You Know You Are Dating a Turkish Man When...

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  • čas přidán 3. 07. 2019
  • Turkey: the land of Baklava, beautiful Mosques, and home to the only city in the world that rests on two continents. But what is it like dating a Turkish man?
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  • @basaksungur9068
    @basaksungur9068 Před 4 lety +2160

    You forgot the most important thing, they never let you pay.

    • @Tati98578
      @Tati98578 Před 4 lety +22

      Başak Sungur Facts!

    • @nianak5441
      @nianak5441 Před 4 lety +142

      YES OMG! i went for a date w a turkish guy and we had an argue bcs i wanted to seperate the bills but he was angry and never let me paid

    • @nevergiveup9937
      @nevergiveup9937 Před 4 lety +46

      I personally don't like that.

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie Před 4 lety +84

      Oh dear. I went on a date with a Turkish man and we split the bill. Guess that's why I never heard from him again :( Or maybe that's why he split the bill....

    • @shino8854
      @shino8854 Před 4 lety +21

      They will own you then...

  • @busebayhankayaokay2994
    @busebayhankayaokay2994 Před 5 lety +2242

    They are such a drama queen when they are sick, it's totally true! 😂😂 I am Turkish too, my husband always like that when he is sick 😂😂

  • @SemySemySemy
    @SemySemySemy Před 5 lety +647

    “Anne, I’m dying.” ... 🤣

  • @mgracia1992
    @mgracia1992 Před 5 lety +1859

    Sooooo true!! I traveled alone in Turkey and because im so friendly they stopped me around 50 times per day. I spent more time talking with boys than doing touristic things, Haha i felt like a princess!!! I love Turkey!

    • @jorgesevil1137
      @jorgesevil1137 Před 5 lety +250

      They wanted sex....

    • @orhanyokus1921
      @orhanyokus1921 Před 5 lety +107

      @@jorgesevil1137 Sex is less than hundred lira so i dont think so. Its propably she charmed them.

    • @orhanyokus1921
      @orhanyokus1921 Před 5 lety +33

      @@jorgesevil1137 i would want to know that where this assertion comes from ? An experience maybe ?

    • @jorgesevil1137
      @jorgesevil1137 Před 5 lety +61

      @@orhanyokus1921 lol. Men wants sex.

    • @orhanyokus1921
      @orhanyokus1921 Před 4 lety +61

      @@jorgesevil1137 and women not ?

  • @saraojut4697
    @saraojut4697 Před 5 lety +1047

    My mother is obsessed with Turkish soap operas and this definitely reminded me of them. She still watches them to this day despite not understanding the language😂😂

  • @missallycemarie
    @missallycemarie Před 5 lety +839

    Oh my god thank you! I’ve been waiting YEARS for this video. I’m an Australian woman married to a Turkish man and in our case this is 90% accurate 😂😂😂

    • @omersari5041
      @omersari5041 Před 5 lety +108

      Ok as your husband i can say its pretty accurate, Love you ...

    • @screamingnutbag7955
      @screamingnutbag7955 Před 5 lety +17

      You should take out a restraining order.

    • @serhatdonmez2554
      @serhatdonmez2554 Před 4 lety +12

      @@omersari5041 hahaha classic Turkish :))

    • @SalihDeLon
      @SalihDeLon Před 4 lety +2

      congrats!

    • @shino8854
      @shino8854 Před 4 lety +4

      Has he hit you yet? if he hasn't he probably was not brought up in Turkey.

  • @TheRoqco
    @TheRoqco Před 4 lety +203

    You can only generalize the Mom part. Turkish men love their moms no matter what. They are in a special place. We are ”Ana kuzusu”

    • @amiquigonzales7917
      @amiquigonzales7917 Před 4 lety +15

      I know, we latinos do too, but to the point of asking her for everything and be a jerk ... that's too much even for latinos-

    • @ksi8276
      @ksi8276 Před 3 lety +6

      We middle Eastern are all so man. From Pakistanis to Persians to Armenians to the Lebanese

    • @taraaa3708
      @taraaa3708 Před 3 lety +4

      😂😂Yeah exactly. They really are Ana kuzusu.

  • @dansugardude2655
    @dansugardude2655 Před 5 lety +1183

    I love Turkey and Turkish people. Merhaba Türkiye!

  • @reyhanarahma5965
    @reyhanarahma5965 Před 4 lety +659

    But Turkish guys are so nice lol, they compliment a lot and makes me feel like a Disney princess 😂

    • @TugrulOyunda1
      @TugrulOyunda1 Před 4 lety +11

      ahhhaa yes :)

    • @rachael4512
      @rachael4512 Před 4 lety +109

      When you first start to date..
      The jealous, possessive and bad tempered stuff comes later 😉

    • @elenaK0023
      @elenaK0023 Před 4 lety +24

      Rachael ii grew up woth turks and when they are fresh married is all flowers and 2 3 yrs later men start beating theor wives loke wtf !?

    • @user-wi1xu1ou2q
      @user-wi1xu1ou2q Před 4 lety +32

      @@elenaK0023 idk who tf told you that but beating your wife js haram

    • @chrisucl
      @chrisucl Před 4 lety +18

      Yeah because they want to get you in bed

  • @adimikimkoydu
    @adimikimkoydu Před 5 lety +644

    It's like a mini Turkish Telenovela and I am loving it lol

    • @CF-yr1dm
      @CF-yr1dm Před 5 lety +15

      Here in Chile elders loves turkish soap operas, i think there's a lot of interest of knowing the culture but blinded by roles... same with korean culture to the youth.

    • @ebrarakyol8896
      @ebrarakyol8896 Před 5 lety +3

      @Miael friz who hurt you? 😆

    • @OPShergottite
      @OPShergottite Před 5 lety +5

      @Miael friz what the fuck are you talking about?? Btw turkish people are not arabic, educate yourself.

    • @NataschaO
      @NataschaO Před 5 lety +4

      More like a little horror movie.

