Personality Traits To Be More Attractive Than 95% Of Men
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We show you all the six types of charisma in MCU that seems so irresistible to women. One of the most common misconceptions of charisma is that one size must fit all. The truth is that while there are some high level tips that everyone should follow, there are lots of different styles that you can adopt for success in charisma and in dating. So in honor of the release of Avengers Infinity War, we are going to look at six types of charismatic leading men and the pros and cons of each style then you can decide which style suits your personality best.
A few caveats before we begin. One, yes, all of these guys are extremely handsome actors and absolutely, women will be drawn to them because of their looks. Still, there is value to be had for the rest of us in analyzing their personalities because they really are some of the most charismatic people I've seen. Second, I am NOT saying that each actor is always the type shown in this video. It's more about the habits that I've frequently seen in their interviews; and three, these aren't the only types of attractive behavior. There's others but I couldn't find MCU actors that represented them well so we might get to them in other videos
00:58 Robert Downey Jr being The Cool Guy
02:30 Chris Evans being The Giver
04:02 Chris Pratt being The Goofball
06:43 Sebastian Stan being The Suave
09:04 Anthony Mackie being The Attention Grabber
11:07 Tom Holland being The Storyteller
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I need to collect all 6 infinity charismas
I only got red, and blue. Weirdest mix of Robert and Evans.
Available at Burger King for a limited time only.
I only have blue damn i got lots of work to do
I got the blue, but red and pink is just in an out
Lego Ant YESSS😂😂😂
When you collect all six charismas you can snap your fingers and all the other guys will leave the bar immediately.
If you could use all 6 you would be airing on the side of a sociopath
Underrated comment!!
Sorry to disappoint, only half of all the guys at the bar will leave
XCHDragox115 nah I snap away all the guys except me and none of the women which would be around half the people. Perfectly balanced
I am... charismatic.
Girl: Hi
Me: So, whos your favorite Marvel Avenger
most underated coment would now which would go for
Modern problems require modern solutions.
Best comment
Me (a girl): Captain America of course! The real question is what's your Hogwarts house?😂
Black widow for girl. For boy Hawkeye.
HOW TO TOUCH MEN AND WOMEN?
A book by Chris Hemsworth.
😂😂😂😂
Chapter One:
Be Chris Hemsworth
bisexuals want to know your location
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Forward by cara delevingne
Storyteller: And that's why Tom Holland can't keep a secret.
🤣
Sebastian Stan on the outside: * totally cool*
Seb on the inside: I have no idea what i'm doing where am I
Mx McAdem Sebastian on screen: who am I
seb on the inside: why do i exist
Sometimes he loses it
I have the same problem.
I actually used to know the guy (we went to the same school way back in the 90's). He was kind of more brash back then, but somewhat similar in terms of personality.
He is sweet as person too? He is not only a good actor and pretty, but is relatable too? He is really deserving the spotlight he gets.And likable.
When the girl is not Yours : Be Robert downey
When a girl is your Girl: Be Chris Evans
I would actually love a breakdown or rather some thoughts on when to use what!!
Nah. Be Chris Evans to everyone, both men and women, and women will like you
@@KrypticKiss18 The only bad thing is people will see you as a pushover
Ah, the golden rule..
This comment section is GOLD
Jen lowkey looked so scared when Chris took over the agent question and the relief on her face when he says "9" is priceless.
Tom Hiddleston - The Gentleman Type.
And intelligent
He could tell you he's going to kill you in ten minutes and make it sound desirable, LOL!
@@nurse425 Him and Cumberbatch.
The best type
Chris Hemsworth is probably the embodiment of the best charisma. He can be the cool, the giver, and the goofball all at the same time. Just look again.
Agreed. Well he is a god and has his own day.
Hiddleston is as strong when he opens his mouth., but chris is good in the body language and he can eertauthority and humor..
Can u elaborate i really want to be the cool guy and the goofball but I'm not sure how to mix those two property
@Adrijana Radosevic I clearly mean Chris Hemsworth the actor himself, not the roles he played.
He can becool: Of course, his look alone helps that aspect a lot.
