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  • čas přidán 12. 08. 2024
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    HOW QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMEN READ BETWEEN THE LIES by RC Blakes
    How much better would life be if we had never believed the lies? In this discussion we are talking about how queen conscious women read between the lies.
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Před 2 lety +416

    Welcome in FAMILY. LIKE 👍 and SHARE this link today.

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite Před 2 lety +12

      Come through intro song. This is the first time I've heard the actual song and it is beautiful.

    • @lisawiggins5510
      @lisawiggins5510 Před 2 lety

      @@Th3lite Qqwqqqq 0

    • @tracystreet8338
      @tracystreet8338 Před 2 lety +3

      Praise God,we need your wisdom and discernment everyday. God bless you Bishop Blakes for your faithfulness to the Lord Jesus Amen

    • @dennis4375
      @dennis4375 Před 2 lety +1

      Mr. Blake's who is that singing in the intro?

    • @funkeraji8969
      @funkeraji8969 Před 2 lety

      Please Bishop who is that singing in the intro pleaseeeeeeeee😀

  • @meghanmarshall6687
    @meghanmarshall6687 Před 2 lety +664

    Reading between the lies.
    Signs you are dealing with a liar…
    1-Mouths are filled with flattery.
    2-Do a lot of fast talking.
    3-Applying pressure on you.
    4-When they do not back up their talk with their walk.
    5-They never give direct answers.
    6-They omit or twist facts with half truth.

  • @fit4royalqueens334
    @fit4royalqueens334 Před 2 lety +605

    Liars are dangerous people. Once you know you've been blatantly lied to and intentionally deceived, your job is to protect yourself at all costs, because a pathological, predatory, opportunistic liar will also steal, kill, and destroy everything you build.

  • @mistymidnight4447
    @mistymidnight4447 Před 2 lety +862

    People often look genuinely confused when their flattery doesn’t work on me. They’re busy telling me what they think I need to hear, and in the process show me who they are. There’s a big difference between flattery and a genuine compliment, you can feel it. It has a different energy. Thank you pastor Blake’s. Another good one 🙏

    • @WovenPsalm
      @WovenPsalm Před 2 lety +17

      I appreciate the opportunity to flex my un-flatterable muscles.💪🏾

    • @samararoberts7596
      @samararoberts7596 Před 2 lety +1

      @@WovenPsalm 🤦🏾‍♀️lmbo 😭🤣😂 smh.

    • @mistymidnight4447
      @mistymidnight4447 Před 2 lety +2

      @@WovenPsalm lol 😂

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE Před 2 lety +2

      Definitely

    • @thelookout5802
      @thelookout5802 Před 2 lety +69

      There's one who told me, I know no one has told you today, what a beautiful woman you are🙄🤣🤣. I told him actually, my Father did. He said I'm fearfully and wonderfully made, but thank you. He looked confused. Doesn't even know his Bible..next😂😂😅

  • @niaelbryant2336
    @niaelbryant2336 Před 2 lety +664

    People get mad with you when they can't control you. They are NOT trying to control you for your good. They want control you for their selfish purpose.

    • @helenaheino2334
      @helenaheino2334 Před 2 lety +5

      So amazing but so true

    • @fizahaque
      @fizahaque Před 2 lety +24

      I realised that with my current boyfriend and I truly don’t like it because I can sense when is trying to manipulate me. Yes it’s his first (serious non hookup and committed) relationship but my god does it take energy from me. I’m not interested in teaching him all about the nitty gritty and for him to up and leave in the future. I’m wifey material and will wait for my husband in the meantime.

    • @ksquareshow4480
      @ksquareshow4480 Před 2 lety +19

      My toxic ex was the same way… she couldn’t handle being told what she was doing wrong without finding a way to make it about me. Liars want everything they do to get swept under the rug

    • @niaelbryant2336
      @niaelbryant2336 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ksquareshow4480 I hope you are happy single.

    • @ksquareshow4480
      @ksquareshow4480 Před 2 lety +5

      @@niaelbryant2336 trust me I am

  • @kscc2361
    @kscc2361 Před 2 lety +368

    "Where ever there is pressure, God is not in it." Best statement/encouragement I've heard all day. Thank you!

    • @themoldavitecorner
      @themoldavitecorner Před 2 lety +6

      Wow! Truth bomb 🤯

    • @jofield969
      @jofield969 Před rokem +2

      Thank you Thank you " I new where there is pressure god not in it " you have clarified for me, something I came to understand after much time and prayer ' thank you.

    • @GHO5tMod3
      @GHO5tMod3 Před 7 měsíci

      Exactly because that’s manipulation

    • @jeannienotofthisworld8365
      @jeannienotofthisworld8365 Před 7 měsíci

      Also.. If you don't have peace about it, God is not in it!

  • @sapiosag9306
    @sapiosag9306 Před 2 lety +216

    It took me so long to forgive myself for believing lies. When the sad beautiful reality is I was raised in a healthy, loving home and I was not exposed to the harsh reality of the world. My forgiveness came when I accepted that my pain and embarrassment was necessary for the growth.

    • @Ddeath.Eaterr
      @Ddeath.Eaterr Před 2 lety +3

      Amen

    • @privacy9175
      @privacy9175 Před 2 lety +7

      That's true. Learned the hard and sad way.❤❤

    • @nomathembangcobo6414
      @nomathembangcobo6414 Před rokem +7

      I believe that the worse thing parents do is to make their homes comfortable to their children n protect them from the world outside, but not warning them about this same world.
      I think it's time we make time to teach/ warn our children about life out there.

