Why You Should Avoid Nightclubs
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- In this video I put forth the rationale for avoiding nightclubs, based upon some prior experiences and my observations over the years. As always think critically and make up your own mind. I hope you enjoy it!
The videos that inspired me:
Luimarco: • Video
Sandman: • Nightclubs - MGTOW
Aaron Clarey: • The Death of the Night...
My 'MGTOW By Default' video:
• A MGTOW by Default?
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Never been in a nightclub and never will go there. Absolutely hellish place.
Artem Tsuker Your not missing much. It’s all designed to rob you blind of your money and then send you packing sexually frustrated. Only fools rush in!
used to go to clubs/bars at my early 20's, don't remember a single time when at the end of the night I wasn't frustrated or angry when returning home...
same. when going out 10 years at nightclubs i realized that i have never f*cked anyone after bar night (still i am not virgin). i was so angry i could kill someone.
everytime same things happen. i find interesting girls at the club. then she disappears, then next time i see she is with a guys. and then i try search new. and soon the night is over and i am watching everyone having a partner and i go alone at home angry and frustrated and wondering that the hell i did wrong.
Deadass same thing happen to me. I only pulled one chick from a bar and I had to tell her straight up I want to smash. He bullshit with me for a bit but I stood my ground. Later that night we went to her house and I smashed
That is why I stopped going early on. It amazes me that mass shootings at night clubs are not a every day occurrence
Hey everyone, clubs used to be good about 10 years ago,a time when you can go and pick up ,not like today the dress codes are poor , girls like ugly goofy guys and the music is shit. I'd still take going out to clubs insted of going with escorts.
@@Adam-on6hl fuck yet rather get a call girl 💰 and cut right to the chase 💪
I hate nightclubs with passion. Waste of money, loud and too much booze. I hate alcohol so much. I'd rather go to a brothel instead. My country (Australia) it's legal so yeah.
Sherbet_Bomb Lucky Aussies!
@@masteryoda498 How much are the brothels
Spot on observation.
I never went clubbing all that often. However, I now bitterly regret spending so much money to get into these hostile places, buy drinks and then having to pay for a taxi home.
Once upon a time a prince asked a beautiful princess ' Will you marry me ? ' and the princess said ' No ' and the prince lived happily ever after .....
Universal, a waste of a mans time, true, stay far away from clubs guys! You can get drunk at home for far less!
and a relaxing movie
Even doing karaoke at the comfort of your own home!
Bars and nightclubs were the bane of my exsistence.
I have never gone to nightclubs. But I am most grateful for the insight you gave me on this subject. My conclusion is the clubs plant women who are not really attainable but just there to create illusions of opportunity. And in places where women are looking, they are no catch. They are the booby prize you get at a carnival and the like, when you loose.
I like to be who I am and not be a puppet for someone else. Great Job!
That's an accurate depiction, and I like the fact that you used the word unattainable. I doubt the women are unattainable in the sense that they're better than the men around them but instead they already have dick at home and go out simply for an ego boost.
Truth1 You’ve must have done some research or have very good common sense. The clubs do hire women to sit at the bar (usually half naked) and that’s to get us weak kneed men to buy more alcohol. It’s an old practice that goes back as far as the nightclub has been around. Another reason not to go these disgusting vomit basins.
I went to one nightclub in my uni days and the girl who dragged me there asked what I thought a day later: 'posers and expensive lager' was my answer...so I learned faster than the average chap...
I'm glad I stop going to nightclubs long time ago...it's a very toxic environment. I hate it when I did it in my early 20s til the age of 25. At 25 years old, I stop going altogether and start taking life seriously. It's a waste of time, energy, and money. I never look back and it's better that way.
When women get older they start losing their looks which is the ultimate karma, other than looks they don't have any other power to use
I stopped going to clubs but some of my friends pay me $300 a night to be their driver to clubs and i usually sit in a corner being sober while they drink and try to pick up women and keep getting rejected time and time again and those women keep trying to get my attention but i just ignore them and that kind seems to annoy them and its fun to watch.
