This is a mature discussion. I love her answer. I've had friends and family where one partner made more, lost a job or went back to school. They come together and decide how to handle it. Financial communication creates healthy relationships. Another healthy communication topic before getting into a serious relationship is how to divide taking care of the home. These jobs don't have to be broken down into traditional gender roles.
@@NebulaSonBruh, shush, you hating on basically all women is just like the women hating on all men. Grow tf up, little ah kid, or get used to having animals as your permanent companion. Your delusionals will make you miss out on the opportunity to meet the one, because nobody worth a damn will gravitate towards your hate. Hold no bias, people are going to people, simple as that.
In Finland, women are very independent and usually want to participate. On a first date, they often want to pay on their own. I am in favor of equality in everything, so I think it's fair that whoever earns more, pays more. A woman should not expect a man to pay everything from rent to date nights, restaurants and travel. It would be great if a man could sometimes feel loved and worth the effort. Especially if a woman owns more and/or earns as much, I wonder why a man should pay everything everywhere..
@@JulieDeuxFois That's nine months (or however many times the lady wants to have babies) of our whole life together. Pain and suffering, yes, but it is all worth it when you see the baby. You can play that card like 3-5 years. :)
@@JulieDeuxFoisSo your all traditional now, making women into sexual objects for men to purchase. But do you believe men are superior? Should men have all your money and make your decisions? Should women be paid less as they have leas stuff to pay for? Men are already expected to pay for the kids, the relationship, the house and the food on the table. You are born in a lucky 50% and have to carry a baby for 9 months, then your side is complete and now the man can dump you (since you have no value left). Great! 🤦♂️
I agree with single mothers (because its not nice for the kids), but its not always their fault. The man could’ve poked holes in the c-ndom and then dumped the girl and ran. You don’t know 🫠
I think everyone should have a career...this is ridiculous. If the women has a child than of course she should be allowed to have a break but as a gf and bf they should be 100/100 no one is doing more than they the other, it's not about money 🙄 at least that's most of the healthy relationships I see around me!
Now a lot of sisters need to take advice from this pretty young woman I love that about her she's willing to help her brother besides that just build something that's powerful not a lot of sisters out here doing that kudos to you stay blessed
How about we all focus on what we want for ourselves and go for people with mutual beliefs. Gahdamn If you not on the same page with somebody, move tf on to someone you are on the same page with. Why debate about shit
Fellas pay attention she is a woman who is down to earth not one of those wig wearing big eye lash batting stroller dragging looking for a step daddy type of women that's still straddling the section 8 fence it's some women who date for love and some women who date for survival that's the day in age we are in
If the Woman is Respectful, Nice, Very Feminine, Understanding,... A Conscious Man don't care about paying for Everything..... If he don't got it... To take care of his Woman...... He will go find it,, or get it.... No doubt....
Yeah and trick it you sholl but hay everyone need to just be honest what they want some men want to spoil women that’s fine don’t complain in your latter years yo ur wife not helping you same to a woman if u want a man to spoil you don’t complain if he cheating or don’t spend time with you
SIMPS A. WOMAN. TRYING. TO TELL A MAN ABOUT. MEN..... THEIRS. MILLIONS. OF MEN TAKING. CARE OF WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY..... WOMEN. WHO. AREN'T......... GHETTO.
I am a woman and completely agree. There should never be pressure on one person only. Not in this economy! Life is expensive now, and we all have to contribute
@@KingComp67_-io3iz they get on these podcast and try to sound intelligent about men and women but you never hear them say anything about being in a committed relationship. 🤨
Nope! If he does not “got it”, no need to be in a relationship. Been there, done that. If he does NOT have finance, career, & accomplishments in order when meeting you, his ego will be in the dumpster 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
If he was successfully living on his own, paying his rent/mortgage, utilities, essentials and so on, how does he no longer got it now that he's 'Met the woman of his dreams?' Sounds like these dudes out here are hell bent on creating nightmare situations that force BW into the muling position rather than standing/sitting/laying ... however she wants to relax in her femininity.
Low key hotep and embarrassing 🙄 At this point in 2022 year of our Lord and Savior black wimins is done with this regressive conversation. Chyle we are hypergamous and thriving - the colorist dust can gather wherever it will. Black women understand we must raise our standards to deal with men who are doing man things - we are not entertaining discussions of how to prop up random broken Black dudes - who aren’t even committed to us- that is not our topic - we aren’t interested in random you tube internet streets energy - bc a commitment that has already been established is a whole different place between two serious people with intention - not this dusty question in the first place. Ladies go where you get the most - where you are loved and where you are respected. The rest will take care of itself!