    • @karenkuske5567
      @karenkuske5567 Před rokem

      Same❤

    • @TheBookofChloe
      @TheBookofChloe Před rokem

      Amen sister, I’m in the same boat ❤

  • @godschosen4631
    @godschosen4631 Před 9 měsíci +11

    Best relationship content on CZcams…Real Talk…Keep exposing the enemy🙏🏿

  • @bpassion4fashion581
    @bpassion4fashion581 Před rokem +11

    Future- Faking is a very painful type of abuse ! I’ve lived it and it robbed me of my youth , my dreams , and my financial growth ! I was the healer type , the naive type that believe that everyone meant what they said . Today I’m wiser but oh boy, what a prize I paid for my lessons .

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove Před 2 lety +145

    Relationships are about trust, so if you find yourself having to play detective all of the time, then it is time to move on.
    💙CZcamsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @pd9116
    @pd9116 Před 2 lety +177

    “Wise as a serpent harmless as a dove”. Beautiful prayer and message. Thank you.

  • @starrsaenz5472
    @starrsaenz5472 Před 2 lety +41

    Your channel PROVES schooling is NOT needed to help people that are going through hard times.
    I separated from my Narcissist Husband right when Shut Down hit from Covid-19,I could not see any therapist.
    God sent you my way to help me get through the break up and teach me SELF ❤️
    YOU ARE A TRUE BLESSING 💫

  • @marciaw4563
    @marciaw4563 Před 2 lety +33

    I have been trying to tell my son about being gullible and believing everything a female says. Men are not the only ones that lies.

  • @InnerIntegration
    @InnerIntegration Před 2 lety +312

    The information and perspectives on this channel are by far the most relevant in our modern world. I’m grateful I found these teachings, better late than never, now in my 40s. Blessed are the younger generations who learn this early.

    • @shannonl.8737
      @shannonl.8737 Před 2 lety +11

      Yes ma'am. I totally agree. Also in my 40's, but am so happy I found Bishop Blake's when I did. It was a true game changer for me. Keep on pushing through sis💞

    • @mrsbutterflyrainbows5900
      @mrsbutterflyrainbows5900 Před 2 lety +7

      Meredith...I love your channel, it was one of the first I learned from about Narcissistic relationships.

    • @diamondgold5277
      @diamondgold5277 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah if this song can get over 500Million views we Might have a Better Chance 🤔

    • @Shani-hl8xm
      @Shani-hl8xm Před 2 lety +5

      Gurl, YES!!! I'm in my 40's as well and wished I heard this decades ago!

    • @nneka8861
      @nneka8861 Před 2 lety +3

      So much knowledge and wisdom being exchanged on Mr. Blake's platform.

  • @kdmylove
    @kdmylove Před 2 lety +61

    Queen conscious women
    A queen conscious woman is a woman who is aware. She's cognizant of who she is and why she exists and what her worth is. She knows what her value is and what she will or won't settle for. She's queen conscious because she knows when a situation has has gone beneath her and she eliminates herself from the equation.
    She's queen conscious and she's not going to let you toy with her because she's what queen conscious. Now queen conscious women are simultaneously conscious of others and their surroundings, so when you are truly functioning in your queen consciousness your God consciousness and your self-consciousness makes you acutely aware of the people in your circle or in your space.
    So a queen conscious woman because she's in tune with who she is, she's also in tune with the people that are in her space and if they agree with her or not. She may not necessarily have the specifics or the complete run down on what your story is or you know what your game is, but she knows enough, she knows herself enough to know if your energy agrees with her. She knows herself enough to really listen to you with her intelligence and not with her emotion and she can read between your lies. You said one thing three minutes ago now you're saying something else because she's what queen conscious.
    This is why queen conscious women are not seemingly pursued as much as other kinds of women, it's because the world knows and the world is like an animal animals know who they can play with and the world knows a woman it can play with and when a woman is queen conscious the world is usually intimidated by her because a queen conscious woman can see through the disguise and mask.
    When you get a right perspective of God, he gives you a right perspective of yourself. It then leads to your having the capacity to discern the people around you.

    • @Herbicopia
      @Herbicopia Před rokem +3

      Thank you for the types out message! I am grateful to absorb his teaching in this way. A great summary of the video.

    • @thatsmelaninogfamily6428
      @thatsmelaninogfamily6428 Před rokem +2

      Amen

    • @nakemiathompson9553
      @nakemiathompson9553 Před rokem +2

      I know I'm going to get a thorough summary when I see your name! Thank you for taking your time to provide this information 😊

    • @nabukalusandra1119
      @nabukalusandra1119 Před rokem +2

      This is so helpful
      I wanted to write down that part of the video in my diary and you writing it here made it easier for me
      Thank you so much

    • @ParadigmShift-tz2zn
      @ParadigmShift-tz2zn Před 9 měsíci

      🙌🏽

  • @jdtamikaadams4855
    @jdtamikaadams4855 Před 2 lety +131

    The flattery part hit home and when I switched the topic to something deeper it revealed the ugly side of the person. A King will never insult a Queen and he insulted me in that deeper conversation. Which opened my eyes.

    • @sunsetstormx
      @sunsetstormx Před rokem

      Oh yes because they are control freaks and want to run the convo! Glad you saw it!

  • @Tfolife528
    @Tfolife528 Před rokem +15

    Hadn’t talked to an ex in over 12 years, he says I left before he gave me a ring. Awkward silence on the phone. I’m like how could he say that and I never felt loved by him. He was abusive and took our son away from me when was a baby. Our son hates both of us now. I tried to tolerate talking to my ex on the phone. He kept saying he loves me but has a whole girlfriend of over 15 years, who has to call him before she comes by. He thought he had me back. I blocked him today and will be moving on. He’s a liar, saying he loves me. I love me more. May he have a blessed life, without me.

