20 Signs that Narcissist Infected YOU (Zombie Narcissism)
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Coercive, synchronized, or mirror snapshotting (introjection): narcissist entrains you to introject his expectations (your idealized introject in his mind), to share the internal object (=merger, fusion)
Only if departure from previous identity, not including bodily signs of trauma and abuse:
Decline in empathy (post traumatic)
Irritability
Impulsivity
Mood lability
Emotional dysregulation
Suicidal or self-destructive ideation
Self-defeating and self-handicapping (e.g., perfectionism or procrastination)
Cognitive distortions (e.g., grandiosity or Dunning-Kruger)
Aggression or Passive-agression
Recklessness
Identity disturbance (“this is not me!”)
Defiance and contumaciousness
Thrill, novelty, and risk seeking
Projection
Splitting or dichotomous thinking
Denial
Exploitativeness
Repetition compulsions
Automatic negative thoughts
Dissociation
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Congratulations on your nomination Dr Vaknin !
By the time my husband (33 years) was almost done, I was his personal assistant, cruise director, president of his fan club, governess, and most importantly, his medical expert(taxed with the pleasure of dosing out his final medications). He died a little over a year ago and I’m finally feeling better, everyday grateful that I’m not enslaved anymore or having to suffer humiliation, lies, chaos…it’s so sad when someone dies young, but not this time
Same here
@@trini_a_Lana I had to take care of him in hospice for his last 4 months, he thought it was good to “come clean” about his whore in another city, 36 year old gold digger!!!! Every day now I wake up with gratitude that I’m left in peace
@@oilselevated4808wow!! What a way to go. I’d have left him right then and there. You’re a good person for still staying by him. Better than me. 😊
That’s why some victims question where or not they are narcissistic. So this makes sense.
a charismatic narcissist can infect not only the inner circle of family and friends, but also entire groups of people within a company or community and turning them into a cult of self-praise
Wow, and the victim of an NPD person gets accused in every situation for their emotional dysregulation, brain fog, lack of empathy, and more!
Yes, he wants me to become an internal object. I am his “project” … never a wife.
@Dr. Sam Vaknin congratulations on your very deserving nomination! I have been a follower of yours for about four years. You have rescued me mentally! You have explained within your videos exactly what narcissistic abuse is. You have helped me to understand that it was not me, it was them. You have helped me to gain back my respect of self! I remember you spoke about respect in one of your videos, and you stated that it was going to be harsh, but we needed to hear it! I am certain I am not the only one that you have help to regain self and love of self! Again, congratulations on your nomination! You are well deserving of the honor!
Yes 👏 I absolutely agree 👍
Sam, as your student, I am Happy to hear about you being recognized for the significant contribution to making the world a better place. ❤
Awesome! Congratulations on the nomination! Believe it or not you inspired me to return to school to, as you so lovingly say, "READ A BOOK."
Hi Prof Vaknin, I hope you get the award. You were instrumental in my making sense of the confusion and what has happened to me.
In my opinion you've already won the award 🥇🏆 congratulations 🎉
You are absolutely a winner already! Your contribution to humanity cannot be described. Congratulations 🎉
Imagine how difficult is to take care of a mother with 92 yo!! She still with all her narcissistic personality. I am a Psychoanalyst and my brother has all this behavior and I am try to help him understand " how he is becoming soo infected by taking care of her for about 8 years !!! He used to be a good person ! I can not help him!! I am seeing precise with this behavior!! Only God help me with my prayers! Dr Vaknin many thanks to you!! Your videos are very important!!! Many thanks!! You deserv this nominations!!
I actually had a dream that my vindictive covert narcissist was a zombie.
I had this dream years before I was able to finally confirm it.
Thank you for all your videos.
Praying for healing ❤️🩹 I think I have been infected and am suicidal. I have been hurt so badly that I just want to end my life. I feel like I don’t know myself anymore and am always fearful and anxious. I feel like am always moody and so many things going on in my mind. I do not want to be angry anymore.
Check out the harmful affects if E M Fs.
Congratulations Dr. Vaknin!
Dear Sam,
I came across your videos in my darkest hours few years ago.
At that time, I was recovering from abuse,I still do but with much more awareness and much more supple vocabulary to name what I went through.
Everything you say in this video resonates with me and I have been meaning to write a comment under your videos for a while but, I felt very split even about writing a short message.
I have and I stil am afraid to he rediculeted for the things that I have allowed to happen in my last relationship.
Hence why, the nothingness attitude appeals to me very much, though, it is a very difficult task to rebuild your life and make living if you renaming to be unseen.
Though, I made it work in the last few years but at times I feel myself to be a victim of the past, though I dispise that term .
I prefer to call myself an survivor but it has been one hell of a price to survive through madness.
Everything of what I knew was shuttered, only the essense remained and even that I questioned through my recovery.
I had to filter my voice and his voice, I still do so even after 3 years of it all ending.
Infection it is , I felt it after our immediate separation that I use to say or think in the way that he did.
Though, I was most at the time aware of it and I am still sifting through it.. I wish it was all different.
So, my biggest thank to you is for helping us to understand the not so understandable mind of an injured and traumatised person, myself and my abuser included
Also, I thank you for your honesty and objectivity, professionalism and your sense of humour.
Congratulations on the nomination! Well deserved ❤
Facts on facts! What a ride it can be! Thanks for explaining! Hope you win! 🏆
This is exactly why our 8 year old daughter behavior has changed so dramatically! It's because of him😢😢
Professor Vaknin, as a philologist, I love your language, vocabulary and all the synonyms. Each and every video brings so many beautiful words. 😊
I'm so pleased to hear you are receiving the recognition and top honours you deserve, Sam. Ever since I first discovered you, nearly 3 years ago, with your lecture in Budapest 'Manipulate the Narcissist and Live to Tell About It?' you have opened up a door to a world of considerable and meaningful (never hateful) understanding concerning the narcissist in my life. Lucky for me I found you. Please continue to shine a guiding light where there is darkness and confusion. I shall raise a glass of red wine to you!
