@@knightlaugh141 man I was so close to getting my dream girl but I f*** up and i had good confidence but now she’s drained it I need advice on what to do now Edit: never mind what I wrote I went again and this time I got the girl how the tables have turned
sorry but I'm gonna have to disagree with step 4, I would think (depending on old relationship factors with that individual) you should be or at least try to be friends/ be friendly with that person. the only reason I say this is because it will give you better closure which let's face it, everyone needs. the more hate you have against your ex the weaker you really are.
She passed away in a tragic car accident almost 8 years ago, and I still miss her like absolute madness. Two years after her death I started dating again, I met so many women, some of them really great, but not a single one came even close to her level. So I’ve been single ever since. She was the love of my life and a drunk driver took her from me. Didn’t even say goodbye, she was going to work like any normal day. 8 years and I still cry every day. We had so many plans, we were engaged, and we wanted to have 5 kids at least. I miss you Karolina.
I’m so sorry. May she rest in peace and have heaven in her future. Same for you. I hope that you’re reunited there. The fact that one single thing can just take away someone who makes our world go round and someone who we love so dearly can be gone in a snap. It’s painful. I know that pain myself. Its kind of, just scary. It makes it hard to feel attached to somebody because you don’t want to risk losing them again. Just that reality alone is part of what made me believe in god. In Islam. Because I can’t just believe that the injustice, pain, trials and tribulations I and so many other people have gone through are for nothing. I feel a little more solace, respite and peace having faith in god and knowing that hopefully from all that I go through and all that I do, I’ll be able to see them again in heaven. And slowly, it helps me to move on. Whatever helps you find that peace, I hope you find it. I’m so sorry. Please, don’t give up on it, or on yourself. I’ll keep both of you in my thoughts and prayers.
The best revenge is move on & self love.. I'm on 2 months after breakup, not cry anymore just feel nothing sometimes happy sometimes remember again, I'm still trying improve self and try focus to self love.. wish me luck
@@shalinisingh012 don't worry you will be happy.. it almost a year for me, I even forgot I commented this video 😂 it's getting better every day and I become better than I used to be. The breakup taught me & change me a lot, I become more self love & know better about self. The key is love yourself first, control your emotion, do whatever makes u happy, be present & pray to God. Even now I feel grateful about the breakup.. Just remember nobody is perfect, God will gift you something better because you deserve it, be proud with yourself.
Girl, I’m on a little over a month, and it’s absolutely terrible. He said he loved me and left me the next day. Just feel terrible. And went to my best friend about it and she left me for him. So now they’re together and I see it everyday. And honestly I feel so useless and worthless and not good enough. Thank you for letting me know it’s going to get better though
Agree on all points and you're right about the revenge...its not worth it. You owe yourself piece of mind and the self love you deserve. Thanks for advice!
How..and why would I even try to get revenge on someone who I once cared about, or who once cared about me (even if they were only pretending..). Never..
I think you should talk to your friends. Probably an adult to be preferred bc they know how to deal with it and won’t give bad advise but being alone is a trap sometimes I promise
I agree with this and that’s probably the only point I disagreed with. Isolation isn’t necessarily healthy. Other people can help you process things and heal from the pain.
I hope you’re doing better gooosly . I’m going through a break up 4 years recently myself.. just trying to find myself and find peace. Wish you the beat
@@petejimenez6358 I am in the same situation like you. 3 years. We don't speak for a week. It's difficult but relaxing. I still don't know what should I do because I know she is a bad influence for me. I guess that only time will decide for me. This is our 3 rd and biggest brokeup that we had as a couple. I hope that you will go out ok from this and I wish you the best!
I’m sorry friend. Mine of 3 years ended things a few months ago and im still struggling like it was yesterday. I hope you have found happiness in you life once again. It’s still hard for me to act like nothing happened. I’m hurting so bad right at this moment, im writing this with tears in my eyes. I hope you are okay 🥺
she wanted to be friends after the breakup. and then i see her on social media lowkey talking shit about our relationship. she also started seeing other ppl three weeks after we broke up. found out she accidentally sent me a text message that was supposed to be for someone else. i feel so much pain that i want to get out of my own body. i realize she never loved me for me, and she only loved me when she was happy with me. that’s why it’s easy for her to look for a replacement. while here i am, still grieving.