What's funny is yall raise the standards for MEN but forget to raise them for yourselves. Traditional men were for virgin pure women with class. Traditional men aren't attracted to baby mama's,women who have a promiscious past and disrespectful women who claim to want a man who leads but can't keep their mouths shut. Go to your job ( if you have one) and tell your employer how to run his business,comment back how that works out. Women don't want leaders can't even take criticism,when we say we want a certain kind of woman. Instead you try to insult and shame. Traditional women weren't Loud,strong and independent Boss entitled chick's and their body count wasnt high,making them an embarrassment.
she straight up cappin because a lot of women leave when men have financial struggles. i don't mean all women but a lot of them. you're lucky to have one that will pick you up when times get tough and vice versa.
Having your man's back as a wife is different I think, especially in the example she gave. Of course a wife should be a help mate to her struggling hubby, but the tone needs to be set in the dating/courting process of him being the provider b/c that's what a man's role is in a true Godly marriage.
Listen y’all times are hard a man can provide and you can too a lot of people who are pastors have wives that work as well all because you need a little financial help from your wife doesn’t make you less of a man
Can someone please explain something to me!!! If he had his own place, paid his utilities, internet/wifi, groceries, and other essentials before he met you and wasn't struggling at doing such, how much of a jump is it for him to continue to do such after getting married? People make providing sound like it's a huge hurdle that only wealthy men can do. It's not!!! Financial responsible men who live on their own, with no roommates, or not rooming it up with a relative are perfectly capable of continuing to pay for "EVERYTHING". GEEZE!!! Am I missing something???
Yea you are. I’m a man who lives on my own right now no roommate and pays everything. Let me tell you there is no way that I’m going to allow someone in my life that contributes nothing. Todays economy is too bad for that. Plus who wants to deal with someone who’s so selfish that they can’t even pick up a $60 cable bill??? That’s not a woman that’s a child.
@@Mrjonezzz So the only way a wife contributes is by working a 40hr job a week and paying half the bills? She's doing the cooking, cleaning, maintaining the household in all the ways required, looking after the children, making sure their homework is done and keeping herself on high maintenance mode while men do what? Just pat half the bills & sometimes washers her car, sometimes gives compliments, sometimes helps with putting the dishes up from the dishwasher, and bringing in the groceries from the car? You want a mother 3.0, a mule, someone you can control not a mate & companion.
@@ChannelFiend If he's got that type of money he can do or pay someone to do everything on that list. Hire a maid, cook, babysitter, and a surrogate. What is she there for? All with added peace.
@@ChannelFiend your acting like modern day fathers spend no time with their children. nowadays children get to see both their parents most of the time stop with this 1950s bullshit nobody is going to world war.
Especially nowadays. It's almost impossible for 1person to pay everything. If he is paying everything, than who is doing the saving ? Only 1% of men make that amount of money.
I think so and this 50/50 I didn’t know about it just internet make me discover that. Relationship is must be 100/100 and as a team we put all together to achieve something. His money you money is for both of you ( as I have seen my parents doing it, even do my mum earns more money that my father it has never been a question of 50/50). In how culture we don’t talk about this 50/50 bc money is not what it is important in relationship, it goes and comes.
Thank God my black momma didn't have a fetish for struggle love and chose to have me by a Filipino man that believed in taking care of not only us but her as well. Do better bw !
So you’re admitting that black women don’t care about love or building a bond with a man you just want a paycheck? And somehow it’s everybody else’s fault majority of women aren’t married? Check the Stats . Successful white and Asian men are checking for black women. Majority of y’all will never find that so keep wishing.
A man is a provider. Period! That is his role and what is in his DNA. I refuse to take that away from him. There is no 50/50. In those scenarios the "50 percent" will fall on the woman and become 80% or even 90%. So no...let him be the man and provide. 💯
Nope. As a wife I totally understand the point to support your man it’s a union. Before marriage ladies don’t settle for a man who doesn’t have the means to help you maintain your lifestyle. Most men have ego’s and insecure that will tear you down because he can’t financially support. Let him go!
no man wants to pay for you period in reality ( because you must earj it by yourself) on firat date i won't even pay the full , she has to pay for her. if she won't then she is for streets.
