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Turkey, Azerbaijan Kazakistan Bosnia and other Turkish countries are not typical Islamic countries. all of them are secular. Don't mistake them with any Middle Eastern countries.. because I know that all these countries have their own traditions..
@@user-pw6xd8vm4h Secular bir türk devleti görmek ve onu kabullenmek işlerine gelmiyor.. Almaniyayla Fransa aynı devlet olmadığı gibi her hangi bir arab devletiyle de Türkiye ve ya Azerbaycan aynı olamaz .
by typical you must mean proper islamic...middle eastern countries follow islam if u don't follow Islam then don't call yourself a Muslim country in the first place...Islam is very modern and literate religion but dating is haram...
@@beguilededitx We dont call ourselves muslim anyway. You call us.we dont describe us with one certain religion. We are just a country where people believe whatever they want. If dating is sin, then it is not the god of Turks.And it is not universal religion.Because god would know every culture he created.
There's nothing special about Turkish wedding. Weddings in india, Pakistan and iran are the same. They adopted Persian culture like most Muslim countries.
Thank you for sharing that piece of your culture. I'm learning that when learning a language it's really important to learn about the culture too. So this information you all are sharing is so appreciated by this subscriber.
I'd like to add something to this video, this is kind of getting outdated, I don't even know if it will exist within a decade. But good to learn I suppose!
@@ayhankaracaoglu6845 The people living there are Kurds. Kurdish culture and food exist. There is nothing that belongs to the Turks. The only thing they belong to is stealing the culture of the places they occupy.
Very nice and clear description. As a westener, it gives a very good overview on what to expect and how to make it a concrete reality... only thing remaining is to find the right bride :)
Think I’m developing feelings for a girl from Turkey and was a bit worried that I may just be misreading her but this definitely helps! 😀 wish me luck!
I love Turkish people.Brothers and Sisters.Against all evil.☝️❤️.I am not perfect and many girls ,including Bosniak girls,hurt my feelings telling me you are ugly and it is not my fault ,and played with me.I think you do know what was done to them during the WAR.
And dont write “ love from Pakistan, are u muslim “ turkish people are not religious as u please show respect and we dont have to like Pakistan . We love azerbaijan 🇦🇿 cause they are another turkish country and secular .
Im not even Pakistani but you’re bothered someone is telling you they love you? 😂😂. Omg i always hear that turks are arrogant and racist, but i choose not to believe them, but i guess they were right💀
@@mehdimazzouri7662 You'r over exaggerating.. You'r a liar.. this is 2021.. no one get killed just because they are not virgin.. Stop portray Turkey like your arabian country... we'r not arap.. go away troll
@@mehdimazzouri7662 you'r an arap.. mazzouri is an arab surname.. i know a morrocan guy surname mazzouri.. you'r liar & troll... we don't like your desert beduine culture...
We have foreign exchange students from Turkey here in Poland, almost all are women and they seem to be very attracted to European Men especially if they are tall and have green/blue eyes
I love Turkish people.Brothers and Sisters.Against all evil.☝️❤️.I am not perfect and many girls ,including Bosniak girls,hurt my feelings telling me you are ugly and it is not my fault ,and played with me.I think you do know what was done to them during the WAR.
Thanks for the information. It is very useful for my upcoming chapters for my book on wattpad, in which Indian girl after being separated from her boyfriend marries a Turkish expatriate in USA. Now I can use these ideas for the chapters.
You are probably like 13 years old, but I appreciate your efforts. You really show importance in your writing and even searched for your character's culture. That demonstrates how strong your appetite is for your hobbies. I wish I had the same enthusiasm as you. Congratulations😃@@btsarmyfan5392
??? İn big cities there is sex before marriage. Where do you live ? Your generation live together before getting married in cities. I am a mother of 57 years old and mother of a daugther of 24 years old and she and her friends live together with their boy friends, travel with their boy friends. I had lived together with my huby (than boy friend) for six years before we got married :) You are too old fashioned :)
I am sorry, but my gf from Istanbul cant tell about me at all or maybe in another year that we are just friends, never anything more or we have to marry. Do you have any tips for me and her to get her parents soothed up about a guy in her life, me.? Thank you so much! I really really appreciate any tip or idea.
What are you talking about in Turkey a lot of people date and live together and it’s a common thing what your talking about is in the olden days it’s 2021 not 1999
Religious dudes u guys really insane . U guys obsessed with religion . BE HUMAN firstly . And u can focus the religion . All religious countries are undevelopded .
Are you sure about that? ... ... Turkey is destined to become a Superpower by 2040. By 2050, both Turkey & Japan are expected to join Naval Forces to kick the USA out of the seas of the world and will (together) control the entire World seas. This puts Turkey in a very unique position that no other country has ever been in before. Having control of Eurasia and having control of The Worlds Seas both at the same time. All you need to be a world power is to have one or the other. Now, for the first time in history, a country (Turkey) will have both at once, together! What does this mean? It means Turkey will pass even the Ottoman Empire in terms of its land size (based on areas of influence). It means, according to the geopolitical experts, that the entire Mediterranean Sea, Black Sea, Aegean Sea will be 100% Turkish Coastlines. Also, the majority of the Caspian Sea, Red Sea & Strait of Hormuz will become Turkish Coastlines as well. I can point you to numerous non-Turkish, non-Muslim sources. In fact, I only use Western (American, Israeli, UK etc) sources for these claims as they are our harshest critics & the rest are subject to bias. According to Standard Chartered, by 2030 Turkey is going to become the 5th greatest economy in the world in terms of the Purchasing Power of GDP, GDP PPP (& 7th in terms of Nominal GDP according to other sources). There Is Not A Single Western Or European Country in the Top 9 by 2030: Chose your own western source from this google search: www.google.com/search?q=standard+chartered+2030+turkey Or, here is an English-language source: www.dailysabah.com/economy/2019/01/09/turkey-to-become-5th-largest-economy-in-the-world-by-2030-standard-chartered-predicts George Friedman, a Jewish-American Geopolitical Expert who is the owner of Geopolitical Futures & has advised 3 US Presidents has written a book titled "The Next 100 Years" where he outlines the above. Free PDF: www.mysearch.org.uk/website1/pdf/715.2.pdf Or, a great 30 minute video instead: Dr. George Friedman's speech talking about Turkey's Superpower Future: czcams.com/video/Xpqn_cR4aWI/video.html More? Israeli Professor David Passig, his book titled "2048" uses the most accurate, reliable data points across a variety of disciplines to make predictions about the future. This is the most extensive, data-driven book on predicting the power structures of the world. Here is a brief review of the book: forward.com/articles/129084/predicting-the-future-is-all-in-a-day-s-work/ Perhaps a relevant excerpt from the review: "He predicts that the first conflict during that time [early 2020's] will involve America joining with Turkey to prevent Russia from seeking to regain power in Eastern Europe. Then, in the mid-21st century, he said, Turkey, buoyed by success against Russia, will “start stretching their geopolitical power in the Middle East,” and Egypt, Lebanon and Syria will essentially become satellites of Turkey. Ultimately, he said, Turkey will succeed in bringing peace to the region." Or, check out this 9 minute clip of him talking about the above (Turkey's