I’m sorry. I’m going through the same thing ina way. He told me he wanted a break for a week but ended up blocking me on social media and not even talking to me at all again until I called him out for it and he told me he still loved me and he was working on himself but turns out he was posting this other girl on his stories. It freaking hurts, especially because I put all my effort into him. It’s a waste of time grieving over someone like that when they couldn’t care less about how you feel. I hope you feel better and find someone who truly deserves you
@@slowedvibes5348 hey i’m pretty late but thank you and i’m sorry that you’re going through the same thing 🥺 i know it hurts right now, some days it feels okay and some days it all comes back, but i really believe that we’ll find people who will reciprocate the love, acceptance, and respect that we offer because there’s still so many out there that we haven’t met yet and we still have the rest of our lives to seek them out. aside from getting the love that you want from others, i hope that you’re giving yourself some love too and that you’re not being hard on yourself. we spent so much time trying to love someone the way they want us to that we forget to love and appreciate ourselves. i hope you feel better and better each day. 🥺
Hey for the ppl here, there us this guy that puts a lot of effort on to me, but I really want to just focus on my studies, he's in my friendgroup, I rlly have no idea what to do, I don't want to hurt him, but he loves me way more than I do him and I think he's starting to be emocionally dependant on me even though I know I'm not going to stay with him all my life. I think I should leave him but I don't want to have to leave my friends behind. I rlly want to just stay friends with him but pls anyone if u have anything to tell me I rlly need to know what I should do
@@Maria-sq4jl End the sex thing if you're doing that. There's no such thing as a "fuck buddy" because one of you will fall in love. Be honest, but did you lead him on? Stop the flirting or even doing nice things for him, even a little flirt would draw him closer and closer to you. Only you would know when you're actually flirting. You probably liked the attention that you got from it, but you're making worse. If you have interests in someone, then you should let him know. If you truly see him as a friend, then it shouldn't be a problem for you to openly let him know.
Girl almost same. After date 2 and talking daily for 2 weeks he went silent but still talked in person like we were friends. I had to wring the truth out of him.
You can be friends with them BUT not immediately, only after you went through the breakup and of course if it was a good person AND the relationship ended peacefully.
i failed the social media one, and it actually bit me in the ass because he told me that his friends (who i allowed access to my close friends story) told him about all the shitty things i said on my story, which i posted the same day he was about to reach out again. had i not done that, there probably would've been a chance at us. talk about it behind closed doors, and don't seek attention or validation for your feelings through social media like i did, folks! it's just a good thing that it pushed him to tell me that he's choosing to never look back, and that i'm okay with that decision. definitely don't feel great regretting saying such really gross things, but i know that it just means that i wouldn't have been and still am not ready yet to try for us. moving on, im really hopeful for the next person and i only hope now that he and i cross paths again when we are both much healthier and happy with our lives
I unfortunately reach out to much. I miss him like crazy. I tried blocking him off everything recently. That only lasted 2days😭 I wish I could move on & heal. My heart aches so much. It's so hard forcing a smile when all I wana do is cry. He was my best friend💔😢🥺😭
@b.services9851 Yes, I don't talk to him still till this day. I have him blocked on FB & one day I decided to unblock him & he wrote me begging for our friendship & nope I blocked him again. He's in a relationship with someone tho. It's been way more than a year since we broke. As of now I don't think I would like to be friends with him. Unfortunately I can't move pass my grudge. I'm better w/o him in my life. Hate that I lost my bestfriend. Emotionally im in a better place now. We heal & we move on, but the memories will always remain❤️🩹
This really help me 😭😭 im going through a toxic relationship and I wanted to seek revenge so bad 😭😭 but this helped me think twice about my choices and if I didn't watch this I wouldn't have thought of a better way myself ❤
I didnt seek revenge, but my ex ended up catching herpes from the girl he cheated with. So, karma took care of him. Now he regrets cheating, but, it's too late now! 🤷♀️
It’s so hard when you have kids with the person and they are small so we have to keep in contact. Ughh I just don’t want to feel anything anymore, cause he sure did move on 😒
Number one don't listen to this dude he don't know what he's talking about first of all everything you're going to go through that's what you're going to go through I would just stop and think if that's possible about your actions I wouldn't the one thing I do agree with is don't chase them I wouldn't do that ever I'd be too embarrassed I just went through a bad breakup and I ain't chasing shit accept my feet away from these fools the other thing you should do you should talk to somebody about this because it really hurts so don't listen to people when they say don't talk about this that's just a bunch of crap and let me tell you he looks like the kind of guy that probably would stalk them throw rocks at them and everything else good luck ladies
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It all depends on how you did go apart if u can stay friends. My ex and me were friends b4 the relationship, we are gone apart in a good way, without any big arguments, just Lots of tears. It's okay for both sides to stay platonic, soo... Just decide it for yourself
Exactly! My ex and I just broke up after 4years and we want to stay friends because we were good friends before the relationship . It’s easier to cope what’s happening too…we also didn’t do anything bad to each other just growing apart.
