I did NOT actually love **Love Actually**

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  • čas přidán 16. 12. 2022
  • This supposed to be a feel-good Christmas movie???
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  • Krátké a kreslené filmy

Komentáře • 360

  • @Rin-jy9gg
    @Rin-jy9gg Před rokem +423

    Fun fact: they told Olivia Olson to sing "less perfectly" because they were worried people wouldn't believe it was her because she sounded so much older then her age. Then she went on to play Vanessa Doofenshmirtz in Phineas and Ferb and she played Marceline Abadeer with her real life father who played Hunson Abadeer in Adventure Time. She's an amazing singer and I love watching her perform.

    • @NicholasMcdermottNick
      @NicholasMcdermottNick Před rokem +11

      Wait the guy who voices Hunson Abadeer was her actual dad. Today I learned :O

    • @Rin-jy9gg
      @Rin-jy9gg Před rokem +9

      @@NicholasMcdermottNick yeah, I only learned that recently and I thought it was really cool. The show meant a lot to their family and they'd all watch every episode premiere together

    • @NicholasMcdermottNick
      @NicholasMcdermottNick Před rokem +4

      @@Rin-jy9gg Aw that's sweet :)

    • @ObscureAlex
      @ObscureAlex Před rokem +20

      Thomas Brodie Sangster is also Ferb, who has a crush on Vanessa.

    • @Rin-jy9gg
      @Rin-jy9gg Před rokem +5

      @@ObscureAlex yeah and they get together in the end of Phineas and Ferb. I love that they got to work together again

  • @videohistory722
    @videohistory722 Před rokem +277

    Rowan Atkinsons character was meant to be a guardian angel type character where he helps everyone, but due to other things, his story was all but cut aside from two scenes.
    He takes forever to gift wrap the necklace as a means of giving him time to second guess what he's doing, and stalls the guy at the airport to give the kid time to catch his crush before she leaves.

    • @JessemyBeadle
      @JessemyBeadle Před rokem +9

      This would have saved the film. Can someone make this and edit it in? I might watch it again then

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci

      Oh, I wonder if I knew that. I was joking he was an angel in my (way long) comment.

  • @heaven9926
    @heaven9926 Před rokem +560

    thomas was actually 13 years old when they filmed this movie so technically she wasn’t too old for him, he just looked way younger than he is (as always😂)

    • @christianwise637
      @christianwise637 Před rokem +69

      He must've been about 30 when he did The Queen's Gambit, and even with the moustache, cowboy hat and leather duster, he still looked like a teenager

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 Před rokem +17

      He was actually older than her.

    • @Mia_M
      @Mia_M Před rokem +22

      I didn’t even think she looked older than him. It was clear she just hit puberty first, but they looked like little 12-13 yro.

    • @coolsaint6044
      @coolsaint6044 Před rokem +31

      What’s even crazier is that Kiera knightly is only 5 years older than the little boy. Lol.

    • @afoolishfopdoodle3284
      @afoolishfopdoodle3284 Před rokem +3

      @@christianwise637 I didn't know that that was him in The Queen's Gambit (which is a show that I'm currently watching), and so when I saw that I immediately took off to Wikipedia to see if this was the case. It obviously was, but I wasn't prepared for that fact

  • @mjrose44
    @mjrose44 Před rokem +98

    Christmas movie tip: If you watch “Die Hard” right after “Love Actually”, you can see Alan Rickman get punished for what he did to Emma Thompson.

    • @ParkerBG
      @ParkerBG Před 6 měsíci +6

      But first you need to watch Harry Potter 3 to see Emma Thompson attempt to start her life over as a teacher but her husband refuses to give up on them so he also gets a job teaching at the same school before finally getting his comeuppance in Die Hard.

  • @videohistory722
    @videohistory722 Před rokem +241

    Fun fact: Emma Thompsons crying scene was real.
    Her husband, the guy that plays Gilderoy Lockheart, cheated on her with Helena Bonham Carter, and just let all those feelings out right then and there.

    • @COSun25
      @COSun25 Před rokem +22

      Helena Botham Carter is too toxic to these actors especially the Brits.

    • @videohistory722
      @videohistory722 Před rokem +3

      @@COSun25 life imitating art

    • @Victorian9322
      @Victorian9322 Před rokem +3

      wasn't she married to that other guy at this point? Like Greg something?

    • @alligatorinavest
      @alligatorinavest Před rokem +11

      @@Victorian9322 yes! Greg Wise, the actor who played Willoughby in Sense and Sensibility with her and Alan Rickman!

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 Před rokem +7

      Emma Thompson also played Professor Trelawney.

  • @needles1987
    @needles1987 Před rokem +85

    The actor who played Sam did the voice of Ferb in Fineas and Ferb. The actress who played Joanna did the voice of Vanessa in Fineas and Ferb. Yes, they had a romance in that show.

  • @OliviaSilvaCompositora
    @OliviaSilvaCompositora Před rokem +235

    One of the very few things I love about this movie is that there are Portuguese characters that actually only speak Portuguese. Me, being Portuguese, I'm like YEEES finally some representation in a big popular movie 🙌🏻

    • @connorjohnnn
      @connorjohnnn Před rokem +6

      Um, just watch Portuguese films 😂

    • @BeeKee404
      @BeeKee404 Před rokem +1

      You didn't like the Liam Neeson storyline? 😭

    • @OliviaSilvaCompositora
      @OliviaSilvaCompositora Před rokem +2

      @@BeeKee404 oh of course I did, I did like it a lot! Sophia's reactions were my reactions throughout the whole movie haha

    • @BeeKee404
      @BeeKee404 Před rokem +1

      @@OliviaSilvaCompositora Oops that was my bad lol I misread the beginning of your comment and thought you said the Portuguese characters were THE ONLY thing you liked 😂

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq Před rokem +4

      Likewise, I liked that their Portuguese was authentic, and the language barrier was something that Jamie and Aurelia had to work through. Daniel and Sam's relationship was also cute to watch.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Před rokem +304

    Keira Knightley was only about 17 during filming, but Chiwetel Ejiofor was 26, while Andrew Lincoln was 30, which makes it a little odd. She's presumably meant to be playing a character in her early to mid twenties.

    • @COSun25
      @COSun25 Před rokem +14

      Yeah, all of those relationships are so iffy due to the ages.

