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The Benefits of Living Alone - MGTOW
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- čas přidán 19. 08. 2024
- In this blog I discuss some of the advantages of living alone based on past and present experience.
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I have lived alone for 23 years, and it's the only lifestyle for me, I'm 47 now never married with no kids and believe me, life is great, my home is all paid for, my bank account is healthy and my job is decent, I'm a MGTOW, and will be a MGTOW for the rest of my life, MGTOW is freedom....
Yep. Once they start using sex like currency it's game over.
The longer you are independent and self reliant, your confidence increases. You realize you don't need somebody else's permission to live your life. Answer to nobody. I wouldn't trade my freedom for anything. MGTOW for life.
There's nothing better than enjoying your own company .
Bang on!
Anas Zakiri most deffinetly and walking around in my own space
"There are two types of men that can live alone; Angels and Demons." - Proverbs.
It's a great asset to be happy with your own company.Not many people can do this.
Anas Zakiri Ahd Hoover ing the place ..
come home from a horrible days work,walk into your apartment,close the door,throw the bolt and listen.What do you hear? Nothing.Its beautiful.
Exactly what occurred to me. Horrible day at work. events a high performer. But coming in, turning on the TV with youtube, making something to eat and no nagging or stress! Great!
I love living alone. Was always walking on eggshells when I lived with my girlfriend.
"Being alone for a while is dangerous. It's addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people anymore" - Tom Hardy
living alone is learning to love/know yourself, something within yourself.
+STARLORD It's difficult if you aren't used to it but it's amazingly beneficial in the long term.
I've literally seen that exact line in magazines advising single, middle aged women.
That's right.. I myself never stop learning, and the more you learn new important things, the more important you become..
I think every man in this world got the same question.. Problem is, how is he gonna solve it for himself??
And that is something that a woman wont stand for !!
I used to feel mildly guilty for enjoying living alone. Now I'm actually quite proud of it...and make it known. Freedom is priceless.
+Buck Weet Freedom and self-determination are your birthright and are not to be thrown away, that's for certain.
It is something to be proud of as you survive and avoided the bullshit of Terminal Social Conformity and are actually living, breathing and practicing TRUE Independence. (Not just pretended it whilst leaching off someone else who's giving you a cushy safety net to fall back on no mater what)
I've left Social media and Standard Media and I've lived alone for almost 3 years. It really shows you how self sufficient you can be and gives you so many self validation/empowerment moments. I love living my life on my terms...
I awoke after my divorce and i am never going back
Rock Forever Don't you ever. .and when you feel the need...just sit down and read
Same here man!
A woman's biggest fear is being alone, a man finds being alone, peaceful!!! Who needs who?!?
Festering Bull Amen!
Women needs a man more but this feminist movement blocking their blessings
draco6543 👏👏👏👏
Ive literally never heard a man say this in life...you are chasers by nature...but glad you guys are evolving
@@afakespaceKudos for having the "balls" to comment, but the message to take away is:
"We Don't Know you. We don't Need you. We Don't Want you".
You made this particular bed....(not you personally)
So have a nice lie down.
Totally agree. I have tried the life of having women live with me, women with kids living with me. It just doesn't work. I would never go back to that lifestyle. They all tried to use up my time and resources with their stupid shit. My privacy, independence, and extra money is never getting traded for that again. Stay single, and stay living in your place alone.
i will never live with a woman again . i live a simple cheap life . she lived a fast food, starbucks, cable bill, ac on 24/7 . nothing but a headache and bills .
It's much easier to be alone and unhappy than with someone and unhappy.
I've been alone my whole life almost so for me living alone is quite natural. Plus I can't stand roommates. I mistakenly thought women would be a better roommate but was much worse. Even when I was married or living with a woman, I always felt alone. Women have a strange way of making you feel alone even when they are in the same room taking up my space.
Life is so simple and carefree living alone. I have very little stress.
About dying alone....you can be in your bed, surrounded by family & friends, and when the moment of death comes, you are all alone.
Learn to embrace it. Fearing it is pointless. It WILL happen, no matter what. So accept it, & don't dwell on it.
Go live your life. Enjoy it. Savor it. Don't dwell on tomorrow or yesterday.
Embrace NOW.
And when the moment comes, & you feel yourself begin to slip away, Embrace that moment too.
It's only the next step. No reason to fear a single step.
i did the wife n kids for 13 years now im alone. i still love to be around people but i enjoy the peace living alone
Glad to hear you enjoy the solitude!