He can be the giver: He often makes other people feel good about themselves as shown in multiple interviews where he responds positively towards other people's remarks.
He can be the goofball: The movie "Thor: Ragnarok" was mostly improvised in terms of the dialogue, and there the director managed to allow Chris to let out his original goofball persona. He is always funny irl, and that was emphasized in the movie.
As for how to mix those, don't ask me. idk. Watch the video instead.
chris evans doesn't laugh. he gets fkin heart attacks
i came for bucky, stayed for sebastian. i love him more now
SAMEEE
SAMEEEEEE I love him a bit too much😂
Sammeeee
You forgot mine "awkward virgin"
Yo dude that's definitely missing LoL😂😂😂 I feel you😂😂😂
The antisocial introvert who hates talking to people on the phone or going out in groups
Sad
these are attractive types
6 types women are repulsed by?
To be fair, Evans laughs at everything, part of why he is amazing.
Yeah I saw a video of him doing a pushup challenge and his dog kept coming in the way and he was having fits of laughter.
I laugh with your profile my man
6:06 Chris Pratt raps better then every Souncloud rapper
lyrics:
what's up
it's ya boy Chris Pratt
coming back with an episode of What's My Snack
last chapter you ain't see nothin
what's my snack?
its a carrot cake muffin
hOoh it's so good
(gotta be honest with you, this is my snack for tomorrow)
HEEEHEAE
What a remarkable feat
@@blairebelarus He belts the lyrics out good.
No one:
Jennifer Lawrence: HAHAHAHAHHA
Her laugh was indeed very off putting.
It's more like: HAA HAA HAA HAA HA
_hA hA hA hAA_
Bro it was so cringey that it felt creepy
400th like.
I love how Seb is the 'suave guy' and Mackie is the 'attention grabber' especially since Seb is absolutely smitten with Mackie as shown by their relationship throughout the years, Seb was way more quiet before he met Mackie but after getting to know him Seb starts to be more playful and naughty because Mackie is so charismatic, I love their bromance!
Ikkkkk I watched all their interviews together and their chemistry is amazing cause mackie makes seb open up and be himself. He is actually a really introverted, nervous, shy guy until around mackie
Sebastian Stan *is* A pretty suave guy😁 he's flirtatious and calm when he's around women.
But the moment somebody calls him attractive or handsome, he immediately grows embarrassed and smiles shyly. It's like his cutest flaw ever😀😆
True
He’s the hottest human I’ve ever seen in my entire life n g l 😅
buc nastayyyy ahahah
THIS is exactly what I thought about the moment I saw his part.
Sexy Seabass
Holy shit I'm so attracted to Sebastian Stan it's insane.
Aye
Welcome to the club of being crazy for Sebastian Stan lol
Oh same here.. him and jason momoa is the same type, i guess. The melt-my-heart-with-deep-voice&eyes-and-gorgeous-hair type 😜
Who isn't. I rewatched this video only for him.
@@matildedelgrosso8262 Sameee I've watched it so many times it's unhealthy
Omg I find it so cool that you put so much effort in all of your videos like studying all the interviews, realizing why they all are so charismatic, cool and popular and teaching us silly gooses the same
Also helps that most of these are professional actors.
That's why they're great examples lol
Pedro Soares most of them? Hahahahahaha, which one of these arent a professional actor?
He said that at the start
And handsome
Watch lots of stand up comedy to improve your charisma
Chris Hemsworth collected all 6 infinity charismas.
crushing on him is *inevitable*
He's the only hot one in the bunch. The rest are double baggers.
@@MeanOldLady um no
Internet Composting captain America though
@@MeanOldLady Sebastian Stan's the man.
This made me realize I’m a mix between Story Teller and Giver, with a mix of Cool guy.
A good mix
Clearly with an overall attribute of humbleness 😂
Chris Pratt & Paul Rudd both display the goofball perfectly, and they are always so genuine in their interactions, which makes each interaction feel special
Watching as a woman to figure out what kind of charisma I like 😂
Which did you pick?