@@worldofmango1409 if someone is dumping me i am not going to be around them and help them process their loss. As soon as I hear "its over" i am too, over. Becouse I dont devaluate myself. I stay in no contact. They made the choise. Aries con. 🤷🏻♂️
@@worldofmango1409 I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years just yesterday. We didn't fight or anything, we talked about everything and realized we're better of apart. We are awsome besties and still care for one another (on a platonic level this time). But it hurts so much still. Like I feel happy and horrible at the same time How you holding up now??
I needed that T shirt. It was an emotional hook for me. It was one of my favorites, and I wanted a clean cut: nothing left behind. He didn't let me get it back. Now I have to buy a new T shirt every time I am in the store. 😁
Today is my boyfriend's birthday, and he broke up with me. I'm walking away today from immaturity, someone who wants to be free, and someone who wants me to be completely obedient. Today, I am set free! I hope he has a great life, because he'll remember me, he'll try and come back. I know my worth. My head is high because now I can truly be ME!
I really needed to hear number 5. I just broke up with a guy recently after I found out he was cheating & I wanted to ruin his life. But now.. after seeing this I’m good. Thanks for this video! It helped :)
For me it happened yesterday, didn't see that coming and still in shock of it. Also I'm all alone and the only way of talking to friends and family is whats app or skype. Like i only had him here and now idk what to do?!
@@sanazrahbari7623 hang in there. I’m going through this myself. After almost 4 years and an engagement ring on my finger he decided he didn’t want to get married. Just like that! And then ghosted me! It’s really hard especially when you think everything was going good
@@christinehammond3936 thank you dear 💗 and I am sorry to hear about what happened 😔 it wasn't not fair to you. Idk maybe it is a sign that we are better without them.
There is one thing you should never do after you break up -- never listen to any random people telling you what to or not to do after your break up. If u want to ask ur ex question ask! Or u want to beg . beg. U want to walk away ? Wall away . The bottom line is. Don't make urself wonder and thinking . Do anything that won't make u regret.
Thank u needed to hear this, my relation ship is early of like a month and the guy is not focusing in class anymore, I think I need to leave him, but he's in my friends group idk I'll do my best to just let things go as they are supposed to
I really needed this video this time. I am at a endpoint of 8 years old relationship and I am still in doubt. Don't know how to overcome it. Every memory our future plans are all in my mind and I am crying hard. But i know it's necessary.
My bf broke up with me and I feel like I have nothing left. The week before he was telling me he loved me, and now his friend came to me telling me he doesn’t like me anymore, and so I asked my bf if it was true and he said it was. I feel like my whole world is gone and there’s nothing to live for. I need him back, he really felt like my soulmate and we were so good together, and now for no reason this happened. I feel really betrayed by him but I feel like it’s my fault
I am deep in a break up myself right now, but, You need to look at this with an objective lens. Mine was a pretty healthy and mutual break up, but it still hurts because we both still love each other. It’s just not our time. In your situation, he did break up with you. You have to let that sink in and anyone who loves you would never let you go. People tell us who they are the first time and we need to believe them. Through the next, while you need to look back at what was going wrong, you’re in this halo effect phase of things and reminiscing, all the nostalgia, which makes you feel like you want him more; that’s messing with your head. He will most likely come back, but you need to be strong and ask yourself why is he coming back? If he does. Then, hopefully you’ve moved on to better things. I’m sorry you’re in a lot of pain right now he thinks you’re still there so he’s going to treat you that way.; don’t let him. Get involved in new things new hobbies, new people cut your hair buy some new clothes whatever you gotta do. You will get through this it’s like stopping a drug addiction; one day at a time. If he does happen to come back, you should only be with the realization of what went wrong on his side of things, and a changed person, and a slow reentry into each other’s lives. Anything less than that would be a hard pass for me and it should be for you; you are worth better than that. It’s easy to blame yourself as the sole reason for the break up - but a relationship takes two. Him, breaking up and making it about you shows more about his character and his limitations than it does about you; this is important information. You want someone who’s going to stay through difficult times not run all the best.