300 a night... I would definitely do that
Hopefully you see this, turned 21 this passed March and the same thing. It's sad because literally doing that they get pissed at you. Attention seeking and want to embarrass you or make you look stupid. That's really sad for society at its lows. I don't want to gentrification everyone but people who usually go to bars no matter female, male, whatever, have issues within. Just the summer alone which is about to end it's already old to me. And saves me money, college student anyways. It's overhyped in my opinion. Just stay home, have some friend over and drink. And if no friends, which I've been there before, well just d you enjoy yourself.
I used to go to clubs. I never really enjoyed them but I attended because that was what everyone did. They were loud, expensive and crowded. Not really a good place for an introverted guy like myself. I never did have any "success" because I was nervous and shy by disposition. The only interest shown towards me was by a man but that was not not my orientation. Sometimes I would be escorted out by a bouncer who thought I was bringing down the tenor of the place.
At least I never met any bouncers who were into recreational thuggery. I knew a couple of guys who were worked over by bouncers and had to seek medical attention. They are truly awful places and most of the bouncers are usually on parole from the last time they were in prison.
Its fun to go out,and i did the nightclub/pub thing alot in my late teens early twentys...I had some good results but most nights ended in frustration if im honest...it seems to be 80% blokes in most places you go which causes to much competition among men...i dont want to be in a club were 8 blokes dance around i girl,and your right.. average girls love this because it makes them feel special and all women love attention!! Ive also seen how women work when ive been out with a group of them,they laugh and take the piss out of men even when they are approuched in honest or nice ways
+john atkinson Thanks John for all of your thoughts, comments and perspective. I'm thrilled that you enjoy my musings on the channel and I look forward to putting out further material. Thanks for the support!
your right pal
+draco6543 "Dancing Cocks" Bingo! Perfect description. I'm imagining these douche bags now . . . lol.
I seen them march through the town centre singing
“Men are wankers, men are shit,
They can’t find our fucking clit”
It used to bed safe in my grandmas day to go around at night but now I can see how those who are unhinged by all this behaviour take things too far!
Nightclubs is where u pick up hos, that's it.
If you pick up at all. In all actuality, most women just go to clubs for free alcohol and attention not to get laid. I'm not claiming that it's impossible though.
You’re projecting.
And STD"s.
These sluts pay for promiscuous behaviour in STDS and cervical cancer. The risk increases with each partner. Oral does too. The church got it right. Monagamous sex with your husband or wife and be faithful.
I buy a 30 pack of Coors for around $21.00 so for simple math if those beers cost a mere $3.00 each that 30 pack would run $90.00 well for $90.00 I can pick up four 30 packs and enjoy those while working and improving on my house/car.
Im starting to get tired of the nightclub. I dont get laid nor get a phone number. Tbh i dont even approach women or buy any drinks for them. Im slowly getting out of the club scene.
Extremely well articulated mate! Love your work.
Agreed on the nightclubs. Always hated them and gave up a long time ago. I have spent the past years going to karaoke bars on my nights off. After years of practise and picking up the guitar I usually wind up beeing the best singer in the house. I go in my car, don´t drink and just have a good time. I get loads of attention from girls, even though I am only about a 5.
I had the same experiences in nightclubs and have the same thoughts about them.
That applies especially to the females who can be found therein.
The main reason why I don,t set foot in bars & nightclubs is because of all the BS not only with the women, but I hate the manginas, even more, starting with the oaf at the door, last time a woman who got into a spat with the guy she was with, gets up whispers to the bartender who calls the bouncer over to throw the guy out, no doubt she instigated the whole thing so she could get attention plus a free drink.A man can,t ever win in a place like that.
Good video and accurate. Thank you. It's always nice to hear that I'm not alone in thinking about things the way you just described. It was difficult when I was younger, because I was the only one of my friends that saw it for what it really was.
+Rexasaurus Brent It's great knowing this - I for one didn't realise I was a MGTOW for many years until coming across the online community. I now take solace in the fact that I came across it by accident, and am thankful every day for it. Thanks for your comments dude.
