5 Social Mistakes That Make You Extremely Unlikeable

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    A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.
    Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.
    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
    0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
    1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
    4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
    7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
    9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly
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  • @khaoscero
    @khaoscero Před 4 lety +6160

    Feels like Hemsworth tries SO HARD to make it comfortable for everyone and he just can't catch a break.

    • @claudioortiz5830
      @claudioortiz5830 Před 4 lety +303

      he's been trying all day and Brie thinks that's an attack, so they fight. she is a sociopath.

    • @MercurialIris
      @MercurialIris Před 4 lety +122

      Claudio Ortiz are you aware of the definition of “sociopath”?

    • @br9760
      @br9760 Před 4 lety +305

      @@claudioortiz5830 Better term is, toxic. Or combative.

    • @claudioortiz5830
      @claudioortiz5830 Před 4 lety +1

      @@br9760 not for me

    • @calirooster411
      @calirooster411 Před 4 lety +1

      A point break?

  • @Solar-em2ld
    @Solar-em2ld Před 5 lety +2557

    *Alternative title for this video:* dude on youtube makes me regret every conversation I've ever had

    • @sen7826
      @sen7826 Před 4 lety +19

      Then you're such a mess.
      (sorry, I had to)

    • @frankmiller1391
      @frankmiller1391 Před 4 lety +2

      a mess 😂

    • @marianagoulart196
      @marianagoulart196 Před 4 lety +11

      Here I'm trying to remember every interaction I had in the last party I went to discover how much of a jerk I was 😂

    • @_Gabyo_
      @_Gabyo_ Před 4 lety +6

      I swear the points about sarcasm and not accepting compliments is me.
      (I guess the point about calling attention to myself also works here)

    • @nicolemartinez6440
      @nicolemartinez6440 Před 4 lety +1

      @Gabyo Relatable. XD *laughs and proceeds to ugly cry* :’)

  • @yalelaw
    @yalelaw Před rokem +3893

    imagine being so disliked that they make a video on how to not be like u

    • @sobbuel
      @sobbuel Před rokem +6

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @Lunatheia
      @Lunatheia Před rokem +60

      Srsly what’s with the spam of the same account posting the same 3 comments under any top comment?

    • @georgemink1813
      @georgemink1813 Před rokem +9

      Let's imagine further: Who is such an expert on behaviorism that they are even ABLE to tell you how or how not to be "Like" someone else. It occurs to me anyone pontificating like that led their lives attempting to "Be" someone else, rather than simply find and be theirself. What do you think?

    • @elite7585
      @elite7585 Před rokem

      i choked

    • @usef2941
      @usef2941 Před rokem

      @@terryjune5260 ​ what are you talking about ? Why are you not focusing on the main point of the video ? You’re so offended and triggered just cuz he’s criticizing a female ! This insane go watch another video on the channel maybe it’ll make you feel better, or crawl back to whatever twitter rabbit hole you came from…smh

  • @redluna8865
    @redluna8865 Před rokem +706

    1. Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation
    2. Sarcasm requires a "tell"
    3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself
    4. You should not try to win every moment of banter
    5. Handling a compliment / conflict improperly

    • @Khoalinski69
      @Khoalinski69 Před 10 měsíci +8

      Thank you

    • @angeldemonica9087
      @angeldemonica9087 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Those are the points they tried to make. Idk if they all really applied here- I’m not convinced. But it’s great advice all the same 😅

    • @WeartheGoodSocks
      @WeartheGoodSocks Před 7 měsíci +7

      It's really good. Now I can finally articulate why one coworker gets on my nerves sometimes although we get along great, in general. She does #3 quite a lot, turning any casual conversation into a competition. Or if we're in a meeting and the group praises me for something, she immediately tries to turn attention back to herself. Blegh.

    • @gingerisevil02
      @gingerisevil02 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Thanks saved me time

    • @mooshway2000
      @mooshway2000 Před 7 měsíci +4

      In psychiatry we call number 1 'hostile attribution bias'.

  • @BeChickaboom
    @BeChickaboom Před 4 lety +24807

    It's cringy because it's like watching yourself at your worst.

    • @wtfmario
      @wtfmario Před 4 lety +554

      Feels, especially when you watch drunk videos of yourself

    • @krixpop
      @krixpop Před 4 lety +134

      me at my worst i'm 10 times better than that overentitled B**** ! ! !

    • @wtfmario
      @wtfmario Před 4 lety +61

      krix pop I would still smash though

    • @krixpop
      @krixpop Před 4 lety +69

      @@wtfmario
      I don't know mate : to each its own ...
      I would run.
      The amount of nagging, judgment, etc, from her, would silence even an Apostle of Christ. And really: have you seen her a**, I've heard she used a double for that too , lmao !
      She is a very troubled person that will project her insecurities, shortcomings (etc) on the person most close to her (a man, that is) and literally f***up his life.
      edit: Stay away from crazy !!!

    • @stopbeinginsecure4786
      @stopbeinginsecure4786 Před 4 lety +9

      BeChickaboom YESSS

  • @SeanLunny
    @SeanLunny Před 5 lety +14087

    Constantly redirecting the conversation on yourself makes people not want to talk to you.

    • @djoakeydoakey1076
      @djoakeydoakey1076 Před 5 lety +68

      I knew a guy that had an anecdote for fuckkking eveerrryytthingggg. Always had to have a fucking story, jesus.

    • @freeman7297
      @freeman7297 Před 5 lety +39

      Fr

    • @jimmysgirl1029
      @jimmysgirl1029 Před 5 lety +237

      I want this quote as wall decor at my house

    • @SunflowersAreCute
      @SunflowersAreCute Před 5 lety +100

      i’m not gonna say any names but meghan mccain knows who she is

    • @solomonelijah
      @solomonelijah Před 5 lety +3

      OMG THISS

  • @3Xero3
    @3Xero3 Před rokem +905

    I didn't quite understand why everybody didn't like her till watching this, and now it makes SO MUCH SENSE.

    • @nomoskarramin637
      @nomoskarramin637 Před 11 měsíci +48

      For one, her character felt like a token character. Came outta nowhere, and somehow OP than others. And second, her acting felt mediocre at best. Endgame would've been better if they defeated the villain without a "new powerful ally".

    • @FreedomAndJustice4All
      @FreedomAndJustice4All Před 10 měsíci +18

      Idk much about this lady but just bc said she did her own stunts bc she "thought that's what everyone did", that wasn't praising herself at all. In fact I believe assuming she was gloating is assuming negative intent.

    • @nomanejane5766
      @nomanejane5766 Před 10 měsíci +8

      ​@@nomoskarramin637so u didn't like the movie, so u take it out on the actor? 🤡

    • @ramonew7815
      @ramonew7815 Před 10 měsíci +9

      Hate tends to make people defensive, which then feeds itself when you're interpreting ambiguous situations in a negative way. Couple with the fact that you have someone (in this case, Don Cheadle) actually being hostile and to her it probably justifies her defensiveness. Then someone like Chris who seemingly has it all is being somewhat patronizing but fairly sincere on the other side. Not defending her actions really, but there are reasons to everything.

    • @ramonew7815
      @ramonew7815 Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@FreedomAndJustice4All true, but that's what most people are going to conclude since Chris was actively putting himself down to give praise to his stunt doubles, and Brie challenged him on the whole notion.

  • @AryBerry85
    @AryBerry85 Před rokem +527

    I know of somebody like Brie. God, it's exhausting and drains my energy just having a conversation with her. I would compliment her works and she is triggered for no apparent reason. As the conversation goes on, it almost feels like I was walking on eggshells. She thinks every single thing I say is like a personal attack on her. I wish to never have any conversations with her anymore. I'm tired.

    • @mielthesquid6536
      @mielthesquid6536 Před 11 měsíci +17

      leave, far away

    • @leiea2000
      @leiea2000 Před 10 měsíci +26

      I know someone like this and she is exhausting too. I have minimized my interactions with her over time. Her insecurities are pretty obvious when you engage her and she comes across like a victim most times. I have complimented her before and she actually negated and shot down the whole compliment. She does exactly what this video suggests NOT to do.

    • @beauli5011
      @beauli5011 Před 10 měsíci +45

      this could be a sign of depression. When I start seeing ill intent in people's comments I know my mental health needs attention

    • @LethalByChoice
      @LethalByChoice Před 10 měsíci +14

      It really is exhausting and its no wonder why her co-stars don't like her. Brie Larson can't handle fame very well and its obvious that she isn't very well socialized.

    • @jeremy4375
      @jeremy4375 Před 9 měsíci +5

      She reminds me of that female terminator from Sarah Connor Chronicles.
      Like, she's been sent back through time to singlehandedly destroy all that was fun...

