The Sisters Are SELF-SABOTAGING: Overcoming Failure, Fear & Setbacks

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  • čas přidán 8. 07. 2024
  • We're coming to the end of the month and the girls seem to be losing momentum! From being transparent about our own shortcomings, to addressing how we overcome self-sabotage and failure, the sisters get real about what it takes to bounce back.
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Komentáře • 18

  • @Hw-od8sd
    @Hw-od8sd Před 5 měsíci +28

    Thank you so much sisters! Would love to here your thoughts and wisdom for us girilies who struggle with maladaptive daydreaming, escapism, avoidance of reality, fantastical thinking etc etc. It’s been a huge topic of conversation lately and would love to hear your advice! ❤

  • @HiamChelsea
    @HiamChelsea Před 4 měsíci +2

    OH MY GOODNESS!!! This is my first time watching your video... and when Courtney (I looked up your names) spoke on arguing in your imagination, I was shocked. I thought I was the only one experiencing this and that I was going crazy. I have lived a very isolated life with very few relationships (temporary friendships and even more temporary romantic relationships). I have had years of living like I have been sedated and it was literally only through prayers that the chain broken. I was even living like a hermit at some point. My point is that since I've come out of a sedated-like life, I've notices how intense my thoughts can be. My imaginations reveal both escapism and my need to express my feeling through fantasy. I've always had issues of expressing myself but in my imagination I sure pack a punch. Since being freed, I've really wanted to cut off so many people in my life. I know the solution is myself and how I can understand communication, knowing when enough is enough or if I am being a little rigid and know that people aren't perfect (I'm still struggling to find a line between not perfect and just plain abusive but I'm getting there). I'm most likely older than both of you ladies but in my life and my level of being, I'm much younger. Thank you Courtney for sharing that. It makes to tear up that you shared that and that I'm not alone in this (never knew why people said that but for once I get it and resonate with another human. Another win in my books) and thank you Renée for confirming that it was a word for someone ( not sure why but it was a fitting statement).
    Yo!! I paused this video when I wrote the above and Renée Renée Renée! My sister's just spitting truths. Like how can two women Ive never met speak so many bars I can relate to. I need to chill and just listen because I'll be editing forever if I'm not careful. I feel like a commentator watching these women spare with the devil (and yes, I'm a little dramatic but GOD IS GOOD!).

  • @bumblebee2333
    @bumblebee2333 Před 5 měsíci +6

    "Drop it like it's hot" 🎵🎼 should totally be the new intro for TMS hot takes. Reneé😂 you are onto something there

  • @MpumiKMbonane
    @MpumiKMbonane Před 5 měsíci +8

    Tickets sold out 😭😭😭

  • @RazzberriJam
    @RazzberriJam Před 5 měsíci +5

    HERE AND READY LETS GO

  • @ellea2541
    @ellea2541 Před 5 měsíci +1

    😂😂😂 "Kojo, Akos says she's sorry." You two crack me up!

  • @TheKaRenaLee
    @TheKaRenaLee Před 5 měsíci +9

    Courtney the makeup is eating. What is the lip combo ?! Also love this video. This video has been very healing for me and I’m only at 38minutes. Ooo y’all are preaching today !! I love what’s being said I literally thought to myself God is not mean and hard on us the way we are on ourselves . God does not discipline us the way we try to drive the narrative we should to be successful . I am learning Gods character rn and I believe 100% there is a reason he’s not so unkind and harsh to us! I want to love and also discipline myself the way God does.

    • @oshinofalakoju5749
      @oshinofalakoju5749 Před 5 měsíci +2

      YEESSS!! Each and everyday is new opportunity to be more like Christ. Allowing Him to lead me is what gives me peace. We are deserving of a non-stressful life, and can love ourselves into change instead of bullying ourselves into progress.

  • @user-ji5uo8gg3n
    @user-ji5uo8gg3n Před 5 měsíci +2

    I can't get over how gorgeous Courtney is! Absolutely stunnimg ma'am

  • @pd9116
    @pd9116 Před 4 měsíci

    Such an important topic that resonates. Thank you both!

  • @amahlemakhaye3315
    @amahlemakhaye3315 Před 5 měsíci

    So timely 🥺 can’t wait to see you two 🇿🇦❤️

  • @benaamerie
    @benaamerie Před 5 měsíci +1

    Courtney is me!! They just want to take me for ediat 😂😂 32:38

  • @mellisaskosana4907
    @mellisaskosana4907 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Tickets are sold out. I’m literally screaming 😭

  • @initwiththina
    @initwiththina Před 5 měsíci

    That bible streak hurts me every year!😅

  • @mayaliii
    @mayaliii Před 5 měsíci

    ??? who is falling, short exactly??😧😧

  • @famat.6447
    @famat.6447 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I needed this ! Thanks ladies (btw you look BEAUTIFUL in this episode 🥹), might send my first dilemma to you guys cause i’m lost right now 😂

  • @joy_ntsako5530
    @joy_ntsako5530 Před 5 měsíci +1

    How can I like this more than once🥹❤...ladies thank you so much for this episode and podcast as a whole I've been following you ladies for almost 2 months now and I've learnt alot from the things you've spoken about. Keep doing the Lord's work👏🏽👏🏽🥰