+Simply Strength I just discovered your channel, and I like your videos, but don't like that you listen to scam man and douchey marco, no disrespect but you must be fairly new to mgtow, cuz those guys are certainly not mgtow, they are more like mra and pua respectively... now if you wan real mgtow material I highly suggest you check out the following channels, barbarossaaaa aka bar bar and stardusk aka thinking ape, those guys are the real deal
I'm 19. Just come back from clubbing. Never going again
What a great video! What I like in particular, is how you expanded on all the different things that you could be doing/spending your money on insteaf. ;)
+Vladimir Makarov Cheers Vlad, glad you enjoyed it.
At the risk of sounding immodest, most times I go out I am able to go home with a good looking girl. But the noteworthy thing is that I'm often to drunk to really enjoy (or sometimes remember) the sex. Its not worth it. I don't drink often but when I do it always has detracts from my training for a few days after.
Having spent time in clubs was a big reason for me seeking out MGTOW.
One of these times you are going to bring a good looking girl home and fast forward a few days the police will find you naked, robbed and dead with a condom stretched over your head, used as the murder weapon.
matt smith or good looking trans male.
Great video brother!
Brilliant video. Agreed!
I'm MGTOW but I love nightclubs the lights the music ... It's good just don't get sucked into it.... Like everything women find a way to benefit it
You're not trying to find a way to benefit? Yall need therapy.
This vid is a classic!
I'll download it.
These days the only club i visit is my local working men's club - even then it's once in a blue moon. I only go for the restaurant or to watch the rugby with friends over a quiet pint or three then once the ladies come out after the game i head for home. Even working men's clubs are not immune from promiscuous women but it's not as concentrated as in the ordinary pubs and nightclubs but after being burnt by these slappers many a time i don't risk it anymore.
I blame movies for giving nightclubs such an epic and fun visualization. Not just that, it's also games like GTA: The balad of gay tony, and lots and lots of songs.
Spot on friend! Subscribed!
Amazing video man
Nice video. Hanks!
Awesome video
personally I think night clubs and even the old discos were where for people to meet, find love and relationships.. sadly at some point its become nothing more than a place for one night stands .hence I would never pull at one because you could never be sure of her history. you would be taking a very large risk. its overpriced drink. ive seen the violence outside some and would not stick around. I can see why some are closing with things like tinder.
Hey, Matt. I just found your videos. **Subscribed**. I could tell by your voice you are a handsome guy. Im a handsome guy myself and have had similar experiences. Currently, I do not go to bars or clubs, I've been 9 months sober from drugs and alcohol, I have a spiritual life and a job. I enjoy my life without a gf or wife. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
I used to go to clubs in my early 20's and all of the girls that i did bring back home were the lowest kind of bar trash. So no its not worth it, if you want sex you would be better served paying an escort/prostitute.
Great video , subbed :)
Spot on
Just subbed. Exactly. Why should I tailor myself? Good stuff.
Great video nightclub is pretty much dead anyway.
Women dress how they do, to compete with the other women they might find at the club, then hope men buy them drinks but will never get anything more than fake number or a real number but will never be able to get a hold of her. It’s a game. Seduce the men, make them think they can have us then dump them just like that.
Quality advice
I’ve never been to a nightclub before...
Still GOLD after 6 years🤘🏾
Ugh preach my dude
it really depend on you how you approach woman in the club. You have to be consistent with woman and i always stay away from females who ask me to buy them drink. Ask them if they want to dance and strike a conversation with them.
There will be moments of you going to a nightclub or a bar. Bars are becoming more tolerable, but hopefully there will be a new kind of place where both guys and girls are humble.
If I go to a nightclub, i'll go to one in Thailand. At least I know the price up front.
How I Enjoy The Nightlife Without Sacrificing My Dignity
Hi. I'm Professor Cos. I usually don't go to nightclubs unless admission is free, or I know the bouncer/owner, or it's an elegant, mature place where everyone is dressed up and I just wanna be there to enjoy the atmosphere. I don't like going to these dark dungeon type clubs unless it's an after hours or unless I'm going dancing with a girl (we go dutch of course). I prefer lounges and pubs full of extroverts where you can butt into conversations or make new acuaintances who have things in common with you. And that works for a person like myself who likes to socialize with strangers.