But why did u keep saying "Him" like men don't go through it too, I'm a guy and its been less than a week since i got broken up with, it sucks and i really don't know how to move on from here
My biggest problem is going thru millions of our text messages😢 Lol and were not realky going thru a breakp we were FWB /lovers got in one agruement ABOUT LOVE now we havent spoke in 3 days and im sick!!!! I know He has to be🤦🏾♀ too! Neither wants to be the 1st to text/call.🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
The crazy shit is a woman will break up with a man for some erroneous reason and STILL seek revenge! It’s like what the hell? You broke up with me remember!
Dude, are you trying to get into the ladies pants or something?🙄 These rules work for men as well... Wth bro! We need those rules more than women. Women can replace you in a heartbeat. Leaving you all lonely while they can get a new guy every night, if they choose to. Guys will line up for miles to get into their pants, especially if it's free of money, free of commitment. Aaaaaand she doesn't even have to be beautiful, just a straight 3 to 5 on looks. So imagine if she's a 6 to 10. She'd destroy you and make you wish you can hold onto these rules you made for them. Don't forget this..... EVER!!!
Question: me and my ex broke up due to financial and mental health, I already told him not to blame himself for us breaking up. I want to wait for him but also support him, cause he says he doesn't feel like a man and I wanna make sure his crown doesn't fall off, I want him to know he is a king. Because I believe we are great for each other but the time isn't the right time
Sometimes reaching out isn't a problem if you were the one that caused the breakup. It takes a bigger man to own up to his mistakes say goodbye take care and move on.
Another rule should be don’t kill yourself or hurt yourself ❤️
I already am
@Alice donot play with someone's feelings, god is watching u
@@knightlaugh141 man I was so close to getting my dream girl but I f*** up and i had good confidence but now she’s drained it I need advice on what to do now
Edit: never mind what I wrote I went again and this time I got the girl how the tables have turned
😅😂😂😂 ain’t doing that
i hurted myself ..
“Number one dont reach out to them” anddddd I failed at the step one itself.
Your ex man is a loser, move on
What’s up with all the bots
sorry but I'm gonna have to disagree with step 4, I would think (depending on old relationship factors with that individual) you should be or at least try to be friends/ be friendly with that person. the only reason I say this is because it will give you better closure which let's face it, everyone needs. the more hate you have against your ex the weaker you really are.
Same
same babes
She passed away in a tragic car accident almost 8 years ago, and I still miss her like absolute madness. Two years after her death I started dating again, I met so many women, some of them really great, but not a single one came even close to her level. So I’ve been single ever since. She was the love of my life and a drunk driver took her from me. Didn’t even say goodbye, she was going to work like any normal day. 8 years and I still cry every day. We had so many plans, we were engaged, and we wanted to have 5 kids at least. I miss you Karolina.
💛💛💛 I’m so sorry about that, I couldn’t even try to imagine what that feels like
I'm so sorry. But you need to heal
It's good to cherish and honor her memories. However, you need to move on mentally and emotionally
I’m so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace
I’m so sorry. May she rest in peace and have heaven in her future. Same for you. I hope that you’re reunited there. The fact that one single thing can just take away someone who makes our world go round and someone who we love so dearly can be gone in a snap. It’s painful. I know that pain myself. Its kind of, just scary.
It makes it hard to feel attached to somebody because you don’t want to risk losing them again. Just that reality alone is part of what made me believe in god. In Islam. Because I can’t just believe that the injustice, pain, trials and tribulations I and so many other people have gone through are for nothing. I feel a little more solace, respite and peace having faith in god and knowing that hopefully from all that I go through and all that I do, I’ll be able to see them again in heaven. And slowly, it helps me to move on.
Whatever helps you find that peace, I hope you find it. I’m so sorry. Please, don’t give up on it, or on yourself. I’ll keep both of you in my thoughts and prayers.
That's terrible
The best revenge is move on & self love..
I'm on 2 months after breakup, not cry anymore just feel nothing sometimes happy sometimes remember again, I'm still trying improve self and try focus to self love.. wish me luck
Girl! It's been 5 days for me. I feel miserable!! I hope you found your way out of this.good luck
@@shalinisingh012 don't worry you will be happy.. it almost a year for me, I even forgot I commented this video 😂
it's getting better every day and I become better than I used to be. The breakup taught me & change me a lot, I become more self love & know better about self.
The key is love yourself first, control your emotion, do whatever makes u happy, be present & pray to God.
Even now I feel grateful about the breakup..
Just remember nobody is perfect, God will gift you something better because you deserve it, be proud with yourself.
Girl, I’m on a little over a month, and it’s absolutely terrible. He said he loved me and left me the next day. Just feel terrible. And went to my best friend about it and she left me for him. So now they’re together and I see it everyday. And honestly I feel so useless and worthless and not good enough. Thank you for letting me know it’s going to get better though
Me too 2 months now and am healing ❤
It's been 3years it hurts like hell.
