Narcissists Use INSULTS because They Can't Use LOGIC!
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2023
- Insults are a low, low form of expressing disagreement. Not strange that narcissists stoop that low, is it? Their incessant NEED to win means they will go low in hopes of winning quickly. Sad & nasty! Insults only show emotional immaturity. Think of the playground.
Insults are the arguments employed by those who are in the wrong, said the philosopher, Rosseau. SO TRUE of narcissistic Hijackals! Join in. - Zábava
“Emotional slobs” perfectly said.
It is like dealing with an angry four year old. I do like the image of seeing them throwing marshmallows. 😁
“Insults are arguments employed by those who are in the wrong.”
Good one.
My mother the pathological narcissist used to say “Sticks and stones may break your bones but names can never hurt you.” Bullcrap
THE INSULTS ARE CONSTANT, BUT NOT STRAIGHT FORWARD JUST INTIMATIONS, INTENDED TO INSULT AND PUT ME DOWN, YES ABUSIVE, NO-ONE ELSE SPEAKS TO ME LIKE THAT, AND ALSO SPOKEN TO LIKE I'M A 2 YEAR OLD, WHICH IS REAL MADNESS, IT MAKES ME FEEL EXTREMELY ANGRY! LUCKILY I GAVE HER HER MARCHING ORDERS, NO CONTACT!
Goos Evening Dr Shaler
I agree the insults are used to try and make us feel inferior they like having the upperhand
Good to see you Thank you for your vids ❤
Poor babies, love it! If I dared to say that to their faces, I would be shut right down.
Just say it. I called my soon to be ex wife a narc because I want her to learn. It’s not an insult if that is what she is. 🫡🇺🇸🇬🇧
Thank you again for your wisdom Dr! Hope you are doing well.
Yep. The justification and blaming shifting is what has effected me the most. Its absolutely maddening when im trying to work things out and she obviously isnt capable of doing so.
...i've listened to many drs/vids here about this topic for 2 yrs, but i get so much more from yours. You have it 100% right. Worst part is..discovering the one person in family who i thought had my back, has been poking me in every conversation, but i just accepted it. 2 yrs of abuse from all the family (even being pushed down and got away with it by a crying act). Its all in the book, narcissist, golden child to me scapegoat). Im not young at all. I know understand. Thank you very much. I also hope you feel better!
Thank you Dr Shaler for this video...this was interesting and enlightening...I hope your health is improving ❤❤
Thank you doctor! How can you be so accurate about hijackals… I did not know how predictable and consistent the hijackal behavior could be until I listened to your podcasts.
Oh Doctor, I hope you are doing okay with your health as I see you are still on nasal cannula oxygen 😊🙏 Thank you for another informative video 👍😊
This is what's happening to me now.
Feel better Dr. Shaler.
❤
I should have found your channel years ago. It would have saved me so much pain. Your examples are right on. I recognize everything you say, but i just never saw the person behind it.
Thanks for the videos Doctor🎉❤😊
Yes alot of years hooked on hope.
It is very true and very sad I live with one right now I try to stay out of trouble relationship it just evil hijackal
I snapped and said something vile back, and now - obviously - I am *the* worst person. But I snapped, after months of ghastly name calling, cruelty, humiliation, and on that very night I was being verbally abused and belittled. So I snapped.
Hope you feel better not sure what is going on with your health. Sending you all things good. Take good care Dr. S.
You are new to me. I find your message amazingly proficient and easy to absorb. Thanks.
Sorry I missed the live😢🎉
This is so helpful, thank you!
I am concerned. Five in my family and a friend .
Am I crazy?????
All i see are these people.
Its good but it confusing
It’s scary,
When I tried to talk about the budget I was labelled as a control freak and was given the name "Warden"
Did you send him to jail? 😁😃
(they have it rigged. it’s like a coin machine, they want your engagement but you’ll only have wrong answers. its how they demand attention).
@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger according to him yes I held him in a prison.
It’s soooo draining he always turn it around on me or throws up what I’ve said in the past !!! When I explained myself he laughed when I pointed it out once again it was pointless and I’m drained I’m over it and I know it’s apart of my Bday coming up to we all know they like to make that about them
Yes, it’s emotionally exhausting! You’re right! Pointing out anything that a Hijackal does seldom makes a positive difference.
Happy birthday! Celebrate in ways he cannot ruin.
My dad was a big insulter! Thanks for your videos it really puts things into great perspective!
Do borderline personality disorder symptoms overlap with NPD?
Good typo excuse me
have question for you over affairs.
is it cheating or affair meeting up with your ex boyfriend behind your boyfriend back what type of cheating is it?
My daughter would say, you obviously don't know what I'm talking about, I'd of thought you'd of investigated this considering, so I'll educated you. Then she would lecture like she was speaking to a 5 year old, actually getting some of her facts,wrong. You couldn't ask about anything, she was to busy telling you why she was smarter.
One of the worst comments again,, should you advise on psychology issues ? Narcissistic use insults and rewards tactics to keep you at a level of control... In a second hand people use insults to feel superior and powerful when they can't afford to be... But every statements even if it hurts your emotional shell may not be an insult even if perceived as... Like me telling you that your degree of competence should be much higher before diffusing health advices on a,, by a,, public medium to a broader audience... The thing that will be a different done it's if insults are in fact humiliations in the first cycle are still effective but if the persons that operates or even commending this get pleasure or satisfactions out that it's not narcissistic behaviour alone but sadism which is one of the worst human plague a population can be afflicted with and that bring a monumental amount of derived problems because it derived of poor, fragile or mis attributed self esteem, immaturity and gross lack of judgement those will have various self contaminating effects wagging up through society its businesses and institutions.