When Harry Met Sally - Joe's Getting Married

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  • @StoopidPeopleX
    @StoopidPeopleX Před 12 lety +738

    And I'm gonna be 40!
    When?
    ...Someday!
    In 8 years
    LMAO best part

  • @Gorkha_plant
    @Gorkha_plant Před 8 lety +1262

    "all this time he said he said he didn't want to marry..the truth is that he didn't want to marry me". story of my love life. lol.

  • @tubeyou89119
    @tubeyou89119 Před 3 lety +791

    I think the reason why they are perfect for each other is that they are frank and honest with each other from the beginning. They recognize the good and flaws in the other person, and is largely fine with all the flaws. So if you don't want to waste time in relationships, show your flaws early on instead of hiding them. Hahaha

    • @marianamartinezjimenez7145
      @marianamartinezjimenez7145 Před 3 lety +9

      I prefer to think they just mirror each other so perfectly they are just as neurotico ,crooked and broken that's why they work.

    • @tubeyou89119
      @tubeyou89119 Před 3 lety +6

      @@marianamartinezjimenez7145 yes everyone is crooked, broken in certain ways.

    • @marianamartinezjimenez7145
      @marianamartinezjimenez7145 Před 3 lety

      @@tubeyou89119 yes

    • @DarkWarriorStudios
      @DarkWarriorStudios Před 2 lety +3

      They did waste a lot of time though lol

    • @Daniel-mw7pu
      @Daniel-mw7pu Před 2 lety +5

      It’s not good to hide your flaws from your partner, but realistically, the problem I ran into when I was in “friendlationships” is that you see people at their worst - Sally sees Harry’s womanizing, insecure, and vindictive side, and Harry sees Sally’s neurotic, excessively needy, and foolishly optimistic side. It kills the passion almost immediately.

  • @rose060495
    @rose060495 Před 12 lety +620

    I love the part when Sally mentions Charlie Chaplin and then Harry says "Yeah, but he was too old to pick them up" and she strats laughing and then again crying. hahahaha so funny

  • @Jackferrett6781
    @Jackferrett6781 Před 7 lety +971

    Not being over someone is one thing. But finding out you broke up with someone not because they didn't wanna get married but that they didn't wanna get married to you is a different thing altogether

  • @jdeyemom
    @jdeyemom Před 11 lety +459

    I love "And I'm gonna be 40"
    "When?"
    "Someday"
    makes me laugh everytime

  • @theLoneLego
    @theLoneLego Před 12 lety +373

    Sally - "I'm too structured I'm completely closed off!!"
    Harry - "But in a good way"
    LOL!!! It makes me laugh every time!!

    • @tubeyou89119
      @tubeyou89119 Před 3 lety +4

      What's too structured anyway?? Too high maintenance??

  • @frannyzooey11
    @frannyzooey11 Před 9 lety +327

    " Her name is KIMBERLEY ! "

  • @JBProductionsxx
    @JBProductionsxx Před 9 lety +508

    I think it's so cute how he kisses her but not the passionate one that leads to well y'know .. But the friendly peck it's so loving and cute and the way he looks at her awww!

    • @flala2261
      @flala2261 Před 5 lety +15

      JBProductionsxx i know! Its *so* cute ✨
      The little pecks 🤗

  • @fluff975
    @fluff975 Před 11 lety +178

    i love the way she says "difficult" at 1:45

  • @WestIndianAK
    @WestIndianAK Před 8 lety +522

    The laughter/crying switch she does at 2:20 is just PRICELESS :D

    • @BalwantSinghDhaniya
      @BalwantSinghDhaniya Před 5 lety +27

      Exactly, she is such a fantastic actress. I watched this movie over and over again this particular scene on repeat. 😀😋😉

    • @PianoMelodicaDark
      @PianoMelodicaDark Před 5 lety +18

      After countless of times watching it I just realized that singular scene alone is the prime example of drama; both comedy and tragedy masks, almost in caricature master-class display. =)

    • @fredbill1047
      @fredbill1047 Před 3 lety +9

      If you look at Harry's cheek at that moment he smiles at Sally when he sees her laugh and then frowns when the switch happens. Absolutely touching scene.