  • @sharhughes1086
    @sharhughes1086 Před 2 lety +34

    I have been supply but since I came to Christ game over! Those kinds of relationships are situationships, they will lovebomb you and once you get comfortable they know they have you in their clutches! I've been celibate and free of any soul-ties since 2017 best thing I ever done!

  • @lovephotography1966
    @lovephotography1966 Před rokem +15

    Oh Lord, I needed this a decade ago. " A person that talks without a pause..." God forbid if I even ask for clarification, then the argument begins, the denial of ever ever saying something he just said etc. So exausting. Thank you Lord for rescuing me.

  • @tanishapetertv2298
    @tanishapetertv2298 Před 2 lety +160

    This is a wake up call message, I am tired to see us ladies sleeping and submitting to all these lies from some of these men with their manipulating tactics. I thank you Pastor for sharing your expertise with us always. God bless you and your ministry Richly

    • @empresserica
      @empresserica Před 2 lety +1

      Agreed!

    • @uniqueandgifted
      @uniqueandgifted Před 2 lety +1

      Yes

    • @tmichele8922
      @tmichele8922 Před 2 lety +2

      Facts

    • @chynadoll77cyn59
      @chynadoll77cyn59 Před 2 lety +5

      My ex was an opportunities all his 48 years just using women and damaging us women, every woman he came in contact with he left a scar including me. My life is in shambles trying to get out ,meanwhile he goes to the next . His been engage four times just to lie and get what he wants and then move on. Only to say he’s not marriage material. Sometimes I don’t understand why God continues to let this man do what he’s known to do all his life. 4 baby mamas 5 kids ain’t with neither one of us. I with him for 23 years off and on finally free and peace. But it hurts still to know he used me to get on his feet.

    • @jojackson7031
      @jojackson7031 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes, I completely agree, these women both young AND OLD are falling for any and every thing , like they are desperate, and that's a BAD way to be !!!!!

  • @laneym5893
    @laneym5893 Před 2 lety +301

    Hey Bishop Blakes, I’ve been listening to you for a couple years , since the pandemic while I was in college and you have help me so much . You are like a father to me. Thank you for the advice. God bless you and your beautiful family !💕😊

    • @diamondjack-cooper5322
      @diamondjack-cooper5322 Před 2 lety +3

      AMEN, I have discernment but I don't put it to use! I go back to people who are no good for me because of loneliness or circumstances!
      AMEN

    • @pastordab3481
      @pastordab3481 Před 2 lety +2

      Thank God for this Right Now Word.This confirmation was right on time for me. To God be the Glory!!!

    • @sunshine9717
      @sunshine9717 Před 2 lety +6

      @@diamondjack-cooper5322 That's understandable. I walked away from unhealthy relationships. Only to go back because of loneliness.
      But once I went back and then married this person. Only to be miserable, nervous, sad, no love and wishing I can get out. Well I'm older now. I Pay attention and listen for Red Flag words or behavior. I've learned, it's better to sleep in your bed alone and stand in your own space. Than to have a fool, manipulator, combative, mentally abusive lier, that offers nothing good in my life.
      So enjoy your space, time and don't listen to folks or pay attention to social media and all the fake so called healthy relationship you see. Those with healthy relationships aren't blasting there life for all to see.
      So enjoy you, your time, and your space. I pray for you to see the beauty within you, God and enjoying those you love.❤💯

    • @diamondjack-cooper5322
      @diamondjack-cooper5322 Před 2 lety +3

      @@sunshine9717 I truly appreciate your comment, I needed to hear that someone cares about me, AMEN!🙂❤️

    • @tysgem7
      @tysgem7 Před 2 lety +1

      Definitely purchase his books if you haven’t already 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @artshannonharrison3291
    @artshannonharrison3291 Před 2 lety +14

    Slow talking too can be a deception. Smooth talking can be a moderate speed yet tainted with seduction and narcissism.

  • @danielaa506
    @danielaa506 Před 2 lety +50

    "I love your bloodtype" and the "The holy spirit is saying: Run Forest, Run". You are brilliant and funny! Amazing. I love the way you inspire and speak! I wish I had you teachings when I was younger. God bless RC Blakes!

    • @nomathembangcobo6414
      @nomathembangcobo6414 Před rokem +1

      🤣🤣🤣 oh how I wish I heard all of his teachings when I was in my youthful year!
      I have started sharing these with my grandmother of 10!

  • @gigivenaw1360
    @gigivenaw1360 Před 2 lety +12

    I dated a “Pastor” after my divorce. I haven’t been open to dating because I believe in soul ties. Looking back… I probably was too vulnerable to date after the divorce. I watched and followed him for about a year, and I finally decided to tell him that I was open to getting to know him.( He approached me first) Much of his conversation was “flattery” which appealed to my damaged self esteem post divorce. Well, he ended up ghosting me when he found out that sex was off the table.. I’ve been tripping about this because I’m not an open person… but I opened myself to him. I thank you for this message. It gives me much needed insight . God bless you Pastor

    • @karungidoreen4084
      @karungidoreen4084 Před 2 lety +1

      Anyone who puts yu on pressure is hiding alie.....indirect answers mean fakeness

  • @aberashjackson7741
    @aberashjackson7741 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I am writting from Germany to thank you for the Information about liers. I just got rid of a man that Lied to me for 14 years. I feel free and strong. I stayed with this man out of fear of being alone because i don't have any family in Germany. By the way i am a black woman living in Germany.
    Thank you again

  • @yovettejohns6305
    @yovettejohns6305 Před rokem +18

    Awesome presentation. The queen conscious woman is not moved by flattery and learns wisdom by reflecting on the experiences of others. She has to crucify the desires of the flesh and resist love spells or emotional crushes. She cannot dismiss the warnings of others re the person. Many disastrous situations today are caused by ignoring warning signs. These are perilous times.

