How To Tell If Your Man Really Shows Interest - Steve Harvey

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  • @sandyM968
    @sandyM968 Pƙed rokem +2630

    I know of men that introduce every girl to their mother and their mother just plays along

  • @DB-kz3qr
    @DB-kz3qr Pƙed rokem +3261

    Got engaged after 3 weeks. Met his mom after 4, had a baby boy within the same year. Been together now for 30 years
 still counting.

  • @adahbinti7103
    @adahbinti7103 Pƙed rokem +31

    He proposed on our second date which was 14 days, and by end month we were married . 17 years in and counting

  • @camilleurueta9629
    @camilleurueta9629 Pƙed rokem +244

    My husband and I knew in 3 phone calls (pre internet and mobile). We had not even met in person. This October will will be celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary.

  • @judithcharles9847
    @judithcharles9847 Pƙed rokem +880

    I was married for 19 years and we had 3 kids at that point they were in their teens before I met my mother-in-law,true story. When I finally met her the first thing she said to me was; I loved you before I met you, the very last thing she said to me is, don't leave him. The following year actually a few months later she died. We've been married 34 years now , we've raised a surgical nurse, a Marine gunny sgt and a paramedic firefighter. I stayed and God has been so good.🙏👍

    • @coolwater55
      @coolwater55 Pƙed rokem +17

      Is that because your husband didn't know his mom?
      How sad she didn't get to watch her grandchildren growing up

    • @judithcharles9847
      @judithcharles9847 Pƙed rokem +15

      @@coolwater55 no he knew his mom very well I really didn't and still don't know the real reason, for years I thought she just didn't like me, but that wasn't the case at all. And yes it is a shame she missed her grandchildren grow , at least they got to take a picture with her before she passed. I guess it's one of those things some people take to the grave.đŸ€”

    • @laurend3607
      @laurend3607 Pƙed rokem +6

      I’m happy that you’re still married, but why didn’t you ask your husband why you’re not meeting his mother? Did he also not see her all that time?

    • @judithcharles9847
      @judithcharles9847 Pƙed rokem +17

      @@laurend3607 I was still in the army and actually I was angry that I had not met her, she came to my house but I was over seas and I couldn't understand why she could visit but not when I was there. I did find out that even though he grew up in her home they were not close, he loved her but loved his dad more. To me it was just complicated and just left it alone. But when I finally met her she wanted me to stay longer and talk with her, I found her to be a sweet lady. And no he didn't go visit even though told him he should he didn't but he did call at least once a week , I guess to him that was enough. He has a brother and 3 sisters and they all related to their mother the same way, their dad is one they ratherđŸ€”

    • @liliaferguson7573
      @liliaferguson7573 Pƙed rokem +5

      Beautiful story... I love it.

  • @nev2943
    @nev2943 Pƙed rokem +898

    When I met my husband after 3 months he asked ME when I planned to introduce him to my parents. By this time I had already met the majority of his family. Trust me ladies, if he's into you and has intentions of marrying you, you won't have to question it.

    • @sandraconkle4008
      @sandraconkle4008 Pƙed rokem

      ⁰

    • @praise874
      @praise874 Pƙed rokem +4

      Truth

    • @pamelaconstantine170
      @pamelaconstantine170 Pƙed rokem +4

      True true

    • @teenacharm
      @teenacharm Pƙed rokem +1

      Girl waaaaaow

    • @mizpinkdragon2857
      @mizpinkdragon2857 Pƙed rokem +13

      Trust me when a man wants to marry you he wants to practically drag you to see all his people😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 Best friends first and THEN his mama.

  • @CjJohnWynn
    @CjJohnWynn Pƙed rokem +13

    There's not a time limit. There's a certain amount of life experiences you must go through together and those just happen at different times for every couple

  • @LovinglfDesigns
    @LovinglfDesigns Pƙed rokem +22

    I met his parents within a month and we had already decided on our wedding date by the end of the 2nd month. The relationship was so easy & so instantly comfortable that we both knew from the 1st date that it was special.

  • @NEMO-NEMO
    @NEMO-NEMO Pƙed rokem +566

    My first boyfriend took me to meet his mom and family 1 month after meeting me.
    His father told me his son could do better.
    His mom loved me to death.
    I would give ladies this advise:
    DO NOT HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH A MAN, IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN MARRYING HIM, BC IT DECEIVES YOU INTO THINKING THE RELATIONSHIP IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN IT ACTUALLY IS. IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT MODERN YEAR WE ARE LIVING IN, men and woman are different creatures both physically and emotionally .
    Meeting moms or dads or family members is kind and genuine. But it’s not the only tool in the tool box.

    • @lionessprincess9073
      @lionessprincess9073 Pƙed rokem +2

      So what happened?? Mind sharing?