    • @huaiyuqiao1787
      @huaiyuqiao1787 Před 3 lety +1

      My takeaway from it is Harry can make her laugh even when she's crying her eyes out

    • @syednoorerasul
      @syednoorerasul Před 3 lety +3

      @@fredbill1047 nice observation

  • @jamesmodlin6279
    @jamesmodlin6279 Před 4 lety +137

    Her reaction to his Charlie Chaplin joke is brilliant acting. Brilliant.

    • @mrdrgc
      @mrdrgc Před 3 lety +3

      2:14 Brillant

  • @krissys7481
    @krissys7481 Před 5 lety +211

    Dated a guy for 7 yrs. Never moved in together never proposed. Found out he just didnt want to marry me. This scene is amazing

    • @paulamra1ify
      @paulamra1ify Před 3 lety +33

      The love of my life said he didn't want a commitment, three months later he met sb else, got married right away, took in her 7 year old daughter, had two more kids with her and is still with her (that was 15 years ago) . Truth is he didn't wanna commit to me.🤷‍♀️

    • @gauri7427
      @gauri7427 Před 3 lety +1

      @@paulamra1ify And u ?

    • @sweenpoppy7250
      @sweenpoppy7250 Před 3 lety +1

      @@paulamra1ify if I can offer any consolation from being on the other side of the table is this... it’s nothing to do with you and you’re probably amazing. Didn’t want to get you hurt but it just wasn’t there and didn’t see it ever working out between the both of you..I don’t actually necessarily know your situation but don’t beat yourself up because sometimes things aren’t meant to work and when one door closes another opens. Theres probably a reason shit like this always happens and you gotta believe it’s for the better good. Give it some time and you’ll see that it was meant to be. Hope that makes you feel better. Been there before

    • @sakshiarora2870
      @sakshiarora2870 Před 3 lety

      @@paulamra1ify did he say sorry

    • @paulamra1ify
      @paulamra1ify Před 3 lety

      @@sweenpoppy7250 thanks. Your words helped. You are right. 😊🥰

  • @12classics39
    @12classics39 Před rokem +43

    The way she just throws the tissues over her shoulder … 10/10 acting by Meg Ryan in this whole scene. And it’s great how he doesn’t say or ask anything when she’s talking about the phone call; he just lets her vent, because he knows she needs to, and he listens.

  • @silverlimosine
    @silverlimosine Před 6 lety +149

    I always lose it when she's laughing at his joke and it turns into an awkward sob 😂

  • @augustharper15
    @augustharper15 Před 4 lety +108

    Prime example of when they don’t want to marry, it’s actually because they don’t want to marry YOU because they’re unsure about you. Same thing with “I’m not ready to have a bf/gf” followed by a bunch of excuses (I’ve been busy with work, my ex and I just broke up, I’ve been stressed, etc.). When someone is sure about you and they really want to be with you, there will be NO excuses. There would be no “I’m too stressed with...” “my gf and I just broke up”. Yeah, they’re just with you to hangout and fool around with until they find the person they actually want a serious relationship with. In their eyes you aren’t enough. It’s the bitter truth and I post it here so you guys will realize your worth and not be with people who always make excuses!

    • @sweenpoppy7250
      @sweenpoppy7250 Před 3 lety +16

      As much as I hated hearing that advice right now you literally couldn’t have nailed it on the head any better. I suppose that’s what I needed to hear... so thanks? Lol

    • @telia8344
      @telia8344 Před 3 lety +10

      But maybe, the person who isn't the one on monday due to a certain perception of people you have, will be on Friday. So maybe when you say have to get over something before getting in a relationship, it is true.

  • @desperteseusono
    @desperteseusono Před 3 lety +45

    This scene can be romantic, sad and incredibly funny at the same time ❤️

  • @RLviddy
    @RLviddy Před 8 lety +126

    It's not uncommon for people to move on really fast into marriage to someone else after getting out of a long-term relationship. Wonder what the success rate is on those marriages.