  • @youraverageguy4930
    @youraverageguy4930 Před 5 lety +122225

    Why do I watch these videos as if I'm some kind of alien trying to assimilate into human culture?

    • @MeowPictures
      @MeowPictures Před 5 lety +1468

      LOL

    • @metasprite5648
      @metasprite5648 Před 5 lety +3253

      Or an AI trying to understand human kind

    • @mark0183
      @mark0183 Před 5 lety +3537

      So you become a likeable alien

    • @skyz3ra
      @skyz3ra Před 5 lety +580

      It's to understand psychology in x context

    • @jacobreid7077
      @jacobreid7077 Před 5 lety +719

      Hello fellow humanoid’s

  • @bplup6419
    @bplup6419 Před 5 lety +14942

    "Be like Chris"
    "Evans, Hemsworth or Pratt?"
    "Yes."

  • @kr3642
    @kr3642 Před rokem +358

    I hate how complicated human interaction is.

    • @Anwelei
      @Anwelei Před 7 měsíci +16

      SAME HERE! I have always been so lost interacting with people.

    • @HankTheTank23
      @HankTheTank23 Před 6 měsíci +14

      Life would be kind of boring if it was simple.

    • @cahidijoyoraharjo7833
      @cahidijoyoraharjo7833 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@HankTheTank23 True, it would feel like talking to robots.

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa Před 5 měsíci +4

      ​@@HankTheTank23 maybe to you but to other people who arent as fortunate as you seem to be it would make gor less painful social interactions.

    • @HankTheTank23
      @HankTheTank23 Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@vice2versa I apologize if I came across as being insensitive to those who struggle with social interactions. That was not at all my intention. I enjoy talking to people, but I frequently find myself in situations where I don’t know what to say or do. That’s part of learning, growing up, and what makes life fun. From my perspective, if you could reliably predict exactly how someone would react to everything you said or did, life would be pretty boring. Nothing would be funny, and there would be no such thing as suspense or mystery. There’s a reason why (until perhaps recently with the advent of ChatGPT) automated chat bots have never been a substitute for real human connection and conversation. That’s just my perspective, but I understand where you are coming from.

  • @polderpaul1672
    @polderpaul1672 Před rokem +170

    I think most of us do not do any of things Brie does when we are happy and confident, and in our element. Problems begin when we are anxious and trying to be someone that we aren't.

  • @aidenaberration6740
    @aidenaberration6740 Před 4 lety +28225

    I feel like a sim gaining a charisma skill after watching this

  • @edennis8578
    @edennis8578 Před 4 lety +4785

    I've met people who read an insult into everything. It must be hell living inside their heads.

    • @artygunnar
      @artygunnar Před 4 lety +129

      it is, they need help

    • @darrylgibson3575
      @darrylgibson3575 Před 4 lety +58

      What about inside our heads when dealing with someone like that ?

    • @krableja2517
      @krableja2517 Před 4 lety +338

      It is, the thing is those people probably had someone who was real close to them who would always criticize them for everything which makes it natural for them to see everything as an attack on them.

    • @mogaman28
      @mogaman28 Před 4 lety +35

      Yeah, feminism does that to people.

    • @glitterdragon9197
      @glitterdragon9197 Před 4 lety +105

      It could be bc they’ve had so many people give them backhanded compliments in the past. I used to be like Brie, rude defensive and bitchy bc I used to have childhood “friends” that would lowkey mock me so I became tense

  • @emiquintana509
    @emiquintana509 Před rokem +418

    She comes off SO insecure. There's a point where you can be insecure while still being able to interact with others without projecting, however, all she seems to be doing is victimizing herself, and roping others into feeding her insecurity. It's not only her as a person, it comes out in her characters as well, especially Captain Marvel.

    • @aishaalamoudi599
      @aishaalamoudi599 Před 10 měsíci +13

      She's an Oscar Winner, the only woman leading her own action film making over a billion.... she cleared the mantel very early on. She's not the one whos insecure. what interests me is how depressing is it to live in a world were the so called men in our society get hurt so deeply by Brie Larson's words that one time, and continue to this day bitching and moaning about it..... here it is, the men crisis; bitching about this to no end. A real man wouldn't care....this video and the response to it perfectly captures my point.

    • @420rollinup3
      @420rollinup3 Před 10 měsíci +31

      ​@@aishaalamoudi599hold this L

    • @avril.227
      @avril.227 Před 10 měsíci +23

      @@aishaalamoudi599 What?? Are we watching the same video? I like almost everyone at first but she is unfortunately very off putting.

    • @sathira_anuk5179
      @sathira_anuk5179 Před 7 měsíci +9

      ​@@aishaalamoudi599nah she's terrible 😅

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 Před 7 měsíci

      @@aishaalamoudi599Come on she’s just doing too much. There’s thousands of leading ladies who are extremely charismatic

  • @Bunbunfunfun
    @Bunbunfunfun Před rokem +323

    So happy I found this channel. One of the things that truly separates successful people from non successful people is all about social interactions. The master of social interaction will advance above more qualified people every time.

    • @EdgeSanityGaming
      @EdgeSanityGaming Před rokem +24

      Sadly, that's true.

    • @milliesaysokboomer
      @milliesaysokboomer Před rokem +12

      this is only true when everyone is in the same social class

    • @Rog.Tiks._
      @Rog.Tiks._ Před 10 měsíci

      I respect your opinion but, out of curiosity, why is that fact SAD to you?

    • @dazzle4708
      @dazzle4708 Před 8 měsíci +12

      @@Rog.Tiks._If you have a stroke, do you want to be attended by the doc who can make the boss chuckle, or the one who was top of his Harvard med class?

    • @j3nnacat
      @j3nnacat Před 7 měsíci +1

      Definitely not always true. This is also a very abliest way to look at this. People who are neurodivergent (autism especially) are usually VERY bad at reading social cues but people with autism can still be successful. You don’t have to be charismatic to be successful

  • @aminthemar
    @aminthemar Před 4 lety +5867

    How not to be Brie Larson: Stop acting like you're better than everyone while you're trying to be funny. No one likes that.

    • @KerioFive
      @KerioFive Před 4 lety +24

      aminthemar I thought thats how you get people to like you? 😒🙃

    • @Matthew-ob7vb
      @Matthew-ob7vb Před 4 lety +13

      Right she's not perfect for LA

    • @kikilocket
      @kikilocket Před 4 lety +48

      aminthemar unless your name is RDJ

    • @AnonYMouse-ky4sg
      @AnonYMouse-ky4sg Před 4 lety +19

      K S Yeah a lot of people can get away with that kind of sarcasm, but it doesn’t work when people are being primed to dislike you already as they will just take it as you being serious.

    • @reevewitherington4759
      @reevewitherington4759 Před 4 lety +3

      aminthemar just realised I do this thx 👍

  • @lyricistrito
    @lyricistrito Před 5 lety +13709

    I feel really bad for chris h. in that interview because you can tell how he's trying to telepathically tell brie to calm down but she doesn't get it
    edit: this is the most likes ive ever gotten on a comment omds-

    • @khumanthemhelga7928
      @khumanthemhelga7928 Před 5 lety +1546

      Exactly. He's like 'Girl, for your own good, STOP'

    • @pin2peen972
      @pin2peen972 Před 5 lety +149

      Titi Hilda I'm the 666th liker, hail satan

    • @natsukilovestobake4427
      @natsukilovestobake4427 Před 5 lety +49

      bAkA Congrats dude! I saw the 666 likes :D

    • @frederickrueger7861
      @frederickrueger7861 Před 5 lety +369

      What if she telepathically got it and just didn't want to.. who knows what went on between those two before..

    • @elgurideparana2796
      @elgurideparana2796 Před 5 lety +272

      @@frederickrueger7861 she became a feminist that happened

  • @jollypoco2899
    @jollypoco2899 Před rokem +141

    Simply put, don't let your emotions take over everytime, learn to sit back and enjoy the show until it's your time to perform, clap for others and clap for yourself.

  • @anbay3213
    @anbay3213 Před 6 měsíci +75

    The older I get, the more grateful I am that I grew up with a family who made sure I knew how to be kind and understanding in all social situations. This video really made me have so much more appreciation for Hemsworth and Pratt because it really highlighted their kindness, even in scenarios when I would had been bothered.
    Thank you for the video!

  • @lauradurango9752
    @lauradurango9752 Před 4 lety +7544

    Brie Larson when someone asks for an autograph:
    Do you want to fake my signature or something?

