Women want equality but when it comes to money, that's different. I am a woman and I believe both parties should contribute to the best of their ability
I agree but since wages are now being fairly paid, this old concept is not working anymore. In the past, men were able to take care about whole 6 children family.
Yeah, back in the day most of not all able bodied men could go to the factory setting and pay for a small to big size family. Nowadays with inflation and the ridiculousness of the rich and how they are when it comes to paying people according to the job people do. It's quickly becoming if you want a man that pays for everything you need to find yourself an engineer or someone high up in the tech industry. It's quickly becoming a class thing.
She said "a man PAYS for everything" n he says "a man DID everything". The problem today is its 50/50 pay, but 75/25 household maintenance. Leaving 75/25 relationship. Do the math. A woman does 75% household n 50% pay. A man does 50% pay (they're equal w/ pay) but 25% house maintenance. That's 75% of the RELATIONSHIP on the woman. Household is hard! If not, men what's the status with the lights, the rent/mortgage balance for the 1st, the registration for the car, the school enrollment for the children, the dentist appointments, the doctor's appointments, the vision appointments, the groceries, the cooking, the cleaning, the new shoes needed for the children, the school clothes needed, ect!
You're assuming that men don't do their fair share of housework. I know guys who are married and do plenty of the household maintenance, car maintenance, looking after the kids and driving everyone around cos their wives refuse to drive. Feminists whinge because they ant superiority, not equality.
This is why it's so important for couples to to have honest conversations about how to handle money in their relationship. What may work for one couple, may not work for another but it's important to agree on what works for your relationship because as you said money is just one aspect of a relationship. There's a lot more to consider.
This is a lie. It's actually the reverse. Men are expected to be the provider while also helping women with the housework when they get home. Also men still have household chores like fixing thing around the house, fixing a tire, cutting the grass, cleaning the garage, taking out the trash , and driving the family.
@@NebulaSon men use to be expected to be the providers, now its a lot of 50/50 in providing. Also, the chores u named are just that chores, but it's not dealing with the outside world to maintain yall like all the things I named. Those are household chores n women have chores too.
@@najmahharris2859 Okay if we're honest, men are still expected to be providers or the very least the main sex responsible for most of the financial situations. There's still a stigma for men to take their partner out and pay for everything and to spend money on a whole lot of other things. And all those things you mentioned are things that men also do. Those are not exclusives to women.
When a wife is taking care of the household and nurturing the children that's the best position and place for her at home that's her 50%💪🏾💋
Women want equality but when it comes to money, that's different. I am a woman and I believe both parties should contribute to the best of their ability
I agree but since wages are now being fairly paid, this old concept is not working anymore. In the past, men were able to take care about whole 6 children family.
Completely understand your viewpoint on this. This concept has definitely changed for a lot of people.
Exactly!!
Yeah, back in the day most of not all able bodied men could go to the factory setting and pay for a small to big size family. Nowadays with inflation and the ridiculousness of the rich and how they are when it comes to paying people according to the job people do. It's quickly becoming if you want a man that pays for everything you need to find yourself an engineer or someone high up in the tech industry. It's quickly becoming a class thing.
@@Dr.Beetlejuice110💯💯💯
Times change cost of living going up. That man pay all the bills stuff is dead. I was raised on the man and woman pay together
This is why it's so important to do what works for your relationship. We do everything together as well because that's what works for us.
No. Simple as that
We have EQUALITY, Dont we?
With EQUALITY, men shouldn’t pay a thing.
Can’t have both.
She said "a man PAYS for everything" n he says "a man DID everything". The problem today is its 50/50 pay, but 75/25 household maintenance. Leaving 75/25 relationship. Do the math. A woman does 75% household n 50% pay. A man does 50% pay (they're equal w/ pay) but 25% house maintenance. That's 75% of the RELATIONSHIP on the woman. Household is hard! If not, men what's the status with the lights, the rent/mortgage balance for the 1st, the registration for the car, the school enrollment for the children, the dentist appointments, the doctor's appointments, the vision appointments, the groceries, the cooking, the cleaning, the new shoes needed for the children, the school clothes needed, ect!
You're assuming that men don't do their fair share of housework.
I know guys who are married and do plenty of the household maintenance, car maintenance, looking after the kids and driving everyone around cos their wives refuse to drive.
Feminists whinge because they ant superiority, not equality.
This is why it's so important for couples to to have honest conversations about how to handle money in their relationship. What may work for one couple, may not work for another but it's important to agree on what works for your relationship because as you said money is just one aspect of a relationship. There's a lot more to consider.
This is a lie. It's actually the reverse. Men are expected to be the provider while also helping women with the housework when they get home. Also men still have household chores like fixing thing around the house, fixing a tire, cutting the grass, cleaning the garage, taking out the trash , and driving the family.
@@NebulaSon men use to be expected to be the providers, now its a lot of 50/50 in providing. Also, the chores u named are just that chores, but it's not dealing with the outside world to maintain yall like all the things I named. Those are household chores n women have chores too.
@@najmahharris2859 Okay if we're honest, men are still expected to be providers or the very least the main sex responsible for most of the financial situations. There's still a stigma for men to take their partner out and pay for everything and to spend money on a whole lot of other things. And all those things you mentioned are things that men also do. Those are not exclusives to women.