4 Charming Habits That Make People Obsessed With You

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    If you’ve ever wanted to know what personality type leads to being beloved by men and women alike, you’re going to like this video about Chris Hemsworth and Thor: Ragnarok.
    I started researching for this video intending to make something around “Thor: Ragnarok”. But I very quickly realized that the real person worth studying is Chris Hemsworth. A single Chris Hemsworth interview can make you laugh, smile, and say "aw". It's really hard not to like him!
    There are four things about Chris Hemsworth that seem to truly make people love being around him.
    Even castmates that started out wanting NOT to like Chris Hemsworth end up raving about him and saying how funny he is or how sweet he is.
    And the hype for his latest movie Thor: Ragnaraok is off the charts! The Thor Ragnarok trailer looks amazing and it's because we finally found a director that’s willing to let Chris Hemsworth and Thor bleed their personalities together just like Robert Downey Jr. and Iron Man.
    And as you see in the video it literally transformed Thor from the worst ranked Marvel film on Rotten Tomatoes (Thor: The Dark World) to the highest (Thor: Ragnarok).
    Which reflects even more impressively on how funny Chris Hemsworth is when you consider that director Taika Waititi claims Thor: Ragnarok is ~80% improvised.
    So let’s take a look at Chris Hemsworth’s personality and what makes him so special.
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    4:16 How To Be Funny By Teasing And How To Be Genuine
    5:30 How To Touch In A Way People Like And How To Touch Without Being Creepy
    10:11 How To Share Embarrassing Stories In A Way That Conveys Confidence And Makes People Respect You
    11:41 Sharing Praise And Being Everyone’s Favorite Team Member
    13:25 How To Make A Compliment Feel Genuine And Not Fake (i.e., How To Compliment Without Being A Suckup)
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  • @Charismaoncommand
    @Charismaoncommand  Před 6 lety +2148

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    • @kacperilnicki35
      @kacperilnicki35 Před 6 lety +3

      Charisma on Command hey just Intrigued what was that quiz at the beginning

    • @beccag1107
      @beccag1107 Před 6 lety

      Charisma on command, PLEASE do a breakdown on Taika Waititi’s humour and charisma. I love your videos, they’re super helpful. It would be awesome if you could do this. Thnx

    • @mewsao
      @mewsao Před 6 lety +1

      Please do Chadwick Boseman one!

    • @AssortedBits
      @AssortedBits Před 6 lety +3

      Just wanting to point out that the subtitles are off starting at 11:02.

    • @ishpeeedy
      @ishpeeedy Před 6 lety

      Subtitles get a bit different after some time

  • @Mysteri0usChannel
    @Mysteri0usChannel Před 5 lety +18748

    Chris Hemsworth is basically a human Golden Retriever. Friendly and polite, builds you up, sometimes misbehaves but never in a bad, always in a funny way.

    • @fayHoran
      @fayHoran Před 5 lety +254

      exactly. i also saw a fanart of golden retriever thor and a cat loki fighting xD

    • @RenzXVI
      @RenzXVI Před 5 lety +80

      That's funny. I've been watching funny pet videos all day and then somehow ended up randomly clicking on this video. So which pet store sells a Golden Chris Hemsworth?

    • @nbucwa6621
      @nbucwa6621 Před 5 lety +6

      Accurate

    • @thedoneeye
      @thedoneeye Před 5 lety +10

      I just hope that also means he's completely housebroken and microchipped 😉

    • @ultrahocherhitzte
      @ultrahocherhitzte Před 5 lety +17

      I feel like that's Chris Pratt though. Chris Hemsworth is more of a St.Bernard..

  • @koolyokam007
    @koolyokam007 Před 5 lety +14507

    This channel has a crush on Chris Hemsworth. Just admit it.

    • @otso23
      @otso23 Před 5 lety +271

      I sure as hell do

    • @kylewhite9383
      @kylewhite9383 Před 5 lety +399

      Who doesn’t have a crush on chris, we’re only human ❤️

    • @Photosounder
      @Photosounder Před 5 lety +133

      Chris is love, Chris is life.

    • @GloriaCeleste
      @GloriaCeleste Před 5 lety +84

      Who doesn’t?

    • @kevo6463
      @kevo6463 Před 5 lety +73

      Don’t we all lmaoo

  • @Kloutrous808
    @Kloutrous808 Před 4 lety +4907

    "TOUCH EVERYONE"
    yes, I've been doing this for years. Everyone in my cell loves me

  • @bahaatamer1245
    @bahaatamer1245 Před 4 lety +864

    1. Hilarious
    2. Incredible at touch! (Make it feel good!).
    3. Shares things about him that can be embarrassing, with no fear of judgement!
    4. Shares praise with those who helped him through!

  • @damonovna
    @damonovna Před 5 lety +8334

    Oh yes, 14 minutes of detailed explanation why Chris Hemsworth is great. Now I have a scientific base for my crush on him.

  • @Kareszkoma
    @Kareszkoma Před 5 lety +3993

    Chris Hemsworth has that "bro" touch. He is confident and friendly,
    but.. not pushy. It's just like "hey buddy".

  • @TheBubbeloo
    @TheBubbeloo Před 3 lety +375

    It helps being ridiculously good-looking. Granted it's not everything and his personality is what matters, but good looks always give a head start when meeting new people.

    • @jakeb934
      @jakeb934 Před 2 lety +26

      It can actually have the opposite effect and be intimidating.

    • @Jakeylicious7891
      @Jakeylicious7891 Před 2 lety +27

      It's true especially with the touchy feely stuff. If a nonconventional looking man does what Chris does, he'd be deemed creepy, especially with the over touching.