Same here!
Elliott Adams
I was married with great kids for 22 years, big house, nice cars, beautiful wife. Lost everything, financial hardship, wife could not cope. Asked for divorce because I could not provide her dream life any longer. She thinks she can find a better man (more money). I was a great dad and loyal husband, I did what I could to provide for the family. Not good enough for her, she blames me for her unhappiness. My heart is broken. My kids keep me going...I live for them now. I will survive, grow stronger and learn to be happy being alone. Focus on the advantages. Guys thanks for the comments and this video, it really helps.
Elliott Adams thank you for going trough the struggle and sharing I learn a lot from divorced men down
"Asked for divorce because I could not provide her dream life any longer." Thats the key and all you need to remember Tom. Good luck fellah cos that says it all. And for anyone else reading these comments, if you're following MGTOW, this is the truest insight into female behaviour. She doesn't love you, she loves what you do for her
The Great Robin Williams said it's better to be alone than to be with someone and feel alone.
It really comes down to this:
You get to DO WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANNA DO!!
Being alone gives you lots of options. Feel like doing something spontaneous? Just do it. Nobody is going to hold you back. The most important part of being alone is the discovery of who you are. With the time you have to yourself, you'll find out what makes you happy and have time to work on improving yourself. Finally, being alone means that you'll have more money in your pocket, thus having a bigger bank account.
You're absolutely right about the difference between being alone and being lonely. A lonely person is someone who *wants* to be around other people, but can't for whatever reason (they're unhappy). But a person who wants to live a solitary life is someone who values peace, quiet, and FREEDOM. Loneliness can be pitied, but craving solitude is respectable.
I live alone keep a beautiful apartment well organized and a really good cook my place is spotless clean haven't given up on women just won't live together or marry. It's a wonderful life do what I want when I want works for me. love living mgtow.
I love to cook with music on and a beer and then watch some badass TV series. I couldnt handle someone telling me what to cook or when to clean lol.
Bräts Pits I replace the beer with green..begin alone creates new possibilities
A nice steak and a good glass of red wine now and then.
I hear u on all points, just got my own apartment last month I moved in, the peace and quiet is awesome, was living with my dad before that and he's a raging alcoholic, always looking for trouble, I couldn't even cook in the kitchen without him coming out and yelling at me and calling me every name in the book for no reason, we've gotten into fights and arguments, and a few physical altercations, it was hell man, but now I live the calm peaceful quiet life I've yearned for for years and finally got
+daleva187goligo That's awesome - I'm sorry you had to go through that bullshit before but on some level it's probably made you more resilient.
Another benefit you may find is that you and your Dad may actually start to get along better when you do see each other simply because rarity creates value.If he does not see you much then when he does see you he is more likely to be appreciative of your company and vice versa.When you live in the same house each persons annoying bad habits is amplified in the other persons eyes and having to deal with that every day creates conflict.Like that old saying "familiarity breeds contempt ". It is so true.
It is utter insanity to live with a woman under the same roof.
Bingo !
Once you get used to living alone, you will never want to give it up.
So many advantages, simple pleasures, and relaxations.
W.J. Kelly ...Very True...You bathe in Ecstatic peacefulness and total freedon
I live alone off grid don't see people for days and don't care...I see people as problems and my problem is dealing with people. I feel i have been seen and used as a disposable utility.
JustwhatI'vebeenlookingfor thank you I thought I was the only one to think that.
I can eat the same thing every day and no one complains about it because I live alone. Compare that when i was living with my ex, she couldn't eat the same thing for two days. So it was my duty to think what "we" should eat to make her happy. Fuck that shit. I'm a simple man. It doesn't take much to make me content. Women are not simple. They are complicated. They don't know what they want. It's not our job as men to figure it out for them
some people are just plain jealous of your freedom. i don't understand some people are so scared of being alone. living alone is addictive in a positive way.
I agree with all the positive aspects you've listed. I'm 42 and I've lived alone for the last 12 years and I've never once felt the least bit lonely. I've had 2 different girlfriends live with me for short periods of time within that span (before I became MGTOW) and my life was never as enjoyable with either of them there, even when the relationships were good.
I'm a new subscriber (within the last week) from California, I've nearly finished watching your entire catalog of videos, I believe I have 2 more left. I devour MGTOW content on a daily basis, I probably subscribe to at least 30 or 40 different MGTOW channels and your channel is quickly shooting up the charts to near the top of my favorites list. Thank you and please keep up the great work, I look forward to your next video.