  • @PronkDaMonk
    @PronkDaMonk Před 5 lety +7525

    Don Cheadle is just sitting there like "please end this I just wanna go home"

    • @kaligisee
      @kaligisee Před 5 lety +137

      Priyank Bhatia lmao and their characters are supposed to get all lovey dovey pretty soon

    • @kingmuizz708
      @kingmuizz708 Před 5 lety +3

      Lol

    • @kingmuizz708
      @kingmuizz708 Před 5 lety +5

      @@kaligisee ifkr😂

    • @Jay_Script
      @Jay_Script Před 5 lety +55

      Imagine when they have to kiss? Imagine the passion that will go into it 😂

    • @LarissaCerqueira
      @LarissaCerqueira Před 5 lety +6

      After doing like 62362783624 interviews, of course he is, who wouldn't?

  • @PureBlackNiltiac
    @PureBlackNiltiac Před rokem +468

    I'd say that she is deeply insecure. The reason she did so well with Craig's interviews, I think, is because he is so charismatic himself and was always charming to his guests. His aim i think was to make them feel as comfortable and secure as possible, relaxing them and getting them to drop their defences, buttering them up a bit, thus getting the very best interviews out of them. It really shows in his awesome interview with Harrison Ford.

    • @mikerandom1959
      @mikerandom1959 Před rokem +14

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @mikerandom1959
      @mikerandom1959 Před rokem +5

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @mikerandom1959
      @mikerandom1959 Před rokem +14

      I've noticed this channel only talks about how men have charisma, i mean use women's example too? You mostly show bad examples of them. And why tf is everything supposed to be about how to become a chick magnet? In this vid, unfortunately Chris hemsworth was in the wrong, not brie as much. He interrupts her as she tries to complete what she wanted to say and then insults her…pretty biased of you

    • @jamesbrice6619
      @jamesbrice6619 Před rokem

      @@mikerandom1959 she's a c..t🤣😅😆😂

    • @Commander_Shepard.
      @Commander_Shepard. Před rokem +24

      ​@@mikerandom1959 lol

  • @MastaChafa
    @MastaChafa Před 11 měsíci +23

    "If a literal interpretation of your sarcasm would make you look like a jerk, try again" is great advise

  • @originalblob
    @originalblob Před 4 lety +10578

    The whole interaction with Chris Hemsworth about stunts and strength is so cringey.

    • @snoox27
      @snoox27 Před 4 lety +578

      Feminism ruins women

    • @WhatJuliaLoves
      @WhatJuliaLoves Před 4 lety +382

      I just recently read this online: Because I‘m a feminist, people often ask me, if I hate men and I answer that it’s the opposite - because I‘m a feminist men hate me ^^

    • @Eduardo14698
      @Eduardo14698 Před 4 lety +362

      @@WhatJuliaLoves Well, if man(in general)hate feminism there is a reason why, its a good idea to try to understand our side as well. Maybe man hate feminism because the movement dont care about man and only wants to put women on top of us and not on the same level.

    • @yungamurai
      @yungamurai Před 4 lety +369

      @@WhatJuliaLoves If you're not a nagging, insufferable man-hating feminist then it's fine but if you're the kind like Brie where you read offense into everything and project your gaping inferiority complex into all aspects of life, yeah I probably would hate you.

    • @lordofebony816
      @lordofebony816 Před 4 lety +7

      B 27
      Emoji man bad.

  • @carazy123_
    @carazy123_ Před 4 lety +5385

    The titles look like clickbait, but they aren’t
    What sorcery is this

    • @jadenn.hernandez7784
      @jadenn.hernandez7784 Před 4 lety +21

      Carazy123 m a g i c

    • @ShinyPotato77
      @ShinyPotato77 Před 4 lety +16

      This is Clickbait,but its the good clickbait cuz it delivers

    • @iyankku
      @iyankku Před 4 lety +9

      That's what I appreciate about the channel, it feels like he actually cares y'know!

    • @FreakyFeline88
      @FreakyFeline88 Před 4 lety +3

      I know right haha

    • @SuperIvysaur
      @SuperIvysaur Před 4 lety +6

      "is that like a personal attack or something?"

  • @seanfarley8586
    @seanfarley8586 Před rokem +265

    This is why it's so important to understand that someone's perception of you is a reflection of them. Someone that chooses not to like you is the same thing as someone thinking they are better than you. That person probably has little to no self awareness, and will go through their life believing that they don't have any flaws. Which ultimately means they will go thorough life not understanding that they are self sabotaging all of their relationships. And instead of considering that they are part of their own misery, they will consistently place all of the blame for their own failures on other people.

    • @SGWV
      @SGWV Před rokem +13

      this comment is a hot-take meta response lmao. it's not only a criticism of the actress, but it's a criticism of the public response to her, the interviews after the fact, this CZcams video itself ("5 Awful Habits That Make People Think You’re Low Status"... bruh), and all the commenters who are convinced they're "higher status" - well done 👍

    • @hanswoast7
      @hanswoast7 Před rokem +7

      Good point. That is a great description. I think this can be seen as being insecure, delusional and denying/projecting your (usually negative) feelings to others. Reminds me a lot of emotionally immature / narcissistic people which are often feeling insecure but want to hide it.

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot Před rokem +1

      This perfectly describes the vulnerable narcissist (as opposed to the other type, the grandiose narcissist)- it's the eternal journey to victimhood.
      Nothing, I mean NOTHING is ever their fault even though they self-sabotoge their entire life in every aspect either through inaction or action.
      Another really obvious thing they all do is project something they are doing as they accuse you or some glaring character flaw they have. For example, if they are demanding something (money, a favor, stuff) and you refuse, they will to accuse you of being selfish. It's such a cliche that it's like that Reddit list of phrases a cheater uses when caught.
      These folks are often twice, thrice divorced and all their exes are "crazy' and/or "evil". It never occurs to them that the common denominator in all of the failed marriages was them.
      They also have burned every conceivable bridge on their personal life with friends and family and end up alone and bitter because "everyone has abandoned them" (it never occurs to them why- even though they have been told over and over again why). This is why it's a red flag when you meet a seemingly nice and normal person who offhandedly (and sometimes repeatedly) mentions that everyone always leaves them/all their friends left.
      ✅ Low contact/no contact adult kids.
      ✅No friends.
      ✅Colleagues who despise and tolerate them.
      ✅Unfortunate subordinates that acquire a life-time of trauma from them.
      ✅Neighbors that barely tolerate them due to them using the local police to intimidate/harass/control.
      They often are the fuel of juicy gossip of the "nasty old man" or "crazy old lady" of the neighborhood in their old age.
      They tend (not always, but there is a pattern) to become hoarders (junk and/or animals)- this is due to their perceived abandonment issues. They die alone, surrounded by piles of crap, and their family reluctantly deals with their funeral/possessions/residence.

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot Před rokem +7

      The faux superiority always baffles me. One thing I do is when they are on a roll, I ask them where and who gave them their sense of superiority. I repeat it in honest bafflement. And then if they have an answer (they always do), have them break down what EXACTLY they have accomplished (not not accidental birth to the right race, class, genetic appearance, region, culture). It's always nothing. This shakes them up and they get really, REALLY defensive.
      This makes them hate you but you lose nothing here. Sleep easy.

    • @MElixirDNB
      @MElixirDNB Před rokem +3

      Lol, no it's that brie is unlikeable because of her attitude, it is not a reflection of the ppl disliking her at all.

  • @atroyz
    @atroyz Před rokem +46

    This seems like a list of manners/politeness/etiquette that most kids (should) get from their parents, but maybe not everyone gets the same set of instructions. Glad this video is here to fill in those gaps.

    • @zakosist
      @zakosist Před 11 měsíci +2

      I think in modern times there is often not enough time spend together between child and parent. Both parents work and it could be long hours just to get by (that can be the fault of the workplace not paying enough or demanding overtime), in addition children go to kindergarten as toddlers, and then spend a lot of time at school when they get a bit older (education is important, but many things about it could improve), and when kids get home they have to do homework. And the parents may be too exhausted from work in the short time they spend at home. Modern technology also worsens the problem, its easy to just give the kids a smartphone or similar to play on and not give them much direct attention. Kids getting addicted to that technology only worsens the problem again.

  • @milanpenk9537
    @milanpenk9537 Před 3 lety +6885

    she is trying to be funny but ends up being rude.. classic mistake of insecure ppl

    • @AverageAlien
      @AverageAlien Před 3 lety +187

      either that or americans don't understand sarcasm

    • @cliffordbenenati7373
      @cliffordbenenati7373 Před 3 lety +74

      @@AverageAlien I'm american, I understand it perfectly, and love it 😂

    • @peterparameter1125
      @peterparameter1125 Před 3 lety +47

      Maybe, but no reason for all the incel hate

    • @jkad1363
      @jkad1363 Před 3 lety +14

      @@cliffordbenenati7373 no you're not American and you don't understand sarcasm,.. 🙌👏Boom bruned💥

    • @cliffordbenenati7373
      @cliffordbenenati7373 Před 3 lety +35

      @@jkad1363
      "I'm american and understand sarcasm"
      "No you don't"
      Sounds like a meme lmbo

  • @selfimprovement463
    @selfimprovement463 Před 4 lety +16882

    I think she has low self-esteem and may feel like everyone is always attacking her. Her responses definitely seem defensive.