    • @angelkaye6196
      @angelkaye6196 Před 2 lety +13

      @@Jakeylicious7891 Was going to say that. Its natural to want to be touched by beautiful people but more disgusted by odd looking or strange looking people.

    • @neslisultan
      @neslisultan Před 2 lety +7

      You’re 100% correct! And a lot of people will lose respect for you if you’re a really nice person unless you’re really good looking and/or successful!

    • @PeterParker-jl9ll
      @PeterParker-jl9ll Před 2 lety

      u know some ppl cant rlly change their looks, unless ur a girl or whatever and make-up can help
      but for guys were dealt w the cards that we have and cant change our appearance

  • @atable2505
    @atable2505 Před 2 lety +102

    “If your friends are awesome, it stands to reason that you must be awesome as well” very true and something to think about

  • @lolawho8676
    @lolawho8676 Před 5 lety +6212

    he is a healthy, confident person without any complexes...and this is always attractive and make ppl comfortable...

    • @gasgaslex_photos
      @gasgaslex_photos Před 5 lety +50

      Lola Who He's Australian, we're all like that 😎

    • @rebeccamatthews4641
      @rebeccamatthews4641 Před 5 lety +91

      gasgasLex oh shit.... I’m Australian and I’m full of complexes and self esteem issues.... I think I australianed wrong. :/

    • @gandalainsley6467
      @gandalainsley6467 Před 5 lety +30

      healthy, good looking , confident , tall and has good personality so yeah all of those things and what there is that he cant do , can he sing wait, yes he can , and he had both parents wow dude is lucky

    • @odinsmith6249
      @odinsmith6249 Před 5 lety

      Serial killee

    • @TaymaShine
      @TaymaShine Před 5 lety +68

      exactly. it’s harder for people who didn’t grow up in a healthy environment with healthy parents and a healthy sense of self worth, but it is still possible to reach that level regardless, it just takes more time.

  • @finnchiss1948
    @finnchiss1948 Před 5 lety +4479

    1. humor- short jokes that elevate his friends.
    2. touching people
    3. not hiding things, confidence
    4. compliments (that are true)

    • @nikitasidoryuk852
      @nikitasidoryuk852 Před 3 lety +60

      You can't touch people if ur ugly then r a creep

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 Před 3 lety +1

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    • @g0o0ey
      @g0o0ey Před 2 lety +34

      @@nikitasidoryuk852 with that additude, just be friendly and not creepy its not hard.

    • @HeritageDrPepper
      @HeritageDrPepper Před 2 lety +8

      The 6 points made in the video are time stamped in the description for anyone who likes time stamps or want more information.

    • @starsungglitters6121
      @starsungglitters6121 Před 2 lety +5

      @@nikitasidoryuk852 Sounds like an excuse , maybe try learning how to touch people non creepily

  • @gulabo2139
    @gulabo2139 Před rokem +80

    Humor
    -Jokes that elevate others around me
    -Move on soon after the joke is done
    -Do the OPPOSITE if you are comfortable enough with that person
    -Don't be like this all the time
    Touch people
    -be a universal toucher
    -Adjust touch depending on the factors
    -Don't scary touch
    -Make it feel good
    Not hiding things, confidence
    -don't be afraid of other's judgement
    Share praise
    -Compliment in public and only when you mean it

    • @ShotheadWins
      @ShotheadWins Před rokem

      "Don't scary touch" A beautiful phrase.

  • @naomi-mc1id
    @naomi-mc1id Před 3 lety +65

    he’s not scared to be himself because he KNOWS he’s hot and charming ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @curlyswirly
    @curlyswirly Před 5 lety +2385

    Can you imagine Emilia Clark and Chris Hemsworth doing an interview or working together?

    • @ricochico1144
      @ricochico1144 Před 4 lety +363

      They'd just be constantly smiling and touching each other and it'd be like "You're the best !" "No you're awesome !" "No you are !"

    • @WinterCharmVT
      @WinterCharmVT Před 4 lety +108

      They would take the box office by a storm.

    • @fredlebhart1393
      @fredlebhart1393 Před 4 lety +71

      We’d all wind up pregnant

    • @candieland4276
      @candieland4276 Před 4 lety +33

      Whooooooaaaaaaaa...I just don't know if we could take that much 'cute' haha

    • @zetjet9901
      @zetjet9901 Před 4 lety +23

      *t h i s n e e d s t o e x i s t*

  • @granter0493
    @granter0493 Před 6 lety +1927

    "Touch everyone" Kevin spacey joined the game*

  • @SeenSven
    @SeenSven Před 3 lety +646

    Very helpful thank you ^^

    • @cornoffthecobs7299
      @cornoffthecobs7299 Před 3 lety

      Helped me too

    • @anatolelaudet2183
      @anatolelaudet2183 Před 2 lety +5

      Well, the touching isn't all that relevant these days, unfortunately...

    • @Wheebzee
      @Wheebzee Před 2 lety +5

      No way it's the minecraft prison guy

    • @adityajha7841
      @adityajha7841 Před 2 lety +1

      wtf are you doing here? This was the most unexpected thing i saw today... Also i really love your content

  • @circuitboardprojects6500

    Btw, the "he's a friend from work" was actually an idea from a teen extra on set, and actually Chris talks about it in an interview.

  • @Rone-ki1hm
    @Rone-ki1hm Před 5 lety +6716

    Step 1:
    Win the Genetic Lottery

    • @LAkadian
      @LAkadian Před 5 lety +199

      Self fulfilling prophecy, mate.