  • @chania80
    @chania80 Před 2 lety +9

    'Wherever there is pressure, God is not in it.' Yes sir. I am a firm believer in this.

  • @ctaylor267ct
    @ctaylor267ct Před rokem +29

    I’ve been going through some really rough times. I found this channel by accident. Let me tell ya, I’m grateful for this channel. It has truly been helping me. I Thank you 🙏 pastor. Your words of encouragement and love that you have for God, has been my blessing. Thank you and always God bless you and your family.

  • @savannanicole1981
    @savannanicole1981 Před 2 lety +70

    Thank you pastor Blake’s! I needed this. I’m in a situation-ship and last night he wouldn’t stop flattering me to the point I couldn’t even remember what he just said. He couldn’t stop going on and on and even called me his “ queen” and he’s lucky that I’m with him because I’m so amazing and wouldn’t even let me get a word in it. I just stood there quietly looking at him and nodding my head and just said thank you. He talks a very big game but his actions never show it.

    • @user-dn1pj3db2k
      @user-dn1pj3db2k Před 2 lety

      Time to get out !!
      I put up with that same crap for 30 some years trust me those are all red flags trust your instincts actions speak louder than words that flattery happened to me too I’m on my 50s divorce three years don’t go through that get out now

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 2 lety +13

      Get out of this ASAP. I was in quite a few bad relationships and nearly lost my life. Almost got killed! Ask the Lord and others for help. This is serious.

  • @wendyo6558
    @wendyo6558 Před 2 lety +7

    If a person never pauses to ask you what you think ….. there is a lie in there somewhere. When they pressure you to get you to move quickly without considering the consequences. Love that wisdom

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 Před 2 lety +59

    We have to learn how to follow our intuition that’s a sign from God when something doesn’t feel right we need to pay attention to that I think that is the main part of how to read between all those lies🤦🏽‍♀️👀🎯

    • @latoybraxton949
      @latoybraxton949 Před 2 lety +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @violetstephanie1
      @violetstephanie1 Před 2 lety +9

      Very much so. I agree and have always had problems when I disobey my intuition, at huge costs and in all areas of life, so I now pay great attention to my intuition

    • @lottabailey9904
      @lottabailey9904 Před 2 lety

      @@violetstephanie1 yes it’s costly

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 Před 2 lety +1

      Precisely

  • @traceydumase
    @traceydumase Před 2 lety +79

    I can relate to growing up in a loving household and getting out into the world being very very naive. I'm a late bloomer so it has taken me majority of my adult life to learn that human beings aren't like mum, dad and my brother lol Human beings (myself included) are whole different ball game. Who you know could literally determine your life or death!

    • @csmith2484
      @csmith2484 Před 2 lety +2

      Same here!! 🎯🎯🎯

    • @privacy9175
      @privacy9175 Před 2 lety +1

      Same here too. 💯💥

    • @traceydumase
      @traceydumase Před 2 lety

      But hey! God is good. See how gracious He is in making sure we have access to such platforms and information? We'll be okay🥰❤️ God bless you both🙏🏾

    • @nomathembangcobo6414
      @nomathembangcobo6414 Před rokem

      Please teach your younger sisters n friends, if u have children, don't leave them out. We make mistakes of only protecting our family from the world, but not warning them how mean is this same world!

  • @msdecemberloveangel8236
    @msdecemberloveangel8236 Před rokem +22

    It took me a long time to figure life out. I've learned so much about people. Especially my closest friends and family members. When u get it then they say ur crazy because they can't manipulate you any longer. I'm blessed. Thank u Pastor for ur great teaching 💓

  • @shakawarrior1146
    @shakawarrior1146 Před 2 lety +92

    💫 That's the key Mr. Blakes. Wherever there is pressure, God is not in it. Knowing oneself to the point where you can see others to a specific degree supports your discernment of the situation. In other words, you can see the crap before it hits the fan. The wise measures their words. ⚛️

  • @drstepnohelpneeded
    @drstepnohelpneeded Před 11 měsíci +4

    If they are pressuring you, they are building you up for something. Set boundaries! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @zeewash7153
    @zeewash7153 Před 2 lety +26

    This message was right on time. Dealing with a liar on my job. But God has me covered! Glory!!

  • @beautifulyou2815
    @beautifulyou2815 Před 7 měsíci +2

    About 2 decades ago, I used to be a very much gullible person.. now I’m just analysing and not believing everything anybody says… through life’s experience I’m becoming wiser..🙏🏻

  • @rachelroyster5807
    @rachelroyster5807 Před 2 lety +42

    You’re doing God’s work. Providing clarity on how to determine who belongs in our inner circle. The circle has a significant impact on our destiny. Thank you sir.

  • @atboptimistic-6853
    @atboptimistic-6853 Před 2 lety +28

    I thank God for the gift of Discernment.