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx Před rokem +7

      @@COSun25 Off screen in reality yes, but they aren't off screen so it doesn't matter.
      That is kind of the point in acting.
      Without this film you can bet her career would not have launched so well so you won't catch her complaining about it.

    • @DM-nw5lu
      @DM-nw5lu Před rokem +17

      Mountain Nomad VFX By portraying these creepy age gaps on screen you are normalising them. Why not just pick less creepy ages for the actors?

    • @osmanyousif7849
      @osmanyousif7849 Před rokem

      Very questionable indeed, HMMMM.....
      Oh well.

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx Před rokem +7

      ​@@DM-nw5lu "By portraying these creepy age gaps on screen you are normalising them"
      It's not on screen though.
      Her character age is not defined to my knowledge at any point in the movie - and neither is that of either of the men for that matter.
      Not once have I ever heard a single person comment on the age difference before the last year or so, because no one ever thought twice about the age difference when watching the film for the last 2 decades.
      BECAUSE NOTHING HAPPENED!
      In this film there's literally:
      #1. A couple playing nude stand ins on a film set.
      #2, An old guy playing music nude on live TV.
      #3. Another guy talking about his step son injecting heroin into his eyeballs.
      #4. Not just 1, but 2 employers engaging in inappropriate sexual relationships with women that work for them in subordinate positions.
      #5. A 3rd guy molesting one of those subordinate position employees in sight of one of the other 2 employers.
      How challenged for entertainment do you have to be to obsess over this one off screen detail to the exclusion of all else on screen? 😅
      Edit: Dang it! I missed another one!
      #6. One of the employers randomly knocking on doors at night looking to continue his inappropriate work relationship is met by several young girls answering the door to 2 strange grown men...... wot in the effing fook??!!

  • @videohistory722
    @videohistory722 Před rokem +382

    Fun fact: the actress who plays Natalie, at the time, was severely bullied in the British media for being overweight, so they deliberately did that here to show how ridiculous that is.

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +81

      That's awful!

    • @christianwise637
      @christianwise637 Před rokem +78

      ​@@SophiaPhannn Fatphobia in the 2000s, Islamophobia in the 2010s, and now transphobia in the 2020s. The British media sucks

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx Před rokem +5

      Not that it matters - people like what they like.
      She isn't even close to overweight compared to the American standards on that score 😂🤣
      Dawn French is overweight, Martine McCutcheon was fine in that movie.

    • @sammybear7100
      @sammybear7100 Před rokem +18

      Don't forget the racism towards Meghan Markle, just terrible

    • @theshadowfax239
      @theshadowfax239 Před rokem

      @@sammybear7100 nah, she's shitty person and just happens to be black. I think it's racist that you can't have a negative opinion about a black woman without being called racist. She sucks.

  • @videohistory722
    @videohistory722 Před rokem +123

    Fun fact: if you watch it on TV, they basically cut all of Martin Freemans scenes, so you wouldn't even know he was in it if you didn't see the opening credits.

    • @bugdrawsportraits
      @bugdrawsportraits Před 10 měsíci +2

      what, really? in what country? the scenes were always in it in mine

    • @doctorslept
      @doctorslept Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@bugdrawsportraitsIn America and just watched the movie on TV with my dad. Can confirm that they just cut out that entire plot line on the TV edit

  • @radikill505
    @radikill505 Před rokem +146

    I could only ever watch this movie once bc I disliked it so much but I'm still shook ever since finding out that Thomas and Olivia who played Sam and Joanna ALSO voiced Ferb and Vanessa in Phineas and Ferb like what lmao

  • @hypnotisized
    @hypnotisized Před rokem +21

    y'all have to watch the deleted scene of thomas brodie sangster's character doing gymnastics through the airport while running from security, it's so funny the stunt double is obviously much taller than him

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +5

      Omg LOOOL I love it when movies use stunt doubles who look nowhere near like the actual actor 😂

  • @elyssahawkins2445
    @elyssahawkins2445 Před rokem +143

    In the defense of the names for Sarah's brother (the one with a crush on Karl), she did say she is also playing mom and dad for her brother since they're on their own in England. It might seem off-putting to us, but the burden of her playing multiple relationships is something I think majority of audiences only really understand in retrospect (where mental health resources are more commonplace/mainstream)

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +27

      Ohhh that's true! It takes a bit of perspective

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx Před rokem +24

      There was nothing complex to understand at the time I saw it in the cinema.
      That being said the level of access the brother had to a phone was not helpful to the situation - it was constraining her work life as well as her personal life.
      At a certain point you have to wonder exactly what use the facilities the brother was staying at were - because they didn't seem to take much strain off her shoulders at all.
      People forget that we used to just get by before mobile phones existed - and that doesn't have to be a bad thing.
      At a certain point you just have to declare yourself incommunicado and it was clear the facilities were little help in helping her set those boundaries.

    • @joeypotter6051
      @joeypotter6051 Před rokem +16

      @@mnomadvfx Yeah absolutely she needed to set boundaries and that facility was useless

  • @edalynclawthorne5877
    @edalynclawthorne5877 Před rokem +61

    Out of like, 8 or 9 stories. The Father Child and P*rn actors ones were the only ones I didn’t actively wanna choke on my popcorn with.
    From the rest, some weren’t bad but they were not worth the time

  • @impatientjones1617
    @impatientjones1617 Před rokem +63

    I interpreted Allan Rickman and Emma Thompson as being divorced at the end since the had to meet at the airport and how the kids very enthusiastically called out dad made me thing they separated and only see each other during the holidays for the kids

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci +1

      I think it's so ambiguous you can make up your own ending. They could have gotten divorced or worked it out by getting counseling. It seems like she's happier, though, so I'm glad for that.

  • @bigginsd1
    @bigginsd1 Před rokem +34

    Yeah! I kind of think this was the last of those creepy rom-coms that teach you terrible ideas about romance. Like dating a co-worker is crazy risky, but when there’s such a power imbalance it is grossly irresponsible. The guy telling his best friend’s wife that he is in love with her is basically just saying I’m option B if you have marriage problems, it is horrible behaviour and I can’t believe it’s played for sweet. As a man I’m glad I learnt to avoid a lot of pitfalls championed in a lot of movies. Pursuing women because I’m really infatuated with them despite them hinting they’re not interested, or in this case not available, is a big one. You don’t wear people down and win them over, there needs to be a spark at the start. The kid is adorable, I love the way he looks when the girl points at him when she’s singing, it’s my wife’s favourite part of the movie. I think she likes this film because some of the stories are so fucked up and wrong, it makes it more interesting. She always reminds me that Emma Thompson said her performance is based on when she was married to Ken Branagh, he cheated on her with Helena Bonham Carter so she just channeled how that felt 😢.

