Golden Child Siblings Got $370k From Our Parents, While I Got Nothing. But They Still Mock My...
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- čas přidán 25. 04. 2024
- Golden Child Siblings Got $370k From Our Parents, While I Got Nothing. But They Still Mock My 'Small' Wedding That I Paid for Myself! So I Finally Snapped at the Family Dinner.
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Op knows that parents are screwed. The older siblings will not help them and will try to guilt trip Op and Jade in order to financially help both parents.
Why jade?
@@Vvee.699 cause monetarily she was the one to benefit the most from the parents gifts over the years
F the older siblings and the parents. I hope the grandfather gives all the inheritance to OP and Jade.
The irony: a watchmaker is grieving the fact that his parents do not see the value in the gift of time.
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So the parents would overspend on their first two, and not have enough for the third. Then they adopt and spoil her. OP is just in that sweet spot of always being at the point the parents can't piss away their money.
Yeah, they don't have enough to spoil the 3rd kid but adopt a 4th one an magically they have money to spoil them instead
what does op mean?
@@OwlMasterProductions original poster I believe.
@@user-vp5zn3ps6v thanks
Rich people when money can't fix the problem:
*suprised Pikachu face
Favouritism, abuse and neglect like this should be illegal. Not just immoral.
Favourtisim I understand but they didn't abuse him
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@@SalihElsadieg-bl2pv
Neglecting a child is abuse
@kratosGOW you got to put it into perspective, though. OP was probably provided with shelter food clothes and all the other necessities. You could probably argue emotional neglect though.
@@Beast900011
Well, yeah. That’s what I meant at the minimum.
@@Beast900011Op was asked to pay rent for staying at home while attending college though. While all his siblings actually lived lavishly on the campus 🤔that is financial and emotional abuse. It’s funny that the parents are being unfair to their kid who has autism. Like usually the case is that the weaker child is a miracle child thus that child gets more attention
they asked Jade to pitch in for gifts and then just stole her money. The older kids are rotten
Jade should demand they give back the stolen money and then give it to OP.
Screw the older siblings, screw the parents, I hope and pray that grandad leaves them nothing, and everything to OP. Jade and her husband seem cool as hell.
Jade god you sweetheart... such a princess energy of not knowing money and trying to be generous and its just funny and its a nice break from the sadness
I heard this story on another channel. It always makes my glad that my mother supported and disciplined me and my siblings equally
ironically they are setting up their two eldest for failure with how spoiled rotten they are they are completely unprepared for when not if when thought times hit.
Granpa is the definitely the mvp. He has the forcite and awarness to not only c whats going on now but what will happen in the future. Hes trying to help op out and make sure they get what granpa wants them to have now so family cant steal it later.
So, whether this story is fake or not, if it is true, I suspect something. The two older siblings were the favourites, and while the parents treated the third child differently, they still went and adopted a fourth child. I am wondering if it is maybe due to the fact that OP has autism ? I know of families who treat people on the spectrum as though they aren't able to have emotions (which, big news, isn't true); maybe they saw OP as a failure, and adopted Jade because they wanted to make sure they had a third "normal" kid ? Just some theory.
Or, since OP had such a great relationship with the grandparents, they subconsciously thought he would get more from them. Hell, it was obvious that's what his older siblings thought.
Sometimes parents just gave on impulses. Like my parents helped my brother to pay for his house down payment, cleared off some of his student loan and pay half of his master degree (+his living expenses during that period as he was doing it overseas) while they had not given anything to me yet. They see that as a "needs" and didn't even think of setting aside some money for me. Yet people think that I was their favorite golden child because how proud they are of me.
So no one was even in the ground yet before the siblings, aside from Jade and OP, were counting up the assets and wanting a 'fair share' of everyone (mainly OP) cut, despite being given the world already 🤔 If you'd look up 'Greed' you'd see their picture
Less than a minute in and this story is already super interesting.
I feel sad for OP that he feels the need to explain about the watches and the clock. Does he think it makes him greedy for wanting them? 😕
Even low contact is more than these parents deserve.
