SEVEN SIGNS A MAN IS AVOIDING GETTING ATTACHED by RC BLAKES

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
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Komentáře • 307

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Před 8 měsíci +66

    *The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.*

  • @cjtaylor2394
    @cjtaylor2394 Před 8 měsíci +41

    This is how a woman can CONDITION a man to fall in line with her standards. Don't allow him to be in the position to determine your happiness timeline when a man is avoiding attachment, detach yourself from him.

  • @scarylouish
    @scarylouish Před 8 měsíci +253

    1) Mixed Signals
    2) Independence over Interdependence
    3) No planning for future
    4) Hyper focus on your flaws
    5) Doesn't prioritize you
    6) Withdrawls when emotions intensify
    7) ?
    * Stop moving ahead of a man's pace*
    Thank you for your kind wisdom and your gentle strength!

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Thanks!😊

    • @rubyanncaseres5350
      @rubyanncaseres5350 Před 8 měsíci +4

      So in sync! Just came upon this and read that last line while Bishop RC Blakes was saying it also.
      “Stop moving ahead of a man’s pace.” Ooh! Thanks, Daddy Bishop!

    • @sharinaross1865
      @sharinaross1865 Před 7 měsíci

      Thank you.

    • @TheOlgatkachenko
      @TheOlgatkachenko Před 6 měsíci +1

      The 7th sign ( he mentioned it first) is He keeps things casual

  • @6334-t9e
    @6334-t9e Před 8 měsíci +124

    Can relate to this so much. Just blocked a man i love deeply but had to love myself more.
    Going into 2024 with a new mindset, boundaries, and not allowing any of these behaviors into my life.

  • @NQueendom
    @NQueendom Před 8 měsíci +277

    Thank you I hope one day you do a video about how to spot the difference between a man who comes back truly remorseful vs a man that comes back because he misses you and realizes what he lost but hasn’t really done the work on his self and he repeats the same toxic behaviour. Hope that makes sense

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 Před 8 měsíci +20

      Yes Bishop Blakes please do a teaching on this

    • @misspmo
      @misspmo Před 8 měsíci +19

      He's done this already

    • @Nangondo
      @Nangondo Před 8 měsíci

      How about the fact that he is still a tool. Sounds like one, communicates like one, behaves like one. I had to cuss one away two weeks ago, had the nerve to send me DMs between him n his baby mamma... Whom I left coz he made her pregnant while with me. Sent me their breakup foolishness apparently to prove to me that he regrets what he did and is done with her.... Ooooh he got the wrath of man from me! I was like in what universe did you ever think I would fall for this foolishness, you disrespecting your baby momma like that. Go do that with some cheap hussy .... Boy how was ever even with you in the first place????
      There you go!
      You need to have your values correct to spot foolishness. Men are not ping-pongs to be passed around

    • @user-hv1ki4om1u
      @user-hv1ki4om1u Před 8 měsíci +5

      Can you post link?​@misspmo

    • @miraclexoxo4774
      @miraclexoxo4774 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Yes

  • @jan854
    @jan854 Před 8 měsíci +93

    As a women I have this attachment style. My Ex kept saying he wanted intimacy but never made me feel safe, cherished or loved and this made it harder for me to open up. He would complain that I didn't want to communicate with him but he would talk about a whole lot of NOTHING. No conversations about our future, any goals, or doing life together but he sure wanted to have a lot of sex.

    • @ButterCookie1984
      @ButterCookie1984 Před 8 měsíci +16

      Same here. His idea of intimacy was sex.

    • @margaretseiveright4995
      @margaretseiveright4995 Před 8 měsíci +9

      Get rid of him my sister ! Please 🙏🏽 sooner the better. Move …. On !

    • @luladavidson3361
      @luladavidson3361 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Narc

    • @jen-ov2bi
      @jen-ov2bi Před 8 měsíci +11

      I don’t think you have this attachment style. Everything you listed sounds like an appropriate response for your situation. Sounds like you might have been ignoring your intuition/discernment.

    • @adelante3938
      @adelante3938 Před 8 měsíci

      mine flat out says, i refuse to talk about the future, no plans, no projects.. and when i insist, hes out the door before i can blink. been almost 2 years

  • @ladyd7412
    @ladyd7412 Před 8 měsíci +19

    Mixed signals = an emotional rollercoaster ride that can lead to physical illness. Loved, "No plans, No future"!