    • @Kintaro0e
      @Kintaro0e Před 5 lety +37

      Yeah that pretty much is it lol

    • @Madtv50
      @Madtv50 Před 5 lety +84

      it's not a lottery blame your parent for not being attractive enough

    • @cocacolla95
      @cocacolla95 Před 5 lety +161

      they not guilty for not being attractive enough, they lost that lottery as well @@Madtv50

    • @joshuaizly5502
      @joshuaizly5502 Před 5 lety +56

      Ikr I wish I had Jack Black's body

  • @Billie4Mozzarella
    @Billie4Mozzarella Před 6 lety +777

    Fun fact: Chris Hemsworth is described as the "most sensitive Hemsworth brother". He didn't like conflict, he liked to sew, he was never a bully, he was very much the stereotypical middle child--creative, peacekeeping and sensitive. The reason he's considered the most attractive of all the brothers even if Liam could challenge him looks-wise is because he's a warm, kind, sensitive person, and is unafraid to show it. Given that he gets a lot of big bruiser badass roles, the revelation that he's not only a great dad but that he's always been "the sensitive one" who clearly shares affection and is completely and totally secure in his masculinity is extremely attractive to both women and men.

    • @mridulnair4754
      @mridulnair4754 Před 5 lety +22

      Chris is the best looking off all the 3 brothers. Luke is 2nd and Liam is 3rd for me honestly

    • @seanlynch788
      @seanlynch788 Před 5 lety +7

      Ya I'm the middle child and I'm definitely not the most peaceful one

    • @potato-whiz
      @potato-whiz Před 5 lety +10

      Based on looks alone...
      1. Chris
      2. Liam
      3. Luke.

    • @mikahong
      @mikahong Před 4 lety +6

      Theres a third one?

    • @sathyanarayanay.h.9630
      @sathyanarayanay.h.9630 Před 2 lety +2

      Perfectly described 👍

  • @realyzer
    @realyzer Před 4 lety +881

    "Touch the person" after coronavirus. lol. This virus was created to destroy Chris Hemsworth's charisma

    • @gersonencarnacion3744
      @gersonencarnacion3744 Před 3 lety +22

      Underrated comment.

    • @zariacaprio1491
      @zariacaprio1491 Před 3 lety +3

      Lol'ed

    • @badmoxstudios
      @badmoxstudios Před 3 lety +8

      @Henry Rennard I hate being touched, especially if it's constant. But I will happily take it if it's from Chris Hemsworth 😂

    • @krisss79
      @krisss79 Před 3 lety +22

      @@badmoxstudios well you don't hate being touched. You hate being touched by some people.

    • @juliemarie8963
      @juliemarie8963 Před 3 lety +2

      lol

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 Před rokem +3

    I like he's down-to-earth he's real, he has class and he's like the Kid Next Door that you grew up with.
    I've had some very supportive parents and or family members who believes in sharing the credit where credit is due.

  • @Sam.Wendorf
    @Sam.Wendorf Před 5 lety +744

    I really hope Chris watches these videos when he has bad days. He deserves to know just how lovely of a person he really is.

  • @nooralukkarinen7507
    @nooralukkarinen7507 Před 5 lety +1073

    I'm not even here for the tips I just want people to acknowledge how amazing Chris is

  • @imomifysupport4543
    @imomifysupport4543 Před 2 lety +15

    he is absolute gorgeous, I’m sure it plays a role in the welcomed touching. he definitely knows he’s hot although he doesn’t act cocky at all his confidence shines through and is seen as comfort, approachability and kindness. He seems like an open minded awakened man. Much respect to him, I feel like I know the guy. 🧐

  • @Elibel77
    @Elibel77 Před rokem +5

    The narrative about touch, the whole 4-5 min, HUGE. Great job! This is so crucial to making people ,and yourself, comfortable.

  • @karinshadi227
    @karinshadi227 Před 5 lety +984

    "Watch Chris Evans lose his mind in his next clip"
    Evans cry from laughter everytime Hemmy breathes lmao 😂

    • @Evabernard868
      @Evabernard868 Před 5 lety +27

      PLEASE HELP I see this clip everywhere as a good example and I can't find a single version with subtitles; what on earth does he say??

    • @cobyvinkovic6594
      @cobyvinkovic6594 Před 5 lety +10

      Yeah I can't speak Australian, I have no idea what Chris said.

    • @Katelin-nn
      @Katelin-nn Před 5 lety +16

      Jamie Bernard He says: “he doesn’t bring nuances”

    • @Evabernard868
      @Evabernard868 Před 5 lety

      @@Katelin-nn THANK U!!

    • @hausofdelena
      @hausofdelena Před 4 lety +1

      Same

  • @damienwayne2347
    @damienwayne2347 Před 5 lety +531

    charisma on command be out here putting all his friends on blast

  • @cheanarchist2381
    @cheanarchist2381 Před 2 lety +1

    my sis baby daddy was builder on his house , he’s so sweet he shouted everyone & there familys drinks lunch at music & DJ at the beach hotel .. so sweet to get everyone together for a party day just to say thanks ☺️

  • @theredguy8746
    @theredguy8746 Před rokem +5

    The thing that I struggle most with in social situations is consistency. A lot of us have only good intentions, but we go about it the wrong way and it has cost me plenty of potentially awesome relationships with awesome people, and now I'm here thinking that I will never make it up.

  • @chronolys
    @chronolys Před 4 lety +565

    lowkey watching this before school starts to help my anti social ass LMAO

  • @aruzhan9040
    @aruzhan9040 Před 5 lety +1273

    Am i the only one here after brie larson interview?