Bradley Malcolm some serious questions here
Watching as a women figuring out I am the goofy Chris Pratt type
Yep same
You love me
Anthony Mackie is the MCU version of Will Smith
facts
Just realised that myself
True
Yes Yes but Anthony is better
Wait what happens when will joins the MCU
Even as such, I think it can be useful to master all the elements so you can switch up your type of charisma when it doesn't have the desired effect. This makes you more versatile.
6:05 mad freestyling
And he looks hi
SEBBY THE FLIRT AHAHAHAHAHA YOU ARE NOT WRONG THO
he's a flirty dork and that's why people love him imo
Is he? He only seemed to become more flirty or playful when he met Mackie lol, before then he seemed shy? More quiet!
He kinda still is shy and quiet when he is alone or when Mackie isnt near him XD But when Mackie is he goes full hyper hot mess funny guy
Who is also confused 200% of the time.
Dont be boxed into a type of charisma. Don't try to be someone else. Be your own person.
Best comment ever
EVERYONE have some sort of insecurities, it's just part of being human, you just have to keep trying get used to discomfort imo
Just be a better you if you're striving to change. That would be my advice for insecure or socially awkward people.
Agreed, I'm a little of three of these types. Being a goofball is my true side though and I'm usually a giver in public sans physical contact. Have to mix in a bit of suave on a first date or certain public settings. I am NOT a story-teller though which would be useful in speeches.
But do not completely ignore good habits of others as they may help you
I definitely do the story telling version. I tell a lot of funny stories about myself to share my human experience, but also to make fun of myself in a subtle self depreciating way. I also do the cool guy a lot just because I'm a lot more rational and collected and love to use my inner mindfulness to be in the present. It's just a lot more natural to me than the goofball or the giver. I respect all the styles, I just use the ones that are more natural to me.
"Gee I wonder which one I'll be!"
Cool guy: nope. Definitely not.
Giver: maybe?
Goof ball: god damn it.
Same bro, fate is brutal
You should have named this the infinity stones of charisma
1k likes and no comment??
@@bavvaroisjoestar lol not anymore
@@berrybaptiste8783 haha exactly we need more people to comment here💀
Hey fools, it’s looks and status and THEN the rest.
I think that the moral to the story is be like Ellen. Fake nice and a jerk in reality. Otherwise be Mackie. An obnoxious annoying person with nervous over the top energy. Clears the room. Got it.
Ok, but Tom Hiddleston?
In The Night Manager the character he played made him super sexy.
He’s such a kind, well spoken gentleman
exactly!!
Tom Hiddleston is the Eloquent Poet.
Mark my words.
the intellectual
Mackie mixed with some Hemsworth and just a little sprinkle of Evans.
Def feels like me and it has worked out so great.
I love group settings making my presence known and really hitting my messages home with some light touching and then bumping the people around me up so I don't seem like my ego is too big.
Please do this with women as well! It's incredibly interesting and well done - I'm surely a fan!
Ironically, Black Widow and Scarlet Witch fell for none of these guys.
They both fell for the quiet thinking gentleman... Well until you piss off Banner he's a quiet thinker, so, maybe points against him if you have to walk on egg shells to not make him mad
@@Tracor3k99 haha considering the lives of those characters they probs appreciate the peace lol
Yeah, S.W. is dating a robot, and B.W. was dating a big green monster
@Do Not Reply Nah, the real reason is because they want to keep these hot characters single so women can drool over them some more.
wanda was constantly surrounded by ripped sUPERHEROES and she fell for a toaster
Could you cover the charisma of Jack Sparrow?
I feel like that he deserves his own video.
Most Definitely he would be the most cunning and playful person in any room
Gipsy Danger
Borderline insanity?
Be a crazy stoner
Alcoholic?
Just saying that Chris Pratt and peter quill are so underrated in the MCU like someone should at least acknowledge them instead of Blaming infinity war on quill
Plz like if u agree
IW had a scene that says, "Hey everyone. Shut the hell up." In over 14 million futures, only 1 gave them victory. So, it had to happen that way. :-)
Bro, I like Chris Pratt, but Quill deserves the blame for infinity war.
