Will Ugly N*ggas Actually Treat You Even Worse?
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- čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
- Ep 142 | Today the gang has a conversation about the following:
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1:04 Patreon preview: Is doing porn really all that great?
5:05 "If I'm your man your baby daddy should not be in the picture"
22:22 "don't date the guy that's been after you for years"
33:12 "AITA for wanting to be monogamous with my wife again?"
42:48 Can men ever compete with women in getting play
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I swear sometimes I be looking at Alvin's screen to make sure he's still breathing
😂 He is the definition of stoic.
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I don’t think y’all understand how funny Alvin comment was “ Nissan Altima AKA plates “ as i drove up to a car with those plates and a dude in the front seat
I thought the whole conversation referring to don't date the guy who's been asking for years was actually about girl saying once you date that guy it's likely the fail because they spent years putting you on a pedestal that they end up realizing you never should have been on. And now you don't have a romantic relationship or platonic one after you guys break up
But yeah Twitter does take simple statements to a whole new level 🤣
yknow I think ppl are in denial when they find someone who is not "conventionally" attractive to be attractive. but it can get really interesting, ppl are just really interesting and unique sometimes and thats ok yall
When children are involved all adults need to put ego aside. As a partner to a single mom ask yourself, do I want her to only come to me because I feel insecure about my position in her life and as a man. If it's anywhere near that truth then that is not the right choice. You need to encourage the children to see their father as a provider as that is where the values and esteem come from. Don't let pride ruin kids lives. If youre feeling insecure speak to your girlfriend about those feelings dont control. Nobody needs unnecessary power struggles in their life.
This right here!
For the baby-daddy conversation, I feel like y’all leaving out the kid’s feelings from the equation. Regardless of the age if the children, what if they want their bio-dad in their lives?
Let’s say you start dating the mom when the kids are teens, those kids may already have a dad in their lives. They may accept you as their step-dad, but the “other man” is still their first dad. If the kids want to go to the movies and the mom asks the dad to take them, it’s not because she thinks you can’t, it’s because that’s the kid’s dad.
I think these guys are way out of their depth speaking on this matter since they DON'T have children. No disrespect to their platform though, as I generally enjoy the conversations.
I think the angle was primarily about financial contributions and how much a parent (father) outside of the household has a say about kids. But they did say that if the father is active, then the bio dad and mom have 1st say on raising the children. If the bio dad isn't active, the step dad is the real 2nd parent.
As for your point though, if the kids want to see their bio dad and he's not contributing financially, I think most men would at least expect the bio dad to pay for the tickets. I don't think a good step dad would get in the way of kids having a relationship with their bio dad. The hope would be that their relationship with bio dad wouldn't turn into animosity or spite towards the step dad but it can and does happen for different reasons
44:39
Ok sooo….this was a great episode. Let’s talk about that last segment.
Dude DEFINITELY has to take an L for changing his relationship to an open marriage .Now you’re upset because your wife gets more play than you? If he really wanted to he could put in the effort to find himself more pleasure. The bottom line is this. He fell short and couldn’t stand strong as a man because he desired what his friends had. ( bad move )
the grass ain’t always greener, and any real “MAN” or “PLAYER” knows that 🐱 is ALWAYS available when you’re a man with a purpose and clear end goal /destination. Do not be so easily swayed by the ways of other men. TRUST & BELIEVE they ain’t always having fun.
Veto power might be standard practice in open relationships (as in sex only, no romantic attachments to other people), but in a polyamorous context, that's generally frowned on. I've been polyamorous for 11 years and if I meet a potential partner who's like "yeah my wife/husband can tell me to dump you at any time and I'll do it" then I'm not gonna waste my time and emotions on that person.
Both the veto power and you’re response to the veto power seems reasonable to me.
Surprisingly on Eddie side on the "am I the asshole". I think his analogy was spot on. He's an asshole for miscalculating but ultimately he's just trying to get his needs met.
He basically opened up the relationship for his coworker, and found out real quick his pond wasn't that big
The wife's version of the story let's that our pretty clearly (if these are stories from the same couple)
Ya'll should have put up a picture of Eddy for the thumbnail; he was the standing red flag for the entire episode. lol.
39:53 Not Eddy congratulating himself for a badly constructed strawman 😂
Excellent episode
Love listening to you guys. Very balanced.
“Never give an ugly guy a chance”? That “irony” is unhelpful.
Fun fact: this AITA sorry sounds suspiciously like the husband's perspective of another r/prorevenge story by a wife whose husband had said he wanted to open the relationship because she wasn't as attractive to him. She rejected the proposal multiple times before giving in, and he immediately started smashing his coworker. Of course, the coworker starts a real relationship and the husband's attempts on the dating apps fail, but in the meantime OP starts a new relationship with one man, so when the husband comes back he's actually angry that she won't dump the other guy. He's the asshole no matter how you look at it.
They need a divorce
Idk bout having a conversation about violin as stepdad… that’s kind of Ohdee. Especially if the bio father is active
I'm somewhat with Eddie on the guy. But I don't believe on that mentality of "if I don't get some you don't get some". That mentality is why we get these nagging from people because we hang with our friends.
36:14 he chose...poorly
click on this video so fast