Changing Your Life With Stoic Philosophy | Ryan Holiday Speaks To USC Football

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  • The South Carolina Gamecocks asked Ryan Holiday to speak to the football team about ego and how to avoid it. Learn more about Stoicism and overcoming ego here: dailystoic.com/freeguide
    A bonus upload this week of the long version of the talk Ryan Holiday gave to the USC Gamecocks. In it, Ryan discusses ego and the role it has played in the lives of great people in history, from Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius to Kirk Hammett and Malcolm X. This is an in-depth look at the destruction ego can cause, the importance of observing its effects, and how to avoid it from controlling you.
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Komentáře • 320

  • @DailyStoic
    @DailyStoic  Před 5 lety +73

    What were the most impactful parts of this talk for you?

    • @Human_Evolution-
      @Human_Evolution- Před 5 lety +38

      The humbleness of focusing on getting better all the time rather than stroking your ego. (The Metallica part).

    • @fellow9yro578
      @fellow9yro578 Před 5 lety +21

      Malcolm X part....I love the idea of using your deadline to your most alive time....the idea that every moment in some way we can get stronger and stronger is so inspiring

    • @DailyStoic
      @DailyStoic  Před 5 lety +10

      @@Human_Evolution- an amazing example of adopting the student's mindset

    • @DailyStoic
      @DailyStoic  Před 5 lety +21

      @@fellow9yro578 If Malcolm X can turn jail time into alive time, we can turn our days of freedom into alive time certainly

    • @PerryBattles
      @PerryBattles Před 5 lety +2

      Daily Stoic The internal vs external score card part was big for me.

  • @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry
    @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry Před 4 lety +218

    A great antidote to the Golden Age of Narcissism.

  • @teamwpventure
    @teamwpventure Před 4 lety +124

    Each night before bed I always find myself thinking about how lucky I am to be alive and able to experience the precious moments life gives us.

    • @vatrweaver5169
      @vatrweaver5169 Před 4 lety +1

      Out of 2 billion spermatozoids, end up a winner? So upsetting !

  • @mzwandilemhlongo7074
    @mzwandilemhlongo7074 Před 4 lety +50

    "Do not place your identity in the outcome, but rather, in the input of your efforts"

  • @73freebyrd
    @73freebyrd Před 4 lety +44

    "you focus not on how good you are, not on what you've done, but on how much better you can get"

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 Před 4 lety +54

    "Where i am putting my identity is not in the outcome but in the input...Wow i love that.Thats solid for me.14:10

    • @carolmosher7745
      @carolmosher7745 Před 4 lety +1

      If there is no outcome what is the point?

    • @raymondtendau2749
      @raymondtendau2749 Před 4 lety +2

      @@carolmosher7745 you got it wrong bro. He never said there is no outcome.Read again i recommend.

    • @carolmosher7745
      @carolmosher7745 Před 4 lety

      @@raymondtendau2749 Ok, so you compete but you don't win? You build but you don't complete? What is the point of that? Ego is all about outcome. It's why we exist!

    • @raymondtendau2749
      @raymondtendau2749 Před 4 lety +1

      @@carolmosher7745 Unfortunately,you still decide to Misunderstand it,thats your choice tho,you are right i think😂

  • @YukoYoshikane82
    @YukoYoshikane82 Před 3 lety +8

    The best thing happened to me during this pandemic : Robert Greene, Ryan Holiday, then it leads me to Stoic Philosophy 🙏🏼 Hard time, but I start appreciating everything happening to me 🙏🏼 I’m slowly but changing !!!! Thank you

  • @carlosf3421
    @carlosf3421 Před 4 lety +180

    He who humbles himself will be exalted, he who exalts himself will be humbled. - Jesus Christ

    • @easylife6348
      @easylife6348 Před 4 lety +10

      Just like buddha says, "learn how to suffer so you wont suffer no more."

    • @veggi23
      @veggi23 Před 4 lety +2

      The majority of the worlds religions teach the same thing - be humble and learn. This makes sense that this universal idea was.echoed in the religions and major secular thinkers before, during and after Christianity.

