I regret being a second wife, ruining another woman's marriage and laughing at her weakness | LNN
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- For 10 years, Hellen lived with someone's husband and together they were blessed with two children. On the other hand, her co-wife had been married to the same man for 20 years but she was unable to conceive, a thing that made her feel useless and unwanted.
Part 2 of the story:
• I regret being a secon...
Hellen enjoyed the soft life with this man and was spoilt in many ways..the man would tell her countless times how much he loved her and open up to Hellen about how weak his first wife was.
During their fights, Hellen would use the little information she knew about this woman to attack and humiliate her but she now says this is something she regrets deeply.
So, why did she finally decide to leave someone's husband alone and what does she hope we will all get to learn from her story?
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This is my situation right now, married for 5 years but no kid,my husband has 4 kids with other women,and now he has made it clear to marry the one with two kids,only God knows the pain am going through,the insults from this lady 😭😭😭😭 don't know what to do.
Hello team Lyn uiii me Ata nimengalia mara mbilimbili am used to red 😂😂😂
Lynn me na believe we ni or Utakuwa Oprah Winfrey wa Kenyaa.
@@syphroseanyika7544 hugs mummie
Hellen, two wrongs don't make a right. You got into a marriage as a second wife. Your hubby followed customary laws and paid dowry. You're officially his wife. By leaving him you've destroyed his life even more and that of his children. In my opinion, you should have just repented, renewed your commitment to God and then continued in the marriage - - in the permissive will of God.
Single ladies when u see a married man crying to you for a what is happening between him and the wife,funika masikio,fungua macho vizuri,run for your dear life...let Him tell Jesus his problems
Allow me to laugh😂😂😂it's just funny
Very true..they are time wasters and most of them are hypocrites
,😄😄 funny... though true
Exactly.
So true its a curse woiii.
I was a second wife too in 1yr and left...hiyo ni upuuzi heri nikue single nikae na amani kuliko kuharibu ndoa ya mwingine
Out of curiosity, how did you come to decide to leave? I’m asking because I’m under the impression that mostly it’s either the first wife leaves or they both stay in chaos 😢
"you can't build happiness on another woman's tears "this lives rent free in my head
Absolutely 💯
Exactly
Karma will catch up with her, she thinks eti imeisha, bado, every action produces a reaction.
What you do to others is your Karma!!
I love it when Lynn says, "allow me". She never just interrupts someone, she is very professional and has so much respect.
I'm I the only one who loves how she talks ? She's so clear and eloquent
She looks to be so sweet soul and she is cute. May her co wife find a place in her heart and forgives her
Mimi Pia
True
But her mistakes overshadow her eloquence!
@@benardmakori6924 😂 she's regrets what she did ... And she's sorry ... Kwani wewe hujaifanya mistakes 🌝
the first wife doesnt need to reconcile with the man, she deserves better. just let her be
correct
The wife. Not 1st wife.
Yes i agree with you
I feel sorry for the woman who stayed without children after 10 years of marriage. Never, never mock a woman in such a situation.
So is the man also expected to stay childless because his wife is being respected? What's the man in such a situation expected to do since his wife will cry anyway? He shackles himself and suffers silently?
@@rosesengo4704 if the roles are reversed and it's the man who is infertile, is a woman allowed to have children outside of marriage as well? I hope so
@@chiherachashe8208these were married? So ur point is irrelevant
@@chiherachashe8208 everyone has their reasons for getting married. If one of the wife's goals was to have children, she is free to walk away and get married elsewhere to have her children. The man will sort himself out. We found this world with its sorrow and we shall die and leave the sorrow waiting to catch other people.
@@rosesengo4704 the bible is there to teach us life ethics ,read your Bible..... expecially Abraham's story and understand it, you will understand barrenness is not the a factor to separate people.....
I apologized too to a woman. But it is only by God that one can do that. I remember I cried so much after that. It felt like a burden had been taken off my shoulder yet I had ended the relationship years back due to pursuing my relationship with God. But the conviction to apologize to her was there for years until I finally got the courage to do it.