    • @aliatack19
      @aliatack19 Před 5 lety +2

      @@NataschaO 😁😁 Nataşa, sen alajaaakk dujj, bana verejeek 100 dolaar. 😂😂 Türkiye'ye gelmesini de bilirsiniz ama.

  • @Jakeylicious7891
    @Jakeylicious7891 Před 4 lety +220

    Half Turkish Half Danish here. I grew up in both London and Denmark. I'm conflicted with having a Danish father who's like: "Women are equal. Treat them with respect." to my Turkish mother who tells me, "Treat a woman like a Princess...that's all you'll ever need." And then 5 minutes later, I see my dad just agreeing to everything my mum would say and I'm like, "Sure...Bloody equal my ass." Hahaha.

  • @coloneljason9094
    @coloneljason9094 Před 4 lety +635

    The guy looks like a At hırsızı,not gonna lie,great video though..

    • @TugrulOyunda1
      @TugrulOyunda1 Před 4 lety +39

      At hırsızı LMAO :D

    • @yarensweetmotheroffrogod7684
      @yarensweetmotheroffrogod7684 Před 4 lety +4

      An*

    • @coloneljason9094
      @coloneljason9094 Před 4 lety +28

      @@yarensweetmotheroffrogod7684 Ok grammar nazi

    • @Lugna
      @Lugna Před 4 lety +19

      A horse stealer?

    • @coloneljason9094
      @coloneljason9094 Před 4 lety +48

      @@Lugna The term which used by Turkish people to describe a guy from his face who is kinda ugly and looks like a thief,which clearly as again,describes the *MAIN* guy on the video.

  • @TheShady124
    @TheShady124 Před 5 lety +1626

    And as a true Turkish man, he's of course, balding

    • @PSXuploads
      @PSXuploads Před 5 lety +116

      lol are you balding too? Only a bald guy will recognize he's balding

    • @simoncowell6562
      @simoncowell6562 Před 4 lety +9

      lmaooooo

    • @TheShady124
      @TheShady124 Před 4 lety +48

      @@PSXuploads sadly that's the case, been losing hair since I was 19

    • @PSXuploads
      @PSXuploads Před 4 lety +40

      @@TheShady124 Theres nothing wrong with it man, Jeff Bezos is bald too and he's the richest man in the world

    • @vehbigeraybilimer7173
      @vehbigeraybilimer7173 Před 4 lety +1

      :(((((((( you are so cruel :((((((((((((

  • @clementinasahin3166
    @clementinasahin3166 Před 4 lety +328

    My husband is from turkey i am from Mexico, this video is very funny and true :)

  • @Justme-jp8ih
    @Justme-jp8ih Před 4 lety +714

    Us turkish Men really can take jealousy to a whole other level. But turkish girls too. Turks in general. I can confirm that. 😁

    • @fangyuan1796
      @fangyuan1796 Před 4 lety +19

      @@gluehuffing5454 nope.You don't know shit about Turks.

    • @Justme-jp8ih
      @Justme-jp8ih Před 4 lety +15

      @@gluehuffing5454 Shut up idiot.

    • @mundord6042
      @mundord6042 Před 4 lety +54

      @@gluehuffing5454 we dont do that shut up

    • @trafkgaming7604
      @trafkgaming7604 Před 4 lety +56

      ​@@gluehuffing5454 ottoman empire the first empire who made homosexuality legal and turkey the second country who cares women rights. i really dont know wtf are u talking about? when your country careless about homosexuality and women rights, ottoman empire care it

    • @humboldt8557
      @humboldt8557 Před 4 lety +15

      @@gluehuffing5454 Wtff hahahahah u are idiot

  • @SaraWilsonBasturk
    @SaraWilsonBasturk Před 5 lety +763

    😂😂😂 If my Turkish husband had been like this I would never have married him. But I’ve certainly seen some of these stereotypes in my friends’ husbands and boyfriends.

    • @AP-qs2gx
      @AP-qs2gx Před 5 lety +50

      lol the fact is most Turkish men get to marry a lot of foreigners, and most Turkish women who go abroad end up being dumped. Men they find are from rock tour attenders. LOL. It is true that Turkish women are hard to get in Turkey by Turkish men but Turkish men do way better outside than Turkish women.

    • @mesopotamiankurdishgirl6340
      @mesopotamiankurdishgirl6340 Před 5 lety +44

      Thats because you are blond and a forgneiger mens in turkey dont treat their womans as they treat forgneigers

    • @AP-qs2gx
      @AP-qs2gx Před 5 lety +30

      @@mesopotamiankurdishgirl6340 not really, it's because turkish women are believed, propagandized to believe that Turkish men are somehow macho, inadequate. Those are actually necessary qualities in men that a lot of foreigners want.

    • @Onlichka
      @Onlichka Před 5 lety +18

      @@AP-qs2gx somehow I believe that most Turkish men live beautifully with Turkish girls though

    • @nevergiveup9937
      @nevergiveup9937 Před 5 lety +18

      @@AP-qs2gx we don't want those qualities outside of Turkey either

  • @prjdghyt
    @prjdghyt Před 4 lety +129

    This is sooo like the turkish guy I've been talking to. Yes he's very jealous and possessive but also protective. He's a gentleman. And about being assertive, I have no problem. He likes me for knowing what I want. I always tell him how I feel and what's on my mind. Yet he never changes. He is always kind to me. Very patient. Very emotionally open and honest. And sweet. I'd love to have a turkish boyfriend. I don't know the part about being a mama's boy yet. But he doesn't know how to cook much. And his mom does his laundry. He's 22. 😂 being family oriented, that's a good factor. I'm also family oriented.