  • @faustopf-.
    @faustopf-. Před 4 lety +4

    I can't even explain how grateful I am to have found your books and CZcams channel. Thanks for this jewel

  • @laytonfrancis3036
    @laytonfrancis3036 Před 4 lety +14

    You've just blown my head off🤯 !! I always look at the world with a positive attitude and try to be humble too but I just had to subscribe to your channel sooooo much truth in what your saying. Love ❤️ what you do ! keep up the good work!👍🏾🙌🏾

  • @rationalmystic5
    @rationalmystic5 Před 4 lety +2

    I'm just 8 min into this talk and already I can see how good Ryan has become in delivering his talk. He is sharper with great flow and punchlines in between. Really engaging to watch. I have seen most of his previous talks and I can really tell the difference in the before and now. Great job sir. Great job.

  • @creepinwhileyousleepin
    @creepinwhileyousleepin Před 2 lety +1

    Very easy to lose sight of these things day to day. Good talk

  • @cautious1343
    @cautious1343 Před 4 lety +11

    Keeping ego at bay by always striving to get better could be the most impactful part for me. But the part that exposes how ego limits us is very useful also.

    • @True38
      @True38 Před 4 lety +1

      Working, studying, learning and working out, and be around other people are great methods for keeping yourself humble and gracious. Staying home alone and engaging in social media will easily create a puffed-up ego and false image. This is why having any kind of job is so important.

  • @Abheydeep
    @Abheydeep Před 4 lety +2

    Hello Ryan. How the fuck did you learn so much at such a young age. I have a tremendous amount of respect and gratitude for you. You are a great student, teacher and a mentor. Thanks and wish you all the humility .

  • @shimishiba2317
    @shimishiba2317 Před 4 lety +19

    Super inspiring for everybody. We all struggle with our ego. Its so much more attractive to have your own personal successes yet remain humble throughout.

  • @satnamo
    @satnamo Před 4 lety +16

    The death of the ego is the awaken of the soul; ego is the enemy.

  • @climbeverest
    @climbeverest Před 2 lety +1

    I am crying as I hear this, I wish I had been schooled in this. I should have known this 60 years ago. In middle to high school and college.

  • @pinkvalentino
    @pinkvalentino Před 4 lety +1

    This message takes on a new meaning during those crazy time! Instead of watching tv, scroll though SM, take a book, learn, so we can leave the isolation better than when it's all started!

  • @carloscortesi9313
    @carloscortesi9313 Před 4 lety +2

    We need more videos like this! Love the book, thank you for making it!

  • @KatyWantsToGo
    @KatyWantsToGo Před 4 lety +9

    My ego is my friend, we hang out... Some say they have a soul, I am a soul and I have an ego. When I finally learned the difference between the the two voices, everything changed...

  • @prometheus9489
    @prometheus9489 Před 2 lety

    Such an enlightening lecture. Simple yet profound. Thanks Ryan👍👍

  • @anahopkins7006
    @anahopkins7006 Před 5 lety +7

    What a great video! The most impactful were the examples of leaders who do the right thing when the right thing affects them negatively. Such an aspirational goal!

    • @DailyStoic
      @DailyStoic  Před 5 lety +4

      Selfless leadership is incredibly inspiring

  • @richardbanks6637
    @richardbanks6637 Před 3 lety +1

    Great summary. I'm fairly familiar with stoicism and keep it close to my hear but this brings it back down to earth well.

  • @ivybanerjee5865
    @ivybanerjee5865 Před 4 lety

    For someone so young...yr insights are wonderful...just shows how a soul is ageless.....bravo!👍

  • @knelson
    @knelson Před 4 lety +4

    I'm impressed by how clear and moving your message is, officially a new subscriber!

  • @PratikRajNahata
    @PratikRajNahata Před 3 lety

    Can’t get over of this amazing video. I get so pumped. Thanks for sharing🙏

  • @andreasleonlandgren3092
    @andreasleonlandgren3092 Před 4 lety +4

    Learn it till you earn it.
    Great video.
    Love this perspective.

  • @charliesheen3019
    @charliesheen3019 Před 4 lety +2

    This is such a brilliant talk, I loved it!

  • @splonkdesplonk
    @splonkdesplonk Před 4 lety

    Incredible insights for a truly balanced life. Wisdom at its finest, great job Ryan

  • @coreysmithson9685
    @coreysmithson9685 Před 4 lety +37

    CZcams : "Here's a speech on stoicism."
    Me: "Okay, sure."
    Ryan : "This is Kirk Hammett..."
    Me: *Subscribe*

  • @makaylahollywood3677
    @makaylahollywood3677 Před 4 lety +2

    I hope this will be mandated curriculum in every classroom from this day forward, starting in 8th grade, or high school. Your ideas are big. People will see how valuable this is, probably late.