However, when I do choose to go clubbing, I like going really early and securing myself by the bar. I exchange a friendly word with the bouncer and then introduce myself to a bartender that will take care of me should someone try to take my seat or spike my drink. I prefer sitting by the bar because girls always hit on me when they're waiting to buy their drinks and guys are always posing at the bar begging chicks to do shots with them, showering them with compliments and taking up lots of space like they're some type of superhero, which makes me stand out as a decent human being. These knuckleheads seem to think it's cool to slam their glasses down after downing their drink before returning to the dance floor.
In case I need to tell you, the dance floor is generally the last place you want to be if you're a guy. That's the attention whore's playground. You're just gonna blend in with the thirsty simps and pussy beggars. Chicks usually have their guard up and they also have their girlfriends sniffing you up and down and being defensive. Plus those broads are usually drunk and have to be fighting off unwanted grabs and approaches from men they're not interested in.
Sometimes I stand in a corner by myself and a girl will come up to me and ask me if I want to dance. I must add that I'm never the guy that's wandering around looking like he's lost. I'm either in my own zone getting my groove on, or I'm having a blast with my buddies by the bar or at my table or booth. The more you walk around aimlessly, the more you look like a guy searching for pussy. You're also likely to step on some black guy's shoes which might cause him to go to his car and get a gun or a knife and come after you. Yes, I'm exaggerating, but seriously, a lot of these black guys tend to throw hissy fits when you accidentally step on their shoes. Less walking around also means you're less likely to have some clumsy idiot spill his or her drink on you, or bump in to you, then blaming you for spilling his or her drink.
Another way I like to enjoy the night is going bar hopping and visiting as many free admission bars as I can. I don't howl or hiss at any females no matter how attractive, or no matter how naked they are. These women are on the prowl for male attention and it sickens me to see men making the mistake of giving these attention whores what they came for. I never offer a woman a drink, I never ask a woman to dance... Unless she's flirting with me or we've both been having a convo for more than 20 minutes. I never compliment a woman, I just act friendly and use my body language to convey my interest. Chicks that are not fans of dumb bimbos/attention whores or macho idiots/posers easily spot me and notice that I'm different and eventually approach me.
Btw, guys who go out for the sole purpose of getting laid have the stink of death. It's not hard to spot them, they're sexually frustrated and socially awkward. They're naive and shameless and have no pride in their stride. If you happen to be a social rookie and want to learn some behavioural tips, observe the behavior of these men and do the exact opposite. I used to think that it was women who caused me to hate clubs. I realized that it was actually the men with no dignity and self respect, who accommodate and reinforce the behavior of these childish personality disordered females who made me hate clubs.
you might be on to something....but i don't agree with the wall flower approach. that almost never works.
It's funny how white guys race bait but accuse everyone else of doing the same thing. Projection at its finest. Everything else that you said was mostly on point though.
Why are you going after 8/9s knowing that your a 7, expecting people out your league to want you and then getting annoyed when they dont. Isn't it common sense for both girls and guys to go after those on a same level as you.
exactly.. the logic.... -_-...
jesus you dont go to parties to meet women! you go to dance! if not then your there for the wrong reason, or your at the wrong parties! Sure most clubs are going to be this way but there is a scene out of the mainstream context that is less ego drivin and just about good music and dancing. No goons standing around the dance floor or shit like that. If your not there for the music and to dance get out! So i do agree that most mainstream clubs can be shit shows which is always interesting to watch lol! but this seems to be overgeneralizing the whole scene a bit.
why did you hit on 8 and 9's and expected anything else but rejection?
lol exactly...sounds like this guy had too high an ego though I agree fuck clubs
they reject men even if they are 2
Why wouldn't he go after the women that he finds attractive when less attractive women are just as likely, if not more likely, to act stuck up towards him. Plus if I were to pay money to hang out with women, then I'm going to go after something that I can't see by going to the local mall or supermarket.
So he should have gone after an ugly landwhale? Problem is the girls at these places know guys will buy them everything, nightclubs are not a place where to find quality women.
Take a nine take a water hose hose her down. With the makeup off she’s a five not a ten. Big difference:)
so true dude when you think back on it just dumb.
I second that.
