11

    This email is bizarre and it's not even the worst i ever heard.

  • @giovannipantorno884
    @giovannipantorno884 Před 7 měsíci +21

    Welp i just got left by a woman that for 1 year i was dating. I found she had been still in touch with her cheating ex. I dont think its cool neither. I told her to cut him even tho she didnt "love him". Instead i got dumped and blocked haha. Im thankful it ended finally. Good riddance I have strong boundaries even if it means staying single.

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts Před 7 měsíci +2

      💯🤚👍🫵

    • @Digitalizedx
      @Digitalizedx Před 7 měsíci

      How do you all get blocked? She didn’t block me I just left it hurt but.. she’ll respect me long term.. no contact is easy. It’s the damage and thoughts that sucks

    • @giovannipantorno884
      @giovannipantorno884 Před 7 měsíci +3

      ​@@Digitalizedx I dunno didn't ask for the block. Nor did I harass her or ever called. I went full no contact and stayed in nc.

    • @giovannipantorno884
      @giovannipantorno884 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@RarelyCheck Ya She had the nerve to ask for monogomous commitment just about a few Weeks earlier. I did not go for it She eventually blamed the end of relationship on something else.

  • @southernhorseman2006
    @southernhorseman2006 Před 7 měsíci +39

    Being friends with benefits after breaking up is nothing short of foolishness.

  • @PhilipPetev
    @PhilipPetev Před 7 měsíci +18

    Seriously, those two deserve each other.

  • @StuntTriple
    @StuntTriple Před 7 měsíci +8

    Mans gonna find out how bad she is years down the road after ignoring this.

  • @JRD-wi1bh
    @JRD-wi1bh Před 7 měsíci +36

    This guy is exactly what is wrong with most dudes today

    • @johnq4520
      @johnq4520 Před 7 měsíci +16

      And why so many women feel entitled

    • @CaptainAngelo
      @CaptainAngelo Před měsícem

      What’s really hurting men and dating, is other men being weak. I can’t tell you the women that I’ve politely walked off on and they’re absolutely shocked because no man is ever told them no before, we’re talking about gold diggers, toxic females, too many weak guys and Sims playing up to them and kissing their ass just to get laid, it’s ridiculous!I can get laid any damn day I want, it’s easy for me anyway, I’m looking for a high-quality character, female, not a run-of-the-mill streetwalker, and these guys entertain those type of women in their behaviors.

  • @Zerone_1
    @Zerone_1 Před 7 měsíci +9

    To the Streets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @alberik666
    @alberik666 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Corey was so piss with this email hahaha

    • @aki50793
      @aki50793 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Any man with a modicum of self respect would be as pissed as Corey undoubtedly.
      Reiterating one of the comments, the OP correctly pointed out what’s wrong with guys like these today and why the girls are entitled. There’s only one chance per lifetime per person.

  • @DrHaley
    @DrHaley Před 7 měsíci +6

    Yeah... I'm a couple minutes in to this and I can see already there aren't any actual boundaries. The boundary is there to protect yourself... even if you have to walk away forever from someone you 'think' you really want to be with. And they'll know you will keep the big boundaries based on how you keep all the lesser boundaries in your life.

  • @CumminsX15
    @CumminsX15 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Thank you, what a gift of video, #1 value yourselve. Move on! ❤

  • @guyherman3476
    @guyherman3476 Před 7 měsíci +4

    She gonna withhold the choncha Corey 😂love you coach

  • @ghostccc8089
    @ghostccc8089 Před 7 měsíci +7

    “Overwhelmed with the two essays she has to write.” Lmao wtf… reminds me of an ex that always seemed stressed when I was the one paying all the fking bills. She belongs to the fking streets, just like my ex.

  • @BloodyHeck
    @BloodyHeck Před 7 měsíci +4

    For as many dating/relationship gurus who talk about boundaries, most will also mention not using a threat to control the other person, but they never explain the difference. In Glover's book, he even has an example of a man who set a boundary because when he went out with his wife, she would often drink too much and wind up flirting and dancing with other men. Eventually he'd told her that if she wanted to remain married, she would have to stop that behavior. But is that him setting a boundary or trying to control her with the threat of divorce?
    Most women don't even care about crossing a man's boundaries because to a woman, there's an endless supply of men and they believe they can always do better. So even if a 6'2" millionaire tells a woman that he has a boundary that means she can't do this or that, she doesn't care because she can just dump him because if a 6'2" millionaire wants her, surely a 6'4" billionaire wants her as well.

    • @BloodyHeck
      @BloodyHeck Před 3 měsíci

      @user-zs8ez8jy8q Women won't bother going back to a guy simply because they have endless options.

  • @carloschicko99
    @carloschicko99 Před 7 měsíci +5

    She’s not loyal to you and to no body else later on

  • @mysticanabis
    @mysticanabis Před 7 měsíci +7

    Facts !!! She belongs to the streets mom 😂

  • @jamiefoster6320
    @jamiefoster6320 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I needed this , thanks coach

  • @j2z1000
    @j2z1000 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Richard Cooper actually has a pretty decent way of letting her know she's crossing a line. You simply tell them, it's okay to do whatever they want, but you will never take a woman serious who behaves that way

  • @nigel7880
    @nigel7880 Před 7 měsíci +2

    "Boundaries" are rules in a game.

