Hey Steve: Should My Boyfriend Move In With Me? II STEVE HARVEY
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- čas přidán 27. 05. 2022
- Her boyfriend plans on moving in with her, but she’s concerned it could change the dynamic of their relationship. Steve and his studio audience have a very clear opinion on what she should do!
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Who still thinks she’s gonna go ahead and move in with him? ✋ 😂
She probably already did.
@@GodLovesYouAllTheTime word😂😂😂
I think she did 😂
She's already moved & is planing to come with the follow up question.
Hi! Demirya
Girl, DON'T DO IT !!!
Good idea 👍 Girl you're old enough.
Do you understand her question? She don't have to ask Steve Harvey, he will move in anyway.
She just want to be on TV, I think they've already moved in.
She looks like an angel in disguised, still waters runs deep.
I think life is about development,so if you just agreed to be With him then Cobain come up with something (Ugandan)
I pray she listened to this advice
I think she will listen, since there were so many grown women in the audience supporting his advice ... 😉
She's going to move in, she thinks it's funny.
@@QUEEN-zo7xg that makes me sad a lil bit
@@Mrs.CDavis It's the other way round, she let her boyfriend move in.
@@QUEEN-zo7xg you’re right
That look on her face,,, I think she moved in already😂🤣
It looked like that right. 😂
No I think instead that she already gave her permission to him but didn't move in yet
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 y'all are mean 😂😂
The moment "We hate him, don't we ?!" 😂😂😂
😂😂 hellow
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Don't degrade yourself by moving in this early. You are such a valuable person to yourself and God..keep the standards that guarantees peace of mind...
Well said!
Yall women need to stop allowing these men telling yall how to live and experience relationships for too long most yall women sit down accept people advice when yall have great guys but yall lose them because of people influence
Girl, don't do the marriage stuff when you are not married. Its great to be by yourself, enjoy it then later you can move in together after an engagement. For now Just Do You
After marriage, even then it is hard enough.
You're absolutely right! There are plenty of years down the road to be living with your partner.
Well said i wish i had this advice .enjoy u no rush because you end the rushed with kids hard moment
You don't know someone until you've shared a roof with them...you can't marry someone that you don't know...she gonna marry him and then realise he farts in his sleep and is very sloppy and then there's gonna be a bigger problem
Living with someone else isnt "marriage stuff" lmao. Marriage stuff literally isnt anything, if your relationship changes just because you signed some paper then you shouldnt be with that person
“Why buy the cow when he getting the milk for free” my mom raised me on that quote! She made sure it was banged into my head.
Thank you to my mom!
Wowow that's graet.
This is only working in America no other Western countries this is not the rule now 20-30 year back its ok . women and men both need milk
So is the cow available or taken?
@@abolger539 😂
Wow
Can we talk about how stunning she is!!😍😍
Steve is one of very few tv personalities full of sheer wisdom and foresight,what a blessed noble soul
His advices are pretty stupid though...
It’s judge Lynn toler for meeee!
It’s funny how all the ladies were saying “nooo” “don’t do it” 😂😂😂
"We hate him don't we?" - Steve 🤣🤣🤣
Yes we do lol
Lexi if you read this comment i just wanted you to know that all Steve said is for your own good.
Please listening to those who just wants the best for you.
Ohhhh
Before those women started- I yelled the same thing. NO- DON'T DO IT!!!"
I love the scenario Steve painted before saying; "We hate him, don't we?"
LOL
That’s why many women are dying alone, bc of men like Steve
lol
@@andrejamal5438 alone yet happy
She is so pretty! Steve is right! I wish I had advice from Steve when I was young!
Yessss so true right
My fiancé gave me a $30k engagement ring, proposed in a Italy. But I waited half a decade. Now that we finally moved in together, it feels so good having an actual commitment from his end. It brings me some sort of peace. I would’ve never moved in with him if we were only bf/gf..no way.
Kudos to whoever brainwashed people that an expensive engagement ring is necessary. Correction. That ANY ring is necessary. Rings are symbols of women's endless cares of what people think about them. If your ring is too small your man doesn't care for you. It's all clever marketing. Blessings to your union, truly. It's just interesting the fact that you HAD to put how much he paid for your ring.