  • @purplelotusflower888
    @purplelotusflower888 Před 8 měsíci +164

    This was definitely enlightening!!! I just dealt with a guy with all 7 signs. I finally walked away after 10 months of that mess. I’m glad it was only 10 months vs 10 yrs .. as women we can’t play the victim, we must take self accountability for us accepting bread crumbs. Ladies go love yourselves and heal so when you date, you won’t ignore your intuition. Solitude taught me so much about myself, I found god and myself during isolation. I healed my abandonment, insecurities and low self esteem issues and begin to love me more. If it don’t feel like the love I have for myself and god’s love I don’t want it period. Please ladies listen to Paster Blake’s he’s speaking facts, and one more thing “ KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED PLEASE 🙏🏾 “ much love & gratitude

    • @6334-t9e
      @6334-t9e Před 8 měsíci +10

      Did the EXACT SAME THING...going into this new year having let go of this man I love with all my heart. Chose to love myself more.
      Wish you God's best and blessed New Year❤

    • @purplelotusflower888
      @purplelotusflower888 Před 8 měsíci

      @@6334-t9e good for you beautiful!!! Enjoy your new blessings!!!

    • @cassandraspikes718
      @cassandraspikes718 Před 8 měsíci +2

      He hit all 7, I hit that no connect bottom.

    • @purplelotusflower888
      @purplelotusflower888 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@cassandraspikes718 as you should have babe!!! Congrats and many blessings to you

    • @sharonrichardson9123
      @sharonrichardson9123 Před 8 měsíci +7

      That's where women mess up as they're healing wanting to open there legs n that's when EVERYTHING go to the left🙏🏿🙏🏿🥰

  • @bDISCERNING
    @bDISCERNING Před 8 měsíci +13

    Avoidant attachment: Avoidant attachment develops when an infant or young child has a parent or caregiver who is consistently emotionally unavailable or unresponsive to their needs. Infants with an avoidant attachment style may also have faced repeated discouragement from crying or expressing outward emotion.

  • @rachelphillips5576
    @rachelphillips5576 Před 8 měsíci +33

    I dated a guy for 5 years and he lived at home with his parents at 40+!. I wasted years with him. Never again. Now I'm happy and married to a man that proposed to me within a 6 months of dating. This is a very informative podcast that every man or woman needs to know when dating, dating, dating etc. thank you Bishop R.C. Blake's

    • @sonya7380
      @sonya7380 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Thanks for your story. Similar to mines but I'm not married but have moved on.

    • @rachelphillips5576
      @rachelphillips5576 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@sonya7380 God bless you sis.

  • @flourish5blessing424
    @flourish5blessing424 Před 8 měsíci +14

    If he pulls back, just forget him & move on. It’s over!

  • @sunshinekitty3618
    @sunshinekitty3618 Před 8 měsíci +31

    He's already said he's not interested, so I'm gonna leave him in 2023. 1yr is too much! this was no mistake. I came across this! happy new year to you and the family!

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie Před 8 měsíci +1

      Good luck sis! Happy 2024 🥳❤️✨

  • @darlenepatton2072
    @darlenepatton2072 Před 8 měsíci +20

    Thank you for this post. I'm not interested in being in a transactional relationship with any man. I'd rather be by myself than to settle for that.

  • @everett552
    @everett552 Před 8 měsíci +17

    This message here is why i stopped engaging in it without a solid commitment. Casual relations are empty and not at all fulfilling. One or the other person is always going to desire more than whats offered and will eventually walk away. I walked nearly 5 yrs ago and i'm so grateful to God for it.

  • @lisar1096
    @lisar1096 Před 8 měsíci +26

    This is so true!! I spent 14 years this way and finally ended it. It does hurt but when I see how long I stayed and wasted....terrible.

    • @tamiajackson
      @tamiajackson Před 8 měsíci +1

      😢 14 years is a long time to spend with a man like that.. But so is any amount of time especially if you have no family or friends to help you

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Před 8 měsíci +13

    Bishop Blakes has my highest respect calling him a simp those dudes are immature and childish mad cause he is dropping truth about how these other mens behavior towards us women I am grateful to God I found his channel years ago I have learned so much and continue to learn 😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.

