8 Things God Expects Out Of Husbands

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  • 8 Things God Expects Out Of Husbands
    Men can’t lead right if they don’t follow Jesus right. Boys are cared for by their mothers. Men provide for themselves. Mature men provide for their families.
    You can show your wife love in five ways:
    1. Buy her flowers and gifts (or let her buy gifts herself)
    2. Spend time with her
    3. Do house chores
    4. Hold her hand and touch her more without trying to initiate sex.
    5. Compliment her.
    Chapters
    0:00 - Intro
    0:37 - 1. He pursues God
    2:34 - 2. He is a provider
    5:55 - 3. He is proactive
    8:37 - 4. He is a pastor of his family
    11:14 - 5. He is to walk in purity
    14:41 - 6. He is to be perceptive
    18:24 - 7. He is a protector
    20:17 - 8. He is passionate
    21:41 - Ways you can show your wife love
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  • @vladhungrygen
    @vladhungrygen  Před rokem +27

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    • @jasonbryan8316
      @jasonbryan8316 Před rokem

      Wouldn't the love languages be not the Word of God and be not good to teach with God's Word. Like getting gifts as love doesn't line up with what was in 1 Timothy...
      But godliness with contentment is great gain.
      [7] For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.
      [8] And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.
      [9] But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
      [10] For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
      [11] But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness.

    • @Abbagounisrikanth
      @Abbagounisrikanth Před rokem +1

      Kindly pray for us. Im srikanth and my wife name is Dorkas from India . Pray for the fruit of womb. We dont have children in 20 yrs of marriage life. Some people did witchcraft, blackmagic and sending evil spirits

    • @archangelauriel007
      @archangelauriel007 Před rokem

      Sorry to criticize, but I don't agree with everything; like role #3 entirely, because I think it's far more important for a husband to be in charge and the final decision, but being proactive isn't absolutely necessary.
      Can you make one for wives also, or have you already? God bless! 🙏✝️💗

    • @whimsy265
      @whimsy265 Před rokem +1

      Can I talk to you please pastor

    • @thefennicfox6437
      @thefennicfox6437 Před rokem

      ​@@jasonbryan8316 😊😊

  • @lynnblackLion
    @lynnblackLion Před rokem +739

    Praise report-After 10 years of marriage We are so excited this year “Finally” we have a baby coming! God is answering our prayers. Glory to God! This is a most excellent talk! Great job Pastor!

  • @spacecowboy1394
    @spacecowboy1394 Před 11 měsíci +99

    my wife and I decided she would better serve God in the Home, homeschooling and raising our children. It wasn’t easy but God has blessed us greatly in our faith.

    • @16revelation
      @16revelation Před 11 měsíci +4

      Amen Brother..."Seek ye first the kingdom of God ...and all these things shall be added unto you"

    • @yveherbert7494
      @yveherbert7494 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Congratulations! This is excellent news.
      My husband and I want to do this also. Please, does your wife have a source of income or are you the only provider?

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @ spacecowboy1394
      "decided that she would better (...) "
      Curious how we use the verb "decide" as if it was something coming from us when the BIBLE clearly teaches that a woman's place is the home.
      Does not Titus 2:4 URGE older women to teach the young ones that they have to be BUSY AT HOME among other duties ?

    • @spacecowboy1394
      @spacecowboy1394 Před 5 měsíci

      @@yveherbert7494 only provider, yes it was very hard to lose that second income especially when her’s was equal to mine, it makes us rely on our lord more.

  • @uneeks1015
    @uneeks1015 Před 11 měsíci +93

    I've been a dead beat drug addict my whole marriage, super selfish in all my way 20 years later the lord is now working on my heart😢❤😊

    • @faithbelleg7465
      @faithbelleg7465 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Read the Bible to get to know God and then make Him known. Ask God to give you wisdom & understanding as you read. Repent (turn from sin, run to God, ask for forgiveness). He LOVES you and will forgive you if you believe in Jesus & surrender! Sing worship songs/hymns (youtube has videos with lyrics) to get in the presence of God. In His presence is fullness of joy (in any circumstance). Tell God things you are thankful for. Cry out to God. PRAY. He knows! 💕 I’ll pray for you.
      I’m on the other side. A wife (with our young daughter)with a husband that doesn’t live his life for God’s will. A sad, hurtful, lonely life. 🫤

    • @organizationalcoaches7072
      @organizationalcoaches7072 Před 10 měsíci

      Preach! John 16!

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 Před 9 měsíci +5

      So happy for you! Good has a great plan for ur life, just stay in Gods word and in prayer. I’m excited for you 😊

    • @chrismaxie2864
      @chrismaxie2864 Před 2 měsíci

      You got this with Jesus u will be better!

    • @nicholastracy4915
      @nicholastracy4915 Před měsícem +1

      You have humility that's a big win!