  • @sherylannd6813
    @sherylannd6813 Před rokem +34

    The fact that the best storylines are the ones that are not romantic diffidently say something

  • @bexstar
    @bexstar Před rokem +13

    I love Alan Rickman. I'd recommend Sense and Sensibility. It's my favorite performance of his, and he doesn't play a bad guy.

  • @BeeKee404
    @BeeKee404 Před rokem +84

    I think I'm with you on that the only story line I really liked was the one with Daniel and Sam. I LOVE a good parent and child story or in this case step parent and child story and honestly usually prefer those over romantic stories. I was also pretty invested in the Karen and Harry story mostly because I LOVE Emma Thompson and Alan Rickman always has a special place in my heart (RIP Alan) even though I hate Snape lol. I would've liked that story more if Karen left Harry (also OMG, Alan plays a guy named Harry and he plays Snape in Harry Potter lol also Emma plays Professor Trewaleny in HP too! 😂) but I get that it does happen in real life where even if the husband or wife cheated, they do often still stay together for the kids or whatever so I guess it's realistic they stayed together. I think that's why Ariel stayed with Ned (since you briefly mentioned Ned Fulmer lol).

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +12

      Yeah I get that they went for the realistic route but 😭😭😭

    • @BeeKee404
      @BeeKee404 Před rokem +2

      @@SophiaPhannn Yeah I feel you lol Sometimes the realistic route isn't always the best route in some movies.

    • @jlerrickson
      @jlerrickson Před rokem +4

      I guess I looked at it as an ambiguous ending, like maybe they were still talking it out. Also, I don't agree with the idea that if you cheat the relationship is automatically over. You definitely shouldn't stay just for the kids, but you also maybe shouldn't end a marriage if there's the possibility of working things out for the better. It's a very personal decision, obviously.

    • @BeeKee404
      @BeeKee404 Před rokem +1

      @@jlerrickson Yeah I can understand that. However I personally feel that cheating even once can cause a lot of trust issues so even if the couple are able to work things out, I feel like there's still going to be some tension in terms of trust. That's just my views on the matter.

  • @pigeont1221
    @pigeont1221 Před rokem +19

    Girl your hair looks out of this world 💙

  • @V_4_Versace
    @V_4_Versace Před rokem +11

    Lol I think this movie definitely has the nostalgia factor going for it. It also fills all the different moods and emotions people feel on holidays. Like yeah, sometimes you are going through heartbreak, or death, or new love, or feeling unfulfilled and it's nice to have a movie that no matter what you are going through, it makes you feel better and gives you some perspective. It will always be a repeat viewing for me for that reason 🥰

  • @LobbyLoiterer
    @LobbyLoiterer Před rokem +48

    This reaction was extremely cathartic. I was shown this movie like 15 years ago and told I would want to watch it every Christmas, and I thought it was one of the most insufferable things I'd ever watched. So I'm glad I'm not the only one who didn't care for it.

  • @entertainmentlife430
    @entertainmentlife430 Před rokem +26

    THANK YOU!! Everyone loves this thing when it sucks.

    • @osmanyousif7849
      @osmanyousif7849 Před rokem +1

      Well, except when Bill Nighy and Rowan Atkinson are on screen. And when Daniel and Sam's characters shine to perfection.

  • @christianwise637
    @christianwise637 Před rokem +40

    Love Actually is one of those films that everyone else my age seems to really love (I'm British and grew up in the early-mid 2000s), but I don't like it very much. Maybe it's because I didn't see it for myself until last last Christmas, or maybe it's because I generally don't like romcoms, but for whatever reason I just couldn't get into this one. There were parts of this film that I did really like (oddly enough, it's the same storylines that you liked too - the Bill Nighy one, and the Liam Neeson one), but for the most part I just this one way too cheesy and sickly sentimental, like a lot of Richard Curtis' other romcoms. The other stories felt rather bland and samey especially since most of the characters act the same way - the men are awkward bumbling gentlemen, the women are flat attractive cardboard cutouts, and there are a lot of seemingly romantic moments that come across as really creepy. I certainly get the appeal for this one, but it's just not for me.
    Also, you're not alone in your thoughts at the end; most of the British people are still pissed off with Alan Rickman's character after all these years for giving the necklace to his secretary and not his wife

  • @kwnctantinakyriakou3652
    @kwnctantinakyriakou3652 Před rokem +27

    Personally, I blame "sense and sensibility" for my thirst over Alan Rickman

    • @jlerrickson
      @jlerrickson Před rokem +1

      Nothing's lost but may be found if sought....

    • @kwnctantinakyriakou3652
      @kwnctantinakyriakou3652 Před rokem

      @@jlerrickson
      Read it in his voice...

    • @jlerrickson
      @jlerrickson Před rokem +1

      @@kwnctantinakyriakou3652 you can actually find a lot of videos online of Rickman just reading stuff. One of them is marketed as a soothing sleep aid tool.

    • @kwnctantinakyriakou3652
      @kwnctantinakyriakou3652 Před rokem +1

      @@jlerrickson
      Been there 😂

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci +1

      "The air is full of spices . . ."

  • @fatherjudy
    @fatherjudy Před rokem +28

    Yeah the first time I saw this movie I definitely expected something else maybe more cheery? 😅 p.s., I don’t think it’s weird Laura Linneys character called her brother “babe” it’s cute to me lol

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +14

      I've just never experienced siblings call each other that before 😳 it was like a culture shock HAHA

    • @jlerrickson
      @jlerrickson Před rokem +2

      My sister and I use those terms for each other all the time, though "darling" would only be used if obviously overdramatized for a laugh

  • @thequeerfantastic
    @thequeerfantastic Před rokem +100

    Your whole reaction was incredibly validating 😌 I've never liked this movie (except the stepfather / stepson storyline!). Don't understand the hype at all.