OP should organize a retirement gift for her parents. Say "Jade and I (combined) will match the average of the two contributions."
People who abuse others by enabling are doing it for validation. Show the parents how little the golden children care. Do it right in front of them on speakerphone.
This is not to hurt the parents but to show that they have put themselves "second to" last. And if one of the two does step up OP doesn’t have to feel bad if the parents get abandoned later on.
(If any this sounds like confirming the sun rose in the morning then OP should take the parents guilt money and not feel guilty.)
people,jade is a very good example of what to do when you are a golden child.you dont rub it into the 'black sheep of the family's" face,but instead you need to financially help him or her.not just financially,emotionally,physically and mentally.and parents,dont spoil your parents and have a shocked pikachu face when they cut off contact with your rude entitled golden kids and you or they get revenge back at you.
If you don't want their money, tell them you want their voice, their voice every time your older siblings jab at you. You want them to tell your older siblings to wind their neck in a be grateful for all the extra help they got instead of sniping at you, and you want them to make your older siblings apologise for jabbing at you not just a pathetic oh sorry till they do it the next time…
The added layer of absolute spite from Laurie in straight up lying about the birthday gift collection.
Not just stealing money from Jade but also making her an unknowing accomplice in OPs continued abuse for no reason except she evidently just hates him that much for being "weird"
My sister “d” always complained to me about being poor and then told me about her trips around the world. Her husband is a retired doctor and mi e was a school teacher and I was a potter. Nothing but the best for her and the rest of us should be happy with the leftovers
2 things
No.1 first time its more than 1 gold child
No.2 first time 1 of gold child is nice n doesnt take the favoritsm for granted
Ya know, for once I actually believe a story on this channel is genuine. Something about the lack of any real resolution or major dramatic twist. Your 2 older siblings are assholes, plain and simple. And even though they're financially better off, they're not above stealing a couple hundred dollars a year from you just for the chance to smirk triumphantly about it. Yeah, that tracks with reality, unfortunately.
Jade is such a cute person, others are garbage and should be discarded as such.
All she wanted was her brother to be treated fairly since she was little. It shows that not all golden children are assholes.
Nta. Aside from jade op has to go NC with everyone else.
Some people just don't deserve to be parents
I'm just like OP and Jade. I too am on the spectrum and have known about having it for almost 17 long years. Yes, even at 4 years old I wasn't all that stupid. I sympathize quite well with both Op and Jade as being around large crowds which will involve a lot of noise doesn't help those who are on the spectrum. I've almost had panic attacks before because of it. Meaning I don't like large crowds and certain noises. Usually whenever there are large family gatherings, I just bring along a book to read and my sketchbook materials to occupy myself as I don't like interacting with a lot of people. But I don't let my ADHD and Autism get in the way of living my best life. I currently have a part-time job and I'm considering obtaining an apprenticeship of some sort to become a maritime historian. Meaning I want to study ships for a living. I've been in love with ships, particularly ocean liners of the Edwardian/Gilded Age, since I was a little girl. I share a deep connection to the field because I've been interested in it for so long. Every time someone says I can't make a living out of being a historian, I literally loose my *bleep*! There's so much out there waiting to be discovered and I want to prove that just because one has mental health issues doesn't mean one can't build themselves a promising career.
OP mentioned in one of the comment responses and the first update that he has autism. That may well be the reason for the neglect, as his parents may have thought down upon autism.
claims the enhertince is not something he cares about yet continues bring it up, and the parents arent trying work out it theyre playing the defendant in the court offer goods to avoid guilt.
Telltales, Your videos are fantastic! I just had to subscribe!
Funny how people concider themselves adults with jobs but still want money from parents.
anyone else fastforward through the parts with comments/replies? I usually find they dont add a whole lot and just eat up time
We got a fresh story
I'd go no contact with all of them except Jade and her husband. Don't talk about the past,talk about the future and move forward. Live life to the fullest with your wife, sister and bil.
Could it be that possibly op's parents were ableist towards him for being autistic?
I was thinking the same thing. The way op was treated and the fact they adopted another child adds up.
