When You Accidentally Insult Your Date | First Dates
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 23. 05. 2017
- Jo makes Robbie feel old when she guesses that he's almost 10 years older than he actually is!
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He was mad at the age thing so he decided to get her back by having her answer first and then decline, that was childish
Mel Raophala so true!!!! He could have answered before handđł
His loss hehe
Either way shes still the high value one
yup very childish. she dodged a bullet there
High value? She's got botox, filler, extensions, heavy, lumpy skin, giddy, and not to bright. Sounds like he dodged a bullet. At her age she's have a hard time finding a man.
If you're going to say no, don't 'allow' the other person to go first.
It was a pay back. Of course he let her go first.
Its a kind of revenge..i feel bad for her.. She develops a feels towords him.. Look at her eyes.. đ
not at all. if you look at his body language, he wasnt angry with her. and he might have thought she was going to say that he wasnt for her, and he didnt want to jump in first.
there was no bad feeling between them at all.
I think he wanted to get back at her
your name suits you well
i think her prediction was ok
Take her hair extensions off and she's an old lady
Well she also asked him if he was on Botox. lol
He looks like an alcoholic so that's aged him
Dude the mirror doesnât lie. Sheâs old too but she made an effort to look good and sheâs matured thinking than him. She can do better
Really?!? I would have said late 40s or early 50s
When you play the game "How old do you think I am" you must accept it might not always go your way...
jojo bee Very true.
A bit like Russian Roulette.
There was a girl who played that game with me . I thought she was 49 but she told me she was 39.
Like why does it even matter? If someone likes you enough to flirt with you and conversate with you then it doesn't matter how old you are or look, no one cares. When you like someone you like them.
It works both ways. Women don't take it well at all.
Looks fcking 60 to me
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Same, but out of politeness I would of said mid 50's.
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He called her a cheeky cow, for honestly answering a question he asked. She doesnât even owe him an apology. Geez. She dodged a bullet.
Oh, lighten up.
She's lucky. He is still going through a midlife crisis. I guess he was hoping she'd say 30. Can't believe he called her a "cheeky cow."
Allen B. LaCour So true đđ best comment!!!
Lol I think he said "you cheeky girl"
cheeky gal
Yes, "cheeky cow" is a much worse insult.
Is that as bad in England as it is in America? Or is cow some playful English term
Oh dude move on! It was a mistake and YOUR the one who asked her to guess!
You're *
Exactly
Waiting for flattery.
And how well do you think it would have gone down if it were the other way around?
@@resnonverba137 but it isn't like that here is it?
Sheâs a catch. Heâs clearly offended over nothing. Insecure man. Think heâs missed a real keeper there.
To be fair he does look like heâs in his late 50s maybe even early 60s. Itâs not like she was way off anyways. Itâs not a big deal!
why do people ask questions like this if they are just going to get offended and whine about it
When they ask this kind of questions, that mean they are expecting a good answer that they like. Of course it does not work like that in real life.
Its a trap!
Exactly
He was honestly so mad about that comment, whole night he was just thinking about that
Dude needs to get some real problems.
I mean, if this is something that is important to you, than you donÂŽt let that happen to you. You donÂŽt have to date again with an other person that insults you. :)
He was like a dog with a bone?..I thought he was about 56ish too,I dont get offended if ppl think Im older than I am..?
Amy Gregory yes he whinged on the whole night about it, heâs got one big ego that fella I personally think he fancied the waitress
Amy how old b u
Two words why he didnât go out with her again â HURT EGO â
She dodged a bullet there, the guy is massively insecure about his age and makes her feel bad about it.
He's more than just insecure, he's resentful too. He deliberatly tried to hurt her feelings because she hurt his.
Why are people bashing the lady, she was adorable !!! His loss, she can do better than a cranky old fool
*Nobody is bashing her at all*
@BullseyeBullsclaw I guess things have evolved since the 3 years I left this comment
Who bashed her ?
@@sweetspicy7880 probably all the incels who can't handle a man being insulted
@@shanfarco1574 Itâs ironic how you bash men by calling them incels while assuming they are bashing women. Hahaha, youâre such a hypocrite.
shame he's so vain and spat his dummy out. he's single cos he needs to grow up and not be so sensitive. who cares about how old someone looks. he's superficial
look here not everyone has to be same
jody, so what if she wears make up you judgmental piece of rag. Go way.
Clearly your identity is based on your looks. All these women with negative comments would not be saying this if a man guessed the wrong age.