  • @lovealways2609
    @lovealways2609 Před 4 lety

    you definetly are developing your gift of identifying and broadcasting~ the simplest~ concise~ yet~ most helpful ideas and concepts for well adjusted life~
    This ~ helps ~
    Alot ~

  • @stephanienguyen5539
    @stephanienguyen5539 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @ChristChickAutistic
    @ChristChickAutistic Před 4 lety +2

    Taoism brought me here. Subscribed!

  • @El_p4ancho
    @El_p4ancho Před 2 lety +2

    “Why shall the Roman people suffer if I don’t feel it first “ absolutely love that

  • @sinistergeek
    @sinistergeek Před 4 lety +1

    Amazing talk..we need to embrace of what we are ? Don't let ego get the best of you...

  • @Tykoon25
    @Tykoon25 Před 3 lety

    I learn so much from you, THANK YOU!!!!!!! social media is the enemy it distract me from being my best potential, it consumes my mind an I feel drained afterwards

  • @tinahansen6377
    @tinahansen6377 Před 3 lety

    One of the best lectures I have ever seen!

  • @billytinsel95
    @billytinsel95 Před 3 lety

    I subscribed yesterday. Just listened. Very good. Im learning

  • @AlbertoSalas
    @AlbertoSalas Před 4 lety +2

    Awesome information. Thank you

  • @JB-nn3rz
    @JB-nn3rz Před 4 lety +1

    I watch your videos and I think it's working out many thanks iv led a HECTIC SELF CENTRED APPROACH TO LIFE IM TRYING TO BE A BETTER PERSON THAN BEFORE AND THESE ARE HELPING ME 💯💚✌

  • @millionairejeffjr
    @millionairejeffjr Před 4 lety

    Great content. Thank you for sharing!

  • @edwinvalentinocamacho7220

    The reality of his words and how he defines this mindset to live freely with being intune with oneself " humility and being present , learning to not worry about anything ...

  • @SWAENC
    @SWAENC Před 3 lety

    As a guitarist , you touched my soul

  • @stephentimoney
    @stephentimoney Před 5 lety +15

    The idea that you should lean on confidence over ego and confidence is based on your experiences, learning and practice of your craft! Leaning on ego is like walking with your shoes untied, eventually you will trip up.

    • @carolmosher7745
      @carolmosher7745 Před 4 lety

      Ego is the engine that drives confidence. Without Ego there is nothing.

  • @charlesfrey660
    @charlesfrey660 Před 5 lety +2

    Kick ass, well said. Keep it up. Real Deal Stuff

  • @kaboyonicholas2094
    @kaboyonicholas2094 Před 4 lety

    Because of this message of all I have listened to from u...I wanted to subscribe twice🤣, infact I wanted to like twice, but truth is i needed this so much

  • @user-uw7lu2sp5n
    @user-uw7lu2sp5n Před rokem

    Great speech ryan you got me thinking

  • @nancyvasquez9412
    @nancyvasquez9412 Před 3 lety

    Awesome video, thank you!

  • @jennamarsey3247
    @jennamarsey3247 Před 4 lety +1

    I have ur book and I love ur videos. Keep doing you man.

  • @zynetik
    @zynetik Před rokem

    I´m almost done with this video, but the one thing that caught my attention is post-traumatic growth. I once injured my whole back practicing archery and I was forced to take an 8 month break. When I came back, I had the best season of my life and that was even better when I missed half of it due to the injury

  • @Hshjshshjsj72727
    @Hshjshshjsj72727 Před 4 lety

    great talk! worth re-watching

  • @timothywhitworthjr2217

    Thank you!

  • @getstarted7168
    @getstarted7168 Před 2 lety +1

    "I write about the ancient stoics a lot in my books"
    -- Ryan providing the greatest understatement in CZcams history.

  • @jeremyjensen4385
    @jeremyjensen4385 Před 4 lety

    You are awesome Ryan thank you

  • @michaelho7727
    @michaelho7727 Před 4 lety +2

    Wish I could give this 10 thumbs up. Literally first thing in CZcams where I turned on my notifications

  • @mnewt712
    @mnewt712 Před 4 lety

    Love it! Thank you

  • @groovekiller
    @groovekiller Před 4 lety +2

    The fact you mentioned Joe Satriani made my day!!!!!!!! These are guys are looked up to my child hood, Kirk was also mentored by Steve Vai btw :P

  • @carlcandiano1517
    @carlcandiano1517 Před 3 lety

    Great video

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 Před 3 lety +8

    18:25 Q: “Where did you go to college?”
    A: “BOOKS” - Malcom X

  • @alexandreals
    @alexandreals Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much

  • @shiceta
    @shiceta Před 2 lety

    Thank you.