    • @andrewgust-anderson5612
      @andrewgust-anderson5612 Před 4 lety +30

      Never speak to me again on the Paris consulship AS LONG AS YOU LIVE

    • @scarlettelisabeth5644
      @scarlettelisabeth5644 Před 4 lety +600

      I’m sure it also comes from years of acting a facing constant criticism weather it’s your looks, what you where, what your opinions are. If people are always judging you it’s easy to understand how someone could develop poor self esteem

    • @fexbio
      @fexbio Před 4 lety +383

      I think she let that "women are oppressed" stuff enter her head. This kind of thing makes one very defensive.

    • @offminus3911
      @offminus3911 Před 4 lety +90

      Jordan Peterson has addressed multiple times that there is no such thing as self-esteem. It's something particular that she isn't happy about that she takes everywhere, whether it be a thought or a physical/emotional insecurity.

    • @JanieBee
      @JanieBee Před 4 lety +114

      Especially since everyone always is attacking her

  • @havestrength5802
    @havestrength5802 Před rokem +19

    be yourself. trying to be anything else is usually a fail. some people are over the top, some people are shy. love people for how unique they are.

    • @damenation
      @damenation Před 9 měsíci +3

      How if people don’t like you when you are yourself

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 Před 11 měsíci +61

    One thing I've noticed about popular, successful people is that they rarely if ever seem to be triggered in public anyway. My guess is they either had stable, loving childhoods or have done trauma work. If you have unresolved trauma certain social things can be massively distressing and will trigger a trauma response, which most people won't understand and will interpret negatively. Brie seems either triggered from past put downs/abuse/bullying or she's trying to be funny and it's falling flat.

    • @MsMckenzie2011
      @MsMckenzie2011 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Yep!

    • @TheMockingjay74
      @TheMockingjay74 Před 3 měsíci

      This hits different 💀

    • @ukbloke28
      @ukbloke28 Před 28 dny

      Some of them are trained to deal with it, depending on the profession. Also another way to look at it is maybe some of them are successful and popular BECAUSE they don't get triggered.

  • @andersbillington6
    @andersbillington6 Před 5 lety +21162

    *Brie Larson watches this video*
    "Is this like a personal attack or something?"

    • @jackalope2302
      @jackalope2302 Před 5 lety +277

      Depends Larson. What us old folks used to call "constructive criticism" is often interpreted as personal attacks. Its funny how much more charming she used to be.

    • @marcoglara2012
      @marcoglara2012 Před 5 lety +95

      Anders Moe Billington
      “Yes... yes it is Brie. Everyone doesn’t like you.”

    • @mynamefrank6567
      @mynamefrank6567 Před 5 lety +78

      @@marcoglara2012 That's badly worded, "Nobody likes you" works better, just helping

    • @PedroARCruz
      @PedroARCruz Před 5 lety +33

      Marco lara “Is this like a personal attack or something?”

    • @LuckySmurf
      @LuckySmurf Před 5 lety +53

      @@jackalope2302 Well when some of the constructive criticism consists of just "I hate Brie Larson and here's why..." then yeah, it's easy to see why people might view it as a personal attack.
      But not this video though.

  • @mariannahunny
    @mariannahunny Před 4 lety +5016

    Brie sounds like she is always on defense mode.

    • @chunkbaby7544
      @chunkbaby7544 Před 4 lety +265

      Famous rich feminist actor. The title explains it all

    • @kennapersonal
      @kennapersonal Před 4 lety +7

      True

    • @kweku282
      @kweku282 Před 4 lety +9

      TRUE

    • @kweku282
      @kweku282 Před 4 lety +16

      @@chunkbaby7544 EVEN TRUER

    • @pukljica
      @pukljica Před 4 lety +125

      Yeah true..maybe she grew up in codependency with borderline parents wich makes her defende her self all the time even now idk its hard to be around people that takes everything so personal!

  • @stephanledford9792
    @stephanledford9792 Před rokem +34

    I dropped sarcasm completely from my communications with others, even though I mentally still think of sarcastic things. Nothing positive comes from sarcasm and it is too easily identified as just "meanness".

  • @geronimomiles312
    @geronimomiles312 Před 9 měsíci +10

    Social grace often competes with truth ... And folks may find themselves in a dilemma as to which is their higher calling.
    The blended situation of presenting herself , both, as she is , and yet still being on a stage at the same time may be awkward.
    To find out how any of these folks are , is a thing which really needs to be seen in person off screen.

  • @Krazyloko
    @Krazyloko Před 5 lety +2712

    How to make yourself more likable: sit down, be humble

    • @purefatdude2
      @purefatdude2 Před 5 lety +36

      True, except there are a lot of people that like arrogant assholes.

    • @amaracea
      @amaracea Před 5 lety +29

      nobody will like you then. They can’t like you if they don’t know you exist.
      Be humble. But don’t sit down.

    • @edin410
      @edin410 Před 5 lety +11

      Being humble might be a showing a fake personality

    • @campkira
      @campkira Před 5 lety +2

      Everybody at work.... Cannot be humble or no bonus...

    • @amaracea
      @amaracea Před 5 lety +34

      Edin To be humble does not mean to have a fake personality or to put yourself down. It simply means to listen to others when they speak. Michael Jordan was one of the most humble people on Earth but you’d never know it from his TV personality. But off the screen and off the court he’d listen to everyone who gave him advice, and it was listening to people that gave him his edge.

  • @memebot5216
    @memebot5216 Před 4 lety +19034

    The best thing about Chris Hemsworth is that he isn't even mad that Brie is attacking him, he only gets mad when she attacks other people

  • @Athena0236
    @Athena0236 Před 8 měsíci +34

    I find the fifth point especially interesting from a cultural perspective. In some cultures people tend not to accept compliments because they are educated to “stay humble” or even to deny compliments. A typical (yet unfortunate) example is when someone praises a child for his/her academic achievements, parents brush it off as the child “just being lucky”

    • @Laf631
      @Laf631 Před 7 měsíci +4

      The example in the video isn't her downplaying a compliment, though; it's her using it as another opportunity to keep the "fight" with Chris going. She says "that's really nice, I'm still stronger than you though." If she had said "that's really nice, but I think you're exaggerating" or something like your example, it would have read completely differently.

  • @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj
    @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj Před rokem +9

    What works for me is flat delivery with a smile at the end. People look over at me with confusion because I'm not sarcastic often, then they see the smile on my face and laugh.

  • @razibbaraljoy9978
    @razibbaraljoy9978 Před 4 lety +12596

    Thanos has more supporters than Captain Marvel.

    • @visionist7
      @visionist7 Před 4 lety +688

      Thanos has actual charisma

    • @aspennnnnnnn
      @aspennnnnnnn Před 4 lety +424

      Thanos probably has more supporters than most characters in the MCU, honestly. He's hard not to love.

    • @micanikko
      @micanikko Před 4 lety +265

      I actually was supporting Thanos during her fight with him

    • @murphie_4559
      @murphie_4559 Před 4 lety +46

      Razib Baral JOY I hated captain marvel tbh

    • @mai.vancon
      @mai.vancon Před 4 lety +50

      Because society loves whether you are good or evil. They hate awkward.

  • @aria_chatt
    @aria_chatt Před 4 lety +4155

    She was straight up rude in the interview with Chris hemsworth

    • @Pinkielover
      @Pinkielover Před 4 lety +114

      lol shes rude period.... even war machine dislikes her

    • @btCharlie_
      @btCharlie_ Před 4 lety +39

      I liked her in Scott Pilgrim, but her takes and composure seem really off since she got with Marvel. Perhaps she was hired as a sort tool for Marvel to show they empower women too? Idk if that's even plausible.

    • @_Chad_ThunderCock
      @_Chad_ThunderCock Před 4 lety +55

      Can marvel just replace brie Larson. I just think she causes too much drama. I would be better and most people wouldn't mind the change(If they even notice lol)

    • @IvoryMane
      @IvoryMane Před 4 lety +24

      Pobrecita maybe she wants to stand out in this sea of famous people by playing quirky but she comes off as too serious and high strung...

    • @taurusdragon4763
      @taurusdragon4763 Před 4 lety +49

      I agree with you. I think just because Marvel chose her to represent women's power, she thinks she's special or something. Hemsworth was trying to rescue the interview, but she's just too good at destroying it

  • @ed.z.
    @ed.z. Před rokem +20

    I I could could time travel back 50 years I’d take this video back with me. Such great insights for self improvement.Much thanks.