    • @SomethingExtra32
      @SomethingExtra32 Před rokem +10

      Awww aren’t you pretentious.

    • @Jpch1004
      @Jpch1004 Před rokem +15

      Same. I don't understand ppl loving romanticizing cheating and unreal ideas of "love".

    • @tychopanda
      @tychopanda Před rokem +5

      ​@@SomethingExtra32 You use that word, but I don't think it means what you think it means, Sandra.

    • @SomethingExtra32
      @SomethingExtra32 Před rokem +1

      @@tychopanda oh no I mean it.

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci

      @@SomethingExtra32 What was pretentious in that comment? This is a long time ago now, but I'm puzzled.

  • @rebeccagibbs4128
    @rebeccagibbs4128 Před rokem +8

    the naked people on set are stand ins, as in the lights and camera angles are being checked before the actors come in:) they aren't 'doubles' per se, more like similar skin tones and build to account for all the complications of blocking and filming an expensive scene, they never appear on screen in the actual film being made:)

  • @FortuitousOwl
    @FortuitousOwl Před rokem +16

    This is a movie I’ve been watching since I was a kid, and I have sooo many mixed feelings about it! There are things I really like and things I think shouldn’t even be in the movie haha it’s such an interesting film to examine and I love hearing opinions of people seeing it for the first time.

  • @dimilton3166
    @dimilton3166 Před rokem +9

    Dude, thank you! This movie is depressing

  • @cottonclouds
    @cottonclouds Před rokem +14

    your cringe faces made this exponentially better lolol

  • @nunyabusiness1471
    @nunyabusiness1471 Před rokem +68

    A story of terrible people and what not to do lol
    4:13 Love the universal reaction when boobs are on the screen

  • @joeypotter6051
    @joeypotter6051 Před rokem +7

    Yeah this movie is trash. Even the Liam Neeson storyline is weird because the mom literally JUST died and they barely even mention her. When he says to the boy "Is it just your mom, or is it something else?" I'm like UM is his MOTHER dying not enough? Anyway. The whole thing felt like a bunch of ideas that Richard Curtis had jotted down for movies but he cbf writing any of them out in full, so he just threw them all together into one movie. If the Liam Neeson storyline had played out over like several months/a year then it would've hit more for me, if they'd spent some time processing grief and building up that stepfather/son bond.

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci

      Also, I don't really love the joke that his fantasy woman is Claudia Schiffer, and then he meets a woman literally played by Claudia Schiffer. And it's like a month or two after his wife died too.

  • @ash6823
    @ash6823 Před rokem +8

    This is one of my favorite christmas movies---there are definitely some iffy parts that do not hold up very well almost 20 years later---but I think the overall message of the film is really sweet. I can understand where you're coming from though---it's definitely not for everybody. either way, hope you have a happy holiday---love your videos!

    • @19Rena96
      @19Rena96 Před rokem +2

      what messages?

    • @theshadowfax239
      @theshadowfax239 Před rokem

      @@19Rena96 love is all around, even if it doesn't fit you're everyone must be perfect, woke standards. Love is imperfect. The other message is take the stick out of your butt and chill out. It's a comedy movie, it's not that serious. 🙄

    • @19Rena96
      @19Rena96 Před rokem +1

      @@theshadowfax239 what exactly are woke standards? lmao

  • @eliferdem5405
    @eliferdem5405 Před rokem +21

    This movie is surprisingly problematic for a so-called romantic Christmas legend... You look so cute btw

  • @JessemyBeadle
    @JessemyBeadle Před rokem +4

    This film should be called ‘Infatuation, Actually’.

  • @RS-bn1ty
    @RS-bn1ty Před rokem +6

    I always get the “wow you haven’t changed much” from people I went to school with because I have the same issue as Thomas, haven’t hardly changed in looks since school days 😂 but also I think not only Ned but all the cheaters in the world need to know that lol

  • @lyddiecatt
    @lyddiecatt Před rokem +9

    i just think Karl and Sarah could have rescheduled lmao. like, i have never understood why she couldn't just say "there's a family emergency, what are you doing tomorrow/next weekend/can i come to your place once I've settled him down" literally anythinggg

    • @RhetoricalThrill
      @RhetoricalThrill Před rokem +7

      It’s not an emergency though. It will keep happening and she knows it. For whatever reason her brother has unfettered access to her phone and she plans to jump to his side every time.

    • @inapickle806
      @inapickle806 Před rokem +6

      Because the message of the movie, especially regarding older women who get any lines or development, is that their lives are in service to the family no matter how miserable it makes them personally. You're young, hot, and thin in this film or mocked and punished. It's truly toxic.

    • @lyddiecatt
      @lyddiecatt Před rokem +6

      @@RhetoricalThrill it’s a damn shame that her character can’t a) develop healthy boundaries with her brother, or b) find someone who understands her current dynamic but loves her anyway and shows patience and love towards her family. the writers really just can’t let this poor girl be happy lol

    • @lyddiecatt
      @lyddiecatt Před rokem

      @@inapickle806 amen!

    • @RhetoricalThrill
      @RhetoricalThrill Před rokem +5

      @@lyddiecatt They did a mini special a few years ago where they updated some of the relationships, and they have her married to Patrick Dempsey who dotes on her, so I'm happy she ended up somewhere nice 😊

  • @Charlie_Wolfe
    @Charlie_Wolfe Před rokem +4

    I loved this movie as a kid and I loved Colin is humor is right up my alley :)

  • @practicaldreamyr
    @practicaldreamyr Před rokem +4

    I hate this movie! So glad to see a reactor who isn't automatically gushing over it because it's a "classic". Most of the characters are so unlikeable, I never found myself rooting for anyone (except the little boy and his stepdad). Yuck.

  • @florist7743
    @florist7743 Před rokem +13

    It's so cute watching you react to the dialogue. I don't like this movie, it aged badly and I never liked the mean humor. But if someone still watches it for nostalgia reasons I totally understand. It used to be very popular.

  • @afoolishfopdoodle3284
    @afoolishfopdoodle3284 Před rokem +3

    I love the little detail that the one guy isn't speaking perfect Portuguese. He has some general grammar things that he's not getting right, as you can see in the subtitles, but it gets the point across, and I think that it's cute and it highlights how new he is to the language.

