Stepmom Banned My Husband From My Dad's Birthday Party Because She Didn't Want to Be Embarrassed...
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- čas přidán 27. 04. 2024
- Stepmom Banned My Husband From My Dad's Birthday Party Because She Didn't Want to Be 'Embarrassed' if He Had a Seizure. So I Told My Dad Everything and Now He's Leaving Her!
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The thing about marrying a widower is that he didn’t divorce his wife she died. He was still very much in love with her and of course still loves her. If you can’t handle that then don’t marry a widower.
Yeah but what is the widow gonna do get back together
@@Nkplayzqwerty 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀🫡
"didn't hear anything from my father or my dad"
yep. mhm.
My thoughts exactly
lol
You brought the nail... I'll bring the machete..
Stepmonster in this story: "I don't want your husband to embarrass me in my party...🤔 I know! I'll do it myself. 💡😃"
When will people stop treating epilepsy like it's some plague???😒
I mean I can understand maybe her being anxious about it but if it was just that she could have asked OP about first aid steps to take if one happens.
I’ve been around people with epilepsy and they always seem to somehow know when it’s about to happen and somehow do it in private because I’ve never actually witnessed it happening myself. I guess they alert a close friend or something to help. Either way I’ve never been given reason to think it’s a big deal. If one were ever to happen to me I would just handle it the best way I can I suppose.
@@BrightElkthere’s two major types of seizures. Focal onset, and generalized onset. I know this, because I’ve had both.
right? I knew one lady with it and met another with it, absolutely normal person, never witnessed anything. It doesn’t affect me it affects the person with it so why discriminate or treat them different? I dont get it.
Murderers and sa’ing jerks however would affect me so those I fear and move away as in RUN.
@@axinhedgelion8417What's the difference between the two?
This is a personal one, My mother has Epilepsy as well, and even despite beds helping it get better, its something that still happens, and it really makes my blood boil when people have issues with it since its something that people with epilepsy cant control when they have a seizure.
Personal for me as well. Since I myself have epilepsy
4:01 Dang, that description hit close to home.Sounds literally like my dad.
One time, he was giving me unwanted "advice" on how to use the washing machine like I was some retarded (yea dad, I totally didn't know that if you pressed the "half of water level" button it would only fill half way, lol.
Then, he proceded to lecture me about how I was just on my phone and "not paying attention to him" and ignored me for the rest of the day.Good times.
sadly there are plenty of people like this. My father wasn't perfect either. On the other hand, once my brother when he was little talked about streaming his gameplay and I made a comment that made it seem like a bad idea. I don't remember what exactly, but I still remember it to this day and I'm ashamed of it, because we have such a big impact on our little ones and we should tread very carefully with what we say. I tried telling him it would be awesome to do it many times after but he never tried it. I wasn't an adult yet, though that is no excuse. I want to be a good father and husband someday.
Hey, not to be rude but can we please not use the R-slur? thanks!
@@vendetta.02 girl 🙄
@@TileBitanAs a younger sibling of two older siblings just know that you were a kid too and it’s okay. You were learning just as much as he was.
@@vendetta.02 😐
I hate this so much because it reminds me of highschool when i started having seizures and everyone in my small community highschool thought they were contagious (like the flu) and began avoiding me and the teachers all had to take special courses to deal with my seizures when they happened and it was just all around embarrassing.
Idk how old you are but post 1990’s High schoolers are old enough to know better. They didn’t think you were contagious they were just assholes who were singling you out.