Congratulations Prof... You are well deserving of winning, hands down the best in what you do 👏 👏 👏
Congratulations. A reward for you genuinely hard work to humanity. That no one can steal. You are already a winner to many of us whose lives you have positively impacted.
Another outstanding presentation of what really happens. Imagine your shared fantasy leading you to be with 2 more of these predators and how destructive the whole thing is. Congrats on your nomination it’s extremely well deserved.
Thank you Dr Vaknin
Congratulations Sam. Your videos have informed me of everything I ever needed to know and have helped me through a very challenging period of my life. Without your videos I wouldn’t be as thriving after narcissistic abuse as I am. So thank you for all
Your dedication and hard work and I hope you win.
Dr Vaknin, not sure if that was a Freudian slip but “Replicunt” is a very good description.
No offence taken. 😂 I still think it’s very appropriate.
Thanks for sharing your accomplishments, nothing wrong with that, we are a community here
I had been married to a Narcissist for 14 years and all the signs i had except the suicidal one.I can only say that getting out of that relationship was the greatest blessing of my life . I had 3 young children at that time but the timely separation helped the children to grow up into responsible youths. I would like to add that God helped me to heal very much otherwise my family wouldn't have understood me and put me into a mental asylum. I got healed by hearing faith based programs on tv and youtube. I could become the best mother to my kids when I understood that my kids r not my own but they are God's property and its my role to just look after them by giving them good values and morals. I also stopped calling my kids names and cursing them. Instead i started to bless them always. All this helped me to find myself and be a good person. I always thank God for being so kind to me and protect me and kids from all harm.
Congratulations ! You sure have helped me. 🤗⏳🐬
Coercive snaphotting is real. When it was finally over with my narc, there was a point where I reflected and thought, "Who am I? Who have I become? I'm not me." I had become someone so different from who I really am to please my ex-narc. I stopped listening to the music I loved, she convinced me to get rid of my body piercings and go get tattoo removal done. It was crazy. One of the best days of my life was when I walked into a piercing studio and got all my piercings redone as sort of a way to reclaim who I was.
Glückwunsch, Professor Vaknin 🎉
Congrats Prof Vaknin!
Congrats Sam!
Ingenious, as always ❤
Well done Sam 😊
Congrats 💯✨
This makes so much sense, thank you.
Congratulations Sam!
Congratulations, Mr.Vaknin!!! :)
Well done, profesore!
Congratulations Prof Sam!
Yes, well done!
Well deserved honor Sir!
Congrats Dr Sam!
Congratulations, sir! That’s friggin awesome!
Congratulations Prof.sam
Congrats Sam, Keep up the good work.
Congratulations!! Well deserved!!
Congrats Sam on both accomplishments!
Happy for you🎉Congrats!!
Congratulations!❤
Amazing!💛
Congratulations! Well done!
Much appreciated Sam. Thank you.
Well done, Sam!!! Congratulations 🎉
Congratulations Prof Vaknin !!
Congratulations on your nomination! You deserve every little bit of it! ❤️
Congratulations!! Well deserved
Cool! Congrats!
You have my vote. Love you Prof. Sam
You are soo spot on 😢i can't take it anymore ❤❤❤
Congratulations Dr Vaknin!!!
Thank-you so much as you continue to put my understanding beyond language.
Wow! Congrats! 👏👏👏
YOU ARE AMAZING!!
That’s awesome! Congratulations and thanks for all you do!
❤ well done, and congrats my friend!
Way to go🎉Congratulations!
Congratulations Sam 🎉
Congratulations!
Very well deserved
Well done Professor. Thank you.
Well deserved ❤ learning every single day from your channel.
Well done indeed.Congratulations.
Congratulations ❤️
Congratulations! Thank you for your great service to humanity!
Congrats!!! You deserve it. 🎉🎉
Yippee, Juhu für deine Nominierung!
Congratulations, professor! 👏👏
Well done, Sam! 😅
Thank you for your contribution dr Vaknin 🙏🏻
Congratulations, hard work
Congratulations Dr Vaknin
Bravo 👏👏👏
You deserve the nomination. Well done.
Congratulations Dr. Vaknin. You always have the best content on narcissism
Congratulations 🎈 well deserved!!!
Good going!! You deserve it! Wishing you good luck!
Congratulations professor Sam!🎉
Congratulations, Sam.. Going from strength to strength. I've discovered your videos lately and enjoining them immensely. בהצלחה. 🥂
Yay 😃..kudos for your nomination Sam 🤩 you deserve it 🤗!
CONGRATULATIONS 🎊🎉 on your nomination! It’s about damn time. Thank you very much for continuing to provide us such valuable content every day despite being so busy with all your new projects. I appreciate and always look for your videos each week 😉No pressure. Congratulations again, truly well deserved 👏👏
Excellent choice in nominating You!
That's fantastic news Prof Vaknin
Congratulations and good luck😊
Your contribution to the psychology of narcissism is invaluable! Thank you for taking the time to share this important information with the CZcams audience.
Congratulations sir;you deserve it.❤️
Congratulations!
Thank you so much for explanations and help for understanding!🙏🙏Congratulations to nomination!
Well deserved Nomination Prof. Sam. I also promoted your Channel to my Colleagues here in Germany.
They loved it 😊
Well done Dr Vaknin
First of all, heartiest congratulations for your recognition.
Secondly, thank you very much for your insightful videos. The information in them has helped me gain much clarity.