What If I Raise A Quitter? *Black Hockey Player
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- čas přidán 21. 03. 2024
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Uriah is so introspective man. His ability to talk with you and have reflective answers is beautiful.
He really has a gift for communicating I don’t know where it’s going to land but I’m here for it
@@BeleafInFatherhoodAnaya too. In fact all of them do communicate well😊
🥹Theo’s support for Uriah is so sweet. Just listening to all the chocolate babies being expressive of their feelings is comforting & Anayah’s dress is Everything!!! 💁🏾♀️
That was my favorite part while looking through this footage
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PSA: THIS is how you raise happy, healthy children ♥️🖤💚
Thank you for the affirmation
"I'm just gonna teach them to not underestimate me." That kid's a go-getter. It's so cool to see them at this age, too.
Theo whispering "don't give up! don't give up!"... the sweetest. he is crushing big brotherhood. Parents yall are doing a great job and Go go GO! Uriah Beau!!
This was one moment that gave us real joy!
That was heartwarming 😍
Whilst as a parent it's understandable why you wouldn't want to let your child quit. I think there was a valuable lesson for Uriah to understand the implications of quitting. He learnt that the decisions he makes can impact his growth. In the long run, if he was forced to continue Hockey the lesson wouldn't have hit the same. I think he'll have a new sense of perseverance and accountability after this. You're doing a great job Beleaf
I just want to say you and your wife are tremendously amazing parents. The way your son is able to clearly articulate his thoughts is a testament to his upbringing. He recognizes the value of pushing through adversity and not quitting but knowing he needs your help in this area. What self-awareness and maturity ❤ Great job you all! May the Lord continue to guide and bless your steps. ❤
Thank you for this affirmation. Early on I thought he wouldn’t be able to work pass his struggles but time has taught me that some people get it later than others
I am crying watching this video between my inner child being soothed and the beauty of black fatherhood.I love it over here!❤
It’s the loving communication for me! ❤ Uriah did a fantastic job of telling you how he feels. It’s great to see him and Theo playing Hockey! It was sweet to see Levi too…they are all growing up. ☺️☀️
Can’t quite articulate how amazing it is to see fully Black kids do things like this. This family does not limit their kids by saying “This is white people s**t.” or “Black people don’t do that.” Your kids are playing hockey, a white dominated sport, with great confidence. They’re being homeschooled so you can have control of their education. You show them a lot of love and empathy so they know how to treat people when they grow up. Idk, this family makes me happy. I love seeing Black people live high quality lives. Not everything is hood, rap and basketball. You can love your culture and show off your Blackness in other ways. And this family proves it.
Wow...well said
I agree 100%, just love what is said
This just warms my heart to see how much effort and focus you all put in your family and how you all are taking the time to sit down and speak with their children to have these conversations. Many children don't get the opportunity to have their parents or caretaker to take the time to speak with them. This is setting an example of how you can raise assertive children who are happy and are able to overcome their anxieties and worries because you all are giving them the skills and platforms to do so.
I believe that all children are deserving of loving and caring parents. I hope people watch these videos and learn what it takes to be caring, loving, and supporting parents.
PLEASE MORE VIDEOS OF THE HOCKEY PROGRESS FOR BOTH OF THEM 😩🥹🥹🥹 seeing Theo score that goal had me tearing up
Me too ♥️🖤💚
Theo practicing hockey skills
@@BeleafInFatherhood he’s a natural! Wow can’t wait to see how much more he progresses over the years! 🥹
I’m not a parent but I’ve always loved watching your family! I was smiling the entire video as if y’all are my family. I love the growth in Uriah and the support of his siblings
I don’t know why this episode made me emotional! I love seeing these chocolate babies grow up!
Question if a white person says a similar thing in reverse why is that hated on or not acceptable? Every race can be proud apart from whites it seems ...... mmmmmm
This conversation is the most adorable most precious thing ❤ these children are gonna grow up with the best hearts!
I love how you poured into your middle child. They’re often forgotten
I think they have 2 middle children🤔
Glad Uriah decided to try out again and made the team!
Hate is a strong word. I don’t think any of your kids will hate you for pushing them. They may be frustrated and upset but they won’t hate you. Give yourself credit. You’ve been doing your thing as parents. Good Job!!!
LETS GO RIAH! This is a dope video. I was shocked by how articulate Riah’s analysis of his emotions were. I admire you guys as parents for giving them the vocabulary and permission to feel. Riah B(r)o, we’re proud of you fam! Shoutout to Theo too for being such a supporting brother in Riah’s process. This was awesome to watch.
Good morning lovely people. Have a blessed day! Many blessing to you Beleaf, MrsMel and the Chocolate babies!😊
Same to you!
Anaya saying "how do you feel?" to Theo & Riah melted my heart
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Fun fact: The Colored Hockey League of the Maritimes precedes the NHL by 20+ years.