future) on CNNTurk (in English & Turkish): czcams.com/video/qfnJnY_87o4/video.html Finally, Post Crisis World prepared a World in 2050 Report by consulting the greatest Think Tanks & most well-regarded Strategic Experts around the world (including geopolitical, international relations, economic & geostrategic experts) They asked a variety of questions, one of them being: "Which country is most likely to become a Superpower by 2050?" Of course, not only was Turkey #1 in this valuable survey, it also beat the country in position #2 by a significant margin. This report also reveals that the countries which will decline the fastest & by the greatest margin are the Western European countries (USA included) by 2050. In fact, these countries exclusively occupy the top 10 in this regard. The Turkey related section is between pages 73-74, as a PDF, in the Post Crisis World Report below. Graph & comments by some of the experts are on page 74: eng.postcrisisworld.org/files/vision_2050.pdf Now, on to other sources, such as the US Think Tanks, whose entire purpose and point of existence is to figure out the future, as accurately as possible, in order to steer policy in line with US interests as successfully as possible. And you guessed it, in every single US think tank prediction I have read, Turkey is placed between positions 1-3 by 2050. Most of them placing Turkey in position number 2. Look into RAND Corporation's (a US think tank) predictions for Turkey. Also, look into Stratfor's predictions for Turkey. How is this possible? It's only possible because Turkey will increase its land size (based on areas of influence, not conquest). If it were to not increase its land size, it would only make it to position 11 by 2050. Consequently, France & even Spain will become Turkish areas of influence (like what France did to ex-Ottoman land Syria 100 years ago). In fact, even Israel, sometime after 2050, will become a Turkish area of influence. Before this happens, Coastal Russia, Ukraine, Balkans, North & East Africa, Middle East, Caucasus & Central Asia, all under Turkish control. A quick side-note: During The Great Turkish Rise, Turkey is expected to get peace between Palestine and Israel. Something deemed an impossibility for the last 70 years which has become less and less likely as each year went by. How? Turkey is going to have the POWER and the WILL to do it. Currently, the US has the power, but certainly not the will. This isn't going to be based on war & conquest. It's mostly going to be based on economic & cultural cooperation. In fact, these states are going to WANT TO join Turkey because it's going to be in their economic, social & national interest to do so. The Ottoman Empire lasted 600 years, the Turkish Empire will last at least 1,000 years according to our best guesses. It's not a fast-burning empire model like that of the US & UK. It's positioning itself for a very long rule, and you can gauge this from its current actions. Now you should also understand why the West has been attacking Turkey all these years, especially Erdogan. Because under Erdogan this transition of Turkey into a Superpower has accelerated. Turkey has foiled every single attack that the West has launched against it. These include the German/English sponsored Gezi Park/Taksim Square protests, driving 50% of the Turkish population out onto the streets to overthrow Erdogan & to hurt the Turkish Economy. The day before Gezi, interest rates were at 4.61% - the lowest rate Turkey had ever seen in the last 200 years. After Gezi, it shot up to 12%, putting a hard break on the Turkish economy. This was the foreign provocateurs' second aim & it succeeded. There was also the 2016 US-backed coup attempt against Turkey & assassination attempt against Erdogan (both failed). Now, the US-based economic & currency war (starting in August 2018 & continuing to this day), which has also failed and will likely backfire. But even if it were to succeed, it still cannot stop Turkey from becoming a Superpower. Finally, only under the control of the Ottoman Empire was there peace in the region. Since the Ottoman Empire fell, the entire region has been devastated by bloodshed and suffering. Now, the rise of Turkey will bring peace and stability to these regions again for the next 1,000 (+/- 200) years, according to estimates.
Thank you so much for sharing the custome and traditions of Turkey's wedding ceremony now, I'm a little bit have a knowledge of this tradition though I am married but I am interested to know because I am fond of watching Turkish series dramas in CZcams with English sub title. And also interested in learning the simple greeting Turkish language. ISHALLAH hope to visit Turkey in the future.
I wish you had spoken a bit more about dating, and been more clear about what it's like in the larger cities. I've been learning a lot about Turkey this year, but information about this topic seems to be quite vague. I'm just curious about how accepted casual dating, living together, and sex before marriage have become. Not for any personal reasons. 😄 I've just been finding it very interesting. Sending some love across the ocean from Canada 🥰🇨🇦 Very much hope to visit Turkey some day!
Most people especially women wouldn't have sex before marriage because of religious concerns. It's a big sin to do that out of marriage. But how ever some people (sinners or non believers) do that. That's how it is in Turkey.
99% of People don’t casual date like the west or have sex before marriage. Even Istanbul being liberal , still have strong muslim values towards marriage and family.
@@missMediaChick i was allowed to meet my wife with elder supervision before I married her. Families find you someone and you can talk to each other to see if you click, if it’s a yes , you just marry. It’s like how courting was done in Godfather when Michael went to Italy before marrying his wife.
Bosnia And Turkey,Brothers/Sisters,I Hope We As Muslims Unite And Also keep An Eye On The Bad Guys Who Want To Kill Our Brothers And Rape Our Sisters Again. I Am Tired Of People Blaming Muslims Always And I Am Tired Of Us Getting Called Terrorists,We Are Not.I Saw What Aggression Is With My Own Eyes,( Bosnia )1992-1995.
To all the Turkish racists commenting No .. why do you hate? I'm Turkish and I like Somalia, İ have had Somalian friends we used to play outside, they're nice and relaxed people 😘 not like you haters
As someone who is preparing for such a marriage, it is very expensive, probably between 5000-10000 for the ceremony, it's supposed to be something the family helps pay for in Turkey, but I am a westerner coming from individualist family so I have to raise the money myself :D
@@tomatom9666 wow you are willing to spend that much. just ask your wife to lower the price tag and invest the saving in index fun for retirement. I think this could be millions on retirement. I can't believe people spend that much for wedding and forget about their golden years.
Turkish wedding very similar to indian wedding . However its customary to hsve a religious ceremony and then a western like party with food drinks alcohol and dancing. What you mentioned is what i have watched in turkish drama😊😊😊
99% of People don’t casual date like the west or have sex before marriage. Even Istanbul being liberal , still have strong traditional values towards marriage and family.
@𝙵𝚊𝚝𝚖𝚊 𝙳𝚎𝚗𝚒𝚣 where can I find people to casually date in Istanbul? I am visiting here for a month and dont know if the women here are like those in america
@𝙵𝚊𝚝𝚖𝚊 𝙳𝚎𝚗𝚒𝚣 jajaj night clubs You talk about bitches? So for a Foreigner That come here how easy is to find a girl and adventure and which city do you recomend?
@@emad5594 Istanbul has both quite conservative-religious and secular neighborhoods. And some count on the Middle side, neither too liberal nor too religious.
@General Khan you do not have the right to bad-mouth on the things you don't know about from both sides perspectives so you better don't comment. Political and any other problems should be seperated from what you describe as "hospitality" in my opinion and I hope you get my point here. I'm not saying we are the best as we are not and I'm also getting annoyed when they want to move here and live here et cetera but that still doesn't mean you can bad-mouth.