@@SJ-tb2wq I only mentioned the price bc he went above and beyond of what I ever expected. He worked very hard and gave me the proposal he thought I deserved, and for that he deserves the recognition. I waited so long to get a commitment and I became somewhat desperate so I would’ve been just as happy had he proposed with a $100 ring. The day he proposed will forever be the most magical day of my life and yes I now happily show off my lovely long awaited engagement ring!
@Jay dilla i never mentioned the price of my ring to anyone except on this comment. So no I never “show off” by telling anyone how much my ring is. I “show off” that i am now finally ENGAGED. And even if people ask how much it is (some have), I haven’t and won’t be comfortable sharing that information bc there are people like you. People who are full of assumptions and negativity who can’t seem to be happy for others.
Good for you.
Ok fine, you get a tangible 30k commitment from him, what commitment did you bring to the table to assure him you weren't gonna use and dump him?
Every word Steve said is true.
I barely escaped that falling in the toilet debacle three times in two different places.
girl.. im married & been with the man for 10 years. I gave up smh
See, my dad taught me from an early age to put the seat down everytime... I still have only had one live in girlfriend back in my early 20s. So I'm just living by myself putting the toilet seat down 😂😂
@@evanthompson4186
When you meet the one, you can forget about flowers she'll be over the moon over you just seeing how neat her the bathroom always looks, happy woman happy husband💞
@@evanthompson4186 I don't put it down because I don't get the logic. It doesn't appeal to my reasoning. If I hear a good reason to, I sure will.
You may want to start turning the lights on when using the toilet. Just an idea.
This is the best advice. If you’re young and watching this, LISTEN!
Both ladies are beautiful 💃🏾
- 1st one: I'll NEVER live with a guy before marriage because I want to get married, if we live together he get all the advantages (sex, cooking, cleaning, finances) without giving me the part that I want 🤷🏾♀️
- 2nd one: I'm Congolese born and raised France now living in Canada and I can understand the culture shock you gotta adapt to the local mentality a bit
To each their own but it would behoove both parties in the relationship to move in together as too have an easy out if something goes wrong. Steve said to the women don't give away milk until he's bought the cow, I say to the guys don't buy the cow until you've tried the milk. A lot of people think that the man has to audition for the woman but in reality the woman is auditioning for the ring and men are not willing to give y'all a ring until we've seen that you are worth us giving a ring too.
If someone tried to test all men that will be the result but if you give you're time to one person then you will enjoy the best my dear
Who says the girl will do those stuff you listed😂😂 besides sex most girls these days don't do the rest.
@Study Timeso what does the woman bring to the table , sex?
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Don't ask him to come over and move the refrigerator, it's dangerous.
Lol
Only after marriage should a couple move in together; this generation must get that. It's not religious talk but innate human virtue, that this beautiful union be dignified.
YES!! PREACH!
Hell nah son, I aint marrying someone unless i know i can live in the same house as them
@@callanc3925 Yep!
I think it's ok to live together while engaged. Sometimes u don't truly get to know someone UNTIL U LIVE TOGETHER
@@callanc3925 I think there are a lot of sufficient ways to know if you can live with someone apart from cohabiting.
So many couples get this wrong. Get to know each other, then get married , then you can move in together and have all the sex you want. The "world's way" is have sex and possible children out of wedlock while suffering various relationship fallouts, then move in with someone at a very low level of commitment and have repeated fallouts and breakups constantly making you move in or out and be unstable, then get married when you're old and plan on never having children because let's face it your life is all about you and you would never want to care for another human being. It's a shallow sad story and being told every day about millions of foolish Americans.
Wow I should print this out and hang it in my office LOL
Yes and when you don’t want that people think your crazy!
You are blessed. For this comment, alone. You're thoroughly blessedddddd!!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
no offense, but it's best to move in first before you even get married, cause there are things you will only notice about that person when you living together, it's best the fallout happens before rather than after marriage. I'm speaking from experience as I did that mistake.