  • @clementclark3472
    @clementclark3472 Před 11 měsíci +79

    Well my dad taught me how to be a piece of crap and now I'm 39 and watching CZcams videos how to be a better husband and father and I'm struggling so bad. I have gotten alot better but still have a million miles to go. Thank you for your advice and biblical truth and references Shalom brother Vlad

    • @jilljohnson9332
      @jilljohnson9332 Před 11 měsíci +9

      So great you are looking for help and wisdom! It’s so nice you are changing and getting better!

    • @christos3280
      @christos3280 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Thats good brother. Prayer is not just saying words, actually prayer is the tool to have God transform us. So pray and let the holy spirit in your heart, if he is already let him guide you more and you will see change. Everything is possible with God it is only a matter of how strong your faith is.

    • @kevinsavinon6059
      @kevinsavinon6059 Před 11 měsíci +6

      The fact that you are here and watching this videos says a whole lot! May God Bless you brother! It takes time but you can do this!

    • @Shofargirl1
      @Shofargirl1 Před 11 měsíci +4

      It is great that you are going forward in CHRIST. 🌷

    • @clementclark3472
      @clementclark3472 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@Shofargirl1 have you ever heard of Shofar mountain I watch pastor Joe fox every day I consider him my pastor/rabbi/teacher you should check him out if you haven't heard of him already. Thank you for your comment and bless you sister 🙏

  • @HerdyHutabarat
    @HerdyHutabarat Před 11 měsíci +123

    8 Things God expect you as a good husband :
    1. Pursue God, make Him as priority.
    2. As provider to take care family
    3. Proactive/ inisiator
    4. As a pastor of family especially as role model
    5. Walking in purity
    6. He is to be perseptive
    7. As protector
    8. Is to be passionate (loving wife).
    Thank you for the useful and blessed video..

    • @guitarmanhero7079
      @guitarmanhero7079 Před 11 měsíci +4

      What about the wife what are they suppose to do.

    • @yestfmf
      @yestfmf Před 10 měsíci

      See proverbs 31.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před 6 měsíci

      @@guitarmanhero7079
      Nothing in our BRAVE FEMINIST NEW WORLD .
      That sermon is nothing but wife worshipping.
      It is not based on the Bible at all.
      It is weak , lame , affeminate , female-centered.
      The opposite of the manly Bible.

    • @johndummy3370
      @johndummy3370 Před 5 měsíci

      Why do women expect men to be providers and also demand equality via equal pay in the workforce? You can't have it both ways ladies.

    • @PamBeesly9545
      @PamBeesly9545 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@johndummy3370 God expects men to be providers. Secondly, it’s not a sin for women to work and provide as well (it’s just not an expectation from God) but if a women is working and she’s good at her job, she absolutely deserves to be paid the same as a man in the same job doing equal work.

  • @dianayano4828
    @dianayano4828 Před rokem +128

    I lost my Gregory almost a year ago, my husband was/is all these things. I hope to be with him again when I pass; we both deeply love the Lord.

    • @yakeishaallen5343
      @yakeishaallen5343 Před rokem +7

      I’m sorry for the loss of your husband Diana.

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 Před rokem +8

      You can absolutely KNOW that you will see him again! If you believe that Jesus died for you and you love God, you can absolutely KNOW! Search the scriptures!

    • @aimeekreutzer-malkawi
      @aimeekreutzer-malkawi Před rokem +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss🙏🙏

    • @danmorals9697
      @danmorals9697 Před 11 měsíci +1

      🙌🏽💝💜🙌💛🙌🏿

    • @marcaribe5084
      @marcaribe5084 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Going through that is one of my biggest fears. Love to you. Big hug.

  • @yessam1460
    @yessam1460 Před rokem +204

    Im 22 and new to the body of Christ thank you for helping me learn the things my family never done or taught i love your videos bless you brother ❤

    • @senaittesday6134
      @senaittesday6134 Před rokem +3

      If you are 22 God has helped you to open your eyes

    • @hww2022
      @hww2022 Před 11 měsíci

      Bless you on your wonderful journey Yessam

    • @DrakDrakoTako
      @DrakDrakoTako Před 11 měsíci +1

      Well, prepair for a hot ride. being a follower of Christ makes you a target for the wicked foe. stay in prayer.

    • @yessam1460
      @yessam1460 Před 11 měsíci

      @@DrakDrakoTako I'm backsliding the past 3 days major but I'm trying to fix it now I just started new job with aloud of people smoke weed and love women I need to rid myself of temptation again thanks bro

    • @yessam1460
      @yessam1460 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@nickc1425 thank you brother I'm trying to keep my job and not end up lost in sin I will do it with him who strengthens me I will be a taxi man as soon as I can afford it then I will be able to work in peace

  • @brentmillsop6355
    @brentmillsop6355 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Hit 31st Honeymoon, 4 kids four grandkids. Home educated family. Nothing is perfect only in the process of being perfected. NO Debt = NO Stress, Stay debt free.