I was so bad when he got snapped. He should've had to seen the consequences of his stupidity. If he hadn't punched Thanos in the face, pointlessly, so much fictional suffering could've been avoided.
Screw Quill.
mcu made starlord a clown...nothing can be done lmao
The actors play and imprint themselves on the characters so well, sometimes I forget if your talking about the actors or their characters.
Here are six types of charisma that women find INTOLERABLE:
1) the fake cool guy
2) the fake giver
3) the fake Goofball
4) the fake suave
5) the fake attention grabber
6) the fake storyteller
Pretty instinctive but should be mentioned, not a lot of people seem to get the difference
It's basically forcing yourself to be someone you are not already naturally. (+)
@@elplebeuchiha1996 It's like it's their job to act like someone else.
Josh Purdy what is it that makes these fake?
I mean that a bunch of 16 year olds trying to be "the cool guy" isn't irresistible its just terrible. Faking it and actually being it naturally are sooo not the same thing
Josh Purdy but if you sit around waiting until you just *are* something naturally ...its never gonna happen. Its better to have some genuinely cringey moments when you are 16 than to be scared to try.
Mixing Robert Downey and Sebastian Stan will make you unstoppable
But with the risk as coming off too cool to be approached and/ or full of yourself
Girls like it when a guy is intimidating and dominant and there is a fine line to not come off as arrogant, you just have to know it ;)
Not all women. That behavior's a turnoff for some. I'll take a Hemsworth or Evans 'giver' type over 'confidant flirt' any day.
But I have to say, having hobby studied both Sebastian and Robert in interviews (as these two are the ones mentioned), you can see that they are very emotionally intelligent, aware of themselves, sensitive and kind under the surface and they use this coolness as a shield for all of that. The cool vibe is also a way to detach from the more anxious parts of their personalities, a trait that I don't believe that for example Tom Holland, Anthony Mackie or any of the three Chrises have in the same way. Robert however is older, more seasoned and has overcome a lot in his life so his shield is much harder to see through, but I read Sebastian as a very emotionally aware person who goes through the motions on a regular basis and that's why he comes off as more quiet and pensive in some interviews, whereas the extremely energetic, charismatic and forward Mackie immediately brings out his lighter and mischievous side. Having seen a couple of videos with the guys mentioned in the video, I have to say that for me Sebastian is hands down the most interesting one. He seems more multifaceted than the others and has this amazing ability to seem both engaged and aware at the same time as he comes off as super cool and detached all the while remaining chilled out. He's also in that interesting age between having left his wildest years behind but still not reached that more peaceful age that e g Robert is in so he's still busy figuring out who he is. With the exception of Robert, I do not believe the other personalities mentioned to be as complex as his is and thats why he fits in the role of Bucky so well. The fact that he does all of this while being a real tease who shamelessly flirts with the ladies like a pro only enhances his interesting persona, but what the hell do I know, I've never met the guy =)
Pulling of either of these is already extremely hard and risky, but combining them? You’d have to be the God of charm to pull of something like that.
I feel like Chris Evans is the male version of Emilia Clarke
I didn't know until now that I need dem both to do a movie together
The secret of the goofball is like the secret of The Hulk: "Wanna know my secret?... I'm ALWAYS goofy"
can you do a video on charisma types that men like in women?
I dig the idea! Our audience is mostly guys but I'll see if I can find a way that would appeal to our core while still covering that topic
Yes please, women are human too 😒
Yer Mama yes thank you
Traditional women😍
There are plenty of women too (and often it’s just assumed it’s mostky guys if it’s unclear based on username) and it would be a good way to get more female audience I feel.
Sebastian is awesome.
That's what I'm saying😂😎😍
That's my name hahaha
They're all awesome
I love these videos because I can easily pick up on which one is me, then I can use the tips given. I take quizzes all the time and they never get it right.
Honestly one of the reasons I really like Sebastian is that sometimes he goes really shy/quiet/not so suave??? (I don't know that just how I see him sometimes like when he starts to look down and start to"emmm.. ahh you know") and so suave which makes him really just adorable when he is being suave?? What's wrong with me lmao
idk i just see sebastian stan and i click...
same
Yeah once I saw Mackie, Seb, and Chris I was ready!