@@Gwaxpayne the same way many people including myself have moved in together after marriage and things are all good , if you love each other you will learn how to manage things it does have to be negative. it pointless to actually live like a married couple only to get married after sometimes but hey its also a cultural thing
He’s speaking truth young lady.
No! ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS have your own place, so you never feel stuck. If you get into an argument, you can simply go home.
Hello friend how are you doing ?
Steve is one of the most intelligent people i’ve ever seen, probably he didn’t got it from school but i think it’s a God’s gift.😎😎😎
Actually, going to school has nothing to do with intelligence. In fact, most of the most stupid people I know have degrees from universities.
From stories recounted by Mr. Harvey, it's obvious his commonsense, and intelligence, were learnt, and acquired, at his home, from his parents, which's how it used to be.
Absolutely right no school can teach common sense.
No his life experiences
@@marilynharris4831 🎯❤☺
Thank you for sharing such kind words!
Whoever is reading this I pray that whatever you are going through gets better and whatever you are struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day amen 🙏
Uncle Steve knows what is best for you..
I'm so thankful for my mother, may she RIP. She taught me my worth and instilled values in all of us. My wish for this beautiful young girl is that she has someone in her life that can do the same for her. Asking on a platform like this is cool and all, and I take nothing away from Steve Harvey. However, he is NOT your bloodline and hasn't been in your life but 5 minutes. I pray you are surrounded by a village for the rest of your life. With all that said, girl if you don't tell that boy to go sit down somewhere, I will. No you can't 'move in together' - if and when he is serious, let his actions speak and nothing else.
2:09 imagine the bf watching this 😂
I didn't see that coming lmao😂
Surely if am the one that's the end.l think that lonely life also matters
😅 hellow
Steve: we hate him don’t we?!
Women: YES!!
Don’t do it baby girl!!🙌💃🏽
NO!!!! Don't do it! Stop the cycle. I've been married twice. I won't make this mistake a third time
"We hate him, don't we?"😂
Hellow Thina
@@geraldgodsontv7982 Hello Gerald🙋🏻♀️
@@initwiththina I'm Gerald Godson can we be friends!?
The girl is beautiful
Reading these comments and reactions are fun lol it’s amazing how many perspectives are out in the world, I’m a 25 year old man raised by a single Aunt but grew up seeing relationships and marriages. It doesn’t matter if yall regular married (legality paperwork) or spiritually married (Gods paperwork) if yall move in together things will change, since that’s the only thing constant. Its all up to you if you will allow it to change in a way that adds to your life or take away. Nowadays too many revert and compare their decisions off of social media or just others peoples experiences, you gotta do what you feel at the moment and have grace that it’ll all work out if your real and true with yourself and partner. The most successful marriages aren’t the ones painted with a beautiful picture but the ones that are brutally honest, the value of relationships have been decreased considering the way life operates nowadays. Yes, back in the day it would be socially acceptable to move in after marriage or once a bond been built. But a beautiful woman told me recently, that she prefers it to be that way because it’s better to know what your dealing with before you know what your dealing with. Gods handbook for us all is all different, we gotta let life take its course sometimes. Love is love and hate is love that never been expressed or received properly. Its all resorts to healing
Peace & Stillness 🤲🏾
Couples should not be moving into together unless they’re married or engaged with a date. And a man who wants to move in with his girlfriend is a hobosexual. I’m engaged with my own place, he has his own place and he’s getting our house next year before we get married. There’s a right and wrong way to do things. Ladies sometimes need to listen to their elders and avoid the pitfalls of disappointments with their advice.
There’s another side that no one cares to talk about. Guy marries her then they move in and now she changes up and becomes unpleasant, argumentative, lazy, she has past trauma...etc. No one ever speaks on the man’s side of why men don’t want to give a ring until they live with the woman first to make sure she is “wife material”.
it does matter. The world views is always contrary to Gods. he doesn't change. when we decide to do things Gods way , then that is what matters. becoming one with another in Gods eyes in front of witnesses. it doesn't have to a big fancy ceremony . its a covenant . most people deal with marriage as a personal union that's mostly about them. feelings matter more than commitment. so when the music stops or feelings, the marriage is over. bond and covenant with God has no value.