    • @NEMO-NEMO
      @NEMO-NEMO Pƙed rokem +80

      @@lionessprincess9073 I related the comment to my boyfriend and he made no attempt to bring it up to his father. We parted ways but it was a hell of an emotional roller coaster ride with the mom begging me not to leave her son and my boyfriend calling me crying and begging for me to stay.
      He hurriedly gave me an engagement ring without asking me, I did not accept it.
      I came to find out a little later that he had had sex with a fellow worker at his job, in the warehouse and not just once.
      Picking a significant other requires intervention from many sources if you are young.
      Choosing a mate later on in life brings experience which leads to a better choice, but at times it makes folks cynical and suspicious about love all together.
      Blessed are people who don’t hv to kiss a lot of frogs to find their Prince.
      That first boyfriend, established a mindset in my life that led me to being very careful and observant about what people tell you about themselves and what they are not telling you.
      I know better now.

    • @BlondeQtie
      @BlondeQtie Pƙed rokem +13

      i rather engage in sex, but i appreciate your concern.

    • @Person-mh6xq
      @Person-mh6xq Pƙed rokem +20

      “Do not engage in sex” LOL. If you’re a nun you’re not getting married anyway. Get over yourself.

    • @bryancline8893
      @bryancline8893 Pƙed rokem +21

      Lol, really it's just don't expact to find a decent man after you've engaged in a bunch of sex. Because you're not as important as you think you are.

  • @sharik97080
    @sharik97080 Pƙed rokem +91

    My husband knew right away. He had my engagement ring designed and proposed within 3 weeks. 9 months later we were married and we just celebrated our 16 years. He was skeptical to introduce me to his mom. No women has been good enough for him. I met her. I thought it went well. Then she started telling people I wasn’t good for him. My husband called her and told her until she accepted me and apologized to me then she was not to ever call him again. I told him that was his mom. He said yes and I was his wife and I will always be first over his mom. She wasn’t there when he was growing up the way she should be so now that he has an important person in his life she doesn’t need to be in his life now. I felt like his queen at that moment.

    • @sheaprincess
      @sheaprincess Pƙed rokem +12

      That's a real man right there. @sharik97080

    • @AuntieNay
      @AuntieNay Pƙed rokem +17

      I commend you both...him for standing up for you, and you for trying to be peacemaker between them. That is true love for both of you. 👍👌

    • @jdguy23
      @jdguy23 Pƙed rokem

      That would be me if by some God given miracle I do find someone and she met my mother it would be me doing this or cutting her out for good

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@sheaprincess Woo! You're husband said I found a good thing and I'm ready to leave cleave...respect my WIFE or deuces! A WHOLE MANNN đŸ„° Love to see it 😊

    • @aces4873
      @aces4873 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Your husband was desperate

  • @agustopedrosa6330
    @agustopedrosa6330 Pƙed rokem +27

    You're right Mr Harvey! I
    I'm in one week relationship when my man introduces me to his mama.. Now he's my hubby for 37 years 😄

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Do the math cause it’s def mathing! 3 1/2 decades ago
      That’s when u met mama law
      2024 he can introduce u to mama daddy sibling grams the cat and dawg and they’ll all act like you’re the first one he brought home to meet them so you’re the one
      Those kinds of men are either 37 1/2 in or better and not out here single
      That’s for sure 😂😂😂😂😂
      Congrats đŸŸ on ur marriage

  • @purplemoon7521
    @purplemoon7521 Pƙed rokem +47

    OMG!!! I met my husbands Mother 2 weeks before we got married and knew him for 2 months after meeting on blind date
 we have been married 53 years

    • @magdalinelafleur795
      @magdalinelafleur795 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      The king👑 met his queenđŸ‘žđŸœ: Checkmate!

  • @amiyabryan4185
    @amiyabryan4185 Pƙed rokem +543

    lol i met his mom before i met him, then she walked me over to introduce me to him. 😂

    • @KlaudiaGanancial
      @KlaudiaGanancial Pƙed rokem +13

      Beautiful story

    • @anniesimpson1255
      @anniesimpson1255 Pƙed rokem +5

      So sweet đŸ„°

    • @timjester8555
      @timjester8555 Pƙed rokem +20

      You were in from the beginning. Great tactic!

    • @godsgirl7201
      @godsgirl7201 Pƙed rokem +3

      His mom doesn't like mixed women and I'm a mixed women😭😭😭

    • @amiyabryan4185
      @amiyabryan4185 Pƙed rokem +11

      @@godsgirl7201 Sorry to hear that, what God has for you.. is for you and there will be opposition but there will also be confirmations along the way. think of the rejection as protection
 you never know!!

  • @carriemartinez2933
    @carriemartinez2933 Pƙed rokem +13

    My son recently introduced me to his new love!!! She is the only one, he willingly introduced me to, without her badgering him, and the only one I've actually truly liked!!! They just glow together, and I'm positive she is the one!!! I couldn't be happier, she's a true gem, and a huge comfort when my mom passed recently!!! She's a keeper, and he's becoming an amazing man, whilst with her!!

  • @sharonchuvala8633
    @sharonchuvala8633 Pƙed rokem +6

    My husband and I met in college-he was a sophomore and I was a freshman. We started dating the 3rd day after meeting, got engaged just 33 days into our relationship, and got married a year and 10 months later. That was 38 years, 5 children, and 7 grandchildren ago. Our relationship has always been very strong with our faith in God at the very core. I’m truly blessed to have this man in my life!