Another rule is don’t talk crap about them after the break up
Oops
But tbh talking crap about them really helps the mind and you feel better 😂😂😂😂😂
Agree on all points and you're right about the revenge...its not worth it. You owe yourself piece of mind and the self love you deserve. Thanks for advice!
What about my mental peace what if really want revenge and maybe my mental health will get better 😅 implant to murder hum thi 😂😂😂😂 jk lol
How..and why would I even try to get revenge on someone who I once cared about, or who once cared about me (even if they were only pretending..). Never..
@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858exactly. Making matters worse is a moot point .
so true never devalue yourself for seeking validation
Amen!!! No contact really works
yeah but no contact for the person who has been broken up with. Not the person who broke up
I think you should talk to your friends. Probably an adult to be preferred bc they know how to deal with it and won’t give bad advise but being alone is a trap sometimes I promise
I agree with this and that’s probably the only point I disagreed with. Isolation isn’t necessarily healthy. Other people can help you process things and heal from the pain.
My girlfriend of 4 years just broke up with me. Not taking it well but needed to hear this. Thank you.
I hope you’re doing better gooosly . I’m going through a break up 4 years recently myself.. just trying to find myself and find peace. Wish you the beat
@@petejimenez6358 I am in the same situation like you. 3 years. We don't speak for a week. It's difficult but relaxing. I still don't know what should I do because I know she is a bad influence for me. I guess that only time will decide for me. This is our 3 rd and biggest brokeup that we had as a couple. I hope that you will go out ok from this and I wish you the best!
@@petejimenez6358 how is it going brother, here to talk
I’m sorry friend. Mine of 3 years ended things a few months ago and im still struggling like it was yesterday. I hope you have found happiness in you life once again. It’s still hard for me to act like nothing happened. I’m hurting so bad right at this moment, im writing this with tears in my eyes. I hope you are okay 🥺
@@Dillon6479 how are you feeling now brother
she wanted to be friends after the breakup. and then i see her on social media lowkey talking shit about our relationship. she also started seeing other ppl three weeks after we broke up. found out she accidentally sent me a text message that was supposed to be for someone else. i feel so much pain that i want to get out of my own body. i realize she never loved me for me, and she only loved me when she was happy with me. that’s why it’s easy for her to look for a replacement. while here i am, still grieving.
I’m sorry. I’m going through the same thing ina way. He told me he wanted a break for a week but ended up blocking me on social media and not even talking to me at all again until I called him out for it and he told me he still loved me and he was working on himself but turns out he was posting this other girl on his stories. It freaking hurts, especially because I put all my effort into him. It’s a waste of time grieving over someone like that when they couldn’t care less about how you feel. I hope you feel better and find someone who truly deserves you
@@slowedvibes5348 hey i’m pretty late but thank you and i’m sorry that you’re going through the same thing 🥺 i know it hurts right now, some days it feels okay and some days it all comes back, but i really believe that we’ll find people who will reciprocate the love, acceptance, and respect that we offer because there’s still so many out there that we haven’t met yet and we still have the rest of our lives to seek them out. aside from getting the love that you want from others, i hope that you’re giving yourself some love too and that you’re not being hard on yourself. we spent so much time trying to love someone the way they want us to that we forget to love and appreciate ourselves. i hope you feel better and better each day. 🥺
@@maku636 thank you so much I hope I do meet the right person someday 🥺 I wish the same for you ❤️ much love
Hey for the ppl here, there us this guy that puts a lot of effort on to me, but I really want to just focus on my studies, he's in my friendgroup, I rlly have no idea what to do, I don't want to hurt him, but he loves me way more than I do him and I think he's starting to be emocionally dependant on me even though I know I'm not going to stay with him all my life. I think I should leave him but I don't want to have to leave my friends behind. I rlly want to just stay friends with him but pls anyone if u have anything to tell me I rlly need to know what I should do
@@Maria-sq4jl End the sex thing if you're doing that. There's no such thing as a "fuck buddy" because one of you will fall in love.
Be honest, but did you lead him on? Stop the flirting or even doing nice things for him, even a little flirt would draw him closer and closer to you. Only you would know when you're actually flirting. You probably liked the attention that you got from it, but you're making worse.
If you have interests in someone, then you should let him know. If you truly see him as a friend, then it shouldn't be a problem for you to openly let him know.
Basically behave as if they never happened or existed in your life.