    • @lupic2786
      @lupic2786 Před 5 lety +23

      normal girl thought I was the only one

    • @athenanagano2807
      @athenanagano2807 Před 5 lety +9

      Lol same 😂

    • @laurel1865
      @laurel1865 Před 4 lety +6

      Poor brie

    • @NewkirkChris
      @NewkirkChris Před 4 lety +9

      I’m absolutely here because of that haha

    • @emberrey1814
      @emberrey1814 Před 4 lety +21

      Literally just came from that video, and after cringing so hard I needed something to lift my spirits again :/

  • @davedave8263
    @davedave8263 Před 10 měsíci +4

    The reason he is able to compliment people without sounding like he is sucking up is because he genuinely believes that everyone should have credit. But like with everything else that he does, he says what he needs to say, he is direct, then he moves on.

  • @nikoperez7208
    @nikoperez7208 Před 3 lety

    I’ve done these things all my life and my friends aire like family to me. There’s nothing like making your friend feels amazing

  • @anunnakimenagerie
    @anunnakimenagerie Před 5 lety +3894

    How to touch everyone:
    ✅ Chris Hemsworth
    ❌ Joe Biden

  • @OHYS
    @OHYS Před 6 lety +509

    Chris Hemsworth can touch _me_ universally. Thats for sure.

  • @marni9600
    @marni9600 Před rokem +1

    Every person has at least 5 enduring beautiful things about them. Some are obvious and some are precious diamonds you have to dig to find.

  • @mamobee
    @mamobee Před 2 lety +11

    The physical touch thing was really helpful, I feel like there's a bit of a wall in terms of platonic intimacy with my friends as I am very wary of being touch and touching other people due to past traumas. I used to be a very touchy person and would always cuddle up with my friends and I would like to get back to being that person, so that section of the video was extremely helpful! Thank you :)

  • @cinlocybin
    @cinlocybin Před 5 lety +1865

    It's kinda funny how Americans find Chris Hemsworth's personality so charming, but in Australia, that's just the typical bloke.

    • @ambre4144
      @ambre4144 Před 5 lety +266

      cinlocybin the people in Australia must be so nice and so much fun then.. I wish I could have a frien like Chris Hemsworth

    • @Cubannerd
      @Cubannerd Před 5 lety +190

      American men are naturally awkward.

    • @kofola9145
      @kofola9145 Před 5 lety +51

      @@ambre4144 It is vegemite.

    • @ambre4144
      @ambre4144 Před 5 lety +4

      kof ola sorry to sound stupid but what is that ? ( I’m French soo don’t come at me)

    • @sarawawa8984
      @sarawawa8984 Před 5 lety +58

      I guess I need to move to Australia (haha jk I’ve heard the stories about spiders there and idk if the stories are true but I’m not risking it)

  • @PowahSlapEntertainmint
    @PowahSlapEntertainmint Před 6 lety +2391

    Because he's Thor.

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 Před 6 lety +6

      PowahSlap Entertainmint yah im tellin you, its a bit of a superhero thing. OR they get those kind of people for the roles😄

    • @guytube1227
      @guytube1227 Před 6 lety +4

      Wait, what are you doing here?

    • @batman2385
      @batman2385 Před 6 lety +2

      Life isn't fair.

    • @apollonian_lux2473
      @apollonian_lux2473 Před 6 lety +2

      He's thor? I can barely walk!

    • @bruh-ur5vw
      @bruh-ur5vw Před 5 lety +3

      Stop following me 😂😂

  • @zcardman2007
    @zcardman2007 Před 2 lety +1

    Absolutely great suggestions. Becoming comfortable with proper touching, humor, and the uplifting of others is a great way to make others feel comfortable with themselves and with you.

  • @heatherpsyd
    @heatherpsyd Před 4 lety +4

    "Life is a long-term game." So true, I like it!

  • @MehdiNPartDeux
    @MehdiNPartDeux Před 6 lety +3604

    Damn, you're friend had to find out this way....

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 Před 4 lety +147

    Be a real life Hercules! Have eyes like diamonds, a smile that will melt titanium, and a sexy accent that’s will do the trick!
    Good luck all men out there

  • @tigoguatemala5458
    @tigoguatemala5458 Před 3 lety +1

    Now im a sales man and i wanna improve myself with these AWESOME tips, because you once said (in Alpha method video) we are selling ourself and we need to got charisma.
    Thank u for these videos

  • @omgbygollywow
    @omgbygollywow Před 2 lety +2

    I think a lot of people are watching all these videos, because I meet people who try to do all these things that these videos recommend, but everything goes out the window when something goes wrong and then their true character comes out and you see their true colors. To me, being genuine and being a nice person is the best way to be popular. Most people can see through other people when they are trying to employ a technique and trying to "be popular". Maybe it's best not to try to "be popular" but to be a good person who cares about others, and then you will be popular.

  • @lindsaymansur6462
    @lindsaymansur6462 Před 5 lety +273

    Basically, be humble, grateful, not self-depricating, funny without being mean (which is how so many are), and be authentic.

    • @FallingStary
      @FallingStary Před 5 lety +8

      Thank you because I swear everyone else grabbed "be attractive" and ran with it

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 Před 5 lety +11

      Self-deprication is okay but in moderate amounts and as self-irony and sarcasm. It might even add to charisma if done properly.

    • @gandalainsley6467
      @gandalainsley6467 Před 5 lety

      @@FallingStary well its most of it really

    • @FallingStary
      @FallingStary Před 5 lety

      @@gandalainsley6467 not really maybe short term in the beginning but it can only take you so far

    • @gandalainsley6467
      @gandalainsley6467 Před 5 lety

      @@FallingStary well but if you dont have it you wont even get to beginning

  • @RaffyAyala
    @RaffyAyala Před 6 lety +91

    "Own what you do or don't do it" Preach

    • @KelleyBroussardMackaig
      @KelleyBroussardMackaig Před 6 lety +3

      That was the best take away I got from this!! So may times, I've half committed and it made things awkward AF!

