Dater Exposed For Having Partner & Cheating On The Show! | First Dates USA
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- Meet Jennifer an entrepreneur who's been incredibly successful in business but not so much in love. Will she finally move on from just being a 'one date wonder'? Jen's date is Michael, an IT specialist looking for a strong woman. Or is he?? 🤔
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I hope she gets invited back and gets a second chance. She's lovely.
Garbage convo about moving furniture and being lonely
@@escape_from_consent_city and sloppy drunk sounding.
In what way? Her description for a loving partner was a moving man, and someone who does chores. And she sounded drunk.
Her intuitions were spot on. The audacity for him to go on a televised blind date when he already had someone in his life. SMH.
she just had a lot of training
His girl probably knows about it and only let him do it for the money
@@rachaelramos If that was true, he wouldn't have been lying to her on the phone before the date.
Hopefully, someone will find his Facebook profile and let his wife know what he's really doing.
Of not for
'I'm a private person' but goes on television show to date even though he has a partner, my God! there are no words, poor lady she deserves better.
She should have locked a man down in her prime now she’s nearly 40 she’s got no chance of finding a top tier man.
@@jameshumphries5059 I disagree with that, there maybe not many good men out there, but it's not a complete lost cause for middle aged women.
@@sarahcellblockh1562 - You’re right it’s not a lost cause but we can’t deny the fact that men do like younger women. You as a women yourself will know how much attention you get from men age 18-24. And how much they changes when you’re nearly 40. The issue for older women is that they won’t lower their standards. You might get the 6’1, in shape, rich guy when you’re 19 but you at age 40. I think this is where feminism has lied to women because your best bet as a women is to find the best man you can in your prime and get a ring out of him, have children and focus on your career later once you have him locked down.
@@jameshumphries5059 you sound hurt lol
@@sssp7801 - It’s what I do for a living I’m trying to educate. It’s funny how whenever I tell the truth to women I get “who hurt you” haha “what’s your relationship with your mother like” I’m a married man with 3 children who has a great relationship with his mother. I’m telling women the truth because nobody tells you guys the truth.
Michael - looking for a woman who doesn't play games.
Also Michael - plays games himself.
This is why I'm suspicious when a guy lists that as something he looks for in a woman. Either it means he's been cheated on and has trust issues, or he's a cheater himself.
🤣🤣 every guys says that. When there the game player 🤣🤣
“I’m looking for a woman who doesn’t play games” - like I do. There can only be one player in this union.
He’s a narcissist
He doesn’t want competition 😂
Love that the crew knew he was cheating as soon as he showed up but they still made that poor woman go through the entire evening with him just so they could have their gotcha moment at the end 🙄
They need the content
This is EXACTLY what I was going to say. They knew, but entertainment comes before kindness. This poor lady took time out of her busy life to come here, and this is what they give her, smh.
I agree! This show was disgusting! No gotcha moment should ever have happened! Nix it at the start!
They need the drama for views
Maybe they didn't know how to approach it and since the call was right before the date, they were seeing maybe he would be honest that he's not monogamous but since he was closed off and deceitful the entire date then the crew decided to intervene for the womans sake. You can't judge the crew for how they approached it. I'm glad they outed this dirtbag
Michael: “I do impersonations”
Also Michael : “I impersonate being a single man…poorly.”
No…he said “I do imitations”…..not impressions,,,,which shows his level of ignorance. But he does imitate a man looking for a date, but the reality is he is looking for a quick hookup. Creep!
His Arnold impression was horrible.
😂😂😂
This is top comment!!
If a guy says hes not a nice guy--believe him!!
Very true..
"I would like to call you. Can I call?"
"No"
Good on her! Yass, Queen!
Yass is a town 40 miles from me.
@@pauljordan4452💀
Men like him who lie so easily, so often, without remorse, ruin everything not only for women, also for men because sociopaths like that guy cause women to be suspicious of even the good, evolved, honest men who deserve to be trusted.
that's why it's a good idea to see the guy's home as soon as possible or when things come to that
This is so true and extremely sad all we can do is be like the producer on this and call it out when we see it as much as we can give guys like this less of a chance they really don’t deserve the ‘privacy’
Well Said ❤
Decent that the crew called him out. Shows some degree of integrity. Most of these shows would have said nothing just to sell the drama. Absolute dog of a guy.
It sounded like the producer was offended.
Good.
They also let the date happen anyway without telling the lady only to call him out at the end to create/allow the drama to happen...
This guy is the textbook definition of a player.
Or at least wants to be.