@General Khan dude, I can understand your point here. And yeah I'm sure you're not trying to be as racist as you sound under the comments. Let's be honest, do they really teach us the real things happened between coutries exactly ? The answer is no. Why would people want to badmouth their own country? Nobody would. You are Greek or not, I appreciate you and I still don't understand the exact reason of existence of these haters. I live in Turkey I have never heard a Turkish person say anything negative about Greece to me. Ever. It seems to be something that we very rarely think or care about. We shoot the gun back if they bad-mouth, because we take care of our country. And let's be real, we have many reasons to hate you when we were only 5 countries (mostly Muslim ones) when this "Greek war of independence" happened. While many countries took their back in the end it's led to the current modern Greece things. We have similar things with Greece even if they don't believe it. I don't know why in Greece they keep pulling stuff out of their a$$es and parents keep making their children hate Turkey out of nowhere. One of my friends fell in love with a Turkish boy and got disowned by her GREEK parents just because she fell in love with a HUMAN being. We have many stuff happened in the past and these are just examples. You can't judge people because of their ancestors and that's just racism and showing your anger through their religion which is pathetic because even if most people think so, Turkey is NOT exactly as Islamic as it used to be. We, Z generation is well aware of education and our history and we love making researches about it not to get something wrong. Yes we have the parts can be called "racist" but we've never poked our noses into other people's lives nor their religious. Everyone had a freedom in Ottoman Empire and of course you had to fight in order to have independence but you had to do that not in Ottoman Empire, but in different Empires of you was to be in different one. Any of people would want to bad-mouth their countries and they may change the way of history in order to avoid that. You can hear many times 'We did not want to get into fights but they pushed us into them' a lot and even if you don't want to believe I don't think it's not any different in Greece, US, Italy or any other countries. we should be aware of this and let the past go because we are all seperated countries right now and there is no something called "Empire". We are in 21th century, still having arguments with Armenians as they think we murdered some of their citizens in the past for "fun" and we've been told that Armenians burnt many towns, kidnapped children and even had surgeries and other stuff on them and killed them slowly that way. Just like Hitler. So yeah dude, we are same old by the way, I hope I've enlighten you by any way.
This is very normal because Turks and Armenians have lived together for centuries. We have a common culture not only with the Armenians but also with the Balkan countries
@@mikespice8907 The Turks came to their current lands by migrating, in fact, these lands have many races and cultures. Even now, there are different cultures and speech accents in every region of Turkey
@@puni1843 omg dude your so dumb! it doesnt matter who came to whose land, its all about who is or was stronger... americans came and kicked out the natives, but no one says america belongs to natives
There is not a regulation specific for foreigners i think. It is up to decide but if you are gonna do a turkish wedding, it is pretty much going to be like this.
DEEPLY SADDENED TO SEE THE COMMENT SECTION FILLED WITH PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT COUNTRIES SPREADING LOVE BUT TURKISH PEOPLE HARSHLY AND ARROGANTLY REPLYING...
Date only when you are ready for marriage. Don't go kissing them or embracing them unless you are certain he or she is the one. Heartbreak leads to mental problems.
“Payin for the bride “ is a İslamic rule to protect woman. No one can ( includes groom) take to money from her , only she can use the money for what she wants . İn addition , she can want everything by her husbands
No. The founder of our country officially abolished this after he founded Turkey. But it still continues in the Kurdish tradition. Unfortunately. I hope that one day it will come to an end completely
@@sudebulut6299 you think the maher(bridal money) is to protect women? From what? Why is it that there is a need that the male pay money to women for marriage while in modern times both women and men work, earn money? There are tons of couples in the world where both women and men work and there is no bridal money paid and they are just fine. And you have also said that "women can spend husbands money but not vice versa" why? Why is there such a rule? Why is it not that both male and female sides earn money by working, either both sides can use each others' money or no side? Why is it that there always has to be unequally regarding genders when it comes to marriage(particularly when both women and men work and get equal or near equal pay). The idea that I have to pay a lot of money to my girlfriend just to get married("somehow to protect her") is insane and needless.
im a foreign and i have a turkish gf she planing about the wedding and i have a serious problem about money im afraid that her family might not accept me because im poor😢
I can see the merit behind the man enduring the salted cup of coffee as a symbolic representation of him choosing to take on the hardships that come with marriage and inviting a wife into his life. However from this first impression the fact that the salted cup of coffee is supposed to be some sort of undeclared promise that the man is willing to endure anything that comes from the bride can serve as a bad precedent upon which to build a marriage. It literally has the woman intentionally preparing something that is displeasing for her future husband and expecting him to accept it with a smile on his face. It signals to the bride that she is absolved of any responsibility from her own actions and in many ways is free to act however she pleases regardless of the effect it has on the groom because he is bound to bare it. Any such hardships in marriage should come from unexpected circumstances and without intentions of creating hardship (from both sides).While a woman may be excused to some degree due to her emotionality I feel that this type of tradition tends to do more harm than good. Now I really hope that last part about stepping on each others feet is not as commonly practiced anymore... because that is just planely going to open the door to a dysfunctional marriage
Tuzlu kahve damada şu mesajı verir istemeden yapacağım hatalar için beni af edermisin, damadın o kahveyi içmesi geline şu mesajı verir bir ömür acı tatlı bir çok şey yaşayacağız ve bunu birlikte yapacağız sonsuza dek
Good grief. You're overthinking it. It's JUST a fun custom/tradition. One of the reasons why many marriages fail today is because both husband and wife have a lack of patience and don't know how to pick and choose their battles. You have to pick and choose your battles in every relationship. Sometimes you have to let some things slide. Not ever single thing should be be turned into a battle of words or a verbal sparring. It's called giving your partner some "grace". But to lend so much gravity to a tradition and to treat it as a precursor to how that marriage will go ....is a little.,,."much"....in my opinion. I highly doubt that this tradition leads Turkish women to deliberately prepare salty dishes for their husbands and incur other forms of abuse toward their spouse with the notion that he should tolerate it without protest. Sound minded adults are aware that marriage doesn't work like that. In the Indian culture, there is a tradition of hiding a ring or something in a platter of milk and the first to find the ring will be the "boss" int the marriage. So, if the bride finds it first, it implies that she will be the boss. But guess what? Despite this tradition, countries like India and Pakistan have a patriarchal culture where it's usually the husband and his family that are in charge and many of the cultural beliefs and expectations generally place the women at a disadvantage. And that lil' 2-5 minute wedding tradition of finding the missing piece of whatever in a platter of milk has not been able to eradicate unjust cultural issues even if the bride does end up wining in that tradition/game. So, let the turks enjoy their traditions without being a Negative Nancy about it.
It's an old tradition from the time they didn't ask girls opinion. Salted coffee meant she liked someone else. Then it evolved to testing the groom as they said in the video.
@@Ayse-wf9es so glad u said it so well the person above just destroyed the romance behind the salted coffee and the shoe 👠 stepping I’m not Turkish but I know the reason behind this tradition and I love these both traditions …thank you for stating it so well and clear ..marriage should not be a battleground and definitely there’s something called grace that should be granted to both partners …
I Know little Turkish Like Merhaba ,ben Asad Iyiyim , iyi Ben ekmek yer and other basic stuff I'm from Pakistan and i want to visit Turkey one day , love u Turks 🇹🇷❤️🇵🇰 Edit: i don't understand why you guys doing this.. Did Pakistan do something wrong?
True but you will become a loose goose if you sleep with every boyfriend. It’s not good. that’s what most women do. Every guy they like or becomes their boyfriend.