    • @thealphamudkip3807
      @thealphamudkip3807 Před 6 lety +22

      There's some data on that. Here's a quote from the 2009 census on marriage and divorce:
      "Table 8 also shows the median duration of time between the divorce from a first marriage and a second marriage. Half of the men and women in all of the race and Hispanic-origin groups who remarried after divorcing from their first marriage did so within about 4 years. The median duration of second marriages that ended in divorce did not differ from that for first marriages."
      They didn't categorize length of second marriage by length of time required to remarry, unfortunately, but essentially it shows that on average seconds marriages last just as long as first marriages. That might just show that people get married consistently and with the same mentality each time they get married, which would mean that there's no such thing as rebound marriages, but I don't know.
      You can check out the data yourself:
      www.census.gov/prod/2011pubs/p70-125.pdf

  • @mysterylovescompany2657
    @mysterylovescompany2657 Před 4 lety +28

    It takes a rather good actor to balance the lowkey comedy and simultaneously successfully communicating the harrowing, gutted grief of the character this scene; I haven't seen many of her films, but this clip convinced be that Meg Ryan is a really underrated one.

  • @BronwynMcGuckin
    @BronwynMcGuckin Před 5 lety +44

    This was my night tonight. I wouldn't take him back, but it still sucks to learn that Mr. I Never Want To Get Married is getting married to someone else.

  • @JaneWillowMusic
    @JaneWillowMusic Před 5 lety +50

    I love this scene. So funny with the tissues being thrown about the place but so sad at the same time.

  • @elizabethissoweird
    @elizabethissoweird Před 12 lety +41

    i love this scene so much. the way he looks at her and the way she calls herself difficult. genius :)

  • @tammysow
    @tammysow Před 12 lety +49

    I´M DIFFICULT !!!

  • @txicmelody13
    @txicmelody13 Před 4 lety +32

    I hate how much I relate to this scene. It's so good. So so good.

  • @petratuccino717
    @petratuccino717 Před 6 lety +76

    BEST ROM COM EVERRRRRRRRRRR!!!!! :)

    • @Pawans009
      @Pawans009 Před 6 lety +2

      petra tuccino tibos.yeah,i am a big fan of meg ryan.i have seen all her movies.

    • @flala2261
      @flala2261 Před 5 lety +5

      This, and You’ve Got Mail📬

    • @w1nch3ster1
      @w1nch3ster1 Před 4 lety +4

      It's the greatest romantic comedy of all time in my opinion. It's an adult film about adult relationships. It's stellar.

  • @Nailih4
    @Nailih4 Před 3 lety +11

    awww how he looks at her in 1:49, so sweet💕

  • @aimenkhan368
    @aimenkhan368 Před 5 lety +33

    “But he was too old to pick them up” lol made me geek

  • @rorywhelan_
    @rorywhelan_ Před 5 lety +32

    Idk why but I love comforting people when they are crying (usually about relationships). And even though she’s a fictional character from 30 years ago, I really just want to be with sally here, she has to be one of the most beautiful women to have ever lived.

  • @roelmartinvandervelde9407
    @roelmartinvandervelde9407 Před 2 lety +11

    This may well be the finest, most subtle comedic scene out of all the fine work Meg Ryan has done over the years.

  • @NalaBear1987
    @NalaBear1987 Před 12 lety +23

    LOL I love it when Harry says "yeah but he was too old to pick em up!"

  • @tammysow
    @tammysow Před 12 lety +57

    She´s supposed to be the transitional person, she´s not supposed to be the one! Bla bla bla, LOL

  • @thekinkyafrican3690
    @thekinkyafrican3690 Před 9 lety +59

    I love this scene 😂😭❤️

  • @spookygremlins
    @spookygremlins Před 11 lety +47

    and im gonna be 40
    when?
    someday LOLLL

  • @someothername7886
    @someothername7886 Před 5 lety +29

    Her name is KIMBERLY 😂

  • @MsVorpalBlade
    @MsVorpalBlade Před 4 lety +16

    Meg Ryan is a genius comic actress. SO funny

  • @kiringuyen
    @kiringuyen Před 5 lety +24

    Feel so related haha. I was thinking of being 40 some day and still alone, or maybe not until 40, till the rest of my life lolz

  • @yanniyangq
    @yanniyangq Před 5 lety +16

    Meg Ryan is just so cute!