  • @michaelsmith483
    @michaelsmith483 Před 4 lety

    That was great thank you

  • @davidjoseph788
    @davidjoseph788 Před 4 lety

    Great video. You Rock

  • @yashwantkulkarni8943
    @yashwantkulkarni8943 Před 4 lety

    Thank you

  • @True38
    @True38 Před 4 lety +2

    Do not put too much emphasis on humility and gratitude no matter how nice these qualities are, because they won't necessarily drive you forward. Also, every person is wired differently and someone is more naturally humble than others. But there are many ways to Rome (ego or not), and thus - what people really should be focusing on is their strengths and abilities and go their own way.
    There are many more people out there with a sense of false humility who are too scared to take big risks and really make it (and thus secretly hate and envy those who have a more grandiosity spirit) than people who have the guts to be who they really want to be. Being constantly humble, following the herd and keep your head down with gratitude is not a great recipe for success... It's just people deluding themselves to think they are so "good", but really just afraid...

  • @t-bone6467
    @t-bone6467 Před 4 lety

    Glad he knows about John wooden and his approach to success.

  • @JoseGonzalas
    @JoseGonzalas Před 4 lety

    Very well said

  • @MikeWoot65
    @MikeWoot65 Před 4 lety +2

    So so good

  • @doctorpete1
    @doctorpete1 Před 3 lety

    Awesome!

  • @fellow9yro578
    @fellow9yro578 Před 5 lety +2

    Superb...

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Před 2 lety +1

    Where is the video where Ryan talks about the toxic news cycle? He talks about how news is always "breaking" or "developing" and how news is designed not to inform but to sell ads.

  • @swabby429
    @swabby429 Před 4 lety +3

    I sincerely wish that our world's most powerful leaders would absorb the amazing message in this video.

  • @timmiriajay6006
    @timmiriajay6006 Před rokem

    The one who puts the finishing touches on their life each day is never short of time.

  • @TejenderPrasad
    @TejenderPrasad Před 3 lety

    Brilliant...

  • @kathleenuchida132
    @kathleenuchida132 Před 4 lety +1

    Aloha Ryan, I love your stoic messages! I want my 11 year old granddaughter to hear them. However, I hesitate due to the not very often but, in my opinion, unnecessary expletives. In the future, could they be beeped out? Please? Thank you!

  • @richardsrensen4219
    @richardsrensen4219 Před 4 lety +1

    to get better every day dont think you know it all no matter what you already know and have done and prepare for the setbacks in life and fokus on what is in your control . the internal scorecard.

  • @robgoodsight6216
    @robgoodsight6216 Před 4 lety +6

    Memento Mori is often a very and awkwardly misunderstood meaning:
    Lots of people do not realise how life can end abruptly, i.e. my own life can cease at any instant, and then my questions would be ...what have I done with it? Have I done the right thing?
    Just hope to have revealed it in the end.
    Very good speech.

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... Před 4 lety

      Memento Mori is actually, if you read it, one of the principles of The Bushido Code. It prompts every Samurai to imagine himself on his death bed, looking back at his life, and asking himself what he regrets and what he would have done differently.

  • @SEP7EMBER10
    @SEP7EMBER10 Před 3 lety

    Gold!

  • @sshoegirl30004
    @sshoegirl30004 Před 3 lety

    Where was this when I was a teen...lol. Better late than never!! 😀

  • @UnclePhilsCellar
    @UnclePhilsCellar Před 4 lety

    Brilliant!

  • @sargebeats
    @sargebeats Před 4 lety +2

    Ryan is a metalhead. Fucking awesome.

  • @JohnSoloMan5000
    @JohnSoloMan5000 Před 4 lety

    Thank you @ryanholiday

  • @yw6486
    @yw6486 Před 4 lety +2

    The beautiful of ancient philosophy. its that you can applied that knowledge to this amazing moment in our lives. and if humanity learn how to management his own egos the world. would be completely different in any sense. by the way! awesome video :)

  • @deefraijo3148
    @deefraijo3148 Před 4 lety +1

    Love your example of the guitarist for Metallica. That's the difference between someone who creates from the heart with passion as a supposed to someone who does it for money. Wonderful, terrific presentation. It's just important to meet one's own needs. To go within and listen to your own guidance. I took over a month off on social media it was wonderful. Sure I missed it at first but, I've learned solitude is a good thing if you want to hear what you have to say to yourself. Thank you...do the next right thing. It's my moto to too!