Btw I too am getting married in s few months time. To the glory of God.
I urge women in those relationships to pray for strength to leave. The end is never good if you don't leave. Leave soon. God will give you your own
Better hope it doesn't happen to you
God has forgiven her. He is that great. Enjoy your life and thank you for realising your wrong. Men cheat. But your blessings flow when you put down the wrong and pick up the right.
@@lovejones1897she apologized and healed. God is merciful. Everyone deals with different temptations and sins. Anyone(even a murder) who repents and is sincere is forgiven.
@@starrjohnson1327 doesn’t mean she is break free from judgment or karma
"Never be an accomplice for/of a man to hurt his wife" no matter the reason. Lesson learnt
Sure
Exactly
You can never build happiness on the back of someone else’s tears … I don’t know why people never learn that
True
Sure
What do u mean by that?
Powerful
@@janerosejuma5840 it goes without saying … you can NEVER cause tears to an innocent person and get away with it , God never sleeps he opens the book of remembrance
No marriage can be build under another womans tears. Regret will always follow you.
Siku hizi wanasema hakuna Karma. Anything involving using people and causing pain to children, Karma reigns.
Karma is real
Your very true my Dear
True
TRUE AND SHE WILL NEVER HAVE PEACE
I was dumped for another woman, left with the three kids and my marriage was 12yrs old. If it were not for God I don't know 😭😭, God has enabled me to take care of my kids now my daughter is joining compus. My hope is coming back. It's so so painful and heartbreaking.
🫂 same here 12 yrs as well swtht
Satan is after marriages,prayers must be a must in and on marriages,person's are not to drop their guard,Satan is out there with smoke coming from his nose(making trouble)..
Who else agrees with me that this CZcams channel is therapeutic!!! GOD JOB LYNN!❤🙏
Me here
True. You learn the spirit of asking for forgiveness
Here I'm deae
Me here watching from Kampala ug l just love Lynn's programs ni mafudisho sana big up Lynn
The problem with us watching frm SouthAfrica is language, wish they had subtitles
My marriage was ruined by a lady i knew very well when my son was 3 years. i was thrown out of the house on saturday but on monday she was already in my house as a wife. i went through a very hard time psychologically and mentally. i was into deppression because she could even send me their selfie videos and photos. i almost ran mad. the pain i went through i wouldnt wish any woman to. it has taken me 5 years to heal from those wounds. But i thank God He has been so faithful to me. i overcame this emotional torment. its true first love never goes away easily. it takes time. Am believing God to bless me with a God fearing husband and a blessed marriage
And the lady are they still together pole sana hugs hugs mami
Be strong girl...the truth is time heals all wounds...I assure you the man will try to come back...don't take him back no matter what...Also a person who does that to someone will repeat it on the new person..you wait and see...hakuna kitu mpya duniani...its just repetition
God will restore the same man He gave you. It's indeed very painful to bear. Yes it's easy for one to run mad but God's grace has carried us through it all! Praise God!
Give it time and you will see. Malipo ni hapa duniani however long it takes. Both man and woman will have to experience the pain you went through and more.
Pole I can imagine! God never slumbers
People commenting here recklessly coz the don't understand that what Hellen was going through it was an altar from her home fighting her and causing her to sin
Thank God who loves us all and He always desires that each one of us to receive salvation, He located her and gave her a second chance
God i thank you coz we men focus on ones sins and weakness without seeing your redemption
May God restore the 10 years of pain, loneliness, questions and shame stolen from the first wife.
Amen
Sure
Amen
Amen,,may God remember her womb like Sarah
I feel as if all polygamous families pretend to be happy whereas deep inside they are haunted by their guilty. Ata mkiirembesha aje it's against the will of God alafu mkiambiwa mnasema we are judging and we are sinning differently. Sijataja mtu, na sitaki makasiriko
Kudos hellen
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Very true.