    • @kim-op8hx
      @kim-op8hx Před 4 lety +1

      Charlie Chaplin would feel the same agonies as hers!

  • @rienjen
    @rienjen Před rokem +4

    I like how Meg Ryan plays this quirky character. She's picky, uptight, but smart and sometimes vulnerable, and it fits with Harry's mellow, clever, funny, but candid personality. As an uptight person myself, I approve this message.

  • @bonchance9241
    @bonchance9241 Před 7 lety +27

    now thats a good perm & colour

  • @mariaann4717
    @mariaann4717 Před 6 lety +163

    every female needs a male friend like this

    • @bobbill3594
      @bobbill3594 Před 5 lety +53

      A male friend whos in love with them and isn't a frind but a lover really?

    • @user-ib1is7ny7r
      @user-ib1is7ny7r Před 5 lety +11

      they were in love lol

    • @ryanparkercolour
      @ryanparkercolour Před 4 lety +3

      Who gives her pity sex? 🤔 😂

    • @meganluminais3586
      @meganluminais3586 Před 4 lety

      Yeah

    • @rondarawson6236
      @rondarawson6236 Před 3 lety +8

      Well ....the person ends up married to her ....so I'm thinking......that's what romance is....finding your true friend....that will be there for you. Through all the ups and downs...the fights and the emotional meltdowns.....they had not just friendship... but history.....they knew each other...therefore....hopefully the reason people get married is to find this kind of relationship.... they finally realize they are made for each other....this can take a while.......its really the perfect movie...😇❤

  • @nognilk
    @nognilk Před 12 lety +58

    Harry: "If you could take him back right now, would you?"
    Sally: "Nooo...but why didn't he want to marry me?"
    and that is why men and women are different.

    • @ida305
      @ida305 Před 4 lety +19

      She just wonders why she wasn't good enough

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 Před 4 lety +11

      @@ida305 thats the problem. Women think they're not enough. But she dodged a bullet and then married the right one - Harry

  • @jessicamonroe2266
    @jessicamonroe2266 Před 8 lety +34

    Shes hilarious

  • @wheel631
    @wheel631 Před 2 lety +7

    Meg Ryan deserved an academy nomination for this performance

  • @amycrunch3812
    @amycrunch3812 Před 3 lety +5

    Absolutely brilliant scene - the acting, the choreography...

  • @lesliemonster92
    @lesliemonster92 Před 12 lety +38

    "I need a kleenex!" lol she is too funny!

    • @mrdrgc
      @mrdrgc Před 3 lety

      And his new gf name´s Kimberly !! jajajajajajajajaj

    • @marianamartinezjimenez7145
      @marianamartinezjimenez7145 Před 3 lety

      @@mrdrgc by any chance her last name is clark ,😂 you know as kimberley clark the. Company who sells kllenex?

  • @KSPlaysYt80
    @KSPlaysYt80 Před 4 lety +18

    I am sorry but when I first saw this I kinda laughed when she said “Kimberly”

  • @UncleTonyGuitar
    @UncleTonyGuitar Před 3 lety +6

    “... but in a good way..."

  • @missmelissa1989
    @missmelissa1989 Před rokem +2

    The way she says ‘difficult’ at 1:45 is so funny lol

  • @EaZiiDuzzIt105
    @EaZiiDuzzIt105 Před 6 lety +25

    Aside from what happens later on in this scene, this is totally me and my best friend lol.

    • @rorywhelan_
      @rorywhelan_ Před 5 lety +4

      Are you sure about the end? Lmao

  • @60sto80s2
    @60sto80s2 Před 5 lety +8

    I heard somewhere that to make her cry they told Meg Ryan that her dog died

  • @danieladelgado5709
    @danieladelgado5709 Před 6 lety +1

    Poco más de 2 minutos, pero eso alcanzó para llorar y reír... Genial ♡

  • @victoriahilarious1826
    @victoriahilarious1826 Před 3 lety +4

    Love this kinda Friendship... Let ya Friend get the whole story out before u even speak... Bomb listener love that