As women u should. I mean you stash alllll your money as he pays EVERYTHING FOR YEARS. But what happens his money goes 70-90% of the time she’s gone. That’s a fact look at the divorce rate and who files 🤷♂️
Who are the people still having these conversations? It just seems to me like dumb people stay trapped in this conversation… Y’all need to do better 🤣🤣it’s 2022 grow tf up
On a perfect world yes but realistically today this aint gone wirk if a woman sees her friend with a dude that provides everything as i believe he should if possible 70% of the time its gone lead to issues with the 2 of you
She lying, cause I could have all the energy in the world and she wouldn’t deal wit a man if I was broke. I could be rich as shit, and nonchalant to everything she would love me
As a man talking about real world facts if a man goes to work and he works hard for his family he handles the finances and he is the authority of the children he loves his family and he wants his family to stay together the only person in the household who wants everyone to stay together is the man the first sign of trouble with the finances or his job or if he's unable to do the duties that he normally would do she's gone she's out of there she'll put you on child support and get alimony and from that day on her feelings and her honesty were not to that man they were to the money that he made and the fact that 80% of divorces are started by women proves my theory correct women do not care about love they only care about money and what that man makes there's a guideline that a woman says a man must be 6 ft tall have a good paying job and earn six figures she never said anything about love family if what I'm saying is false that's because females have made it false.
The point of the video is that both men and women should be financially independent to avoid situations like what you just mentioned. Though I disagree with the divorce thing, people have different reasons for it.
“money is energy and energy is currency” bro money is currency … no need for “energy” interpretations edit: a little pedantic … her actual argument is legit af
Not getting support especially from your own wife is stressful. As men we can’t vent cause our women look at us as being weak then wonder why we step out cause mentally is fucking stressful having all the weight on us especially if we’re in a situation where we can’t pay everything for the time being. Nothing wrong going 50/50 that’s jus my opinion
If you can't afford to provide then you don't deserve a wife and family. The Bible says that a man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel.
Sir, who's paying your rent/mortgage, utilities, for your groceries, gas, insurance, and other essentials? If you're a grown man, living on your own with no roommates ar not in a relatives room, you are already doing it all. Why is it that when a BW expresses that a BM needs to take on the same type of male posture that his counterparts are, why is it now a problem? Is it because you don't value women that you feel that she needs to go half, or do you not have it? Men who don't respect women or who are financially struggling should not be dating muchless seeking a wife because you can't afford a family.
@@ChannelFiend because as soon as she gets a “provider” all of that is out the window why even bring it up a man is supposed to come and take all of a woman’s burdens like Jesus and what does he get not even respect sometimes
A pick me because she’s willing to work with a man, who is a good man but his finances aren’t up to par ? she’s not saying find a felon or a homeless person or a man working at Walmart and try and change him but instead he has a career and their income combined can elevate them both. I don’t get women today 🤦🏽♂️
Well we've just identified a "pass me." Yall just 304s lookin for Pimps. That sister in the video gets it. Yall lil low vibration hyena S.i.g.n language talk ain't phasin real "lioness."
@@kmel1313 yeah we already know a lot of women expect to be taken care of blah blah blah but have you actually shown that you are worth it other than what's between your legs! cuz to be honest pussy not all that special. yeah men will survive regardless.
Women try to run me in relationships like Phill you stay home and I go work and make the money it is like what do I do sit here and sleep that is boring
God ain’t make money white man did but God did make men and women so I dnt c how ppl can say they only date if a person has a certain amount then turn around n try to talk that God shyt
It doesn't matter if I have a lousy personality or if I have cheated on you, as long as I have money, right? Having resources and money isn't enough. You also have to be attractive and have a personality to match, but that's not to mention that you also have to be a thug or bad boy, and you have to know how to dress; you can't be overly aggressive or too friendly.
We literally have who rich and gives advice we don't take yours dumb advice if I was you I would take advice from her cause judging you probably are a very low frequency women or men
Don't listen to the "gobbledegook" out of her mouth. There isn't a woman on this earth that will not have a level of contempt for a man if they had to support him for over 3 months. Hell, even those 3 months will be contentious.
