43. Thirty one years of friendship: through recovery, babies, loss and love with Josie Eadie
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Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional or psychologist. These videos were created purely to share advice from my own experience as a survivor and eating disorder recovery coach and to encourage eating disorder sufferers to discuss their struggle openly. - Krátké a kreslené filmy
My oldest friendship is 10+ years old, and I feel really blessed to have her in my life. I have other female friends as well, but she's like my sister.
I really enjoyed hearing your perspectives on romantic relationships and friendships, but that might be because I wholeheartedly agree ❤
Hey i have a question if i have a chronic ed but a cyclical one, so one where i starve myself become underweight and then go through a period of eating and eating and gain it all back. And ive done this since i was 10 years old and im 22 now, am i gonna die?
Cause my ed is never represented and so i always have felt safe with my ed like "well people die from anorexia or bulimia, they dont die from anorexic and then normal weight and then back to anorexic again"
I dont even know what my ed is even called
The question that comes to mind for me is not whether you will die, but if you consider your life now truly living.
Your eating disorder does not need to have a name or diagnosis or to fit narrow criteria in order to be worthy of healing from.
There is something inside of you longing to be expressed or asking for safety and repression. Your eating disorder is serving a purpose on your life presently. What is that purpose? How does your eating disorder show up when life gets hard or people inevitable let you down because they are imperfect humans?
Twelve years is over half of your life living in internal chaos, you deserve peace and safety in your body.
I think what’s important is that you are asking really brave and difficult questions, that is the seed which will allow the flower of recovery to sprout and grow into blooming. Continue questioning, but remember that even if you do not immediately know the answers, with time they will be revealed.
Can you get in touch with that ten year old version of yourself seeking comfort through control of food and love them as they are, frightened and struggling for safety and survival? Go to them with love and patience and in time you may find that they are all the reason you need to make the brave decision to try another way of coping.
You deserve healing. ❤