  • @InhaleVExhale
    @InhaleVExhale Před 8 měsíci +34

    ❤ I want to thank you so much for everything you do and what you teach.
    My dad passed away at the beginning of the month - unexpectedly, and your videos are what keep me from crying myself to sleep all night, i listen to them while I try to sleep. Our world has been flipped upside down and nothing feels right anymore.
    I have been listening to you for a few months, usually around bedtime too but it hits so much differently now.
    My father was a great man. He was very intelligent, kind, funny, loved god, loved nature, helpful, faithful to my mom, and just an all around wonderful person. He taught me so many useful lessons and was always present but didn't really get into how men can actually be, or things to look out for. I turned 30 this year and am now living on my own, things are very different when you leave home for good. I started to watch your channel when I was seeing an avoidant man (now i see what was going on) and I have kept listening to you messages since.
    This past month has been to hard for me and your videos being me peace. For me, it doesn't even matter what your content is... I just enjoy listening to you speak and some of the things you say remind me of my father. I just want to thank you for that. ❤

  • @Mel4everable
    @Mel4everable Před 8 měsíci +10

    Thank you Pastor Blakes. I don’t have time for inconsistency, unclear energy or unreciprocated efforts. I am worthy of commitment and clarity. If that’s not being offered 👋🏾.

  • @roxannelittle2505
    @roxannelittle2505 Před 8 měsíci +15

    Sharing this with as many women as possible. It’s necessary to align ourselves with these teachings. We will grow tremendously.

  • @a.g.8357
    @a.g.8357 Před 8 měsíci +21

    I needed to hear this. Blindsided after being with a man for 3 years. Many of these points are spot on ! I’m praying for my healing. No mistake. That I came across this video.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 8 měsíci +1

      3 years is too long. Yes, a man may be avoidant & broken but a woman shouldn't hang on for years & think sex will change him. You have to leave. Don't enable the bad behavior and I know abstinence is hard, nevertheless obey the word. It's the only way.

    • @AB-en8rf
      @AB-en8rf Před 8 měsíci +2

      I am with you on this. My ex and I were going on 4 years. He broke up with me over an argument on a work trip and I packed my bags and moved out. RC Blakes set my soul free. Playing wifey with no commitment will never be me again. Heart break is tough and can often feel lonely. May God heal you on this journey!

  • @tonifool7423
    @tonifool7423 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Hook up culture is RIDICULOUS...respect your self❤❤❤

  • @a.g.8357
    @a.g.8357 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Spot on after 3 years he started to say we were not compatible, we don’t eat the same foods ect…. After 3 years excuses….

    • @dw9054
      @dw9054 Před 8 měsíci +4

      I’ve learned as soon as the excuses start, I step no need to drag it out. I will not wait for him to do a thing. I Don’t allow anyone to waste my time.

  • @zachorasmith
    @zachorasmith Před 8 měsíci +6

    RC BLAKES KNOW WHAT HES TALKING ABOOOUT!!! Amen for the man 🙌🏾

  • @alexissmith4339
    @alexissmith4339 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I pray in 2024 I don’t be attached to anyone who really want to be attached to me‼️

  • @shannonbachelder44
    @shannonbachelder44 Před 8 měsíci +9

    I really wish I had seen your video a year ago. I was in a 6 month relationship with an avoidant attached man (unbeknownst to me). It ended in heartbreak, but I’m thankful now I have this knowledge and can be more cautious going forward. Thank you for sharing this message ❤

  • @XOMalia-d3j
    @XOMalia-d3j Před 8 měsíci +6

    So much truth from RC Blakes, ladies we must listen !