Im just saying to anyone that says “manifest” or chase money… Manifesting and the talk of peoples energy all of these things are not of the Most high GOD. It’s sad to see we have to grow up Daughters and Sons when everything is inverted and people be tapping into witchcraft. Lemme not start on the starsign bull 😤😤😤
@@nickjones3860 learn how to improve your iq. Instead of talking about somebody spelling. It clear you miss the slow bus for a comprehensive problem. 😂
Expecting men to play traditional relationship roles for women who don’t give the traditional counterpart is misandrous.
they expect men to do all this shit then complain about the wage gap🤣
Don't worry you will be single and watch that man who was struggling become great and be with someone who truly loves him
@@MB-iv4mq why the shaming tactics? He is right especially in today's economical landscape
exactly
@@axlrosesson6300 what shame
Lmfao all these women in the comment section exposing themselves as gold diggers 😂
LMFAO AT THE DUDES WHO CRAVE DIRT DIGGERS AND THE BARBRA THE BUILDER CHICKS EXPOSING THEMSELVES AS PICKMESHAS
@@JulieDeuxFois 🤣🤣🤣🤣
outside of sex what do women offer? let's keep it real honestly.
@@TheMegatron673 hmmm personally think deep down it’s about the person and if their a good partner. There shitty guys and shitty women.
@@fftydgh7769 thank you i agree with that point frfr.
This is a mature discussion. I love her answer. I've had friends and family where one partner made more, lost a job or went back to school. They come together and decide how to handle it. Financial communication creates healthy relationships. Another healthy communication topic before getting into a serious relationship is how to divide taking care of the home. These jobs don't have to be broken down into traditional gender roles.
If you take care of a man when he’s in school or lost his job when he makes the money he wants he’ll leave you for someone else
@@BB-qk8on that's just ur mentality not reality. You are living in a great delusion!
@@BB-qk8on that’s just your sour hurt mentality 😢😅
I absolutely hate that women forces us men to do EVERYTHING for them meanwhile women watch us do the hard work she understands
The wrong side won the war.
Do you mean, some women?
@@t.5021No! A lot. Most
@@NebulaSonBruh, shush, you hating on basically all women is just like the women hating on all men. Grow tf up, little ah kid, or get used to having animals as your permanent companion. Your delusionals will make you miss out on the opportunity to meet the one, because nobody worth a damn will gravitate towards your hate. Hold no bias, people are going to people, simple as that.
@@NebulaSon I see the Opposite
In Finland, women are very independent and usually want to participate. On a first date, they often want to pay on their own. I am in favor of equality in everything, so I think it's fair that whoever earns more, pays more. A woman should not expect a man to pay everything from rent to date nights, restaurants and travel. It would be great if a man could sometimes feel loved and worth the effort.
Especially if a woman owns more and/or earns as much, I wonder why a man should pay everything everywhere..
Women still 100% make the babies. Until you can level out THAT playing field, I'll pass on the equality bs
@@JulieDeuxFois That's nine months (or however many times the lady wants to have babies) of our whole life together. Pain and suffering, yes, but it is all worth it when you see the baby. You can play that card like 3-5 years. :)
@@JulieDeuxFois Yes a woman gives birth but let the man put in the extra effort after she gets pregnant right. Go 50/50 until then.
@@JulieDeuxFoisSo your all traditional now, making women into sexual objects for men to purchase. But do you believe men are superior? Should men have all your money and make your decisions? Should women be paid less as they have leas stuff to pay for? Men are already expected to pay for the kids, the relationship, the house and the food on the table. You are born in a lucky 50% and have to carry a baby for 9 months, then your side is complete and now the man can dump you (since you have no value left). Great! 🤦♂️
She speaking ALL Facts here. Love It! 👍
Never date gold diggers 🤡 or single mothers 🤡
So your gold digger who is single mother ok clown
I agree with single mothers (because its not nice for the kids), but its not always their fault. The man could’ve poked holes in the c-ndom and then dumped the girl and ran. You don’t know 🫠
Men are the only real gold diggers. What do you offer besides and without money or that a woman can’t provide for herself in 2024? Quickly.
@@deadaccount2048
It’s not right to deny women’s right to sterilization because tbh motherhood is ghetto without a part time maid
In my opinion if you are in a relationship and you are living together everything should be 50/50.
She will jump ship like most modern women if the man loses his job
i remember an episode on steve harvey when a man in the audience asked "why do women run when men have financial troubles". 😁
I think everyone should have a career...this is ridiculous. If the women has a child than of course she should be allowed to have a break but as a gf and bf they should be 100/100 no one is doing more than they the other, it's not about money 🙄 at least that's most of the healthy relationships I see around me!
Now a lot of sisters need to take advice from this pretty young woman I love that about her she's willing to help her brother besides that just build something that's powerful not a lot of sisters out here doing that kudos to you stay blessed
Teamwork makes the dream work!!