I’m a very private person yet he’s in a relationship and goes on a blind date on tv, well done he mastered the privacy part 👏🏼
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 my stomach! 😅😆
She tells a lot about her history if you listen good. She must have been thru a lot .... But we all can see she is an authentic sweetheart ❤️🙏
She should definitely not quit. She's super smart and aware and able to tweak a convo toward her own interests. I think she's lovely and an impressive lady, she deserves awesome.
That dude was unbelievable! Going on live television for a date and he calls his girl seconds before going in for the date.
While feeding the girl on the phone absolute garbage!
Wow I hope whomever he has at home gets to see this.
He's gonna tell her that it was an "acting" gig😂
He wasn’t cheating he’s a single man going on dates
@@jeanp1323 I truly think it was acting gig for both of them
What a sleeze bag! Thank you to the crew for calling him out!
Omg bring this lady back. She's amazing and deserves someone!
Poor woman. Wasting her time!
He makes my skin crawl.
To women, especially the naive girls. Cheaters often use 'cousin' as a code. Red flag!
"Everybody has something..." Yeah, you have a girlfriend and a lot of nerve. How did he think this would end positively, especially after it aired?
I love that they called him out!! So awkward
He’s not even good looking. He looks like a cartoon character. She deserves better!
Ahahahah the producer is SAVAGE for exposing him.
As horrible as that turned out, it shows that it doesn't matter how beautiful, smart, successful, etc., you are, finding love is never guaranteed or will be easy!
well said. that's why a lot of women monkey branch. but then find out it's really a jungle out there
@@kabysummit5801 I've never heard the term "monkey branching"! Does it mean swinging from one person to the next but keeping a hold of the last person, just in case? I'm 56, haha!
@@Skeezer66 it's a term used in some of these yt relationships gurus talking about hypergamy, mainly in the female realm. Your definition is pretty much spot on. Women who will stay with a man through thick and thin are out there, just the current situation seems more dire.
@@kabysummit5801 Thanks!
I would bet that the more beautiful and successful a person is, the more likely they will cheat. They have more options and temptations to do so.
I love how she said noo at the end lol best part
It's scary how charming, smooth and well-spoken the guy is.... I'm grateful for my sweet cats currently considering how many liers and scumbags there are 😬
His eyes are dead, he felt pretty shallow. Some people date as if it was a sport, as if they were going to the gym and didn't want to.
she deserved so much better; she is brilliant and beautiful.
i liked her too. but comon' can't judge a book by its cover in 20 minutes, especially ones so curated
dont give up jennifer you deserve a honest truthfull and trustworthy man.
I don’t find him appealing in any way, shape, or form. There is nothing about him I find attractive
I think he finds himself appealing.
Damn, she had a good radar
Or she might be just super suspicious about anyone she dates because 2 of the guys she dated were married 😬
I don’t understand why he was freaking out? If he was worried about getting caught, why would he possibly go on TV?
Always listen to your intuition - well done to that lovely lady! That man is gross
What a twist at the end! Playa got played. 🤣
The moment any guy looks at him, we can tell he's a playa. Hope his wife/girlfriend sees this and dumps him, based on what I've seen with this type it's unlikely though. Feel sorry for her 😔
Women go for them even when it´s obvious. They rather have experienced player than shy good guy.
@@PROVOCATEURSK I prefer shy good guys personally
@@PROVOCATEURSK SOME women
Interesting that he tells her he is a crap person. She ignores that.
They say people do admit who they are, on first meeting - but people think they are joking or don't listen.
It is so hard to believe this attractive woman is battling. She needs to do some volunteer work at animal rescues, at wildlife rescues, at fundraisers for disabled people, and not tell people she is successful. Get to know the men there slowly, know they have the kindest hearts, and not let on about her success. Dress down a bit, too.
How great to have someone think you are gorgeous, when you are looking your mankiest...
@@PROVOCATEURSK This lady was able to pick up on him being a problem almost right away. I personally would take the shy good guy any day,. Most women who go for guys like him are young and inexperienced at least when they first met them.
@@PROVOCATEURSK it sounds like you have a lot of cognitive distortions, biases, that inform your interpretations of others (women notably)....and likely yourself.
Saying things as absolutes, is myopic and cognitively simple. It is a desperate grasp at certainty, to try to make sense of the world...the world is uncertain and unpredictable. Your "rules" of how you believe it to work, is so far off.
You cannot categorize one whole half of the population, into extreme generalizations. It's wholly inaccurate.
Most people pick partners based on their conditioning from childhood. There are 4 main attachment styles. Those are the biggest driver of who we pick and why.