  • @Bassoomamor
    @Bassoomamor Před 7 lety +9

    adorable

  • @srfrider1973
    @srfrider1973 Před 9 lety +20

    married my now ex
    gave him 2 beautiful daughters, stay at home mom
    cook from scratch
    only to be asked at about the 32nd year
    what i had done for him all those years
    not to mention shovelling the driveway 2 times a day one winter because he had just had hernia surgery and i diunt want him to hurt
    so, hes gone, im not
    my youngest lives with me
    less money. but much more love, peace and truth in this house. and accused me of being no angel when i didnt do that with or to anyone. he has lots of money now, he even told me not to care about him anymore
    so................. glad hes free to pursue his only love now, money, sad..he didnt want to marry me, either. hes 59 and not in very good health. but hes got enough money to pay for a housekeeper, prostitute, cook, nurse.. i guess thats all i was to him, the thorn in his side he couldnt stand. so now hes alone, and anyone who wants him is welcome to him.. as long as shes as coldhearted as he is but i dont know how a girl could be, then again, theres someone for everybody, right?

    • @lmsandy9154
      @lmsandy9154 Před 9 lety +6

      they are called 'ex' for a reason.
      because it's over.
      you focused on one person for three decades
      now it's time to focus on you
      burn any photos of him. turn a corner and begin YOUR new life.

    • @srfrider1973
      @srfrider1973 Před 9 lety +3

      lm sandy all of his stuff has been gone for 4 years now.
      im all good, thanks
      and my new life started in June 2011, after the divorce he did not show up to court for. much happier now and so are my daughters.

    • @lmsandy9154
      @lmsandy9154 Před 9 lety

      That's good because 32 years is more than enough time to spend on something cold hearted.

    • @srfrider1973
      @srfrider1973 Před 9 lety

      lm sandy i kept thinking, and believing that he would change since i gave him so much love, but he never had any for us, much at all.no matter what, he will hopefully be alone for a very long time until he learns to put others before himself. that way no more other girls will hopefully get hurt by him.
      and he will technically be 60 this year too.

    • @anditspaganpoetry
      @anditspaganpoetry Před 9 lety +2

      patrea lynn I see a lot of my mum in what you wrote - so many people in your situation. Know in your heart that it's his fault for taking advantage of your giving nature, and that you gave to someone who you loved, and that is a beautiful thing, even though it's over. When people say 'I love you', they're telling you about themselves, they're not telling you about you. And guess what? If you really want to end up with another person, you will. Believe me.

  • @marianamartinezjimenez7145

    When she laughs an then keeps crying ... I've been there is a very frustrating and confusing moment they come together

  • @viqarkagzi3922
    @viqarkagzi3922 Před rokem +2

    Bill and Meg are amazing together

  • @doctorjigglywho
    @doctorjigglywho Před 12 lety +9

    I'm watching from 1:43 and i keep repeating it over and over again.the way she says "I'm difficult" just makes me laugh for some reason...

  • @biancalowry1473
    @biancalowry1473 Před 5 lety +5

    It's okay to cry! But it's just a real feeling from emotions!

  • @steflondon88
    @steflondon88 Před 4 lety +2

    Her comedy here was amazing.

  • @naroxzedx485
    @naroxzedx485 Před 5 lety +5

    Best scene in.the entire movie 💔💔

  • @sakshiarora2870
    @sakshiarora2870 Před 3 lety +2

    This scene hits hard

  • @gymrachel
    @gymrachel Před 2 lety

    Never gets old.

  • @PianoMelodicaDark
    @PianoMelodicaDark Před rokem +1

    Laughing: "That's really funny."
    Crying: "I'm soooooo screwed."
    . . .

  • @RJSTEVENS89
    @RJSTEVENS89 Před 5 lety +4

    I love the Chaplin comment

  • @billma12345
    @billma12345 Před 2 lety +2

    Meg Ryan acting is great

  • @feliscatus1834
    @feliscatus1834 Před rokem

    I love this scene!

  • @bluealien311
    @bluealien311 Před 3 lety +1

    Nostalgia 😥

  • @peterteagleteagle9958
    @peterteagleteagle9958 Před 4 lety +4

    Great film , better than the three films Meg Ryan made with Tom hanks

  • @NotEvenOverThere
    @NotEvenOverThere Před 3 lety

    Watching clips from this movie makes me miss my best friend. She was my ex too.