As a father to be in 2 weeks. Thank you for the emotional encouragement your words bring raw emotion to my heart and I’ll take your word on how to raise my daughter very well!
Uriah will eventually come into his own. Once his confidence and stikability are up, there will be no stopping him Go Uriah! Rooting for you mate💪
5:54 was that Theo saying don't give up? omg my heart
Yes!
This channel is a blessing 🥲. It’s so beautiful to hear every child articulate their thoughts. Looking forward I can imagine the chocolate babies reminiscing that you pushed them gently enough to build character, resilience and grit. Years to come they’ll remember. We are taking notes Glen and Yvette. Thank you sharing your experience with the community.
Greatest black hockey players. Making me proud
Got emotional watching this video. ❤️Yvette and Glen - keep doing all that you’re doing for your beautiful children! Uriah’s growth is absolutely everything. ✨✨✨
I loved this video. Was so nice to hear Uriah's commentary on his progress and intentions to play hockey. And Anaya's skills as a reporter. The big brother Theo looking to help his younger brother. And Uzi's boxing skills! Good job parents! Beleaf this was so well done. 🖤💚❤️
This is one beautiful ass family like 😭😭 God bless y’all fr !!
I loved everything about this episode! Seeing Riah realize that he should have stayed with hockey instead of allowing fear to win. I love seeing how you're parenting the kids in this season. Beautiful and intentional.
U inspired me to be a better father each day I truly appreciate you and your family
You and your family are wonderful but the way little Uzi was doing his boxing. Love how you communicate with your children. Thank you for sharing.
I admire the way you converse with your children and aspire to be the same as a mother one day. One question, if he ends up hating boxing, is there an alternative sport that could provide the same techniques but in a more enjoyable way? Love watching your family grow; thank you for allowing us to be a witness to parts of the journey.
I remember the bike teaching struggles, and the moment where he wanted to keep going was so heartwarming. This is another milestone in the growth of this family, and knowing that you're gonna love them through their desire to quit so they come through victorious! Victory in the long run is worth misery in the moment lol
I've even learned a lot from this Father though the last 5 or 6 years now. I love your family !!! Our loving Creator please help other Fathers give just as much as this one.
✌🏻❤🤠sending my love to you all the way from Trapper Creek Alaska!💋
This got me so emotional. You are such an amazing family and parents. You are raising kings and queens. I appreciate the open dialogue you have with your chocolate babies. Im planning on being a mother soon and I will definetly implement alot of the things I see on this channel.
Thank you for the wonderful video. And Uriah YOU ARE NOT A QUITTER! Have a great season boys!
I want to honor the parents!!! cause you both have blessed me with how not to give up, I wish that I had that growing up! well, good job Uriah you did it, and the fact that you told your dad not to ever let you give up brought me to tears! you are amazing Uriah keep going, buddy, you got this, Theo keep encouraging your brother to do good cause he looks up to you. THIS FAMILY ROCKS!!!
In life, it doesn't matter how much you know but how much you try and persist to success.
Lol I cant beleive I'm watchinig, and enjoying a family vlog channel.
You are quite a capable couple!!!!! All the power to you & the fam, and what you're trying to do by creating this.
Happy Birthday Aniyah🎂🎉🎊
You can’t win as a parent. Damned if you do and damned, if you don’t. You can only try your best, try to understand each child’s characteristics and support accordingly.
Yep
Thank you for this wonderful episode, enjoying the gems shared with in this one.
My inner child is healed ❤😢 Go Uriah! Protect ya wife! Lol
I ❤ your family. Even though it's different, I love to see you guys interactions with your babies!!!
forever grateful we get to see these beautiful chocolate babies grow to be such great people! You guys nourish their needs and want so well, it’s so evident and real. Thank you! CZcams’s #1 family!!!
This made me tear up !! I love your content
Beautiful Family!!
Love it! Go Uriah, you can do it! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This format be 🔥🔥, the podcast-y vibes with the kiddo to the a-roll video. Big fan!
"you can't be a quitter if you still working" 🔥🔥
I haven’t seen these babies for a looong time! How is Anaya 7?!?! Seems like you were just picking a name for her! Love seeing how all members of the family have grown in all ways! May you continue to go from strength to strength! Just went to a hockey game this past weekend! So fun!
So, these videos are SO well done. So good. Thank you for sharing.
This video hit me in my soul. My 5yo son gave up on his first season of hockey. The kids were bigger ,faster and more skilled than he was and he never caught up. He stopped playing games in the middle of the season. By the end of season we couldn’t get him out of the car at the rink. I really struggled with how much I should be pushing him. This video gives me hope that this season experience does not determine his future successes… and what he needs is supportive parents. Thank you so much for sharing.