    • @breakergirl47
      @breakergirl47 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      You have holy numbers 7, ,3, 33 wow 😼

  • @Lucy-ul8ux
    @Lucy-ul8ux Pƙed rokem +7

    My husband proposed on our first date. 6 months later we were married, that was 20 years ago, and still going strong

  • @myas9207
    @myas9207 Pƙed rokem +136

    I used to date a guy that did this to me. He took me on expensive dates for months. One day we were out enjoying ourselves. He told me his sister was having a party that he needed to attend. His parents and other siblings would be there. We meet back up after the party and continued our date. I knew right then that I would date other people as he had no intentions of introducing me to his family. I'm a black woman and he was Peruvian so I just assumed that was why. I didn't get upset but took that into account. Best decision I could've made at the time. I met who would become my hubby soon after that.

    • @sophiechinwe5285
      @sophiechinwe5285 Pƙed rokem +1

      Amazing

    • @myas9207
      @myas9207 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@sophiechinwe5285 Thank you. I was dating with intention.

    • @murasakik245
      @murasakik245 Pƙed rokem +2

      I have lived my whole life in a homogeneous country so I don’t really understand. What is the problem with him being Peruvian and you being black? Just curious nothing deeper. I have an aunt that lives abroad and is married to someone of the other race and no one ever thought much of it. Is this normal ? Or was ur husband a special case ? Or am I just looking into it way too much ?

    • @myas9207
      @myas9207 Pƙed rokem +8

      @@murasakik245 No, that's a valid question. He grew up in the same area I did when they came to the States (3rd Ward in Tx. was kind of ghetto). That mixed with them not being to keen on black people anyway was a factor. I can't remember if it was one or both his parents felt that way.... I had experienced a guys mom being judgmental towards me before. I just didn't have the energy for that again. Hope this sheds some light.

    • @murasakik245
      @murasakik245 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@myas9207 I’m glad you did what you did. I hope you have a good future. Thanks for your answer

  • @jesusismyking9993
    @jesusismyking9993 Pƙed rokem +146

    I knew that he was the one immediately. He told me he loved me 3 days after meeting me. We were married 6 months later.

    • @gwapoo
      @gwapoo Pƙed rokem +8

      How long have you been married now?

    • @erleaz6716
      @erleaz6716 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@gwapoo 72 years

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 Pƙed rokem +1

      Same for me!!!
      That was 11 yrs ago and we are MUCH BETTER together now than we were then.
      We used to fight all the time. But we loved eachother and stuck it out.
      Best thing I ever did. đŸ„°đŸ˜đŸ˜˜

    • @missmargmillionaire6421
      @missmargmillionaire6421 Pƙed rokem

      So 6 months like he said

  • @estoyazucar
    @estoyazucar Pƙed rokem +8

    Then my dad was the bomb! He knew in 6 days and have her sign the marriage certificate at a restaurant on the 7th --- mind you, my mom didn't even know his last name until then; they were so busy being lovestruck. 😍😍😍
    Their marriage lasted 40 yrs, until my dad passed away.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Wow, incredible story. It seems that he loved her a lot

  • @thepureenergyqueen9942
    @thepureenergyqueen9942 Pƙed rokem +2

    This is so heartwarming and reaffirming to read all of these stories of lasting love, even after decades.
    I think Steve is spot on, even tho there are a few caveats because everybody's value systems aren't the same. I know mothers and grandmothers who lie to cover up their sons and grandsons lying and cheating.
    Pay attention to words, actions and ALWAYS, I mean ALWAYS listen to your gut; it's usually SPOT ON!!!!

  • @shillsdontspookme9208
    @shillsdontspookme9208 Pƙed rokem +26

    20 years ago, my husband introduced me to his mamma in the first month. 10 months later we got married. Still happily married and praying God lets us have at least 20 more together.

  • @f.-j.j.5738
    @f.-j.j.5738 Pƙed rokem +125

    It depends on the parents moral. Some parents don't mind having a revolving door of significant others coming to the house. My Dad told me not to make him waste his time. Introduce him only to people I'm dead serious about. That's why my husband was the only one I introduced to my parents.

    • @cindyjordan2800
      @cindyjordan2800 Pƙed rokem +9

      I totally agree. Meeting the Mom may be a sign for some...but it depends on the parents. I've met parents before... it didn't mean a damn thing.đŸ€­đŸ˜

    • @Be1smaht
      @Be1smaht Pƙed rokem

      Wow

    • @kathylopez1336
      @kathylopez1336 Pƙed rokem +5

      My kids know don't bring no one to me if their not the one
      I don't want to invest time into someone who's not family

  • @MCE.1
    @MCE.1 Pƙed rokem +18

    Got engaged and married the same day , after 5 days of meeting us.Am 27 he is 32 we have 3 kids and 8 years of marriage đŸ„°â€ïž

  • @heathermetz3974
    @heathermetz3974 Pƙed rokem +4

    “IF you NEVER meet his mama, you ain’t the one!”