    • @galinut1386
      @galinut1386 Před 4 lety +7

      I've been talking with a guy with these characters he's Turkish and is soooooo cute yeah Turkish men are a gentleman & his name is abdussamed :3 he has 22 too and loves literature

    • @gokberkyavuz8396
      @gokberkyavuz8396 Před 3 lety

      @@galinut1386 It must be ABDÜLSAMED :d

    • @galinut1386
      @galinut1386 Před 3 lety +3

      @@gokberkyavuz8396 Mmmh, no. His name is Abdussamed, Abdus. 🙂

    • @lonewanderer9872
      @lonewanderer9872 Před 4 měsíci

      Literally same😂

  • @windyputri8708
    @windyputri8708 Před 5 lety +403

    Ah yes, that jealousy part. Whenever you are dressing nicely they will ask thousand questions 😂

    • @shtorka_v_dome
      @shtorka_v_dome Před 5 lety +27

      Yeah? Mens in Russia are also very jealous and not a step away from us :)

    • @sertankay86
      @sertankay86 Před 4 lety +2

      @@shtorka_v_dome oh one stereotype too die.
      "Russian boys dont care their girlfriends"

    • @taraaa3708
      @taraaa3708 Před 3 lety

      Lol ikr. 😂😂

  • @medicporcupine4077
    @medicporcupine4077 Před 5 lety +436

    As a turkish man I cried like a baby when Sena died. That was so dramatic. 😢

  • @Lydia.94
    @Lydia.94 Před 5 lety +487

    I love Istanbul I have been there 3 times and I recognized all the places there, and yes, Turkish men really are like Greek men of my country, and that was so cute to watch! Merhaba ve çok güzel video!

    • @missbooklover5476
      @missbooklover5476 Před 5 lety +27

      Thanks. Teşekkürler. ❤ u are always welcome to my country

    • @aliatack19
      @aliatack19 Před 5 lety +23

      People like you are always welcomed here in my country 😊

    • @owindustry
      @owindustry Před 5 lety +26

      As a Turk, I love Greek People and you`re beautiful.

    • @Lydia.94
      @Lydia.94 Před 5 lety +6

      ΚακΟς Αδης Θες κάτι;

    • @Lydia.94
      @Lydia.94 Před 5 lety +10

      chuck martin Thank you.. I like Turk people too

  • @saradeen3984
    @saradeen3984 Před 4 lety +337

    You know you are dating a turkish person when they ask you random question and when you ask why they say "Merak ettim"😂

    • @esraer2090
      @esraer2090 Před 4 lety +12

      Lol. Thats right

    • @sallyrodriguez7767
      @sallyrodriguez7767 Před 4 lety +44

      Oh my God yes! Totally true always
      my boyfriend texts: Neredesin? (Where are you?)
      Me: Neden? (Why?)
      He: Merak ediyorum 😂😂😂😂

    • @AmySkyla
      @AmySkyla Před 4 lety +17

      Yes, I remembered those times when I missed calls from my Turks bf. He furiously asked me where I go, why I'm not answering and why I dress nice on certain occasion since we usually face time each other. When I asked him the same questions, he just said I don't know! lol, he can ask million questions to me, but if I ask questions he'll just get mad, or say I don't know or just ignore me.

    • @nevergiveup9937
      @nevergiveup9937 Před 4 lety +21

      @@AmySkyla It sounds like you should dump him.

    • @AmySkyla
      @AmySkyla Před 4 lety +4

      ​@@nevergiveup9937 yes, you're so right. I need to let him go and learned from it. He's back in Turkey, but yesterday he called me and just being a jerk.

  • @juliam5628
    @juliam5628 Před 5 lety +500

    istanbul looks so beautiful! i have to go there

    • @owindustry
      @owindustry Před 5 lety +12

      you are welcome, you can even call me and I can show you around.

    • @SaraWilsonBasturk
      @SaraWilsonBasturk Před 5 lety +5

      It’s beautiful. You should absolutely go 🙂

    • @Ae613-
      @Ae613- Před 5 lety +16

      Dude you need to go there. I just came back two weeks ago and Already planning my next trip. It’s a beautiful country with beautiful people. ❤️

    • @NRooster
      @NRooster Před 5 lety +2

      Please come and bring some foreign currencey :P)))

    • @ntsoakimotapanyane5689
      @ntsoakimotapanyane5689 Před 4 lety +1

      You should come. It is very beautiful here.. Been here for 5 months😀

  • @scorpearth3242
    @scorpearth3242 Před 5 lety +186

    I love Turkey and Istanbul. Took my heart forever

    • @NRooster
      @NRooster Před 5 lety

      This IS tan bul!

    • @owindustry
      @owindustry Před 5 lety +1

      Nice to hear that, you`re always welcome again.

    • @mundord6042
      @mundord6042 Před 4 lety

      Thank you for loving our country we love you to 😚

    • @Nik-jq4tx
      @Nik-jq4tx Před 4 lety

      The Turks occupied Istanbul.

    • @KrispayPenny
      @KrispayPenny Před 4 lety +8

      Me too. 😭😍 I went there just to see my friends and didn't care about the country or know anything. And I only went for 3 days and I left almost ready to cry because the country stole my heart. Mind you I had been living in Italy for a year and no place stole my heart the way Turkey did. 😍

  • @alperpoyraz107
    @alperpoyraz107 Před 5 lety +485

    As a Turkish guy I am laughing to this so much hahah
    Wouldn't say its correct, it is full of cliches but still funny lol

    • @Enforcedcraft
      @Enforcedcraft Před 5 lety +17

      This one hit me hard also cause I am from Yeni Pazar and it is very funny and there is some points that are true,like for socks every fucking time I try to find them it is like they are Non existent. And as soon as I ask my mom they appear. 🤯

    • @adarsh.m1999
      @adarsh.m1999 Před 4 lety +4

      Do Turkish women date non muslims?? Just a doubt ?? ALPER POYRAZ

    • @mirzakagan5729
      @mirzakagan5729 Před 4 lety +12

      @@adarsh.m1999 depends on where shes from and how she was raised. anatolian people tend not to, but in istanbul or izmir, yes.

    • @adarsh.m1999
      @adarsh.m1999 Před 4 lety +1

      @@mirzakagan5729 tqs for ur information Sister

    • @adarsh.m1999
      @adarsh.m1999 Před 4 lety

      @@mirzakagan5729 i think its risk to date turkish women better won't even meet to No life risks

  • @sugarfalls1
    @sugarfalls1 Před 4 lety +90

    I dated a Turkish guy that I met in the U.S. and he never talked about taking our relationship to the next level right away. I will say that if you attract the attention of a Turkish man, he'll stare right at you like full on! Don't think you have something on your face! lol

    • @sugarfalls1
      @sugarfalls1 Před 3 lety +3

      @Adventure of World No I'm not. We broke up a long time ago.

