Stop Ignoring Those RED FLAGS: Confronting Toxic Behaviour & Taking Accountability in Relationships
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- čas přidán 9. 03. 2024
- Navigating dating and relationships seems to be a minefield these days, and identifying red flags can be even more challenging. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about the rising levels of ‘no-good men’, identifying red flags and what to do when we’ve overlooked ALL the warning signs.
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RENEE!!!! GIRL!!! I'm so proud of how you addressed the girl in this dilemma... As a married woman, the respect that you have towards marriage is admirable!! Unfortunately, the girls who find themselves with a married "man" and are desperate, will most likely fall for this, and more than likely, ALWAYS be the side chicken, NEVER the main lady.. And these "men" are truly trash, i have much more to say about them, but I will save my time and energy! 🙄
These girls have no clue what marriage is, and if they ever find out, they better hope that their husband's don't do the same to them..
Again Renee, I just wanted to say that I really admired how you spoke in this dilemma, God bless you, it's encouraging to know that there are people who still respect marriages and themselves. ❤❤
Making responsible, moral choices is very isolating. You have to be okay with being single because most ppl are incompatible. They try to reap the most benefits and avoid responsibilities. Then insult, argue, or ghost when you set healthy boundaries. The reason that this subject keeps coming up is because ppl want short-term gratification more than longterm well-being. They're scared of being alone, of going to therapy, taking time to figure out their purpose. It seems easier to make ourselves someone else's responsibility to love and take care of. But it actually costs your peace, soul, other hardships. This creates toxic patterns that most ppl dont take time to heal, just project their issues onto the next person. Society also prioritizes dysfunctional relationships and behavior. Music, media, family and friends often promote casual sex, situationships, women being unhinged or allowing themselves to be used, grown manchildren who haven't been taught or held responsible. We are training ppl to be selfish, transactional, ignorant, single, single mothers, prioritize pleasure and the moment, be apathetic towards other ppl's wellbeing. The information is out there, but many are unwilling to listen and act on what they know they need to .
"the clown was cute and I decided i wanted to be part of the circus" LOOOOOOOOL🤣
I really love how Renee was pressing holding yourself accountable when you find yourself in certain situations. I realized I have a hard time holding myself accountable because its embarrassing lol. I wrote in my journal "Who I say I am vs. who I actually am." SN: I also love your hair, period.
I love when Courtney mentioned everybody is flawed. Obviously, I know that but it was nice to actually hear it out loud that everyone has things they are working on. Sometimes I don't feel worth it because I am working on so much so I really appreciate you saying and expanding on that thought. SN: I love your skin, period!
Two of my red flags would be people who are mean to food service workers and people who are already in committed relationships but are trying to pursue me!
Not me tuning in within of hour of the pod dropping! Happy Sunday ladies😊
I'm glad that you went into the topic of what a red flag IS. Too often, especially with such a huge lack of emotional maturity, people are quick to mislabel things with terms they heard yesterday and have no idea what it means. 🙃 I also like that you said how we all have red flags we need to deal with. I often look for red flags in others, but not in myself.
Two red flags - 1. can't take constructive criticism. 2. Says they're Christian, but aren't living the lifestyle. Two green flags - 1. stands the test of time and perseveres thru good, bad, indifferent. 2. A competent, masculine protector and provider.
I really enjoyed Renee held the girl accountable, honest and firm but with soo much love and Grace
Awesome episode !
Great episode x
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This was such a great and educational talk to listen to. I loved hearing your perspectives on intentional dating and red/green flags. Very lovely to sit here and feel like I'm listening to my two big sisters talk and share wisdom. You gained another subscriber 🥰🤞🏼
This was such a great episode. I was convicted in some ways particularly in the area of choosing to completely cut ties with someone at the sight of a red flag. Yes, the person has shown those signs but I don't necessarily need to just cut them off. The right approach is to assess where in my life they're gonna be. Thank you, Courtney and Renee for this. I will do better
Can y’all share which microphone are y’all using lol? Y’all sound good
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Not Renee fully calling out this dilemma girl 👀🫣 Girl said 3 years with a married man … but I do hope she finds healthy love ❤️