@@shimaaadel1739 iknow that religion doesent allow pre marriage sex but who told you that we should live by the rules of others including religion. having an affair with your partner is beautifull and normal isnt something bad
@@georgemev3488 الرب هو من يأمرنا بذلك وليس اننا نعيش وفق قواعد الآخرين علينا أن نطيع الرب حتي في المسيحيه لديكم هذا الأمر من الرب طالما أنك تحب فتاه لماذا لاتتزوجها وتعيشان باستقرار معا ولاتقول لي الزواج مجرد ورقه هذه الورقه ضامنه لحقوق أبناءك في المستقبل ولحقوق زوجتك صدقني حاول القراءه في الدين النساء ليست للتسليه جميع النساء في العالم ان احبوا احد يريدوا الزواج منه والاستقرار معه للأبد انتم من تحاولون اقناعهم ان الزواج يقتل الحب فالحب الحقيقي لاينتهي بل يزيد ويكبر مع الايام كأول يوم حاول القراءه في الدين الرب انزل الدين لينظم حياتنا لكي لايكون هناك فوضي او فساد اقرء ولو خمس دقائق مع كامل احترامي لدينك
@@shimaaadel1739 First of all i dont have a releigion secondly i know some staff about releigion and i came to the conclusion that there is no such proof us your "lord" except some books such us bible and quaran which is definitely certain that are written by a human hand. Why not marry her? well how can you be so sure that you will leave in harmony together if you are not allowed to live together, because as far as i know releigion forbidens to a couple to live together if they are not married so there is another mistake due to the fact that plenty couples lived together only after they got married as a result many of them got divorced, whereas if they were allowed to live together this wouldn't happen. And last but not least no one mention that a purpose of a woman is to provide pleassure to man no one said such thing besides sex is normal thing and is a pleassure for a couple it doesnt mean it should be only for having kids.
I don't like Western calture , or dating.... etc.. can u imagine a children grow up but they don't know who is their father... Almost 10% children in western country grow up but they don't know who is their father
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My Turkish female friend speaks about romance quite a lot, so this makes sense :)
Turkey, Azerbaijan Kazakistan Bosnia and other Turkish countries are not typical Islamic countries. all of them are secular. Don't mistake them with any Middle Eastern countries.. because I know that all these countries have their own traditions..
Ağzın bal yesin. ❤ aynen öyle. Millet bir türlü kabullenemiyor Türki cumhuriyetlerin seküler olduğunu.
adamlar bizi taliban zihniyetinde sanıyor ya
@@user-pw6xd8vm4h Secular bir türk devleti görmek ve onu kabullenmek işlerine gelmiyor.. Almaniyayla Fransa aynı devlet olmadığı gibi her hangi bir arab devletiyle de Türkiye ve ya Azerbaycan aynı olamaz .
by typical you must mean proper islamic...middle eastern countries follow islam if u don't follow Islam then don't call yourself a Muslim country in the first place...Islam is very modern and literate religion but dating is haram...
@@beguilededitx We dont call ourselves muslim anyway. You call us.we dont describe us with one certain religion. We are just a country where people believe whatever they want. If dating is sin, then it is not the god of Turks.And it is not universal religion.Because god would know every culture he created.
Turkish weddings sound very elaborate and filled with ceremony. I think its beautiful to carry out tradition.
There's nothing special about Turkish wedding. Weddings in india, Pakistan and iran are the same. They adopted Persian culture like most Muslim countries.
I as an American man just Startes talking to a turkish woman and this is really helpful thank you for the insight
hey how is it going now?
Thank you for sharing that piece of your culture. I'm learning that when learning a language it's really important to learn about the culture too. So this information you all are sharing is so appreciated by this subscriber.
I'd like to add something to this video, this is kind of getting outdated, I don't even know if it will exist within a decade. But good to learn I suppose!
A Great watch on an Age Old custom and its severe consequences - Sibling marriages czcams.com/video/v2wDriJxAxY/video.html
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
I spent one year in Diyarbakir in the 1970's. I loved your culture, people and food. One of my greatest experiences.
Good that you liked. Btw Diyarbakır has kurdish culture, people and food.
This is not true. Diyarbakır is a Turkmen Turkish city. Ethnic Kirmanchi population are outsiders from Iran Zagros@@Horusian
@@ayhankaracaoglu6845 Kardeş ideolojini al kaybol.
@@ayhankaracaoglu6845 The people living there are Kurds. Kurdish culture and food exist. There is nothing that belongs to the Turks. The only thing they belong to is stealing the culture of the places they occupy.
Ataturk is truly a man of vision, God bless him.
He really is. he was a genius and always cared deeply about women's rights
Lol joke of the century
@@modichuhaaa2735 Don't talk about Ataturk
Very nice and clear description. As a westener, it gives a very good overview on what to expect and how to make it a concrete reality... only thing remaining is to find the right bride :)
After watching alot of Turkish dramas,I'm beginning to admire the Turkish.
Think I’m developing feelings for a girl from Turkey and was a bit worried that I may just be misreading her but this definitely helps! 😀 wish me luck!
I love Turkish people.Brothers and Sisters.Against all evil.☝️❤️.I am not perfect and many girls ,including Bosniak girls,hurt my feelings telling me you are ugly and it is not my fault ,and played with me.I think you do know what was done to them during the WAR.
Your Muslim?
@@haristhebosniaklion8584 I think Turks are more degenerate than Indonesia
Here for the same reason.
Thank you for sharing this insightful knowledge! We have very similar traditions in Algeria❤️
Turkish man and woman are pretty attractive and nice looking person. Thank you for your beautiful culture :)
Love from India❤❤❤
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
I love how she's becoming happier and more and more excited as she speaks about the wedding, hihihi
And dont write “ love from Pakistan, are u muslim “ turkish people are not religious as u please show respect and we dont have to like Pakistan . We love azerbaijan 🇦🇿 cause they are another turkish country and secular .
Yes i totally agree.
Pakistani’s are free to write whatever they want. You don’t speak for all Turkish people. We don’t care who you like or not.
Im not even Pakistani but you’re bothered someone is telling you they love you? 😂😂. Omg i always hear that turks are arrogant and racist, but i choose not to believe them, but i guess they were right💀
@@euphoricrain775 he is Sprecher of turks
@@mertkorkut3667 that’s like saying the KKK represents America. Simply not true.
So fascinated by the Turkish culture. Definitely marrying a Turkish women in future (wish me luck).
Good luck
Godspeed my friend
Thank you for this video. Your English is awesome!!!! 😊❤ Can’t wait to one day visit Türkiye. ❤
This is very interesting and beautiful culture and tradition.
"There is no sex before marriage in conservative regions". Well I wouldn't be so sure of that.
@@mehdimazzouri7662 Turkey is not like other muslim majority country... i lives with my gf, we'r not married...
@@mehdimazzouri7662 You'r over exaggerating.. You'r a liar.. this is 2021.. no one get killed just because they are not virgin.. Stop portray Turkey like your arabian country... we'r not arap.. go away troll
@@mehdimazzouri7662 you'r an arap.. mazzouri is an arab surname.. i know a morrocan guy surname mazzouri.. you'r liar & troll... we don't like your desert beduine culture...