  • @kellykirkwood4567
    @kellykirkwood4567 Pƙed rokem +62

    My MIL, after I met her, told my husband “you better not let that one get way”. I truly loved that woman. 😞

  • @divinelyprotected144
    @divinelyprotected144 Pƙed rokem +158

    I know dudes that introduce strippers, the girls they slid into the same day after they slid in their DMs to their moms... Some of these guys don't give AF and neither do their moms 🙄

    • @Louvrant
      @Louvrant Pƙed rokem +23

      Let me fix it , Men with values and standards who never take you to meet their mom .

    • @arrjee9474
      @arrjee9474 Pƙed rokem

      LOL 😂

    • @dianeclayton73
      @dianeclayton73 Pƙed rokem +3

      That's why they do what do..nobody gives a f*** about anything!

    • @ZoegirlBev
      @ZoegirlBev Pƙed rokem

      RS

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 Pƙed rokem

      @@Louvrant I was just about to say this.

  • @mrsmdub259
    @mrsmdub259 Pƙed rokem +4

    Hahaha! My husband and I had a long distance “friendship” for about 4 months. He flew in to see his mom for her birthday which happened to be in the same state I am in. I met his mama the same day he flew in! His mom introduced me to his whole family as his “girlfriend”. So I took him to the side and asked him..”So I am your girlfriend now?” He’s said “Yes you are”. Yes I am positive he planned it that way. 😉

  • @paulatreat2496
    @paulatreat2496 Pƙed rokem +3

    It took us three months
    Met his family after one month.
    14 years later, we are still going strong

  • @Delta20101
    @Delta20101 Pƙed rokem +21

    When i met my Irish man in Australia it took two months and flew me in Ireland and introduced me to meet his parents and met his dying father cried when he saw me and happy that his son met me.

  • @rjfisher7926
    @rjfisher7926 Pƙed rokem +984

    Knew she was THE one on day one. Proposed on day three. That was 22 years and five kids ago. Still in love, still going strong!

    • @edus.8987
      @edus.8987 Pƙed rokem +16

      What did you exactly notice on her?

    • @fmoreira9569
      @fmoreira9569 Pƙed rokem +34

      You guessed. You may have guessed right, but one day one it was only a guess

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp Pƙed rokem +25

      @@fmoreira9569 It wasn't a guess he knew what he wanted in his life partner and she matched it... Also how. c an you say "may have guess right?" The man has been happily married 22 years. You sound bitter.

    • @dijgdigit6866
      @dijgdigit6866 Pƙed rokem

      @@Bri-nc8yp he did guess you don't know your best friend within 2 days of meeting them back and front so honestly stfu

    • @fmoreira9569
      @fmoreira9569 Pƙed rokem +21

      @@Bri-nc8yp im not bitter at all, im really happy that people can find lasting love. I did have a "gut feeling" when i met my partner 9 years ago that could be perceived as "love at first sight" but it wasnt. I couldnt have known him on day one and couldnt have known he was the one. Now I believe he is, but the day i met him I was just guessing because i didnt know him. Same thing for the person im replying to. They know now, but they couldnt have known then, there's only so much information we can gather when you meet someone so you cant know if they are what you want.

  • @TADMECBJD
    @TADMECBJD Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +1

    My husband and I met in the military and the following week I met his family at his Grandpa's funeral. 11 months later he proposed, 6 days later we were married and this was 19 years ago. Still going strong!

  • @ml.5377
    @ml.5377 Pƙed rokem +4

    Took us 24 days from meeting each other to deciding we wanted to marry. 23 years and counting.

  • @mymyMelly
    @mymyMelly Pƙed rokem +39

    I met my partners parents after dating him 6 days. All of 6 days. We’ve been together 6 years now and I can truly say that his mum is my best friend.

  • @pamelaflynn1129
    @pamelaflynn1129 Pƙed rokem +49

    My parents met while she was on vacation. Met on a Wednesday, engaged on Friday, married 6 weeks later, my Dad came to the US 6 weeks after that. It will be 53 years this October.

  • @durere
    @durere Pƙed rokem +5

    Actually the more I like a girl, the less likely I'll be to bring her to momma. Cause I don't like my momma much.

  • @Ginlatay
    @Ginlatay Pƙed rokem +6

    What if everyone has met the mom😂 to find out all the girlfriends đŸ€ŠđŸŸâ€â™€ïžđŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïž

  • @vrichards4363
    @vrichards4363 Pƙed rokem +197

    The way mothers protect their sons. They can meet a new chick each week. That chick will never know. So you can meet his mom and still not be the one.

    • @davidhall2197
      @davidhall2197 Pƙed rokem +3

      That's because he goes home after his date home to meet his mom and asks his mom what she thought of the girl. If mom gives the thumbs down, you're history. But you are right, she may never know why.

    • @topwolf7025
      @topwolf7025 Pƙed rokem

      Facts

    • @topwolf7025
      @topwolf7025 Pƙed rokem +11

      @@davidhall2197 why would you want to date a man like that, who needs his mom approval to date someone. Just because you love a women doesn't mean your mom going to like her. I'm not going to stop talking to a woman because my mom don't like her

    • @davidhall2197
      @davidhall2197 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@topwolf7025 Have fun at Thanksgiving and Christmas.