    • @serhafiye7046
      @serhafiye7046 Před 2 lety +3

      It's because now it's a famous thing and guys are talking here like "Broooo don't say your future plans, she won't show up again if you say something about 2052, remember that, stick to the plan, go step by step" etc. hahah
      Actually it's literally a litmus paper. You can ask to him "What do you think about future?" and If he starts to talk at length, or if he's hesitant, he likes you. But if he says he has never thought about it, he is less likely to love you. Life in Turkey is hard so it's normal.

    • @angelwings5136
      @angelwings5136 Před rokem

      I had Relationship with a Turkish guy for 14 year's.. He promised to marry me and never did.. I had to do all the expenses on him very lazy toxic and Narcissist but i don't understand why i Loved him so much... We worked together in the middle East... Due to his visa issues he had to return to turkey... And i sent him money to buy a phone so we could be in contact and see each other on video.. He took the phone and never called me i called him i messaged him.. Never he responded.. I gave him 3 months chance to call me.. But he never did... I Blocked him after that.. And he didn't block me ... He always has done it to me..one thing i can guess that his cheating on me..i asked him if i could come to turkey with my money my savings he told me don't come... He promised to come for me but he never did... He was from Antakya his family knew the Relationship.. After that i met another guy Turkish also... Omg this guy was always asking me money i gave him a few times.. But later he was going over the limit...getting in to a habit... I cut him out too... and i told him that i am not the Bank.. Never again Turkish men... Lessons learnt.. I dogged a Bullet... If Right a cannon ball... No more...

  • @kashriz95
    @kashriz95 Před 5 lety +269

    This is so accurate that it kinda hurts haha

  • @lailad.1125
    @lailad.1125 Před 4 lety +50

    “Anne , im dying “ 😂

  • @madisonnewlander2847
    @madisonnewlander2847 Před 5 lety +308

    Please do, “you know you’re dating a Romanian man when...”

  • @palwasha3946
    @palwasha3946 Před 4 lety +108

    Turkish guy: if my mom was here
    Girl: aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @likestarsonearth8
    @likestarsonearth8 Před 3 lety +133

    I would like to share some things. In my personal experience, Turkish men are straightforward people and really friendly. If a Turkish man likes you, he will tell it straight to your face 😂 I admire the confidence and they are like, really sweet when they talk. BUT you have to accept their feelings quickly or they will lose their interest in you. Im a Filipina and in my country, courtship is very important (but it also depends on the personality). Some women in the Philippines feel pressured to marry at age 22+. Im 24 and at this age, all I can think of is building myself and getting stable so dating doesnt work for me. I dont really like possesive and really jealous men (jealousy is fine but some are exaggerated) so it becomes my total turn off for Turkish guys. To me, men is a luxury but not a necessity. I can live without men but I value them like precious gems. What I meant by that is that I didnt study for four years to be a housewife. I want to earn my own money to get my man stuffs he might like. But I will make sure my man is one of my top priorities I will take care of him. We may split the bills but I will treat him a simple dessert or something before the day ends. Im that kind of person. The Turkish man I know didnt understand this. The culture is also a huge factor. I respect his culture though Ive never been to his country. But the Turkish man cant get used to the differences regardless of having to live here for few years. All I want is whats best for the relationship. Im not the kind to easily fall for a man and Im serious about priorities so Im not the kind to cheat. But in general, Turkish men are sweet and kind people ❤ Maybe just not for me

    • @courtneysmith7180
      @courtneysmith7180 Před 3 lety +5

      True!!!!!!!!

    • @likestarsonearth8
      @likestarsonearth8 Před 2 lety +12

      @@trinity4827 you're on point! Also one of the reasons men feel superior is because they are the ones that pays for everything. I cannot afford to live a lifestyle where I am being controlled. Love is a feeling of wanting to be together, missing each other, and the moment you got into a relationship you've already decided to trust the person. Most people dont understand this. Ive met different men and because of my strong personality they feel intimidated. They shouldve known that before dating me and not just disappearing. Im giving my all anyway

    • @kartalsungur2763
      @kartalsungur2763 Před 2 lety +1

      @@likestarsonearth8 sen mutlu olamazsın.

    • @semayildirimesquire3213
      @semayildirimesquire3213 Před rokem +4

      Girl! RELAX! You are overreacting, overthinking, over analyzing, and taking this way too seriously. I got anxious reading your comment

    • @semayildirimesquire3213
      @semayildirimesquire3213 Před rokem

      @@kartalsungur2763 vallah nefesim kesildi. Bu ne ya

  • @hungryhazel532
    @hungryhazel532 Před 3 lety +33

    my boyfriend is turkish, i am german, despite the language barrier, (he's getting better and better, so do i try my best to learn turkish), there were a lot of things I wasn't used to xD for example he NEVER lets me pay. And hours of videochat. With all of his family. Which there are his parents, his two brothers, two sisters, his nieces, nephews, cousins, and so on. And presents! he doesn't get tired of it, and he loves surprising my sisters and my mother aswell. Talking from my mother, he calls her kaynana since our first week of dating. When i explained it, she was so surprised, i thougt she had a heart attack. another thing: The eyes. the eyelashes. I've never seen any turkish man or woman who didn't have amazing eyes. And the constant need of attention. Cute, very cute, but don't tell him it's cute, or else he gets salty because, he's a man. xD
    Aaah i could go on like this forever but guess what, someone wants attention

    • @parlamentz
      @parlamentz Před 3 lety +2

      Did you really write all of these? :d

    • @hungryhazel532
      @hungryhazel532 Před 3 lety +1

      @@parlamentz what d'you mean? 0o0

    • @hungryhazel532
      @hungryhazel532 Před 3 lety +9

      @Anime Kızı funny that you're asking. Seems like i learned a bit more about him. I broke up with him 1 week ago. His jealousy too over Hand, he was constantly mad at me for talking with others and he was not accepting the fact i need plenty of time for studying and for myself too. There were a lot of things going not that well. Still it was a great time.