@@mehdimazzouri7662 Turkish are not Arabs
Its true ...if you would do it as a traditional Turkish person you better don't tell anyone haha
Respekt for turkish brother from Albania🇦🇱
We have foreign exchange students from Turkey here in Poland, almost all are women and they seem to be very attracted to European Men especially if they are tall and have green/blue eyes
I love Turkish people.Brothers and Sisters.Against all evil.☝️❤️.I am not perfect and many girls ,including Bosniak girls,hurt my feelings telling me you are ugly and it is not my fault ,and played with me.I think you do know what was done to them during the WAR.
Yes tragic and evil.
Is not strange to me, Im Persian living in Canada and LOVE to meet a Turkish girl
Thanks for the information. It is very useful for my upcoming chapters for my book on wattpad, in which Indian girl after being separated from her boyfriend marries a Turkish expatriate in USA.
Now I can use these ideas for the chapters.
Best of luck 😊
LOL
@@kubilaytubadan7406 why lol? And for what lol?
You are probably like 13 years old, but I appreciate your efforts. You really show importance in your writing and even searched for your character's culture. That demonstrates how strong your appetite is for your hobbies. I wish I had the same enthusiasm as you. Congratulations😃@@btsarmyfan5392
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
??? İn big cities there is sex before marriage. Where do you live ? Your generation live together before getting married in cities. I am a mother of 57 years old and mother of a daugther of 24 years old and she and her friends live together with their boy friends, travel with their boy friends. I had lived together with my huby (than boy friend) for six years before we got married :) You are too old fashioned :)
Yes thats true
@@DiePatriotin-Arisch Love from india❤
I am sorry, but my gf from Istanbul cant tell about me at all or maybe in another year that we are just friends, never anything more or we have to marry. Do you have any tips for me and her to get her parents soothed up about a guy in her life, me.? Thank you so much! I really really appreciate any tip or idea.
@@tms174 I think her family is conservative then. How old is she? Does she have any brothers or sisters?
What are you talking about in Turkey a lot of people date and live together and it’s a common thing what your talking about is in the olden days it’s 2021 not 1999
Religious dudes u guys really insane . U guys obsessed with religion . BE HUMAN firstly . And u can focus the religion . All religious countries are undevelopded .
Are you sure about that? ... ...
Turkey is destined to become a Superpower by 2040. By 2050, both Turkey & Japan are expected to join Naval Forces to kick the USA out of the seas of the world and will (together) control the entire World seas. This puts Turkey in a very unique position that no other country has ever been in before. Having control of Eurasia and having control of The Worlds Seas both at the same time. All you need to be a world power is to have one or the other. Now, for the first time in history, a country (Turkey) will have both at once, together! What does this mean?
It means Turkey will pass even the Ottoman Empire in terms of its land size (based on areas of influence). It means, according to the geopolitical experts, that the entire Mediterranean Sea, Black Sea, Aegean Sea will be 100% Turkish Coastlines. Also, the majority of the Caspian Sea, Red Sea & Strait of Hormuz will become Turkish Coastlines as well.
I can point you to numerous non-Turkish, non-Muslim sources. In fact, I only use Western (American, Israeli, UK etc) sources for these claims as they are our harshest critics & the rest are subject to bias.
According to Standard Chartered, by 2030 Turkey is going to become the 5th greatest economy in the world in terms of the Purchasing Power of GDP, GDP PPP (& 7th in terms of Nominal GDP according to other sources). There Is Not A Single Western Or European Country in the Top 9 by 2030:
Chose your own western source from this google search: www.google.com/search?q=standard+chartered+2030+turkey
Or, here is an English-language source: www.dailysabah.com/economy/2019/01/09/turkey-to-become-5th-largest-economy-in-the-world-by-2030-standard-chartered-predicts
George Friedman, a Jewish-American Geopolitical Expert who is the owner of Geopolitical Futures & has advised 3 US Presidents has written a book titled "The Next 100 Years" where he outlines the above. Free PDF: www.mysearch.org.uk/website1/pdf/715.2.pdf
Or, a great 30 minute video instead: Dr. George Friedman's speech talking about Turkey's Superpower Future: czcams.com/video/Xpqn_cR4aWI/video.html
More? Israeli Professor David Passig, his book titled "2048" uses the most accurate, reliable data points across a variety of disciplines to make predictions about the future. This is the most extensive, data-driven book on predicting the power structures of the world. Here is a brief review of the book: forward.com/articles/129084/predicting-the-future-is-all-in-a-day-s-work/
Perhaps a relevant excerpt from the review:
"He predicts that the first conflict during that time [early 2020's] will involve America joining with Turkey to prevent Russia from seeking to regain power in Eastern Europe. Then, in the mid-21st century, he said, Turkey, buoyed by success against Russia, will “start stretching their geopolitical power in the Middle East,” and Egypt, Lebanon and Syria will essentially become satellites of Turkey. Ultimately, he said, Turkey will succeed in bringing peace to the region."
Or, check out this 9 minute clip of him talking about the above (Turkey's future) on CNNTurk (in English & Turkish): czcams.com/video/qfnJnY_87o4/video.html
Finally, Post Crisis World prepared a World in 2050 Report by consulting the greatest Think Tanks & most well-regarded Strategic Experts around the world (including geopolitical, international relations, economic & geostrategic experts) They asked a variety of questions, one of them being: "Which country is most likely to become a Superpower by 2050?"
Of course, not only was Turkey #1 in this valuable survey, it also beat the country in position #2 by a significant margin. This report also reveals that the countries which will decline the fastest & by the greatest margin are the Western European countries (USA included) by 2050. In fact, these countries exclusively occupy the top 10 in this regard.
The Turkey related section is between pages 73-74, as a PDF, in the Post Crisis World Report below. Graph & comments by some of the experts are on page 74: eng.postcrisisworld.org/files/vision_2050.pdf
Now, on to other sources, such as the US Think Tanks, whose entire purpose and point of existence is to figure out the future, as accurately as possible, in order to steer policy in line with US interests as successfully as possible. And you guessed it, in every single US think tank prediction I have read, Turkey is placed between positions 1-3 by 2050. Most of them placing Turkey in position number 2. Look into RAND Corporation's (a US think tank) predictions for Turkey. Also, look into Stratfor's predictions for Turkey.
How is this possible? It's only possible because Turkey will increase its land size (based on areas of influence, not conquest). If it were to not increase its land size, it would only make it to position 11 by 2050. Consequently, France & even Spain will become Turkish areas of influence (like what France did to ex-Ottoman land Syria 100 years ago). In fact, even Israel, sometime after 2050, will become a Turkish area of influence. Before this happens, Coastal Russia, Ukraine, Balkans, North & East Africa, Middle East, Caucasus & Central Asia, all under Turkish control.
A quick side-note: During The Great Turkish Rise, Turkey is expected to get peace between Palestine and Israel. Something deemed an impossibility for the last 70 years which has become less and less likely as each year went by. How? Turkey is going to have the POWER and the WILL to do it. Currently, the US has the power, but certainly not the will.
This isn't going to be based on war & conquest. It's mostly going to be based on economic & cultural cooperation. In fact, these states are going to WANT TO join Turkey because it's going to be in their economic, social & national interest to do so. The Ottoman Empire lasted 600 years, the Turkish Empire will last at least 1,000 years according to our best guesses. It's not a fast-burning empire model like that of the US & UK. It's positioning itself for a very long rule, and you can gauge this from its current actions.