  • @Chantusyluvmuzik
    @Chantusyluvmuzik Před 8 měsíci +6

    Definitely a topic that was needed .. dimissive avoidant men …. They yearn for love but yet are afraid of the deep commitment that comes with it … yes very seesaw relationship… currently in one .. definitely at the crossroads with my 3 yr relationship… like pastor said u have those great moments and out of no where stuff just goes bad because they cause the drama… but then say they don’t like drama .. love is patient love is kind .. how can u remain patient with this person who clearly needs healing … guess u not the one who have the antidote to help assist this man with the fear of love … Guess I did not come from this man rib to deal with his specific trauma .. I wasn’t tailor made to deal with his trauma “the fear of love “… commitment…if I was …this wouldn’t be happening … should I or would you deal
    With it ? i definitely been in prayer since day one and no answer but again God does not answer on MY timing … it is on his timing … what do u do? Pastor RC BLakes what do I do ? Thank u been subscriber for years and u definitely always speak the wisdom i need

  • @marilynnorth4281
    @marilynnorth4281 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Everything and i mean EVERYTHING that comes out of this man's mouth is pure golden Wisdom. Please listen, ladies.

  • @mercadomonica1
    @mercadomonica1 Před 8 měsíci +8

    When emotions are high, intelligence is low.

  • @BelleMaria267
    @BelleMaria267 Před 8 měsíci +36

    Pastor Blakes, your teachings have been a blessing to me and I’m thankful for you for sharing your knowledge, wisdom and guidance. You’re like the father I never had, but wished I did. You have helped me understand so much about myself and relationships and I look forward to your continued teachings. I’ve never had anyone explain things so clear, concise and to the point, to where it was easy to understand and gave me the strength, courage and confidence to move forward. God bless you and Lisa and prayers for a Happy New Year filled with love, peace and happiness. ❤❤❤

  • @blackbonny77
    @blackbonny77 Před 8 měsíci +20

    Thank you for 22:55… I was in a dark place for 2 years after my son’s father left. I blamed myself but now I understand. ❤

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 8 měsíci

      I feel your pain but why did you have sex...have a child if you weren't married? You must take accountability for that.

    • @aishawf
      @aishawf Před 8 měsíci +5

      No more blaming yourself. Learn the lesson and allow yourself to move on ❤

    • @aishawf
      @aishawf Před 8 měsíci +4

      ​@@danilaroche1156 Unfortunately we're not all perfect like you.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 8 měsíci +3

      I'm far from perfect. I have had numerous toxic relationships. More than I can count. I'm certain you've seen RC's videos on soul ties. That's what got me in hot water. Banging these guys knowing little about their intentions or character. God told me I had to take accountability and heal. Jesus healed me. Thanks for replying. Much ❤ love.

    • @TT-nu4qk
      @TT-nu4qk Před 8 měsíci

      sit with that pain and then look at the blessings that came from that man what did you learn about yourself that will help you in the future. Men are our teachers not matter how deep the mud is dig deep and figure out what you needed from it.
      Every man come in your life to help you see where you need to grow. we hurt ourselves by holding on to hope and the pain of it. allow that pain to be a catalyst to grow.
      If you wanna be married don't sleep with any man until he give you his name.

  • @andreawinton6797
    @andreawinton6797 Před 8 měsíci +6

    PASTOR SAID FLIP FLOPS AND JEANS 😂😂😂WOW YOUR SO ON POINT WITH THIS I NEEDED THIS 10 YEARS AGO BUT IM HERE NOW LEARNING AND GROWING AND SHUTTING THESE 🤡 TO THE GROUND THANK YOU PASTOR BLAKES AND HOPE YOUR 2024 IS 💣 😊😊

  • @andreajorden1706
    @andreajorden1706 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Facts you provided, very much appreciated since I was not aware of the term. I was dealing briefly with a man that was always busy with his job. I wasn't sure if he kept busy to take his mind off of being a widower? This gentleman pursued me first, but after 2-3 weeks of building chemistry, communicating & connecting with daily q&a, inspirational messages & shared pictures he went MIA after I suggested moving convo via phone or video. I didn't want to be a lady talking to a man for months via text. It's very hard to give this professed man of faith some grace when the world suggests he's ghosting, breadcrumbing and/or benching. Thank you Pastor for encouragement & empowering guidance to match his communication efforts or fall back even further.

  • @sonya7380
    @sonya7380 Před 8 měsíci +6

    I needed to hear this. Replaying

  • @JudyF261
    @JudyF261 Před 8 měsíci +5

    I have gotten more than enough. You are my mentor, Pastor R.C Blake's thanks ever so much.