  • @lynnomara601
    @lynnomara601 Před 2 lety +51

    Chris couldn't look anything but masculine if he tried. He is so down to earth, gorgeous abd funny.

  • @minttea4503
    @minttea4503 Před 2 lety

    his energy just seems so warm and welcoming 🥺

  • @minusonegamer2884
    @minusonegamer2884 Před 5 lety +613

    Having a sexy accent helps.
    Like a lot.
    A LOT!

  • @AllTheBrightPlaces1231
    @AllTheBrightPlaces1231 Před 5 lety +810

    1. Be a really nice person
    2. Be super talented
    3. Be hella funny
    That's basically all you need to do
    How do I know this? One of my friends has all of these and he's literally friends with everyone....the entire school knows this guy
    Confidence 👍

    • @sofiarodriguez6768
      @sofiarodriguez6768 Před 5 lety +12

      You can be all three but not be charismatic. Its more rare but it's completely possible and happens quite a bit.

    • @bg357wg
      @bg357wg Před 5 lety +11

      Sofia Rodriguez I think a lot of the charisma goes into that third one with humor...?

    • @ballexbanan
      @ballexbanan Před 5 lety +3

      I am nice I think . . .
      I have a talent singing and drawing but no one hear me when I sing and no one looks at my drawings
      I am not funny
      That is me

    • @spiderman9972
      @spiderman9972 Před 5 lety +1

      @@ballexbanan Are you a guy or a girl. Girls like drawing. More usually (not all the time). But are charismatic? You dont need to be funny. Just be confident. Which is hard do instead if just say in your head. But I dont doubt that you seem like a nice person

    • @edofluit6568
      @edofluit6568 Před 5 lety +1

      @@ballexbanan well not everyone can be the popular one

  • @weberpatricia8387
    @weberpatricia8387 Před rokem +1

    I wish I had found you a couple years back, back when I was totally insecure and not on top of my game. I had to find out all those techniques myself through trial and error. But how reflecting and watching that video it’s like “oh yea, I actually do that subconsciously”

  • @niyajoy6119
    @niyajoy6119 Před 2 lety

    I click on this video seeing the title, so I thought that we will be going through some tips to become popular in general. Damn, this came out to be a character analysis of Chris Hemsworth and I am loving it!

  • @hipnhappenin
    @hipnhappenin Před 5 lety +688

    Breaks my heart when I realize I naturally do all these things but still have no friends

    • @ayslanferrari8028
      @ayslanferrari8028 Před 5 lety +86

      Are you sure you're trying it to the right people? hahaha

    • @lilyroza
      @lilyroza Před 5 lety +93

      Well, take all this advice with a grain of salt. For starters: Don't touch everyone. Distrust anyone who touches everyone. In many circles, touching people innappropriately or indiscriminately will get you shunned or worse.

    • @gareeba4492
      @gareeba4492 Před 5 lety

      Lol

    • @discountfantasy5719
      @discountfantasy5719 Před 5 lety +31

      These are just a few puzzle pieces from the bigger picture, it doesn’t mean that if you do these 3-4 things you will have everything. Your problem is somewhere else

    • @NightOfCrystals
      @NightOfCrystals Před 5 lety +9

      Take heart! You will have friends. There are times in life when you feel like you have no one, those moments deepen the joy when you do feel a connection.

  • @jkl799
    @jkl799 Před 5 lety +73

    I've never heard a bad thing about Chris Hemsworth. He is such a charming and good human.

  • @karolasek7154
    @karolasek7154 Před 3 lety +16

    This "universal toucher" reminds me of Park Jimin who I really really like and lots of people thinks he's just a guy who you cannot dislike, he likes to give hugs to everyone too so that's probably one of his secrets hahaha

  • @MKEditsxx
    @MKEditsxx Před 2 lety

    He's an ideal human
    Other than he is ridiculously handsome, he's charismatic, funny, warm, charming, positive, confident, humble...
    He also seems a great husband and father so a family guy
    God bless him 🙏🏻🥺💙

  • @ishbanyadav
    @ishbanyadav Před 6 lety +1239

    We always tend to notice a thing or two but to compile so many qualities and make it in a form of an amazing presentation is so motivation and learnable (if that's a word)🙌

    • @jypandeyji1064
      @jypandeyji1064 Před 6 lety

      Mr IY oh god u i see u 😝

    • @erikm9768
      @erikm9768 Před 6 lety +1

      I agree. And, "motivational and making it easier to learn" :)

    • @pantino21
      @pantino21 Před 6 lety

      You know what the answer to this question is. Just be yourself and stop trying too hard what if youre not funny and it goes awkward. Being yourself is the best way to be popular haha

    • @ismailsafi3350
      @ismailsafi3350 Před 6 lety

      Mr IY 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻

    • @ishbanyadav
      @ishbanyadav Před 6 lety +1

      Ismail safi kya hua ismail bhai? Itne khafa kis baat ke liye?

  • @Ostravska_Klobasa
    @Ostravska_Klobasa Před 5 lety +49

    "Just be funny." OMG thank you, how did I not think of that?

  • @nonnimuss4305
    @nonnimuss4305 Před 2 lety +1

    The subtitles are for a different video starting at 11:02, just letting you know. Great videos! Thanks for sharing them and demonstrating such wonderful examples!

  • @mylifeandme6930
    @mylifeandme6930 Před 2 lety

    I appreciate your work... Your videos are super informative and i learned a lot so thank you

  • @volbla
    @volbla Před 6 lety +146

    "[...] without trying"
    "Be very touchy"
    This is going to be a problem.