Now you should also understand why the West has been attacking Turkey all these years, especially Erdogan. Because under Erdogan this transition of Turkey into a Superpower has accelerated. Turkey has foiled every single attack that the West has launched against it. These include the German/English sponsored Gezi Park/Taksim Square protests, driving 50% of the Turkish population out onto the streets to overthrow Erdogan & to hurt the Turkish Economy. The day before Gezi, interest rates were at 4.61% - the lowest rate Turkey had ever seen in the last 200 years. After Gezi, it shot up to 12%, putting a hard break on the Turkish economy. This was the foreign provocateurs' second aim & it succeeded.
There was also the 2016 US-backed coup attempt against Turkey & assassination attempt against Erdogan (both failed). Now, the US-based economic & currency war (starting in August 2018 & continuing to this day), which has also failed and will likely backfire. But even if it were to succeed, it still cannot stop Turkey from becoming a Superpower.
Finally, only under the control of the Ottoman Empire was there peace in the region. Since the Ottoman Empire fell, the entire region has been devastated by bloodshed and suffering. Now, the rise of Turkey will bring peace and stability to these regions again for the next 1,000 (+/- 200) years, according to estimates.
All CZcamsrs are ignorant or so u seem
Except Christian countries.
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No sex before marriage is a lie most of us do it, naturally and ı am really glad it is not a fact. Cause that is just stupid in my opinion.
there is my man!
Yorumlar tam kafayı yemelik. Sinir oldum
Wow beautiful culture
Thank you so much for sharing the custome and traditions of Turkey's wedding ceremony now, I'm a little bit have a knowledge of this tradition though I am married but I am interested to know because I am fond of watching Turkish series dramas in CZcams with English sub title. And also interested in learning the simple greeting Turkish language. ISHALLAH hope to visit Turkey in the future.
Our pleasure!
I wish you had spoken a bit more about dating, and been more clear about what it's like in the larger cities. I've been learning a lot about Turkey this year, but information about this topic seems to be quite vague. I'm just curious about how accepted casual dating, living together, and sex before marriage have become. Not for any personal reasons. 😄 I've just been finding it very interesting. Sending some love across the ocean from Canada 🥰🇨🇦 Very much hope to visit Turkey some day!
Most people especially women wouldn't have sex before marriage because of religious concerns. It's a big sin to do that out of marriage. But how ever some people (sinners or non believers) do that. That's how it is in Turkey.
@@karagun5547 Not because religion but cultural pressure.
99% of People don’t casual date like the west or have sex before marriage. Even Istanbul being liberal , still have strong muslim values towards marriage and family.
@@osmans1694 That's interesting. So how do you know you like someone enough to get into a serious relationship with them if you don't date first? 🤔
@@missMediaChick i was allowed to meet my wife with elder supervision before I married her. Families find you someone and you can talk to each other to see if you click, if it’s a yes , you just marry. It’s like how courting was done in Godfather when Michael went to Italy before marrying his wife.
Wow that's so beautiful culture, love your explanation
Glad you enjoyed it!
I am Algerian and I love Turkey
Bosnia And Turkey,Brothers/Sisters,I Hope We As Muslims Unite And Also keep An Eye On The Bad Guys Who Want To Kill Our Brothers And Rape Our Sisters Again. I Am Tired Of People Blaming Muslims Always And I Am Tired Of Us Getting Called Terrorists,We Are Not.I Saw What Aggression Is With My Own Eyes,( Bosnia )1992-1995.
I am from Somalia 🇸🇴🇸🇴
Turkey & Somalia are brothers
& I like Turkish people
No
No we arent brothers
Nopd
To all the Turkish racists commenting No .. why do you hate? I'm Turkish and I like Somalia, İ have had Somalian friends we used to play outside, they're nice and relaxed people 😘 not like you haters
@@Leaveyt505 arap go back to somalia
That’s interesting, thanks for sharing!
You're welcome! glad you enjoyed!
I would be interesting in dating with her. She looks beautiful.
Lol why I am even watching this, l have not even step out of my room for months
That's why You are watching, Because CZcams videos are like an opening window to the world. I watch alot of trip videos. Its fun.
Wonderful language, wonderful country.. We love Turkey.. Turkish is our friend.. ☺
Lots of love from Turkey!
@@Turkishle your community hate us but you love us?
@@Turkishle some turkish people commenting me that we don't like Pakistanis and don't come to our country......
@@uroojmirza7745 yes, many turkish people dont like pakistanis. i can accept that as a turk
@@perfectionismielycris2550 ok everyone selects his own path
That seems too expensive. Can you discuss about finance aspects of it as well.
As someone who is preparing for such a marriage, it is very expensive, probably between 5000-10000 for the ceremony, it's supposed to be something the family helps pay for in Turkey, but I am a westerner coming from individualist family so I have to raise the money myself :D
@@tomatom9666 wow you are willing to spend that much. just ask your wife to lower the price tag and invest the saving in index fun for retirement. I think this could be millions on retirement. I can't believe people spend that much for wedding and forget about their golden years.
Salt in the coffee😂😂😂 the tradition that the bride steps on the grooms foot is well alive in Croatia, did it, it didn't help😂😂😂
Turkish wedding very similar to indian wedding .
However its customary to hsve a religious ceremony and then a western like party with food drinks alcohol and dancing.
What you mentioned is what i have watched in turkish drama😊😊😊
Hello from the Russia! Our both states are comrades.
first time i heard a russian talk well about Turks 🤝🏼🇹🇷🇷🇺
99% of People don’t casual date like the west or have sex before marriage. Even Istanbul being liberal , still have strong traditional values towards marriage and family.
@𝙵𝚊𝚝𝚖𝚊 𝙳𝚎𝚗𝚒𝚣 where can I find people to casually date in Istanbul? I am visiting here for a month and dont know if the women here are like those in america
@𝙵𝚊𝚝𝚖𝚊 𝙳𝚎𝚗𝚒𝚣 jajaj night clubs You talk about bitches?
So for a Foreigner That come here how easy is to find a girl and adventure and which city do you recomend?
@☽𝗞𝗮𝘄𝗮𝗶𝗶 𝗔𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗹𝗶𝗮☾ sup bbg, if you want an autistic sigma lifter from America as a husband just lemme kno.
@@emad5594 Istanbul has both quite conservative-religious and secular neighborhoods. And some count on the Middle side, neither too liberal nor too religious.
Little osman i am sorry but this is not true LOL
How much could cost a wedding in turkey? And how hard is for a foreigner man be accepted in a family to marry a turkish girl
This may vary by family. but if you really love each other they will accept it too.
they don't care about your country but every family in turkey ask a lot of questions if you want to marry someone
I want to vist Turkey one day only because of Turkish Drama..From 🇳🇵Birth place of Lord Gautam Buddha.
I just did ! For the very same reason . It was awesome !!!
we dont need poo
@@jasondeluca4340 what is poo
You forgot to mention traditional and modern costumes regarding bride's gold, and the house furnishing.
Lots of thirsty South Asian men here I see. Calm down people, jeez.
@General Khan 🇵🇰🇮🇳🇧🇩
It's almost always these three flags you see in the comments. Stop embarrassing your countries FFS
@General Khan you do not have the right to bad-mouth on the things you don't know about from both sides perspectives so you better don't comment. Political and any other problems should be seperated from what you describe as "hospitality" in my opinion and I hope you get my point here. I'm not saying we are the best as we are not and I'm also getting annoyed when they want to move here and live here et cetera but that still doesn't mean you can bad-mouth.