@@winniejohnson5559 But isn’t marriage a modern thing? Like wasn’t it one of those situations that were created for financial benefits and taxes? I’m honestly asking cause your comment intrigued me, God has to be present in order for presence to be appreciated but at the same time, man created marriage at least thats what I’m learning but I can be wrong as well too. Please educate me on the proper knowledge so I won’t be another blind leading the blind
Marriage is not a modern thing, what may be modern is the current nature of wedding and how people enter into marriage but the institution of marriage is one that has been present since the very foundation of the world according to the bible.
The right way is God's way and God's way is in His word.
What a beautiful young lady. Keep your own place and independence! No need to rush...just like Steve says. Please listen to all these grown folks. They know exactly what they are talking about
totally agree with him about that moving in bit. These days, young people always want to rush everything and it 90% of the time turns out bad down the road.
Hii
"We hate him don't we?"😂😂😂😂
Moving in with someone changes the entire dynamic of a relationship. I would listen to Steve and if you still feel the same way months later try it out with a best friend first so you can find out your ground rules and what you will and won't allow in your personal space... Then if he wants to move in (which he should show interest in) then you can break down ground rules that you both agree upon. I've had woman move in with me because I suggested it not because they wanted to. They saved money on rent and I was in a terrible situation :/
Hellow
Oh wow she is beautiful young woman!!! Yes do not do it girl. I waited until a week of our wedding! I told my now hubby that I do not do move in until we’re married!! Just sharing my story 😀
If she’s talking to men and the only thing they talk about is football???? RUN! Talk to someone that wants to know about you! Both of these girls don’t need to deal with anything 👏
lol chill out he is trying to start a conversation and be interesting
I'm sure this is old but I'll like and watch cuz they should of never stopped his show in the first place.
He should've asked if there was a financial component to the situation...
"You can't get the milk without buying the cow"
Your are a true legend Mr Steve, am nobody now but your inspiration is building me. God bless you
That is so sweet! We wish you all the luck in the world becoming the best you can be!!
How do we feel vice versa, I moved with my boyfriend with the intent to move and get my own place after I pay down my debt ! We have been happy now for seven months, no arguments, no issue of who does what etc… we work as a team and make sure each other good even when we aren’t at our best
@Ben how
There are always exceptions but generally speaking its not recommended
@@constancew7 because most people move in without intentions of marriage within 1-2 years. Most just move in because they love each other and not without a plan.
@Miya Kemp Well said!
Absolute best response thanks Steve
I love these videos. Steve is a great person to help others get clarity
Thank you Steve, you know it takes a village to raise these kids, I just hope she listens, especially since she asked for your advice. Young women just don't know how much fun they can have if they just stop being in a hurry to get booed up ! dang, find out what you like first , you probably don't even know 😅
Preach! 🙏🏾
" You truly don't get to know somebody until you move in with them."
You truly don’t get to know how little a man values you until he asks you to move in or have children without marrying you first.
They never answered her actual question
She didnt ask if she should let him move in
She asked does he has any advice so that the living experience is pleasant
Steve looked SO serious with the lady in pink. He was truly trying to save her.
The crowd 😂😂 in her head … I’m not gon do it girl I’m just thinking about it
And the next thing is she says:
I DID it 🫤
Experience is a good teacher! - Miki Howard
And Steve is absolutely right!!!
She’s gorgeous 😢♥️♥️
Hallo sir,Am from kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪 i love watching your show every time on you tube but you always make me smile and love i wish one day ill be there on your show...Good bless your
Niaje Dave. Kenya hapa 😁
She is pretty 😍 00:28
The chanting at the end 😂
She's listening BUT she ain't hearing
Middle eastern girl should find some well-travelled, cultured guys
Yes, maybe someone with a similiar cultural background.
Somebody with more skills than how to move a refrigerator and more interests than ball games would make a better partner for her.
I agree
Go ahead girl, follow the 90 days rule.
@@ingridreim3205 a refrigerator? 😂😂 sheesh
@@DavidGonzalez-xm8qh dont laugh, tell me how to say it right, English is not my first language.