  • @DavidVelasquez9
    @DavidVelasquez9 Před rokem +284

    Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Před rokem +1

      @Emilio Yepez its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

    • @jennimontalvan
      @jennimontalvan Před rokem +1

      Wow that’s so awesome praise God!

    • @ladyofthecreek279
      @ladyofthecreek279 Před rokem +3

      ​@@DavidVelasquez9 WITCHCRAFT 😈

    • @ladyofthecreek279
      @ladyofthecreek279 Před rokem +3

      ​@@DavidVelasquez9 WITCHCRAFT 😈

    • @frankfranklinson
      @frankfranklinson Před 11 měsíci +1

      Praise God man!!

  • @zorro8375
    @zorro8375 Před 11 měsíci +55

    This was a blessing, I needed this I'm not married or in a relationship yet but I have a strong desire to be a godly husband and to glorify God with my future marriage.

    • @paige-vt8fn
      @paige-vt8fn Před 11 měsíci +5

      Amen, I'm trusting in God to bless me with a God seeking and loving husband. 🙏 Blessings to you!

    • @Lili-Benovent
      @Lili-Benovent Před 11 měsíci

      @@paige-vt8fn Why don't you hook up with Zorro and you can have a divorce blessed in Heaven by the invisible guy in the sky?

    • @paige-vt8fn
      @paige-vt8fn Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@Lili-Benovent why don't you change your name to malevolent troll because you find it necessary to go out of your way to make rude misogynistic comments to a stranger about divorce and blasphemy. I'm good, that guys not invisible to me and when I do marry, it'll be a mature marriage for life. ☺️ Take care and have a blessed day

    • @Lili-Benovent
      @Lili-Benovent Před 11 měsíci

      @@paige-vt8fn Just be careful Paige because have you ever noticed that Christian men seem to have lost that individualism and toughness that other males carry thoughout their lives, their personality becomes so soft and pliable, they lose all of their aggression and competitive traits that are inherent in the male of the species.
      It's almost as if they cherish the opportunity to turn the other cheek when their masculinity is challenged, this can't be natural for men to become almost feminine in their manner and outlook.
      Perhaps Christianity gives them the excuse to explore the feminine side of their personalities and frees them to practice their true sexuality.
      It's one of the side effects of belonging to a Cult which thrives on their members becoming sanctimonious and Holier than thou, they are required to deny their most basic instincts and suppress the testosterone within their brains and personality.
      Why would any normal woman want anything to do with such weak self righteous wimps? if they declare their Christianity girls then it's time for you to head for the door, pity any poor girl who becomes involved with a religious freak because they can expect a lifetime of nagging and sermons.
      My advice to all girls is to avoid going on dates with Christian men, they are all so effeminate and soft with lots of hangups, all they want to talk about is God God God. So boring.
      No fun at all.

    • @Lili-Benovent
      @Lili-Benovent Před 11 měsíci

      @@trevrockrock16 Let's analyze marriage, for men it's the opportunity to get unlimited sex provided he toes the line, for women it's the opportunity to trade sex for the stability provided by a man who is willing to toe the line. The marriage ritual and the piece of paper don't mean anything except that it's a bonanza for divorce attorneys in the future. Remember, marriage is an institution and who wants to live in an institution?
      If marriage is mentioned in your relationships it's time to head for the door. Good advice.

  • @wrwcf3078
    @wrwcf3078 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Praying one or more Godly men enter my husband’s life and circle of influence and he comes home to lead and care for our family as God intended and he promised.

  • @maylyntorres3067
    @maylyntorres3067 Před 11 měsíci +6

    I was very naive before. Great video. This cleared out a lot of my questions. A Christian man leads the family. It’s one of the qualities that I will be looking for in a Godly man in the future. If he doesn’t love God first and wholeheartedly, I won’t be pursuing. One of my requirements.

  • @ChildofGod315
    @ChildofGod315 Před rokem +26

    Please pray for me and my children. Prayers are all we truly NEED. Jesus I still trust in you and will keep my faith even though it is so very difficult. I’m constantly faced with financial hardships and can barely support my children. I’m a single mom. With two children on the spectrum. I’m overwhelmed at times. My boys require a lot from me. I recently started homeschooling them due to bullying and other issues. I lost my job for declining the vaccine. I declined because I suffer from heart disease. I had a massive heart attack a year and a half ago and I also have lupus. Since losing my job I’ve been struggling to support my children and myself. I’m now waitressing and I’m grateful but I’m not making nearly enough. JESUS HELP me. I’m CRYING OUT TO YOU. I’m tired of struggling. Struggling to buy groceries. Struggling to pay rent. It hasn’t been easy. Why me Lord? But I know God doesn’t give you more than you can handle. I know all things are possible through Jesus. I WILL KEEP FAITH. No matter how hard life gets. FAITH OVER FEAR!