  • @SarahMaeBea
    @SarahMaeBea Před rokem +37

    Maybe weird but I love how unromantic you are lol. Keeping a level head among all the corniness and tropes. 😆

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +27

      I'm actually a pretty romantic person, but something about this movie really turned it off 😂

    • @jlerrickson
      @jlerrickson Před rokem

      There's a whole lot of trash burying the few gems, and I really wish Colin had been robbed. I actually like Martin Freeman's story: probably the only other healthy relationship depicted other than Liam Neeson and the kid.

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci

      @@SophiaPhannn Probably because very little of it is actually romantic.

  • @sapphic.flower
    @sapphic.flower Před rokem +69

    Ah yes, Love Actually, the movie that portrays all types of love like cheating, power imbalance, male fantasy, more cheating, backstabbing your best friend, more power imbalance but also ✨father-son bonding and platonic love✨
    Yes I am salty lol. For such a beloved movie that has an anthology structure, it could’ve done way more than just a bunch of het-cis stories. Familial, platonic, romantic but also represent queer stories, polyamory, romance between bipoc characters, self-love, etc. It’s also not lost on me how almost all the women are younger/younger-looking than their male love interests and at the bottom of the power structure. And the only two women without a power imbalance and age difference were stuck with sad ends?? But the sexist guy got a foursome immediately???
    Ladies, you need to raise your standards for romance movies, you deserve better than this. 😭 this felt more for sleazy men than anything.

    • @Mia_M
      @Mia_M Před rokem +12

      Tbf, this movie released in 2003, meaning it was filmed in 2002. Queer representation wasn’t even really in its infancy. It was basically a fetus at this point. The only shows I could name during this time with queer characters are will & grace and the L word (both problematic in their own ways). So it doesn’t really bother me even as a sapphic.

    • @cataryad661
      @cataryad661 Před rokem +10

      I don't think the character Judy (the body double) had a power imbalance or much of an age gap with Martin Freeman (6 years in real life), nor was she stuck with a sad ending. They were co-workers meeting for the first time, so it seems that they wouldn't actually be working together much at all. Plus, I'm sure there would have been moments where John was more naked, leaving him in an equally vulnerable position. At least, this is my perspective on their relationship.

    • @JessemyBeadle
      @JessemyBeadle Před rokem +1

      It was 2003 so that’s something to remember there. But there is so much early 2000s power imbalance and BS in the film, respect to all of us who were raised during this period of time and had to come through the other side of it and teach ourselves inner peace after THAT decade of BS. The fat-lolling of every woman size12 or over is an embarrassment.
      I’m glad our generation is a bit more considerate and doesn’t target every movie to make its male audience worse.

    • @derekg5563
      @derekg5563 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @sapphic.flower: You don't seem to care about people's preferences, because you'll then claim that people who have different preferences from you "need" to do something, in this case raise their standards, for the sake of validating your opinion, which is somehow supposed to help them more than it helps you. You're just toxically imposing yourself on those women as if you were their abusive parent - when men tell women not to wear makeup because "they have natural beauty and they should realize that," they are being imposing in a similar way to how you impose on other women's preferences, claiming that they deserve a certain thing and "should realize that." Those women often want to wear makeup because it feels good, and they're not "giving into" anything by enjoying that - someone trying to take that away from them is the one trying to make them capitulate. A woman who enjoys makeup is not self-undermining (nor is a woman who enjoys not wearing it), and analogously a woman who enjoys the kind of content in Love Actually because it feels good to them is not self-undermining, nor is a woman who enjoys not watching this content.
      You can speak about whether there is a certain amount of certain demographics getting certain outcomes, yet that fundamentally doesn't stop you from imposing yourself on women when the whole point of women's liberation is for them to pursue what they find enjoyable, PERIOD. Just as a woman doing p*rn is not self-undermining if she enjoys it, a woman enjoying "stereotypically slea*y" kinds of content such as that in Love Actually is not self-undermining if she enjoys it, yet that liberating enjoyment is being denied by your controlling, prudish behavior under the guise of trying to be every female stranger's parent and deciding what's best for them, totally detached from the lived experience of these women. It works for the women who already have the same preferences as you, but the point is to ask what the woman wants, not see if they already agree with your preferences and if they don't, then be a sneaky prude on her behalf.
      Don't you dare boss around over half of the human population like that. Think before you judge. At least think a little bit.

    • @derekg5563
      @derekg5563 Před 7 měsíci

      @@JessemyBeadle There is quite a lot of force in men strongly resisting laughing at a woman because of something about which she is sensitive, and quite a force of jealousy in women that would make them want to laugh at a woman for that thing if it makes her feel superior, to the point that I am not sure who, on the aggregate, is enjoying the rude comments about women more. Sure, by your preconceived notion of how the genders are, the men just like to laugh at women, but when you actually look out there in the real world, it seems that the genders work very differently, oftentimes the opposite to how they're simply assumed to be. Since a man likes to physically fight (and realistically, they are almost always fighting other men, not women, when they do this) more than women, it's often simply assumed that they also like to pick on women more than women like to pick on women in social situations, and yet, the extrapolation of liking to physically fight to liking to say mean things to the gender more typically thought of as victims (women), shows itself to have a really hard time, perhaps because the lazy, simplistic characterization of men and women has a rough time actually fitting into the actual world, and it's perpetuated because many people are only interested in repeating the same preconceived notion over and over again without actually trying to see what men and women are like outside of that anti-empirical bubble.
      It doesn't matter how many men you see cower when thinking about insulting a woman about that, and how many women you see, a least sometimes, jumping on the bandwagon of pouncing on the insecurities of other women who are envied by them, because you will just repeat the head-in-the-sand preconceived notion that you made up in your head. Sure, it isn't necessarily completely untrue, and it may not have been unreasonable as a starting hypothesis, but as you start to actually collect empirical data with an open mind, you're supposed to change it accordingly, even if the preconceived notion seemed like it made more sense than it actually did.
      Try to think more critically about this issue in general, and how you define male audiences and female audiences and their characteristics.