    • @ekpedemendifon4902
      @ekpedemendifon4902 Pƙed rokem

      @@davidhall2197 đŸ€ŁđŸ˜†đŸ˜…đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł
      That'll be such miserable fun.đŸ€ŁđŸ˜…đŸ˜…

  • @jackhigdon6200
    @jackhigdon6200 Pƙed rokem +53

    The first time I saw my wife I knew I was going to marry her it's been 36 years now and I love her more now then ever .

  • @LustyVictoria
    @LustyVictoria Pƙed rokem +1

    I met his mum 2 years after we got married (they weren't on speaking terms) we went to visit, and she spent the entire time we were with her talking about his sister, I had alone time with the women in his family and they just asked about his work, nothing about me, my work, my family, nothing about him as a person... They just wanted to know what his work was like... Honestly, I'm glad they have gone back to not talking, there was no value in that relationship, and it caused him a lot of distress to try and maintain it.

  • @bettywinslow6387
    @bettywinslow6387 Pƙed rokem +1

    My husband didn't meet my parents until the day before our wedding. I met his mama pretty much right away. We've been married 50 years, with 4 kids and 1 granddaughter ( and a greatgrandson on the way)!

  • @realkg8573
    @realkg8573 Pƙed rokem +346

    See nowadays meeting mothers ain't shit ....Good old days

    • @jacquibailey7460
      @jacquibailey7460 Pƙed rokem +5

      I married my husband and I did not meet his mother exception to the rule I guess. It’s my ex now but that’s life.

    • @DateCult
      @DateCult Pƙed rokem +21

      @@jacquibailey7460 i think hes ex cuz you didn't meet hes mama

    • @dellis382
      @dellis382 Pƙed rokem +15

      Real King you took the words right outta my mouth...meeting Mummy or Daddy means nothing.

    • @Jujuumobi
      @Jujuumobi Pƙed rokem +11

      I’ve met many mamas and I’m African so that’s a big deal. However, except for one, I didn’t want to marry their sons. 🙄

    • @jacquibailey7460
      @jacquibailey7460 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@DateCult The point of the argument was when a guy is interested he let he meet his mother. Didn’t meet still got married. You have a lot of marriage end and they meet their spouses mother.
      It’s better to have married and not met mother than never to have married and meet mother.
      Love is a beautiful thing. I experience that for whatever reason it did not work, it hurt but you move on. Steve Harvey himself found his perfect soul mate on his third try so . There it is. Third time is the charm.

  • @purdyrose84
    @purdyrose84 Pƙed rokem +104

    Men take you to see their mom without a problem. I've met a lot of mama's but I'm single and I have never been married.

    • @sawadogomalgba5104
      @sawadogomalgba5104 Pƙed rokem +3

      It's may be You the problem.

    • @sawadogomalgba5104
      @sawadogomalgba5104 Pƙed rokem +1

      It's may be You the problem.

    • @topwolf7025
      @topwolf7025 Pƙed rokem +6

      I wouldn't say she is the problem. Some men just move to fast. If I'm feeling a woman I don't bring them to my mom, I take her around my sister's. That's who I'm close with and plus my mom didn't raise me.

    • @Prettyrissa
      @Prettyrissa Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +2

      I met most momma's. I was married before - no hurries for me to be married again. Not right now

  • @shirefernandez8826
    @shirefernandez8826 Pƙed rokem +1

    That maybe for some people but my husband & I was instantaneous. I met him & his mama pretty much at the same time. His mom doted on him before we spoke to each other. We knew as soon as our eyes locked on to each other.

  • @RenoBusdriver
    @RenoBusdriver Pƙed rokem +3

    My wife and I got married 11 months before our 1 year anniversary and been married 18 years. it's been a rollercoaster ride.

  • @dunzxoxo
    @dunzxoxo Pƙed rokem +15

    The first time I saw my future hubby, I knew I was going to marry him. Met his parents a week later. 6 weeks later he went overseas for 6 weeks. When he cam back we got engaged, 6 months later we were married. 2 years later when my second son was 7 months old, he went into town, told him not to go, but he still went. So, he had a bad accident. After coming out of hospital with both legs in plaster, he was sitting outside in the sun, when I went outside, realized I had dreamt of that scene and his accident about 5 years previously. Remember going to work and telling my friend and her saying that was my future husband, I laughed. But....how true her words were

  • @isabelkelly7717
    @isabelkelly7717 Pƙed rokem +11

    We knew the first day . It took a couple of months to make the transition. We have not parted since. We are a solid team now.

  • @perfectlyimperfect2368
    @perfectlyimperfect2368 Pƙed rokem +1

    My parents married 7 months into their relationship. Were madly in love for over 32 years until my dad passed 4 years ago.

  • @922Virgo
    @922Virgo Pƙed rokem +6

    Don’t count on meeting the mom. Some mothers get dragged into their sons crap. I’ve met so many of my cousins girlfriends because they’ve brought them by to grandmas house.

  • @toniivanova9360
    @toniivanova9360 Pƙed rokem +22

    That might be true. My husband took me to meet his mama 2 or 3 months after we began dating. It wasn't even so serious for me. I've realized how serious it is, when his mom told me, he never brought a girl there before and how worried she was that he'll never find someone. That was low blow but definitely helped me realize his feelings and that's something I shouldn't let go.