Hakuna furaha wanakuanga nayo My mother in law aliteseka sana nahakuna mtu alisikisana nayeye it's was as if there evil spirit were coming to her
@@miriammugo5459 I know a polygamous family that pretends to have things running smoothly....ukiwachunguza you realise the man beats his old over 60 years first wife to keep her in line...he claims anakataza watoto wasimtumie pesa ashare na mke wa pili...I've seen the marks on her body couldn't believe someone can cane a 60 year old woman
The biggest downfall with men is not seeking therapy from professionals but confiding in other women...it always backfires
So true
Very true
Correct.
And other women took it as an advantage to them
No, they use that to fool women. Any time a man comes to you and starts badmouthing the woman he is married to? RUUUUUUN. That is a broken man, or a poorly raised man. Especially if he has kids with the woman. People fall out of love, heck some get conned into marriage, but they must take responsibility. Any man or woman who cannot self analyze and know their role in the failed rship is not worth a try. He will do the same to you. Take this advice, and you will get a good man.
No matter how far you have gone when you realize you are on the wrong direction turn....Bishop David Oyedepo
Very true ❤
The pain of the 1st wife...... may God give her peace, strength and breakthrough
Amen
If I was considering being 2nd wife, I would have changed my mind 💯 after listening to this story. .
The fact that you are here and apologizing having learnt your mistakes proves a lot. God bless you and I pray others will learn from your story
True dear
IKR... unlike that other lady who was saying she's "friends" with the first wife.
But so sad to say apologizing wont remove the curse!
spiritual Laws apply hata akiapologize its fine fantastic but she has to go an extra mile for this deadly mistake.
God really bless you Helen was about to get someone's 2nd wife but I'm ready to repent, you're so encouraging
second wive From Hell ….😳Apologize my foot this western women have ruined so many families.F
I am living in a polygamy family.l am the first wife, challenges are unbearable,l advice everyone reading this to avoid such marriage
Nimeletewa 2nd and anabehave like she owns the world
@@janerosemwangi3563 They are never at peace, so they react to take away yours, they can have the man but dont allow your peace and integrity to be taken away from you
One Day.God will intervene 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Mm nlitoka dear, weeuh its hell .I was the fast after 12 yrs of white wedding
This interview creates sobriety and opens eyes to the blind and the lost. Respect marriages
My mum was brought up in a polygamous family but I'm happy she broke that chain. Got married to my dad until his demise. Here I am following in her footsteps. In my dating life I'd meet people's husband's who at first lie but God would reveal that later, guys with baby mama's but I never gave in. I'd run as fast as my fibble legs could carry me. I'm proud and thank God he gave me my man.
This also shall pass. You will marry a great man someday but you will see that husband fo after a young woman who will call u names and have babies for ur husband.
Oh mum you are a woman and a half I bless the Lord for the way you are God bless you
Wow congrats
@@wanjikumuragu5113 thanks gal
@@mariamunyabonyi9650 God answered my prayers I'm married to my best man. 8 years of knowing him,5 years married to him
The one who destroyed mine has never found it in her heart to ask for forgiveness. I was left with four young kids while my hubby inherited a daughter from her and got 2 more kids. I forgave them and after many years my husband asked for forgiveness but we could never be together again for I refused to be in a polygamous relationship. The good thing he educated our children. Unfortunately he died and this woman was happy inheriting what rightly belong to my family. Anyway I leave everything to God and than hubby for leaving something also to my children. But the tears that we shed are never invain. God can give you a husband you don't have to destroy marriages because you see wealth
Never blame another woman for the break of your marriage blame the man
God did not do further explanations when He said What He has put together let no man put asander. The God who fights for you shall not let it go unpunished. You shall watch. Let it go.
@@LolaBugzy85 It takes two to tango,a woman of character with good morals has no business grooming relations with married men.Set you're standards high as a woman.
@@spectra.4840 No woman on earth owes you committment to your marriage vows only your husband. Endelea kupigana na every woman you come across cs of your husband. And one thing I know if a man is a whore he is whore and there is nothing you can do about it.