@General Khan dude, I can understand your point here. And yeah I'm sure you're not trying to be as racist as you sound under the comments. Let's be honest, do they really teach us the real things happened between coutries exactly ?
The answer is no. Why would people want to badmouth their own country? Nobody would. You are Greek or not, I appreciate you and I still don't understand the exact reason of existence of these haters.
I live in Turkey I have never heard a Turkish person say anything negative about Greece to me. Ever. It seems to be something that we very rarely think or care about. We shoot the gun back if they bad-mouth, because we take care of our country. And let's be real, we have many reasons to hate you when we were only 5 countries (mostly Muslim ones) when this "Greek war of independence" happened. While many countries took their back in the end it's led to the current modern Greece things. We have similar things with Greece even if they don't believe it. I don't know why in Greece they keep pulling stuff out of their a$$es and parents keep making their children hate Turkey out of nowhere. One of my friends fell in love with a Turkish boy and got disowned by her GREEK parents just because she fell in love with a HUMAN being.
We have many stuff happened in the past and these are just examples. You can't judge people because of their ancestors and that's just racism and showing your anger through their religion which is pathetic because even if most people think so, Turkey is NOT exactly as Islamic as it used to be. We, Z generation is well aware of education and our history and we love making researches about it not to get something wrong. Yes we have the parts can be called "racist" but we've never poked our noses into other people's lives nor their religious. Everyone had a freedom in Ottoman Empire and of course you had to fight in order to have independence but you had to do that not in Ottoman Empire, but in different Empires of you was to be in different one.
Any of people would want to bad-mouth their countries and they may change the way of history in order to avoid that. You can hear many times 'We did not want to get into fights but they pushed us into them' a lot and even if you don't want to believe I don't think it's not any different in Greece, US, Italy or any other countries.
we should be aware of this and let the past go because we are all seperated countries right now and there is no something called "Empire".
We are in 21th century, still having arguments with Armenians as they think we murdered some of their citizens in the past for "fun" and we've been told that Armenians burnt many towns, kidnapped children and even had surgeries and other stuff on them and killed them slowly that way. Just like Hitler.
So yeah dude, we are same old by the way, I hope I've enlighten you by any way.
@@bag3lmonst3r72 mostly 🇵🇰 🇧🇩 🇮🇩 men are found in the comments..very few from 🇮🇳...
@@gouravdas7989 hahhahahah Alhamdulillah
Thank you so much for such a great video with so many meaningful information :)
Glad it was helpful!
Very similar to the Armenian marriage traditions mines the Hana.. I love this video ❣️👏👏👏
This is very normal because Turks and Armenians have lived together for centuries. We have a common culture not only with the Armenians but also with the Balkan countries
Glad you enjoyed!
true, but turks and armenians didnt really live together, it was more like armenians lived with turks and got turkish culture
@@mikespice8907 The Turks came to their current lands by migrating, in fact, these lands have many races and cultures. Even now, there are different cultures and speech accents in every region of Turkey
@@puni1843 omg dude your so dumb! it doesnt matter who came to whose land, its all about who is or was stronger... americans came and kicked out the natives, but no one says america belongs to natives
Evlilik olmadan sex olmaz diyorda sanki çok uyuyoruz bu kurala ;)
köylerde bile neler dönüyor haberleri yok
Abartmayın. Ülkemizde genel olarak böyle.
No sex before marriage well I want to know what's am getting 😲
@@cobanyldz5577 ülkeden haberin yok
@@DiePatriotin-Arisch yada sen istanbullusun
Thank you so much Princess it was very will done
i can imagine marrying a Turkish woman and having Lahmacun and Turkish coffee as the wedding meal.
yes lahmacun is so delicious .But you can drink a salty coffee lolz .
I do admire Turkish tea
@@LilianKamama which is your favorite? Tea is generally grown in Rize. And, the green areas of the Blacksea region are as beautiful as tea.
Question: Are the same traditions followed if the wife is a foreigner/not living in Turkey?
There is not a regulation specific for foreigners i think. It is up to decide but if you are gonna do a turkish wedding, it is pretty much going to be like this.
in the digital age since pandemic began dating with the next oncoming online 😂 .........
DEEPLY SADDENED TO SEE THE COMMENT SECTION FILLED WITH PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT COUNTRIES SPREADING LOVE BUT TURKISH PEOPLE HARSHLY AND ARROGANTLY REPLYING...
im turkish bro not all of us are like that just dumb people who think theyre europeans
@@DarkArcticTV glad to know that...
I’ve seen a lot of people saying this. I looked but I only see 2 or 3 Turkish people replying to everyone
Date only when you are ready for marriage. Don't go kissing them or embracing them unless you are certain he or she is the one. Heartbreak leads to mental problems.
Facts bro.
Is it hard for one who only date to marry and not like that western shits?
Emeğinize sağlık 👏👏👏👏
Teşekkürler!!
In the Turkish matrimonial ceremonies do they have similar issues like paying for the woman as it's customary in Iran and other Muslim countries?
Paying to the bride is Islamic.it is called maher.
in really conservative families yes, but its a dying tradition. most young couples dont do that
“Payin for the bride “ is a İslamic rule to protect woman. No one can ( includes groom) take to money from her , only she can use the money for what she wants . İn addition , she can want everything by her husbands
No. The founder of our country officially abolished this after he founded Turkey. But it still continues in the Kurdish tradition. Unfortunately. I hope that one day it will come to an end completely
@@sudebulut6299 you think the maher(bridal money) is to protect women? From what? Why is it that there is a need that the male pay money to women for marriage while in modern times both women and men work, earn money? There are tons of couples in the world where both women and men work and there is no bridal money paid and they are just fine. And you have also said that "women can spend husbands money but not vice versa" why? Why is there such a rule? Why is it not that both male and female sides earn money by working, either both sides can use each others' money or no side? Why is it that there always has to be unequally regarding genders when it comes to marriage(particularly when both women and men work and get equal or near equal pay). The idea that I have to pay a lot of money to my girlfriend just to get married("somehow to protect her") is insane and needless.
You guys are cute without lipstick
What do you mean?
im a foreign and i have a turkish gf she planing about the wedding and i have a serious problem about money im afraid that her family might not accept me because im poor😢
I wish you the best of luck. There's a Turkish girl I like, but the thing I'm afraid of is that, I'm not muslim.
lovely vedio but I miss can and I want can
I can see the merit behind the man enduring the salted cup of coffee as a symbolic representation of him choosing to take on the hardships that come with marriage and inviting a wife into his life. However from this first impression the fact that the salted cup of coffee is supposed to be some sort of undeclared promise that the man is willing to endure anything that comes from the bride can serve as a bad precedent upon which to build a marriage.
It literally has the woman intentionally preparing something that is displeasing for her future husband and expecting him to accept it with a smile on his face. It signals to the bride that she is absolved of any responsibility from her own actions and in many ways is free to act however she pleases regardless of the effect it has on the groom because he is bound to bare it. Any such hardships in marriage should come from unexpected circumstances and without intentions of creating hardship (from both sides).While a woman may be excused to some degree due to her emotionality I feel that this type of tradition tends to do more harm than good.