Me
EXACTLY!!!! i'm so up in his ass it's NOT healthy
big mood
is there a female version to this?......because my personality is in DIRE need of assistance.
Jo Hova
Is it bad that I read this in Washington’s voice from Hamilton?
@@yaiyasmin No, that checks out.
If you are hot you won't need a personality, look at all the ig thots.
JuSt Be YoUrSeLf
Just look half decent and men will come crawling to you
I think that one interesting way of studying these is thinking of them as either “steps “, or “variations “. Steps: depending on what stage of a relation you are with ‘people you are interesting in’, or variations: depending on the type of person you are treating (e.g. an introvert, a comic person, a shy one etc). Could work
the way you lead into new paragraphs, leads me to believe you did really well in english class, and payed alot of attention
Jennifer Lawrence's laugh sounds so fake
thats what i thought to
It was a mock laugh duh
More like a pellagon laugh.
I dont think so, more like akward, I dont really want to do this interview..
@@mskjaer496 - Yeah, I got the impression she was just tired. she works and plays hard.
Notes:
1 - The Cool type
People want to be liked by them
Jokingly elevate themselves
Harder to make laugh - creates natural desire for others to impress them.
Relatively difficult to captivate - don't give anyone complete attention
- People often feel insecure of their status around the cool guy.
- Women may get the impression that you're not that interested in them, and lose interest in you.
2 - The Giver
Tend to jokingly elevate others
Laugh easily at other people's jokes
Tend to be warm in the way that they touch
3 - The Goofball
Crack jokes in moments when others are literal and more serious
Answer questions jokingly to create humor, rather than share personal background
They don't have to turn on the humor because it almost never gets turned off.
Start by doing things first that amuse you.
- There is just a more seductive edge that is just missing from goofball
4 - The Suave Guy
Unashamed Flirt
Comfortable with tension rising in situations and still remaining cool
Not like this with everyone - that would be creepy
Usually a leader in conversation, introducing self proactively to others
Proactively includes others in different conversational threads
5. The Attention Grabber
Everything they do is big - voice, gestures, even facial expression
Thrives in group settings
Can be very hard to talk over
Thrives in group settings - Not afraid to speak up
Have no problem approaching a group - simply walk up, listen for a moment, and wait for a chance to jump in.
Tend to think pretty highly of themselves
- Does sometimes exclude quieter personalities
Good to use in group settings, then tone it back for 1-on-1 conversations
6. The Storyteller
Realizes that a well-told story is always more interesting than a simple, direct answer
- Droning on and on can be boring
May liven up stories by making the dialogue present tense.
Will raise questions in the mind of the audience
You can sort of guess how the story ends, but want to see how it plays out.
(Good to get attention before telling your story)
Mix and match, you can't use all at once, so choose carefully based on who you want to be and how you want to be perceived.
Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" to learn how to be a giver and not a pushover. Check out Charlie's link to audible in the description.
Lars Hansen thank you 😘
Thanks for that, Lars Hansen
Lars Hansen thanks! This saved me a lot of time :)
Should have read the comment section first and that's a first for me.
Lars Hansen thank you so much dude!!! I really your work... really thank you man!!!
The Suave is definitely my main type but add the giver in and it’s perfection
James spader is great at the commanding cool guy behavior and story telling and has this unwavering confidence
wait wth was up with JLaw's fake laugh????
entertain7us14 she doesnt know how to fake laugh
She is just forcing it
A fake laugh, then.
She didn't get the joke but didn't want to show she didn't get it.
Naw it was fake for sarcastic effect
annoying af, I've seen that kind of behaviour when women flirt, they laugh at the dullest jokes and is kinda cringy
Anthony Mackie and Sebastian Stan have so much chemistry. I love seeing them do interviews together!
@Terry Cupboards That's great news. I can't wait to see it!
I can watch all of these videos over and over, they're entertaining and it's information I can reevaluate again and again🤘😎👌
Chris Pratt is my spirit animal since I was a kid
How to be charismatic? Be named Chris. Lol
Or Tom.
