Getting Your Mind RIGHT: Focusing on YOU, How to Channel Your Energy & Leave the Past Behind

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  • čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
  • Starting 2024 with a bang! Now that the sisters have the prayers and affirmations necessary to speak life into 2024, the sisters talk about how the girls NEED to channel their energy, overcome the past and make 2024 their best year yet!
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    00:00 Welcome & Annoucements: New Season & Show BABYYY!
    08:34 Ding Ding Dilemma: I strongly dislike (lowkey hate) everything about myself as a person…
    32:35 Major keys for 2024: Be UNAPOLOGETIC
    39:18 Major keys for 2024: Stay FOCUSED
    45:27 Major keys for 2024: Fill up YOUR CUP
    49:56 Major keys for 2024: Submit to ACCOUNTABILITY & WISE COUNSEL
    54:33 Major keys for 2024: Move from affirmation to CHARACTERISATION
    01:00:11 Major keys for 2024: CREATE more than you consume
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Komentáře • 72

  • @laverderslemonade
    @laverderslemonade Před 5 měsíci +27

    “Knowing so much doesn’t make you anything. It makes you a library” whew 😮‍💨 that’s a word I needed

  • @ashdoux8661
    @ashdoux8661 Před 6 měsíci +56

    You ladies have been my number one go to podcast last year. I love the energy, the banter and most importantly, the wisdom you bring to the podcast. You’ve enlightened and elevated my mind in so many ways. Thank you for all you do.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 5 měsíci +1

      You've made our whole day sis! Thanks for the support and for sticking around, here's to even more glowing and growing ❤

  • @Musings0623
    @Musings0623 Před 5 měsíci +15

    To the sister in the dilemma:
    Remember that there's no ‘one-size fits all’ for beauty and it's completely okay to look different from what society says you should look like, it's actually natural and I'd argue that by virtue of being you, you're gorgeous ❤. Sending light and love your way ♥️.

  • @joanisichei7539
    @joanisichei7539 Před 5 měsíci +7

    I came here from Spotify because the word count couldn't allow me to type all this.
    This episode ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I want to screammmmmm because whatttttt! You guys made me so naked right now like you just hit the point every single time and I love it.
    This episode is full of tough love, hard truths and obvious love for our growth.
    Thank you, thank you.
    I love you guys so much.
    I think this is my first comment on this space and I will say you guys have genuinely changed my life for the better.
    I now have a habit of listening to you guys every morning after devotional to set my life straight for the day and it has been wonderful.
    I now enjoy my long walks to class because I have a lovely podcast to soak in.
    I'm a medical student and the journey is tough, my online Sisters are tougher.
    Thank God for you guys, YOU ARE PHENOMENAL 🤧

  • @angelbaabaquartson341
    @angelbaabaquartson341 Před 6 měsíci +10

    0:35
    Am I the only one realising the anglessss at the start!!!😍😍😍😍😍
    I saw on IG about the 3 cameras buuuutttttt the PRODUCTION!!!!!!!
    I’m so excited for this season🎉

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 5 měsíci +3

      We're about to give you PRODUCTION ♥

  • @snowym7188
    @snowym7188 Před 6 měsíci +16

    Rene is glowing 🥰 girls are looking pretty in 2024🎉

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you! We are trying oh 🙏 ❤

  • @Kaerbaby
    @Kaerbaby Před 5 měsíci +3

    Truthfully enjoyed this episode... needed this to start the year right. BE A DO-ER!

  • @user-ih4xn2yt4r
    @user-ih4xn2yt4r Před 5 měsíci +3

    I want to like this more times. Every single time you hit a point, I reach for the like button to like and then realizes I had already liked it lol. Whewww! Jaz Turner is the reason I am here she sent me.

  • @CeceLove08
    @CeceLove08 Před 5 měsíci +6

    this episode was amazing! I normally dont comment i just watch and support silently but the HIDDEN GEMS the both of you ladies have dropped....have me taking a hard look in the mirror lol THANK YOU LADIES!!!

  • @TheMashup_
    @TheMashup_ Před 5 měsíci +13

    did I hear Wednesday? my Sisters, I need my Monday motivation for the week 😭. Also, please flood us when you drop that South African link for us to purchase tickets immediately.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 5 měsíci +3

      Sis we're dropping 2x per week ❤ Sundays and Wednesdays! SA tickets will be out soon ✨ hope to catch you there!