  • @francescopalumbo1577
    @francescopalumbo1577 Před 5 lety +3

    Pretty Sally

  • @DM-bm1vg
    @DM-bm1vg Před 3 lety

    I love this movie tbh even though it older than me

  • @angiehackett2089
    @angiehackett2089 Před 11 lety +10

    Just found out my "Joe" is getting married... :(

    • @mckenna8663
      @mckenna8663 Před 4 lety +1

      Mine to... Partly glad for him (haven't spoken to him in years) ... Partly hurt. It's not he didn't want to get married. He didn't want to marry me. And that part that Harry says... "If you could take him back right now, would you?" No. There were too many red flags. But it still hurts, because I guess it was just a dream.
      I don't know. It's crazy. Why should I be hurt by this? None the less. It hurts.

    • @sweenpoppy7250
      @sweenpoppy7250 Před 3 lety +1

      @@mckenna8663 I know it’s tough but good for you. Cut the red flags when you can and if you saw that in earlier stages, it never would have worked in the long run. Sucks I know but you dodged a heavier hurdle in the future. Focus on yourself and something even better will come along in the future

  • @stephenfermoyle1498
    @stephenfermoyle1498 Před 4 lety +2

    its beyond how great they both are in this movie KIMBERLY a para legal lol

  • @debbiemoore2747
    @debbiemoore2747 Před 5 lety +8

    Rofl "and I'm gonna be 40........when....someday.........in 8 years.....but its there its just sitting there like this big dead end" I thought this in my 30's. So funny and as I have gotten older found different parts of this movie funny as I have "got it" fyi Im proud i am 42 im the honey badger of the female world ha ha ha

  • @Surayyamus
    @Surayyamus Před 3 lety +1

    Пойду пересмотрю фильм )))

  • @BamaDan197319
    @BamaDan197319 Před 11 lety +11

    I'm gonna be 40 in 3 days. I have my own problems.

    • @SanDhampir
      @SanDhampir Před 7 lety +5

      BamaDan197319 funny how I ran into your comment after 3 years ;)

    • @Letsallmakebelieve-im9ih
      @Letsallmakebelieve-im9ih Před 5 měsíci

      Wonder is he still alive after 10 years 🥸

  • @yayoi0128ify
    @yayoi0128ify Před 5 lety +2

    めっちゃカワイイ

  • @mrdrgc
    @mrdrgc Před 3 lety +1

    Cumpliré 40 !! - ¿Cuándo? -Algún día !! En 8 años ! jajajajajaja

  • @biancalowry1473
    @biancalowry1473 Před 5 lety +2

    That reminds me of Disney Pixar Inside out Sequels for Riley's in Love with Man Of Her Dreams was completely feeling emotions inside to feel True Love!

  • @genesisjacoby4439
    @genesisjacoby4439 Před 4 lety

    offf i felt that

  • @evantambolang3052
    @evantambolang3052 Před 2 měsíci

    Harry is like if Seinfeld (the fictional) was a better, understanding man rather than self-righteous jerk but still had his sense of humor

  • @divingbell29
    @divingbell29 Před 3 lety

    Heartbreaking

  • @stefanieolthuis1150
    @stefanieolthuis1150 Před 5 lety +3

    1:44

  • @alexanderjones9440
    @alexanderjones9440 Před 3 lety

    I came here for the gif hahaha 0:48

  • @RIEZEGO
    @RIEZEGO Před 3 lety

    👍🏼

  • @who_me_7895
    @who_me_7895 Před 3 lety

    🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lintuyas
    @lintuyas Před 11 lety

    no tiene audio

  • @lauracampbell5696
    @lauracampbell5696 Před 3 lety

    Not again and I'm going to be 50!!🤬😆😭

  • @stefanieolthuis1150
    @stefanieolthuis1150 Před 5 lety +1

    1.44

  • @JackCallSports
    @JackCallSports Před rokem

    0:49 that’s where it came from?!

  • @sislau
    @sislau Před 11 lety

    Ok, am I the only one that can't hear it? My computer seems to be working ok ... I think ...