  • @LordVolkov
    @LordVolkov Před rokem +8

    For a few lesser known Colin Firth comedies you might enjoy Sophia - St Trinian's (2007) and the sequel Legend of Fritton's Gold

  • @COSun25
    @COSun25 Před rokem +5

    YESSSSS!! Love Actually is so overrated. I LOVE that you aren't into it as so many people. Also, I don't want a sequel to this. We've got enough films like this, Valentine's Day, & Mother's Day. All of those films would've worked better as TV shows.

    • @karolineCPH
      @karolineCPH Před 9 měsíci

      The big difference between Love Actually and all the american knock-offs is that Love Actually feels a lot more genuine, especially in the sad moments (in my humble opinion).

  • @Mimmers483
    @Mimmers483 Před rokem +6

    Watch Alan Rickman in sense & sensibility and you will definitely get why I and many others have the hots for him 🥰

  • @roseblack1494
    @roseblack1494 Před rokem +9

    totally off topic, but your lashes look sooo amazing!

  • @mimmipigg99
    @mimmipigg99 Před rokem +7

    I can't find myself to like this movie. It has a lot of problematic stuff and just too many unlikeable characters in it. Daniel and Sam's story is the only one I like! Would prefer it if the movie was only about them!
    Also, It would be fun if you reacted to the movies "New Years Eve" and "Valentine's Day" becuse they have a similar structure in that you follow several storys and several of the characters are connected. They're not that good but I think it could be a fun watch :)

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +1

      I remember watching Valentine's Day yeaaaarssss ago and it was so unmemorable hahaha

    • @mimmipigg99
      @mimmipigg99 Před rokem

      @@SophiaPhannn Yeah they're pretty bad lol I think I only watched it cus Taylor Swift is in it hahaha

  • @MichalZismanReactions
    @MichalZismanReactions Před rokem +23

    I love that you're not crazy about this movie 😆

  • @Daemonkryn
    @Daemonkryn Před rokem +6

    Couldn't agree with you more on this one. And if you find yourself in the mood for some movies with Alan Rickman being a charmer check out Sense and Sensibility (1995) and Truly Madly Deeply (1990).

  • @littlemissmello
    @littlemissmello Před rokem +22

    I do still like (I wouldn't call it love) Love Actually but it's without a doubt problematic lol
    I don't put it on myself but would definitely watch it when it's on telly. My favourite (and the one unproblematic pairing) is between the stand-ins for the erotic movie. So sweet. I hear that they are often cut out of American releases though....

    • @littlemissmello
      @littlemissmello Před rokem +6

      the only two plotlines I actively dislike are the keira knightley one and the weird redditor who went to america.
      I think the colin firth storyline was sweet between the lines. They showed that they were "soulmates" or whatever by having them being perfectly synchronized in the things they were saying etc and even pulling it through at the end where it turns out that she had been studying english while he was studying portuguese.
      And I loved the alan rickman/emma thompson storyline, mostly because it was acted superbly. So sad and I kind of like that it has no resolve. That's something for them to figure out now.

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +8

      Emma Thompson really stomped on my heart when she started crying 😭

    • @littlemissmello
      @littlemissmello Před rokem

      @@SophiaPhannn same, absolutely heartbreaking 🥺

  • @ddjsoyenby
    @ddjsoyenby Před rokem

    ngl i was laughing that "wherever you will go" was playing during the "nice guy" plowing the american girls, and sophia makes every movie great.

  • @elenadehaan6549
    @elenadehaan6549 Před rokem +23

    I honestly don’t understand why so many people hate this movie these days..this movie is about love and it shows you every single thing that comes with love in a very realistic way. It gives you true lovers, cheaters, puppylove, loss, family love, the love between friends etc. Yes, there are horrible people in this movie, but there are also a lot of good people in this movie.
    But maybe people prefer the fake image of love in movies nowadays idk

    • @theshadowfax239
      @theshadowfax239 Před rokem +9

      If it is not perfectly woke, no exceptions, no forgiveness, no room for error, then this generation hates it. They are not a very open minded bunch. Also young people, shallow line is all they've experienced. They haven't had the life experience to understand, true, messy, complicated, atypical love. And they don't understand that's the best kind of love.

    • @amemelia
      @amemelia Před rokem +9

      Plus I've noticed a lot of complaints coming from Americans because they don't understand english/ British humour or relationships with each other. Like people complaining about the prime minister making a joke about Natalie, or the "people hate sissies" joke. It's just a familial thing, like pull your socks up nothings going to change and it's happened. Plus didn't understand the complaints with "oh some of these relationships are bad", yes that's kind of the point, love has complications, love isn't just romantic relationships. I also think the keira scene is messed up a bit too because I always interpreted it as "I need to be honest about my feelings and put this to rest". Keira kissing him seemed more like appreciation of his honesty and recognition of what he's saying. Do think the videos he made for himself were creepy but again, not every love story is positive or perfect

    • @inapickle806
      @inapickle806 Před rokem +6

      Outside of Liam Nessom and the porn stand-ins, who is a good person in this movie?

    • @elenadehaan6549
      @elenadehaan6549 Před rokem

      @@inapickle806 the kid the guys who’s wife cheated on him, the guy whose wife died the president i could name more

    • @inapickle806
      @inapickle806 Před rokem +5

      @@elenadehaan6549 the kid gets somewhat of a pass for being a kid, but he does the exact same thing as everyone else in this movie- insist he's in love with someone he doesn't know based on looks and make grand gestures to 'win' her instead of actually speaking to her and trying to get to know her. The Liam Neesom character is the least offensive, but within days of his wife's death is telling her preteen son that love is about having sex in every room of the house and specifies they had sex in the teens room. He also repeatedly mentions that the follow up to his wife would have to be Claudia Schiffer and by the end of the movie he has laid eyes on her and is instantly 'in love' and then seen to be a blended family within 9 weeks of his wife's death. The president? The (certainly married) guy who sexually harassed a colleague's much lower employee in the workplace after commenting about her body to her boss? The only real quality anyone in this movie acknowledges as worthwhile is looks, though they do occasionally build a fantasy of what is behind those looks.

  • @alligatorinavest
    @alligatorinavest Před rokem +10

    Hugh Grant’s face when his driver sings always makes me laugh.
    I’m not the first to say this, but Andrew Lincoln should’ve been in love with Chiwetel Ejiofor instead.

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +2

      YEAH I totally wished it went that direction haha

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci

      Especially since she was under the impression he disliked her.