    • @lightweight9815
      @lightweight9815 Před rokem +1

      @@hungryhazel532 Seems like the issues were more with you than with him

    • @hungryhazel532
      @hungryhazel532 Před rokem

      @@lightweight9815 why? explain that.

  • @fatich1833
    @fatich1833 Před 4 lety +45

    Greetings from Turkey! It was so accurate, i laughed out so hard haha :D Well, the acting and lines could be a bit better, but the context was pretty good! Especially the part about "Turkish mom and son" was awesome. Thanks for providing this video so that i had the chance to watch myself on the screen 😂😂

  • @Jll-fj3kc
    @Jll-fj3kc Před 5 lety +44

    I was in Istanbul last week and when I came back i looked for this video in your channel. Seems like you heard my secret thought !
    Teşekkür ederim

  • @citylife8481
    @citylife8481 Před 5 lety +124

    At the end, you came to Turkey. You are most welcome. Cheers!

    • @volkancanpolat7161
      @volkancanpolat7161 Před 4 lety +3

      @Miael friz Arabic culture? We don't have it here. Only religion is common and overall culture is SLIGHTLY similar (decorations etc.) but other things are completely different and we are not blood-related

  • @koseku3
    @koseku3 Před 4 lety +42

    turkish men care for you, feel you secured, belonged and loved. just treat them nice

    • @taraaa3708
      @taraaa3708 Před 3 lety +13

      Yes exactly, that's so true. Most Turkish boys I have seen are genuinely nice ppl. They are nice friends too.

  • @fairyblue5492
    @fairyblue5492 Před 4 lety +152

    I love Turkey from Hungary. ❤️ 🇭🇺

  • @renovation2188
    @renovation2188 Před 3 lety +101

    Now i understood why in Greece we are like that !!!!
    Peace and Love from Greece Brothers!!!

    • @dikenbey999
      @dikenbey999 Před 3 lety +8

      kalimera komsi

    • @tayfurkale1624
      @tayfurkale1624 Před 3 lety +8

      We are same bro :)))

    • @lunari2309
      @lunari2309 Před 3 lety +7

      I hope we can political peace on islands and then we build great econmy together in aegean sea.
      🇹🇷❤️🇬🇷

    • @renovation2188
      @renovation2188 Před 3 lety +2

      @@lunari2309I want to be honest with you. As a human being i agree with you, as a patriot i don't. But as an altruistic person that i am i cannot refuse that our government is ready to give everything to everyone because they are addicted to money.

    • @yigolaski08
      @yigolaski08 Před 2 lety +1

      @@renovation2188 its like a stick that has both ends covered in Dirt .

  • @almond_b25
    @almond_b25 Před 4 lety +51

    But they're also really protective and know how to treat you well! 😊😋

  • @CCJJ160Channels
    @CCJJ160Channels Před 5 lety +12

    Great video and gorgeous location, thanks for posting & please keep them coming!

  • @orianamandi
    @orianamandi Před 4 lety +21

    When all boys went out and spoke Turkish it was literally like watching a Turkish series😂😂💎💎💎💎💎💎

  • @shaneth3178
    @shaneth3178 Před 4 lety +11

    This one actually had me laughing out loud, well done!!

  • @aliciascott3176
    @aliciascott3176 Před 5 lety +7

    A lot of fun to watch. Thanks again!

  • @ivannamontenegro5943
    @ivannamontenegro5943 Před 4 lety +95

    I came here to learn about my Turkish boyfriend 😂 I love him so much, we have so many obstacles to face in this new relationship, but this really made me laugh and smile. So accurate to him 😂😂 I fell in love with the Turkish culture 🇹🇷 I can’t wait to visit next year ❤️

    • @TugrulOyunda1
      @TugrulOyunda1 Před 4 lety +3

      OV THANK YOU SO MUCH GREETINGS

    • @ddxo5293
      @ddxo5293 Před 2 lety +3

      You still together?

    • @Serkant75
      @Serkant75 Před 2 lety

      where you from ? im from europe but we keep our traditions everywhere . need help ? greetings and wish u the best

    • @maelgwni
      @maelgwni Před 5 měsíci

      where are you from? Are you also Muslim? do you have any issues with cultural, religious differences etc?

  • @valeryfelix
    @valeryfelix Před 4 lety +19

    “Mom, I’m dying.” xD

  • @rmbis3827
    @rmbis3827 Před 4 lety +43

    Hahahaha i laugh whe the turks guy said you have deep blue eyes. My boyfriend always said that to me im asian he always say that i have deep black eyes.😂

    • @ratusyifakm
      @ratusyifakm Před 3 lety +3

      Deep black eyes😂 that's kinda cute tho🥺

    • @elzoku4126
      @elzoku4126 Před 3 lety

      😂😂😂

    • @criemanumut733
      @criemanumut733 Před rokem

      Having deep eyes is male feature you know that right?

  • @adonis1168
    @adonis1168 Před 4 lety +25

    This is exactly the reason I keep my nationality to myself. Whenever I engage a girl and it's going well and I tell her that I'm Turkish she goes back to the time last year where some Turkish guy proposed to her in a night club.. and my whole image is ruined

  •  Před 4 lety +25

    2:57
    That was me every time Bihter cried for Behlul.

    • @liliq3016
      @liliq3016 Před 4 lety

      Renán Guevara ahhahahahah

    • @liliq3016
      @liliq3016 Před 4 lety

      COVID-19 whole turkey hate them

  • @nicolaysantangelo5341
    @nicolaysantangelo5341 Před 5 lety +64

    Greetings from Poland my friends.

  • @aycabiskin3580
    @aycabiskin3580 Před 4 lety +265

    When you learn more about your own countrie's man from a foreigner video...

  • @enahsheen2597
    @enahsheen2597 Před 5 lety +2

    I love this video! Thanks for creating this.