Bruh mad respect cuz the pressure a lot of men r under to provide is insane
All y’all jus said if yo man lose his money y’all gon leave him so y’all have to be 14 or single 40 yr olds who are lonely 💀💀💀
That's honestly probably true lol
If he loses his money does she stop being fertile? Do the kids stop being hungry?
@@JulieDeuxFois then i can do the same as a wealthy man. As soon as she looses her charm her looks i will leave her and get a fresh new young woman🤤
@@AnonymousGuy12 except you're not wealthy, are clearly lonely and sad. I bet your mom is tired as we speak
@@AnonymousGuy12Y'all do it All the time
How about we all focus on what we want for ourselves and go for people with mutual beliefs. Gahdamn If you not on the same page with somebody, move tf on to someone you are on the same page with. Why debate about shit
YES LOVE YOUR REPLY
Fellas pay attention she is a woman who is down to earth not one of those wig wearing big eye lash batting stroller dragging looking for a step daddy type of women that's still straddling the section 8 fence it's some women who date for love and some women who date for survival that's the day in age we are in
If the Woman is Respectful, Nice, Very Feminine, Understanding,...
A Conscious Man don't care about paying for Everything..... If he don't got it... To take care of his Woman...... He will go find it,, or get it.... No doubt....
Say it louder for the incels in the basement!!❤
Yeah and trick it you sholl but hay everyone need to just be honest what they want some men want to spoil women that’s fine don’t complain in your latter years yo ur wife not helping you same to a woman if u want a man to spoil you don’t complain if he cheating or don’t spend time with you
Not if he hasn't married her.
Women don't love simps, they love to use simps.
SIMPS
A. WOMAN. TRYING. TO TELL A MAN ABOUT. MEN..... THEIRS. MILLIONS. OF MEN TAKING. CARE OF WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY..... WOMEN. WHO. AREN'T......... GHETTO.
@@JulieDeuxFois you got no man femcel
I am a woman and completely agree. There should never be pressure on one person only. Not in this economy! Life is expensive now, and we all have to contribute
Now that's unconditional love. Much respect to her.
Is she is a relationship with a man she respects love and trust right now that you know of?
@@KingComp67_-io3iz they get on these podcast and try to sound intelligent about men and women but you never hear them say anything about being in a committed relationship. 🤨
Nope! If he does not “got it”, no need to be in a relationship. Been there, done that. If he does NOT have finance, career, & accomplishments in order when meeting you, his ego will be in the dumpster 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
💯
Facts
If he was successfully living on his own, paying his rent/mortgage, utilities, essentials and so on, how does he no longer got it now that he's 'Met the woman of his dreams?'
Sounds like these dudes out here are hell bent on creating nightmare situations that force BW into the muling position rather than standing/sitting/laying ... however she wants to relax in her femininity.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
You are correct! Broke guys have anger issues. If he is not wealthier than myself… I will not 👀👀😬😬
Only bw talk like. I can't
So you’re admitting that women don’t marry for love they marry for status and a paycheck?
@@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman yes 😂 a lot of them until a man lose his job the. They gone 😂
@@jonathansteed8640 yup why you think travis kelce didn't marry his ex? 😁
Low key hotep and embarrassing 🙄
At this point in 2022 year of our Lord and Savior black wimins is done with this regressive conversation.
Chyle we are hypergamous and thriving - the colorist dust can gather wherever it will.
Black women understand we must raise our standards to deal with men who are doing man things - we are not entertaining discussions of how to prop up random broken Black dudes - who aren’t even committed to us- that is not our topic - we aren’t interested in random you tube internet streets energy - bc a commitment that has already been established is a whole different place between two serious people with intention - not this dusty question in the first place.
Ladies go where you get the most - where you are loved and where you are respected. The rest will take care of itself!
Bitter bw are funny I swear😭😭
Why don’t you explain to these other black women how majority of “Rich” Asian and white men don’t check for black women.
What's funny is yall raise the standards for MEN but forget to raise them for yourselves. Traditional men were for virgin pure women with class. Traditional men aren't attracted to baby mama's,women who have a promiscious past and disrespectful women who claim to want a man who leads but can't keep their mouths shut. Go to your job ( if you have one) and tell your employer how to run his business,comment back how that works out. Women don't want leaders can't even take criticism,when we say we want a certain kind of woman. Instead you try to insult and shame. Traditional women weren't Loud,strong and independent Boss entitled chick's and their body count wasnt high,making them an embarrassment.
she straight up cappin because a lot of women leave when men have financial struggles. i don't mean all women but a lot of them. you're lucky to have one that will pick you up when times get tough and vice versa.