    • @yotajames4145
      @yotajames4145 Pƙed rokem +3

      Low blow?......glad you realized that was HUGE.

  • @l0v3lyzeblauj
    @l0v3lyzeblauj Pƙed rokem +50

    He ask me after 2 weeks got married and still with him after 26 years. Still so in love with him and we still sneak around the kids. Lol I love this man. I know I can't live without him ❀

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      ❀❀❀

  • @amatullah1510
    @amatullah1510 Pƙed rokem +1

    Took me 72 hours after talking with my husband and guardian. Two days later we were married. A week later I was moving out to live with him❀

  • @doriwilson6991
    @doriwilson6991 Pƙed rokem +1

    My parents were married 6 weeks after their first date. 52 years of marriage. My dad was in love with her at first sight. She thought he was crazy and told my aunt she thought he was going to propose to her and she was going to say no. But when he asked she said yes and they loved each other until he passed and still does because she still wears her wedding and engagement rings.

  • @gaylegreene
    @gaylegreene Pƙed rokem +57

    I wish I had met my husband’s mother was an alcoholic and so is he. Warning do your homework 😱

  • @yoshungoddess
    @yoshungoddess Pƙed rokem +66

    I have met the mothers of all my exes. We are still friends today. I'm not married I was not the oneđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł. I've met their whole family, spent days with great grandma and allđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł.

    • @adanser2765
      @adanser2765 Pƙed rokem +5

      I can relate to this except that they all thought I was The one ...but I don't lower my standards for a title...

    • @vpichardo63
      @vpichardo63 Pƙed rokem +3

      Same I met the whole family of my ex fiance and he cheated on me with another woman. I am happy because I met another man and I met his whole family as well. I am in no rush to get married since I still can't fully trust him because of my last relationship which I am working on it. He understands because of his last relationship.

    • @kam.kam.
      @kam.kam. Pƙed rokem

      Similar story!! 😂

    • @crownlethal2k187
      @crownlethal2k187 Pƙed rokem +1

      Super side chick

    • @nikajsify
      @nikajsify Pƙed rokem +1

      đŸ€€đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚

  • @karencool4061
    @karencool4061 Pƙed rokem +2

    I met my husband a long time ago and I've only met his mom by chance cuz I went to the house of a friend where she was. He moved and came back and within 2 weeks we were engaged. Just married in July.

  • @hortenciaangelo2282
    @hortenciaangelo2282 Pƙed rokem +6

    Engaged after 4 years married after 4. 3 kids and still counting 20 years now

  • @caroahc
    @caroahc Pƙed rokem +64

    Mmmmmm this guy introduced me to his family like a week after dating, and it scared the s out me. Three months later he was presenting his family to someone else. Lol

  • @mamatlacuacha
    @mamatlacuacha Pƙed rokem +19

    45 minutes. Still together over 7 years later.

  • @LGSW-mh2vz
    @LGSW-mh2vz Pƙed rokem +2

    I knew I wanted to marry my high school sweetheart after six months of dating, we got married on our second dating anniversary and had our first son later that year ❀ he really is my person, there’s no one I’d rather do life with đŸ„°

  • @sarahbrown852
    @sarahbrown852 Pƙed rokem +1

    3 days he proposed and 4 kids 13 years later happy as ever :)

  • @ngreat4390
    @ngreat4390 Pƙed rokem +5

    I knew in 17.2 seconds. That's how the Holy Spirit works

  • @Geno8630
    @Geno8630 Pƙed rokem +74

    On my fifth date, I took my girlfriend to meet my momma. We’ve been married 8 years this December. It took me two years to convince her to marry me.

  • @reallifetopicsrevealed7295

    *Thank God for this thread. It brings some hope back for humanity.*

  • @Beesmiles
    @Beesmiles Pƙed rokem +1

    My husband proposed after 1.5 months of us together, we only met a few weeks prior to us dating. We then we’re expecting our first child a few months after the proposal. We married after being together for 10 months, had another child when our oldest was 2 and now trying for our third. This Monday will mark 7yrs married, November hits 8yrs together ❀

  • @miriambernardez4994
    @miriambernardez4994 Pƙed rokem +39

    My male cousin introduced every single woman he has dated to his mother
 he is now 46 has around 10kids and yet to be marriedđŸ€·đŸœâ€â™€ïžđŸ€·đŸœâ€â™€ïžđŸ€·đŸœâ€â™€ïž

    • @pearlperfume28262
      @pearlperfume28262 Pƙed rokem +2

      Perhaps his mother forgotten how to raise him how to be a man and take responsibility

    • @realme-bb2sz
      @realme-bb2sz Pƙed rokem +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂that's messed up

  • @msladyg32
    @msladyg32 Pƙed rokem +110

    Actually, meeting mammas means absolutely NOTHING. She ain’t the one you’re marrying and he may not marry you even if you met his mamma. In fact, you and his mamma can be best friends and still doesn’t marry you

    • @sammyfranky2843
      @sammyfranky2843 Pƙed rokem +6

      Absolutely right, I was with someone for 4 years, and everything was fine but when a guy is scared about compromise, he will never be married. Even if takes you to introduce you to his family

    • @rayjperez003
      @rayjperez003 Pƙed rokem +3

      Speak the facts bro 💯

    • @CIRCLE655
      @CIRCLE655 Pƙed rokem

      Say it louder for the people in the back 📣

  • @jamieworrall1405
    @jamieworrall1405 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

    Steve Harvey knows what he is talking about!!! So true!!!