Part of your story is part of my mum's
The lady is talking of deep spiritual matters..... Her deliverance was total and complete. Is hard to verbalize spiritual matters,but you need to experience it to understand. God is good all the time.....and everything happens for good to those who loves Him....thank you for sharing, it encourages others to make the right decision.
For sure
There is no woman who breaks people's marriages ...it is the married men who don't respect the marriages and therefore make a DELIBERATE CHOICE TO HAVE ANOTHER FAMILY....We must start addressing the REAL Issue if you must get a solution
but you as the woman why would agree to be the other woman?? when women start refusing this men's stupidity that's solving the problem, true you might start without knowing what you getting into or rather not knowing they are married,but then when you find out why continue??
Exactly.As a woman,you shouldn't let a relationship continue after knowing the man has another family.It is also a woman's responsibility,not a man's tu.
Women continue eating the stupid married men's money...curses exist in the mind....you can also lock your men in the house.....you have no business taking care of something the owner doesn't value...thanks
Married men who pursue other women are entirely to be blamed for breaking marriages. If married man were staying faithful we wouldn’t be here!
true my dear I like your wisdom
What a love triangle 🙆. Ladies, avoid married men at all cost.
It doesn't end well.
True 🤞🤞
What If he didn't mention about wife and later you found out yourself and left him?
This is what I call a human still In touch with humanity, a woman who knows her creator! Well done Mama well done God will truly reward you for all you’ve done!! To God be the Glory!!!
Watching from Nigeria, please include a transcript in English for speakers that don't understand the local language.
@@bimbo3136 click on, cc(close caption),on your device screen.
God's ways are not our ways, but they are the best to follow. Mungu ni mtamu😘🥰
@@Margysworld AMEN!!! The word protects us from a lot that people may not understand if they don’t know the word. If only we just obey, no matter how difficult it may be
My mum was a second wife and I can tell you for sure, we, her kids,are going through hell.
Take hrt en try to seek God will en i tell u his wisdom en understood how Jehova works.never give up
"What God has yoked together, let no man put apart" lesson learnt
The problem starts when a single person can be "friends" with a married person...just playing with fire
If there is one thing I have gotten from this interview is how God guides even when we are so lost , He is constantly trying to save us. Whatever the first wife went through must have been so hard on her ,but we thank God who still comforts and heals, He is still a restorer till today. May He do it upon her .
The painful part is, we only realize this after years when the excitement of the relationship is gone, when we see the real person, now we wish/want to send the man back to the first woman!
Exactly. And by then the first innocent wife may have fallen ill of depression or passed away out of high blood pressure
Wow i agree with yours comment so true if I was d wife I wouldn't take him back
@@estherchinagorom4490 sometimes the first wife is NOT innocent. There's a way they get to be elevated to angelic status when they get married
Very true, most women leave the excitement ends, when the pain has already been caused.
@@rosesengo4704for real most are very evil women hiding as angels in marriage, my cousin is suffering because of his wife, me I ll support another woman
I love you Hellen and I really love your bravery! I'm very happy God has been on your side all along! I'm glad you've secured your true joy! Many will learn a lot from you! Thanks so much Lynn for the platform.
My heart goes to those women allover the world who are struggling with infertility.may God remember their marriages,they go through alot even with inlaws hating them and loving the "other''woman who can conceive.May God of Hannah come through for them amen
Ameen..I am one of them and it's not easy.
true gal
Amen and Amen 🙏🙏. Very true Hannah! some of us have gone through alot. Talk of infertility issues in marriage but what I know is that God will mek everything beautiful in it's own time.
Amen they go through a lot of pain.
Amen
A woman will never build a home by ruining another woman's home,,you gat to pay for it..
It's a lesson to gals out there planning to do this be cautious,"bwana ya mtu ni sumu"
As for Hellen it's nice you owe your mistake and may you find peace 🕊️✌️
True
Thank you! They have no idea the pain that they cause.......but they PAY dearly......in due cause ...the cheating husbands included
Sumu
I love how honest Hellen is. Her story will help a lot of young women.