Also, many "good" guys, that are self-proclaimed...are far from. They are playing a persona, of a "nice" guy, with the manipulative intent, of getting what they want.
A real good guy, doesn't have limiting beliefs like you. They are self aware, open, cognitively flexible, introspective.
Develop some introspection and metacognition....you need to self evaluate, and question your thoughts a lot more.
She’s way way way too good for him. I wish her the best of luck on her next date
His body language was, "I tell NO truth".
When people tell you who they are, believe them.
I said same! He told her he was a rotter - and it is taken light heartedly, or seen as really modestly humorous, and people don't want to believe what they are being told.
The most horrible people often say that they're nice. I've seen that way more often than the bad person admitting they're bad. Most want to hide their shadow, not expose it.
@@other7128 if someone has to say they’re nice, they’re deff the opposite. Nice people don’t bother to announce things like this. They feel no need to.
@@weepinginanger exactly
@@weepinginanger my thought exactly.. and the same goes for "I'm a gentleman".
she deserves better for sure, poor man so insecure and no values.
“I wasn’t expecting all this…” You mean you weren’t expecting the truth?
Classic narcissist deeply in love with himself. Always downplay their magnificence so you can juice them up.
I felt so bad for her..I hope she finds her true love someday ❤️ 💙 💜 💖
The nerve of this guy, coming on a televised date and literally lying to his partner on the phone outside the restaurant. I hope his partner dumped him when she found out.
They should give her another date 😢
I love this woman! She seems so lively and genuine, please find her another date!!! 🥰
This woman clearly deserves better. I hope she catches a break soon.
I bet the person he was talking to, is married to someone he knows, that lives close to his home, and they are cheating together. This means it would make sense that he thinks it's ok to go on national TV for a date because he isn't actually in a relationship. This also makes sense why he is being so secretive and defensive even after he was caught
I think it's someone he lives with but isn't married to because on the phone he said to them he'll 'be home early' and then he kept emphasizing that he's 'not married' like he thinks he isn't doing anything wrong because he's not actually married yet. So twisted.
That’s an amazing theory
The UK version would have not let the date even begin, or air for that matter, if they knew he was cheating.
It's good they did air it. Hopefully, the woman he called was fortunate enough to see it.
Nah. An asst. producer overheard it literally seconds before the date started. By the time a decision would have been made to stop the date they would have had to make a scene in the middle of the restaurant and likely embarrass her. They handled it the right way. She already has a strong suspicion about him.
The producers need to be in jail for playing with people's feelings.. poor girl..
He's looking for someone that doesn't play games. 😂
So the guy is in a relationship and goes on a televised dating show?
Don't ever trust a guy that talks out of one side of his mouth. 🤦
zero spark - the light went out of her eyes the moment she saw him.
She saw that he was a playboy right away. I also was just: oh,oh,he is a player....and to young...
U think so? Maybe. I thought she did, but was guarded as hell, luckily, due to him and dudes like him. I think had he turned out to not be a flop she would have been into him. Poor girl
imagine all the "presentations" he had to go to even though he doesn't want to be there.. poor girl
I remember this and I know it’s a tv show but they should of stopped the date once they heard him on that call.
But how did they record him?
@@NecromancerTO It's all staged. They put the microphones on him first. Then he went on to talk on the phone pretending he didn't know he had the microphones on him? :))
absolutely, very deceiving and conniving in Alpha Narcissist type of way😮
She’s brill said “ I didn’t know more about him from the moment we met “ then he froze when asked a simple question “ we’re you talking to anyone one the way 2 THE DATE
Well he was talking about himself truthfully right there. Listen and they will always tell you
hes seems shady just by listening to him speak
How u gonna ask the girl a second date after that 😂
Good luck lady! I felt for you. Keep going. You're right there are good men out there. KeepSmiling 🌺😊
Oh no the way he was dressed screams player🤣
Why do participants sound drunk, must be horrible to have to have alcohol to have courage for life
It is horrible trust me, addiction is a sad thing to live with in your shadow.
@@capnfuzzybutt 🤗
she sounded very drunk.
BEING LATE IS A DEFINITE NO NO.
it's funny how people show their cards but put them as jokes, him going "looks are deceiving, I'm a terrible person", that was a red flag she brushed off. listen to people!
She didn't brush it off. She was quietly tallying up the red flags with this chump.
She didn't though. In the bathroom you can hear she's dubious of him.
The guy didn't even take a bite of food. Sat there looking like an amateur hoping to get spotted. Or maybe he is actually an actor ...
The US version of this show has a different feeling compared to the UK one...I can't put my finger on it.