    • @andrewmondragon3272
      @andrewmondragon3272 Před rokem +3

      These things testing you.. your going through are tough and I pray the Life giver breaths onto you in your finances and favor and strength on your life in Jesus might Name every attack the enemy is trying to cause trying to push you down i rebuke in Jesus Name Mama these test you can handle cuz God knows how much of a warrior you are!!! Keep pushing ! And keep Jesus centered 🙌

    • @kimjones1007
      @kimjones1007 Před rokem +3

      Praying for you

    • @Janeintheok
      @Janeintheok Před rokem +3

      Scammer. They post on many channels. Don't offer them money.

    • @charleswells4822
      @charleswells4822 Před rokem

      You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you

    • @Shofargirl1
      @Shofargirl1 Před rokem +3

      ​@@Janeintheok She is everywhere. 😮

  • @rosemarywacera2576
    @rosemarywacera2576 Před rokem +46

    My prayer is to one day have a husband whom is God sent. I believe when he is God sent he will have all this characteristics.
    From my mouth Lord to your ears, let me meet him.

    • @whimsy265
      @whimsy265 Před rokem +1

      Can we talk and know each other better my name is Kenneth

    • @rosemarywacera2576
      @rosemarywacera2576 Před rokem

      @@whimsy265 Hey Kenneth.
      My name is Rose Glad to talk to you.

    • @letymartinez2092
      @letymartinez2092 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Amen Sister 🙏🙏🙏

    • @inotaarto8719
      @inotaarto8719 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I pray God will deliver.
      Men are not ready from the start but with time, Jesus will grow in them.

    • @fayhou98
      @fayhou98 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Well, with all due respect, no matter what "God-sent" man who comes your way, he will still be flawed, sinful, and imperfect. So, at best he will be STRIVING IN THE WORD to fulfill these lofty expectations, but he'll fall short ... a lot. 🙂
      God bless!

  • @Abbagounisrikanth
    @Abbagounisrikanth Před rokem +17

    Pray for the fruit of womb pastor. We dont have children in 20 yrs of marriage life.

    • @sshadia80
      @sshadia80 Před rokem +5

      I send the MIGHTY HAND OF GOD OVER YOUR WOMB IN JESUS'S NAME. AMEN[psalms 127] GOD BLESS YOU

    • @AfriTalkz
      @AfriTalkz Před rokem +3

      With God, nothing is impossible. (Luke 1:37).
      Keeping decreeing that the womb is fruitful and habitable for the baby to live, because the Bible says that you and the children God has given you will be for signs and wonders. (Isaiah 8:18). 🥰🥰
      Father Lord, please bless this family with the fruit of the womb. Glorify yourself in their situation and take all the glory.

    • @gracedanieova26
      @gracedanieova26 Před rokem

      ❤️🐣✝️

    • @MNIGN56
      @MNIGN56 Před 2 měsíci

      I pray that The LORD lead you to someone who can help you and your husband be blessed with this desire. You both have to be on one accord. Try changing your nutrition to something more healthier. If you are not allergic, try adding bee pollen to your meals. Delicious in eggs! It took my wife and I 16 years. GOD Bless!

  • @KingTunaLLC
    @KingTunaLLC Před 11 měsíci +8

    I'm a newly married man and this really helped me understand my wife. I thought I was the only one that thought marriage changed and everything was bothering me that she was like now after married thank you for helping me brotha God Bless ya sir.

  • @MarcoSantano
    @MarcoSantano Před 18 dny

    I have recently been engaged. I don’t know how to be a husband, I don’t truly know how to be a man of God. I grew up going to a Lutheran School. And I’ve learned Gods teachings. From growing up, my Grandfather taught me how to be a good Christian man. But, I am now going to be a husband, and struggle myself with Christ, I hope that I could one day be a good husband, and preacher not only for my wife, but for our children, and our family. This video has helped me quite a bit, obviously I am not perfect, but I will work towards God’s teachings of being a good and Godly husband. Thank you so much, and Gods blessings to all!

  • @utagarnett1421
    @utagarnett1421 Před rokem +30

    Thank you for this teaching, that really ministered to me. My husband passed away 15 years ago., the marriage was not a good one, despite my husband's strengths and charisma, my husband came from a very abusive past and unfortunately carried this over into our marriage. I have yet to ever process what I went through for all in all those years we were married. Since then I have not ever wanted to or considered marriage again. Why would I want to do that?
    However for the first time listening to this simple teaching, it has given me a different perspective. Not that I am going to look for a new husband now, but in general there is a lot more in marriage that I never got to experience or understand. I guess I got cheated of that in all those past years. I won't let this weigh me down though, God is in charge here. I appreciate the new insight. Thank you again.