  • @marcellejane2298
    @marcellejane2298 Před 2 lety +32

    This is so eye opening what you have said. I now realise to stop doubting myself and my decisions . I'm pushing toxic people away that created doubt in my mind making me feel there was something wrong with me. I've had an awaking once I eliminated those people and became more aware of where my insecurities where comming from. I've realised I am a women of value and i have sacrificed alot of myself for my boys because I love them.I am happy to live on my own for the rest of my life than let another toxic man try to destroy me again and my kind spirit. I now know to be very selective with who i let in. I sence deception a mile away. I've done so much healing on myself and I'm stronger for the right reasons.I've realised and learnt you can say no and walk away from those who Don't have your best interest. The suffering you go through being with a toxic person is worse than lonliness. Being with a toxic person makes you feel alone anyway, but ontop of that worthless and insurcure by the way they treat you and break you. Ive now realised you can put a stop to it.I think I'm happy to deal with lonliness and if it means me being on my own I've excepted that and that's okay too. At least I can put my head on a pillow and sleep at night with a clear conscience knowing I'm an honest person. I can do the things that make me happy without having the toxicity from another individual. Your amazing rc Blake's. Your words are eye opening to others. Thankyou you cleared up a few things for me. Your words are full of wisdom and love.

    • @susannabbosa9415
      @susannabbosa9415 Před 8 měsíci +1

      So true!The suffering you go thru wt a toxic person is worse than bein lonely coz they keep you lonely anyway& top it up with usin you!!

  • @atboptimistic-6853
    @atboptimistic-6853 Před 2 lety +61

    I got an A in Critical Thinking! My mother said Common Sense ain't so common.

  • @Bornfree1010
    @Bornfree1010 Před rokem +9

    Pastor, thank you for acknowledging that some of us are doing all we can: getting up, listening to you before leaving for work, coming home, listening to you & going to bed with gratitude for your messages & what we have. This is me, at 60yo, feeling like there isn't enough time to get beyond this.
    My childhood was similar to your wife's. I am the toxic empathy who thought this was a gift from God for my life. I am so surprised to hear how your wife was able to know her value so early in her life. It would be wonderful to hear how she found her worth in time to build a family & life with you. I'm sure younger woman (and older like me) could benefit greatly from hearing her story about how she recognized her worth so early in her life given her abuse history. Took me a lifetime to see the abuse and leave.

  • @paradiselivinginpurpose
    @paradiselivinginpurpose Před 2 lety +49

    Coming out of 2 different situations that happened to me quite recently (one 5 months ago, and the one, just yesterday!!!) I x can truly say that all these points are so true and the red flags were present in the persons who tried to deceive me.
    Thank God I'm a praying woman so once I started to ask God to expose them and reveal any deception, He did just that!!!

    • @ebonywiley500
      @ebonywiley500 Před 2 lety +9

      love it. I swear he is telling the truth. I like how he said ask the holy spirit to reveal the deception.

    • @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
      @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes ma'am I always ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any kind of deception and lies and he does EVERY SINGLE TIME TO A T..

  • @thisbloomingroomwithcoachc7782

    fast talkers engaged in monologue conversations where you are not allowed to get a word in...DANGER!!! bless you Bishop

  • @misguidedpearls7456
    @misguidedpearls7456 Před 2 lety +41

    Thank u
    When u grow up in a home full of truth
    U don't know everybody else is lying or gaming
    U can't fathom it
    U get hurt often until u learn...
    Now i prefer solitude alot

    • @rhondajohnson3072
      @rhondajohnson3072 Před 2 lety +1

      🙌🏾

    • @nwanturuadaeze6471
      @nwanturuadaeze6471 Před rokem +2

      It's sad some of us learnt this late..... But thank God for platforms as these.
      Better late than never.

    • @sunsetstormx
      @sunsetstormx Před rokem +1

      Yes me too. I love solitude. I love the peace.

    • @veeoby3364
      @veeoby3364 Před rokem

      You can't be that gullible.

  • @lakeshacollins8825
    @lakeshacollins8825 Před 2 lety +30

    This was another powerful message. I’ve found myself in situations where people tried to apply pressure and my spirit was so uncomfortable in that space. That let me know that I needed to slow down and think. I don’t like making rushed decisions. I like to think things through and take my time. So many people don’t get that, but I know what resonates with my spirit. Thanks Bishop for all you do to teach us and give us knowledge that leads to wisdom!

  • @JusDiff
    @JusDiff Před rokem +3

    This made me think about all the pressure during the "pandemic" to give people a false sense of urgency to do something that wasn't really the answer. Here we are finding out the lies now.

  • @dianex1969
    @dianex1969 Před 2 lety +9

    yes they tell you all these things then turn around an marry someone else.

    • @liahknowsbest5092
      @liahknowsbest5092 Před 2 lety

      Or have a baby with someone else when trying with them 😞💔

    • @dianex1969
      @dianex1969 Před 2 lety

      @@liahknowsbest5092 I feel you girl

  • @maggiesands785
    @maggiesands785 Před 2 lety +46

    I love that you reference the word of God for every situation. God Bless you Good Sir

    • @spiritandtruth194
      @spiritandtruth194 Před 2 lety +4

      As every “spiritual” content creator should!

    • @rhondajohnson3072
      @rhondajohnson3072 Před 2 lety

      It’s so comforting takes me back to my grandma speaking lol

    • @sunsetstormx
      @sunsetstormx Před rokem +1

      Amen and that really keeps me a regular viewer. I love that he does all of this from a heart that is after God.

  • @fififi3714
    @fififi3714 Před 2 lety +20

    You are the realist I can listen to you all day !!!! Truly the father figure many of us women never had .. If we knew these things growing up we would have been so much better!!!

    • @AwakeningwithMacher
      @AwakeningwithMacher Před 2 lety +3

      I second this!!!!! And I have brothers that also never taught me this!! Thank God it’s better late than never❤️

  • @rolarola5470
    @rolarola5470 Před rokem +19

    Im a muslim. But i just love all your podcasts. Amazing what you are telling woman and i love to hear all the advice!!!

    • @larabraver
      @larabraver Před rokem

      Me too! I’ve taken copious notes from several of his videos.

