20 Ways a Husband Can Show Love to His Wife
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- 20 Ways a Husband Can Show Love to His Wife
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her." Ephesians 5v25
"That He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word." Ephesians 5v26
"For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church." Ephesians 5v28
"Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them." Colossians 3v19
Chapters:
0:00 - What does the scripture say?
2:02 - 1. Buy her flowers
2:43 - 2. Take her out on a date
3:52 - 3. Open the car door
4:32 - 4. Load the dishes
5:13 - 5. Be her photographer without complaining
6:13 - 6. Compliment her on her looks and her character
8:57 - 7. Take out the garbage
9:28 - 8. Make it a habit to lift the toilet seat when using it and lower it afterward
9:37 - 9. Hold her hand in public
10:04 - 10. Go for a walk without your phone
10:25 - 11. Kiss her more and hug her without expecting sex
10:59 - 12. Share with each other about your day, not just in bullet points, but also share your feelings
12:40 - 13. Remember birthdays and anniversaries
13:06 - 14. Listen to understand, not just to respond
14:01 - 15. Pray for your wife and let her know you prayed for her
14:32 - 16. Share with your wife what the Lord spoke to you during your quiet time
15:09 - 17. Renew your marriage vows every ten years
15:40 - 18. Help your wife pursue her calling
16:00 - 19. Support her family and your in-laws
16:30- 20. Provide for her financially
17:04 - Bonus: Don't spend too much time with single guys
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Pastor Vlad, great video.
I always see a lot of these videos about the husbands loving their wives etc.
Is there any potential videos coming about the wife loving her husband?
I love how pastor Vlad is stating the simplest yet powerful tips that if actually followed, it will 100% improve your relationship.
Moreover, he doesn’t stop by jus preaching, but also FOLLOWS in his own life . He is a doer 👍So only he can give things in detail.
Praise God for pastor Vlad !
I’m currently going thru a divorce, my heart is always open for reconciliation , I ask for the church to pray for me and my wife to reconcile
Praying for you ! I went through a divorce ( found Jesus after) I'm so sensitive to other people going through relationship issues. I don't like seeing people struggle. God bless you!
May our Lord Jesus work in you and your wife's hearts. May you stay close to Him and each other. Please God heal their marriage in Jesus name
Sprinkling Blood of Jesus & I surrender ur marriage into hands of Lord.
@FishersofMen: brother, Fast & Pray , u’ll see God’s Power
Praying for reconciliation in Jesus' name!
Brother I really wish you the best, and may the Lord Jesus bless your family, your marriage, and your life!
My wife is heaven sent and I am a lucky man Thank the Lord
Me too, thank you Jesus!
I’m a woman and I agree with everything pastor Vlad said. Now waiting on a video for us women and how to love our husbands.
His wife made one
@@cynthiaolsen5965 thank you for this 🙂
@@cynthiaolsen5965do you know where that video is? Does she have a channel? I want to watch the video
Loving a man is learning to submit to him.. as Man learns to submit to Christ..
Submitting doesn't happen automatically.. it is learned.
@@Brother_bryan thank you 🙏🏾
I hear the word submit a lot but there’s no specific explanation or much info submission means. Could you elaborate?
One thing I learnt - When listening - give 100 percent attention to her, and look deeply into her eyes - don't let yourself be distracted - nothing is more important than her.
So true. Feeling unheard = Feeling unloved.
A man must know God’s love before he’ll be able to love a wife.
So true
Jen grice.
I am a believer in Jesus as the messiah and have studied the great mystery of how God still will take the adulterous Israel back.
But many men out there don’t know this or know God but still love cover and give thier lives for thier families. It’s in a man’s nature. The reason I say this is women find excuses not to live according to the instructions of the word because they think thier men are not Christian enough. So not true.
Me and my husband work to keep a friendship. We call each other best friends! If we can keep being best friends. It makes our marriage so much better!
Marriage must be built on friendship, faithful, transparent friendship.