Now I really hope that last part about stepping on each others feet is not as commonly practiced anymore... because that is just planely going to open the door to a dysfunctional marriage
Tuzlu kahve damada şu mesajı verir istemeden yapacağım hatalar için beni af edermisin, damadın o kahveyi içmesi geline şu mesajı verir bir ömür acı tatlı bir çok şey yaşayacağız ve bunu birlikte yapacağız sonsuza dek
Good grief. You're overthinking it. It's JUST a fun custom/tradition. One of the reasons why many marriages fail today is because both husband and wife have a lack of patience and don't know how to pick and choose their battles. You have to pick and choose your battles in every relationship. Sometimes you have to let some things slide. Not ever single thing should be be turned into a battle of words or a verbal sparring. It's called giving your partner some "grace". But to lend so much gravity to a tradition and to treat it as a precursor to how that marriage will go ....is a little.,,."much"....in my opinion. I highly doubt that this tradition leads Turkish women to deliberately prepare salty dishes for their husbands and incur other forms of abuse toward their spouse with the notion that he should tolerate it without protest. Sound minded adults are aware that marriage doesn't work like that. In the Indian culture, there is a tradition of hiding a ring or something in a platter of milk and the first to find the ring will be the "boss" int the marriage. So, if the bride finds it first, it implies that she will be the boss. But guess what? Despite this tradition, countries like India and Pakistan have a patriarchal culture where it's usually the husband and his family that are in charge and many of the cultural beliefs and expectations generally place the women at a disadvantage. And that lil' 2-5 minute wedding tradition of finding the missing piece of whatever in a platter of milk has not been able to eradicate unjust cultural issues even if the bride does end up wining in that tradition/game. So, let the turks enjoy their traditions without being a Negative Nancy about it.
It's an old tradition from the time they didn't ask girls opinion. Salted coffee meant she liked someone else. Then it evolved to testing the groom as they said in the video.
@@Ayse-wf9es so glad u said it so well the person above just destroyed the romance behind the salted coffee and the shoe 👠 stepping I’m not Turkish but I know the reason behind this tradition and I love these both traditions …thank you for stating it so well and clear ..marriage should not be a battleground and definitely there’s something called grace that should be granted to both partners …
Why r u being such a dysfunctional negative Nancy let them enjoy their beautiful traditions I loved them both
I Know little Turkish
Like
Merhaba ,ben Asad
Iyiyim , iyi
Ben ekmek yer and other basic stuff
I'm from Pakistan and i want to visit Turkey one day , love u Turks 🇹🇷❤️🇵🇰
Edit: i don't understand why you guys doing this..
Did Pakistan do something wrong?
Dont come to turkey pls
@@elcinarmagan3311 don't speak English!
There really is no need, it would be better for us if you didn't come.
Don't come
@General Khan 🇵🇰🤮
It is like the Brazilian tradition, but on the opposite way, lol.
After watching this video... I'll stick to dating.
wish me good luck🤣🤣
iyi şanslar! 😊
Nowt wrong with that would love be like that but in uk they would just walk away
Can nerede?
If u are EU citizen congratilations . Turkish girls are easy for u.
Neden kızlarla çektiğiniz diğer video yok?
Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩❤
Love u from India❤❤❤
I want to marry in turkey ❤❤❤ i really love this country
Romance is a nice fantasy ❤
well i dont see any bad having s3x with your girlfriend boyfriend, i mean its a way to show affection to your partner
True but you will become a loose goose if you sleep with every boyfriend. It’s not good. that’s what most women do. Every guy they like or becomes their boyfriend.
تركيا دوله مسلمه ونحن المسلمون لانفعل ذلك قبل الزواج لان هذا يسمي زنا حتي عندكم في المسيحيه العلاقات خارج الزواج حرام اقرأ الدين جيدا
@@shimaaadel1739 iknow that religion doesent allow pre marriage sex but who told you that we should live by the rules of others including religion. having an affair with your partner is beautifull and normal isnt something bad
@@georgemev3488 الرب هو من يأمرنا بذلك وليس اننا نعيش وفق قواعد الآخرين علينا أن نطيع الرب حتي في المسيحيه لديكم هذا الأمر من الرب طالما أنك تحب فتاه لماذا لاتتزوجها وتعيشان باستقرار معا ولاتقول لي الزواج مجرد ورقه هذه الورقه ضامنه لحقوق أبناءك في المستقبل ولحقوق زوجتك صدقني حاول القراءه في الدين النساء ليست للتسليه جميع النساء في العالم ان احبوا احد يريدوا الزواج منه والاستقرار معه للأبد انتم من تحاولون اقناعهم ان الزواج يقتل الحب فالحب الحقيقي لاينتهي بل يزيد ويكبر مع الايام كأول يوم حاول القراءه في الدين الرب انزل الدين لينظم حياتنا لكي لايكون هناك فوضي او فساد اقرء ولو خمس دقائق مع كامل احترامي لدينك
@@shimaaadel1739 First of all i dont have a releigion secondly i know some staff about releigion and i came to the conclusion that there is no such proof us your "lord" except some books such us bible and quaran which is definitely certain that are written by a human hand. Why not marry her? well how can you be so sure that you will leave in harmony together if you are not allowed to live together, because as far as i know releigion forbidens to a couple to live together if they are not married so there is another mistake due to the fact that plenty couples lived together only after they got married as a result many of them got divorced, whereas if they were allowed to live together this wouldn't happen. And last but not least no one mention that a purpose of a woman is to provide pleassure to man no one said such thing besides sex is normal thing and is a pleassure for a couple it doesnt mean it should be only for having kids.
They also have mehendi /mayon 😀
Religion is not so important as the ideology..
too beautiful
so means i can never get marry in turkey :(:(:(:(
they are just cliche bro we are not same
Signed up for a Bumble account. Got over 100 matches in Colombia, and only 2 in Turkey 😂
i love turkey girls. i will come in turkey next mounth. love from india🇮🇳
There's a lot in Turkish traditional wedding 😂
How are you Indonesia Romi
I'm a traveler from Argentina, i like beauty 😍 of Turkish girls but they given us a cold fish vibes 🤔
Ok, so beautiful video but lovely and all, the title is Dating in Turkey. For 4:50 mins out of a 6:17 video there's just talk of marriage.
you are super👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Thank you!
Cana foreigner couple live together in hotels in Istanbul if they are not married?
Of course yes, Turkey is a secular country.
@@elcinarmagan3311 Thank you so much :) I appreciate that
Ya ağlıcam soruya bak turkey is secular !
@@elcinarmagan3311 God bless turkey.. finally a muslim country where humans can live without any moral policing ..
@@gouravdas7989 Turkey is secular country!!!!!!
Thanks for sharing all this 🙌 ♥️. By the way marrying in turkey seems very hard 🤔🤔
turkish women are beautifulll
15 + in Turkey for sex dating or to have reletionships or get Married ❤
I hate traditions, cuz, it's complicated and time consuming
Great 😊
Nice♥️
It seems Turkish culture is a mixture of Asian and European
no shit it's an eurasian country
@@Earl_Wallace nope only the east part is...
I don't like Western calture , or dating.... etc.. can u imagine a children grow up but they don't know who is their father... Almost 10% children in western country grow up but they don't know who is their father
Ok
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Come Nihan, let's run away together, let's go to the United States, like Rose and Jack Dawson
So great amazing traditional & I hope so one day I can be part of the Turkish family inshallah 👍
Sağol :)
You're welcome :)