The second I heard autism I went yup that makes sense. Just some things I heard laid out the pieces of the puzzle.
I think mom had an affair with FIL.
The hell with ops family,cut all contacts with them!! Nothing good will come of it if you keep helping them and finding things and doing things for them…they will never appreciate nor respect you and your wife!! My husband had to cut
contact with his family,he was the oldest and they treated him and I like shit,it’s so sad it happened around a bad time!it for the best that you walk away from them!
Is it autism or social anxiety?
I NEED THEM 1 HOUR STORYS OMG
YESSS PLS
When the rest of your siblings are the golden children you're just the black sheep
I mean how can they keep score they can always beat what they did last with something else
Idk if that op is still there maybe get checked for Wilson's disease (the brown ring around eyes is called a KF ring)
The op is korean i think. Older siblings privilege.
Golden child siblings? Plural? Nah dawg they just dont like you specifically
The zity, shame on them
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“Jade is adopted”
I don't get why OP is being so self-righteous. Accept their money, drain them dry, then block them. It's the only value he will ever get out of his "parents".
That's some bitch shit
Some Peoples care more about Values than Valueables.
That's some bitch shit
Ive heard a strong sense of justice/morals is a common autistic trait. So he might feel strongly against doing whats wrong
@@reaverkai Not sure it's that. I used to be just like that. But over time and life experience I became pragmatic and calculating.
The amount of waffling in this story is unbelievable.
Is OP an affair baby? This doesn’t make sense.
OP is on the spectrum so I think that might be a likely reason
This is reposted, not sure if there's more
Sil? Hold up sil? I watch a story that had a sil and she was crazy, must be a common name is storys
SIL typically stands for Sister In Law.
Ok
@@andrewpaul7513 I was just confused bc I didn't know if it was a name or something
Damn bro
Such useless parents
Op Is german
Watchmaking school???
Can anyone tell meaning of aita
No
its short for Am i the asshole
@@theold4734 killjoy
Not a fan of the comments in the vids tbh..
Gist of the story: Having 1 boy and 1 girl child is enough. Refrain from getting any more than 2 kids if you don't want drama in future.
No the gist of it is if you want to spoil your kids, make sure you have enough for ALL of them
This has nothing to do with gender
People with way more kids have a better bonded family who are very close to one another. It just depends upon the upbringing of the parents.
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Bring out an hour long story pls
Stop babbling and get to the updates.
It is interesting that the OP says they are “on the spectrum” and “has issues with crowds and sensory overload” but goes to soccer games regularly, enough so his siblings are supposedly buying him soccer game tickets. And as we all know soccer games a re quiet, intimate affairs.
Sounds like another self diagnosed “I’m on the spectrum” person looking for the attention his parents never gave him so he is just trying to be special.
People on the spectrum can do social events. A lot of us are hobbyist so it's not an uncommon thing. Hyperfocusing on a special interest is very different than socializing and engaging with others.
@@EliPiMorris again, you want it both ways.
I am “overstimulated” by loud noises and large crowds. But I can go out and do things I want to do like go to a large crowded stadium full of loud soccer fans.
It is the same “argument” that your kid can’t focus on his homework by plays video games for hours, they must have ADHD, quick give them speed with a PG rating.
You just want to be labeled as special so people treat you special. Okay. If you’re “on the spectrum” what is your favorite train ?
@@EliPiMorris still waiting on your favorite train.
@@user-qf1bb7nm8s actually it isn't as weird. On family gathering, you are supposed to pay attention to many people at once, because no one gives you instruction who to watch etc. But on events like concerts and football games, you have clear, the loudest/most interesting thing you are watching.
Overstimulation is weird, but might be compared to hot water. You just push in your hand and it's hot, but of you won't take it back whining, you get used to the temperature.
Dunno if OP is on spectrum or not. But there are more factors than just "loud noise", and even it depends on it being constant, or just random crashing, and then back to silence.
This is normal for people on the spectrum. My daughter can tolerate walking around theme parks and she enjoys sirc de sole (circus without animals). It’s a reason it’s known as a spectrum disorder.