I have always opened the door for my wife, even when we were dating❣️ It is amazing how many people stop and stare as she waits for me to come around and open the door. It was more common 45 years ago❣️
Same with the garbage and the toilet seat, come on men, we need to respect our for our wives❣️
That brings me to tears brother 😭❤️🫂❤️🙏🫂Awesome, awesome job 🫠❤️🙏❤️🫂
I love doing that but my wife usually gets to the door before me because I'm carrying the car seat 😂 occasionally I manage to get there first and it feels great lol
@@Mrwiseguyisthebest doesn,t it, bless you, Amen❣️
I got my husband to watch this video by simply saying, “Honey, you will finally understand me.”🤭
This was SOOOOOO good!😁 I can’t even count how many times we both laughed, acknowledging how true these things are. Well, maybe I laughed a bit more than he did…Such a blessing!😅
One thing I’d like to add would be for a husband to initiate or at least willingly participate in prayer with his wife. I’d like to see husbands run to God first and LEAD their wives into prayer…rather than feeling obligated to pray because it looks bad if they don’t or to get the wife to stop nagging about praying together.
Be blessed! Thank you for the great message.🙏🏼🌻
Yes ❤ Having your husband be the spiritual leader of the home is so important. Not that you are dependent on him for your faith, you should believe for yourself, but having someone to walk beside and support you and take the lead in being an example of faith for the entire family takes such a weight off your shoulders.
Root for her, be her cheerleader!
Cook for her
clean up the house
do stuff without her reminding you
Be in a good physical shape
Smell nice
Dance with her
serenade her
write her poems
Buy Mininful sentimental gifts
Ruth here, l don't want a poem, l don't want flowers in the house, l will take a magazine but don't want to waste so let me choose, or a cross stitch pattern,
Buy her flower... pick flowers even. Here in South Africa, it is so costly to buy flowers. So, pick one or two out of the garden, she'll love you still ❤
Some of us prefer this actually ❤
I think picking flowers a more meaningful gesture for sure.❤
Another brilliant video 👏🏻
One thing that my husband does which I really appreciate, is that he boasts about my qualities in front of friends and colleagues and always says how God blessed him with me as his wife. This public appreciation of him having me as his wife makes me feel so valued in front of everyone. It also shows any woman who thinks she has a chance that the position is well and truly taken and irreplaceable. 😜☺️
Very few husbands do it especially in Asia. They feel we don't need to express love in public. But when it is criticism, they are more open.
Great tips, Vlad! Just a few more -
* Maintain financial transparency with your wife.
* Make provisions for her to freely go out with her friends.
* If you have young kids, take up babysitting by yourself, so that she can participate in church and her ministry pursuits enough.
* Help her find time to pursue her hobbies.
* During a fight/argument, assure her that though there may be differences, you and she are still on the same team.
Great Job Vlad! My husband does 90% of these, but his relationship with Jesus isn't where it needs to be...yet! I have faith that the Lord is working on him ❤
The only thing I would add is: be patient with your wife especially as she is getting older and her hormones and her body isn't as receptive or as energetic as before?? Thank You so much & God bless you and your Wife & Baby Boy Samuel..
LOL My husband does 90%, how many %% you are giving to your husband?? lol LOVE is giving , not receiving
I would love a “20 ways to love your husband” version from your wife!
I second this
Pastor Vlad thank you for a living example of a Godly Husband.🔥
Two things that I'd add to what was mentioned is: for husbands to spend time with other (Godly married men ). My husband has guy friends who are married but aren't fully walking with the Lord, that Still drink, get high.
The second:
to be open to Christian marriage counseling.
I just found your beautiful channel! Flowers are cheap at Sam’s too! I’ll be married to. My wife 33 years ! We’ve been together over 34 years!
Thank you for putting this together. My wife sent this to me 😬. But I watched the whole video and love it. I do many of these, but there is always room to be better. I’m going to take this to heart as it made me realize how important this is for my wife.
Honestly EVEN ONE FLOWER throughout Randomly in our days would be perfect.dont need a whole bouquet. It could even be a drawn FLOWER 😭
Something I really appreciate and it’s a little humbling is for men, he listed 20 things you can do to love us in practical ways. For women, he gave us only 12. I feel he didn’t cheap out on how husbands can love their wives. It’s pretty sweet!
I love my husband, but things happened for a reason.. i have faith that he has better plan for me.. For now I am working on myself, learning how to be a godly woman for the better future
Pastor please post a video on how a wife can love her husband.
Yes please. Because is it us, or us it them. That dont care , about love. Like it's whatever to them
We are called to respect …. That’s kinda of equal as that’s how they feel loved.