    • @apierson5271
      @apierson5271 Před rokem

    • @aimeekreutzer-malkawi
      @aimeekreutzer-malkawi Před rokem +2

      I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sure it was still a rough grieving process and always will be. 🙏❤️ I pray God will help you to continue move forward and follow Gods path for you whether if it’s with a new husband or not 🙏

  • @ivynaronnuiz9091
    @ivynaronnuiz9091 Před 11 měsíci +17

    I am 19yrs in marriage and i am so grateful to have a husband who is God fearing and loving father and husband, thank you Pastor for this wonderful advise iy really helps us to strengthen more our marriage❤❤ God bless you and your family🙏❤️
    From Philippines 🇵🇭❤️

  • @StandFirmInJC
    @StandFirmInJC Před rokem +5

    not a husband. never even been on a date. Thank you all the same Vlad. these are good principles to live by even as a single man

  • @stuartpotgieter1660
    @stuartpotgieter1660 Před rokem +15

    Thanks I needed to be reminded of my role as a husband .

  • @jacobjacob3257
    @jacobjacob3257 Před rokem +12

    We as a family not long ago, watched for king and country in concert, because my wife just adores their music. She was happy, affectionate and very thankful. She was glowing with happiness knowing she got to spend the day with her family. Also, her husband( ME), got to spend a long awaited gift card I received from her a year ago. Seeing her so happy brought joy to my heart. I'm not bragging, just explaining to my church family here that, we as husbands need to take time to do these little acts in order to impart good things. Take the time MEN.

  • @user-ik9xr1pp9v
    @user-ik9xr1pp9v Před měsícem

    I struggle with not trying to change my wife. I learned that Jesus can only shape her heart and renew it. Thank you for sharing

  • @melaniewhite3300
    @melaniewhite3300 Před rokem +36

    Explaining this and using your own marriage and difficult things in your marriage really gives this a very personal and relatable message. I really enjoyed this message and will send it to my husband. Due to his depression we have opposite roles, I take on the role of the husband (except for working) and he learns from me as far as our relationship and personal life goes. 🤷‍♀️

  • @janro8303
    @janro8303 Před 11 měsíci +6

    This is amazing. As for someone who never had a father figure, male role model to look up to bc well my father didn't want me, I was sexualy abused by family members and friends as a child and was raised by strong women. This is amazing and new to me. I do need to work on my healing with Jesus bc its a little triggering when I hear the word "submit" and serving my future husband. I'll do w.e my Heavenly Father wants me to do. He saved me🥰 I'm actually half way there. I enjoy cleaning and staying with my baby at home raising him. I like cooking but I think the Lord needs to work on me more on that bc as a single mom, I dont like spending hours in the kitchen, I rather clean the bathroom😄 I want to play with my baby boy a lot more🙏🏼

    • @lmlong2
      @lmlong2 Před 8 měsíci +1

      While making a home is important you will find what works for you and your family! Find a man that will provide that like for you that you can stay home with your boy :)

    • @janro8303
      @janro8303 Před 8 měsíci

      @@lmlong2 thanks🌼🌼

  • @yepyep1013
    @yepyep1013 Před 4 měsíci +1

    "My wife has been God's best earthly gift to me."
    ~ Charles Spurgeon
    "Married life is not all sugar, but grace in the heart will keep away most of the sours."
    ~ Charles Spurgeon

  • @tbrayboy05
    @tbrayboy05 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I struggled with them all, I lost my way, now I'm praying that God would heal my marriage so I can work on these

  • @NayLovesJesus
    @NayLovesJesus Před rokem +16

    Sending this to my husband ❤

  • @user-kz7fi6ne9j
    @user-kz7fi6ne9j Před 9 měsíci +2

    So I'm a wife to my husband, I do my own housework, I raise our 4 kids and I work full time. I hardly ever have time for anything I enjoy and I do it with love. In the last year, he says I never have good things to say about him but in all honestly I do everything at home. Eg: I raced home from work to tend to our sick baby daughter who has severe flu. We have a baby vac that attaches to the vacuum cleaner to clear her nasal passages. She was so ill she couldn't breath and when I looked for the vacuum cleaner to sort her out - it was at my husband's work. I phoned him for help as I was very concerned to be informed he will be working late and after that call with a screaming baby in the background, I saw or heard from him for the first time when he pulled into the driveway 2 hrs later. He says he knew there was nothing he could've done to help and that's ehy he didn't do anything further to help. Am I unreasonable? I do all washing, folding, dishes, kids bathing and feeding, all kids lifting, pet care, cooking, cleaning up after dinner, packing lunches for the next day. Advice please!!!

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Please pray for me🙏🥰😭I shake with trauma thinking about him, I gave everything, cleaned everything, cooked, worked, Got evil for good, filled my yard with junk so I would see in the storage and garage, he had sold everything valuable from my parents, while living free,
    My bitterness, try to forgive, heal, abuser,in every way, trade, while he was slandering me, saying I was the abuser, harem of girls to feel sorry for him, living like a single man, did nothing but try to ruin me on every level, haven’t seen him 2 months, the thief came to kill steal and destroy, full of demons, didn’t lift a finger, pay for anything, expected everything then punished, said he’s not done with me

    • @JahBlessd
      @JahBlessd Před 11 měsíci +1

      Prayed for you sis and God knows your heart and how to deal with this situation. Please trust that these trials come to teach you that your dependence needs to be fully on Christ and no one else. Jesus wants above all to save you eternally into His kingdom. Many will try to focus your view on dismay and burden of the temporary life and its problems but if you keep your eye on Jesus, trusting in His goodness, guidance, and grace.. you will find peace to meet every circumstance of this life and be fitted to walk with Him in glory.
      I pray that you continue to place your life in His hands for safe keeping.