are people stupid.. sorry rhetorical question. PEOPLE ARE STUPID. i hope your ok after having to deal with that
OP has way more restraint than I do. I lost my mother to cancer almost 3 years ago. You best believe I’m swinging if a woman even tries to take my mother’s place. My brothers and I agreed no one will replace her. I made it clear to my mother on her death bed I was holding her while she was dying in my arms. I told her she will forever be my queen and that no one will ever replace her. I miss my mother dearly every mother’s day since her passing is very painful for me. I’m a mother myself but I can’t help but bawl. The anniversary of her death is hard as well as her birthday. The step mother is a monster. I would have fought her so fast. You only get one mother in life. Unfortunately I know there’s some people who have bad mothers which I’m sorry they do. This video made me upset and emotional. I have no problem with my dad seeing other women I made it very clear to him. As long as the woman respects my dad because he deserves nothing but the best. Also if the said woman does not disrespect my mother’s name nor memory. He was by my mother’s side the whole entire fight with cancer. She fought for over 10 years with cancer she would beat it and then it would come back in another place. At the end the doctors said they couldn’t do anything anymore. That the cancer spread throughout her body. She needed to be put in hospice care. We told them she was coming home and we will keep her comfortable until the time came. They would send a nurse to come see her. Just watching my mom declining so fast hurt me so bad. I’m sorry for ranting I know no one would care. But I really hope OP and her family will get through this hardship:
stories like these make me grateful my dad married a good woman like my stepmom
It is a rare thing to have a good stepmom. I am glad you didn’t have to endure a crappy one! My mother remarrying was such a bad experience for myself that it has put me off the idea of remarriage completely.
This one feels personal, I have epilepsy and have since I was younger
Not contesting, wanting a huge sum, and unreasonably insecure? She was cheating
I’m happy that Ops Dad divorced evil SM
I’m in the same boat as Jason. But my epilepsy is worse… photosensitive
Oh yikes, I hope you have people around that can help in an episode.
I randomly got epilepsy @ 30 & had been w/my husband of 10yrs but I still felt like a burden on him (despite his constant reassurance otherwise) bc we went from walking home from sushi to a life filled w/Dr.'s, tests, constant med changes & this isn't factoring in what the seizures themselves did to our lives... so it hurts to hear this!!! I'm glad the dad left this POS woman!!!
All she did was relay the message given to her to someone who deserved to know (the person the party is for and her husband). If what Sharon said was truly harmless, it wouldn’t have blown up in her face.
11:48 um, she didn’t hear from her father or her dad? I didn’t realize she had two LOL
lol I honestly didn’t even catch that.
Tbh I accidentally type like that all the time. My mind goes faster than my typing and I don’t realize.
@@SealandPK You are not alone in that. Hell..that even happens when I’m talking. Socially…I’m an absolute mess. I have bad anxiety and am socially awkward.
so until it affected her father personally he couldn't be bothered to actually do anything about Sharon. What a bad father.
i would have threw the coffee at her but that is just be being evil lol
I said this on a similar story, but I say it again here. There are so many people out there that do not want to believe how often this is true, but it is so very much a regular thing that is going on in this country especially. That is what happens when you are allowed to believe you are the center of the universe (aka Main Character Syndrome). "Sharon" blatantly displays that, and it had to start with her own parents. The OP is in the right, and "Sharon" needs psychiatric help.
I can’t take anyone seriously who uses the term “main character syndrome”.
@@BrightElk , why, when it is so obviously a real thing? That is what narcissists do, believe that everything revolves around them.
@@BrightElk , or perhaps you believe it is just an online thing?
Op is draggggggggging this story!
My best friend has epilepsy is the most innocents and amazing person, to hate someone for epilepsy takes some,e serious evilness
I hope Jason doesn’t watch Battling Seizure Robots!
11:42 we didn’t hear from my father or my dad 💀
Do you know how I can prove I didn’t break you up on purpose, Sharon? Cause if I’d known it was that easy, I’d have done it years ago.
Sounds like something I would love to say to my ex stepdad. My mom left him when she realized I was safer and happier living outside the home at 17. He doesn’t specifically blame me because he doesn’t think he did anything wrong but is too lazy to blame somebody he doesn’t have control over, but if he ever does I’ll keep this comment in mind.
9:48 thats what sharon wants...
every single post has "therapy" in it. does the AI not understand how expensive that crap is?
uh... it was like this before A.I. i dont know why you think its purely A.I. when that like the number one solution reddit offers
It also depends on what country/health insurance/income OP and her family has. A lot of insurances cover therapy now.