She is one brave woman. So many young women are sadly living that life but thank God Helen is here. Her love for God reverberates.
Again, thank you Lynn for such an amazing show. Love you
No! one too many irreparable mistakes.
Very few women can admit they did wrong to intrude in a marriage, too much pride and self-righteousness! Marriage God's way is between 2 and anyone who comes in between is a 3rd wheel and no matter how people try to justify and sanitize it can never be right. Thumbs up to Hellen, she took a bold step and ashamed the devil!
Bella, the one who separates become death. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder
@@phoebewanjiru1955 That's right
True... Her family also practice what they profess ... It's unfortunate that some ladies are encouraged by their own parents hence thinks that they are doing the right thing...
Word
God made only a men and women from beginning so marriage is only for 2 people.. thank you madam Hellen for testifying your guilty God is on your side thanks 👏👏👏
She's exceptional, candid, charismatic, eloquent and empathetic. God loves you and all your flaws are forgiven. When you pray Hellen, pray for the rest of us.
I have been watching many episodes in this platform but this one touched my heart since my marriage was destroyed by another woman. Thumbs up Lynn
I was about to make the same mistake,there was this guy who was always there for me,though married but hawakuwa na mtoto,he wanted me to get married to him to give him a child coz I had a son,he was mature but I promised myself that I won't break someone's marriage. God never fails,he gave me my own marriage and am grateful. 🙏
As a married woman myself I just want to say thank you for doing the right thing.
We are all sinners expect we have sinned differently. None of us has a right to reprimand Hellen. I believe she has a reason for sharing her story with the world. You might have not ruined someone's marriage like her, but the fact is none of us is pure. Let God be our judge and also remember that no sin is Unforgivable.
i agree God bless you
Well put
True
Halleluyah
Biblically, there is an unforgivable sin.
I watch so many interviews on CZcams from different channels, but Lynn's interview skills are unmatched 👌👌
I totally agree 👍
Very true
Truth
True 💯
This is one of the most sober interview I have listened and what makes it interesting is how God convicts someone. God bless you for speaking out especially because nowadays most influencers in Kenya tell young ladies it’s ok to share men and even be with people’s husband.
Good day Lynn. I am from South Africa. I love your shows. Most of your guests tend to mix English and their mother tongue. This creates a problem for us who don't speak other African languages. I am humbly appealing that there should be a way of translating when that happens.
Otherwise keep up the good work and the interesting topics. I really enjoy the show. 🙏🙏
Nomsa.
If you turn on the captions it gives the translation when they switch to a different language
Oh my God this woman is a full package of braveness, , like who does this, I feel so proud of her coming out and making it clear to people that if a sin is accepted by the world that doesn't stop it to be a sin...as many people out here take it to be...may God bless her as she starts this new journey...bravo to you mama
Whatever we sow we reap... Sometimes hurting other people feels like the best thing but deep down there's guilt in your heart.
Never be an accomplice for a man to hurt his Wife.
very true.we sow what we reap,thats what most people dont know..i wish the so called slay queens looking for wababas can read your comment and understand
but again....God forgave her....she is just giving her past that came out of ignorance
👍👍🤣
Lyn thumbs up. More of such. Tuwajue kwa majina.
@@voskilltheentertainer2564that's why these episodes are important... It's a learning curve😍
After watching this and reading the comments I am so grateful to be born in a generation where men are held accountable for their actions and women actually love themselves. Thank you for sharing this story Lynn Ngugi.
You are a real woman of God. God will give you the grace to do needful thing to her. Please my sister still pray for God guidance.
Just watched from South Africa. Couldn't understand some parts due to language barrier. Thank you for addressing such an urgent and sensitive topic. There is a wave in my country that is trying to normalise and subject women to polygamy, ignoring all the pain it causes. This show reminded us that God has a better way. I wish you the best Hellen and may God be with you in all things. All my love ,,
I had difficulty understanding some of what she sad too so I turned on the English caption it translates some of the words.