Great kids! I'm over here rooting for Uriah like hes my own nephew 😂 One day he'll overcome his fear of embarrassment and there'll be no stopping him! I hope Theo realises just how much he inspires his little brother 😁
Love the support the entire family provides with all of their endeavors. They just have to try and eventually they’ll improve. I was competitive at a collegiate and amateur level and two of the things that caused thinking traps were when my coach asked me if I was ready and are you sure. I’d rather you pump me up and help me visualize than cause me to start feeling anxious. Just a thought as they continue to compete. You’ll start to see a difference in their confidence.
I haven’t watched y’all since like 2018 it’s crazy how much everybody has grown man!!! Dang time flies, much love to the family
My brother played from a mite, when he could barely stand on the ice in the 80s, through college (on a hockey scholarship( as a left wing. I did figure skating, so we grew up traveling rinks. We were almost always the only color. So happy for them, hope they love it too❤🙏🏾
Man, I hope one day when I have kid(s), I can have such understanding conversations with them. You and Yvette have done an incredible job in their speech training from their toddler stages. Shout out to y'all,man. ❤
Uriah has his mother complete voice!!! So cute!
This blessed me. Thank you for sharing the fam ❤🙏🏾
Please post more videos like this ❤
This video was so good that I had to watch it twice!🥰🥰🥰
I was waiting for a video beleaf I felt like one was brewing and here it is. Well done.
Beautiful 👏🏻👏🏻
What a precious upbringing 🥹
It’s amazing how God is guiding you in fatherhood! We love seeing amazing kids growing in many ways. ❤
Now, in my late 40s I can see how my Mom’s concern about upsetting me turned me into someone who quit a lot. I started really thinking about that when I would see Alicia Keys or HER play their instruments so effortlessly. I started piano very early but as soon as my friends left I followed the crowd. I’m not a parent but the first thing I would adopt would be that my children would not be allowed to quit anything they chose to partake in. They would have to follow through. They must follow through until the end of the season.
Beautiful!
Theo I don’t think it’s always easy to be a big brother (I’m the youngest of 5 so I don’t know) but I DO KNOW how important it is to have a supportive big brother. And you are doing great!
Awww I love this!!!! I pray for this young man that the fear of failure will be broken off him that he will stand in his unique position and capacity I pray Riah will know himself as God sees him and accepts it and walks in it. I thank you Lord for his perfectly gifted parents to pull out of him and nurture him into purpose. Cover this family and continue to be there keeper. Thank you Lord
What you said to Uriah about not being a quitter, when you try again, my parents never said to me. I felt the validation you gave him, for my own inner child. Thank you
Him finishing boxing will teach him commitment too. Love it!
I absolutely love this video great parents❤😊
THEIR SO BIG NOW!!!!!!
Quitting at something that doesn't serve you anymore, or even hurts you is not the same as giving up.
Beautiful
Love from Canada 🇨🇦
Hello. Mom and Dad I hope you don’t mind my comment. Big ups to you Uriah❣️ Your response to your father was very wise. Some adults need learn from you. God bless
I use to play street hockey with the rest of the neighborhood kids. From the age of 3 to 8. It was huge back then because of the show Rocket Power. My brother and I were the only black kids and I was the only girl, but we didn’t care it was fun to play. We take our little hockey set when would visit our family out of town too lol. Love this❤
Fantastic parents
Honestly BEST channel on the entire CZcams! Substance! Learning! Tools and Entertainment! 5 star channel 4SURE! More people need to know about this channel!
Love you family
Lord knows how much i needed this video
Uzi with the haymakers 🥊🥊🥊
Uriah - it took me a lot longer to learn some of the stuff you’re learning now! Keep trying!
Proud😢
So good
my favorite internephew is growing up!
I wish i got this lesson in childhood, i am currently struggling to follow through on my plans. Keep starting and never finish anything.
This made me want to cry.
😢😢😢😢!!! Riah was really good!!!!
Encouragement all the way! You're a STELLAR human-being 💯and an EXCEPTIONAL parent and husband 🌟! IMO, you deserve an A+++ in leadership and your pahtnah-in-crime, - Wifey,🌟 deserves equal accolades! Y'alls da BOMB-DIGGITY 💣💥! I'm gonna share on FB, as I usually do with y'all's teachable videos! 👋👋👋
We were allowed to participate and follow our interests with the understanding that we had to finish the season.
My kind of kid. He said an egg sandwich. That’s what’s I’m talkin bout 😂
We’ll done dad 💯
Sports or a hobbie is the best thing for kids .
More Uzi sparring 😂
I'm not crying you are
I get it
Good 👍🏽
Riah da 🐐
UZI!!!
We had a rule with my kids.......if you signed up and made the team you are doing that until the end of the season ....children will quit everything if you allow them too......we are parents for a reason......CHILDREN CANNOT RAISE THEMSELVES......TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES.......OR MAKE THE BEST DECISIONS FOR THEMSELVES.......