She a keeper
In man language when the money go the honey goes... Good day people. I respect her point of view tho.
I hate when people try to act fake deep about this nonsense. Listen if he can’t provide for me I’d rather be single.
And you are the reason why I became a pimp
Your goofy and broke
POV u: 💩🤡
You must not have hit the wall yet 🤣. It's undefeated. When you're 42 with a house full of cats you'll be singing a different tune 🎶
@@csurams84 pov u: 🤓💩🤡
We need more like her
she’s capping u dumb or slow?
Smart lady
My money n
My choice I'm not buying your garage needs that on you
Lol
Having your man's back as a wife is different I think, especially in the example she gave. Of course a wife should be a help mate to her struggling hubby, but the tone needs to be set in the dating/courting process of him being the provider b/c that's what a man's role is in a true Godly marriage.
🙌🙌🙌
Godly marriage? So the woman has to be a virgin on the wedding night right?
@@annatar6453 Ideally, but God is a redeemer and can still bless a non-virgin with a marriage.
That's just your toxic femininity speaking!
Listen y’all times are hard a man can provide and you can too a lot of people who are pastors have wives that work as well all because you need a little financial help from your wife doesn’t make you less of a man
There you go. That's fair & I respect what this sister said. I can work with her.
Can someone please explain something to me!!!
If he had his own place, paid his utilities, internet/wifi, groceries, and other essentials before he met you and wasn't struggling at doing such, how much of a jump is it for him to continue to do such after getting married?
People make providing sound like it's a huge hurdle that only wealthy men can do. It's not!!! Financial responsible men who live on their own, with no roommates, or not rooming it up with a relative are perfectly capable of continuing to pay for "EVERYTHING".
GEEZE!!! Am I missing something???
Yea you are. I’m a man who lives on my own right now no roommate and pays everything. Let me tell you there is no way that I’m going to allow someone in my life that contributes nothing. Todays economy is too bad for that. Plus who wants to deal with someone who’s so selfish that they can’t even pick up a $60 cable bill??? That’s not a woman that’s a child.
@@Mrjonezzz So the only way a wife contributes is by working a 40hr job a week and paying half the bills? She's doing the cooking, cleaning, maintaining the household in all the ways required, looking after the children, making sure their homework is done and keeping herself on high maintenance mode while men do what? Just pat half the bills & sometimes washers her car, sometimes gives compliments, sometimes helps with putting the dishes up from the dishwasher, and bringing in the groceries from the car?
You want a mother 3.0, a mule, someone you can control not a mate & companion.
@@ChannelFiend If he's got that type of money he can do or pay someone to do everything on that list. Hire a maid, cook, babysitter, and a surrogate. What is she there for? All with added peace.
@@Jseagle1989 I bet your mother regrets giving birth to you.
@@ChannelFiend your acting like modern day fathers spend no time with their children. nowadays children get to see both their parents most of the time stop with this 1950s bullshit nobody is going to world war.
Especially nowadays. It's almost impossible for 1person to pay everything.
If he is paying everything, than who is doing the saving ?
Only 1% of men make that amount of money.
We’re all little ants running around in circles, while the people with real money on the top top are laughing at us doing podcasts and BS
So true.
A man will pay and lay his life down for her if he sees her as worthy of it. If not he won’t.
I think so and this 50/50 I didn’t know about it just internet make me discover that. Relationship is must be 100/100 and as a team we put all together to achieve something. His money you money is for both of you ( as I have seen my parents doing it, even do my mum earns more money that my father it has never been a question of 50/50). In how culture we don’t talk about this 50/50 bc money is not what it is important in relationship, it goes and comes.
Thank God my black momma didn't have a fetish for struggle love and chose to have me by a Filipino man that believed in taking care of not only us but her as well. Do better bw !
👏🏾
So you’re admitting that black women don’t care about love or building a bond with a man you just want a paycheck? And somehow it’s everybody else’s fault majority of women aren’t married? Check the Stats . Successful white and Asian men are checking for black women. Majority of y’all will never find that so keep wishing.
So you equate being with a black man as struggle love? You sound like Stephen from Django
Why should your man take care of your momma? Where’s her husband, your daddy?