  • @jeffreywilliams252
    @jeffreywilliams252 Před rokem +2

    I recently got remarried coming out of a unequally spiritual marriage of 12 years. I realized through this teaching that I failed as a partner to my x wife but I knew that I failed. I worry that I will be judged for failing her spiritually.

    • @dancoles2235
      @dancoles2235 Před rokem +2

      It is never too late for you to pray to God with a contrite spirit, focusing on his holiness, and confess truthfully what you know you have done sinfully to him. I did it recently, despite being a Christian for over 2 decades. And it brings tears but also gratitude and praise for a God that is holy, yet also forgiving, merciful, and graceful. When he forgives, it lifts a huge burden from your shoulders and it liberates you from guilt and accusations that forces of evil use against you.

    • @artemisk.2334
      @artemisk.2334 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Repent and do better while you walk with christ he will teach you slowly and better you, we are humans failing is something we do until we are perfected in christ Jesus!!

  • @timisalmela6720
    @timisalmela6720 Před 6 měsíci +1

    ThankYou - God bless you.
    A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. (Pro 12:4, KJV)

  • @keh-dalia809
    @keh-dalia809 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Excellent video. As a woman of God this is what I am looking for. And I'm not sure what happened, but a huge percentage of christian men in their 30's and under have not learned and/or were not taught this, and I see little difference between them and worldly men. It's really really sad. I pray for men whenever I think of it, and also we need more spiritual father figures so to speak helping raise up men. But it also has to do with men willing to submit to God and follow Christ, and I think, especially in the western culture, the pornographic hyper sexual culture is what has destroyed men so much and robbed them of growing spiritually and being blessed with this maturity in God. Essentially there has been an ahab type spirit where men have willingly forfeited their crown and their blessings for worldly pleasures, that the enemy has made so easily accessible, and then you have all these immature men who don't want to lift a finger and put in the effort and work for a real relationship because the counterfeits seem so easy, but it's destroying people. God bless you Vlad! You spoke the pure truth Glory to God AMEN!

  • @Christina_320
    @Christina_320 Před rokem +1

    Been praying for years and years for a Godly husband. Sometimes I just feel like giving up. Just seems impossible 😔😞

  • @jovitarich7078
    @jovitarich7078 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Pastor, may our Lord keeps blessing you with wisdom so that you keep teaching us. I am a divorced single 60 year old woman who loves to learn and now I understand why when I was married, I was so frustrated cuz I never felt loved.

  • @jsprague23
    @jsprague23 Před rokem +9

    My wife sent me this video. We recently were blessed with the opportunity to visit your church, we are from Meridian Idaho. The topic that Sunday was man's role in marriage. I must need to hear this more often as I am still growing and learning in several areas. I believe the area I need the most work is being "Proactive". I seem to wait for things to happen or for my wife to make things happen. This is mostly due to me being concerned about my career. That being said I think being more balanced in my approach would help me not neglect this important part of being a husband. Thank you and God Bless your ministry.

    • @lulzjeffy1337
      @lulzjeffy1337 Před rokem

      Sadly, this is representative of one of the members of my family and her kids. My aunt doesn't work. She could, she just doesn't. Has lived in low-income housing almost her entire adult life, has no wealth to her name, and lives off gov't checks. But the one thing her husband, her adult son, and she herself do ALL the time is buy BRAND NEW cars every few years. It's such a poor mindset that all they think they can aspire to is the next new car to make them "look" rich.

  • @kingdom__knowledge7073
    @kingdom__knowledge7073 Před rokem +20

    This video is really good, I like how you said that husbands need to learn how to understand their wives more. That’s something that I’m definitely going to add to my tool box 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mariosanchez779
    @mariosanchez779 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Wow, praise Jesus. This is a great tool for me as a man who has been married for 16 years glory to God. But also as a man who walks with the Lord and has two young sons. To help show them what a godly husband walks, talks, and acts like. I am truly blessed by the content of the video and going to share with many friends. Thanks

  • @brianabramsjr.7245
    @brianabramsjr.7245 Před rokem +6

    2:38 Great video. I do agree that it is a husbands role to provide for his family in many ways. However, I think its important to remember that Gen. 2:18 also calls a wife to take on the role of a helper. Neither husband or wife should reach a place of idleness, entitlement, or false expectations which may be the result of whatever worldly example of marriage that was modeled to us. Learning to be a Godly spouse requires patience and much humility.