Jeff Arredondo Thanks very much Jeff, I really appreciate the kind words.
still mgtow brother?
@@CLIPSFAMILYGUY Absolutely, I have never looked back.
"Everyone dies,not everyone really lives."
My favorate line in Braveheart.
Tom Leykis brought me here. Living alone is the best. :-)
I've been listening to Tom for 20 years...He's the absolute Grandfather of MGTOW! he was MGTOW before MGTOW was cool!!
My home is spotless, clean, and comfortable. Then I tried dating someone a few months ago only to wind up with cleaning after this woman. Strands of hair everywhere, clothes on the floor, dirty dishes, criticism, and sarcasm. Needless to say it didn't last and now my home is clean again.
Iam the quintessential loner I promise you. And iam not saying that because it sounds popular or anything. Ive just always been like that. Iam an observer, someone who cherish solitude. Iam a deep thinker who is exceptionally intellectual. I find people draining very quickly. Iam relatively misanthropic.... very quiet, people complain about me never smiling. I smile, laugh and talk ALOT (out loud ) when iam alone. Ive lived with a few woman before and it was a horrible horrible experience. They like to talk so much and always inquiring where your going, Iam a voracious reader and when I read they want me to elaborate on what iam reading, they ask me a million times a day if iam ok because iam laconic and not loquacious. Living alone is best for me. Happiness comes from within bros and gals.
Right on bro, you are not alone!
Thanks bro
+michael Davis me too micheal
I am the same way bro. Hell I thought I wrote your comment lol
How do you expect to learn about people by not interacting with them. You find it draining because it's all new and have a lot to learn. You cannot learn about things by not doing.
I live with my mother so she does all the cooking and ironing and cleaning for me. I would move out but I'd rather not pay rent or interest. You have to sacrifice freedom in order to gain freedom. I do look forward to moving out and don't think any of these tasks will be difficult.
good words of wisdom.
I have been living alone for a very long time.
a friends girl is cool.
but can quickly turn into a power struggle.
I know very few men who are in a relationship.
what are truly happy.
and I think that they are lying to themselves and everyone else.
Kaoss Comkaoss Absolutely they simply are falling for a false narrative that is clearly toxic
It's a breeze to do the household chores. Cooking,cleaning and laundry is a piece of cake. What about women,most of them are hopeless with maintenance tasks that the traditional male undertakes. Fixing taps,toilets,lights,fans,washing machines,cars and many other repair jobs that constantly surface. So they have to con someone to do it or pay big money for someone to do it. As a man, especially one that can fix nearly everthing,it's easy to save money and have financial security. I've never looked back since going MGTOW. One just has to have a good dose of the red pill by looking around at the vast amount of other males that have relationship problems.
I had a few exes that wanted to be housewives as a career lol I did their "jobs" in less than 30 mins per week
I had this feeling I needed a woman implanted in me just like the idea I needed to follow fashion trends, use toothpaste, eat everyday, etc.
After I tested what it really is that I needed, toothpaste was eliminated, food was cut by 50%+, clothes reduced greatly, and most unnecessary clutter (both physical and mental) was eliminated
Highly, highly recommend not following what society tells you to do, as long as u hurt no one intentionally or highly negligently
'alone' is an amalgamation of the two words; all one. Never forget that.
We are all one.
moving out next week. I'm so fucking excited. I should have left years ago. There's not much worse than being looked at and asked questions all the time about what you're doing. I'm sure I'll eat so much healthier without people filling the place with junk food all the time too.
+DisturbedToad Great news man, as long as you're happy and have self-determination and independence.
I used to live alone but now I live with my girlfriend. I have to say it has been interesting getting along with someone. Its a different sort of challenge. One I am enjoying for the time being. One I feel is bettering me as a person. I feel the world is full of people so learning to coexist is critical.
I couldn't imagine not living alone
A man is incomplete without a woman. Once he finds one he is finished - anonymous.
Great quote! Can I use it?
@@godfatherofcinema Absolutely! It's not my quote but it's one of my favorites 😃
@@jakejake7289 right on!
I love living alone no wife no worries especially no nagging!!! I leave when I want 2 come back when I want 2. Nobody 2 answer 2. My current gf want to move in with me. I told her no. She got furious as hell. I'm like so what.