    • @benjaminaltman4895
      @benjaminaltman4895 Před 6 lety +1

      Hahaha that's fair. I was aiming to express that it's lower effort habits than having to be charismatic by telling amazing 5 minute stories. Chris conveys a lot of confidence and charm without needing to be center of attention for a super long period of time :-)

  • @richaprasad6737
    @richaprasad6737 Před 6 lety +270

    I wonder how many of these tips are applicable to women. Women touching everyone and/or giving away credit tends to carry a very different type of interpretation than when men do it.

    • @s.o.2628
      @s.o.2628 Před 6 lety +151

      Richa Prasad Yes, that's what I thought! I tried being a "universal toucher" when I was younger, but hot dog, did that mislead guys. Now I'm only comfortable touching girls since guys act like an arm touch is a love confession :(

    • @KelleyBroussardMackaig
      @KelleyBroussardMackaig Před 6 lety +63

      Serena Journalist - LOLOLOL "but hot dog did that mislead guys" - Haaaahaaa!! 😆

    • @RubyJamez
      @RubyJamez Před 6 lety +8

      Yea true, the same goes in opposite direction, I don't like at all when men of my "dating" age touch me. If you are over 40 or under 15, it is fine, otherwise just creepy no matter how friendly the touch is.

    • @scp--297
      @scp--297 Před 6 lety +8

      I think it depends on who the other person it is and also how you personally act while you do that. I am a "Universal toucher" and it does mislead certain people but once me and that person is in the group. They usually start to realize that I'm just a "touchy" person and that I'm not interested in that way. If they drop hits that they like me, I try to basically tell them I see them only as friends with verbal language and body language. If it start getting too weird though then I don't touch that person at all while still showing in good with everyone else.

    • @AlliBearASMRVA
      @AlliBearASMRVA Před 5 lety +19

      I was just about to comment on that when I ran across your comment Richa Prasad. I feel women are more scrutinized for being touchy or showing interest in conversation because sometimes it is interpreted incorrectly. I would like a guide (for women) on how to act without leading people on, or without it being misinterpreted as sexual.

  • @42kellys
    @42kellys Před 2 lety

    Boy, he has the voice, sonorious deep manly and beautiful! I could listen to his voice forever! Here, again I agree.

  • @danielclover6553
    @danielclover6553 Před 3 lety +2

    this channel is my shining light!

  • @esperanzabaca663
    @esperanzabaca663 Před 4 lety +94

    I can watch these videos all day, it’s not only about being liked or being popular it’s about building better relationships with others :)

  • @linahorn5877
    @linahorn5877 Před 5 lety +148

    when he said his daughter painted his nails uwu thats a real man

  • @maboo736
    @maboo736 Před rokem +7

    He is comfortable, friendly, not too much into himself and ridiculously good-looking. All that helps. 😂

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Před rokem

    Thank you so much amazing video and congratulations on the 6Millions subscribers! xo

  • @ChrisHemsworthIndia
    @ChrisHemsworthIndia Před 6 lety +73

    He is good looking? Yep. But what more than that? He is good person, good friend, good colleague, good husband, great father, great son, not a good brother when he was child but now freaking yes. He bring his elder bro Luke in mcu. In a word he is the guy people always wanted to be surrounded by.

  • @LaviniaDeMortalium
    @LaviniaDeMortalium Před 6 lety +247

    In the same vein I'd like to see you explore Tom Hiddleston's quieter style of charisma

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  Před 6 lety +47

      I'm game! Please tweet me some videos that you like and I'll watch them :-)

  • @caraliu3660
    @caraliu3660 Před 3 lety +47

    Great video! I'd love to hear about how to do this as a female. I don't see a lot of women touching a lot of people so I feel like the universal touching part probably only works for men. Also, I wish more women would elevate other men and women around them as much as men tend to do (always envious of the closeness of male friendships, where they constantly build each other up, support them, and also checks them by being honest with them). I need to step up, but ladies, we need to step up!

    • @violetviolet888
      @violetviolet888 Před 2 lety +5

      The principles are not gender specific. Think about the women you respect and then look for the principles they use.

    • @destinyhntr
      @destinyhntr Před 2 lety +4

      @@violetviolet888 Yes. All of these thigns he's mentioning apply to women too. Just because the example person is male doesn't mean it's gender specific.

    • @violetviolet888
      @violetviolet888 Před 2 lety

      @@destinyhntr I was responding to the original poster's comment. And I disagree. If the creator of the video wanted to, they could depict the concepts with equal representation females and males. After all: males, particularly white males, have had more than their fair share of airtime.

    • @sesonamtyela4176
      @sesonamtyela4176 Před rokem +1

      I don’t know what type of women you are around but all the women I know have this bond and sisterhood, it’s not a gender thing

    • @inuhundchien6041
      @inuhundchien6041 Před rokem

      Ermmmm it's a you problem because women touch each other so easily and naturally unlike men. Of course it's rare for people of opposite gender to do this with each other.

  • @jovynabong9522
    @jovynabong9522 Před 4 lety +4

    During the ECQ in my country, I have watched almost all yours videos and they are splendid! 👍 On this particular video though, I have noticed 16 personalities' picture and the reference you used and I am truly amazed because the episode about "3 Surprising Steps to Influence Anyone" is like an ENTP or INTJ perhaps ENTJ too tactic to become sly but powerful. So do you think Chris here (based on observation) an ESFP?