I don't think even an AI would write "My husband is morally superior to us all because he has a medical condition." That kind of objectification tells me the story was made up by a human being.
Idk The AI also seems to think that everyone in the US is getting paid six figures so it is clearly not a concern to these characters.
Father shoulda grown a spine faster
Stepmom sowing: Haha yeah fuck yeah!
Stepmom reaping: Fuck this sucks what the fuck
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🎶this def-in-ite-ly smells like N-P-D, the lon-ger you lis-ten to it🎶
It's not your fault it's your step mother's fault and she doesn't have the right to disrespect his condition like that she should go to hell for it.
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>"If anything, he is *_far better than us because he's so strong_* and deals with something that most people look down upon."
What is this pedestalizing BS? "My husband is the superior human because he has *[checks notes]* a medical condition."
You’re taking it out of context. She doesn’t mean he’s literally better than everyone else. She just means that he has to have more resilience than the average person because his illness makes him stigmatized. It’s a figure of speech. A difficult concept for many people on the internet to comprehend for those people on the internet who only read words in a strict legalistic sense.
@@BrightElk >She doesn’t mean he’s literally better than everyone else.
>"If anything, he is *_far better than us_* because he's so strong and deals with something that most people look down upon."
Lol, no, that's what she said. It's not my fault OP communicates like a middleschool girl.
>"It’s a figure of speech."
A childish, pedestalizing figure of speech.
>"A difficult concept for many people on the internet to comprehend for those people on the internet who only read words in a strict legalistic sense."
Or, I'm highlighting that the author is immature communicator and it indicates that the post is a product of imagination. Married adults don't talk about their spouses like this unless they're either baby-brained or something about their relationship is unhealthy and inappropriate.
@@johnduquette7023You just proved my point. You are reading it in the most literal sense possible and missing the point either intentionally to be dramatic or unintentionally because you need to work on reading comprehension. This is the very definition of interpreting language in a legalistic way. You are missing the big picture and overall point of the message. Idk maybe because you don’t like OP so you are going out of your way to exploit the english language and unravel the point on purpose. Or because you are young but either way it’s not a good look.
@BrightElk Lol, Are you serious? Op writes tween fiction and recognizing the immaturity of that authorial voice means I lack reading comprehension? 😂
@@johnduquette7023For someone who talks so much about maturity you don’t really seem that mature yourself.
OP sounds rather bratty!
I’m really not getting brat vibes. What are you picking up on that comes off as bratty exactly?
The very beginning she needs to air out her insecurities about being a teen girl who obviously hates her step mom because “you’re not my real mom.” I know the mom came off as pushy but at the same time I don’t understand why doing things like changing the house decor= disrespecting my life and my dead mother. Comes off as her understandably upset her mom is no longer around rather than step mom is a controlling bitch
Also the whole I’m not a child thing is understandable up until she seems to not be able to control her emotions and act like a brat. Can no one give her guidance without her taking it personally?
This is super bias what did you do?
Called out an ableist. That's it, really
Okay so this is prolly a unpopular opinion but i don't like the daughter.
Like, why the hell is SHE crying because her stepmother said that HER husband couldn't come because of HIS epilepsy??
She isn't the one with epilepsy and said that it was "Embarrassing" and "Humiliating" for HER and her husband.😐
Why the hell is she embarrassed and Humiliated?? 🤨 If she really loved him she shouldn't be caring about that nonsense at all.
I noticed that too. She also pedestalizes her husband. She objectifies him as some kind of defective prop so she can virtuously suffer on his behalf. If this story isn't fake (it probably is), that relationship is unhealthy.
Idk sometimes I angry cry? But if someone personally attacked my husband like that because of something out of his control I would be upset too. You hurt my husband you hurt me.
Two hour in
Damn!! 43 seconds ago! M early
Your poor partner if that’s how long you last
@@admonius9668 I don’t get it
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