Every woman I tell 50/50
If your name is on it pay for it. if your name isn't on it you don't have to pay anything.
Guess who invented "The Man always pays for everything"?
A WOMAN!
Real talk this is why I like right here let's work together not just one person doing everything
Lol she's a liar
A man is a provider. Period! That is his role and what is in his DNA. I refuse to take that away from him. There is no 50/50. In those scenarios the "50 percent" will fall on the woman and become 80% or even 90%. So no...let him be the man and provide. 💯
Depends, in today's world is harder to afford things. Women should work too but even if they don't work much
I think this logic is outdated. Our economy has greatly changed and so has rent
What if your man loses his job or is handicaped by and accident and can't work no more or for a period on time. Then what you'll leave ?
@@kennethiavail1719 yes. Very much outdated and can't be applied to most households.
@@dollyrevenge98 exactly. Times have changed and to expect a man to cover all the household costs with today’s market is a bit selfish to me
Sure… if they are traditional women in every sense of the word.
Nope. As a wife I totally understand the point to support your man it’s a union.
Before marriage ladies don’t settle for a man who doesn’t have the means to help you maintain your lifestyle. Most men have ego’s and insecure that will tear you down because he can’t financially support. Let him go!
why would men support girlfriends more than a wife at status? are you fooled?
do you complain about the wage gap?
Men are not born for providing! That's just your toxic femininity speaking!
no man wants to pay for you period in reality ( because you must earj it by yourself) on firat date i won't even pay the full , she has to pay for her. if she won't then she is for streets.
@@SHINCHAN-hn4cw same
Energy produces money? That’s new. And Bitcoin? What a terrible example lol
As women u should. I mean you stash alllll your money as he pays EVERYTHING FOR YEARS. But what happens his money goes 70-90% of the time she’s gone. That’s a fact look at the divorce rate and who files 🤷♂️
Who are the people still having these conversations? It just seems to me like dumb people stay trapped in this conversation…
Y’all need to do better 🤣🤣it’s 2022 grow tf up
On a perfect world yes but realistically today this aint gone wirk if a woman sees her friend with a dude that provides everything as i believe he should if possible 70% of the time its gone lead to issues with the 2 of you
Whatever works best for the couple I suppose
Lmfao, Rachet 304s expecting traditional men 🤡
That is the truth
She lying, cause I could have all the energy in the world and she wouldn’t deal wit a man if I was broke. I could be rich as shit, and nonchalant to everything she would love me
😂the last deal is 50-50%
What I find is people always want to be taken care of. What are you doing for your legacy to be independent?
I approve this message 😂😂😂💓💛💓 xx
Where's she at because women saying they don't want to work anymore?
As a man talking about real world facts if a man goes to work and he works hard for his family he handles the finances and he is the authority of the children he loves his family and he wants his family to stay together the only person in the household who wants everyone to stay together is the man the first sign of trouble with the finances or his job or if he's unable to do the duties that he normally would do she's gone she's out of there she'll put you on child support and get alimony and from that day on her feelings and her honesty were not to that man they were to the money that he made and the fact that 80% of divorces are started by women proves my theory correct women do not care about love they only care about money and what that man makes there's a guideline that a woman says a man must be 6 ft tall have a good paying job and earn six figures she never said anything about love family if what I'm saying is false that's because females have made it false.
The point of the video is that both men and women should be financially independent to avoid situations like what you just mentioned. Though I disagree with the divorce thing, people have different reasons for it.
Hopefully she practices what she's preaching at the house. She's f'n gorgeous by the way 🤦🏾♂️...
“money is energy and energy is currency”
bro money is currency … no need for “energy” interpretations
edit: a little pedantic … her actual argument is legit af
NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN
Fax there to dumb
Never listen to your momma
@@JulieDeuxFois go wash the dishes !!!! 😅
😂😂😂 where is the original video? She is hilarious.
This is a real woman she gets it
I agree with you dear
Not getting support especially from your own wife is stressful. As men we can’t vent cause our women look at us as being weak then wonder why we step out cause mentally is fucking stressful having all the weight on us especially if we’re in a situation where we can’t pay everything for the time being. Nothing wrong going 50/50 that’s jus my opinion
THEY THINK 🤔 WE ARE SUPPOSED TO AND THEY MAKE
MORE THAN US
And so…???
If you can't afford to provide then you don't deserve a wife and family. The Bible says that a man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel.