  • @zondrawright7860
    @zondrawright7860 Před 2 lety +71

    Bishop, I have been listening to you for about 2 weeks & I'm Loving it !! much Blessing to you & your Wife 💖 Keep on Teaching to God's children 🙏

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 2 lety +11

      Thank you Zondra 😊🙏🏽

    • @annettecabezas6697
      @annettecabezas6697 Před 2 lety +9

      I have been listening for about 2 years and he saved my life.

    • @THE-tc1cy
      @THE-tc1cy Před rokem +3

      I also just started (HEARING )Bishop about 2 weeks ago and I can't stop !!!!!! .Nothing is by chance and I Thank you Lord for this message at this time in my life .(IT'SNEVER2LATE2GETIT)

  • @Stormyweather551
    @Stormyweather551 Před 2 lety +4

    Wherever there is Pressure!! Its a lie..somewhere!! Preach Pastor!!

  • @t7cooley420
    @t7cooley420 Před 2 lety +17

    “Wise as a serpent, harmless as a dove”. I am going to have to hear this again. Thank you to you and your wife. Blessings ✨

  • @virtuous_committed
    @virtuous_committed Před 2 lety +19

    Bishop, thank you for your wisdom and for being obedient for it has healed my brokenness into a virtuous woman. You have helped me to see my value and recognize the games that men play. I have learned to slow down and LISTEN to what men are really saying. Men will tell you everything you need to know if women would shut up and simply listen.

  • @trulycay5714
    @trulycay5714 Před 2 lety +14

    that part why do people lie for no reason.. I'm trying to teach my teenager this I believe it's out of fear but anyway I've been telling him it's important to tell the truth ..

  • @gingeroo5765
    @gingeroo5765 Před 2 lety +53

    I appreciate YOU and your advice, pastor Blakes. You are like a father figure to me - (I lost my dad when I was 12). I thank God too, for watching out and over me.

    • @nathaliejimenez110
      @nathaliejimenez110 Před 2 lety

      I relate to you in the sense that pastor Blake’s is like a father figure to you. So grateful for his messages and allowing God to use him.

  • @Kii.Luxury
    @Kii.Luxury Před 2 lety +14

    Thank you R.C, you are a father, a friend, counselor to many of us. ❤️ it was the “pressure for me” slowly but surely I’m stepping back into my queen consciousness and red flags are easy to detect.

  • @HisaLight2mypath
    @HisaLight2mypath Před 2 lety +7

    I met this horrible man a few months ago and it turned out he was new in the country.
    He was trying to use me for my money and the place to live.
    all of a sudden he stage a crisis and begun pressuring me about all these problems telling me he's been kicked out .the messages was like spamming coming over and over again it was so scary one message after the other over and over. It was so horrible.. a few weeks later he message me again and I told him that I know what he's up to and that's when I saw his true colours. He became very angry. Denying everything.That's what happens when you confront a scammer. they switch. That's when u will be seeing as who they really are.

  • @terrymoore5000
    @terrymoore5000 Před rokem +6

    Everything you talked about I felt in my spirit is all the honest truth. I will never let no one come into my life ever again and disrupt my peace or slick talk me ever again after Jesus has fixed my broken pieces back together again. Amen🙏😊💕

  • @tarao4382
    @tarao4382 Před 2 lety +11

    I'm back listening again, 2nd time. I must make sure I don't miss the messages. 💎 💎 💎

  • @sosababy916
    @sosababy916 Před 2 lety +13

    You always hit the nail on the head. yesterday, I literally just cut a Male friend off for all of this same reason. I just grew very disgusted with this individual. I swear If I could show you the text message you'd be amazed - this video is no coincidence and absolutely confirmation. I thank you for your content. Especially the female masculinity. I thought no one understood this energy, until I stumbled upon your channel. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! 🗣WE NEED "QUEEN CONCIOUS" TEES 💅🤭😀

  • @TT-ht5lu
    @TT-ht5lu Před rokem +3

    I thank you ..I was recently a victim of lies ..I’m crying listening to this ..All of this is true ..When I started talking about commitment it was over as if it never occurred 😢

  • @helenaheino2334
    @helenaheino2334 Před 2 lety +6

    I have become a big fan of Rc Blakes. You are so amazing! Greetings from Finland.

  • @RichGirl903
    @RichGirl903 Před 2 lety +38

    Hey Bishop. Thank you so much for everything. You are the father I never had in my life. You teach me so much. I am smarter and more equipped for life..

    • @lashawnshipp8271
      @lashawnshipp8271 Před 2 lety +4

      I agree with everything in your comment. I can definitely relate to you. Bishop messages are awesome. I listened to almost all of his videos. I've learned so much from him. Now these simps and pimps don't know what to say or do when I use Bishop knowledge on these clowns. They run the other way. 🤣🤣

  • @anncharles210
    @anncharles210 Před 2 lety +4

    Like my Lil sister always says, common sense isn't common to everyone. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and what All these things will be added unto you.