  • @shabrinasaraswati8304
    @shabrinasaraswati8304 Před 5 lety +6

    Oh my, I've been waiting for this soo long 😂 thank you very much for the video

  • @t43562
    @t43562 Před 5 lety +126

    I'd watch out a bit. It's a society where family, i.e. the man's parents, have quite an influence on him where you'd think he was old enough to be an independent adult. When your mother in-law disapproves of something you do, you may get no support at all from your husband and even feel pressure from him to conform. They are also so male-dominated it shocks me. Men don't help, they don't clean and only cook when it suits them. I am married to a Turkish wife so I get the easy side of this situation and I can try to make sure my daughter is brought up to expect better things from men but I think it would be much harder if I was a woman. Are all Turkish men like this? Probably not - but Turkish society favors this behaviour more, I think, than I am used to. My mother in law is greatly admired for earning most of the money and "not being a slacker in the home either" which shows you what's expected. First you have to be all the things a woman is supposed to be then you can have a career on top of that maybe.

    • @86Rosalina
      @86Rosalina Před 5 lety +37

      t43562 Yes, its so annoying. I almost left my husband because of that. Its too much to handle in the begining because they want to treat you like they treat their son. Control, control and supervision. You constantly have to tell them to back off and mind their own business. It can be exhausting.

    • @mari_000
      @mari_000 Před 5 lety +2

      "Turkish wife" is you're wife a Muslim? If yes when did you convert to Islam? :)

    • @nevergiveup9937
      @nevergiveup9937 Před 5 lety +57

      @@mari_000 he doesn't need to convert to Islam to marry a Turkish woman

    • @redroverredrover679
      @redroverredrover679 Před 5 lety +33

      Same. My Turkish wife's family tries to influence us (circumcision, employment etc) and I've learned I have to be aggressive in asserting my cultural values in a way I haven't needed to (considering we live in a Western country) to ensure I dont get trampled on. They are mad for a month then they get over it.

    • @t43562
      @t43562 Před 5 lety +14

      @Jeremiah Atwood I did. I was baptised Roman Catholic and now I'm probably something that a Muslim would consider to be worse: an Atheist. There are hundreds of millions of Muslims and they're not all the same just like Christians aren't all weirdos with guns or Mormons.

  • @faithbravo5919
    @faithbravo5919 Před 4 lety +7

    This the cutest of videos ive watch so far.Keep on laughing while watching..Turkish guys are really sweet and so loving. Cause i love him so much. =😍

  • @muratk7695
    @muratk7695 Před 4 lety +12

    There are different types of men from different social classes. But being a softie to the girls they trust (mostly to their wives), dote upon their mother or their family, compliments and expressing the feelings openly from the very beginning, being obsessive and protective, being excessively jealous when your dress is a bit sexy is standart for a Turkish man.

  • @ulassivrikaya4382
    @ulassivrikaya4382 Před 5 lety +3

    I was waiting for this video for months lol

  • @jeaneth120
    @jeaneth120 Před rokem +6

    The compliment at the beginning, the way he goes into it and the nature-related choice of words LOL. That was just my Turkish, ship captain ex bf 🤣🤣🤣 Even the way he speaks English 🤣🤣🤣Everything pretty much fits the behavior description too!

  • @cherryJ11
    @cherryJ11 Před 3 lety +48

    Oh! This thing about turning girlfriends into moms...I don't like it in our cultures (I'm Greek). I would like the couple to be equal: whoever gets hungry, cooks! Both should do housework!

    • @3choblast3r4
      @3choblast3r4 Před rokem +5

      I generally agree unless one of the couple doesn't work, then that person should at least do the household chores.
      p.s
      I like to cook, I'm Turkish. My Romanian ex once told me she loved my cooking but didn't like that I cooked so often because she felt that was a woman's job .... I mean she also told me she wasn't looking for a serious relationship the first day she stayed over then 3 days later told everyone we knew that she was my gf (without EVER bringing the subject up to me). 3 days later she was talking about baby names, marriage, converting to Islam (despite the fact that I made it very clear I'm not religious, nor do I care about such stuff, she was convinced I was secretly Muslim lol).
      Oh... and she said she HATED jealousy. Ok, I'm generally not a very jealous dude. But then she got really mad at me multiple times because she felt I wasn't jealous enough. She was also absurdly jealous. A female friend of mine would send me a whatsapp asking how I was doing, and she'd start to hysterically cry and scream at me like she just caught me with my pants around my ankles and a girl wrapped around me.
      My point is, there are all kinds of people. Not all Turkish, Greek, Romanian etc men or women are the same. And some women are more fierce in defending traditional male/female roles than the most sexist men.

  • @gokaykaya170
    @gokaykaya170 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you, I will use these advice!

  • @megan-leedevilliers1349
    @megan-leedevilliers1349 Před 5 lety +94

    Uhhmmmm ... as someone who knows MANY Turkish men I can't say I agree to all this.
    But they are a bunch of softies that is true - but you have to earn their trust before they show this side, earning a Turkish man's trust is hard but once earned ... you get see the magical side of a Turkish man. Softies !!!

    • @sedefg6781
      @sedefg6781 Před 5 lety +1

      Megan-Lee de Villiers as a Turkish girl I couldn't even touch that points you know them good

    • @sureyyaekinci4630
      @sureyyaekinci4630 Před 4 lety +3

      Megan-Lee de Villiers well I think they are assholes , well I met one that was anyway. I will stick to my Aussie men . My parents are Turkish too

    • @fenkafas8234
      @fenkafas8234 Před 4 lety +2

      @@sureyyaekinci4630 Enjoy what can we do

    • @Jay-cy4js
      @Jay-cy4js Před 4 lety +4

      Sureyya EkincI Some Australians are of Turkish roots , you do know that ? Aussie doesn’t mean just anglo lol.

    • @mustafakeskin5731
      @mustafakeskin5731 Před 4 lety +4

      @@sureyyaekinci4630 After one men , all are assholes ? Wow

  • @renaw8638
    @renaw8638 Před 4 lety +9

    This is so true!!! Expect them talking about marriage by the 3rd date also

  • @berinahuskic4974
    @berinahuskic4974 Před 4 lety +6

    "How can Sena die" Cukur really hit us hard..