  • @justinkirk924
    @justinkirk924 Před 7 měsíci +2

    LMAO "You don't understand, it's good, I must have it!"

  • @TheHighwinder
    @TheHighwinder Před 7 měsíci +2

    There is only one boundary with a disloyal woman - immediate dump. Sticking around afterward is the most humiliating desperate simp thing you could ever do. NEVER be that desperate.

  • @Xxxxxrrr6464
    @Xxxxxrrr6464 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Ha best masculine coach I’ve seen

  • @Majorhavoktv
    @Majorhavoktv Před 5 měsíci +1

    Tough love is the best love!

  • @timnichols7760
    @timnichols7760 Před 7 měsíci +3

    HIS word and commitment means nothing, as well.

  • @johnq4520
    @johnq4520 Před 7 měsíci +1

    "HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT". Corey I don't think the people in the back heard that.

  • @JohnSmith-ij4xe
    @JohnSmith-ij4xe Před 7 měsíci +1

    lol I did this just 3 weeks ago and I told her am done as it’s clear you don’t care as your actions and your feet say you are not interested so am out. Last Wednesday and Thursday she called with her number being blocked lol. She didn’t believe my words meant what I said. 😅😂 I gave her enough warning and she didn’t want to listen so am done. And slammed the door and it’s locked. I moved on to someone that isn’t going to play games and doesn’t know what she really wants.

  • @christopher-yi3rm
    @christopher-yi3rm Před 7 měsíci +1

    why is he chasing her to come back. and why are so many chasing exs to get them back. are they afraid to find some one new .the exs still remember all the bad stuff the men boys did,so forget her change and get some one better.

  • @projectbbeats3327
    @projectbbeats3327 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The chocha 😂😂😂

  • @PizzaHomeSlice
    @PizzaHomeSlice Před 7 měsíci

    I wish the Macho Man Randy Savage was still alive to say “She belongs to the streets!” like he says “Snap into a slim jim!”

  • @macioluko9484
    @macioluko9484 Před 7 měsíci +1

    How can you state that you read the book multiple times and go in to embarrass yourself so badly?!? C’mon Man!

  • @Me-jk3km
    @Me-jk3km Před 7 měsíci

    SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!! Yeeeees!

  • @breathlessdynasty9928
    @breathlessdynasty9928 Před 6 měsíci +1

    So walk away and get nothing, or stay and get nothing. Fucking sucks

  • @stevensaleh6955
    @stevensaleh6955 Před 7 měsíci +1

    12:01 wtf why lol 😂 no

  • @modernman7576
    @modernman7576 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Dude. She's not going to be loyal and not going to respect you. Move on..

  • @whawha8043
    @whawha8043 Před 7 měsíci

    There is Illusion of Action, and then there is Illusion of Power. Dude was getting played hard. Read the book 11 times and did none of it when dealing with an “EX”.
    He had no time for her when studying, then has all this “time” dealing with her bullshit.
    Also didnt sound like he had many opportunities/options to keep his attention off her. Poor guy.

  • @JHolland
    @JHolland Před 7 měsíci +4

    I just recently got in contact with a girl who I known 2 months , long distance , never met and we used to ft every night, she’s an avoidant due to her ex being abusive , anyway we kept ending then coming back due to arguments and communication , we started speaking christmas again and she said yesterday she isn’t ready for relationship as of her ex situation 6/7 months ago, I guess I just gotta respect that. Day before though she FaceTimed me and said she missed me, weird .

    • @costasheat
      @costasheat Před 7 měsíci +6

      She misses having attention from someone and it happens that you're her latest emotional tabon to not think about her damaged past.
      Book a date soon if you're interested romantically or remain a chatting buddy for ever until she meets Chad Thundercockk.

    • @JHolland
      @JHolland Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@costasheat yeh she defo has other guys to talk to though, so it’s odd

    • @costasheat
      @costasheat Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@JHolland you probably press the correct button's better than other dude's

    • @Champ1988
      @Champ1988 Před 7 měsíci +2

      She's using you for attention. The only honest thing she said is that she doesn't want to be in a relationship. She left out, "with you." Believe her and move on. No need to exchange pleasantries. The only reason you're even entertaining it is due to a lack of options. Long distance relationships are harder on women, and oftentimes they will use them to secure attention until they meet someone local. Let her go and try meeting someone who lives in your city.

    • @JHolland
      @JHolland Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@Champ1988 facts man , appreciate u guys, I ain’t interested in being with anyone, I think I need to love myself first as when I like someone which is rare, I rely on it for happiness

  • @danielgallagher8208
    @danielgallagher8208 Před 7 měsíci

    “Everyone deserves a second chance” is the biggest load of bullshit ever I heard in my life. If someone is disloyal or cheats once they will do it again, guaranteed

  • @roll337
    @roll337 Před 7 měsíci

    Olight mate, can you do a few videos on non binary, thanks mate

  • @ballen0360
    @ballen0360 Před 7 měsíci +1

    This story was painful to listen to. Buddy cut it off. Your self respect is non existent. You're better than this.

  • @Benjaminrcd
    @Benjaminrcd Před 7 měsíci

    It just doesn’t work, it is like trying to fuel a bicycle, it is not logical and factual.