In another interview most of the Infinity War cast (men AND women) chose Pratt as the most charming of the Chrises. Hemsworth came in a distant second and Evans didn't even get one vote :'(
Goes to show great sense of humour is prob the most important skill in charisma.
RDJ is just.....I have no idea how he's as charismatic as he is. It just WORKS. I know from his castmates (and also even snippets I've heard from when his wife talks about him) that he's not like Tony Stark. ScarJo said that she has observed RDJ and says that he puts on the Stark personality as a front in the public to protect not only his private family life, but his true personality as well. He's very emotive, sensitive, eccentric and affectionate. He *IS* quick witted, he's a fantastic improviser. His brain works a mile a minute; but he's not arrogant. At all. In the public eye he's adopted the persona of Tony Stark, but that's not who he is. All that being said, when I see interviews with the cast, my eye is automatically drawn to him. Maybe...just maybe he'll reveal something about himself. If I watch close enough.
omg thank you for this!! yes, i had similar thoughts, i think you are right! ^_^
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I love the interview with Sebastian I’m falling in love every time I watch it
Whelp. When you're none of them cuz you're anxiety is your strongest personality trait. Feels bad man
Actually I know a lot about sebastian stan and I can guarantee u that he is a really nervous, quiet and shy guy. He's also a really big introvert and doesn't talk much.
You can learn how to “turn off” your social anxiety. Some people do it and it works for them.
@@mimesthaisilva8321 how does that work. How do u do that?
@@mini8129 practice practice practice and change your beliefs
NoseKey
I even see it as a positive trait, as it shows that you respect the people around you elevating them to a higher status.
Long Story Short: I am screwed.
Sam Willfull well you’re obviously not the storyteller 😂
You are a covert goof ball! Just give it a try.
You got the self deprecation. That's part of The Giver or Goofball. Use both or one or the other and don't be so negative and you can be successful.
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Love these vids, using people's favorite actors and characters to help better people's understanding of communication and how they portray themselves is p great
Well done video...you have a new subscriber.
also see Sebastian stan as shy though like when he broke the glass door recording civial war in the bloopers he was so shy and adorable
the fact that he is shy and adorable AND suave when he's with the woman he likes makes him more irresistible!
@@Grace-ec5hb ngl just his appearance does XD
chris evans is gonna laugh too hard one day and just morph into the floor
A really hot floor.
@@victoriaslater6008 The floot is lava
Loving these.
I collected all 6 infinity charismas like Chris Hemsworth
What if all of these types were combined 🤔
you cant reaaaally be a Tony Stark and Giver
S0chan great TFS reference bro
Mary Sue lel.
The world would implode and women will wet their pants immediately without even coming into contact with you.
Chris Hemsworth
Holy heck a more in-depth analysis of sebastian stan would be amazing
PhelpsTalks yes
YES PLEASE
The surest way to attract women is to ignore their flirtations. The problem is that it causes more flirtation which causes more feigned ignorance of, etc etc.
Nice video, thanks! My husband is a mix between the Giver and the Gentleman (as mentioned in the comments. :-)
Anthony's personality reminds me of Will Smith's.
I think that is exactly what he's going for.
It's the Eddie Murphy / generic black guy type
Nekrumorfiini1 😂😂😂💯
Sebastian isn’t really a conversation leader though, is he? He’s usually really quiet during interviews
Probably because he is paired with Anthony Mackie almost everytime
Anthony Mackie actually brings the chattier, more playful side out of Sebastian.
Initiation =/= leading
yeah, i'm surprised they put him as the example of the 'suave, flirtatious guy' i mean, i feel like Tom Hiddleston fits more to be the face of the category. i mean cmon! have you seen any of his interviews? hes always so sweet towards women and so smooth-talking. and Seb.. if you watch most of his interviews and instagram stories, you'd know he's a big, awkward dork who's more of on the 'adorable guy' side.
Not when Mackie's around
I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL. Could you please make videos about women personalities and charisma?
Yeah until the end when she plays along and pretends to flirt back; then Sebastian loses his cool. Which was pretty funny to watch; that he was composed until then.
