Why Modern Life Feels So ARTIFICIAL (and Dehumanizing)
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- čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
- In this eye-opening conversation, we delve into the artificial nature of our modern world and the impact it has on human connections. John Delani shares his insights on living in a "72 Degree World," where everything is perfectly controlled and artificial. We explore the concept of commodifying humans through technology, leading to a disconnect from genuine human interactions.
We discuss how constant exposure to digital content reprograms our brains, altering how we perceive and interact with others. The conversation takes a deeper turn as we examine the overwhelming responsibility of curating our own content and stories in an age where humans struggle with responsibility.
Join us as we address the challenges of building meaningful relationships in a digital world. We emphasize the importance of rehumanizing our interactions and creating digital attachments that foster genuine connections. Discover how different perspectives and shared values can bridge the gap between seemingly disparate individuals.
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Chapters:
00:00:00 - The Trap of the 72 Degree World
00:00:38 - The Effects of Adult Content on Brain Function
00:01:16 - Living in an Age of Self-Crafted Stories
00:01:49 - The Contextual Nature of Stories
00:02:24 - Responsibility in Content Curation
00:02:57 - Creating Digital Attachments and Building Relationships
00:03:28 - Finding Connection and Transformation
00:04:02 - Rehumanizing the conversation
00:04:31 - The Dehumanizing Process
00:05:05 - Watch the Full Episode
The cultural historian Warren Susman wrote about our transition from a culture of character to a culture of personality in the decades around 1900. Before then, the people with whom you interacted, knew who you were from long shared history. After then, people were anonymous in large cities, and had to "make a good first impression", to literally create a personality. The responsibility that John talks about didn't exist before then, or rather was embedded in the culture and the community.
The last 150 years have been all about shifting more and more psychic load from communal structures to the individual. It's no wonder that many individuals are coming apart at the seams from the pressure.
So interesting to see the biochemistry happening with social media. Everything being about division creating dopamine (political divide comes to mind) makes so much sense. It's like making us our own psychopaths in a way
3 men in my life:
the first -
was just a very young girl,
with zero self esteem,
and a much older,
VERY abusive man
the second -
was a symptom of self loathing
the third -
was a result of despair and desperation
I PRAY I CHANGE THIS PATTERN
I PRAY I HEAL
I pray the next man,
will be the last one.
the true one.
the real one.
this helps a lot, thank you for interviewing her! ❤
I'm happy to hear you've found this helpful! What resonated the most?
Amazing🎉
Where’s the full episode? I couldn’t find it, thanks!
It's the I wish you knew episode with Candice Horbacz. You can find it here: czcams.com/video/lQrxZ_TV02c/video.htmlfeature=shared
@@AttachmentAdam thank you so much!
I have serious questions about affairs
1 If i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating
Ps me and stephen are ex boyfriend and girlfriend we got history can that cause emotional affair to happen.
2 can i have affair without ever ever having no sex i am not interested sex at all.
I would say it's emotional cheating only if you don't share certain things with your now bf, but do with your ex. And/or if you feel more attached to you ex than your now bf. And/or if you are thinking about being with your ex. Because in the end, you can also have feelings for and feel attached to friends you've never had anything with nor wanted to, but you truly value and care for them as friends, and are happy to see them in a loving relationship with another person. And some people stay true friends with their exes, feeling the same as I've just described for friends. But be mindful that a lot of people would disagree with me.