STOIC TRAITS Masculine Men possess that make women TURNED ON
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My brother Casey you really make me soo much stronger i love you ♥️
Are u selling smth on the webinar? Bcuz the presentation can not be fast forwarded and the first 20 minutes is just filling time by talking
You speak from deep heart
About a real men tools to navigate through life hardship.
Wish I knew this long before ...
Law Of Attraction: "I do not chase. I attract. What belongs to me, will simply find me".
So if i am an african child i can attract water into my Village? Interesting
@@ccraig4399yes work on yourself you can buy water source
@@ccraig4399People make meaningless platitudes for the sake of sounding deep.
@@ccraig4399this is about attracting women simp..
@@ccraig4399😂😂..right on 💪💪
Nailed in 100%
Stay jakd
Be unfazed
Never complain
Own every moment
Never show a woman emotional weakness.
You don't need them yesterday or tomorrow.
If she walks, just laugh, inviter her friend out for a drink
Don't ever offer to take them home.
Say goodnight turn you back, flex ur lats and walk away. Watch what happens.
Smile and have a fantastic day.
With or without them. Always.
Aside from all the info here, what’s most valuable imo to develop this care free attitude is actually recognizing and processing the true hardwired nature of women. Once you realize they’re not designed to love you the way we were raised to believe, it doesn’t make you dislike them, it just makes you less urgent and intrigued by the opposite sex in the ways you were use to
Mental
Mental Stoicism- Never Moved on Center
In control of Mental State
Bad things happen to every body, be in a constant state of strength
Emotional
Nobody can hurt me / Nothing can hurt me
Non Reactive - be a rock
Step in to God Given Masculine calling.
Emotional Resiliency
Social
Do not try to change people
You are what you attract
Cultural Stoicism
Be the observer of the cultural and environment
Never phased - calm no matter environment or who’s around
Never ignore intuition
I remember in another video Casey dissmissed intuition as viable way to make decitions. Just pointing out the contradiction.
NOBODY LIKE THAT exists
nobody
Of all the things you say I can relate most with “never ignore intuition “ . Often time we men ignore our intuition and call or text a girl thinking she might pull away if you do not show interest. The opposite is true - do only when you feel she has put enough on the table. You should conceal your interest level and only reveal one less than her.
"if they do want to commit to her they don't have the frame to maintain chemistry" this is the first time my exact problem has so accurately been put into words.
I can get a lot of initial success but not much longterm for quite a while now, and it's gotta be in that subtle frame, that I shift too much toward clearly wanting her badly instead of staying stoic and letting her enter my frame
Get busier bro! Find your God given calling. That's what I'm looking for, I've had the same problem as you for awhile and I can see that Casey is right about the solution.
We’ve all done it. Naturally as men, we try to fix things. That included any problems in our relationship. It’s best to walk away or we come off as needy. This is a challenge and their female energy can cause you to trip alittle. Woman are just plain hard work and time consuming. Getting into business sounds really good but man… it’s easier said than done. I truck tractor trailer and make decent but it would be nice to step it up abit more
I feel you bro. Once you get comfortable with her it’s easy to let your guard down and get soft you gotta stay strong
@@xNutted it’s because like Dillila did to Samson…. Started teasing his hair and saying sweet “I love yous”… then he let his guard down. Look at the mess it caused to him? Same today with these girls. They want you to lean on them and trust them and when you do… the trap shuts right in your face. They’ll use it on a later day too and call you weak
@@dreambeliever3652 agreed
This content is amazing. Stoicism needs to be taught to men everywhere! 🙌🏾
Not all men because black people will missapropriate it and start saying stoicism was invented by black people in Africa.
We need that Legion Of Men collab! Let's goooooo 🤙🤙
Nahh more like LFA
He reactes to one of Casey's videos I watched about 4 hours ago
Casey, AMS and Legion of Men…Let’s go sir
@@jeremyking5309llĺ
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Conversely, MANY of today's jezebels are repulsed, offended, and cringe at strong, stoic men that they can't finesse. Speaking from personal experience.