Black Ronin it’s been a year? Did she move in yet? 😹 we are determined creatures!
@@4everu984 No she didn't. Haven't gave her a key.
@@4everu984 determined she is Im a battled harden battle tested old school New Yorker.
Don't get married!
I really enjoyed listening to this. I'm also a loner and I love being alone. Loners belong to a small group of people and that's why most people can't understand us; they are not us, therefore they have no clue what's like to be like us, their opposite. I've been researching about this topic for a couple of years and found out that people who enjoy being alone for most part of their lives also tend to be more intelligent than the average. Loners understand things about several subjects most people can't understand. We can find more about it by studying metaphysics, especially about the essence of being. Aristotle describes it pretty well. Studies about meditation also describe it in more detail. Just think about it, how did Siddhartha Gautama become Buddha? Those who can answer this question will understand what I mean.
MGTOW is freedom
Hard Dance Music is My Life. I live Alone in my Studio Apartment since 2012 and having No Friends since 10+ years. I feel content, with Music I go Out, write a blog, enjoy my time, relax, run, mountain bike, traveling to the Dance music events. And it is a Freedom when no one dictates your life. Definitely no kids, I want to listen Music, without limits. This is Amazing video, Thank You! You can be happy loner!
Living alone for an extended amount of time forces one to be mentally stronger. It's those that have a dependency on others that often give up part of themselves in exchange for what? Sex? Children? Companionship? I've had all these things and an argument can be made that a good marriage can be beneficial for some. But it's been my experience that many women today are shallow, self-absorbed and overly emotional. While some of these traits may be biological most have been learned from teachers, pop culture, marketing, and their parents. I have three brothers who are all married and I couldn't stand being married to any one of their wives. Admittedly I gave up on relationships along time ago but I don't believe in fate and I think many people get hung up on a belief in fate. Don't let someone else take your freedom out of fear.
Bob upity excellent🙏
im at peace in my life
Everything you hit on about living alone is spot on. Personally I see know need, rather I feel no inclination at all to ever live with someone again. I was married with a child and I also grew up within a large family(7 siblings). Nothing has come close to living alone. Naturally, I go and visit friends but I seem to rarely have them over...It has nothing to do with them, I just enjoy my space to myself. I am much more productive and happier. Great points brother.
Bro, I am in the same exact position you're in. Really appreciate the peace, and quiet I have. "My own boss," per say. Its the way to go. Keep your head up, and keep the content coming. I'm subscribed.
He seems to have vanished,which is a shame.
You can be married and feel extremely lonely. You can live alone and feel extremely lonely.
You can live with your 5 year old son and feel complete.
Just enough human to human interaction without all of the brain damage that comes from living with an adult female.
what a beautiful response..reasonable, kind and measured..the last part is superb "Just enough human to human interaction without all of the brain damage that comes from living with an adult female..."Read more Show less
I get on my childrens' case for not cleaning up their messes. I don't think there's anything wrong with this, especially because their mom is a slob and doesn't teach them those responsibilities.
Hail to the king baby. Single and happy. Time for a beer. Enjoy fellas
After moving out at 18 I learned sooooooo much I reaffirmed my addiction to learning and can't wait to get back out there. (21 now)
blackraver5 Awesome! There is so much potential at your stage of life bro!
"Don't get me wrong. I like people. But just in small doses and for very limited amount of time" - George Carlin
Sums up my life. Been single, and living alone for years. My friends meet when we all need time together. I'm a bachelor for life.
hey the devil took everything away from job except his wife what does that tell u
Elliott Adams holy shittt... what a words. thanks bro, where you get that realitation?
Well said...
Nice point. Never thought of it that way, but now that you mention it, it makes sense.
Hilarious fun fact!😂
I laughed so hard. It is extremely funny and soberingly true.
ut if you don't set women up in your house you may do something like make yourself happy.
Rather then doing what your told you need to want.
Living alone is the only way.
Nietzsche has a great quotation on the benefits of solitude (paraphrasing as its midnight US Rocky Mtn time now) "....to live alone one must be either a beast or a god ---or both, a philosopher."
The truth does set you free, and derives largely from solitude. Compelling video--fascinating to hear an English perspective on this vital topic. Subscribed and look forward to your future videos.
I remember an ex-girlfriend who had me "booked" for the next three months.....never again...I love the right {not the privilege} of doing nothing!!!!!!
one word comes to mind when i hear your voice...........sincere.
thank u.