He broke up with me and we weren’t even dating.🤦🏽♀️🤣
Girl almost same. After date 2 and talking daily for 2 weeks he went silent but still talked in person like we were friends. I had to wring the truth out of him.
You can be friends with them BUT not immediately, only after you went through the breakup and of course if it was a good person AND the relationship ended peacefully.
I really am against being friends with an ex.
And what for?
@@carloslopezdesilanes628 just saying you can if you want, not that you should or that is convenient
@@MonkeyDLuffy60073why do you think its a bad idea?
My situationship asked me to stay friends, idk what to think about that… it’s been almost 5 months and still heartbroken
this deserves more recognition
"Be careful who you trust Sergeant, people you know can hurt you the most."-Ghost💀MW2
i failed the social media one, and it actually bit me in the ass because he told me that his friends (who i allowed access to my close friends story) told him about all the shitty things i said on my story, which i posted the same day he was about to reach out again. had i not done that, there probably would've been a chance at us. talk about it behind closed doors, and don't seek attention or validation for your feelings through social media like i did, folks! it's just a good thing that it pushed him to tell me that he's choosing to never look back, and that i'm okay with that decision. definitely don't feel great regretting saying such really gross things, but i know that it just means that i wouldn't have been and still am not ready yet to try for us. moving on, im really hopeful for the next person and i only hope now that he and i cross paths again when we are both much healthier and happy with our lives
The best revenge is living well.❤
It will be like heaping hot coals upon their heads.
Growing up better day by day for the only sake of my revenge
That's my motto for living
I unfortunately reach out to much. I miss him like crazy. I tried blocking him off everything recently. That only lasted 2days😭 I wish I could move on & heal. My heart aches so much. It's so hard forcing a smile when all I wana do is cry. He was my best friend💔😢🥺😭
I have really bad separation anxiety
After a breakup
It's very hard for me right now
Any updates?
@b.services9851 Yes, I don't talk to him still till this day. I have him blocked on FB & one day I decided to unblock him & he wrote me begging for our friendship & nope I blocked him again. He's in a relationship with someone tho. It's been way more than a year since we broke. As of now I don't think I would like to be friends with him. Unfortunately I can't move pass my grudge. I'm better w/o him in my life. Hate that I lost my bestfriend. Emotionally im in a better place now. We heal & we move on, but the memories will always remain❤️🩹
@AppleHead84 Hey girl! How you feeling? I hope God has given you the strength to heal & move on❤️🩹🥹
Dude just straight up called me out.
Thank you man, I need this as I am trying to move on ❤
It’s a good idea to reach to your friends.
Nah bro they laugh at me
@@pog5652 they not friends
2 days later it finally hits me
Am all heart broken💔now but trying to comfort myself I just can't be myself
Awesome advice! I extremely agree with the last one: the best revenge is working on yourself
This really help me 😭😭 im going through a toxic relationship and I wanted to seek revenge so bad 😭😭 but this helped me think twice about my choices and if I didn't watch this I wouldn't have thought of a better way myself ❤
I like the last one. The best way to get even is to get better. But I say why seek revenge......just live YOUR BEST LIFE, JUST GET BETTER!
I didnt seek revenge, but my ex ended up catching herpes from the girl he cheated with. So, karma took care of him. Now he regrets cheating, but, it's too late now! 🤷♀️
Good advice, except for the part about talking to friends.
You should definitely talk about how you are feeling and seeking comfort from friends.
It’s so hard when you have kids with the person and they are small so we have to keep in contact. Ughh I just don’t want to feel anything anymore, cause he sure did move on 😒
Number one don't listen to this dude he don't know what he's talking about first of all everything you're going to go through that's what you're going to go through I would just stop and think if that's possible about your actions I wouldn't the one thing I do agree with is don't chase them I wouldn't do that ever I'd be too embarrassed I just went through a bad breakup and I ain't chasing shit accept my feet away from these fools the other thing you should do you should talk to somebody about this because it really hurts so don't listen to people when they say don't talk about this that's just a bunch of crap and let me tell you he looks like the kind of guy that probably would stalk them throw rocks at them and everything else good luck ladies
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terrible. this is just for superficial and shallow relationships that weren’t even real in the first place.
It all depends on how you did go apart if u can stay friends. My ex and me were friends b4 the relationship, we are gone apart in a good way, without any big arguments, just Lots of tears. It's okay for both sides to stay platonic, soo... Just decide it for yourself
Exactly! My ex and I just broke up after 4years and we want to stay friends because we were good friends before the relationship . It’s easier to cope what’s happening too…we also didn’t do anything bad to each other just growing apart.