True that. The worthless creatures use many tactics to shame strong men if they cant control them in some way. Its all a charade like everything else about them
i dont think they really are deep down. women have a dual mating strategy they want a nice stable guy for long term and they want the bedroom flings for guys who dont want to commit. but even if u are the most "alpha" women can still leave you for a nice guy and vice versa. when a women cant finesse a man and hes not weak for her, she is subconsciously attracted but she cant control that guy for a relationship so she feels powerless, which can make her competition anxiety skyrocket. any relationship you do enter in if you ever do decide to commit, just know that relationship will end one day. just enjoy your time, be present and always make sure its her that brings up any relationship stuff. your initial job should be to just bang and chill. she's either gonna be your fb, mltr, oltr
@@Curdledmayonnaise You make some good points. What's mltr and oltr?
I'll be leaving a comment on that in a few minutes. My experience of the past 20 years or so, and especially the past 5, is that the vast majority of women are repulsed by a stoic guy. I guess I exhibit and practice all four components Casey outlines here, but when women see this, they rapidly lose interest. They discover that none of their manipulation tactics work, I can't be manipulated, and I'm not going to rise to her manufactured dramas. They want emotional guys who will shout and scream back at her. I also speak from the experience of a stoic friend of mine, a very successful, tall, good looking and highly socialised businessman. He has the same trouble with women that I have. All that's out there to meet are women who assume they can take, take, take. If there are decent women out there who respect a stoic guy as in Casey's video, and who will reciprocate, then both my friend and I would love to know.
So what
JUST BE YOUR SELF ! If you have rough edges in your personality, work on them. If you need to be a person that takes control of your life, then work on it. If you are too emotional, then learn how to control it. If you have trouble showing emotions, then work on finding a balance in showing your emotions. NEVER be something you are not, to attract women that you probably wont like anyways. IF YOU ARE YOURSELF, then you will find the right one who is looking for the qualities you already possess. Dont be influenced by other men or women for that fact, that always tell you how to attract dozens of women, through mind games or tricks. These women will NEVER be loyal to anyone, regardless of your clothes, house, car, bank account or the GQ body you worked so hard at the gym for, to attract shallow people that are in to looks, rather than your core value or your mind.
IF YOU DO NOT CONNECT WITH SOMEONE THROUGH THE MIND, NOTHING OUTSIDE OF THAT WILL HOLD IT TOGETHER. Like minded people love hanging out with other like minded people. If you are not on the same thought pattern, even your friendship will fail.
Yes make a channel "just be yourself". And men- respect and submission from women and other men is earned, not given. You ought to be trustworthy and respectful first, in order for others to trust and respect you.
and than cry when your right one cheat on you
or if everything you want is find right one, but it never happens
I like your comment brother, 100% facts. Sometimes we just have to play a certain role to get a woman for short term.. And that is a woman's fault because us men really just want that good woman, but women set themselves up as a 1 time price
WHY ISN'T THIS THE TOP COMMENT
I never welcome any negativity into my life.
On point! Glad to see so many strong men here. Nice to meet you, gentlemen.
Thanks for displaying the discipline to create this video and share this content. I'm a new subscriber and i'm glad I attracted this video.
Absolutely genius dude your philosophy is on point with mine. I just can’t put it in the words that you put it in. Literally laughed my butt off during this video because it wasn’t too long ago that I had my wife cheat on me I’m filing bankruptcy I was homeless for a month, I’m Blind going through all of this lost my job and I am back on track man within a significantly quick period of time. And the women are pouring in. You just can’t ever forget you mention God I think we always have to keep implementing Volunteer work, and helping others who are more vulnerable and not as strong Navigate this world. We can never lose sight of helping others.
I'm glad you made this video even though didn't exactly feel like it. You have no idea what good thing you've done for me today.
One of the most valuable practical guides to become the man you are meant to be. Thank you.