+jaguarfocus I'm glad you feel that way and am very grateful for your support.
Thank you for your wise words. I'm (early 20's) soaking in all of this info from various sources. A free man is an independent man!
Thank you for leaving your videos up and not deleting them like other content producers do. I enjoy them very much.
If you have to ask permission to go anywhere, do anything or buy anything then your life is not yours; it's theirs. Fuck that!
Own house, own car, own money, own life. My own. I own.
Itsmeeman1 facts my guy
Absolutely correct in all of this. Being a free man is a woman's worst nightmare. They themselves can not handle being alone and don't like even the idea that men don't feel the same. This is why they always say things like, "You need a girl friend/ wife." It's hog wash. I have lived on my own for the better part of 15 years. And yes, it is the best. I too hate it when women or society acts like a man NEEDS a woman. Complete shit. I have been taking care of myself since I left home at 18. Never once needed a woman for anything except sex. And you don't need to marry or live with them for that.
I have lived on my own since I was 23 and I am now36. I like it that way.
Everyday is a Mission!! It absolutely is. Nicely said!!
I like to be alone most of the time but i do like other peoples company. I would say, 30 percent of my free time spending with people and 70% doing things alone. I also love to have a girl over on the weekend for 1-2 nights BUT i couldnt handle a women everyday staying at my place. Lots of people try to mock you why you do so many things alone blah blah. Its a balance act. Sometimes i fell back doing not much with people and realise it isnt healthy. But i would say you have less "pressure" then the other side. Had a "girlfriend" that needed constantly people around to be happy and charge her batterys. Which is fine but what do people like that do if no one has time? I depend on myself to be happy. I chose to be sad or happy. My decision.
Bräts Pits bro that damn near me. You just described especially with girls haha.
I’m a WGTOW and it’s great. Agree with everything said in this video. My freedom is priceless to me.
Admittedly I am late to this video. But what I will say is this. I was married @ 20 and divorced @ 22. That was 32 years ago. I have my own house, car & truck all paid for. I have money in the bank and no worries of financial strife in my life at all. I have all of the amenities a typical house contains; washer, dryer, dishware etc. I have female friends that I deal with at times, but none of them are allowed to live with me at all. What I found interesting dealing with women over these years is when they came to my house, they would all say, "this house is peaceful". And my response would always be, "yes, I want to keep it that way".
I have had several women that wanted to marry me and some were bold enough to propose to me..scary. But I would always turn them down. My feelings were and still are, I had to much to lose to risk having a woman in my life just to take it all. In other words; I saw them as nothing but a liability. I was fortunate that I had mother who spoke to me about the dangers of dealing with women and made sure I was domesticated on my own. So the learning curve on managing a household was short for me.
After a couple of sessions of ground and pound with my female friends, they would get the idea and move on. Through those episodes it became abundantly clear that all they had to offer was their wombs, nothing else. @ 54 I enjoy watching a movie at home while sipping on some Jack Daniels better than ground and pound because it always required extra effort at a cost to me. Thirty+ years of being singe has been great. And yes, I got all of the sneers and jeers early on from married and men and women alike. But you know what? I would always find out later on that they were miserable or got divorced. I guess I made the right choice for me.
Make the right choice for yourself gentlemen.
Go you own way. 👉
Awesome story Sir ! Bless you
sir wha about at age 59
Great Vid, related to so many of the benefits and do most of them. The main three consistents that are hard to give up for the 'supposedly better' alternative. Are the Autonomy, the Peace and Quiet, and the Time, you gain. So much better for your mental health and sense of calm and relaxation to not have someone else impose 'fake' time limits/deadlines and windows as to when everything 'has' to be done. A fluid schedule is such an underrated thing. Knowing you can do the tasks of the home in your own time/availability and mood/energy levels is so divine. Plus you get both the satisfaction of doing a good job and the avoidance of hassle of "YOU NEED TO DO IT NOW!" erm, no I don't? The house won't cave in on itself if a plate isn't washed straight away or a pair of shoes isn't put in the 'correct' place one time. Nesting is for birds. I'm not sitting on any eggs here.
Like the video maker said, these are not big things and don't take that long so are not big achievements and shouldn't be exaggerated in their importance or necessity. They can be left be and it isn't a big deal. Sometimes there is more important/interesting thing to do.
I envy your lifestyle. Goddamn I miss my own solitude. I'm glad to know some out there don't take solitude for granted.