  • @OceanLily
    @OceanLily Před rokem +2

    It’s like Twilight you ignore the toxic because of the feels😂

  • @gabrielleduplessis7388
    @gabrielleduplessis7388 Před rokem +12

    I think I am the only person who interprets that card scene differently.
    I took it as him just telling her the truth and letting it out so he does not hold it in anymore and so she understands his distance.
    He did not expect her to leave her husband and his best friend.
    The kiss at the end is her saying Thank you. I appreciate that, but now I am going to run in and go back to my husband.
    The two words that he says at the end of the scene that no one pays attention to is “No more” meaning he spoke his piece and he is ready to move on.
    I don’t find that toxic. I find that healthy.
    On the other dynamics, I can’t argue with you too much.
    The best one is Sam and his dad. I love their close bond and how supportive they are for each other.

  • @LordVolkov
    @LordVolkov Před rokem +28

    There are a lot of toxic elements, but as a whole I can't help but enjoy Love Actually. Bill Nighy, Colin Firth, Hugh Grant, and Liam Neeson's storylines are charming (if problematic in regards to Firth & Grant), and Colin runs into the most ridiculous bevy of American (and Canadian 😅) beauties.

  • @Musikchic47
    @Musikchic47 Před rokem +4

    My friend loves this movie, and it's one of her favorite Christmas movies, but I don't like it, and I feel so bad since I want to like things my friend's like but some of the plots in this just make me cringe hard >.

  • @shainewhite2781
    @shainewhite2781 Před rokem +12

    I heard people say that this a very manipulative movie.

  • @johanandersson8252
    @johanandersson8252 Před rokem +5

    Its love Actually between father and son.

  • @Fizzyzzif
    @Fizzyzzif Před rokem +2

    Finally someone agrees with me I despise it

  • @videohistory722
    @videohistory722 Před rokem +5

    If you want to see Alan Rickman in something more serious, may I suggest A Little Chaos with Kate Winslet.

    • @mojo11417
      @mojo11417 Před rokem +2

      ‘snow cake’ with sigourney weaver is great as well

  • @stephaniefrost4910
    @stephaniefrost4910 Před rokem +2

    I thought I hadn’t seen this movie before but as the video went on, I remembered I HAVE…I just don’t remember it 😂 it was forgettable but had cute moments
    (I watched it on TV so I didn’t recall the Martin Freeman parts AT ALL bc they cut those out!)

  • @pepsimax8078
    @pepsimax8078 Před rokem +2

    All in all I do like this movie. But there are parts that that I hate. But in general it is a christmas movie that is a must see every year.

  • @clash5j
    @clash5j Před rokem +6

    I like many of the actors, but this was a horrible movie

  • @DA-yy8rs
    @DA-yy8rs Před rokem +1

    Love Actually is on par with all those ensemble Gary Marshall movies made in the early 00’s: Valentines Day, Mothers Day, New Years Eve, etc.
    The quality of the story is piss poor but the celebrity names make up for it in the audience’s eyes

  • @videohistory722
    @videohistory722 Před rokem +3

    30:38 that's the actress his wife said she wanted him to fall for after her.

  • @OwlBard
    @OwlBard Před 2 dny

    ' Thick thighs save lives ' banger quote

  • @StarshineStranger
    @StarshineStranger Před rokem +1

    Just watched this movie today for the first time, and I gotta say, I mostly agree with your takes on it, *especially* the "this movie should have been solely about Liam Neeson and Thomas Brodie-Sangster's characters" one, they were hands down the best part of the movie with the best, most interesting relationship. I liked Karen as well, and the cheating husband plotline could have been interesting if it was given more time to develop. The actors' relationship was surprisingly wholesome as well, but they just weren't in the movie long enough for me to really care about them or their characters that much. The rest of the movie I found mostly trite, cliche, cringy, or forgettable. I think it would have worked better as a miniseries so all the different plot ideas really had time to develop and breathe rather than being all crammed into the same movie and fighting each other for screen time.

  • @lalavacca
    @lalavacca Před rokem +15

    They should've just cut out the storyline about the guy that went to the US like what was the point???
    I also would've liked a whole movie just about Sam and his stepdad, I feel like they could've explored grief more profoundly and their new bond over the holidays :')

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq Před rokem +8

      Likewise, Colin didn't really add anything to the narrative, and could easily be cut without missing anything. Daniel and Sam's story is by far my favourite, and the most relatable to me.

    • @Atlas65
      @Atlas65 Před 7 měsíci

      It was there solely for comedic purposes. It's so absurd that it becomes funny. Also at the time when I saw the movie as a teenager in the early 2000's. It was never meant to be taken seriously. Remember its called humor ;)

  • @sustainsoul
    @sustainsoul Před 7 měsíci +4

    Who the f can dislike this movie?? Current society sucks...

    • @Atlas65
      @Atlas65 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Yes. This comment needs more likes.

    • @jpgiles1725
      @jpgiles1725 Před 6 měsíci

      It's just a depressing movie.

    • @maxzett
      @maxzett Před 6 měsíci +1

      Omfg yes. I hate almost every comment and YT video about this movie.
      It's a GREAT movie, that's absolutely NOT problematic in any way...

  • @tonyjax8454
    @tonyjax8454 Před 8 měsíci +1

    You have to appreciate British Humour in my opinion, its an amazing story of lots of people's lives. Come to London have a cup of tea and a scone! 😅

  • @inapickle806
    @inapickle806 Před rokem +5

    You are not wrong. It was also widely criticized at the time while also being popular. Things havent changed that much. While many liked the feel good tone, many others noticed the deeply messed up relationships and the constant bad fat jokes. Signed: an old

  • @uraninezak
    @uraninezak Před rokem +1

    The calling everyone babe isn't horribly uncommon in the South, like I've heard it. It's not terribly common but definitely happens. It's more when you're the surrogate parent to your sibling.