  • @judytat5621
    @judytat5621 Před 3 lety +1

    That was fun and interesting. I love the acting style too :D

  • @kind1900
    @kind1900 Před 3 lety

    I don't know why i looked for this topic but it pretty much explains the male characters that i have watched in several Turkish drama serials... thanks for making this video... it was a fun watch :)

  • @mellow3003
    @mellow3003 Před 4 lety +3

    The Anne part is soooo accurate 🤣

  • @larissamore
    @larissamore Před 5 lety +35

    Türk lafı duyduğumuz her yeri basıyoz aq

    • @hariseldon4078
      @hariseldon4078 Před 5 lety +5

      dışlaya dışlaya ne hale getirdilerse iki güzel laf duyunca şımarıyoruz amk

    • @mundord6042
      @mundord6042 Před 4 lety +1

      @@hariseldon4078 ne yapayim bi kız güzel birşey söyleyince aşık oluyorum hemen

  • @THELATESTKNOCKOUTSTLKTV
    @THELATESTKNOCKOUTSTLKTV Před 3 lety +1

    6:44 “Anne..... i’m dying” 🤣

  • @thepeacegoddess5713
    @thepeacegoddess5713 Před 5 lety +1

    The opening track was..... Sensual😂😂😳😳

  • @sandra_a_k
    @sandra_a_k Před 3 lety +10

    As someone who’s dated a Turkish guy before I can say I relate to this video 🤣

  • @ladyjackson4471
    @ladyjackson4471 Před 4 lety +16

    This is of course a humorous point of view. 🤣😂 Normally Turkish men are good, polite and noble.
    Türk''üm diye demiyorum tüm yoksunluk zorluk ve olumsuz şartlara rağmen Türk insanı iyidir dosttur candır ❤ insanımızı ve mutfagımızı tüm dünyada tek geçerim 🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷❤❤❤

  • @TheBangTV
    @TheBangTV Před rokem +1

    Everything on point. LOL "My mum "🤣🤣🤣

  • @helenlogan6481
    @helenlogan6481 Před rokem +1

    This was really good!!!!

  • @egeertugrul9118
    @egeertugrul9118 Před 4 lety +5

    The acting skills you have kills me. Literally!

  • @ilovenoodles7483
    @ilovenoodles7483 Před 5 lety +60

    Everyone who commented already and everyone who is going to comment....
    Pay attention to the disclaimer at the front of the video.
    I'll just leave that here.

    • @ilovenoodles7483
      @ilovenoodles7483 Před 5 lety +6

      Particularly the part where it says: a sense of humor is needed.

  • @airborneranger-ret
    @airborneranger-ret Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful footage of Istanbul. :)

  • @houdach4607
    @houdach4607 Před 5 lety +175

    I did date a turkish guy so did one of my friends ...they are veeeeeeeery possessive and get angry very easily ...not the best

    • @houdach4607
      @houdach4607 Před 5 lety +66

      @G T you're totally right (I'm arab myself) but trust me turkish men take it into a whoooole other level, my ex used to have food ON HIS BED or his desk aaaaall the time and expected me to do the same...they get offended out of the silliest things and they loooooove to give orders as to what to wear and when to go and not go out ... he even told me that once we get married I'm not allowed to go out without him.or his mom ...it's too much ...just too much ...and as I said I'm arab so I'm used to toxic masculanity...but not to this level

    • @akatheo3009
      @akatheo3009 Před 5 lety +36

      getting easily angry is part of the mediterranean temperament lol

    • @ErolOzdemir
      @ErolOzdemir Před 5 lety +11

      @@noah000 Alayı feminazi bunların.

    • @ardaozdemir3253
      @ardaozdemir3253 Před 5 lety +9

      Houda Ch i am turkish and dont have any friend who you described

    • @ErolOzdemir
      @ErolOzdemir Před 5 lety +8

      @@houdach4607 houda sen olaya Fransız kolonisi Arabı gibi kalmışsın.

  • @oktaysen5413
    @oktaysen5413 Před 5 lety +31

    I see some haters below.Before being hater please consider that We turks are partly mediterrenean,MOSTLY muslim,in general southern people so what do you expect from us? Geography creates people's heritage. These features are quite common in other southern countries as well(Jealousy, overcomplimenting, temperament,Being too close to mommy,emotional Inbalances.) We turks are perfectly happy like that.If you like us, you are more than welcomed in Turkey but if not please stop talking shit and find yourself a german,finnish,swedish,norwegian type of boyfriend/husband allright.

    • @olyasalianik9706
      @olyasalianik9706 Před 5 lety +8

      Turkish boys ?? No ,Thanks

    • @oktaysen5413
      @oktaysen5413 Před 5 lety +3

      Your preference. Nothing to say.

    • @akakiossourmenidis5240
      @akakiossourmenidis5240 Před 5 lety

      Turks mediterranean? I think u are from central asia and u arrived in the mediterannean 500 years ago

    • @oktaysen5413
      @oktaysen5413 Před 5 lety +10

      @@akakiossourmenidis5240 Almost 1000. Not 500. This is first. Second,Majority of turks look like mediterrenean people. When you come to Istanbul,do you feel yourself like in Mongolia or differently? Decide it by yourself Greek brother. Greetings to Greece.

    • @jorgesevil1137
      @jorgesevil1137 Před 5 lety

      @@oktaysen5413 why do you care ? Under almost all movies you can find haters. Check out comments under movie about dating emglish girl- there u can see really hatefull comments.

  • @meliyuniarti2078
    @meliyuniarti2078 Před 5 lety +10

    The jealously part is soooooooo true😅

    • @meliyuniarti2078
      @meliyuniarti2078 Před 4 lety +1

      @Blink Girl yeah how did u know? Are u too?

    • @meliyuniarti2078
      @meliyuniarti2078 Před 4 lety +2

      @Haiz Fan aww nice to know. Turkish has always been my favorite country too, I'd wish to visit it someday ❤️😌

    • @meliyuniarti2078
      @meliyuniarti2078 Před 4 lety

      @Haiz Fan are u happen to visit here or just meeting Indo people from internet?