SEBASTIAN STAN IS MY DRUG!!!!!! He is a very shy guy who gets embarrassed and turns into a mess when complimented tho but he has his amazing sexy suave moments! And where is Tom Hiddleston tho?
sayounara1232 tho
That's what I was thinking, where's Hiddles? He seems like a mixture of the giver and the storyteller, but also a good listener.
sayounara1232 more like Sebastian uchiha
My crush probably prefers me the way I was last year when we met, a Sebastian Stan type guy
omg I do it tooo I am embaraced and shy if anone compliments me...:D unfortunatly I guess woman arent that "cute if this happens :D "
Please do one for types of charisma men find irresistable (in women). The ladies in your viewership would much appreciate it. We like to be charismatic and attractive too :)
Sophie Jones depends on what kind of guy you want to attract.
Sophie Jones 1 be a girl average looking . 2 be nice . That's it .
Charisma is wasted on women. We need it because we have to win women over. You just have to be a healthy shape and men will want you.
1) people are way more complicated than that. You may be a go-getter who needs to persuade more reluctant partners but that isn't what everyone's romantic life is like. Nor is that setup any more likely to succeed than any other. All roads lead to happily ever after, but they all have an exit for divorce court on the way.
2) As he has repeated many times through this series: charisma isn't just for romance. charisma is about dealing with people. Throughout this entire series he's been showing clips of casual interviews to talk about charisma. charisma helps you make friends, get a better job, raise your kids, and get your mother-in-law to like you. Whether you're a woman or a man, those are important things.
Sophie Jones || You are absolutely right about 2) and as a dude I think it's interesting to see what are the different types of female charisma. I intuitively sense guy's charisma, but women are still a mystery to me (and to most guys actually).
So I made it to the end and have a very honest problem, I would love to see if you can help me adresse with a video of analysis and advice of experience. You mentioned the attention grabber can overshadow or push away the more quiet types. In my Personal life most my friends are the quiet type and I really appreciate and find them fun and exciting. I have used charisma on command a lot to improve building group settings in general and am currently working on for these people specifically who struggle with groups and tend to rather do one on ones as a consequence. In my friend groups to start with I have had to ward of attention grabbers with cross and garlic or I will have to tell them to shoo, shoo or behave and be quiter, so as too not scare the others away. However I would like to be able a have an interesting and more inclusive friend group. As a volounteer youth group leader we have a huge problem with this too and it has been a struggle for more than a decade as we have had a few more natural attention grabbers these years, while general social skils seem to be declining too. The attention grabbers typically build a group of our strongest youth. They have been an incredible ressource and are much appreciated. However at the same time we see that they push a far too large an amount away, as the more quiet types might get too overhwelmed near them or miss their chance to use and develop on their social talents and makes their contibution and on both sides they struggle to mingle well. So I would love to hear from either or both of these point of view. How as a leader do you create a space that lets attention grabbers feel authentic in expressing themselves and preserve their contibution and talent, while at the same time helping tone it down to create a welcoming space for everyone. I suppose we should most succesfully focus on teaching everyone to have better self and social awareness and skills, but if we where to focus right now particularly on the attention grabbers how would we do it? I believe in them being kind heard kids who wants everyone to feel welcome, but they lack the awareness and skill for it. I just imagine from their point of view some could struggle with how to feel authentic and realize and continue contibuting the talent they naturally have, (as it really is a tallent,) while working on avoiding the downside of pushing too many people away. I dont want these youth to feel bad about themselves, in a negative way, but help them see their weakness in a contuctive way and help them realize their wishes to be inclusive too. Its not easy for the youth as not even all the leaders have awareness to understand there is an issue and in either case we want to avoiding feeding the flames by overpromoting and supporting one type of behavior too much or too harshly and onesidedly critize one too. I want to find out how we strive to for the middle ground. If you made it to the end, thank you for your care and time in getting there! Any further advice/ video is much appreciated!
I love how they have another video you should watch to understand this one
Guys just a tip if you avoid questions by being “goofy” girl’s will think you don’t care...Pratt is funny but he’s also serious.