I wish I could tell that to girls. But they hid behind their make up
Totally agree. Im 51 and have gone grey and look older.. not a big deal.
LOOOL the way the waitress stopped and walked backwards đđ
I think she looks gorgeous especially for an older woman. He just rejected her because he was bitter about her prediction. A bit childish really. I love how she stayed positive and took the rejection gracefully.
He should not have gotten so upset
I'm just glad they pretended to show an older white male younger woman match up. Usually that's tabu for globalists
4nomorewar Again I think that's the reason he didn't want to see her again, he was REALLY upset, kept bringing it up
how wood feel if that was u so u cant say noting
Paul Kearns - Happens to me often enough. Lots of young people feel entitled to someone their own age and get rude with older people who are in the process of getting to know them . One has to just blow past this test and show that you're cool with the comments. They'll often enough still agree to a relationship of varying degrees.
Lol he literally looked 60 61 and yet he got angry, people just should ask to guess if they are so self conscious
The age was a total turn off for him, he just paid her back by declining the offer đđđđ
Fardosa farah, yup he looked into her eyes and said, âI didnât feel the spark in her eyes.â He totally wanted to hurt her feelings but, she was a sport about it. Next....lol
Sequoiah Dreams, heâs acting like a bitter old witch.
He really is a little old hag!!
@@pauline8987 he's an old slaaaaaaag!
The waitress reaction was the funniest part. She moon walked out of there LOL.
i thought he is 59 or something! he doesn't look 51 at all!
I thought he was older. I would've thought he is about to retire!
@@westernalliance796 To be honest me too! :D))) i was just trying to be nice!
probably a smoker.
I have seen lots of smokers super beautiful, aging badly has nothing to do just with smoke!
@@Elle-xf8mw stress, poor diet, lack of exercise, bad genes, trauma, illness, sun bathing, i know. could be any of those.
I think she dodged a bullet. He's old enough to not get so upset over her guess. He asked for it. She told him the truth. He could have done better at hiding how "hurt" he was. Maybe joke about it and move on. He ruined the entire date just mentioning it and bringing it up over and OVER again. Let it go, seriously. If he's gonna be feel so hurt about one comment, then I can only imagine what will happen if they actually date and disagree on something. Looks like a cry baby to me. Thought she was cute and she can do better.
We get your age wrong its the end of the date. You want equality? Deal with it...
armst012 Who said it would be the end of the date if a guy guessed a girls age wrong? đ Then he would have dodged a bullet too. That's stupid đ Don't see why you're mad lol. I never said it was one sided.
Equality equals anger?
armst012
Seems like you're the angry one here lol. When did I ever mention that I'm not for equality? You somehow assumed that I'm sexist, but that shows ignorance on your part. If EITHER SEX got mad over something that stupid on a date and consequently ruined the rest, then they don't deserve a second chance. The end.
rachel addams armst012 has a point though. Most guys don't care about being called old (the guy on this show is not one of them and comes across someone who's not doing too well with handling his declining boyish good looks)
But MOST girls get their knickers in a twist and get hung up when you call them old. Oh and never mentions a girls weight too - another topic they're very touchy on
He probably said no just because of the age thing lol
he looks really old
I thought the same late 50's early 60's still do
He does look old to be honest
He looks like a grandfather.
Not really
Don't ask for an estimate then get pissed off with the result
I bet he asked her to go first, just so that he can get back at her for calling him 60-years old. He seemed to really liked her (the kiss and the cuddle at the end), but his ego got in the way.
This dude was way too vain. Thatâs what makes someone unattractive, regardless of their age imo.
The cheeky cow comment was not cool either đ. It wasnât light hearted banter, he was obviously tetchy and easily insulted . I hope she finds someone who is fun and less narcissistic!
Deluded and vain.
The Great Escape for her
He was hurt by the age thing. That shouldn't have been an issue. She's a lovely lady and would have been a great partner for him. Sometimes in life we miss out on great opportunities because we can't let go of little hurts and disappointments. I wish her well
He was hoping sheâd say, âlate 40âs?â and then surprise her with, âno actually Iâm 51.â
Late 50s = 57-59
Him = 51
She was 6-8 years out, get over it, it's 2018 nobody gets upset over being over aged any more. And he did look late 50s anyway.
dude need's to grow da fuk up . he does look 60 + , but you always should say a much lower age . some people can't handle the truth .
She handled it so well. Lovely lady.