    • @Shofargirl1
      @Shofargirl1 Před rokem +1

      GOD point ! You made me think of the Proverbs 31 woman.! 💕

    • @wesleyjakesta4095
      @wesleyjakesta4095 Před rokem

      Ministering and encouraging one another goes a long way

  • @Yeshuaseekinggirl
    @Yeshuaseekinggirl Před rokem +4

    My husband abandoned me and my young son that he was a step-dad figure to. He pursued me soooo hard under the name of Jesus. This has made my son question if Jesus is even real. My husband made his job and money an idol. Making 6. Figures. But now expects me to pay all bills while he does whatever he wants. Heartbreaking. I loved this man when he had nothing. He got this high paying job 10 mins after I prayed for a specific type of job in faith. I give glory to Jesus who says he gives favor to a man when he finds a wife. Now he just wants to keep it for himself.

    • @stephaniedegange2737
      @stephaniedegange2737 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Emmy, he will later realize money and power are meaningless. he is immature still at this time. hopefully he will realize this soon.

    • @TheExcellentFamily
      @TheExcellentFamily Před 11 měsíci +2

      Emmy, my heart feels for you & your son. I’m sure you’re walking through a very tough season. Fast & pray for your marriage; & keep your heart & mind laser focused on Jesus. It’ll keep the anger, frustration & bitterness at bay. Also know that Jesus/Yeshua is right there with you; & He sees you. I pray that God opens your husband’s eyes & for his deliverance; as well as for your steadfastness & healing. 🤗

  • @maxim7395
    @maxim7395 Před 26 dny

    Very good, on point. What really helped me to understand how to love my wife and what really opened my eyes was the podcast "the right fight." it changed my life, and I'm forever grateful. Once I understood my role as the husband and saw all the wrongs I've done, and understanding what love means, marriage became a beautiful thing. Being prideful is one of the biggest, if not the biggest killers of not only marriage but all relationships. Humble yourselves and love God, follow him, and the rest will come into its own place

  • @adamborkowski982
    @adamborkowski982 Před rokem +1

    Being the pastor of my family has been tricky lately. I have 4 step kids, and so I didn't get to be there since birth to guide and help them so woth minds of their own and not knowing much about God I've been trying and sometimes feel like they just listen so I shut up and don't take it seriously all the time and explain why I'm against some things that they don't understand so that has been a challenge for me. My wife is a believer as well, but she is a more private person, so I've caught myself trying to get her to have the same style as me. I just want my family on the right path, so if you guys could also pray for me and my family, I'd appreciate it very much. Thank you, and God Bless all of you!!

  • @fredericacho
    @fredericacho Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you pastor. i hope i will find the right man. i surrender to Him. Amen

  • @_Mercy101
    @_Mercy101 Před rokem

    Thank you for these Vitals truths!

  • @kessikarmali6588
    @kessikarmali6588 Před rokem

    Wow, Thank you Ps Vlad 💪🔥

  • @tucomtyler
    @tucomtyler Před rokem

    God bless Pastor Vlad!😊

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 Před 2 měsíci

    Yes yes yes vlad i have been seeking god in prayer and in his word . He has been healing me in every part of my life.

  • @southeast78
    @southeast78 Před 11 měsíci

    This message is truly a blessing. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @hadiyyahgbadoe8781
    @hadiyyahgbadoe8781 Před 11 měsíci

    Love this Vlad ❤

  • @janbotha571
    @janbotha571 Před 11 měsíci

    Awesome Pastor Vlad😊

  • @christianbernard8254
    @christianbernard8254 Před rokem +1

    Man on point, thanks, God continue to bless you.

  • @larrykoz4009
    @larrykoz4009 Před 6 měsíci

    Last night at church we discussed the need for Christian discipleship. What you are doing is a great example of what is needed. Not just for men but women, too. Discipleship is sadly lacking in all our churches. No wonder Christians are having the problems they are having.

  • @devon8trillionaire
    @devon8trillionaire Před rokem

    This was good thank you 👏🏾

  • @aarondmg
    @aarondmg Před 5 měsíci

    Awesome, thank you 🙏🏽

  • @Darjan_Spasojevic
    @Darjan_Spasojevic Před 11 měsíci

    God bless your family and yourself Vlad!

  • @Matthew-307
    @Matthew-307 Před 9 měsíci

    This blessed me, thank you

  • @alexvalerio2855
    @alexvalerio2855 Před 11 měsíci

    ❤amen❤ I have always felt this.

  • @tolulopefabusuyi6395
    @tolulopefabusuyi6395 Před 11 měsíci

    May God bless you for this word.

  • @curtisshepherd3882
    @curtisshepherd3882 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @abbz718
    @abbz718 Před rokem +1

    Your relationship videos are life changing! ❤️‍🔥🙏🏻

  • @susanmcmullen7789
    @susanmcmullen7789 Před rokem

    Thank you that was beautiful ❤✝️❤️🔥

  • @shawnhopkins8923
    @shawnhopkins8923 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks I needed this,

  • @sharonmisquitha5103
    @sharonmisquitha5103 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks Pastor Vlad. Learning so much from you.