  • @megardin
    @megardin Před 4 lety +51

    There are million kind of men in Turkey but yes we are respect our family , mother , nationality, and we are really warm heart and friendly. we always help forainers even if we can not speak English :) Sometimes we are very nationalist but if we forget the politics we love everybody . Greatings from Turkey

    • @Tati98578
      @Tati98578 Před 4 lety +7

      megardin Yes! I love Turkish people ❤️❤️🇹🇷

    • @MultiFlo2009
      @MultiFlo2009 Před 4 lety +1

      megardin Helios. What does the bandana wrapped around the wrist or ankle mean?

    • @megardin
      @megardin Před 4 lety +2

      @@MultiFlo2009 Hello my friend. Generally women wrapped that around the ankle . It's name ''halhal'' it is just a jewelry not another special meaning

  • @visitingroadbyroad1822

    Beautiful place for holidays ❣️

  • @cancelthechannel2245
    @cancelthechannel2245 Před 3 lety +5

    Completely true 😂😂
    I'm mixed turkish persian and maaaan this is soooo relatable :))))
    The mom part😂😂 I died **

  • @randomyoutubeperson6954
    @randomyoutubeperson6954 Před 4 lety +34

    I have been with my Turkish husband for 20 years (2 kids later) and I know this is to be taken light heartedly but it depends on the individual despite the nationality.
    Thankfully my husband isn't like this lol

  • @elyssa8854
    @elyssa8854 Před 5 lety +12

    So glad you finally made a video about turkish men, can you please add Azeri man they are so easy going if you go to Baku by the end of one day you will collect countless phone numbers of guys who want to make you visit their country or see you.... they remind me a bit turkish men.
    If I may suggest also a video You know you are dating a jordanian/palestinian there's a lot to say
    Thanks Marina !

    • @ayxanqarayev2314
      @ayxanqarayev2314 Před 4 lety

      😂😂🇦🇿

    • @elyssa8854
      @elyssa8854 Před 4 lety

      @PassionOfLifee i'm from France why ? and you ?

    • @elyssa8854
      @elyssa8854 Před 4 lety +1

      @PassionOfLifee I'm not an Arabic country, I was just asking a video about Jordanians/Palestinians because I thought it could be funny as I happened to have friends from these countries

  • @semaylmz
    @semaylmz Před 2 lety

    That final scream. Oh i feel you sister.

  • @sumayahbasyigit9934
    @sumayahbasyigit9934 Před 5 lety +37

    I love Turkey and turkish people ❤

    • @owindustry
      @owindustry Před 5 lety +1

      Love, cheers from Turkey to you too.

  • @agnes15101968
    @agnes15101968 Před 3 lety +5

    Just imagine the laughs they must have been having while recording this!

  • @tiffanyayseyaseminsungur1600

    Hahsha That was entertaining thank you for sharing!

  • @TurkicAtheist805
    @TurkicAtheist805 Před 2 měsíci

    Such a great video!!! Respect channel owner and cast for the lovely video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kristinakumpfhuber4459
    @kristinakumpfhuber4459 Před 5 lety +14

    Haha, that was amazing! Handsome men ❤ could you do one about dating a Scottish guy next?

  • @rosskappa5410
    @rosskappa5410 Před 4 lety +9

    HAHAHAHAHA I WASNT EXPECTING TO LAUGH MY ASS OF TO THIS VIDEO AS A TURKISH GUY. The Turkish guy and the lines are so good

    • @sibelshinaishin5170
      @sibelshinaishin5170 Před rokem

      Mind your language young man. What would your mother say if she heard you say “ass”

  • @meri.irem34
    @meri.irem34 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video hahah
    From Turkey ❤❤

  • @WickedKingLycoan
    @WickedKingLycoan Před 5 lety

    Very cute video. Thank you for this.

  • @alenarra6019
    @alenarra6019 Před 4 lety +17

    Haha it's kinda same like my Turkish ex lol! He always said to make future even we haven't meet each other haha. But I really love Culture of türkiye, seni seviyorum!

    • @bulanayu9529
      @bulanayu9529 Před 3 lety +1

      Can i know why you broke up with him?

  • @MrNolantk
    @MrNolantk Před 5 lety +4

    Please please please do a singles guide to Ireland before September of 2019

  • @michm29
    @michm29 Před 2 lety +2

    This had me laughing so hard esp the part where he constantly compared her to his mom!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @b-annm5571
    @b-annm5571 Před 2 lety +7

    🤣🤣🤣
    I love everything about Turkish people. I got addicted to the Turkish drama series when Covid began and ..I can't stop🥰😘😇😍
    Siya beyaz, Kalp yarasi and now Ramo..🥳🥳. I swear I can marry all the male lead actors tomorrow 🙈🤭🔥🔥🔥..All my love 💓 from SA 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @artisticthings7843
    @artisticthings7843 Před 4 lety +9

    I met some Turkish guys online. They are the sweetest. I would get married to one some day. ❤️ Love from India

  • @dinda7056
    @dinda7056 Před 5 lety +8

    Bruh this is too damn accurate lol

    • @aliatack19
      @aliatack19 Před 5 lety +1

      No, not at all!

    • @owindustry
      @owindustry Před 5 lety +3

      @@aliatack19 yes, %100 accurate

    • @aliatack19
      @aliatack19 Před 5 lety +1

      @@owindustry I am Turkish and I know it from myself. It's not accurate.

    • @owindustry
      @owindustry Před 5 lety +2

      @@aliatack19 then it means you`re not Turkish maybe one of the descendant of the refugees came to Turkey years ago.

  • @celiaescalante
    @celiaescalante Před rokem +1

    Wow! I think I'm in love! Nice personality 😍

  • @eazyday8702
    @eazyday8702 Před 3 lety

    Great video

  • @busrab1255
    @busrab1255 Před 4 lety +6

    taksi çevirir gibi çevirdi kızı ahahshshshs