  • @andymelendez9757
    @andymelendez9757 Před 10 měsíci +32

    I appreciate this. I was in a sticky situation at work (that didn’t involve me) where I thought a male coworker was being rude to a female coworker. She had voiced her displeasure at his remarks. I thought he was harassing her. Turned out the real dynamic between them was totally different. Who knew. It’s all about context apparently?

    • @oldtimer5316
      @oldtimer5316 Před 9 měsíci

      Slow your role, Cap't Save-a-Hoe.
      Stop simping, nerd. You might just save yourself a beating.

  • @mi_na0013
    @mi_na0013 Před 5 lety +17032

    She protecc
    She attacc
    But most importantly
    She thinks it's a personal attacc

    • @rithikachhetri9638
      @rithikachhetri9638 Před 5 lety +39

      😂

    • @WingsofStarlight
      @WingsofStarlight Před 5 lety +7

      I appreciate this XD

    • @rithikachhetri9638
      @rithikachhetri9638 Před 5 lety +2

      @The Name Is Evian Heyy ✋can u pls reply dat why she is hated so much as captain marvel? ( she is strongest avenger) 【because I dont know much abt marvel】

    • @RagingRavioli22
      @RagingRavioli22 Před 5 lety +72

      @@rithikachhetri9638 I'm sorry, I kind of had a stroke reading that. Are you asking about why people don't like her as Captain Marvel or how people just dont like her?

    • @mt-zf6xp
      @mt-zf6xp Před 5 lety +42

      She protecc
      She atacc
      But most importantly
      She catch lots of flacc

  • @hnklee2607
    @hnklee2607 Před 5 lety +3299

    Talking to someone like Brie Larson, person who tries to win in every conversaton, every topic, is really exhausting.

    • @trevorhouff1173
      @trevorhouff1173 Před 5 lety +67

      One of my closest friends is like that and yea, exhausting is a good word to describe it

    • @MiyagiDo9
      @MiyagiDo9 Před 5 lety +14

      @@trevorhouff1173 till now never noticed that i might be like that..

    • @wrightguyz
      @wrightguyz Před 5 lety +17

      re: 'win every conversation' - - it's narcissism right? or at least part of the equation. Very obnoxious behavior

    • @quarantinelife.
      @quarantinelife. Před 5 lety +2

      Listening to her gave me PTSD hahahahah

    • @gemberss
      @gemberss Před 5 lety +7

      yeah you're right. it's so annoying. i think the best thing to do is like the dude above me said just let them win, or don't talk to them.

  • @steelmadness2903
    @steelmadness2903 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I’m not good at aspects of my job, and yet I keep advancing and the higher ups tell me how much they like me and how well I get along with my supervisors and peers.

  • @tessapuccini9788
    @tessapuccini9788 Před rokem +36

    Reading positive intent in an ambiguous situation - Sarcasm requires a 'tell- You should not call into every opportunity to draw attention to yourself - You should not try to win over each moment or banter - Handling a complement (with humor), playfully with humor. Sincere thanking the other person ❤

    • @mikemick7543
      @mikemick7543 Před rokem +1

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @mikemick7543
      @mikemick7543 Před rokem +1

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @mikemick7543
      @mikemick7543 Před rokem +1

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @kinderkarr
      @kinderkarr Před rokem

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

  • @deiz1083
    @deiz1083 Před 4 lety +5693

    Basically, "Don't be a Brie Larson, be a Chris Pratt".

  • @samuelf7163
    @samuelf7163 Před 5 lety +3585

    Gosh, I feel bad for Chris. Just look at his face. He's just trying to save the interview whilst she thinks it's a competition

    • @leeniraukola5168
      @leeniraukola5168 Před 5 lety +61

      Samuel F Exactly what I thought

    • @gabreiliusgen4519
      @gabreiliusgen4519 Před 5 lety +15

      which Chris?

    • @irvanwiguna7415
      @irvanwiguna7415 Před 5 lety +84

      @@gabreiliusgen4519 yes

    • @BabeRuthXX
      @BabeRuthXX Před 5 lety +148

      Ikr and he's not the most outgoing or talkative of the cast so I can't imagine how awkward he must have felt trying to put out that garbage fire :/

    • @samuelf7163
      @samuelf7163 Před 5 lety +2

      @@gabreiliusgen4519 maybe Chris Hemsworth but idk

  • @MrSzymonurai
    @MrSzymonurai Před 7 měsíci +4

    These videos are incredibly useful. This helps people who never get to practice their social skilss

  • @aymane974
    @aymane974 Před rokem +35

    Having a conversation after watching these videos feels like a chess game 😂

    • @bartsimpson8330
      @bartsimpson8330 Před rokem +1

      It’s not it’s just you overthinking it. 1. Someone comments you negative way then respond positive 2. Stay humble by making a joke about yourself at times. 3. Don’t take things too serious

  • @RottenZombieChick1
    @RottenZombieChick1 Před 5 lety +2465

    The Chris Hemsworth/Brie Larson interview made me physically uncomfortable

    • @winturs2201
      @winturs2201 Před 5 lety +149

      Haley Waldow Don Cheadle in the interview kind of represented all of the viewers imo

    • @bubblegumplastic
      @bubblegumplastic Před 5 lety +54

      Everyone is so quick to blame Brie for it :( Maybe she feels pushed into a corner during promotions/on set and we're seeing the result of that. I've read countless unkind things about her role in the universe and her performance, rooted in her being "overly" strong as a character. A level of scrutiny that doesn't seem to befall Chris, his character is allowed to be strong and praised for being strong. I wouldn't be at my best either if I were her.

    • @BuumanJS
      @BuumanJS Před 5 lety +5

      So it wasnt just me LOL

    • @moonmothh
      @moonmothh Před 5 lety +58

      @@bubblegumplastic the problem is that there is a lack of understanding between them in that interview. it was one of those things where some playful poking quickly became a real competitive argument because while both of them were joking around in the beginning, neither of them picked up on the others' jokes. they both ended up feeling insulted and became defensive.

    • @samsamsammy2013
      @samsamsammy2013 Před 5 lety +81

      bubblegumplastic Chris’s character is “allowed” to be strong and “praised” because of good character development. His strength is earned through 3 separate films compared to Captain Marvel’s mediocre single. She deserves every bit of scrutiny that is thrown her way.

  • @liligonzales6534
    @liligonzales6534 Před 4 lety +17994

    damn im gonna come out of quarantine with a whole new personality

  • @corrisauls9453
    @corrisauls9453 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Positive vs Negatice intent when viewing/receiving the universe. In otherwords -- interpretation.

  • @AA-yc3cc
    @AA-yc3cc Před rokem +101

    I always assumed Brie had been sarcastic and joking in all these interviews because I have the same sense of humor as hers. I was really surprised when people viewed it maliciously. It's the same way I'm sarcastic to an extent where you're just saying silly over the top things. It was a technique to make an uncomfortable situation more comfortable. But I used to make people feel awkward as well not realizing they weren't picking up on my jokes. I've since realized this and only go to this level of sarcasm with people I'm comfortable and closer with. People are more likely to assume negative intent with sarcasm even if you never mean it that way.

    • @yunawinx
      @yunawinx Před rokem +17

      i mean i’m one of the most sarcastic people and i could hardly tell if she was being serious or not because her tone not body language doesn’t change which is the point of sarcasm😭 otherwise u get someone who seems defensive

    • @milliesaysokboomer
      @milliesaysokboomer Před rokem +8

      I think it's the delivery of the sarcastic joke. I have the same problem. I have a personality that comes off as serious or quiet, and this bleeds into my sarcasm as well. it all really depends on what people already think of you.

    • @aquilifergroup
      @aquilifergroup Před rokem +4

      It’s not a sense of humor. It’s being unpleasant

    • @incarnate3276
      @incarnate3276 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Personally I find sarcasm the funnier, the more serious the delivery is. Making it obvious, makes it to shallow for me.

    • @ncs9059
      @ncs9059 Před 7 měsíci

      Same... I thought that was the point of sarcasm. I also thought the example of "good" sarcasm with the eye squint was much more serious and I thought she was genuinely offended saying "thats my family".

  • @tavadaardendrian319
    @tavadaardendrian319 Před 4 lety +2774

    When Brie brings up doing her own stunts, Hemsworth goes “ehhh okay” as if he senses the inevitable crap storm like a farmer senses rain

  • @tylerdarroch5512
    @tylerdarroch5512 Před 3 lety +9356

    The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them

    • @ImDrizzt
      @ImDrizzt Před 3 lety +427

      It's strange that she's struggling with stuff like this, because in the movies I think she is playing her part really well. So she clearly knows how to act, hmmm

    • @alenciaga21
      @alenciaga21 Před 3 lety +842

      @@ImDrizzt maybe she doesn't know how to REact

    • @violet-trash
      @violet-trash Před 3 lety +251

      It's like throwing an olive branch into a fire.