  • @deborahlewis930
    @deborahlewis930 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Bishop, I praise God for you and Lady Lisa.

  • @stylephyles8932
    @stylephyles8932 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Thank you RC Blakes - Awesome message! I've said this many times - The same red flags I see in the very beginning are the same red flags I see in the end. This just means that we have to pay attention and heed the signs which will save us a lot of heartache in allowing our time to be wasted on the wrong people. Seeing much more clearly now and thanks again.

  • @Blessed75463
    @Blessed75463 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Awesome teaching!! I have experienced this kind of broken man!! Thank you

  • @Timmery1
    @Timmery1 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Thank you so much RC Blakes. This freed me today and I bless God that the Holy Spirit led you to teach this message to your Kingdom daughters.

  • @user-dr6nn4ct9g
    @user-dr6nn4ct9g Před 8 měsíci +4

    This is great advice for many women because men are finding it hard to commit everything is a game, but ladies learn to respect your self and love your self that’s one of the greatest advice that was given by my mother have a blessed day,thanks for sharing this information with me Bishop RC Blake’s and his special Queen Mrs Lisa Blake’s.

  • @user-en1dr6pu3j
    @user-en1dr6pu3j Před 8 měsíci +5

    PASTOR BLAKES,YOU ARE SOMETHING ELSE YOU AND YOUR WIFE YOUR SOMETHING AUTHENTIC COUPLES I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU AND WATCHING HOW YOU STAND ON YOUR VULUNERABILITY AS A HUSBAND ,MAN,HUMANBEING FOR YOUR WIFE AND I LOVE IT! YOUR STRENGHTH IS IN YOUR LOVE OF GOD AND LOVE FOR YOUR WIFE AND FAMILY IF ONLY THESE MEN CÒUĹD PUT ASIDE THERE EGO AND FOLLOW A LEADER LIKE YOU AND GET WITH THE PROGRAM AND ALLOW GOD TO BE GOD AND SHINE THE TRUTH OF THE LIGHT ,TRUTH OF THE LOVE GOD INTENDED WITHIN THEM AND ONLY THEN THEY WILL GROW SPIRITUAL GROWTH

  • @Nurse._.drea28
    @Nurse._.drea28 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love this. Mr. Blakes came prepared with references. He isn’t just talking.

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 Před 8 měsíci +4

    This is such an important message. Speak on, RC! I remember years ago upon split with mey ex that he told me, "Don't take it personal." I was so confused by that reply, but now you helped me to finally understand where he was coming from.

  • @neshayrobinson
    @neshayrobinson Před 8 měsíci +5

    he is really speaking like my father was supposed to. thank you for the gems! it is so enlightening. I mean, I'm 2 kids late on applying this advice but maybe in the future when they're grown i can try my luck with intimate relationships again.

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 Před 8 měsíci

      I'm a little confused as to why you have to wait until your children are grown⁉️

  • @dianasmith-lf9cq
    @dianasmith-lf9cq Před 7 měsíci +2

    Bless you and your family Pastor RC Blakes. Thank the lord for your ministry😍😇.

  • @KoreaMojo
    @KoreaMojo Před 8 měsíci +9

    Narcissistic ones will give you the title, they will move you in, they will ask you deep probing questions and be vulnerable. Even at times saying sorry unlike some say, they do and can. But most the foundations will be missing if you pay attention or unless you don't like emotional closeness either, you'll feel it. He moved her in but flew to my house to see me and the year before flew out to his ex before and come to find out during me. She also overlapped. He always said the woman had to have a "what are we?" Moment. He likes to control and gain access to others but he uses his vulnerability strategically. A lot initially and dribs and drabs later. The one he moved in he could, according to him shutdown conversation, not go deep, leave all hours without confrontation or question and could do financial things to please. I wouldn't want that but I was hurt he did that on top of cheating. He said, "you would live with roommates when you have a big house by yourself?" I said I would live in a shoe box with you but of course we could help each other. He said "you're too big for my life" and "other women are easier, you're like a complex toy that requires a lot of effort and time, not something I can just carry in my pocket." You figure it out. He couldn't stroke my ego while dogging me out. But I do think he is with who he's suited to.