  • @diviniaellis7268
    @diviniaellis7268 Před 2 lety +17

    This was right on time for me I have been dealing with liars and deception. I thank God for the message. Blessings to you and your family! 🙏🏽🥰

  • @pdtsadyeeri7794
    @pdtsadyeeri7794 Před 2 lety +5

    Hello Pastor RC Blakes. Thanks sooo much for this message. I've just broken my soul tie today and blocked 🚫 and deleted his numbers. He Lied all sorts of lies and manipulated me for years only to find out that he has a string of girls. After I listened to your msg on how to break a soul tie(JUST WALK), I has the courage to do what the prodigal son did. Just walk 🚶‍♂️ and never look behind. Now listening to this msg, all the lies he's ever told me, u just repeated pastor. Its better late than never and I am a child of the most high. Only goodness will come to me from now onwards. God bless you and your family pastor Blakes

    • @karengeorge4934
      @karengeorge4934 Před rokem +1

      Thanks alot Pastor Blake. They lie so much that they believe their own lies.😂

  • @wandawwmedina2012
    @wandawwmedina2012 Před 2 lety +6

    I’m going to listen to this until I heal . Thank you 🙏

  • @yenismercedes6606
    @yenismercedes6606 Před 2 lety +25

    Hello Pastor, I just want to thank you for your words of wisdom.Your truly God sent. 🙏 I have been following your ministry for 4yrs now. I am now baptized. You have changed me for the better. You are my Spiritual father. God bless you always. 🙏

  • @empresserica
    @empresserica Před 2 lety +38

    Your videos and your books have upgraded my life! This message was so so powerful for me! Thank you Pastor R. C. Blakes Jr !🙏🏾👋🏽🙌🏾💃🏽🔥

  • @Lovelylis900
    @Lovelylis900 Před 2 lety +11

    I need to hear this tonight Mr. Blakes!!! I think you should start counseling MEN!

  • @joanstevens5647
    @joanstevens5647 Před 2 lety +8

    Flattery is the biggest form of deception on earth 🌍. Thank you 🙏 rc Blake’s for your wonderful queen 👑 conscience series that helps me examine myself . Peace and love ❤️ to you and lisa

  • @andreaswanson1596
    @andreaswanson1596 Před 2 lety +11

    Such a Beautiful and Encouraging Song in the beginning about being a Queen!

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 Před rokem +1

    Wherever there is pressure, God is not in it! That part! It spoke volumes! Every single woman needs to hear this man because he is speaking God's truth because God's word is not a lie. Trust me. Been there done that! Never again.

  • @Cellia836
    @Cellia836 Před rokem +2

    I love your videos Pastor Blakes. Thank you so much. I am healing from a very toxic relationship. I defeated an evil man and called him out on his lies and told the truth about who he is. He dumped me for the woman who he cheated on me with. Lairs really hate the truth and being called out on their crap. They hate when you turn those tables back on them.

  • @yaya6053
    @yaya6053 Před 2 lety +12

    Wait one minute, he said,
    “I love your blood type”! 😂

  • @faithlives5643
    @faithlives5643 Před 2 lety +7

    Bishop, you never fail to bring the naked facts for women to discern a fraudulent future faker, manipulator, and user.

  • @EmmaG-vd6qw
    @EmmaG-vd6qw Před rokem +2

    Pastor Blakes, I've been listening to you from the UK for the past two years, you have given me advise that my birth father never gave me, now I'm a 60 year old single woman with a lot of regret behind me, I wish that I had known you and the powerful words in the bible when I was younger. God bless you and Lisa and thanks for everything 🙏

    • @andreal.1666
      @andreal.1666 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I‘m a 61 year old Single Woman
      (one year married; one child; divorced since 2001 from a man with „Peter Pan Syndrom“; was my decision!)
      from Germany!
      I feel like you! 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @sunshine9717
    @sunshine9717 Před 2 lety +2

    Yes, Pastor you are speaking truth. Helping Women to mentally grow and learn their self worth. It takes time ladies.
    But remember, it's better to be in your own space. Than to share a space with a user and abuser. It's okay to enjoy your life, until the right person comes into your life.
    Flattery is good in the moment. But pay attention, usually the person speaking those words. Is a wolf in sheep's clothing. They mean you no good. 😈
    Bypass the compliments and listen to his words. Run if need be and don't look back! 💯

  • @sharhughes1086
    @sharhughes1086 Před 2 lety +48

    I Love Your teachings Pastor Blake's! It gives me hope and faith everyday because God is we me 24/7 🥰

  • @designerme777
    @designerme777 Před 2 lety +10

    Bishop, You are ONE of a kind Sir! Thank you!!! God Bless you and Mrs. Lisa ❤️

  • @deloreshall9837
    @deloreshall9837 Před rokem +1

    My mom used to say that when people try to pressure you, it's probably going to benefit them instead of you!

  • @janetfoote4769
    @janetfoote4769 Před 2 lety +6

    WOW! A Masterpiece sermon explaining Liars! Bible calling satan the father of lies. The devil does Drive, Push, Shove. God only rushes us in an E.R. situation, but usually gives us time to Wait upon the Lord's perfect, timing and His perfect Will and to pray for clarity, for our protection! Thank you Jesus and Pastor Blakes for loving us with TRUTH that sets us Free and keeps us Free! ❤🙌🕊🦅🙏😇 Beautiful love story of what God blended & created with you and Lady Lisa to be able to teach each other about God's HEART and to teach, help heal others❣ God's Masterpiece turning the thorns, the rose bud blooming you both in to Be-u-tiful full bloomed ROSES! 🥀🌹🌹 YES! The LOVE flower! GLORYyyyyy! 👑 🙌

  • @rositayoung2725
    @rositayoung2725 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you again Pastor. Haven't made a comment in a little while but looking for inspiration and there you were. With God given wisdom. Now here is what happened to me. When I use to go to church I would always end up having a good conversation with a young lady I watch grow up. I noticed how after some time pasted. She would avoid me. Now thus young lady is also related to my so called best friend at the time. And also knew one of my nieces. Who also attend the same church. Holy Spirit revealed to me that this young lady no longer wanted to be friends with me,but I couldn't understand why. It hurt when she would avoid me. So I kept telling my best fr and my niece how this lady treated me. One day my niece screamed at me and said, Your best friend told this lady, some hurting things you said about her! She told me at church one Sunday.This lady meant the world to me. I don't even know any bad things to say about her. Holy Spirit revealed. God told you a long time ago to leave all 3 of these people along. They are not your friend. No more need to be said. Thank you and Lisa. I have learned so much. God is good!

