Sexual Intimacy in Marriage According to Scripture
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- Sexual Intimacy in Marriage According to Scripture
Sex is a gift to be enjoyed in the context of marriage. The devil does his best to push singles into sex before marriage and keep married people out of sex in marriage.
The Purpose of Sex
1. Procreation (Genesis 1v28)
2. Pleasure (Proverbs 5v18-19)
3. Protection (1 Corinthians 7v2)
4. Intimacy (Genesis 4v1)
5. Comfort (2 Samuel 12v24
Getting Practical:
1. Sex is the Superglue of Marriage. (1 Corinthians 6v16)
2. Sex is about Serving, not Selfishness. (1 Corinthians 7v3-4)
3. Understanding the Difference
A man is a fountain (always ready)
A woman is a well (needs to be drawn out)
“Sex doesn’t begin in the bedroom. It begins in the kitchen, or living room, or other places. Sex is not just an act. It’s a relationship.” Kevin Leman, Psychologist, Author of “Music Sheets”
4. Pursue Purity
Virginity is abstaining from sex before marriage, but purity is for life.
Lust, flirtation, emotional attachments, and addiction to porn will damage your sexual relationship with your spouse.
5. Deal with the Abuse.
If you have been abused, it can affect your ability to receive and give love. Be open about it; seek professional help.
6. Deliverance from Demons.
Chapters
0:00 - Introduction
0:55 - 5 Biblical purposes for sex
7:34 - Practical principles of sex
35:27 - What is NOT okay in a marriage bed?
40:40 - What is okay in marriage sex? Three questions you need to ask yourself
45:35 - Final thoughts
48:09 - Consider partnering with our ministry
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she is healed. Praying for her restoration now.
I join in prayer with you.
Draw near to god and he will draw near to you.
💓💓💓
Prayer went up. God makes all things work together.
Prayers for her 🙏 I RECOMMEND that if she is also going through Chemo and other things... That you try to change her diet a little bit.but also follow what the Dr says. Also Cancer feeds on sugar so cut the sugar down...
Getting married in July. We've both saved ourselves for marriage. Couldn't be more excited.
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Beautifull!
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Congratulations
I have been happily married for 45 years. I am a retired medical professional. Beautiful message Vlad and Lana.
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Please...how did you do it...I want a long fulfilling marriage myself ❤
I have never watched a porn video. Ex justified his cheating calling me “boring”. I have been ridiculed by many people YET I continue to remain strong in what does not resonate with me. Always be authentic.
Whats up me if you don't mind we can mingle
Porn is the cause of many negative feelings and depression and anxieties. Never watch it and never be tempted, it is sooo NOT WORTH IT!
God bless you and your family
My husband is wonderful, thoughtful, pursues purity, prays with me, pours loving words on me and attention, this inspires me to want to please him in return.
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Amazing teaching. I come from a Muslim background where everything is one way and have wondered about this topic and have been nervous to get into a relationship and have been practicing purity but my heart does desire a godly husband one day and i am growing and learning and I hope the Lord is preparing a husband for me😊
God bless you both. ❤
Every message from Pastor Vlad is incredible. I thank the Lord for your teachings 🙏
Just look to Jesus
Wow!
Keep teaching that people may know the truth! and the truth will make them free!
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Jesus...read the books of proverbs you shall know them by theur fruits. StDS are running v wild in Canada and also down in Texas abd masaxhusetts.. these places are loaded with men and females age 18 to 29 loaded with idolatry and filth. Ive been staying pure but I have been isolated too much by my mother now she wants to throw me out like in a burden..
@vladsavchuk can u please expand on this u glossed over (I think):
"Demons (incubus n sucubus?) watch 4 unclean spirits behind sex"
This is one of the first discussions like this where the wife’s emotions were actually brought in. Thank you for having a balance in this conversation!
Vlad's illustration comparing love and lust to soil and dirt was revolutionary and resolved something within my spirit.
What you said about Sex is like a fire in a fireplace, completely summarized the entire teaching of this video. If you keep the fire in the fireplace, it will warm the entire house, but if you take the fire out of the fireplace, it will burn down the house. That is what sex will do to anyone who doesn’t revere it and keep it in its rightful place..in marriage.
