'It'll Be Worth The Wait Sis': Cultivating Patience, Hope & Character in the Waiting Season

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  • čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
  • We're living in a time where you don't have to wait long to get what you want due to innovative technology, and this can cultivate a habit of impatience. In today's episode, your favourite online sisters discuss how to cultivate patience, hope, and character as you wait for your relationship and career goals to manifest.
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    19:29 What do you do when you plan is taking longer than you'd like?
    30:29 Waiting for the best and not settling for the quick.
    38:17 The difference between being patient and lazy.
    52:59 Hope for those who feel like they've been waiting a while
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Komentáře • 35

  • @snowym7188
    @snowym7188 Před 2 měsíci +31

    The day I accepted that I may never get married and that “True Love” ( in the traditional sense) doesn’t necessarily happen for everyone … is the day I truly started living… I was no longer “waiting” … I was just living… and whether I marry or not, I know I am giving my life MY ALL and I truly appreciate the people that are currently in my life ❤

  • @paulac.7977
    @paulac.7977 Před 2 měsíci +39

    The way I CLICKED when I saw the title

  • @gloriakanani1026
    @gloriakanani1026 Před 2 měsíci +22

    Being patient is a life skill. We want things now and having to wait makes us feel uncomfortable. It’s definitely like planting a seed now and expecting the fruit in 5 minutes. Waiting is hard but we grow so much in our waiting season 🌸

  • @jessefoyster3679
    @jessefoyster3679 Před 2 měsíci +11

    “No one will show you the grind, but they will show you the graduation” ‼️ the gems keep dropping!! 💎

  • @Pandas0918
    @Pandas0918 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Happy (early) birthday, Courtney! You’re a few years younger than me but I appreciate your WISDOM. May God continue to bless and keep you!🎉

    • @Vanessa_Elaine
      @Vanessa_Elaine Před 2 měsíci +1

      That is no friend she is definitely using her

  • @deborahbell-theobservantch3759
    @deborahbell-theobservantch3759 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Girls, first time I comnent on a dilemma. I'm usually up for communication, but on this one, I would just ghost the horrible "friend" because she knows all well what she's been doing! I think they've just grown apart, so I would let her go and definitely find another healthy friendship...

  • @rayseyeoman7540
    @rayseyeoman7540 Před 2 měsíci +11

    Happy birthday Courtney. Wishing you all the best Taurus sister (I celebrate my birthday next week)

  • @niuula
    @niuula Před 2 měsíci +6

    This podcast episode was absolutely necessary. Thank you ladies for the insight and encouragement! God bless 🫶🏽

  • @Anna-qc3gj
    @Anna-qc3gj Před 2 měsíci +15

    this could not have come at a greater time 💕

  • @naaayeleysenasalakpi6454
    @naaayeleysenasalakpi6454 Před 2 měsíci +4

    God bless you both.You are really doing the Lord's work..."Make sure you have something to show the Maker.."..

  • @rayseyeoman7540
    @rayseyeoman7540 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I was just about to pray and ask God what am I suppose to do ‘in the meantime’ and this showed up. I’m still gonna pray after the video but the title just caught me off guard

  • @ellea2541
    @ellea2541 Před 2 měsíci +11

    Dilemma response: NO.
    That's it.

    • @lookingatdaisies9901
      @lookingatdaisies9901 Před 2 měsíci +4

      😭I saw your comment and I thought how bad is it?
      I too have no words except No. And the best time for No, would be yesterday.

    • @cpwwjd69
      @cpwwjd69 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I wouldn't have responded

  • @Vanessa_Elaine
    @Vanessa_Elaine Před 2 měsíci +4

    I needed this because I need to work harder so I can see the results that I want and need

  • @faith.music.fitness.8567
    @faith.music.fitness.8567 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I’ve watched you guys’ channel for about two years and I’ve meant to say this each year your birthday comes up but Courtney you and I share the same birthday!! I will be turning 29 on Saturday. Super cool to share a birthday with you! Hope it’s the start of a very blessed year!

  • @JemimahEtong-ul4cm
    @JemimahEtong-ul4cm Před 2 měsíci +2

    Finding relationship and yet you haven't been out for over six months! Who's gonna find you?!! You guys! Stray bullet just hit me off my bed😅

  • @BB-xh2mk
    @BB-xh2mk Před 2 měsíci +2

    Ugh!!! Gems upon gems upon gems dropped in this episode ❤😫❤

  • @chiamakaemerenini1375
    @chiamakaemerenini1375 Před 2 měsíci +2

    You all are so timely. This was a much needed conversation. Thank you!

  • @sandianbc8732
    @sandianbc8732 Před 5 dny

    My sister's post the darnest pictures of me 😂😂😂😂, I honestly have just accepted it, because honestly it's still a part of me.

  • @YassgD
    @YassgD Před 2 měsíci

    I NEEDED THIS!!! Thank you sisters...

  • @gloriakanani1026
    @gloriakanani1026 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Such a beautiful episode ❤️

  • @Gabbygirl724
    @Gabbygirl724 Před 2 měsíci

    this episode!! 💎💎💎 absolute gems!

  • @NotNeileya
    @NotNeileya Před 2 měsíci

    wow the gems dropped in this video???! pleaseeee

  • @manelle4869
    @manelle4869 Před 2 měsíci

    I loved this episode! It was definitely needed🤍

  • @CM-oh9yr
    @CM-oh9yr Před 2 měsíci

    Preach sisters...PREACH! I absolutely loved this episode - perfect timing. Thank you ❤🙏🏽

  • @graceyybbz
    @graceyybbz Před 2 měsíci

    Amazing episode❤

  • @dorahsega3759
    @dorahsega3759 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much ladies for this episode. Very encouraging in my season of "waiting". ❤

  • @gl0hen
    @gl0hen Před 2 měsíci +5

    Haven't even watched this yet but immediately had to hop in the comments because THE TITLE ALONE IS DIRECTLY RELATED TO THE PRAYER I PRAYED TODAY!!!!!! I'm so excited to create space to watch and receive this episode. Much love to you sisters; I am so grateful for the sisterhood. AND HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY COURTNEY!!! I'm getting my hair braided on May 4th in honor of one of my fav glam gowrls 🥰🤍
    edit:
    yup. i needed this. whewwwww. thank you sisters. 🥹 i know exactly what i need to do next.

  • @naaayeleysenasalakpi6454
    @naaayeleysenasalakpi6454 Před 2 měsíci

    Timely discussion❤❤❤

  • @nnennaitanyi8156
    @nnennaitanyi8156 Před 2 měsíci +1

    About the dilemma, I think it's important to ask: Have you spoken to her about this before? I'm a first gen in London from Nigeria and have been in situations where I feel taken advantage of because in friendships with people back home I am the "richer" friend. I can imagine her friend thinks that. It's wrong but it's normal. I'd say explain how you feel without all the anger. Check her intentions. If she really has just always wanted to use you, it'll show. On the flip side, she may be genuinely sorry. So just be conscious about how you navigate the conversation.

  • @claudemiemondesir3997
    @claudemiemondesir3997 Před 2 měsíci +1

    About the rest thing, how does that apply when it comes to chronic illness and still wanting to pursue your goals regardless? Cuz not everyone wanna wait until a cure is found or they’re better to pursue them.

  • @tayloradams545
    @tayloradams545 Před 2 měsíci

    Is Betterhelp better yet?

  • @danithebarrister
    @danithebarrister Před 2 měsíci +2

    Girls👀👀👀👀 my sisters… do you read minds then do a Ep accordingly because 🥹.