    • @ahnrho
      @ahnrho Před 3 lety +67

      Agreed. It was very noticeable.

    • @illarionbykov7401
      @illarionbykov7401 Před 3 lety +46

      @@ImDrizzt what part has she ever played well, in your opinion?

  • @pxrays547
    @pxrays547 Před rokem +4

    I've done this as far as being completely sarcastic and playing it straight. People give you that look and it can be damaging around people who don't know.

  • @leysin456
    @leysin456 Před 7 měsíci +3

    This is EXCELLENT. Wow I love this. Such a powerful analysis and clever. And not over judgy, just good.

  • @grat2010
    @grat2010 Před 5 lety +3914

    Don Cheadle looks so uncomfortable during the Brie and Chris exchanges.

    • @darkySp
      @darkySp Před 5 lety +196

      You need to look trough Jeremy Renner's interview. The poor guy could barely stay alive trough the interview

    • @RapidObsessor
      @RapidObsessor Před 5 lety +53

      he literally tweeted to defend her

    • @InfireMe
      @InfireMe Před 5 lety +57

      he called out people who thought he looked uncomfortable and from a direct quote said they were ‘children’ for trying to find fault where there isn’t any

    • @raynesorrells1245
      @raynesorrells1245 Před 5 lety +100

      Don Cheadle always looks uncomfortable

    • @jacket6213
      @jacket6213 Před 5 lety

      Is that a personal attack or something?

  • @aakashupadhyay7075
    @aakashupadhyay7075 Před 4 lety +2237

    Google: Would Brie Larson workout?
    Brie : *So you have chosen death*

    • @lizipearlvlogs
      @lizipearlvlogs Před 4 lety +8

      😂 It is a weird way to word the question, but obviously not meant to be offensive. I really hope she was joking because I loved her in Scott Pilgrim vs The World.

    • @r.a.k4390
      @r.a.k4390 Před 4 lety

      @@lizipearlvlogs I'm pretty sure she was

  • @DeeperCurrents
    @DeeperCurrents Před rokem +2

    If you look for bad intentions you will find things that make it appear as if there are bad intentions everywhere, it will poison every interaction and situation in life.
    Assume good intention, protect incase it is actually bad

  • @christopherlynch3314
    @christopherlynch3314 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Reading positive intent into ambiguous situations is a superpower. Also, if someone is trying to cut you on the sly, taking it positively just pisses them off more. WINNING!
    As for praise. ALWAYS praise others! Believe me folks know your role. But if you constantly spread the praise to subordinates, peers, and superiors, you will be thought of highly by all.
    Great video! Subscribed thanks.

    • @gwotaharrve
      @gwotaharrve Před 3 měsíci

      hollywood actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."

  • @danielandanthony8939
    @danielandanthony8939 Před 5 lety +1718

    The way Chris Hemsworth moves his head around in disagreement was honestly the funniest thing I’ll see all week

    • @lukasakantu2642
      @lukasakantu2642 Před 5 lety +44

      That is an bold statment. Its only monday

    • @irondolphin1559
      @irondolphin1559 Před 5 lety +2

      i know right. That was so funny. He honestly is my favorite lmao

    • @HiveDes
      @HiveDes Před 5 lety +5

      He’s naturally funny as hell.

    • @tjw937
      @tjw937 Před 5 lety +3

      Always timestamp!

    • @JohnWuWei
      @JohnWuWei Před 5 lety +13

      @@tjw937 @7:35

  • @fadedtoblue5177
    @fadedtoblue5177 Před 4 lety +2669

    Damn so this is what insecurity looks like on the outside👀

    • @winterblommetjie
      @winterblommetjie Před 4 lety +20

      So cringey

    • @chichi77tim
      @chichi77tim Před 4 lety +49

      @John J Lucas Do you came out from the same cringey reddit page, like clones? How does It feels to share everyone the same one brain cell? 😂

    • @leobryant1011
      @leobryant1011 Před 4 lety +10

      Chizumi ??? You completely missed his point

    • @chichi77tim
      @chichi77tim Před 4 lety +20

      @@leobryant1011 I don't think so. Pure stupidity and cringey redditism isn't a point, no more than a tantrum. No need to nobilitate it with a serious response.

    • @leobryant1011
      @leobryant1011 Před 4 lety +18

      Chizumi well I think your misinterpreting his point. I’m fairly certain he’s referring to modern day feminism. And the modern day feminists have a history of doing terrible things so they don’t have the cleanest track record. I’m pretty sure he’s not against feminism, just today’s 1st world feminism.

  • @Patrickbatemanharvard
    @Patrickbatemanharvard Před rokem +53

    As an introvert and a laid back person I really get her

  • @leleprtk
    @leleprtk Před 7 měsíci +1

    People who think the world is against them and everything you say they interpret it as a personal attack ARE EXHAUSTING

  • @aradhyasaraf_
    @aradhyasaraf_ Před 4 lety +2657

    *gets this in my recommendations*
    Me: Is this like, a personal attack or something?

    • @aradhyasaraf_
      @aradhyasaraf_ Před 4 lety +2

      @decembrist Yes!!! 😂😂

    • @mangot589
      @mangot589 Před 4 lety +1

      😄

    • @KeilyHD
      @KeilyHD Před 3 lety +1

      I got this video & one almost identical under it😂 I felt kinda attacked but with my yt history...I understand 😭.

    • @SoulTouchMusic93
      @SoulTouchMusic93 Před 3 lety +4

      "Karen thinks you'd like this"

    • @jralph920
      @jralph920 Před 3 lety +2

      that made me actually lol

  • @theheavenlyfb4071
    @theheavenlyfb4071 Před 2 lety +5039

    when you're taking negative intent from a question as simple as "are you left-handed" then you need to reassess how you perceive people's intent.

    • @OfftoShambala
      @OfftoShambala Před 2 lety +30

      Yes, but that can also be a manipulation depending on the context and maybe what seems ambivalent to the observer is an attack upon a person based on previous engagements that the observer may not be privy to... sociopathic manipulators love to do that kind of thing.

    • @theheavenlyfb4071
      @theheavenlyfb4071 Před 2 lety +229

      @@OfftoShambala Not sure how you can manipulate someone over something as simple as asking "are you left-handed", I mean the context HERE is a yes or no question. It's not really anything philosophical or deep, it really was just a yes or no response.
      It's like being asked "would you like some water" and the response given is "Are you going to waterboard me?!". It's extreme, but still a huge leap in logic just like what Brie did here.

    • @headphonic8
      @headphonic8 Před 2 lety +29

      The point was she was being sarcastic at that part and joking

    • @OfftoShambala
      @OfftoShambala Před 2 lety +2

      @@theheavenlyfb4071 see how well that sort of thing would work now?

    • @theheavenlyfb4071
      @theheavenlyfb4071 Před 2 lety +11

      @@OfftoShambala my stance on the matter hasn't changed

  • @WordAttack88
    @WordAttack88 Před 11 měsíci

    I just discoverd your channel! Great work, man :)

  • @mLichy911
    @mLichy911 Před rokem +53

    I once tried to date a girl that was extremely sarcastic all the time, but also in a dry way/like shown here.
    It was super awkward, especially when I'm more introverted/didn't get she was joking. So it just came across as almost being mean/serious.
    Needless to say, that only lasted a very short while.

    • @davidsinch
      @davidsinch Před rokem +6

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @davidsinch
      @davidsinch Před rokem +2

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @Broken-xp1lh
      @Broken-xp1lh Před rokem

      ​@@davidsinch also their looks but whatever

    • @MarklovesAngels
      @MarklovesAngels Před rokem +1

      @@davidsinch Didn't you used to be mike random? You're saying the same thing word for word.

  • @chewingpeppers
    @chewingpeppers Před 4 lety +2836

    The sad thing is that you can actually see how insecure she feels the whole time... otherwise, there would be no need for all of those weird actions. Hope that she can grow comfortable into her own skin, I'm sure that she can be great if she deactivates her defensive mode!

    • @bug5460
      @bug5460 Před 4 lety +96

      Yeah, I feel like she’s just masking her insecurities in this whole “I’m so confident and amazing” act. I really hope she finds out who she is instead of faking it :,((

    • @randybobandy678
      @randybobandy678 Před 4 lety +8

      Shes just self absorbed

    • @kledi3817
      @kledi3817 Před 4 lety +84

      @@randybobandy678 she's really not, she said herself that she has a lot of anxiety all the time and is really socially awkward and you can definitely see that

    • @CriticalHater
      @CriticalHater Před 4 lety +2

      Hey You a public figure will be judged regardless.