Sebastian Stan is seductive but he is also funny and cool and adorable....
Just. Be. Yourself. Girls can see it when you’re not true to yourself or are not comfortable with who you are. If that doesn’t work be Chris Evans, Chris Evans is always right!!!!
Girls can't see when you are being yourself or not, or at least not all of them. Just wash daily and don't dress like a garbage can.
Fack you
Can I be Rich Evans?
Ah, you speak of the fabled 1%
The Real Captain Marvel And not caring is a problem?
Suave + Giver = the best combination.
Lol
No goof and cool tho it's very hard
Yee
Disappointed But not surprised that’s literally me
Yes. Stan and Evans are perfect.
Loki is my favorite
Pretty cool watching this knowing that I knew Sebastian Stan when he was 17 ✌🏼he was talented then and so it’s not surprising 💕
I find Sebastian Stan irresistible... that’s it.
I like how all of the cast members basically play themselves on screen, really shows the tight casting Marvel does.
Not all. Examples: Zoe Saldana, Dave Bautista, Benedict Cumberbatch, Karen Gillan, and others.
And i believe Falcon (Mackie) ain't playing himself. At least they're not really developing it enough yet.
It shows that they are bad actors.
The thing that confuses me the most about all of this is that I have the ability to switch between the different types of flirtation. Not to come off as cocky but I feel that I execute them well, given my decent track record. The confusion comes in when determining which one to go with when speaking to different types of people. For example: My current interest is an introvert and she is particularly shy. She's told me before how much she admires my confidence and how attractive she finds me but having gone through practically all of these scenarios, I can't seem to get her to move to the next stage with me. Not really sure what to do.
so what ended up happening
Omg watching this video again I never realized that last week tonight's marlo bundo bedtime story appeared in the best selling audible books
I think I act as all of them at different points in the day apart from RDJ... Like he is one of a kind
I genuinely find it hilarious that you put Seb as the suave guy. Other than they one interview that was used for the whole example, he's actually a really awkward person.
you say that but all i see in the comments are people praising sebastian stan with thousands of likes on their comments. literally right underneath you i see a woman that says "idk i just see sebastian stan and i click..." with 2.3k likes on the comment. So i think you might be wrong.
Because he's a dork, but he's a cute dork. He can be absent-minded and awkward but it's charming because that's who he is. He's relatable and approachable, laid back and when he is smooth it almost seems to be done unconsciously, which is more appealing than some cool, oober seductive type. And also, he has that face. Girls love that face.
I honestly think that might be a better category for him. I feel like Tom H might be a better one for the suave category.
I believe the point of the video is not so much to show which actor embodies what personality, but just to show examples of what each of those personalities is like
@@davidsantiago7808 Most women like Sebastian because he looks really charming. Well he is a fine looking fellow. But from what I have seen in interviews he doesnt have good conversation skills like someone say for eg. Robert Downey. You know the kind of people who can talk about anything to anyone and still keep them interested. I agree with the original comment, if anything Sebastian is more like a clumsy dork who looks good.
That is the phoniest laugh I've heard in some time 4:56
Worse than rocket's!
Smiled throughout Sebastian's suave
The clip of Sebastian Stan always makes me blush
Molly Owen so truuue 😂
:-O
Where's Loki at?
Tom Hiddleston is the gentleman.💕
The British Guy. Same for Dr. Strange
The very polite guy
That's because they forgot the sensitive guy
He's very low key.
This literally boosted my confidence so much. I got three of these bro. I’m almost there boys. I’ll have all of the six infinity charismas.
Bull....
There's a type of charisma not covered in this video that I would love to have you explain. This is the charisma of the Jack Dawson character in Titanic. Back in the 90s. Leonardo DiCaprio was already a teen heartthrob because of his looks, but when Titanic came out, his portrayal of Jack produced the most insane, pandemic-like hysteria I've ever seen. He instantly became the biggest star on the planet because women from Both Americas, Europe and Asia went absolutely insane for this guy, and "Leo-mania", as they called it, was in large part responsible for Titanic's record-breaking success back then.