@@worldofmango1409 if someone is dumping me i am not going to be around them and help them process their loss. As soon as I hear "its over" i am too, over. Becouse I dont devaluate myself. I stay in no contact. They made the choise. Aries con. 🤷🏻♂️
@@worldofmango1409 I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years just yesterday. We didn't fight or anything, we talked about everything and realized we're better of apart. We are awsome besties and still care for one another (on a platonic level this time). But it hurts so much still. Like I feel happy and horrible at the same time
How you holding up now??
@@shylock5477it means you still have feelings for him listen to your heart.
If they're nice, then maybe, but any other is just a punch to the gut and your self-worth.
I needed that T shirt. It was an emotional hook for me. It was one of my favorites, and I wanted a clean cut: nothing left behind. He didn't let me get it back. Now I have to buy a new T shirt every time I am in the store. 😁
It sucks when you get super close to someone’s family and then you never see them again
Number 6 don't commit suicide...
Number 7 get a life and deal with it...
I want to hurt him so bad n I know how I'm so angry
Me too girl me too
You crazy girl 🤪 😜 🤣
Your advice is spot on, thank you.
Today is my boyfriend's birthday, and he broke up with me. I'm walking away today from immaturity, someone who wants to be free, and someone who wants me to be completely obedient. Today, I am set free! I hope he has a great life, because he'll remember me, he'll try and come back. I know my worth. My head is high because now I can truly be ME!
I really needed to hear number 5. I just broke up with a guy recently after I found out he was cheating & I wanted to ruin his life. But now.. after seeing this I’m good. Thanks for this video! It helped :)
I'm not doing any of that and it's still hard moving on. It's only been a month since we went no contact, but ugh. When does it stop hurting?
For me it happened yesterday, didn't see that coming and still in shock of it. Also I'm all alone and the only way of talking to friends and family is whats app or skype. Like i only had him here and now idk what to do?!
@@sanazrahbari7623 hang in there. I’m going through this myself. After almost 4 years and an engagement ring on my finger he decided he didn’t want to get married. Just like that! And then ghosted me! It’s really hard especially when you think everything was going good
@@christinehammond3936 thank you dear 💗 and I am sorry to hear about what happened 😔 it wasn't not fair to you. Idk maybe it is a sign that we are better without them.
Never
@@sanazrahbari7623 I'm so sorry. How are you doing now?
What if his/her friend are your friends
Finally a male dating coach who actually gives good advice
You must be talking about yourself/yall men. Praying for you! Prayer is the best!
It's like you were reading my mind! Thank you for it!
There is one thing you should never do after you break up -- never listen to any random people telling you what to or not to do after your break up. If u want to ask ur ex question ask! Or u want to beg . beg. U want to walk away ? Wall away . The bottom line is. Don't make urself wonder and thinking . Do anything that won't make u regret.
Thank u needed to hear this, my relation ship is early of like a month and the guy is not focusing in class anymore, I think I need to leave him, but he's in my friends group idk I'll do my best to just let things go as they are supposed to
I really needed this video this time. I am at a endpoint of 8 years old relationship and I am still in doubt. Don't know how to overcome it. Every memory our future plans are all in my mind and I am crying hard. But i know it's necessary.
Don't tell your friends or social media. Tell that to my backstabbing ex who got every friend she could involved
Thank you ❤
Some people manage to stay friends with their mums and siblings etc, id love that but it has not ever successfully played out in long term.
Omg thank you I needed that
Dude said ladies 😂😂😂 bro these girls don’t give AF about a break up now & says they just go the next d*ck and call their ex narcissist in weeks
Dont talk about it to your friends? That’s just putting away emotion
I am greatful to you for all these advices. I made some of these mistakes but could control myself early. Thank you 🙏🙏
I want my money back I don't care
I have I want ex😭
Thank You I needed to hear this
I needed to hear this, thank you
I know your message will make me feel better
Thanks. ❤
I needed this earler
Number 1 is hard
Number 2 is hard
Number 3 : yeah
Number 4 : no not at all
Number 5 : 😭 how?
He borrowed my money. I’m on my way to sue him.
My bf broke up with me and I feel like I have nothing left. The week before he was telling me he loved me, and now his friend came to me telling me he doesn’t like me anymore, and so I asked my bf if it was true and he said it was. I feel like my whole world is gone and there’s nothing to live for. I need him back, he really felt like my soulmate and we were so good together, and now for no reason this happened. I feel really betrayed by him but I feel like it’s my fault
I am deep in a break up myself right now, but, You need to look at this with an objective lens.