  • @laurenjcoates
    @laurenjcoates Před 5 lety +775

    I think the touching one is VERY dependent on how good looking he is. If you’re a pale, overweight, scruffying looking guy it might not go over so well

    • @ChanelROETV
      @ChanelROETV Před 5 lety +20

      Lauren exactly

    • @jonathann4280
      @jonathann4280 Před 5 lety +67

      That’s just a fact :/. Unfortunately in western society if you happen to be fat it is much much harder than being skinny. If you’re fat you’re already perceived a certain way right off the bat by society

    • @gamble777888
      @gamble777888 Před 5 lety +171

      That's true but only incidentally. Pale, overweight, and scruffy are traits that usually are either the cause of or a result of insecurity. I've met overweight people who are charismatic and touch and joke around with people very effectively, and the key is that they are confident in their own skin.

    • @brandiphillips5775
      @brandiphillips5775 Před 5 lety +16

      I love being pale.

    • @Commander_Shepard.
      @Commander_Shepard. Před 5 lety +19

      What about Hagrid then?

  • @delloda
    @delloda Před 5 lety +438

    Universal touching requires you to be at least 2 levels above average in looks.

    • @orti1283
      @orti1283 Před 5 lety +35

      nah, just come to any latin american country and you'll see

    • @delloda
      @delloda Před 5 lety +55

      @@orti1283 Latin American guys are sometimes seen as creepy in Europe for this reason.

    • @alis7135
      @alis7135 Před 4 lety

      Yup

    • @paulinezugzwang1773
      @paulinezugzwang1773 Před 4 lety +24

      Naaah it has to do with vibe and not being a creep. If it's none sexual touching, why should your appearance matter?
      I would refrain from touching people you barely know though, you never know how they would react. The McCartney clip in the video is obviously a joke.

    • @__ForTheSakeOfMen
      @__ForTheSakeOfMen Před 3 lety +12

      It's simply confidence and comfortability, but good looks don't hurt

  • @leesawyer4340
    @leesawyer4340 Před 10 měsíci

    "If your friends are awesome, it stands to reason that you must be awesome as well"
    Thx for that one

  • @Leo-sd6pw
    @Leo-sd6pw Před 2 lety

    i feel like thats why ppl r so attracted to him to: hes so confident and doesnt show embarrassment for things ppl expect

  • @DBZMacky
    @DBZMacky Před 6 lety +658

    Everyone loves him!

    • @tsfbaf303
      @tsfbaf303 Před 6 lety +3

      DBZ Macky Doubt it

    • @helloMRdj1
      @helloMRdj1 Před 6 lety

      Hope youre sarcastic because if youre, thats the first thing i thought in this video. I dont know if being popular is even good, and ill tell you that other actors telling you they love someone is faker tan Pamela Andersons tits. Hollywood has always been fake.

    • @cre8gnr8nrg
      @cre8gnr8nrg Před 6 lety

      Most movie stars are entertainers, not actors. Hence Gary Oldman was my favorite actor before I even knew his name. Didn't know it was him from one film to the next. Suspension of disbelief...

    • @aries6663
      @aries6663 Před 6 lety

      Lol I dont

    • @enteringzeropoint7856
      @enteringzeropoint7856 Před 5 lety

      Loki has some issues with him and Hela definitely feels disrespected by her younger brother. Having said that I'm sure they both still love him.

  • @keepXonXrockin
    @keepXonXrockin Před 6 lety +246

    I think a video on Emma stone would be great. I find her very likable in interviews. I feel like she's actually really nice. Jennifer Lawrence is always heralded as this super laid-back funny girl but I personally find her really annoying.

    • @McDoodle44
      @McDoodle44 Před 6 lety +18

      Agree. Lawrence is nice and smart but acting it out over the top. As if that's another role to play

    • @joquendof
      @joquendof Před 6 lety +18

      The hate is real

    • @loladolly5277
      @loladolly5277 Před 6 lety +1

      100% agree!

  • @Zigzig89942
    @Zigzig89942 Před 3 lety +1

    The guy you refer is Randy...at my job. Every shift he finds a way to touch me and he's universal with it and everyone hates it. I've made several attempts to get him to stop. He's trying to build a level of communication because he knows I straight up rebuke his existence. He's looking for approval. He will not get it for various reasons.

  • @tomwood1400
    @tomwood1400 Před rokem +1

    Love CH and agree with the benefits of him being given more creative, freedom and opportunity to be more himself in the movie! As far as the points, I hope most of these are obvious :-) but if not, thank goodness, you are covering them

  • @lovetrustandpixiedust
    @lovetrustandpixiedust Před 4 lety +17

    Chris just is secure in his masculinity and who he is without feeling the need to overcompensate or bring others down. That's incredibly attractive in a guy and likeable in anyone.

  • @wadelockwood9224
    @wadelockwood9224 Před 4 lety +95

    6:42
    Nobody:
    This guy: touch EVERYONE

  • @EXcellentstuFF
    @EXcellentstuFF Před 2 lety

    Thanks for such wonderful efforts you guys!

  • @rebeccalois2299
    @rebeccalois2299 Před 4 lety

    Probably one of my favorite videos ever hands down

  • @MyWifesSon69
    @MyWifesSon69 Před 6 lety +55

    When you're good looking it's easy to have confidence

    • @kyle-kz6iy
      @kyle-kz6iy Před 6 lety +16

      Exactly. He knows he is good looking, so he isn't scared of embarrassing his self. He doesn't care about people judging him because why should he.