Sir, who's paying your rent/mortgage, utilities, for your groceries, gas, insurance, and other essentials? If you're a grown man, living on your own with no roommates ar not in a relatives room, you are already doing it all.
Why is it that when a BW expresses that a BM needs to take on the same type of male posture that his counterparts are, why is it now a problem?
Is it because you don't value women that you feel that she needs to go half, or do you not have it? Men who don't respect women or who are financially struggling should not be dating muchless seeking a wife because you can't afford a family.
@@ChannelFiend because as soon as she gets a “provider” all of that is out the window why even bring it up a man is supposed to come and take all of a woman’s burdens like Jesus and what does he get not even respect sometimes
All of these women are disqualified. 🙅♂️
My money my choice
She’s trippin hard. I hate to see this… very pick me
A pick me because she’s willing to work with a man, who is a good man but his finances aren’t up to par ? she’s not saying find a felon or a homeless person or a man working at Walmart and try and change him but instead he has a career and their income combined can elevate them both. I don’t get women today 🤦🏽♂️
Well we've just identified a "pass me." Yall just 304s lookin for Pimps. That sister in the video gets it. Yall lil low vibration hyena S.i.g.n language talk ain't phasin real "lioness."
@@kmel1313 yeah we already know a lot of women expect to be taken care of blah blah blah but have you actually shown that you are worth it other than what's between your legs! cuz to be honest pussy not all that special. yeah men will survive regardless.
Or she's just an independent woman like most women strive to be.
Well said
She’s 1 of 1 no women thinks like this
I am a woman and think like this
What is this woman talking about?💀🤡
What are they bringing to the table tho, is what I am asking
💯💯
Lol the irony when a woman talks about it
The bills are not everything
Women try to run me in relationships like Phill you stay home and I go work and make the money it is like what do I do sit here and sleep that is boring
Yea sorry ladies but if the bill is on ur name u pay for it I ain’t paying for nothing that is not on my name. Sorry not sorry
Ooooowwweeeee 😂😂
God ain’t make money white man did but God did make men and women so I dnt c how ppl can say they only date if a person has a certain amount then turn around n try to talk that God shyt
I would marry her
Queen👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
Knockout Georgeos!
It doesn't matter if I have a lousy personality or if I have cheated on you, as long as I have money, right? Having resources and money isn't enough. You also have to be attractive and have a personality to match, but that's not to mention that you also have to be a thug or bad boy, and you have to know how to dress; you can't be overly aggressive or too friendly.
There's a few smart woman and this is one of them the rest you guys are just on a lower frequency this woman is on a higher frequency learn from it
We literally have who rich and gives advice we don't take yours dumb advice if I was you I would take advice from her cause judging you probably are a very low frequency women or men
Where is this women 😍
Don't listen to the "gobbledegook" out of her mouth. There isn't a woman on this earth that will not have a level of contempt for a man if they had to support him for over 3 months. Hell, even those 3 months will be contentious.
Very well said!
Did she just say money is Energy? 🤣
Not Good Energy
Love is all about money
Spoken like a Goddess
Got it don’t got she paying half these bills don’t like it I’ll rather be alone I don’t do needy woman
EXACTLY, BLACK WOMEN! YEAH THATS RIGHT. LET THIS PLAY BACK SEVERAL TIMES BLACK WOMEN, WAKE UP AND SMELL THE R E A L I T Y
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Now that a black intelligent queen rite there,✊🏾💪🏾
Woman are entitled to
LoL WTF is this word salad bs
Im just saying to anyone that says “manifest” or chase money…
Manifesting and the talk of peoples energy all of these things are not of the Most high GOD. It’s sad to see we have to grow up Daughters and Sons when everything is inverted and people be tapping into witchcraft. Lemme not start on the starsign bull 😤😤😤
This has to be the worst advice I have ever heard.
Men provid
Learn how to spell it first. 😂
@@nickjones3860 learn how to improve your IQ to understand. HOW ABOUT DO THAT NEXT TIME. 😂😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
@@nickjones3860 CZcams not english class. TRY AGAIN INCEL. 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@nickjones3860 learn how to improve your iq. Instead of talking about somebody spelling. It clear you miss the slow bus for a comprehensive problem. 😂
@@nickjones3860 MEN PROVID 😂 clearly you CANT even do that. Start at increase your iq. Before talking about somebody spelling...
Passport bros where you at😂😂😂 Thank you, we are done with these BROKE, RAN THROUGH WESTERN WOMEN!