Beautiful words spoken ❤️❤️
Great advice, Steve!
Thank you dear Steve l always love you're motivations
Thank you for being a fan!
You never really know people until you live with them. If you marry someone or not, when you live with them things will change.
straight up, i dont get all these people saying "dont move in until youre married". Like what yall never had a room-mate before? You dont live with anyone unless youre married to them? You think its wise to make it harder to end the relationship before doing the thing most likely to make you want to end the relationship? Seems ridiculous to me
@@callanc3925 Yeah man I agree. I lived with an ex and did not know how messy she was until we lived together. I found myself doing more of the cleaning and 95% of the cooking lol. Funny thing is I also paid all of the household bills. Only thing she had to pay was her car payments and car insurance. She was just not the type to do all of these things. I was relieved that I didn't just marry her after years of dating. I stuck with this mindset even with my wife. We got a place together, I proposed 4 months later and we got married 4 months after that. We did all of this (including buying a house) before the lease was out. She was much cleaner, she was willing to cook and workable. When I realized we jelled I had no problem in marrying her because I knew she would be a good wife.
@@callanc3925 -Women who have self respect would never live with or have children with a man they’re not married to.
@@lee48lee68 and whys that exactly?
@@callanc3925 -Giving a man all the benefits of having a wife without actually becoming a wife is disrespectful to herself and any children they may have. When a man does that he tells her, their children and society that she’s worthless and not good enough to marry. There are plenty of men who will love and respect her enough to marry her.
Steve on that first one is HILARIOUS 😂
So true steven for your advice for this young beatiful woman
Preety young lady!!!!
She just wanted to be on TV 🤣
she’s so beautiful
Excellent advice Steve. Don't let him move in with you.
💯 fact’s!
She is so beautiful ❤️
she got that pretty brown skin too, boy i love us
Thank you Steve💛🌻🙏
Girlllll don’t set yourself up , don’t do it !!! Y’all would be breaking up
I understand Steve's 'take ur time' point, but all couples are different. As far as the Palestinian girl goes, some guys ask what YOU like & run with it, that shows his interest IMO.
Baby Girl the Audience was on point for you. Trust me it's a decision you will not regret 🙏
Good advice
Good advice steve!!!!
You can tell the first girl's gonna do the opposite of what Steve said..she's smiling too much.
Exactly
Steve talking facts
What about the 90 days rule.
😂 Oh yes he is!
That’s the way to do it too
Wow! It is ridiculous how beautiful she is! Her skin is so gorgeous! 😍
Thank you for adding captions for your deaf and hard of hearing viewers!
You are very welcome!
Steve you are the best
Not sure, he married 3 times.
she is so beautiful....
She is a beautiful girl and looks happy.. hope she stays this way her whole life and not mess up..
I think pointing out those issues is kinda redundant. Like whether it's now or when you're married, you will have to face those issues, so that's not really a good reason.
Steve over here giving Lori’s type of advice 🤣🤣🤣
Steve is brilliant! Great answers!👍
Hi
Stay by yourself girl!! Enjoy your independence, and he can come spend time with you on the weekends 💅🏾😊
Another good one 😂😂👍🏽
Hi Jesse
I moved in with my husband before we were married, and I never realized how many things were ‘men’ things--leaving shoes all over the pace, leaving clothes on the bathroom floor, leave shaving cream on the sink, toothpaste lid off the toothpaste, leave the cabinets open, etc. I love my husband dearly BUT ……..WHEW!!! They are a lot of work.
That's not men things. That is just your husband. I am a man and I have guy roommates, none of us do this. That would drive me crazy
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@@arymat9979 how do you mean by that sign? Lol
@@osagieafe2938 BULLSEYE! 🎯
UNCLE STEVE, I AM SO PROUD OF YOU. GOD CONTINUE TO TO GRANT YOU GOOD HEALTHY LONG LIFE.
Never
Hello Cybele
Okay
I clicked on this so fast just because she is so cute!!!
Omg!! Steve: we hate him, don't we??? Ahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well Steve is right
Lexi is beyond gorgeous 🥺❤
Men respect what they have to pay for