This summarises my experiences of nightclubs perfectly LOL
+Autonomous Male LOL thanks bro.
Commentary: Looking at it from a cost/benefit analysis the bar loses out majorly every single time. Let's assume the cover charge for argument's sake is $15, between the low and high end. That's just to get in the door of course.
For $15 (or less), you can get a monthly subscription to Netflix, Hulu, big time MMO games, or other forms of electronic entertainment which usually is far more interesting and/or a whole lot more entertainment per dollar spent.
Sure you need internet and a computer, but a few nights of bartabs can net you internet access (again for the whole month vs just a few nights of a few hours of questionable entertainment).
For $15 I can get a pound of premium steak and enjoy a couple good steak dinners.
For $30 (2 nights cover) I can get a case of soda and a decent enough big bottle of booze that will last me most of the month.
A nice BBQ with friends and some drinks is far more fun to me than going to a crowded loud-ass bar or club and all the drama it comes with.
Unless there is a live band I want to see or some other event I'm interested in....bars and clubs are a complete waste.
agreed. i live in calgary, alberta and i'm done with the 'night club' life, i spend my cash on my car and my bike...
i'm not really socially geared anyways...people fucking suck. especially when drunk
Night clubs should be shut down globally because all they do is preach about mens mental health yet one of the reasons why men are depressed is night clubs. Especially if that men has a gf
It's funny cause I realized this really early that's why I didn't spend much money at all and didn't jock girls I just did clubs to socialize and dance randomly with girls only got drunk a few times and it's not that expensive here so it wasn't to bad but agree about what you said they are about in general that's why I stopped a loooooong time ago, and I've never really been a huge drinker.
never did like night clubs, within 3 minutes (or less), I get ringing in my ears from the blaring noisy music. I'll go to a night club if I want to go deaf early.
Agreed one hundred per cent, also my advise to men would be to avoid stag parties and sun holidays. Thay are also cringworthy and shit!
After the music became just a repetition of an 8 bar loop for 10 minutes of terrible crap, I just gave up on clubs.
I've never gone to any nightclub in almost during my whole life after my many try for drinking beer and alcohol but unsuccessful...
Early blackpill, this. Good one.
I still say a good Pet is your best life long friend. Some Bitch will never define me.
Bars? Yeah, they suck.
The Gathering Of The Juggalos are an exception.
Never been to a nightclub. Uncomfortable places honestly.Lived in Vegas 17 year maybe. Door entry fee there is $20 to $60 dollars for men.
They can be ok if youre the type of bloke who can pull birds easily and a tough guy otherwise forget it
You are telling my story and singing my song. Frankly, you can spend the price of 1 - 3 drinks at a bar on a full bottle of alcoholic beverage, drink it at home, not get arrested, and not have to deal with anyone else. You spend less cash and get fewer hassles.
10:17-10:30 real truth
I like nightclubs, especially the rock and indie alternative clubs where you can wear what you want : )
I've also never been searched for a weapon haha
I also get served in like 5 minute
Just buy vodka mixers for cheaper drinks
In NYC clubs they got lockers for your weapons.
Ur sad ngl
Be like , biatch ..get in line
drinking and gambling is a fun alternative lol
If only I found a CountryWestern NightCub
Fire is always caused in those Nighclubs out there.
"A tray of mutated meat and grease"
So if you were scoring with chicks? Your perception in going out to clubs would be the other way around. You would be investing your time and money for the following weekend and see who is next on your plate.. Either way, the man has to keep himself busy and focus on his purpose..
i dont think many guys at all gets layed from clubs. Its all lies! If girls wanted sex there, many guys would get laid (including me). But it never happens!
It does for me. It happens.
Even though I have picked up MANY women from nightclubs I agree 100%. I certainly never intended on finding a "girlfriend" there, because it was simply sport and we treated it as such. Idk...Perhaps that is why I was successful. That aside, I just seem to gradually realize that it was all nonsense and a waste. You speak truth.
Woman have been using me. But it's over now
Last night the last night in my holiday a girl came up to me ruled herself on me and then kissed me and before hand I literally just dine nothing and gave her no attention
@9:30 bakari henderson
Not
You get more women if you work at the club then if you just go there.