Women should be,submissive to their husband's that what the Lord instructed them.
@@ancamarcu2046I don't get it I'm kinda confused on this topic. So women don't have to love their husbands just respect him? Why would he feel loved because he's respected? Respect doesn't feel like love
Through this video I learn so much how to love my wife
Excellent video Brother I’ve been married for 28 years here in April to my beautiful wife as a husband I can always do better in loving my wife as Christ loves the church. These are 20 excellent recommendations. I encourage all husbands to apply these godly principles in loving your wife.
Love this list. I would add hand written letters. It is amazing how taking the time to sit down and write your thoughts and feelings to another person causes you both to grow together.
Praise the Lord it's a good day to be alive 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
So true!!! Thank you pastor Vlad!! God bless you!!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻You are blessed in teaching. Everything you said is true and on point. God bless you and your family.
God bless you pastor 🙏 what a beautiful message
That was so GOOD! Thank you JESUS❤
My husband is such a wonderful husband and I couldn't ask for a better spouse, he's my life long everything after God, nothing comes before the Father.
Vlad I want to thank you for your videos. I experienced a healing annouting from one of your sermons before.
All points are appreciative. Pray for us Brother. All glory to God.
I agree 100% praise the Lord for this❤️
All of the above are completely on point!
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This was very interesting and informative. Much appreciated. A word to the wise is sufficient. Hoping to be married one day and have a very understandable husband who will love me the way God expect him too.
🤗😁 Finally someone is on POINT! I have been trying to tell my husband this for 17 years. ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
That was so helpful in our marriage & it was such a wonderful blessing it will be 38 wonderful years for us
I agree with all of this. You are right!! ❤🙏
I love your teachings
You are so right about everything you said I need to do everything you said I love my wife and I want to show her that I love and appreciate her every day
a lot of great tips! Thank you for the video I brought out my notebook lol I would also add reading the Bible together ! that one is a game changer!
Thank you for your sharing for us.
Vald these are amazing and applicable points to show True Love ❤.
Awesome Pastor Vlad ❤
Wow!!! This is such an amazing teaching. I was happy with tears flowing down. It ministered to me deep. Thank you Brother Vlad I appreciate your work on this teaching! It was the BEST teaching on (How to love your wife)!! I love my soon to be Husband even more. Blessings to your gorgeous wife💐
Thank you for making this video this is very helpful to married couples.
You nailed it. Thank you ❤
That was awesome, thanks for sharing this
Pastor very nice message
Thank you Pastor. Please continue to pray for me. I'm struggling with my inner demons and it's affecting my marriage too. 😢
Thank you Jesus amen 🙏 🙌
Everything on point, agree on everything 🎯
Thanks Ptr Vlad. ❤
Beautiful advice 🙌🔥🔥🔥
❤❤tthank you Pastor ,God bless you indeed ❤❤
Nothing but Gems ! 💪🏼
This is great 😃 thank you sir
Thanks Pastor
God bless you
You are awesome in this place blessed brother
Great advice, I do most of those things and I learned a thing or two thanks. Been married 45 years in April so I guess I've done something right, but there is always room for improvement.
Love this please keep making this, we need more focus on successful marriage
❤❤ great stuff Pastor
While I am truly happy for those who enjoy a fulfilling marriage, it breaks my heart to be alone and see videos like this. It's like telling someone who is starving how to properly cook a filet mignon.
You can look at it in the way of being happy for others… and for yourself when that time comes 🥰
In his time and as Pastor has said, God bless you to use this time to continue to grow as we all need and be used of Him and in his time, amen, amen, we know he is sooo good ❤🙏🙏🙏
That's a feeling many can sympathize with, i would suggest for you to really look internal and to reflect. Reflecting on your habits etc. Are the things youre doing, consuming, entertaining in line with the word? Are you seeking Christ daily, consistently, genuinely?
If you have a desire in your hear thats in line with the word, God will honor that in his timing. Trust me waiting can be frustrating but look at it as a time of preparation and trust that he has your best intetest at heart. Sending you lots of love from Canada ❤
I have had brothers in Christ die waiting @@user-si6gs3ne8l
I totally understand and pray the Lord brings you the right person at the right time! But these are great videos to watch to know what to expect in a Godly marriage, and as a preparation for that. Be encouraged, friend. ☺️
Amen! Let her know you think about her when she's gone!!! And you can't wait to get home!!!