Mine was a pretty healthy and mutual break up, but it still hurts because we both still love each other. It’s just not our time.
In your situation, he did break up with you. You have to let that sink in and anyone who loves you would never let you go. People tell us who they are the first time and we need to believe them.
Through the next, while you need to look back at what was going wrong, you’re in this halo effect phase of things and reminiscing, all the nostalgia, which makes you feel like you want him more; that’s messing with your head.
He will most likely come back, but you need to be strong and ask yourself why is he coming back? If he does.
Then, hopefully you’ve moved on to better things. I’m sorry you’re in a lot of pain right now he thinks you’re still there so he’s going to treat you that way.; don’t let him. Get involved in new things new hobbies, new people cut your hair buy some new clothes whatever you gotta do.
You will get through this it’s like stopping a drug addiction; one day at a time.
If he does happen to come back, you should only be with the realization of what went wrong on his side of things, and a changed person, and a slow reentry into each other’s lives. Anything less than that would be a hard pass for me and it should be for you; you are worth better than that.
It’s easy to blame yourself as the sole reason for the break up - but a relationship takes two. Him, breaking up and making it about you shows more about his character and his limitations than it does about you; this is important information. You want someone who’s going to stay through difficult times not run all the best.
😭 lmao i was going to return his shirt today
I never did any of these and I feel stronger than ever ❤️
Thanks that is so helpful I need all of the information thanks so much
But why did u keep saying "Him" like men don't go through it too, I'm a guy and its been less than a week since i got broken up with, it sucks and i really don't know how to move on from here
I just went through a breakup, and honestly, it hurts, bit these tips are helpful thanks
My biggest problem is going thru millions of our text messages😢
Lol and were not realky going thru a breakp we were FWB /lovers got in one agruement ABOUT LOVE now we havent spoke in 3 days and im sick!!!! I know He has to be🤦🏾♀ too! Neither wants to be the 1st to text/call.🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
It’s really hard bro 😢
I totally agree with all well said🙌🙌
Yeah but we all need closure for our own mental peace.
The crazy shit is a woman will break up with a man for some erroneous reason and STILL seek revenge! It’s like what the hell? You broke up with me remember!
Thank you bro!
Thank you 😔
Dude, are you trying to get into the ladies pants or something?🙄 These rules work for men as well... Wth bro! We need those rules more than women. Women can replace you in a heartbeat. Leaving you all lonely while they can get a new guy every night, if they choose to. Guys will line up for miles to get into their pants, especially if it's free of money, free of commitment. Aaaaaand she doesn't even have to be beautiful, just a straight 3 to 5 on looks. So imagine if she's a 6 to 10. She'd destroy you and make you wish you can hold onto these rules you made for them. Don't forget this..... EVER!!!
That's rightt, I got rid of everything, didn't talk to my ex nothing, left that in the past where it belongs.
bro my ex gotta hear this she keep talkin to my mom at my football games she’s such a stalker
All of this just added up to "Just brush it off."
Which is a nice message.
Question: me and my ex broke up due to financial and mental health, I already told him not to blame himself for us breaking up. I want to wait for him but also support him, cause he says he doesn't feel like a man and I wanna make sure his crown doesn't fall off, I want him to know he is a king. Because I believe we are great for each other but the time isn't the right time
You right will fellow Your advice
Damn sorry but I failed on all these points already 🤣 well except the last one
2. Please. STOP STALKING ME.
Me who has always been single: wtf is youtube trying to say to me?
Stay single. You don't want to deal with heartbreak !
I like the don't tell your friends advice. Not going to happen.
LoL I was about to call him to give me my lunchbox and backpack back
Thank you 🙏 😊
Want to get revenge? Date someone “better” than your ex.
Big Facts ❤️
Best way to get even is to be better❤
Gave her everything still left me 😂
Sometimes reaching out isn't a problem if you were the one that caused the breakup. It takes a bigger man to own up to his mistakes say goodbye take care and move on.
Bro ladies r the one breaking up , n men become heartless after that so , no teach thief how to steal, it sucks 🤧
Great advice another should be don't move on too fast take time to love on your self do something better with the time you wasted on your ex.
Basically be heartbroken but don't dare to hurt the guy back that used you👏👏
What’s wrong with opening up to your friends about it? Even my friends are doing it to me 😂
i hear you. makes sense
This is why I hope we never break up 😭😭😭 I always wanna know o have him as a friend if nothing more 🥺🥺