  • @lonalouison5334
    @lonalouison5334 Pƙed rokem +1

    I agree if you never make me meet your family that a bad sign

  • @ihavealotofnames
    @ihavealotofnames Pƙed rokem +32

    Definitely doesn’t mean much to meet parents when they take everybody home and the parents in on the shits too. But some people still take it seriously. And if you’ve never met them, probably a lot of info in that.

    • @ninalewis9933
      @ninalewis9933 Pƙed rokem +4

      Met my in-laws 1 week before the wedding, even though we'd dated over a year and both families lived in the same city.
      After meeting them I understood why he'd been reluctant, but I should have seen that as a super red flag...the trauma he, his mom, and his siblings endured scarred them all and made relationships difficult for most of them, including mine. You should know everything there is to know about that future partner AND their family, cause it (the truth) all comes out in the wash!!!

  • @fatsiddog
    @fatsiddog Pƙed rokem +22

    Takes me multiple years. Dodged a lot of bullets by being patient.

  • @kristenlamb4632
    @kristenlamb4632 Pƙed rokem +1

    my mom met my dad and 3 months later they were engaged and 7 months later they got married. their 24th wedding anniversary is this month.

  • @louisetilbury3443
    @louisetilbury3443 Pƙed rokem +1

    Took me second sight to know I would marry my man. Within 6 months we bought a house and 11 years on we have 4 children and built a life. Life is good when you have your soul mate & best friend. When you know, you just know. ❀

  • @ariel.awaitss
    @ariel.awaitss Pƙed rokem +4

    I knew the moment I looked in his eyes. I kid you not, I heard my late Grandma's voice say my name...it sounded like a whisper in the wind

  • @cuqiie1
    @cuqiie1 Pƙed rokem +39

    With the men out in these streets these days it ain't the case. Back in the days if you are introduced to the mum or family, he is into you and you are the one. These days if you like, they will introduce you to all their ancestors dead and alive, it doesn't mean shit. It's just a format.

    • @dellis382
      @dellis382 Pƙed rokem +1

      Dakuba Dakuba, I like it he will introduce you to all his ancestors dead or alive...😆😃

    • @sharettethomas7509
      @sharettethomas7509 Pƙed rokem

      @@dellis382 đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł you made my day!

    • @tptobias
      @tptobias Pƙed rokem

      He is talking about men not boys;)

    • @carolynj1014
      @carolynj1014 Pƙed rokem

      They will say or do ANYTHING 2 get laid

  • @TheMurray1922
    @TheMurray1922 Pƙed rokem +1

    I definitely knew off the bat, and that feeling only deepened.

  • @SultryNeoSoul
    @SultryNeoSoul Pƙed rokem +1

    I agree my husband asked me at 6 months what are we doing here? What you think about life? Like we not dating just to date. 11 years later we are happily married and enjoying life’s journey together ♄

  • @yolandaserrano1240
    @yolandaserrano1240 Pƙed rokem +6

    My husband didn’t introduced me to his mom or dad because they passed away years before we met, but on our first date he introduced me to his brother, sister, nephew, his brother in low and Evel one of the neighbors!! â€ïžđŸ˜ƒ

  • @bonniewilson9709
    @bonniewilson9709 Pƙed rokem +11

    I meet his family and we been together for 30 years..

  • @zorahoffish2610
    @zorahoffish2610 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    I met his granny in 5 months of us dating. His granny and grandad raised him. He calls her his mom.
    2 years and 3 months going strong❀

  • @Delisorotties
    @Delisorotties Pƙed rokem

    He introduced me to his colleagues at work, 2 of his sisters and his parents in the first month. I knew he was hooked ❀

  • @michellemyhrvold4734
    @michellemyhrvold4734 Pƙed rokem +43

    We were already engaged before I met his mother. I had already met his father but we were only dating for 2 months before we became engaged and married 6 months after our first date. Still happily married after 37 years.

    • @dianejohnson17
      @dianejohnson17 Pƙed rokem +1

      I am so happy to hear that you've been with the love of your life for 37 years. Me and my husband were married for 38 years 4 years ago he passed away and there is no one else that I feel will replace the love of my life. Enjoy every minute of every day with your husband. Love. Laugh. Maybe even fight. But make memories we never know what's going to happen. Take nothing for granted.

    • @michellemyhrvold4734
      @michellemyhrvold4734 Pƙed rokem

      @@dianejohnson17 thank you. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what I'd do if I loss my Mike.

  • @arleneaugustahair8393
    @arleneaugustahair8393 Pƙed rokem +54

    đŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïžđŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïžđŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïž My husband and I got married after 5 months. We’ve been together for going on 16 years.