Well said Sibongile as women now in SA we living on a thread like u can just find urself meeting a Zulu man named Mseleku wen u don't want to
Sbongile you can say that again, the enemy is using polygamy and divorce to reduce marriage and label it useless, most young people feel its not for them and sin will continue to take place. May God expose the enemy and fight for unions.
You are saying that africans are trying to "normalize" african culture. Are you being serious?
@@ugalitamu9082 Normalise affairs using culture as a shield.
Someone said when we keep on hating something sometimes we become it😊Hellen this is bold of you to take accountability ❤️
I tell you she's strong
Very true through experience and have passed through everything I hated infact I judged someone and it came knocking on me yenyewe earth is hard
The moment she started self seeking it was the moment of honesty of the mind and freedom! We all learn each day from our mistake, I am very proud of her re-correction of her life.
i was dating a married man knowingly,i felt in love with him at sight..
Though i wasn't comfortable in that relationship,because everyday i felt like i was hurting my fellow woman..
one day i sat down and meditated,i decided whatever!! i moved on and left him..
i later on apologised to the wife,for the pain i caused her.
i hope God forgave me too😢
God has forgiven you, do not doubt it
You have been forgiven already my dear.
I love how honest you are
God forgives our wrong doing bur the consequences
The feeling of remorse is a great start for forgiveness. Thanks for standing up for another sister, taking responsibility and not interfering.
Congratulations to Hellen for owning her part in the mess and making amends. May God continually use her to His glory.
I really needed to hear this...this was for me...have changed my mind...am not going to be a second wife anymore...I will wait upon the glory of God... Thanks so much Lynn this is my turning point...
Pheny, this is the best decision you have made for yourself. Thanks be to Helen's real life story. God will surely bless your desires.
@@victoriamalaki8673 Thanks Victoria this platform has been of great help to me
Now that I have listened to the whole story, I have come to understand one thing. That the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. When she didn't know the ways of God she acted out of foolishness but now even from her way of talking she fears God.
May God help intervene on the remaining part
This is so true lady.
very true
Total lies!!! She's acting. It's boz
Uongo! Amemutoroka coz amesota. She is a golddigger!
@@gladysmwanzia2320 I'm here asking why after 10 yrs ..sijaelewa hii strory
You cannot build paradise on top of another woman's tears!!!
I appreciate your courage action, you are wonderful and God is with you.
God bless you Hellen for sharing and enlightening many who are lost in the same….
May the Grace of God fall upon the other lady , may her heart find true peace and forgiveness for the pain she went through..
Am proud of you Helen, you took up a stand and declared what your stand was in front of God. May God continue using you.
I love the way God put things clear for us through His servants....."you are married to someone's husband"
Never ruin someone marriage lesson learned!!
My family was destroyed when my father married a second wife...we were affected emotionally,financially and physically until we lost him 2019 since he became sick and we only learnt about his sickness much later.There was so much drama that went on in our lives that period ..I was so affected .I applaud you for coming out to condemn this thing and breaking that vice in your family.
Iam proud of her and may the Lord bless her as for me and my brothers we went through hell when when my dad married another woman and chased my mom away . My dad died with alot of pain of which we came to learn of his sickness when it was too late.
So sorry dear I know exactly how it feels to be in that situation .I wouldn't wish it even for my enemy .One day I will share our story so as encourage families going through the same.
Hugs🥰
Same story, why is this so common
@@aumaKNN men who marry second wife die early I lost my dad may 2022 there was no peace Just hate he just died he had pressure
love her story. Thanks Hellen for talking and apologizing. wishing her the very best
This is why I love the Christian faith, it can give you unbelievable courage to take steps you never imagined you could. God can take you out of any situation. Inspiring story.
What a beautiful story, Lyn Ngugi thank you so much for this platform. You have grown and its beautiful and you are glowing. As for the guest thank you so much for the vulnerabilty and honesty. Thank you so much for being so open and for sharing. It was very encouraging. Your calling is very helpful...Thank you!
I am stuck at what she went through with the man who impregnated her when she was young then abandoned her, that's where the issues began. I'm happy she's on the path of healing
Be careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears😢
Always
So pia mimi God atanilipishia one day!!!