    • @metanoia3438
      @metanoia3438 Před 4 lety +10

      Overlord Supreme so public figures aren’t people too?

  • @bea4912
    @bea4912 Před 4 lety +4485

    i feel like she was bullied or something when she was younger as she’s clearly extremely defensive. maybe it triggers something in her where she thinks everyone is being horrible-just a thought.

    • @drtaha4946
      @drtaha4946 Před 4 lety +436

      Or she could be an introvert, a lot of introverts have this problem

    • @esssymee7227
      @esssymee7227 Před 4 lety +89

      Yea, so why hate her

    • @msk-qp6fn
      @msk-qp6fn Před 4 lety +215

      I do so too and as someone who did go through bullying and have seen what bullying does to people, I know this type of behavior is not so uncommon among those who were bullied

    • @addibro4284
      @addibro4284 Před 4 lety +48

      yeah, you'd just wish she could be a little more like she was in the Craig Ferguson interviews, where she seemed much more charismatic and likeable

    • @moodsofkiwi9285
      @moodsofkiwi9285 Před 4 lety +179

      Yea I struggle with being defensive too. I think it’s bc my mom used to be verbally abusive and I used to be bullied in high school. I always wonder why I feel the need to stand up for myself at every sharp joke. I’ve been working on being humble and laughing at myself but it’s so hard bc it makes me feel like I’m just getting bullied by everyone around me and I’m just rolling over

  • @bt8623
    @bt8623 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I think it really just comes down to tone and body language. If she said all these same things in a certain tone it would be likeable and make her appear strong.

  • @czr7j9
    @czr7j9 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Just be yourself and if people take it the wrong way then it is their problem.

  • @bourbonbog4675
    @bourbonbog4675 Před 5 lety +1595

    Thor Odinson: I like this one
    Chris Hemsworth: I don't like this one

    • @nicolehoffman1198
      @nicolehoffman1198 Před 5 lety +13

      I was thinking the same 😂

    • @abelinc9898
      @abelinc9898 Před 5 lety +4

      Sid Patil he was?

    • @kylia1060
      @kylia1060 Před 5 lety

      Damn shit just got real.

    • @dayshawna
      @dayshawna Před 5 lety

      Noobmaster69 no

    • @geewiz8253
      @geewiz8253 Před 5 lety

      So literally in point 😆 I mean I feel bad fir her in a way but so on point 😁

  • @sabrinazarogoza8686
    @sabrinazarogoza8686 Před 4 lety +2290

    Honestly, as a blind person, I cannot over emphasize the importance of the tone of a person's voice. With the first point, the third clip is the only one I was able to tell was sarcastic because with the other two, the delivery was so flat.

    • @impossible9690
      @impossible9690 Před 4 lety +69

      That is really good input

    • @estheay3611
      @estheay3611 Před 4 lety +286

      Sabrina Zarogoza wow.. this is the first time I’ve ever encountered a blind person in the CZcams comment section!

    • @precioussketches1008
      @precioussketches1008 Před 4 lety +181

      If you don't mind me asking, how did you type this as a blind person?

    • @estheay3611
      @estheay3611 Před 4 lety +163

      Precious Sketches maybe he or she is using one of those “text-to-speech” accommodations on their phone, where a synthetic voice reads out different pieces of text on their screen and converts it into an auditory message that they can understand.
      You can’t exactly convert a CZcams comment to Braille lol

    • @estheyliborges3596
      @estheyliborges3596 Před 4 lety +31

      How’d you watch this

  • @SarahKathleen_
    @SarahKathleen_ Před rokem +62

    Omg yikes as soon as we got to the wired interview I immediately started cringing

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 Před rokem

      this is the problem with people home schooled is that... they have never experience school type bullying the way chris hemsworth and don cheadle are school bullying and dog piling 2 vs 1 on brie larson.....if she had gone to school and face bullying like this she'd deal with it better

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 Před rokem +1

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 Před rokem +2

      I saw the Charisma video wher you attacked Brie a long time ago and it really bothered me. I did not see what you saw. I saw the Marvel actor being opening hostile toward her -which I thought was much worse. Why didn't you talk about him? How unprofessional. I kept thinking, "I need to get the computer and defend this poor woman". So months later, I finally do it and what do I see? You, reading comments that are purely hateful. Apparently she had a breakdown? My first impression was that your show was completely mysonistic because you fawn over the male actors and rip on this one women for being a awkward. This video confirms it and (even though I already knew many men hate women) it saddens me that so many men are eager to join in

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 Před rokem +1

      I've noticed this channel only talks about how men have charisma, i mean use women's example too? You mostly show bad examples of them. And why tf is everything supposed to be about how to become a chick magnet? In this vid, unfortunately Chris hemsworth was in the wrong, not brie as much. He interrupts her as she tries to complete what she wanted to say and then insults her…pretty biased of you

    • @hanhanlon4441
      @hanhanlon4441 Před rokem +3

      @@jimmuu2987 It's not that Brie did anything "wrong," it's just that she doesn't seem very comfortable. It's like she's trying to force humor and trying to fit in with the guys, but it comes off as awkward. Chris and Don actually seemed to be trying to help her, but there's only so much they could do. It's like they were tossing a ball to her and instead of catching it and tossing it back, she'd let the ball hit the floor or she hurled it back defensively. A lot of people felt uncomfortable watching Brie's behavior in this interview. It makes you feel bad for her, but she doesn't have the same kind of easygoing humor as the rest of the cast from Marvel.

  • @hatawa6135
    @hatawa6135 Před 10 měsíci +2

    in the example with Russel Brand, I disagree that he read positive intent. Russel clearly mocked the reporter by telling him to focus on the driving 😂 it was a witty comeback, not an innocent friendly joke.

  • @ernie3446
    @ernie3446 Před 5 lety +3784

    Brie after watching this video: "Learned a lot from this, thank you vEeeERry much."

    • @ricque2331
      @ricque2331 Před 5 lety +172

      More like "is this video a personal attack?"

    • @ukaszsmith6851
      @ukaszsmith6851 Před 5 lety +42

      also "I don't see MEN getting similar treatment!"

    • @ricque2331
      @ricque2331 Před 5 lety +17

      @Amon Ra is your assumption of my comment being a personal attack or something an actual personal attack?

    • @greggonzales1556
      @greggonzales1556 Před 5 lety

      1000 like

    • @samuelbooth7966
      @samuelbooth7966 Před 5 lety +1

      😂

  • @zed3063
    @zed3063 Před 4 lety +1742

    I think she’s a bit insecure which makes her defensive

    • @thebrightestsun4685
      @thebrightestsun4685 Před 4 lety +2

      @@asimhussain8716 yeah, I mean I couldn't believe she is the same person

    • @l_will_be_great1326
      @l_will_be_great1326 Před 4 lety +6

      I'm a very insecure person as I have ADHD and bad self-image, but I don't act like her, I instead always use humour and sarcasm to defuse any situation, it works all the time. Until people want me to be serious, at that point I just lock off and stay silent.

    • @stopbeinginsecure4786
      @stopbeinginsecure4786 Před 4 lety +3

      Will H idk because I do this and people take it as an opportunity to make fun of me and AGREE with me. This always made my insecurity 1000x worse because it was like everyone was confirming what I was already thinking

    • @l_will_be_great1326
      @l_will_be_great1326 Před 4 lety +3

      @@stopbeinginsecure4786 I know how you feel, thankfully I kept my circle of friends close and low overall maintenance, nothing to prove. Have 5-6 friends I've known since grade 7, it is hard sometimes for people like us but we'll get through it eventually..... hopefully.

    • @Owen-ub3fv
      @Owen-ub3fv Před 4 lety +1

      I don't think she's insecure. 😏

  • @Sam-zt2sj
    @Sam-zt2sj Před 6 měsíci +3

    I don't hate her rather I understand her more, there are people will always find it hard to feel belong to society by not faking their attitude, I'm not saying you don't need to adapt just to fit in but she's kind of a person who need understanding, I say she lacks interpersonal skills and don't expect that most people have this kind of skills.

  • @FrotLopOfficial
    @FrotLopOfficial Před 9 měsíci +3

    Her home/web interview with Hot Ones was waaaayyyy waaayyyy more charasmatic and likeable. Either she, or her manager, realized and did something about it. That or I guess she just got lucky.

  • @balighy1472
    @balighy1472 Před 4 lety +2879

    Thanks now im gonna overthink every social interaction I have even more

    • @missbrooke666
      @missbrooke666 Před 4 lety +67

      balighy IKR?! I often overthink my overthinking 😳

    • @richardbottom9843
      @richardbottom9843 Před 4 lety +81

      just always think that people you interact with like you so you won't go defensive and the assholes will expose themselves soon enough anyways

    • @zeeshansyed511
      @zeeshansyed511 Před 4 lety +17

      @@richardbottom9843 That's actually a really good tip, dude.