    • @sheenalynn8664
      @sheenalynn8664 Pƙed rokem

      Wow. That's not common. You must be a great catch 😏

  • @latoyagant5155
    @latoyagant5155 Pƙed rokem +1

    Thanks Steve Harvey.. my burden is lifted from my heart now. Amen. đŸ™đŸœ

  • @mlp63
    @mlp63 Pƙed rokem +28

    1st date meet his children 2nd date meet his mother 3rd date meet his father and step mom 4th date asked me to marry him. 38 years later still counting .

  • @luveniag107
    @luveniag107 Pƙed rokem +5

    I KNOW A GUY THAT TAKES EVERY WOMEN THAT HE IS DATING TO MEET HIS MOTHER....MOST OF THEM THOUGHT THAT TO MEAN, " I'M SPECIAL!" THINKING THAT THEY WERE MRS. RIGHT BUT THEY WERE MISS RIGHT NOW...SAD BUT TRUE. THERE IS A SCIENCE TO DEVELOP HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. TIME, TIME, PEOPLPE TIME.

    • @boundariessetinstone5893
      @boundariessetinstone5893 Pƙed rokem +1

      Yup I’ve known guys like this too and there’s married men who introduced their wives to their mamas and cheating on them right now Lol.

  • @aymani1
    @aymani1 Pƙed rokem +1

    i got engaged after 2 months of official dating & after knowing each other for 7 months. going on 3 years this year

  • @rholloway717
    @rholloway717 Pƙed rokem

    I agree. 90 days to like you. 90 days more to show your true colors .....

  • @vanessasmall1288
    @vanessasmall1288 Pƙed rokem +19

    Nawwhh it's when he takes you to meet "The Father* cause he's getting ready to leave his mama!! And cleave to you!!....

  • @LightAmVibed12317
    @LightAmVibed12317 Pƙed rokem +36

    Lol this is a good way for some. But not all. Some parents aren't that good with their kids.

    • @tuereredivine9821
      @tuereredivine9821 Pƙed rokem

      Whew Chile! This the one right here. You hit the nail on the head frfr.

  • @karlohunjak1331
    @karlohunjak1331 Pƙed rokem +1

    Heres how i found out she was the one. We went on a concert and met there. Soon after we started talking and going out and in few times that we went out and talked over insta we have covered every single aspect of our lives, what we plan for future and all. And while we didnt have much to talk about we still went to coffee and for a walk only to look at each other and give each other smiles. When we were going for fast food i nearly got slapped bcs i wanted to pay. Its not much but simple little things prove she might be and infact is the one.

  • @emaleemorton2963
    @emaleemorton2963 Pƙed rokem

    My husband and I met our senior year of high school. We met November 2008, engaged February 2009, married June 2009. Had our first baby in 2014. We have been married for 13 years, 3 sweet kiddos together, and I am so thankful for this man!

  • @PlayToTeachSpeech
    @PlayToTeachSpeech Pƙed rokem +16

    Most days I wish I’d never met her 😂😂😂

    • @steffaely
      @steffaely Pƙed rokem +1

      Best comment! đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @debibeaver8217
      @debibeaver8217 Pƙed rokem +1

      I can share that thought

  • @dunkinking
    @dunkinking Pƙed rokem +6

    Sounds about right. I started looking for rings Six months in. I’ve dated a few girls before my fiancĂ© for a year or two at a time and the thought never crossed my mind.

  • @talithalutterman5167
    @talithalutterman5167 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +1

    My husband knew I was the one on our first date. Here we are having celebrated 3 wonderful years of marriage.

  • @tracy3071
    @tracy3071 Pƙed rokem +1

    His mother chose me for him ❀

  • @ttaylor8239
    @ttaylor8239 Pƙed rokem +11

    It took 9 years and a brain tumor diagnosis for my dude to finally propose to me. He moves about as fast as one legged sloth.

  • @FirstLast-yq9wl
    @FirstLast-yq9wl Pƙed rokem +3

    Met my wife early ‘04, got engaged the week after. Married later that year. Had our son late ‘06. Still together today, I scored big time!!!

  • @nicoledeloncrais5940
    @nicoledeloncrais5940 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Truth right there. My husband had me in the car on a road trip for 10 hrs, one way, just to meet his Mediterranean mama and ALL his sisters. It was about 5 months in.

  • @angelatinaking5664
    @angelatinaking5664 Pƙed rokem +2

    This is true. If your Mother is not alive, it will be another respected Family member who they look up to. Someone said that some Black Men's Mother's are emotionally in love with their Sons...The majority of Mothers of Black Men will tell them NOT to bring different girlfriends to her unless she is THE ONE because they don't want to be involved in any B.S. I grew up watching my GrandMother say this to my Uncles. She was not having that. Can you imagine trying to get close to 5 Women? That's not a good place to be.

  • @RobotLegJim
    @RobotLegJim Pƙed rokem +44

    When I was dating my future wife for about a month, her mother told her “He’s the one”, and my mother said “She’s the one!”
    We had 40+ amazing years together.