  • @PIANOBYMAURICE
    @PIANOBYMAURICE Před 11 měsíci

    Excellent! Thanks brother. 🙏

  • @user-uc9jc4wb3d
    @user-uc9jc4wb3d Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you!

  • @bennycarpenter9368
    @bennycarpenter9368 Před rokem

    Thank you for this video I took notes so not to forget

  • @yuri_e83
    @yuri_e83 Před rokem +5

    Powerful 🔥

  • @amerielvescor8759
    @amerielvescor8759 Před rokem

    Thanks Pastor. God bless you....

  • @generationlove2817
    @generationlove2817 Před 11 měsíci

    Awesome.

  • @corporalflores
    @corporalflores Před 7 měsíci

    Great information

  • @Coolboyy24
    @Coolboyy24 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you Sir :) i learned a lot from this. God bless you Big Bro

  • @SonyaBrady
    @SonyaBrady Před 11 měsíci

    Wonderful video!!! Thank you

  • @blakemcknight4942
    @blakemcknight4942 Před rokem

    Thanks for your transparency brother Vlad in you own personal growth and struggle's. Bless you bro

  • @markenleyedmond9873
    @markenleyedmond9873 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @InKindness26
    @InKindness26 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks for this information. Glory be to God.

  • @StaySlick
    @StaySlick Před 11 měsíci

    One of the most helpful videos I’ve seen. Thank you Vlad.

  • @snowydove6510
    @snowydove6510 Před rokem

    Wow I love it thank you !!!

  • @nicoleknowlton3414
    @nicoleknowlton3414 Před měsícem

    Thank you for excellent content!! I will be using you and your wife’s video for our Premarital guidance meetings.

  • @marlanabeasley1790
    @marlanabeasley1790 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This is a beautiful teaching amen ! Ty Vlad

  • @samueldick9933
    @samueldick9933 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing pastor, this is very helpful

  • @riffkart329
    @riffkart329 Před 11 měsíci

    This brought me tears 😭😭!

  • @OscarGomez-wl8oh
    @OscarGomez-wl8oh Před 11 měsíci

    Great video

  • @edujyoung
    @edujyoung Před 11 měsíci

    This is very helpful brother. Very clear. Thank you.

  • @grabbabitewelfed1641
    @grabbabitewelfed1641 Před rokem +2

    Hello i really enjoy your messages, keep up the great work

  • @Trethevisionary
    @Trethevisionary Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. It definitely was enlightening and affirming.

  • @knightsofyeshua4048
    @knightsofyeshua4048 Před 5 měsíci

    I could learn to be more proactive and take more initiative. Growing up father wasn't present and he ran away from responsibilities. Not a good example to draw from . But I'm learning to be different. And I could learn to be more patient with my wife. Especially since we come from completely opposite backgrounds but with God all things are possible and I will continue with his help to do better and perform my role the way he commands us too . In Jesus name Amen 🙏

  • @sudak5
    @sudak5 Před 11 měsíci +6

    I pray that husbands would take the time to listen and receive this awesome powerful word! Lord speak to all husbands with this revelation word, in Jesus Name!

  • @VIVLEVON
    @VIVLEVON Před rokem +3

    Interesting I’m excited to see this!

  • @nia5128
    @nia5128 Před 11 měsíci

    This is awesome...and your parents sound amazing.

  • @andrethematrix
    @andrethematrix Před rokem +1

    Thanks for this Video. God bless you 🙏

  • @irisolwagen
    @irisolwagen Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. It's spot-on 👌🏻

  • @Luke-sg5ud
    @Luke-sg5ud Před 11 měsíci

    Great video man

  • @veronicavargas5299
    @veronicavargas5299 Před 10 měsíci

    THANK YOU PASTOR VLAD PRAYING FOR YOU

  • @Offical_Goatkid
    @Offical_Goatkid Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you Jesus for showing this video on my feed. Awesome video man!!

  • @debbiegosselin7395
    @debbiegosselin7395 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved the video. 😊❤

  • @eritert
    @eritert Před rokem +1

    All of these marriage related videos are so timely, thank you

  • @savedbygrace4535
    @savedbygrace4535 Před rokem +2

    Saving to watch over and over! Very rich very excellent message! God bless you brother for sharing this to the family(body)! Very much needed!❤🙏🏾🕊🔥

  • @roseluvslux7604
    @roseluvslux7604 Před 8 měsíci +1

    LOL!!! I sent this to my husband right before you said to do so!! This was an amazing video!! Thank you brother!

  • @msmissy143
    @msmissy143 Před 11 měsíci

    Amen, I loved this video...every word of it was right on point! Thank you, and may the power of God remain!