This is incredible. You just told me im doing the right thing in the most eloquent way. Thanks man
Dropped heavy Azz gems 💎 salute 🫡 bother 💯
Right in the middle of the greaseboard bro.. I ran across this video. I have a channel myself, although much different 😂.I watched your video, and kept watching. Because hell man, I kept agreeing. I'm a bit older. Been in a bunch of situations and you're ahead of your time,so good on you man. I call attract and don't chase.. "Be the flower 🌼 not the bee 🐝.. Great work Casey
If you go monk, you never have to worry about this!
Thanks casey it changed my mindset
You put so much work into these videos, not just being a talking head. Thank you, brother.
My homies (guy friends) actually would almost make fun of me by calling me “stoic.” I was so perplexed. They thought being emotional was a good thing. Never made sense to me
simps usually don't...no need to be confused
They were just jealous bro, or low key intimidated or testing your resolve.
They lacked that killer instinct you got
These videos are great. Your message and teaching are awesome. I am a married man.... Have been married to a beautiful wife for 23 years. For me, it's not about picking up women, it's about wooing my wife. It's about creating the lust and obsession in her for me. I apply everything I learn from you.
Thank you Casey
Great video Casey!
Affirmations I wrote:
MENTAL
I am mentally strong and I always stay centered and on point.
I know that I’ll win and get through any difficult situation.
I am disciplined so I can work when life is easy AND when it’s hard.
I can handle any adversity.
I have constant strength and self control, so that when bad things happen, it won’t phase me.
EMOTIONAL
Nobody can hurt me.
My job is to be a rock for my family, friends and significant others.
I am always non-reactive to major events.
My internal emotions cannot be rocked or swayed.
I step into my purpose and God-given calling.
I know I will be OK, even if my business could fail.
I know I will be OK, even if my significant other cheats.
I know I will be OK, even if my family died in a car crash.
I know I will be OK, even if I lost my home.
I will be OK because I’m in control and I say so.
I constantly exercise my emotional resiliency.
SOCIAL
I am able to resist the urge to micromanage or change people.
I avoid manipulating others to get them to align with my beliefs.
I am a strong, stoic man, who is naturally able to easily attract a feminine woman.
I stay on my path and purpose, always leveling up financially.
I can befriend other masculine, driven men into my social circle.
I am a strong masculine man, who knows what to look for in a feminine woman.
I’m prepared to capitalize on an opportunity, when I see it.
I value my friendships and social circle.
I realize who aligns with me, and who doesn’t.
I attract friends and feminine women into my social circle, without having to chase them, because I remain centered in my path and purpose.
I attract customers and other people into my journey, because they can see the value in being with me.
I always take a rational look and audit who’s around me, and if they’re not the right fit, I non-reactively remove myself, and find new people that fit me better.
I am easily able to avoid trying to micromanage or change other people, because I realize it makes me lose self-control, becoming reactive and weak.
I stay a step or two away from engaging with others so I can audit if they align with me or not.
CULTURAL
I observe and I adapt to the times and my surroundings, making non-reactive decisions based on the rational truth of how other people are moving.
I always remain calm, no matter what the environment is, and no matter who is around me.
I always pay attention to my intuition or gut feelings.
I am non-reactive when I encounter toxicity, and I run away as a rational, decisive male, who is calculated.
I exercise the power of self-control in every area of my life, literally exerting my will into the world, knowing that it can move mountains.
I attract the right energy and environment into me as a man, instead of chasing it.
5 STEPS TO WIN
I reclaim all dead time so I don’t get sucked into lower level behavior, day by day.
I understand that what separates the winners from losers is where they put their time, and that women only want the winners.
I work hard and put my time in the right areas.
I can recognize and pivot quickly if I see that my time is not being spent on my God-given calling.
I am not afraid to fail, because I realize that nobody cares if I win, or lose.
I am aware that the distance between me and my goals is the action that I take, to make the jump, and take on that journey.
I determine what I gravitate toward the best because I take on a multitude of different business ventures.
I go all in, full force, with laser beam focus, once I have determined what I gravitate toward the most.