+F!@#Guilt That's an awesome point my friend, solitude is valuable in so many ways, and we should NEVER take it for granted.
Of COURSE, [@3:25] women make a big deal out of housework -- it enhances their value to project the image that they are working so hard at a complex task. Any guy that has lived on his own knows household tasks can easily be accomplished in about an hour or so a day. OR, if you have the bucks, you can hire it out to professionals for about the cost of one day's labor a month.
I’m 37 years old and since leaving my fathers home at twenty, I have always regrettably house shared.
My desire to share with other people over the years has trickled away to nothing and now want to live alone.
I have absolutely no problem with the concept of living alone and don’t suffer with loneliness.
If truth be told, I feel lonely around people who provide no psychological connection or simply couldn’t give a shit about me.
I view myself as quite fussy in the way a house should be and no longer desire compromising with other people who do not share my values or just piss me off.
I massively envy people who live alone because my earning power has never been good enough to allow this freedom.
At the moment, I live with just one person and that’s better than living in a house with three or four people, but my current flatmate / landlady is weird and couldn’t give a shit about me.
I feel anxious with my living arrangements and it sucks not being able to live alone, it really does!
+33Crazydude The best thing you can do in my opinion is strive towards that goal, you won't look back!
+Simply Strength
Thanks Simply Strength,
I am listening to some more of your video as we speak and find them very interesting.
Your video on night clubs was spot on buddy
Loneliness is a freedom in disguise . Put your effort in it and you will discover your limitless possibilities to create your incredible life, because you are in charge of everything.
Be warned!
Once you start to live alone, and like it, you will NEVER want to live with anyone ever again! You will love the quiet, the freedom, the absence of drama, and being dragged to places you don't want to go. You won't miss the nagging, the complaining, the griping, or someone lashing out at you because they had a bad day. You won't have to listen to the foolish gossip, or the spinster aunt's health issues, the uncle's drinking.
After a couple years, if that long, you will come home to a quiet place, finally free of the difficult people you've dealt with all day, and you'll be so grateful for the silence you will NOT turn on the TV, Stereo, etc. You'll turn off your phone! So no one can call you to go to loud nightclubs filled with noisy, obnoxious drunks. You will savor the quiet!
A short time later, you won't want to go to work anymore. Not because your job sucks, and you hate it, but because it's noisy, and disturbs the peaceful silence.
Nor will you want to go to the store, for the same reason! Better to order everything online, and have it delivered.
Someday, some nitwit in the government will decide to quarantine the whole country! And while everyone else is squealing like pigs, you will just smile, and feel grateful because now you have a great excuse not to leave your Sanctuary. But you will grieve in secret when it ends!
You will not care that others are beginning to say you're unsociable, or a Recluse. In fact, you will find you don't care about many things that use to seem so important. Not sports, politics, celebrity gossip, etc.
But enjoying a drink, and a good book! Ah, now there is something to look forward to!
You will teach yourself to cook, because you realize no one else can make your food "just right!". Restaurants will miss you!
And while you left those noisy, smelly bars long ago, you might get odd looks at the liquor store as you're stocking up your cabinet; 8 bottles for one man/woman may seem a bit much to the clerk. But no worries! You are long passed caring about the opinions of others!
Except those who invade your Tranquility! Ah, these barbarians appear at the most inopportune time, and with the most feeble reasons! Or so it seems to you!
"The building is on fire? Rubbish! Miss Johnson is grilling again!"
Having fairly warned you of the inherent dangers of a Life Alone, I now leave you to choose for yourself.
No, I'm not available for further questions, I have a fine book and an excellent glass of wine awaiting me.
Best Wishes in your endeavors.
Benifit of living alone......PEACE ☺
Funny.. as a kid I never kept my room clean and hated doing chores. As a single adult, I keep my house clean, maintain my yard and do my laundry. A woman is not necessary or wanted at this point in my life.
The internet says that to create a loner, the child, should be raised in a troubled household. The child learns to go into his/her mind and learn to enjoy being alone.
Women try to project their own fears of being alone in the future, onto a mans future. A man being alone in his past, present, or future, is usually to his benefit.
Men aren't the ones complaining when they're alone. I savor my weekends with no interuptions. 🤣🤣🤣
I have a lot in common with you and I also have 50k in the bank because of it
born alone ,,die alone,,marriage is a not a physical gettogether,,it means have a same philosphy..,,good video man,,,,,,,,,one man comes to mind ,,WALTER RUSSELL
The problem with this philosophy is that, (although there's a lot to be said for Mgtow)..it's based on the "me-first, because women and their maginas are more powerful than me" mentality. Also, one can not rely solely on saying "I'll never do this, or never do that". No one really knows what tomorrow holds.