    • @Lemi33
      @Lemi33 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Been there done that. So sorry ❤️‍🩹

  • @margaretseiveright4995
    @margaretseiveright4995 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Keep speaking sir, you speak pure undiluted truth. I hope ladies are really listening and hearing. Listen ladies, listen !!
    Please 🙏🏽

  • @margaretseiveright4995
    @margaretseiveright4995 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Wish you continued HEALTH, STRENGTH and WISDOM for the NEW YEAR🎉🎆🎊 🎈💯 both you sir and sister Lisa !! Blessings 🙏🏽

  • @AnneMitchell-nx9ir
    @AnneMitchell-nx9ir Před 7 měsíci +2

    Yes Indeed this video change my life❤

  • @lynnesunshine
    @lynnesunshine Před 8 měsíci +3

    Bingo‼️Thank You so much Pastor RC Blakes. I’ve been heartbroken and shattered not knowing how my love could suddenly walk away❗️ I’m still hurting but now I understand what happened. I thought he was my SP ❤️‍🩹😢

  • @idellcampbell5979
    @idellcampbell5979 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wow! This is exactly what I have been dealing with my ex. Thank you so much for this message.

  • @irisgomez1467
    @irisgomez1467 Před 8 měsíci +2

    So right on about being set free about the last couple of failed relationships. They saw the queen and the potential in me , started to fall for it and got scared and ran rather than being willing to do the hard work it would have taken

  • @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024
    @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I REALLY APPRECIATED THIS VIDEO‼️‼️ FIRST ONE OF YOURS I'VE LISTENED TO IN THIS NEW YEAR 2024🎉 YOU HAVE EXPLAINED IT ALL, THANK YOU BISHOP BLAKE'S JR. 😊❤ FROM NORFOLK,VA

  • @tessajones1693
    @tessajones1693 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this very empowering. This help me realize the Lord has been with me every step of the way. 😊

  • @Rachel_K
    @Rachel_K Před 8 měsíci +10

    This is so true. Before healing, I was a woman who feared commitment and was emotionally available. I use to do all of these things. When men would tell me I was a wife or they wanted a relationship, I would find a way to cut it off.

  • @rosalysmartinez2153
    @rosalysmartinez2153 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Great teaching!💯 overflowing wisdom and revelation👏 🙏

  • @donnautube1
    @donnautube1 Před 8 měsíci +4

    This is the best channel for women! Thanks RC for all you do! ❤

  • @cchappell6091
    @cchappell6091 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I needed to hear this message today as I am dealing with someone who an avoidance style of dating. He recently started acting the way you are describing in the seven signs. This message has brought me so much clarity. Thank you!

  • @Anneline_Mei
    @Anneline_Mei Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much for rc Blake's ministry... this Channel has changed my life. It has redirected my focus and also helped alot with setting boundaries and what I deserve as a woman in a relationship... not only a relationship but also with my family and my finances 😊😊... may you be blessed in the year coming 🙏 ✨️

  • @jeanbutler8508
    @jeanbutler8508 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Bishop Blakes, thank you for all you do to empower women around the globe. I thank God for your Queen, Lisa, and your ministry. As a listener of your teachings, everything you share impacts how I view all my relationships. I learned to let go of relationships that hinder my dreams and goals. I now say no to anything that is draining my soul. My focus is on building a stronger relationship with God and myself. Every opportunity that I get, I focus on God and myself. I released many situations, but God shows me I deserve more.❤ I have listened to your recordings for 3-5 years. The impact on my life is indescribable. I was walking away from anything meant to destroy you. It is truly a God-sent. God has slowly but effectively cleaned the remnants out of my life. I’m no longer an option or a second choice. Because I now know my worth.

  • @andrearamsay1870
    @andrearamsay1870 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Thank you Bishop Blakes This message is very timely on the cusp of a New Year.. l really appreciate this message, it is going to set a whole lot of women free. As we transition into a new year, it's my prayer that the affected individuals mindset will also change and they will stand in agreement against futile situations. God bless you. See you and lady Blakes at the top ❤❤.