Wow these are all awesome tips
We need a video for how Wife can show her love to Husband
Women would just be everything the husband wants and more if treated in these ways 🙂
Yes I would love one
How wife can show her repect to Husband?
@@Lizzy_333Why do women act like they'll do anything he wants if he treats her like this when in reality she's not gonna do anything for him?
@@justinreacts8171 I suppose I can’t answer for every woman lol
Tell her that you love her
To add to your list:
* Give her reassurance when she needs it; women have many worries and need reassurance from their husbands that everything will be okay
*Have her back; stand up for her/be on her side when others are involved (obviously there are extenuating circumstances)
* Don't share personal stuff that should be kept between husband & wife
* When you're on a date, make her feel like the only woman in the room
*MAKE EYE CONTACT, and don't look away so quickly; for women, this is deep connection
These are so much more important to me than flowers or gifts or being called beautiful. There's definitely a time and place for those, but being seen and truly listened to is so much more important ❤
@@j.8678 . ..agreed.
And never ask if they want flowers that ruins it
Frankly, one bouquet a year would be plenty for me. There are other things far more meaningful to me.
Great video!
Good Job it helped a lot!
Hi pastor, can you please pray with me to God to help me to love my wife I don't have none of these things you mentioned for my wife, she is complaining every time she is not happy with our love life. I need God intervention I don't want to divorce it can affect me badly to my calling of salvation. We are not happy at all..
Frm:South Africa
You’re right!
You are so awasome. Blessings from South Africs
Good Word ❤️🙏☝️☝️☝️
Thank you❤❤❤
Can you please do a video on how we can do the same for our husbands? :)
Amen and Amen
Thanks!
Thank you for your giving, God bless you!
Practical points👌❤
Yeah really practical
Amen
Hi Vlad. Thank you ❤️. Do have a similar video for our wife’s, how we can show Love for our husbands please? 🌹
I personally don't care for flowers. But I understand most woman do.
Thx u brother
This is a great video, as a single woman, some Godly qualities to expect in a future husband. I know a lot of people are requesting a video on how wives can love their husbands, but the Bible says for wives to respect their husbands (I think because it’s easier for us to love than to respect, and men really appreciate that respect…), so I would love a video on ways wives can respect their husbands. 😀
Praise God ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🙌🏽 I’m sending this to my husband 🤣🥰🙌🏽
Let someone send it to him 😅😂
Thank you so much brother. I totally agree with these 20 opinions .
I like if my husband also can listen to this video . But I cant say it to him.
Waiting.....From India,state of Manipur,tribe of Kuki
Thank you for this! My husband respects you, I hope he watches it.
He loves and serves the Lord and is faithful to me and I'm thankful for that. I love to serve him and our 6 children. But sometimes I get a bit sad and discouraged because he hardly ever seems to notice me or how hard I work.
And I'm not talking Instagram, but there'll be hardly any pictures showing that I've been there, too, cause I take all the family photos. I don't like to pose anyway, just sometimes in pregnancy, but he doesn't understand it.
Little things could make a big difference.
I've been telling him for 13 years, if I cry just give me a hug, but he doesn't.
And no, I don't neglect him physically.
When I saw your gender reveal party I was quite sure you don't need it but you did it for your wife.
God bless you!
Yes ❤ I've always been one to shy away from having my picture taken, so I take responsibility for at least a big part of it, but I've realized that there are very few pictures of me with my husband and children except for family photos I insist on once a year or so. I love them, but they're not the same as candid shots. I want to be able to look back at photos and see that I was part of this family, too.
@@j.8678 Guess we should pray that our husbands will understand and then tell them how important it is to us and ask them to take pictures, too. Might need some gentle reminders until they get into the habit.
@angelab4518 Yes. He will when asked, I just don't think to ask often. Definitely something for us both to work on.
All points are good appreciate them all but #20 is the boss my husband and I share this with young couples. Thank you Pastor. I missed the marriage conference.😢 The Love Language book he mentioned is by Gary Chapman good book.
You’re a good man!
Make sure you make another video like this for wives!
My wife wants clothes not flowers 😆 🤣 😂
TY❤
That's right
Amen🙏🏼