She sure did . She's a lovely lady â€ïž
He got upset like a baby lol hey don't ask the next time! I think you lost a great opportunity to be happy.Good luck !
yup - between 58-65 in my books
Etta Buffet mine too. poor ego
In mine books too, he acts like a grumpy old grandpa.
He's Irish, we're FECKIN WEATHERED. He could pass for 20 back home
So true hahah
Lol
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That was a sledgehammer to his delicate ego
Hilarious. What a sensitive little flower. She dodged a bullet.
Anyone who asks their date to guess their age deserves the answer they get
the way that waitress just noped out of that convo was hilariousđ
That insulted him more actually
He would never find a women like her sheâs so lovely an beautiful
So, I'm 58 and that dude looks 10 years older than me. The lady was charming, glad she didn't end up with such a loser.
He was really pissed. I definitely guessed between 60-65
I bet he was super handsome when he was younger and had plenty of options but like a typical player, wasted he's time, playing the field and now wants to settle down in his 50s!..... you can tell he definitely got hurt by her guess..... underlayer reason: it's just now hitting him, that he's losing his touch and that's why he turned her down.... otherwise he would have said yes..... playing too much games, isn't going to help you.
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Somewhere in there i can see he might have been a slight young sean Connery
I agree... Typical story.
Correction: wants to settle down in his 60s lmao
True girl
I mean...he easily looks late 50's.
My dad is in his early 60's now and they look around the same age lol.
I have met this gentleman in a bar last year after he appeared on First Dates and I told him I recognised him from the show. I must admit he is very good looking in real life and a gentleman. x
Jackie Melvin maybe he fancied you Jackie, đđ€Łđđ€Łđ
@@Suzyfromtheblock Maybe ? Do you know him didn't get his full name. đ
Jackie Melvin no I donât know him Jackie, I have only watched this clip of him where he gets offended over his age â€ïž
His loss, she was probably the best offer heâs going to get at his age
Also how old does he think he looks - 40?
She was right he looked 60 !!! Truth hurts đ
Like she can talk lool boob job and Botox at her age she clearly canât accept her own age lool
She hurt his ego.... Men can't deal with it.
"You obviously worked hard"đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
he really made a big deal of it. he should have let it go and he's too freaking old to still think about "the spark". that spark is hard to come by and when it does, it's only temporary. she was a lovely lady and should have gone for her.
The moment she called him 'late 50s' he was gone.
The lesson of this video is.... Never ask a person to guess your age, unless you can handle their honest opinion.
Amazing what happens when your ego is bruised....you become spiteful and irrational. His loss ! đđšđŠ
We live in a society that made it difficult for people to age gracefully! And in some instances the more people do to try to look young it just makes them look ridiculous! These are both very attractive people and I wish them a lot of love!
couple of tips.. If someone asks you to guess their age... subtract 3-5 years from the age in your head... A compliment for everyone... However if you say an age he/she finds offensive cause it's older turn it into a compliment! go with "I think it's your eyes they look older like wisened" (idk how this works cause I use my first tip a lot) (but I do think it could work)
I think she did subtract 5 years and still concluded he was in his late 50s.
Vety thoughtful of you! Lol I wouldn't guess anyone over high school age.
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Zyrias Halcyon Going into dangerous territory with that "wizened look" comment. Best to stay away from it all together. Never answer that question. It's a trap!
Zyrias Halcyon Was chatting to someone when I was out shopping and she asked me if the dress she was trying looked too young for her..I said no its the kind of thing that 'we' could wear at 'our' age assuming she was a similar age to me..she was about 9 years younger than me..oops.
"I need to look at myself in the morning" HAHAHAHA
I mean, Iâm 20 years old but I have people who say I look 28 đ€Ł and the difference in looks between 20 and 28 is usually a decent amount vs. 50 and 60. I get why his ego was bruised but itâs not like she said heâs unattractive, which was reinforced when she said she wanted another date.
Waitress approaches, âI reckon late 50sâ, waitress exits đ priceless
His loss. Cranky old man. He looks 60+ to međđ
Don't ask a question that you may not like the answer. Fishing for a compliment is for a girl not a full-grown man.
My mum is 54 and she looks 10 years younger than him đ
His ego was dented he did not expect that and the thing is he does look like he is in his late fifties. The glare in the eyes though over the wine glass. I would have been onto that straight away. You dodged a bullet girl.
He looks 70
Clora Murphy yes he does đ€Łđđ€Łđđ€Łđđ€Łđ
Was looking for this comment, yaaas.