  • @alegce4497
    @alegce4497 Před 4 lety +1

    Ryan Holiday 👏👏👏 You are the real MVP. Thanks for sharing and inspiring 😍❤️ “Amor Fati”

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 Před 7 měsíci

    Marcus Aurelius: "Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present."

  • @katherinekelly6432
    @katherinekelly6432 Před 4 lety +4

    Ego is a edifice built out of the increasing self awareness of the mortal feeling child in relation to the world it lives in. What it is made out of becomes its expression. Usually it becomes a reaction to suffering and death.

    • @michaelricketson1365
      @michaelricketson1365 Před 2 lety

      Jalaja Bonheim’s book “ The Sacred Ego” has a unique positive perspective on the ego.

  • @N_Patil80
    @N_Patil80 Před 2 lety +1

    For me, inner scorecard makes most sense because lot of other things I am already familiar with and have been practicing lot of it with some success; inner scorecard and external scorecard is the key for me. It also keeps me humble and keeps me stay away from ego. After watching this video now I sleep well because now I know I am doing my very best and measure myself against my internal scorecard…I still need to find what I would like to have in my inner scorecard but I have few things and already helping me. I see this concept relatable to ‘ Not giving F**k’ mantra of Mark manson’s book.

  • @spyfawkes
    @spyfawkes Před 4 lety +6

    “The greatest ego-trip around is getting rid of your ego.” - Alan Watts
    You can’t avoid ego bc it doesn’t exist...it’s an idea you have about your who you are.

    • @pedroarrosi6324
      @pedroarrosi6324 Před 4 lety

      So what we should do?

    • @OrangePenguinTF
      @OrangePenguinTF Před 4 lety

      @@pedroarrosi6324 That is the question. Isn't it?

    • @spyfawkes
      @spyfawkes Před 4 lety

      Why do you need something to do?

    • @Ccm2019
      @Ccm2019 Před 3 lety

      Ego is like a persona that basis comes from other external factor, like telling yourself you’re the greatest. Like affirmations that you’re special, that you deserve the title or your great because of stats instead of doing things that you want. Ego will remove when you stop measuring yourself based on other people’s opinions and other worldly standards. That’s why when you remove your Ego it’s very liberating.

  • @ConnectedInvestors
    @ConnectedInvestors Před 4 lety +1

    "Fake it till you make it." Another meaning: Act he way you want to be and one day you will become the way you act.

    • @reidhorne6398
      @reidhorne6398 Před 4 lety

      That's how I interpret this phrase.. Subconsciously we need to believe that we can achieve our goals..

  • @LauraBellanova
    @LauraBellanova Před rokem +1

    Great🔝

  • @JB5D
    @JB5D Před 4 lety

    18:18 good shit!

  • @robaduna8868
    @robaduna8868 Před 5 lety +6

    Kawhi Leonard - Humble. Confident. Best basketball player in the world. #kingofthenorth

  • @johnnyarroyo2355
    @johnnyarroyo2355 Před 5 lety +4

    What's your opinion on the 50th law were Robert talks about people with a strong ego pg 262 I agree that ego is the enemy but do you think you should see ego as an ally and developing a strong ego if only for a day to develop a fearless attitude? Or do you think ego in all its form is useless?

  • @rishabhsingh9109
    @rishabhsingh9109 Před 5 lety +14

    Great talk Ryan. A lot to learn from. But if it had just a little bit of humour it would be so much more engaging as a talk.

    • @animatedsermons4448
      @animatedsermons4448 Před 4 lety

      I don’t think he has much of a capacity for quality humor.
      He’s doing really well with what he’s been given.

  • @willbrink
    @willbrink Před 7 měsíci +1

    We can all learn from Buddy! :)

  • @racecondition3176
    @racecondition3176 Před 4 lety +1

    Marcus Aurelius inspires me to waste as less time as possible. I'm currently improving my coding skills and created my youtube channel as a result.

  • @akosattilakovacs9986
    @akosattilakovacs9986 Před 4 lety

    hey all, what is the first in the list next to Ryan Holiday at the right side?

  • @Amandahugginkizz
    @Amandahugginkizz Před 4 lety +1

    Wasnt it that motivation speaker that started saying edging god out (ego) I forgot his name.