    • @senyummewek
      @senyummewek Před 5 lety +9

      actually, confidence is one of handsome traits.. it's true that handsome person get confidence easily.. but also, confidence could make u looks more handsome.. think about that

    • @discountfantasy5719
      @discountfantasy5719 Před 5 lety

      senyummewek the burn =))

    • @cinnamonstix8196
      @cinnamonstix8196 Před 5 lety

      Idk... Most models actually have the lowest self confidence but I'm not sure about good looking people in general

  • @colinmadison6005
    @colinmadison6005 Před 4 lety +76

    I just wanted to say, at first I felt weird watching CZcams videos on how to be popular and stuff, but you are actually very smart and I love your approach on things. This channel can be very good for people like me who might even like to talk to people but just have trouble in social situations. So thanks man, keep doing what you do.

  • @EgaoNoGenki
    @EgaoNoGenki Před 2 lety

    I needed this video, and this channel, back in middle school.

  • @queserasera87
    @queserasera87 Před 10 měsíci +1

    "...but I think that a lot of it comes from being terrified that any sort of nice, physical contact with a man will suddenly have them labeled something pejorative." Spot on and well-worded.

  • @BrettMaverick
    @BrettMaverick Před 6 lety +967

    I have a great idea. Do a character dissection on Jason Momoa!

    • @moritzw.8991
      @moritzw.8991 Před 6 lety +6

      Brett Maverick hi Brett nice meeting you here!

    • @Johnnythefirst
      @Johnnythefirst Před 6 lety +30

      I think it would basically be the same. They are very alike in personality if you ask me... :)

    • @ablebodied175
      @ablebodied175 Před 6 lety +1

      Hi Brett.

    • @ozancanca9740
      @ozancanca9740 Před 6 lety +1

      Yo how did you came here? Love ur vids by the way😍

    • @mewsao
      @mewsao Před 6 lety +8

      he's the poor man hemsworth

  • @dawncruz4389
    @dawncruz4389 Před 5 lety +105

    "no matter what you look like"
    potato faced me: great thank you

  • @jrgenramdahl123
    @jrgenramdahl123 Před 3 lety +1

    This video makes so much sense this year

  • @kamillaparker6953
    @kamillaparker6953 Před 2 lety

    They way he said "it's magical"!

  • @rebeccamatthews4641
    @rebeccamatthews4641 Před 5 lety +92

    I feel like the more I watch these videos the more I over analyse my behaviour and the more socially awkward I become 😂😂

    • @robertyeakel4186
      @robertyeakel4186 Před 5 lety +4

      this is exactly why i dont watch that many of these lol

    • @RenzXVI
      @RenzXVI Před 5 lety +2

      Whatever you do, don't resort to watching funny/cute pet videos or you'll end up with 11 cats...

    • @gandalainsley6467
      @gandalainsley6467 Před 5 lety +1

      it just makes me realize that most of it is just looks and money , because i have similar traits , and i was still treated like a shit as kid , teen , then i had 2 years of me going mental and beating anyone who said something that i didnt like , weirdly people tried then to be my "friends" well they tried to be around me more

  • @elliel.5915
    @elliel.5915 Před 5 lety +35

    I think that the point about his jokes elevating the people around him is spot on. I've actually noticed how much of a difference this makes in real life. When I was in middle school/early high school, my friends and I would constantly make jokes at one another's expense. The "haha you have no friends" or the "what the hell are you wearing?" type. We would pass it off as silly and not serious, but it made me feel like crap in the long run, and actually hurt my self-esteem a lot. Now, we all make jokes that elevate others, and everything is so much better. We don't do it insincerely either. Not saying this is the only reason my friendships are in a better place nowadays, but it played its part.
    tl;dr: Make jokes that build your friends up, not tear them down. It really does make a difference.

    • @potato-whiz
      @potato-whiz Před 5 lety

      Ellie Em my husband has a humor like that. I’ve said to be his friend you have to have thick skin and “get” him or else you won’t hold up and take it personally. In his defense, he can take as well as give too. But it can be too much sometimes, especially when it’s just a constant barrage of playful insults, it just creates a negative vibe. He’s very charismatic otherwise though. People love him generally.

  • @scrillthebeast2066
    @scrillthebeast2066 Před 2 lety +1

    To be famous you have to unlock something within you, basically what people call charisma, for some it’s being funny for others it’s being intimidating, for most it’s a mix.

  • @lizzlocke3130
    @lizzlocke3130 Před 3 lety

    Oh my god the guy who directed Ragnarok did What we do in the Shadows!!!! Ahhh I loved that movie, no wonder I enjoyed this so much!!

  • @fembot521
    @fembot521 Před 5 lety +711

    You basically need to be this way naturally otherwise it is awkward AF

    • @theemperor1015
      @theemperor1015 Před 5 lety +54

      We keep changing throughout our lives. Try to remember how you were 5 years ago.

    • @gandalainsley6467
      @gandalainsley6467 Před 5 lety +27

      @@theemperor1015 yeah i was smiling , wait no that was kid me , i was getting more angry at the time by being treated like shit yeah that was good time

    • @travis_redfern6771
      @travis_redfern6771 Před 5 lety +46

      It can be a gradual change tho. I know I went from being crazy and lighthearted around a lot of people back in middle school to being very shy within a few years. (And it being what people know me as now) So I think it can go both ways too.

    • @Ajesen
      @Ajesen Před 4 lety

      @@theemperor1015 yes

    • @misaelarvizu7023
      @misaelarvizu7023 Před 4 lety

      I agree

  • @rickandrygel913
    @rickandrygel913 Před 5 lety +215

    How to be popular:
    Step 1: Be around people.
    Me: Pass

    • @Mahluhkai
      @Mahluhkai Před 4 lety +1

      Your afraid of being around people 😂😂😂

  • @supportteam6808
    @supportteam6808 Před 2 lety +1

    Chris Hemsworth has that loving big brother/cool dad vibe with EVERYONE...that is why he is so likable...it is his nature!