Girls in bars could care less about getting laid. Want proof? Go to a club and notice, at the end of the night, how many girls and guys leave alone. With just the slightest effort, those single girls could get laid , yet make ZERO effort. Think about it, lads!
I find bouncers and staff 2b very rude !
Actually, this is kind of great idea on Alpha test. Go there few times and make women offer you a drink! :P about this 9.5 girl - you've seen "The Beautiful Mind", haven't you? :)
Go up to a girl and ask her to buy you a drink lol trying to pull is where you go wrong. Go have a dance try make some friends.
you really do have a good point but still you need to enjoy your life because you are not going to be young forever. I know it can be frustrating to talk to females sometimes especially when you are trying to get lay. But you need to realize the more you go out the more you are going to be lucky in getting lay with woman. But at the same time you can pursue your dreams or work on improving your educational skills.But you need to cut people off and be a strong and be able to say no to crap woman been trying to pull on guys. In order to train your brain to do that you have to consistently work on improving your games. Don't get me wrong it can't be frustrating but it will pay off because you will be able to tell if you are really into a girls what type of personality she has by the way she speaks. You can only do that after you have a lot of experience with females. I was lucky that i was in the military and station in Germany for 6 years and got lay a lot while i was over there. When a girl is trying to play game with me i immediately recognize those tricks. A person with not much experience will find out when it is too late if they are being taken advantage of.
JEFFREY LACHAUD I understand where you are coming from, I really do, it's just that I have divergent priorities. Whilst I'm young I feel that I need to maximise my skills, knowledge and experience so that I can become successful. Every time I've been to clubs I leave thinking 'what a complete and utter waste of time and money' - these are the two KEY resources for any man. Hence, I put those resources into things that actually give back more than a 7 second orgasm at best, and an empty wallet at worst. I think it's entirely possible to enjoy life without venturing into a nightclub, I for one am happy now. If you are good at game and doing your thing makes you happy then more power to you, thanks for the input.
Just have a girlfriend and leave it at that. I know being single is the new best norm, but I think being in a good relationship with the right person is the best norm there is. Longer form of happiness than just trying to pick up different girls. Or just be an escort or a porn star. At least you will get paid for it, haha
I am happy I have gone to night club or party
youve heard of crazy feminists well this is a crazy meninist lighten up bro
You know meninists do not actually exist right? Meninism is a parody of feminism.
+Azides but there ARE such thing as mennonites.
mennonite women are bloody hot
Seriously, Collin? You think that not wanting to hang out in bars is "crazy"? Your world must be a very limited place.
well i have now seen that you actually talked about pick up, what you need to understand ia that pickup is about expressing yourself better and not about "changing" at all
its a shame that you dont try to put yourself out there and let your ego keep you from talking to girls, "constant rejection mqkes you feel like you are worthless as a man" that's your ego being hurt
i would recomqnd you chack out rsd stuff
You say you are a 7, but you are approaching girls 9.5, a 9.5 is the same as a top tier model, why would she want to be with you? why did you not approach girls who are the same attractiveness as you, also, you was a student, who was most likely in debt. she could date a man who is a 9.5, who is older and established, rather than a randy less attractive student who is in debt looking for free sex.
The other point is why are you approaching girls who have not asked you to approach them? Why are you cold calling on girls that have not given you any reason to believe they want you? In nature apart from humans that get it the wrong way around, it is the male that 'displays' and the female hunts 'picks' the male. You was doing it the wrong way around. After this failure you then decided to take yourself out of the mating game with MGTOW.
you have terrible game so you are agry with the girls? maybe you should try to improve your ability to comunicate and express yourself, i can hear you neediness clearly "she was my ideal type of woman" how would you know that before even talking to her? you are projecting qualities that you want on women before even knowing them
+deathtoislam1000 my belief is that you were not listening at all.
Pan tera i was, i was listening to all this complaining, and it comes down to the fact that the guy thinks that the only way to have fun is if you drink and that the world crumbles is a girl rejects you
I have no love for nightblubs and i dont go to them, but if you think you should just give up on talking to women youre an idiot