Absolutely necessary message for every couple to hear. My Pastor taught this to my husband and I 12 years ago right when we got married. My husband and I are both ministers now faithfully serving the Lord in a godly marriage.
Not married well anymore. But I can say if you aren't married and struggling keep praying. God removed any desire I had for pornography or sexual immorality. He's taken that temptation away and pray it stays that way
This is helpful for me as a pastor, knowing that sexual perversion has become so rampant in society.
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
You guys are so cute! I love the submissive respect Lana has for you, you can see it in her body language and how she listens to you, so encouraging! Thank you both for this topic not a lot want to talk about but it’s so important 👏🏼
Agree! I cringe when I see wives of pastors cutting them off when they're speaking. She does a good job of letting finish his thoughts before speaking.
I wish many women can learn this kind of submission from her 😢
I agree. But have you noticed that Vlad does exactly the same to her. He doesn't cut her off. He lets her finish her thought.
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
She’s not being submissive they just have mutual respect for each other
Sadly this quality is so extremely rare in relationships that it gets confused for submission.
Idealizing a caricature of submissiveness only leads to performative behavior
Every husband and wife need to listen to this message! So good! Great message and explanation!
Hello 🌹🤗❤❤
As a single woman of God, I thank God you published this video, and I watched this video. 🙏🏼
This has been very informative study through Bible.I liked it much Thank u so much.
Thank you for going into sex in marriage and providing scripture because my husband and I want to honor God. This has been so helpful and the golden nuggets given will definitely help!!
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Hello 🌹🤗
I just turned 28 and I'm still a virgin. I've neglected many opportunities to meet women and build social skills. I regret this, as my passion and sexual urges are high. I guess, it doesn't matter if I become a 30 year old virgin male or a 40 year old virgin male. I'm trying trying so hard to hold onto hope to do what's right and wait to marriage. But it just doesn't seem it's gonna happen, and I'm afraid I may die a virgin. One of the most important blessings God has given us. Sex in the marriage bed, as the biological clock ticks away, here I am.
Brother, congratulations on keeping yourself pure. Don't give up now. Your wife will thank you and God will bless you.
Keep holding brother I was addicted to porn for 7 years since the age of 11 and it destroyed my life and relationships Jesus saved me and set me free at 19 and staying pure is something I wish I could have done but keep going man I’m telling you it’s the best thing you can do to yourself and future wife 🙏🙏💪
Hey, don't get discouraged. Sometimes things dont happen because we still need deliverance. Ask God to reveal every little thing that is making you not find love. Maybe you still need to get deliverance in some areas of your life (example: finances, mental, health, etc) and that could be an obstacle. Dont give up, pray constantly for God to reveal everything and be humble when God corrects you and shows you something you need to improve. Im in that process right now and it is unbelievable how many things God has shown me... i have been fixing issues that i had no idea needed fixing (i thought i was ready and perfect... but... nope) and i know i still have a long way to go... but since it is God who is preparing me, i can see progress every day and get so motivated in the "waiting"
Do you attend church? Are you actively seeking Christian women?
Remember Paul said that we should all be like him! Unless we can control ourselves!! Serve the Lord Look toward the lord and He will make your paths straight!
As a childfree, single woman, I Thank you both so very much!❤
Many of us have been bingoed to death by family and church members who weaponize scripture against us for choosing this lifestyle and it's not right - it is downright exhausting!
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Let's not run from awkward discussions.Better to face them. They don',t go away.
I am so glad you guys made a video on this topic. It's answered a ton of questions I've had over the past 20 years or so. Thank you!
Thank you pastor Vlad and Mrs Lana ❤️
The analogy with super glue is great. Should be taught in every youth group.
Thank you for this Pastor Vlad and Lana Savchuk!
I am so glad that this was sent to me i see things differently from the intimacy aspect of marriage and will now begin a new journey.I thank you
I didn't know any of this. You two are a gift from the Lord
Amen! Jesus! I PRAISE you! Even as I’m struggling providing for my children. I will keep faith. I won’t allow the devil to manipulate my spirit. Please pray for me. Since covid I can’t seem to get back on my feet. I lost my job for declining the vaccine. I declined due to my health conditions. I suffer from lupus, and heart disease. I’m now waitressing and so thankful to be working but I’m not making nearly enough to get by. I have two beautiful boys both are autistic. I’m overwhelmed because they require so much from me. I recently started homeschooling them because they were having so many issues with bullying. I feel so alone. It’s only because of the kindness of strangers I still have a place to call home. I’m fearful because every month is a struggle to not end up on the streets with my boys. Jesus hear my cries I’m so tired of not being able to afford simple things like food and clothes for my children. I will keep faith I believe in Jesus and I know he will provide. Amen! ❤
You inspire me sister. I am going to pray for you.