They create unnecessary drama. They set up this situation for entertainment rather than helping people find love. For them, entertainment comes first. I noticed that when comparing the US and UK version of Kitchen Nightmares too.
It’s because it’s staged like everything else is here.
They're less classy... UK version is definitely better
Well you like genuine interactions whereas we like Jerry Springer for better or worse. That's the difference.
UK version genuinely tries to match people, the US version deliberately mismatches them (that’s putting the finger on it).
Jennifer doesn't deserve to be treated that way. Sorry.
It's weird that a program as big as "First Dates" doesn't have background check process prior to choosing whom to shoot.
No, he doesn’t deserve Jennifer and Jennifer deserves better (I hope that’s what you were trying to say)
@@caitlingill Hi. Thanks for the evaluation. I meant: "Jennifer doesn't deserve to be treated that way. Sorry."
you can't background check a live-in girlfriend, only a legal spouse
Crazy how people tell you exactly who they are but we over look it. He jokingly said “looks can be deceiving” and that he is a “terrible, awful human being” but still there is some truth to jokes.
Busted. I hope his wife watches this.
or his husband
@@stifflery nice plot twist.
If they heard the phone call he was making earlier, why they make him meet her.😡.
Feel so bad for her.
Hope it wasnt staged for rating .
Is she drunk? I'm confused.
This has to be a set up. Who cheats on TV??
Why would he come on a tv show... Has to be a casted actor right?
I thought his impersonation of Arnold was of Ronnie from Jersey Shore 🤣
So he already had a microphone etc on him and was having that private conversation. Guess he could have forgot. He does have a bit of a sleazy look!
A woman with a grade head on the shoulders would NOT want someone like him who is just looking to take advantage of her. He is actually disgusting human inside who trying to bust his ego by cheating and lying to others and pretending to be somebody he is not
they need to do a deep dive on who they have on their show!
"Im a terrible, awful human being"
Lol, he's not wrong.
She did absolutely nothing wrong I have gone through this exact same scenario and this guy is just your typical smuck cheese ball liar not to be trusted I've met my handful of those exact type of guys. She's a badass she stuck to her wits.
Word.
So surprised she has such bad luck dating , she’s such a lovely woman He is a typical play boy can only make any women unhappy This lady deserves so much better , she so transparent and positive and hopefully will attract a different type of man in the future Someone beautiful on the inside preferably . What goes around comes around 😊
So the producer knew he had a partner before the date and let her and episode go through with it?
You’re on a first date, he was texting while you were away from the table. Why are you asking him who he is texting. That’s just red flags.
He's trading up, until he finds a free ride. Looks slippery. Is slippery.
Where can we watch the USA series in the UK?
He wasn't lieing when he said he was an awful human being...
This is from first dates USA about 8 years ago and sadly we never got to get a season 2 because it was produced by Ellen Degeneres and Drew Barrymore who famously fell out behind the scenes due to creative differences about the direction in which to take the show. Shame as the American version has a totally different vibe to the uk show
Nothing like saying “turds” on a dating show 😂
He didn’t look very trustworthy.😎😎😎😎😎😎
I concur.
Such a scoundrel. Her intuitions were right.
In the beginning he said he wasn't s good guy. People tell you who they are.. believe them!
She lacks confidence, and he has commitment issues, neither go well together. Would never have worked out even if he didn't have a partner. (I'm not advocating someone cheat behind the others back) His now partner will soon find out he has commitment issues, if she hasn't already.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Making him uncomfortable but he’s on national tv on a dating show?!?
When it sounds too good to be true it most certainly is
Hope they give her another first date experience
Someone needs to explain the word momentarily to the bartender 😂😂😂
Yeah, Americans use it this way all the time!really frustrates me.
Well no second date so both uses work.
@@scottuto fair point, on this occasion
Seems like such a nice lady
Here in the Uk we’re on season 19 - watch ours
Feel sorry for her. The producers didn’t do their research very well. And did he not think this was going to be a TV/Internet so his girlfriend would find out??
He could of lie though
@@Maz-zb9uf well I think it’s pretty clear he did lie to get on show. And maybe the producers did some due diligence and he hid it well. But nowadays can find out quite a bit online via Google/social media and find evidence
He’s clearly not the sharpest tool
I don't think this was a new one. The US ones are taking place in Chicago this was New York but yeah I remember this one.
I agree. I’m pretty sure I’ve seen it on their channel before.
@@Em-fz5uh I've definitely seen this before but thought it was from the UK one...Unless it happened on the UK one too, but I remember that phone conversation being eerily similar.
He was talking for a minute and the red flagometre was on blast. Poor girl