    • @TheMashup_
      @TheMashup_ Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@tomysisters 2!! 🥹 we are so spoilt 😭😭

    • @a.d.4126
      @a.d.4126 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@TheMashup_we really are!!🥹

    • @siyarocker
      @siyarocker Před 5 měsíci +1

      I need those tickets with immediate effect 🥹🤣

  • @nwabisabeba1678
    @nwabisabeba1678 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Congratulations on your Billboard ladies🎉

  • @masechabamakola4181
    @masechabamakola4181 Před 5 měsíci

    This is an episode we all need to watch at the beginning of every month if not every WEEK! The Wisdom? wow.

  • @susan_wamucii
    @susan_wamucii Před 5 měsíci +2

    I used to live in SA, recently moved to Ireland. How dare you go to SA when I don't live there anymore?! 😭🤣🤣 I'll try to catch the next live show in England 😘❤️☺️ Enjoy SA! Its one of my home countries 😊

  • @snowym7188
    @snowym7188 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I’ll say it 😂 , South Africa stand up 😄

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 5 měsíci +1

      We knew SOMEBODY will say something and we LOVE it 😂 ❤

  • @MpumiKMbonane
    @MpumiKMbonane Před 5 měsíci +4

    Yes to the Live Show in South Africa 🤩

  • @kgaogelomojapelo2356
    @kgaogelomojapelo2356 Před 5 měsíci

    South Africa in the building❤

  • @Lerato_Morailane
    @Lerato_Morailane Před 5 měsíci +1

    Just do… that’s what I need to be doing

  • @aakshi.
    @aakshi. Před 5 měsíci +3

    shoutout to the new camera angles🤣 so excited for the things you guys are gonna do this year!

  • @maryambanjo7087
    @maryambanjo7087 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Wow! Feeling attacked yet inspired all at once 😂- thank you guys for spreading the words we need to hear as always - cheers to Season 5 🎉

  • @Ronirossoux
    @Ronirossoux Před 6 měsíci +3

    Yall are always on point but yall ATE today. Throat chakras were open!!!!!

  • @jenelliedragon
    @jenelliedragon Před 5 měsíci

    My girls need to know! SOMEONE YOU HAVENT MET YET WONDERS WHAT ITS LIKE TO KNOW SOMEONE LIKE YOU !!

  • @outlets878
    @outlets878 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Gems gems gems gems

  • @michelleduncan3911
    @michelleduncan3911 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I'm here for it! Thanks ladies you have gotten me through these years and made me a better person. The dilema hit home and I found great value in your responses, thanks! Big hugs from Florida 🥰

  • @naomiadesiiyan9520
    @naomiadesiiyan9520 Před 6 měsíci +3

    love the extra camera angles :)

  • @onkedladla
    @onkedladla Před 5 měsíci

    Congratulations on the billboars 🎉

  • @Emma-rg8pn
    @Emma-rg8pn Před 5 měsíci +2

    To the sister with the dilemma:
    I would say that if you are walking with God and you know who He is, then He will know the desires of your heart. If the desires of your heart are in line with the Father's then trust that relationship and marriage will happen for you. There is an idolization for marriage in the Christian community where the real ideal relationship that God wants for us is a relationship with Him. While you may be thinking that you have never had anyone interested in you, maybe God is hiding you and this is really a season for you to pour into yourself and love on you. Getting into a relationship can sometimes just be a checkmark and even an ego checkmark off life's to-do list. I'm not saying this is the case for you, but from what you have said, it sounds like it is important for you to learn that while we love our neighbour as ourselves, it is essential to not neglect the 'ourselves' because that can be part of the foundation in which our love flows from. I've been in your exact same predicament. Going to PWIs all my life, low-esteem/ unworthiness, not being pursued by anyone other than cat-calls. So, I pray that you will not feel unworthy from this component of life and that you will learn to truly love yourself and see the beauty in yourself from the eyes of your Maker, who believed you were worthy enough to be knit your mother's womb.

  • @ntonhledlamini
    @ntonhledlamini Před 5 měsíci

    Create more than you consume was for me❤ Deleted tt and ig for Q1 to clear away sometime to create, more, memories, journaling, reading, learning etc. That bit about being a library, also for me😅

  • @que_fela
    @que_fela Před 5 měsíci +1

    Guys please do you have dates yet for your South African visit? I need to add this on my calendar asap

  • @Faith-sr8zw
    @Faith-sr8zw Před 5 měsíci

    Leicester Square!!!! I’m going to go there just to see, so I’m waiting for that Instagram post about it

  • @ellea2541
    @ellea2541 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Ey, see you ladies - #refreshed .... Happy New Year, Sisters! ❤

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 5 měsíci

      It's giving RESTED 😂 happy new year lovely! ❤

  • @paaf4768
    @paaf4768 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Can't wait to see yall in SA!!