So if the woman keeps insulting the man. Whom do you think 💬 is supposed to be stressed by other human being all the time???
people can't live as if they're waiting to be born again to start living again...
Never force someone to love you..
Love is not a prison..
@@rosemarykaloki7639 and you trust what a married man who is cheating on his wife tells the side chick….how old are you??? If a married man ever tell you how bad his wife is just run….a married man can say anything to get what he want…so after being abused by wife…why did he keeps going back to the legal wife??? If she was that bad mbona he kept leaving the second and going back to the 1st? Hehe,,,
@@rosemarykaloki7639 A man who tells you bad things about his wife will tell her bad things about you...never trust a man...and a man who will cheat with you will cheat on you in the worst manner possible
I hear women saying ati 'Nairobi hakuna bwana ya mtu' that is a lie from the pit of hell!
Thank you very much for this show Lyn. I am watching from Zimbabwe and as an unmarried young lady l find this so educating. It's an eye opener. God bless you sister 👏
Hi Lynn I’m watching this show from the United States I’m proud of this lady for tackling head on the generational curse of polygamy.Let her know I’m still praying for her Journey with Christ. Peace
“Cheating is the most disrespectful thing one human being can do to another. If you aren’t happy in a relationship, end it before starting another one.”
Going through this phase right now and it's soo draining
@@meinebarbie7655 Sending you some love and prayers~~
In the same boat it hurts so bad
Very true
@@nyakaisikikellen9527make a plan and leave it is not worth the pain and disrespect
Hopefully,the one who is envading my home will watch this and learn,it's breaks me everday and it's never easy 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Be strong mama and give it time. God will fight for you. If you feel disrespected sana, let go and start over. I'll pray for you and your kids. Pole mama!
May God give you hope.overlook them.pursue your dreams marriage should not derail you.you are great try to get rest and a good sleep.the storm will be over.reach out on me I can help
@@paulinelutta9169 thanks a bunch
@@catherinegachogu775 Amen and thanks and how can I reach you out plz?
Same to me
Thanks Lynn and Hellen I was just about to make the same mistake but I have learned from her and I have made up my mind. Glory be to God may the almighty God be with her because am saved and I could have gone in the same pain.
Fighting spiritual battles is difficult but possible...congrats Hellen for the courage, perseverance and patience.
I cry every night , soaking my pillow with tears because of my home,my childlessness is killing me slowly, The worst of it dealing with another woman who has kids for him 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭,God of Hannah where are you?
Hugs mom it's well
Hello Anyika, sending so much love, light, healing and restoration your way. God of Hannah will bless your womb🙏🙏
May the God of Sarah and Hannah see you...take chance like Jacob and tell God your not leaving his presence until he changes your name...you can attend holy communion service this week huku mombasa kwa pastor Ezekiel....your miracle is waiting for you go and snatch your kids from the hands of your enemies.
How old are you...? Because fertility clinics can help you if you are still under 45.. ..... You can still have a baby and live joyful love with your baby....May creator wipe your tears and all shall come to pass
Take heart trust God and have faith
What a Story!
God will always cause all circumstances to work and come together for ones good.
More Grace Hellen.
Love from🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Learning moments!!! When we fall, not to stay down but get up and move life forward!!! 👏🏽
Helen, God bless you for speaking out this. This message will help many who have used the wrong way into marriage. I like your courage. God bless you indeed. Lynn, this is a great show. God bless you and keep it up.
Am so proud of you my sister May the LORD continue giving you peace which comes from the Lord and your kids thank you for listening to the voice of God 💟
What a precious brave woman of God!! Before God uses someone, He first breaks them into a thousand pieces. May God continue to bless you abundantly.
I thank God you finally released my friend's husband Joseph. Only God knows how many prayers and tears we have cried with the wife. God will heal her. It's has been so painful. She has really suffered. God forgive you more and more.
Amen God is a restorer.