  • @Ms.MaryLouise
    @Ms.MaryLouise Před 8 měsíci +4

    Hello Pastor and thank you for this message.💛

  • @tamitatangoto5134
    @tamitatangoto5134 Před 8 měsíci +1

    32minutes in... "Clear consistent communication 🎉
    Keep keep establishing where the line is."

  • @monicasmessages
    @monicasmessages Před 8 měsíci +16

    Pastor,
    Can you please talk about the special considerations of older people? (50 and above)
    There are somewhat different concerns and goals as most older folks are finished with raising children… it’s more about companionship.
    Would love to hear your thoughts, advice, and spiritual guidance.
    Thanks for all you do. Keep up the great work! 💐

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Před 8 měsíci

      And people who have accumulated assets.must protect them.

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f Před 8 měsíci +2

    Wow! You're so on point. I really needed to hear this😢

  • @lensim9100
    @lensim9100 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Happy NewYear. Pastor and Mrs Blakes. North philly in the house. 🎉

  • @nancyamaral5620
    @nancyamaral5620 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I am over 70 years old and always use my feminine when I need my luggage to be put in the overhead bin in the airplane. This younger generation of woman doesn’t realize the power that rest in the feminine

  • @Sophia-vx8gj
    @Sophia-vx8gj Před 7 měsíci +1

    I’ve been in a relationship going nowhere for 11 1/2 years (hasn’t cheated) but he’s also not proposing to me, he’s left me in limbo all of this time (we’ve lived together for 9). This has given me enough knowledge for what has been happening, thank you for giving this desperately needed clarity 🙏🏼

  • @willieknows2708
    @willieknows2708 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank You🙏😀🤲🌎 Discussing The Unavoidable Topics

  • @SunshineSpring-ye2wl
    @SunshineSpring-ye2wl Před 8 měsíci +1

    She's empowered and equipped by the word and God's counsel.

  • @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498
    @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank you Bishop for this very insightful and informative message.... Well done❤️

  • @patriciaspeicher6883
    @patriciaspeicher6883 Před 8 měsíci +1

    He has the answers with scripture backing it up.

  • @nkeirukaanyadufu3607
    @nkeirukaanyadufu3607 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thanks for this Sir 🙏
    This is so timely 👍👍🙏🏻

  • @redeemerliveth2589
    @redeemerliveth2589 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Very insightful thank you very much Pastor RC Blakes ,God Bless,Pure Wisdom

  • @anicialugo8997
    @anicialugo8997 Před 8 měsíci

    I truly appreciate 🙏💖 how I have been valuing myself thanks to Lady LISABLAKES and you RCBLAKES Jr.😊

  • @sherrireeves4471
    @sherrireeves4471 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you Bishop Blakes! You never disappoint.

  • @melissamouton5665
    @melissamouton5665 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you....

  • @andreamegec9836
    @andreamegec9836 Před 8 měsíci +2

    after 17years long relationship, didnt go to marriage, I realised that he is fearfull avoidant,, never cherished me enough support me, I always must fight for our comitment , many patience ,but now im really exosted, he doesnt want to work to resolve this, he has traumas childhood, I was always on the third forth place, its sad and not easy but there were also so many nice times and memories, now in celibacy waiting for Lord hand

  • @florencebowden3980
    @florencebowden3980 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yes very argumentative & changeable..

  • @LisaLivingFreeInFlorida
    @LisaLivingFreeInFlorida Před 8 měsíci +1

    You are doing the Lord's work and I thank you! ❤

  • @GODSGIFTS76
    @GODSGIFTS76 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I have been on both sides

  • @kandiehearst9140
    @kandiehearst9140 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you Bishop Blakes, this was very much needed to be heard❤

  • @sylviahaynes7663
    @sylviahaynes7663 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Gm Pastor Blake's I Thank U For That Word It Hope Me

  • @herbiecashmere2939
    @herbiecashmere2939 Před 7 měsíci

    Pastor Blakes thank you 🙏🏼 ❤ I’m new to your channel here and I wanted to say my deepest thank you here. This video resonated with me. I dated someone that hit all the signs and when you described them here it’s given me clarity. I couldn’t identify the cause for nitpicking and blowing out of proportion when I did nothing wrong in the relationship, I kept blaming myself and thought it’s got to do with my faults / flaws when it’s coming from an avoidant person managing their emotions in an unhealthy manner. I loved the point about overly working, to occupy his time in work / hobbies / friends, I didn’t understand it at first but now given the facts it made more sense, when my former prioritizes work / his personal time alone (independence) / time with friends over making quality time with me. This video gave me insight to closure, I thank you again Pastor Blakes.
    Greetings from Sydney, Australia 😊