  • @shadowx2652
    @shadowx2652 Před rokem

    I’ve seen this twice on Facebook in the yugioh group 😄. What a drama queen too

  • @dharmallars
    @dharmallars Před 2 lety +5

    Why would someone call their ex after almost a year of no contact just to tell her that he’s getting married. Very weird. Even in 2021 I would consider going out of your way to directly tell an ex you’re getting married is very strange. The original flex.

    • @jbvader721
      @jbvader721 Před 2 lety +1

      It's a d*** move. That's what that is.

    • @Ellie_Bathory
      @Ellie_Bathory Před 6 měsíci

      I'm absolutely agree with you! What does Joe want from Sally? Why does he tell her these news?

  • @outinsider
    @outinsider Před 12 lety +19

    You know, if men didn't pressure women to think that their only value in life is to be loved by a man, and for women to internalize it to the point of their own purpose in life, maybe the world would be a better place and love can happen without gendered obligation. Just a thought.

    • @AAA310
      @AAA310 Před 4 lety

      If love dies the human race dies

    • @sweenpoppy7250
      @sweenpoppy7250 Před 3 lety +1

      There’s a lot more to it and it’s a two way street. This scene basically proves that. Not all men are bad/good. Same as women. Don’t even try to go there

    • @outinsider
      @outinsider Před 3 lety +1

      @@sweenpoppy7250 Yes, but men don't break down at turning an age where expectations for domesticity is so ingrained culturally it feels like a personal failure when it doesn't happen. Men put that on women without recognizing how they add to the pressure. If men and women were sociopolitically equal, women wouldn't feel this way at any given point at any given time.

    • @MarkHogan994
      @MarkHogan994 Před 11 měsíci

      Men are not the ones putting that pressure on women. Well, at least they aren't the *only* ones. It's society as a whole. And this social pressure comes from biology. Whether you like it or not, it's a biological reality that women have a biological clock that men don't have. Like Sally said, a man can have a child even at 70, a woman can't. That said, men do also feel pressured to marry / settle down. At least it's easy for a woman to find someone who will love her. For men it's not.

  • @lorenzoconti9192
    @lorenzoconti9192 Před 4 lety +2

    I have been in love with a friend of mine for a long time. But I don't understand if she's interested in me or not. For example tonight makes me "I'm dirty in the ass" and I say to show me. She turns without problems. Then, I asked if a dress is going well and I said yes. Finally a hug for no reason and it seemed a very affectionate and sincere hug. The problem is that after we were the only two of us (before we were with friends) and she started to confide in a love problem she has with two boys. He is dating one but is interested in an ex. And I was left with shit. Then when we were two in a bar I had met acquaintances. And they joked me a joke like "you made the girl huh?". I am embarrassed to tell her that she was a friend of mine. Then as we went away the questions as it was possible for others it was not a normal thing the friendship between a male and a female. And there I immediately thought of this fantastic film. How should I rate? It is not the first time that "teases me" and then I feel so bad about it.

    • @sweenpoppy7250
      @sweenpoppy7250 Před 3 lety +6

      There’s no way English is your first language because I’m trying to make sense of all that

    • @jj9217
      @jj9217 Před 2 lety +1

      What?

  • @LaylaRazavi
    @LaylaRazavi Před 11 lety

    where did sound go?

    • @Capybaraism
      @Capybaraism Před 5 lety +1

      Over there ---->

    • @tejaswoman
      @tejaswoman Před 5 lety

      @@Capybaraism - maybe I'm just up too late at night, but I cannot believe how hard that made me laugh 😂 😂

  • @davidbarbie4932
    @davidbarbie4932 Před měsícem

    @049s meme

  • @connihutton2739
    @connihutton2739 Před 2 lety

    Friends??

  • @Spice99857
    @Spice99857 Před rokem

    I just gave birth to a turd while watching this. 1/30/23 7:52 AM CT

  • @emanueleguidi8518
    @emanueleguidi8518 Před 10 lety

    Sorry ... I am pretty sure Turkey resents great music videos (like Dave Mattews'), quindi ti toccano 3 minuti di film. Tranquilla ti porto il Cd al ristorante giapponese dove mi porterai quando ritorni ;-)