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What a vain man he is horrible he was gutted, she had an escape
I swear, I was about to say the same.
Dentures and all, 79 year old
I thought he was 63
He deafly got his own back at the end đ
Whenever they say "_____ is lovely girl/guy" you know they won't be seeing each other again....
I would have guessed that he was in his late 50's too,so I didn't think she was insulting him or even meant to... Shame,because they looked nice together...
The way that the waitress stopped and totally reversed out of that conversation had me rolling
When people get insulted that someone guesses they're older than they really are, they're sort of insulting older people in a way. Why is it so shocking and offensive to be assumed to be 58? Are there no good looking 58 year olds? Of course there are
Ngl he looked around 70 so in reality she was being nice
I think heâs a right silver fox! Handsome man! X
They both look early 60s
This was great, lol good on ya for seeing through whatever you may have seen through mate
That waitresses reaction! Perfect timing. :D "Ohhh shiiiit."
He does look older than his age. He's over sensitive I think.
lmfao the waitress reaction was amazing
Yet he still kisses her đ
Hannah McCallum I was so weirded out
Because he was most likely into her but turned her down because of the age thing. She definitely dodged a bullet. He's super petty
He has serious insecurities about his age, but i guess people from the 1950s tend to be that way.
So does she e.g why she had Botox and a boob job at her age she clearly canât accept her own age
Wow she got burnt big time at the end. I think he was jus saying no coz he was hurt abt her saying he looks older. If it was not abt that comment being said he would have said yes he clearly fancied her but his ego got in the way.
Ow totally!
I agree-he looks closer to 60 than 50!
Does this show really make them pay for the meal? Would've thought that was in the show's budget!
Katie May it's a proper date so it's not the restaurants job to do that, plus it says a lot about the guy if they pay ya know
HandsomeSquidward Pay for the whole meal? Why would they do that?
I think they reimburse them at the end. I believe itâs just to continue that aspect of a first date.
Katie May From what I understand, the show gives them ÂŁ50 each and if the meal and drinks cost more than that, the daters will cover the difference.
I wonder how many of them dine 'n' dash...
honestly, her guess was conservative. i'd have said coming up to mid-sixties.
He did look late 50s tbh
Omg, she was so lovely and she turned it into a joke, and he's so insecure and crazy that it's better for her he deciddd not to go with her again. What a crazy rascal that guy.
He does look older than his age, but he looks like he takes care of himself. He does not look bad at all just older.
What did he expected? That she would say 35? He looks 60.
He does look significantly older. No way, just 51. He looks like he's in his early 60's. She looks older too.
I can't stand people who ask you to guess their age and then get angry if you say they look older.
Can you imagine the outrage if he guessed her age and got it wrong ?
True lol I like how no oneâs commenting on this too many simps
If someone asks you to guess their age, the polite thing to do is always guess younger. He does look closer to 60 than 50.
Don't play the game.
If they insist, say you're acting 15. Too young for me.
If youâre gonna say no DONT embarrass them and let them say yes to you first !! Thatâs horrible
fred nerk what do you mean whyđ itâs obvious, so the other person isnât embarrassed for no reason
She has no problem stuffing her face while judging him... Lol
Let it go man! Hahaha. I could tell he wanted to keep talking about it but knew he should stop
Cheeky Cow đ±đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł It doesnât matter how old he is, heâs still handsome, manly, had good manners and heâs well dressed. And if you, the guy in the date reads this, please donât do anything to your face! You look quite fine just the way you are.
Vain and inflated ego. Asked for honest answer got it.
Should have been titled the Great Escape.
Most people here very happy for you to have.
No returns.
My father was 76 years old when he passed away and he had better skin than this guy. I would never ever guess that he was JUST 51!!! đ”đ”đ”
Sorry man, she's 100% right. You're a handsome guy regardless so don't get upset.
Oh dear, some people can't accept that growing older is inevitable if you're lucky. As they say, "Any day above ground is a good day". His reaction is telling of someone who has always banked on their looks, but has trouble accepting the natural changes that comes with age. Grey hairs make you seem older. Point blank. But age ain't nothing but a number.
That can be said for the woman too who canât accept her age as she needs surgeries done boob job Botox like really lol
He's a 51-year-old BOY! Woman, you dodged a bullet.
Some tiger coat that one
The guy totally over-reacted. Don't ask someone your age if you can't handle their honesty....
Late fifties was a compliment. Lol