Praying for you!
I will pray for you totally understand a lot of us are struggling I’m a mom of 4 little ones and am homeschooling my 8yr old who has health complications from his cancer removal! I really truly believe God is going to pull through for us! Just keep the faith mama!
Praying for you @ChildofGOD! If you are not a tither, may I suggest you become one. Malachi 3:10 offers a promise, and sort of a challenge. God says that when you bring your tithe into His storehouse, he will prove to you that he will open the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing that there shall not be room enough to receive it. He will overwhelm you, when you trust in Him and are obedient to give what He tells you to give. If you only have $1.00...trust him and give it all, if that's what He tells you to do. Believe that He will turn that $1 into $100, and send it right back to you. God loves you and will provide a way. Praying for you, dear Sister in Christ! ❤️🕊️❤️
I would dare pray this too:
Psalm 90:14 says, “Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love, that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.”
Thank you for your depth, clarity and insight. God bless you Pastor Vlad and your dear wife.
Thank you Pastor Vlad and Lana 🫶🏻 God bless you guys!
Love seeing you two working as a team
Praise the lord I'm from India ,great message father
Thank you for this video. It’s so needed right now in my own personal life.
Thank you so much for addressing this topic!
Glory to God in the highest my dear couple
Thank you for this good conversation. Thank you for opening up. So importand...
God bless your marriage and your ministry!
Cheers from Germany
Thank you so much for this message. This is extremely helpful for me. God bless you both.
Thank you so much for this video. For a while now I’ve felt like I needed a proper teaching on this topic because our society has so commonly abused these gifts that God has to given us. I don’t like thinking about it as a dirty act.
Thank you pastor Vlad and Ms Lana . I have never heard it this way from pastor marriage, is awesome. Is things I’ve been practicing lately specially our communication and that I’ve notice that when communication gets better the intimacy gets better too. Thank Lord
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Wow I love this and you guys are so sweet and mature 🙏 all praises to Yahuah. This is a lot of wisdom
This answered so many questions me & my wife both had & cleared up a lit as well..
Thank you guys for tgis video & thank you Jesus for the word.
The issue of abuse is hectic, thanks a million for talking about it. Im blessed with a wonderful and patient husband but i have neglected him due to this. Working on it.
Thank you both for the teaching. I don't see a lot of teaching in sexual purity and explained at that. Definitely recommend to whom ever to give this a watch. 💯
God bless.
Thank you Pastor Vlad and Lady Lana! Love hearing your perspectives from the Word of GOD! 🙌🏾
Great topic. May God continue to bless you and increase your knowledge.
Thanks for your insights with good scriptural versus. May God bless your ministry and marriage together
What a topic 👏👌 God created sex to be enjoyed by couples 💑 and protected under marriage that blessed by God. 🥰🙏
👩❤️👨
I love your thumbnail! I’m a wedding photographer and it’s so cute! I didn’t realize it was you guys at first! Thank you so much for the way your approach this topic.
God bless you for these teachings
thanks for this blessed sermon n teaching
This is exactly what I needed. I appreciate you both taking the time to share this message. ❤
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Please pray for us pastors. It is going to be almost 6 months now that my wife and I have actually made proper love to each other. I wish I could explain it to you more. But please pray for us!!! Godbless you both!!!
HAAAA BEN ENCORE HEUREUX!!! QUI A ENFIN DES PASTEURS QUI OSENT DIRE, LES CHOSES ET EN TÉMOIGNER !!! GLOIRE A DIEU TOUT LES PASTEURS NE SONT PAS LES MM NI CORROMPU NI MANIPULATEURS NI HARCELEURS NI VIOLEUR NI BRISEUR DE VIE !!! BRAVOOOO QUE VOUS FASSIEZ L AMOUR A VOTRE A FEMME ET NON QUEVOUS BAISIEZ COMME SALE CHIENNE !