Thanks for sharing. I wasn't going to subscribe initially but after hearing this interview and I can truly relate to this story. I trust God for renewing our mind and having a testimony to share🙏🏾💞
You can not make a home, through another woman's tears. Women are enemies of their own. Some learn, some don't ile roho nguuuumu💪. Thank you mama for coming go your senses
Until someone exepiriences real awakening huezi understand this lady... True Repentance is change of mind. Big up gal. I knw the peace and God's assurance is worth it all and....
Psalms 119:130...the entrance of His Word brings light and understanding to the simple
True
Amen
she's right.repentance is confessing and stopping what you confessed
True .... Turning away from sin and practicing The Word . That's True repentance
God's word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. Psalms 119:105.
Confession is healing..Thanks Lynn for this episode
I really enjoy watching your videos Lynn. You bring such beautiful guests and stories here.
It would be so nice if you were able to include English subtitles on the Swahili parts so those of us who don't understand can follow the stories fully
I agree with you totally. Lynn, remember, people all over the world watch your channel not all understand Swahili.
There is a cc on the right side. Click on it and subtitles will appear
I don’t understand building your happiness around someone else’s tears 😭 then apologizing after all the years of youth from the first wife have passed.This is totally 😢 sad
The good thing is she realized her mistakes what most dont. Nomatter the time dear. God is still merciful.
I can give Hellen a thumbs up because I don think there are many of us who could open up pages and unravel whatever went down .her life impact can send waves of blooming sadness through our hearts we should learn from this ..thank you Lyn you are a girl of clarity I choose you amongst the best ❤️❤️
" There must be someone who is willing to come in and break to trend ."
I 'am glad I watched till the end.
I really admire this lady the way she express herself after realizing the pain she is causing the wife to this man,may God 🙏 bless you.
Self reflection is very important in our lives. Always reflect on everything in your lives. Nobody is perfect n there's always room for correction or rerouting
Today my heart goes to every woman who’s battling infertility..Dear queens you have no authority over your womb but God does🙏in your weakness God is your strength ,May God of Hannah visit you!
Sending 💕
Just shed a tear
This is encouraging,best comment ever.
This life is emotional draining. May God intervene in any barren woman's situation.
@@chasimbarose6608 sure ..Amen 🙏
@@catherine1786 I'm going through this life, I will never wish it to my worse enemy. Barrenness is a torture.
This is the definition of true repentance. None of us is perfect! Humbled to have been privileged enough to watch this.
God of mercy 🙏🏾... You are worthy to be praised.
Empowered woman. You don't need someone's husband, God created a special one for you. Thank you Helen for coming out and enlightening us on this sensitive lifestyle. She's the sacrificial lamb for the redemption of marriage.
Amen
I honestly feel like God took over Helen's mouth n started to talk to all the women who will watch this interview n they are in a marriage that belongs to someone else. May God bless you so much Helen for making such a brave move in order to obey our heavenly father.u r a rare kind Helen.👏👏
Very true
True..many women are crying out here coz now this wave of wababa is trending not knowing this women in their 20s sahi or even younger their time will come aki ju waliharibu Boma za wenyewe
@@julietwanjira8622 very true.n we all know that those tears of that 1st wife burn like sulfuric acid and somehow, God always avenges those tears.thats y Helen said that, when the 1st wife of that man forgives her, she'll know her n her kids are good.
This lady isn't the sharpest tool in the shed. Yaani mpaka wa leo she hasn't figured out that man was manipulating her.
Sometimes it's the circumstances which lead to that and fear of failure
@@shanizlucymwangi that's totally different. I surprised that she doesn't realise he wasn't in love with her. He just manipulated her. The way she talks about the relationship she thinks the guy was genuinely interested in her.
Cool, but it happens if one has a fear to get back to the poverty levels of which she was escaping
@@shanizlucymwangi that I agree with you. I am talking about now that she has decided to leave and divorce that man. She has yet to see she was being manipulated.
What a story of Hope. God bless you Hellen for coming out unashamedly to save many people who are trapped in such marriages