Materialism, also plays a key role in this philosophy. Whether you spend a lot of it on yourself, or whether you spend little on yourself and save the rest, it's still materialism. Not that it's bad or good, it's just that largely mgtow followers like to cover up the "me first", materialistic nature of the philosophy, with this "I'm on the side of the Angels" type storefront; in which you can purchase your 'Survivalist Guide To Avoiding Women', payable via CZcams views.
The complaints about women are largely true, however if you don't want your Society to fail then that Society must procreate.
Mgtow would have you believe that all men can simply ignore women, (save for some Star Trek like ability to produce children through futuristic technology). That kind of philosophy is born of a secret desire for society to fail in some sort of an apocalyptic dream of theirs.
In the end, Mgtow is born of a baseline fantasy in which the world of tradition crumbles around them, while they remain the only survivors. (like 100 video game plots).
This is a shame too, because a lot of a things they accuse women of are true.
Unfortunately just because the stated problem is true, doesn't mean the stated cure is anything less then a bottle of narcissistic, snake oil.
Btw..living alone DOES rock..:-)
Message to self.
Listen to this everyday...thank you
Dude..... you are an amazing mgtow producer! you should be way bigger than you are! But, in time, you will be... Keep making these intellectual videos and people will notice you. You touched on so many things here. Cooking day to day meals, simple domestic decisions, ie. "why are your sandals on in the house?" "because they're birkinstocks and I wear them as slippers, thus washing less socks!"jesus sausage grinding Christ, eh boys?
+aaronwallerj Thanks brother I appreciate that!
in the process of budgeting and planning to move out looking forward peace of mind
Living free that's for me.MGTOW 8 years now by design.No worrys.
I really liked your talk. I, too, love living alone. I've gained so much confidence and a keener understanding of who I am. I learned that I am not a helpless female. I've learned to fix things that's supposed to be man's work, and it actually fun. I like learning new skills, so every challenge fires my spirit. I completely gutted an old house by myself. When I look at my work I am so happy, so proud of myself. It took me longer than it would a guy due to our physical differences, but the work still got done! And I saved a bit of money!
I come from a Mexican family so living alone makes me depressed.... I tried living alone for two years but I just became depressed and borderline suicidal.... our culture is very family oriented, and we don’t pressure our loved ones to conform or change ,we just accept them and love them for them. so I’m used to having to having a lot of people around me. I am much happier living with my family, I go to work ,I come back my mom cooked some good food, me and my dad and brother and sisters eat together drink some beers watch a movie or something and just enjoy each other’s company , while the new generation of young kids go play somewhere , Basically just enjoy each other’s company and our time on this earth
You live in a socially engineered society, getting stuck into obligations by way of marriage and live in relationships are a way to keep you enslaved by corporations. Love needs two things to survive, space and freedom. When was the last time you argued with yourself? See my point? One isn't the lonely number, for peace of mind, it's the ONLY NUMBER.
Quite an enlightening video. Thanks for making this video.
M. Wilkinson Thanks brother glad you like it.
living alone is the one luxury is my life, I wouldn't have it any other way..
There’s NO place like your own. 💯💰💆🏾♂️
Great post! I felt the same way at first with the silence of my own place but now I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm also more introverted so alone time is crucial to my well being. I don't need people around me all the time.
We are the beautiful ones.
Biggest benefits of living alone? No nagging, never being presented with an endless 'honey-do' list that takes up all your free time, you get to call all the shots where spending is concerned... and best of all, you'll never get raped in divorce court when, not if, she decides it's time to cash out because she got bored or decided to cheat (but it was all your fault, naturally, even if you didn't do anything to cause her behaviour).
Don't know if it was the way you said it or if i was just finally ready to accept it but this really resonated with me when i watched it over my lunch break today. I had told myself this many times but its like my spirit finally accepted the fact that i am a complete and happy person on my own. I do not need "another half" to complete me. It was like finally getting a beautiful spring day after a long harsh winter. Like i was finally free of a tremendous weight.
Same here, I married bc my parents and culture required me to... I wasnt as wise, but now that it's over and I am alone again... never going back to plantation
Thoughtful content. Thank you.