  • @heychrisss_
    @heychrisss_ Před 5 měsíci +1

    loveeeee the energy

  • @laverderslemonade
    @laverderslemonade Před 5 měsíci +1

    New year same me cause I’m still listing crying at work 😭

  • @bumblebee2333
    @bumblebee2333 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Loving the close up angles ❤❤

  • @hannab7214
    @hannab7214 Před 5 měsíci

    Happy new year! 🎉

  • @alliediallo1945
    @alliediallo1945 Před 5 měsíci

    Happy new year!

  • @Dessaloves
    @Dessaloves Před 5 měsíci

    really needed this episode thx

  • @kadeijadalrymple137
    @kadeijadalrymple137 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Dropping gems as usual ladies. Thank uu so much ❤

  • @simplysony7308
    @simplysony7308 Před 5 měsíci

    Love love love love 😍 🌟

  • @Pj_jeannn
    @Pj_jeannn Před 5 měsíci

    ❤ Loved this, needed this wake up call ❤

  • @zanele6492
    @zanele6492 Před 5 měsíci

    You guys are literally the best and have so helpful in my life . Life may not be perfect but I must say in terms of how I feel I’m so light weight .
    What I’ve learned is that you’ll never find joy in life if you , your self are not happy or contented internally. It all starts within you and I must say I’m doing so much better.
    Thankyou I love you guys God bless y’all

  • @aliyahtaylor1120
    @aliyahtaylor1120 Před 5 měsíci

    Ugh I love you guys so much! COME ON WISDOM!

  • @emilia_lukusa
    @emilia_lukusa Před 5 měsíci

    What a way to start the new year 😮‍💨 ! THIS!!! Thank you so much sisters ❤️❤️

  • @passivepanda3656
    @passivepanda3656 Před 5 měsíci

    Wheeeeew gemmes after gemmes with this one. Thank you so much for helping us putting it back into perspective.

  • @manelle4869
    @manelle4869 Před 5 měsíci

    love, love, loved this episode! a great way to start the new year! super excited to implement these new mindsets :)

  • @faithopoku-addo5620
    @faithopoku-addo5620 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Happy New Year Sisters

  • @imaobongedet1989
    @imaobongedet1989 Před 5 měsíci

    You came in with the glow and the guns. Thank you for the realistic check . Can’t wait for the year’s content ❤❤

  • @hopemakgeru7296
    @hopemakgeru7296 Před 5 měsíci

    OMG yaas please have a live show in South Africa.
    We would loove to meet you guys omg !

  • @kgomotsomekgobo6637
    @kgomotsomekgobo6637 Před 5 měsíci

    We neeeeddd the liveshow!! 🥺🥺🥺

  • @beberoks1
    @beberoks1 Před 6 měsíci +2

    this came at the right time x

  • @laurenleavell_
    @laurenleavell_ Před 5 měsíci

    lol @ you guys quoting Katt 🤣🤣

  • @rorisangleqheka
    @rorisangleqheka Před 5 měsíci

  • @aohamer
    @aohamer Před 5 měsíci +1

    Jackson 6 😅😅😅

  • @angelbaabaquartson341
    @angelbaabaquartson341 Před 6 měsíci

    1:01 iiitttt iiiiissss

  • @emilia_lukusa
    @emilia_lukusa Před 5 měsíci

    When are y’all coming to South Africa?

  • @daiishi_kinyoubi
    @daiishi_kinyoubi Před 5 měsíci

    I am waiting for the episode with Vee 😂🎉

  • @ruva1860
    @ruva1860 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Imagine TMS x mpoomy ledwaba 🇿🇦🔥🔥

  • @rebeccalukusa3538
    @rebeccalukusa3538 Před 5 měsíci +2

    "You're kindness is not reserved for those that know you well" chileee!!!😮‍💨🤌🏽
    Thank you ladies all that you do.❤

  • @SincerelyNezi
    @SincerelyNezi Před 5 měsíci

    How do you always align with my plans ?!🥹 Thank you ladies, have a beautiful year ❤