Be delivered both from marine spirit in the name of Jesus. Maybypu be restored in Jesus name
We should always keep our pastors in our prayers. The closer your walk with God is, the greater and frequent the attacks will be.
Only six months? I know guys that haven't got any action in years.
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Thank you so much for sharing, praise the Lord, not married yet but one day hopefully if it's the lord's will......🙏🥰
Thank you Pastor for sharing and add so much blessed 😇
God bless, great discussion. May the Lord continue using you. 🙏
Only someone who has waited for his or her spouse until after 35 knows how it really feels. For a woman that means over 20 years of ovulations and sexual desires to need to control. God can give strenght but sometimes people fall, the struggle is there as long as we live in our mortal bodies. But with that I am happy you have eachother and wish you all the blessings of Jesus and healthy kids in Gods time
Yes, I agree, and even when you are married there still temptations to overcome...yet God's grace is sufficient to see us through, if we love Him enough to embrace Him and lovingly accept His ways into out heart...
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 ❤
We fall when we found a mutual passion... I guess it's hard to fall just with anyone you don't like, but who knows...people are different, maybe that's why is not mutual sometimes till the right time)
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Hello 🌹🤗
At 32 I've given up. If it was going to happen it would have already happened years ago. At this point I'm doing everything I can, including asking God to remove this desire for marriage and kill it. If its never going to be fulfilled then it's a waste of time to have it. Im too old to be hanging onto false promises. Im not going to be one of those people who turn 40, 50, 60 plus still holding out for hope on something that was never going to happen. Both my parents are alone and if I have to be that way too then this desire needs to die.
Worth watching the video so clear and full of good knowledge and wisdom. Thank you so much both of you pastor for enlightening us.🙏 God bless you.
A great word and advice from both of you God bless.❤❤❤
Amazing video. I love when Vlad corrects his wife's English! I am in awe of anyone who speaks more than one language! Great advice.
Hello 🌹🤗😊
Have a spiritual life together. Pray together,worship together. Everything i the physical will fall in place.
Love this word! Amen. Thank you so much. This is a blessing to my marriage!
This information helped me with battling sexual immorality. All praises to God.
When the two become one(husband & wife) there is a soul to soul encounter combining the two souls into one. That is the ultimate intimacy.
I watched the whole video. It was an informative lesson. I hope you would bring more bible based studies on subjects that many pastors aren't comfortable to speak.
Thankyou pastor sir and ma.
...LOVE this conversation...Thank you for bringing this biblical..truthfilled..frank...real talk 2 the people...love you two!!!
Thank you so much for doing this! This would be a great video for pre-marriage counseling and marriage counseling. Well done!
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
thanks Pastor for an awesome teaching. God bless you and your ministry
Hello 🌹🤗❤❤
I like to look up the definition to get a deeper understanding and render - is to supply but when you look up supply (to make available) making available makes it so clear that it is about making ourselves available to one another in marriage. Shutting out is the complete opposite of that and would be a sin. But I like how going deeper shows the deeper meaning of Gods Word. Beautiful job as always pastors, we love y’all!
God bless you both for addressing this issue. It’s a much needed subject and the churches should teach Gods people.
Thank you so much,This was really helpful.I apreciate your honesty,trasparency and discretion. May all Glory be to Jesus, God bless you!
Hello 🌹🤗❤
A proper perspective is so important
Super content, scriptural, and easy to understand. A great topic so important to all couples. Thank you.
God blessed your ministry pastor. Good job , big chat and big encouragement 👏
I speak healing in the name of Jesus Amen!!
You two are amazing, yes our marriage has changed to us both understanding this true meaning once we accepted Jesus as our Savior and put Him in our marriage. We now understand how God wants us to love eachother. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
*PREMIS MATEMATIKA*
*Persoalan :* Pornografi Hyper
*Saran :* NIKAH
PREMISNYA
Fungsi NIKAH = SEX
Tapi Istri gak asyik Hyper SEX, malah Drama Cemburu dan Beban Ekonomi
Padahal Fungsinya itu
Logika Kesimpulan
😂
Thank y’all for sharing
Thank you for good scriptures and information to walk with Christ in purity
I really appreciate your messages- fully practical, unbiased, n scripture-based. Thank you and may God continue to put His hand on your ministry
can have always wen married he he but only if not tired or cant be bothered lol . like me this morning praying hubby not kinky this morning lol 😂
I think young children should hear this video more than ever.