    • @sita487
      @sita487 Před 4 lety

      no need for that

    • @rosegold-beats
      @rosegold-beats Před 4 lety +1

      Never think, go with the flow, you'll learn from your faillures

  • @edpotter1170
    @edpotter1170 Před 4 lety +4394

    i love how Chris was trying to save Brie from going down that path but Brie just won't get the hints, and continued on just to win an argument.

    • @snoopymochi562
      @snoopymochi562 Před 4 lety +103

      Ed Potter Don Cheadle was also next to her, trying to remedy the situation.

    • @ultrabigfella
      @ultrabigfella Před 4 lety +204

      I feel like with her below sub-par acting, her sucky emotional range, and the fact that she can't pick up on any context clues at all, she might be somewhat sociopathic.

    • @lordfabulous6198
      @lordfabulous6198 Před 4 lety +108

      @@ultrabigfella she's a narcissist. She probably wasn't before but there's a lot of signs to it now. Fame can do that.

    • @adumdumdum
      @adumdumdum Před 4 lety +15

      @@ultrabigfella I know this is totally off topic but how do I apply to your sanctuary?

    • @ultrabigfella
      @ultrabigfella Před 4 lety +14

      @@adumdumdum It's a sanctuary made just for you, No.😂

  • @ajpaalkalyanmasih9
    @ajpaalkalyanmasih9 Před rokem +2

    I would like a breakdown of that interview with Russel Brand and how to read positive intent into an ambiguous situation!

  • @beetalius
    @beetalius Před rokem +1

    Hermesworth makes the “ugh, this person again” sound

  • @Shane-bx4xn
    @Shane-bx4xn Před 5 lety +3305

    Thor is trying to save her but she is just digging her own grave

    • @starchild2121
      @starchild2121 Před 5 lety +272

      He's like, "take my hand, I'll save you from those who make personal attacks on you."
      She's like: "I'm stronger than you. And we've been fighting all day anyway!"

    • @chrisreaves6399
      @chrisreaves6399 Před 5 lety +85

      Actually she is just trying to clear up the common misconception that she isn't the greatest actor to ever step foot on this planet and Chris Hemsworth is trying to leach off of her greatness. Thank you veeeerrrry much

    • @casszhang554
      @casszhang554 Před 5 lety +30

      @@chrisreaves6399 perfectly done.

    • @nagendrajoshi4
      @nagendrajoshi4 Před 5 lety +2

      1 k like

    • @thecasualreviewer2148
      @thecasualreviewer2148 Před 5 lety +21

      I like how Marvel 'put her in her place' in Endgame.

  • @Kh4ny12
    @Kh4ny12 Před 5 lety +2016

    Distinguishing sarcasm and seriousness as a brit
    You just gotta add “mate” in the sentence

    • @gregthefishburger8270
      @gregthefishburger8270 Před 5 lety +39

      Worse advice ever 😂

    • @nxctra
      @nxctra Před 5 lety +91

      if you talk to a Brit and they use really strong slang they are mostly joking

    • @Kh4ny12
      @Kh4ny12 Před 5 lety

      Greg The Fishburger hypothetically speaking that is

    • @Cruciatum
      @Cruciatum Před 5 lety +22

      I'm a brit with international colleagues, they just say they assume everything being said has a double meaning.

    • @OneWanAndHisDog
      @OneWanAndHisDog Před 5 lety +4

      Plenty of times I use mate when I'm being serious to someone

  • @Sonic-hq9zz
    @Sonic-hq9zz Před 10 měsíci +2

    Man, I hate watching that Brie Larson, Don Cheadle, & Chris Hemsworth interview. It’s so uncomfortable, my god 😂

  • @jenniferschuessler3992
    @jenniferschuessler3992 Před rokem +7

    I’ve never followed any of these people so the background with Marvel and how she may be feeling from those movies is interesting. Without that context my initial reaction or assumption would be that she and Chris had a thing going that ended badly where she now feels hurt, insecure or wronged in some way.

  • @ShaunRF
    @ShaunRF Před 5 lety +5713

    The incredibly stark contrast between her old interviews and her more recent ones is astonishing. Like watching two different people.

    • @AutumnSoldier413
      @AutumnSoldier413 Před 5 lety +965

      Possibly something psychologically bad happened to her. She seems defensive, rather than rude. People accuse her of not being able to read situations, whilst it is them who cannot read her

    • @aglayamajorem9546
      @aglayamajorem9546 Před 5 lety +151

      @@AutumnSoldier413 Her PR didn't do a good job on that then.

    • @protokhaniapetos3158
      @protokhaniapetos3158 Před 5 lety +63

      rotaryfreak3 fame can do that

    • @anishinaabae
      @anishinaabae Před 5 lety +183

      it's almost as if people change as they age.

    • @sicemic
      @sicemic Před 5 lety +95

      I'm not sure if the format of the interview had anything to do with it. Talk shows are usually scripted or at least the guests know beforehand what to talk about, whereas film interviews are, to my knowledge, unscripted.
      But yeah, she is definitely different.

  • @rileymclellan8953
    @rileymclellan8953 Před 3 lety +3305

    I never understood why people didn’t like her until seeing how she behaved in these interviews. It’s really uncomfortable to watch.

    • @lambgaming1347
      @lambgaming1347 Před 3 lety +28

      Definitely

    • @brynbrew
      @brynbrew Před 3 lety +133

      Meh, these types of interactions happen regularly in real life.everyones battling their own inner insecurities. It's really not that bad. Just seems bad cause it's on big shows where everything has to be perfect cause showbiz.

    • @melonytoni9016
      @melonytoni9016 Před 3 lety +132

      @@brynbrew The fact that she cant even keep it together as a professional in a few minutes of spotlight, makes me think she is much worse in normal life.

    • @brynbrew
      @brynbrew Před 3 lety +37

      @@melonytoni9016 Everyone has flaws. Get over it.

    • @hambeshdahfer9531
      @hambeshdahfer9531 Před 3 lety +87

      @@brynbrew Yes we all have flaws. being entitled and dismissive to negative traits makes you toxic.

  • @kerik7176
    @kerik7176 Před 5 měsíci

    When you are comfortable with yourself, it comes across in all sorts of situations, even uncomfortable ones. When you're not, that's every bit as obvious.

  • @tunnasch
    @tunnasch Před 9 měsíci +6

    Oh my gosh. Where were you before I developed all my terrible habits?! You are SO RIGHT! I can do better now for the rest of my life after watching your channel! ❤

    • @davisantos5672
      @davisantos5672 Před 6 měsíci

      Just reminding you to check on it again(like myself)

  • @jellybumfruitcakes
    @jellybumfruitcakes Před 5 lety +1107

    Don Cheadle’s face during the interview is hilarious. He just looks like he’s had enough of it all.

    • @justchilling704
      @justchilling704 Před 5 lety +28

      He did! I was laughing when he said “I told you not to touch it”.

    • @Targisvear
      @Targisvear Před 5 lety +12

      Well, maybe he read comics and is scared thinking he will have to play love interest to Captain Marvel in upcoming movies, and that might be awkward if they didn't get along, lol.

    • @stevethea5250
      @stevethea5250 Před 5 lety +4

      YES PLEASE BREAK DOWN RUSSEL BRAND

    • @LuckySmurf
      @LuckySmurf Před 5 lety +1

      He always looks like that.

    • @proudbeaner696
      @proudbeaner696 Před 5 lety

      Or maybe ... hear me out ... he was going along with the meme and pretending to hate her . So that way bored shit talkers and trolls watch the video .

  • @aaa098-a
    @aaa098-a Před 3 lety +3407

    At McDonalds: Would you like a free size up?
    Brie: I'm not fat.

  • @FeliciaSandiego
    @FeliciaSandiego Před 7 měsíci +3

    I also think that she is extremely insecure. Additionally, it is really challenging to join a set where there is already a close friend group, and you are trying to fit in, joke with them. However, when you attempt to be funny, you may occasionally miss the mark and come across as rude or even mean.

  • @jacobrobinson787
    @jacobrobinson787 Před rokem +2

    The first point about sarcasm is why I highly discourage it through text. There is no easy "tell". Unless the person you're speaking with is familiar with you, you could come off as arrogant to any other person when you're really just joking around.

    • @davidsinch
      @davidsinch Před rokem

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @davidsinch
      @davidsinch Před rokem

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @jacobrobinson787
      @jacobrobinson787 Před rokem

      @@davidsinch ...OK? Why are you saying this to ME? I never once mentioned Larson.