  • @ckl5801
    @ckl5801 Před 2 lety +51

    Unbelievable that a “family friend” would proposition me by suggesting we drive out the desert and have sex in his 4Runner! It breaks my heart that a father of 3 girls would speak to me in such a way when I’ve done nothing but pour the love of the Lord out on his family as my heart was moved with compassion for his situation as a single dad of 3. Of course he said it was a joke…who jokes around like that…not funny! Now I know just another clown with a 👑

    • @tajthegreatone9326
      @tajthegreatone9326 Před 2 lety +19

      Girl you must remember they're still males and ALOT put their lust first. They will try you hunny.

    • @aceazar2806
      @aceazar2806 Před 2 lety +5

      @@tajthegreatone9326 Mmmm! That’s a whole statement! “A lot put their lust first.”

    • @jeanetteswain1760
      @jeanetteswain1760 Před 2 lety +6

      Resist the Devil and he will flee! Stay strong my sister.

    • @lovesocialmedia3198
      @lovesocialmedia3198 Před 2 lety +15

      Men don't ever be friends with a woman unless they want to sleep with them. You were just naive. If I were you I would remove that friend from the family.

    • @ckl5801
      @ckl5801 Před 2 lety +8

      Thank you all for your kind and wise responses. I appreciate this community that RC Blake’s has brought together. I am naive and need to smarten up. I will keep watching and learning!

  • @patriciacanady4648
    @patriciacanady4648 Před rokem +3

    Thanks doctor Blake I really needed this message. I am 75 yrs young and still needed to here this message. Most of the time young ministers like yourself might feel that we people at this age have dotted every I and crossed every T (wrong wrong wrong) we go thru problems with people husbands and lovers the same as young people. I thank god for you and mrs bishop Blake. You are truly a god sent. May god continue to bless you and your family and everything you touch🙏❤

  • @hadeelmuhammad2468
    @hadeelmuhammad2468 Před rokem +1

    I'm a Muslim woman I do like your videos much of knowledge 🙏 god bless you

  • @queenjdior3854
    @queenjdior3854 Před 2 lety +5

    LOVED THIS!! I feel you @MistyMidnight. I've had men say "You don't like compliments, do you?" Compliments I'll take but the stuff you can shovel...no thanks! 😏

  • @toolboxevolution7456
    @toolboxevolution7456 Před 2 lety +13

    One of his top 10 of all time. 🏆 Do yourself and people you care about by watching and sharing this video.

    • @kita-1116
      @kita-1116 Před 2 lety

      Exactly. This information needs to be applied and shared. Too often, people just watch for entertainment purposes and end up hurt when they didn’t heed the lesson.

  • @theresagoodwin5933
    @theresagoodwin5933 Před rokem +1

    Absolutely true wisdom!! My X pressured me to marry, he said my family didn't love me, they were jealous, that my spiritual friends and elders were not important, not to listen...
    He cheated on me in 3 months after we were married, I never got straight answers from him, he was a complete mystery and liar.

  • @atboptimistic-6853
    @atboptimistic-6853 Před 2 lety +9

    Listen with your intelligence, not your emotions! Yes, yes, yes! That's why some men say after talking with me, that I'm a hard woman ...because they see they can't BS me.

  • @adlysahollis5447
    @adlysahollis5447 Před 2 lety +3

    Pastor Blake’s, omg , this is a full 4 -course meal full of wisdom right here!! Thank you sir!! God forever bless you and Lady Lisa.

  • @nadianazir11
    @nadianazir11 Před 2 lety +1

    So on point! Narcissistic, puppet masters, they never let u talk.
    I m so grateful to you, you r doing a great service to the society.
    May God bless u❤️

  • @alinabuzulanofficial2915

    My goodness this video literally saved my life. I looked back at a certain situation I was deceived in and oh man he was a flatterer and fast talker. Would even have the nerve to tell me not to interrupt cuz he’s not done talking when I stepped in. I saw the darkness In his eyes and God’s Spirit showed me but ignored it and I almost lost my soul to this man. Thank you Pastor Blake’s, I am a much stronger and more intelligent woman because of your lessons. I have grown and matured and gained wisdom that protects me!

  • @clarisgregory6929
    @clarisgregory6929 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you for your wisdom and teaching! I wish I knew these truths back in my 20’s. Never too late now in my 50’s.

  • @twinkle8217
    @twinkle8217 Před 2 lety +11

    I like when you said to let them know that you feel pressured.. I will have my children hear this to prepare them for people such as these because I have run across them far too often. I just wished I knew how to respond but I do now and they will too!!

  • @gwenbradford6134
    @gwenbradford6134 Před rokem +1

    I have NEVER heard ANY man admit that woman who are not easily persuaded are not as pursued that much. Thank you Dr. BLAKE❤

  • @diannahminefee8535
    @diannahminefee8535 Před 2 lety +4

    1John 1-5 Says to try the spirit by the spirit! When people talk listen very carefully!!!! Because it reveals who they really are! RC Blake's ( I call him Dad), ALWAYS says, when you're dating you should be gathering data! Once you realize that a person is deceitful, move on immediately!!!! Thank you for this message!!!! I shared it on my Facebook page 🙏❤️❤️❤️!!!!!

  • @latoybraxton949
    @latoybraxton949 Před 2 lety +7

    Shalom Bishop Blake's & Sister Lisa 🌺 Hello to all the sisters in the chat tonight 🌹