  • @sapphic.flower
    @sapphic.flower Před rokem +21

    “What does she/he feel about you?”
    “Wow that’s so inclusive!”
    *movie continues to only focus on hetero monogamous romances with poorly written female characters*

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +8

      LOL that's true 🙃

    • @shh3098
      @shh3098 Před rokem

      woah, you americans need some real problems in your life

    • @sapphic.flower
      @sapphic.flower Před rokem +1

      @@shh3098 I'm not American and I can still criticize this aspect of the movie

  • @littlemayo7136
    @littlemayo7136 Před rokem +1

    Thomas the Tank Engine spot line was the only part line that I was here in the board for the rest of them were not giving what it's supposed to give captain

  • @kirst.orsomething
    @kirst.orsomething Před rokem +5

    And I suppose the Alan Rickman and Emma Thompson is realistic 😬 Women forgive/brush over a lot for their kids

    • @Atlas65
      @Atlas65 Před 7 měsíci

      And vise versa. Don't make it be about man vs man. There can even be a situation where the wive would cheat and they would still not decide brake up the marriage. Both men and women cheat. Cheating is not just some horrible behavior that only men do.

    • @kirst.orsomething
      @kirst.orsomething Před 7 měsíci

      ​@Atlas65 good thing I didn't specify cheating then 😂

  • @shineforevercommentary8193

    Had to watch this for Uni and I agree with the title of this video, I like the concept of people multiple love stories but some of the stories are a messs

  • @RhetoricalThrill
    @RhetoricalThrill Před rokem +1

    I need to find all reactions to this movie to see if we all in fact made the same Wisconsin cheese joke, because I did too 😂

    • @HuntingViolets
      @HuntingViolets Před 3 měsíci

      Craig Ferguson: "Wisconsin. Land of cheese and serial killers."

  • @gravityfalls1826
    @gravityfalls1826 Před rokem +1

    You should watch that red nose day Love Actually special, it takes place years later and has the same cast

  • @sabalos
    @sabalos Před rokem +7

    I'm glad you didn't like the movie, because I like you and the movie kinda sucks. I don't think it's 'out of date' - it sucked back in 2003 as well. A lot of mediocre movies get very popular no matter the year haha

  • @jyriavist9126
    @jyriavist9126 Před rokem +2

    I think Alan Rickmans Character And Emma Thompsons Characters are divorsed In the end (I mean where was he, were was he coming from at the end maybe Another city) And that awkward snog was Kinda what ever🙄🤔

  • @osmanyousif7849
    @osmanyousif7849 Před rokem +1

    30:35
    Still can't believe they managed to get Claudia Schiffer in this flik....

  • @uzumakicata
    @uzumakicata Před rokem +3

    Hey, early merry christmas. Im Portuguese and I didnt liked how they showed portuguese people, because we dont kiss a stranger like that 😅. But still pretty nice for inclusion. I do like the movie thouu

  • @apanapandottir205
    @apanapandottir205 Před rokem +3

    I love Emma Thompson so much.

  • @sneakyguest
    @sneakyguest Před rokem +3

    Your cringe faces are the best! 💖 They really needed to trim the fat off this movie!

  • @pepsimax8078
    @pepsimax8078 Před rokem +7

    For Alan Rickman plotline; My take on the ending, is that they chose to work on it. They are not just forgetting it, but working on their relathionship, I am imagining them seeing a counsler or similar. Not everyone is ready to throw away years of marriage. I feel like this was also said by Emma Thomas in an intervju, though I am not entirely sure 🤔

  • @AHealthyDoseofFran
    @AHealthyDoseofFran Před rokem +15

    Everyone calls it a British classic and yet, the only classic thing is everyone is a dickhead which is just very English 😂

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +5

      LOOOOL that's so true 😂

    • @AHealthyDoseofFran
      @AHealthyDoseofFran Před rokem +2

      @@SophiaPhannn and as a Brit, I can say all this with my full chest - we fecking suck 😂

  • @seiya.power.awesome.inspire

    Your sassiness will never not be hilarious, Ms. Phan.🤣❤❤❤

  • @JackieBorelli
    @JackieBorelli Před rokem +2

    4:15 I need this as a gif 😂

  • @ravenlord4
    @ravenlord4 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am 16 years older than my sister (I am the oldest, she is the youngest, and we have 4 brothers in between). Anyway our parents are shit, so she runs away from home a lot to stay with me. So half the time I am big brother, and half the time I am parent. So I use terms of endearment with her that I don't use with my brothers because she is a girl, and because she just needs to hear loving words that she is not getting at home. Your point is valid though, because this is not normal, so I get how weird it can come across.

  • @nessenessekim1038
    @nessenessekim1038 Před rokem +3

    with your hair and your sweater, you look like miraculous lady bug

  • @tylerbuck1900
    @tylerbuck1900 Před rokem +3

    Can you upload Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events (2004) it's today is the 18th Anniversary!

  • @afoolishfopdoodle3284
    @afoolishfopdoodle3284 Před rokem +1

    18:37 That's a thumbnail face right there XD

  • @xejelah
    @xejelah Před rokem +4

    "I don't expect all of them to have a happy ending", but also - doesn't like all the unhappy ending couples

  • @needles1987
    @needles1987 Před rokem +1

    You should watch Pirate Radio. It's a great British comedy movie.

  • @UnluckyAmulet
    @UnluckyAmulet Před rokem +10

    On the "people hate sissies" line, in the UK it's considered better to use dark humour like this because the thinking is if you walk around on eggshells around someone when they're going through a bad time, it makes them feel worse. So it's a bit of a cultural thing. Also with the Keira Knightley wedding, this movie was considered pretty progressive at the time for depicting an interracial wedding but not making a big deal out of it, which was rare in 2003.
    It's a shame you didn't enjoy the movie Sophia, but everybody has different tastes! I feel like people hating on Love Actually's gotten popular these days, but I watch this every year with my mum and it was one of the first "grown up" movies I remember seeing so I've always loved it.

    • @tychopanda
      @tychopanda Před rokem

      Using dark humour is still tiptoeing around genuine communication and connection in my humble opinion.

    • @UnluckyAmulet
      @UnluckyAmulet Před rokem +1

      @@tychopanda You just don't get it.

  • @gravityfalls1826
    @gravityfalls1826 Před rokem +3

    Why am I getting Thing 1 and 2 vibes off Sophia in this video? 💀

    • @SophiaPhannn
      @SophiaPhannn  Před rokem +4

      The red shirt and blue hair 😭😭😭

  • @AmandaaRose
    @AmandaaRose Před rokem +2

    I will admit this movie did not age well,, but there are still some valid scenes in it that I very much enjoy