I wish I was more educated not just about sex but also about purity in general before marriage
Thank you for teaching on this!
Excellent video ! Thank you both for this very informative and biblical explanation. God Bless you both !🙏✝️
Very informative this information is needed to be heard.
I absolutely love your courage to love the truth enough to speak it & preach it not watered down!
Hello 🌹🤗😊😊😊
This was soo good, thank you for talking about this topic and using a biblical perspective.
You're both the best teachers ❤❤❤
Thank you guys for preaching this message, our world is so lost. Absolutely powerful teaching and guidance here. ❤
I'm in agreement with you.🙏🏽
Hello 🌹🤗😊😊
Thank you so much for this video, very informative. May god continue to bless you 🙏🏻
Again. I really reall LOVE this video and love you guys getting into all the details. Just so nicely put together
I pray for my GODLY WIFE everyday 🙏 am ready for my marriage
God will truly answer your prayers soon... Be blessed
@@israelalva8391 thank you man I really appreciate that 🙏😊💪
Amen, emotional protection.
Great video! Wonderfully formed in words...very rich in niveau! Well done...Greatest respect to you brother and sister! God bless you and greetings from Austria!
A great word and advice from both of you God bless u more.❤❤❤
This was such a great presentation 🙏❤️
I agree totally. As someone with borderline personality disorder, I really don't feel deep feelings for spouse(s) in the context of love AND sex. I never give anyone everything. I'm reserved sometimes and guarded always. The smallest nuance turns me off from my spouse. At that moment there's no way to get the moment back. There isn't a day off it's who you are.
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Prayers for you to be delivered from this trauma. I can relate but I am being healed!! Believe it's not a permanent thing and believe it is not part of who you are. It's trauma and demonic. Pray and believe for it to be gone! God bless you! I understand this trauma all too well. I know you can be delivered!
Same here. I have BPD and I found it difficult to balance.. especially with someone not invested in their spirituality as I am and want to be. But I'm also not married and I am out of a long term relationship not too long ago. So I really need to ingrain it in myself that I am worth waiting for and marrying... Having BPD and fearing abandonment would make me go to sex impulsively and I would feel that I owed it. Done doing that.
I isolate myself, much easier than dealing with desires for marriage that will never be fulfilled.
Thank You for sharing your comprehensive personal knowledge and feelings about intimacy in Marriage from a Christian Perspective.
God bless you for leading the righteous way
Intimacy also comes with taking care of your body and staying in shape. Do not let yourself go and expect the other person to love you for your bad habits.
For better or for worse. One day, we and our spouse will age. If we put our hope in outer apearances, we won't go deep or far in our walk with God or relationships.
@@Purity10101 True, but I can't lie, even when me and my spouse get old, I can only get deeply intimate with them if their hygiene is still there 👀
Well said BeanBurrito. Since the Holy Spirit lives within Christians who have accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior, the body of Christ- no pun intended- as a whole.. should be one of the healthiest and in shape people on the planet. If people really did care for Holy Spirit as much as they say, then, they would take care of their body and their health- not for vanity and obsession with looks, which do change with age, obviously, but to be the healthiest version of what the Lord intended for his kids to be. The lack of discipline, lack of self control and self care is a sign that they need to work on that. All of this ties into the intimacy and attraction in marriage.. and when people do care of their body it’s a direct and clear sign of self respect and respect #1 . Holy Spirit as well as respect for the spouse.
Agreed but one can still look good/decent with age….it’s all about keeping it up as we age. Walking, hiking, biking etc are all good ways to move and also portion control with food
@@Sunshine-pd6uq absolutely if you care about God. You will care about your body and mind and take care of it.
Thanks for the clarity, this is very very interesting, encouraging and informative.
May the Lord continue to guide you and bless you both.
Thanku very well done very well said God bless yau and your marriage , this was very informative much appreciated!!!
Thankx Vlad to you and your wife. This subject is very delicate in the Lord. I appreciate you guys....Jesus told me you are a very good brother in the Lord....Bless you guys!