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Absolutely Correct. Happy Holidays to all.🌲🎉

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 Před 8 měsíci +4

    HAPPY NEW YEAR BISHOP AND LISA BLAKES🎉🎉I WATCHED THE LIVE VIDEO EARLIER!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR TEACHING US QUEENS HOW TO ADJUST OUR CROWNS👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾❤❤!! AND CONTINUING TO SHOW US HOW TO BEHAVE AS GOD'S QUEENS AND DAUGHTERS🦁🐑👑🔥🔥. AGAIN THANKS SO MUCH🙋🏿‍♀️

  • @tinawilson7510
    @tinawilson7510 Před 8 měsíci +3

    THANK YOU, YOUR EDUCATIONAL, POSITIVE VIDEOS HELP ME WITH MY 18 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER . I WANT THE BEST FOR HER AND YOUR VIDEOS HELP MY HUSBAND AND I WITH DISCUSSION AND STRUCTURE TO HELP HER IN THIS WORLD FULL OF 🤡CLOWNS🤣. CLOWNS WITH FAKE CROWNS🤡😂. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL WIFE AND FAMILY. AS YOU SAY, WE WILL SEE YOU AT THE TOP. GOD BLESS.
    👑QUEENOLOGIST APPROVED👑🙌🏾🦋✨🙌🏾👑

  • @Theprincesswinter
    @Theprincesswinter Před 7 měsíci

    I really love your intro song. I listen to your videos for the message of course and for the intro!! As a woman it makes me feel empowered and loved. It’s amazing. ❤

  • @realtalk64
    @realtalk64 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I'm busy taking care of my elderly mom. I have no time to babyfie a grown man. They come around trying to borrow money from you like you're an ATM machine. It's ignorant! They want us to submit to them so that they can control us. No thanks!

  • @spyroluver0951
    @spyroluver0951 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Ladies don't let a man use trauma as an excuse to let things slow down.
    I had a man that i dated for two years that wanted to marry me and talked about how he would propose to me. But! he couldn't plan a future and prepare with me what we would do to get ready for marriage. He could only think in detail about his sister (lived with her in a house they bought together) and what he would do/ planned for her and see her once a week after if we got married. When I would ask us to plan what our future looked like, he would say "i don't know". Even when i followed with specifics such as to show finances and how we could work as a team, he kept pushing the conversation saying "he wasn't ready to discuss" ( a year and a half into the relationship). He said "just focus on yourself for two years and i'll focus on my sister and hope she may be ok". He used trauma as a barrier to not progress forward after 1.5 years of it happening. The trauma was a family member passing away.

  • @jacksoad01
    @jacksoad01 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I am guilty of some of these signs (2,3,4,5)and I am a woman! The only difference is, i make it known from the jump. I never lead anyone on. I guess we can't always point the finger at the men😕

  • @harmonyintime8848
    @harmonyintime8848 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Bishop for that word.

  • @thedollRaQuana
    @thedollRaQuana Před 8 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤So much needed!!

  • @sylviahaynes7663
    @sylviahaynes7663 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I'm From Albany Ga

  • @user-iy9gc4ck9g
    @user-iy9gc4ck9g Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank very helpful topic

  • @andrearowe4815
    @andrearowe4815 Před 7 měsíci

    Stand up fir your boundaries..See what he is thinking about future..

  • @melisamichele7622
    @melisamichele7622 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you Bishop! You always have an on time word for me.

  • @liv2204
    @liv2204 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I love your videos, thank you for your time and effort ❤️

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f Před 8 měsíci +2

    My man kept saying we will get married but you need counseling. I said honey we need counseling. You're already wrong point of finger at me. And he always points the finger at me. I'm always part of the problem

  • @yc5141
    @yc5141 Před 7 měsíci

    You’re the best on the internet pastor! Thank you for the wisdom once again 🤓🤩😄