I know that I will be further ahead if a take a couple of steps back, observe what aligns with me the best, and then go all in.
I date multiple women so that I can identify the qualities of femininity that I respect and desire the most, out of a woman.
I can generate options that grow into empires if I’m willing to take smaller steps in the beginning.
I continuously move higher up the ladder by employing strategic thinking, networking, and adding value.
I stay on my path because it enables me to protect, provide, and generate for myself, my family and my significant other.
I add constraints to my goals and set the bar ridiculously high, because I know that if I can currently see the path to my goal, the dream is not big enough. (Last part of that is from Peter Sage).
I make $1 million a month.
If I work more than 2 hours a day, I get punched in the face by Mike Tyson, in his prime.
I identify the highest leverage activities that I can work on, that I should be working on, that is going to equal to the 1% of gains in life, that is actually going to move the needle forward.
I embrace my own uniqueness, because God only made one of me, and nobody can replicate me.
I compete every day against myself, and not anyone else.
I adopt an absolutely fearless mind, where I’m not scared of failing at anything.
I have a stoic mindset with mental, emotional, social and cultural fortitude, knowing that when I combine these with the 5 steps to win, I literally cannot lose.
Shameless plug, for which I earn nothing: I use an app called “ThinkUp”. It’s not too expensive and allows me to record as many affirmations as I want. It allows me to add motivational pictures from my gallery and add category tags. Most of all the playback is in my voice, the one that the subconscious recognizes the most. Feel free to copy and use the affirmations I have written here, as you please.
Beta chump af⬆️
@@lorenzolucifuge1653lol
Cool
Great Stuff
Very beta
Don’t have so much time on your hands.
super great advice
i love this channel just as much as i love my dating channel, keep up the rgreat work
Superb!! 🔥🤙
Great vid Cazey 👍 💯💯💯💪💪💪
Thank you Casey! Great instruction!
Casey, you have PhD level insight. Love your channel. I’m an older dude who’s been through the ringer. Wish I had this years ago!
I don’t align with some of your beliefs but this entire video resonated with Me
Excellent post Casey. 🔥👍🏼 I would suggest the guy get to know the girl’s personality type early in the relationship. I like the Enneagram. It really does a good job of creating a map of the personality and helps a person to have a highly accelerated snapshot of the soul of the girl, and whether he feels compatible with that, and to also learn how to love her in the particular way that she needs.
Powerful stuff! Well done young man. It's amazing what we're capable of when we TRUST God.
Wonderful video mate thanks for always helping us to elevate further.
Never let them see you break. Go to the ones that unconditionally love you. If you do not have that option, the closest people who you would stake your life on (you know who they are).
Drippin' PURE GOLD
Women love emotional resiliency in a man. Nough said
Uncontrollable and immature emotions sure. You're missing a key factor to long term relationships if you keep it that simple.
It's much more than that. You missed the point.
@@benink5690women are not made for anything long term. You are not living in harmony with nature but society, but humans are not man made.
They also like a man that knows how to spell
@@benink5690You're not thinking man. Do better
In my experience, most people aren't afraid to fail. They're afraid to succeed.
People aren't afraid to attempt impossible challenges because when they fail, they can say: "I did the best I could. At least I tried."
But as soon as all the hard work actually starts to pay off and the impossible starts to seem possible or even likely, out come the excuses about why they have to quit or they change the goal post that makes success impossible again, or worst of all they do something self-destructive or self-sabotaging in order to bring about failure.
They just can't overcome the fear of the unknown, or fear of risk, or fear of responsibility.
That's a good talk!
Great video.
amazes me how you can keep coming up with new topics on a daily basis........incredible job bro. Thank you
I followed him for a few months last year. He has a good outlook but its the same thing over and over and over. Some guys 100% need that constant reinforcement.
Pure.gold.
Thank you so much , I like the way you break things down. You make it seem super Easy, again Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
Bro,,,, you are doing a great job. Playing the role of a universal brother to all men.. Love u man
You cannot always being stoic, but you can stay to values and be true to purpose regardless of circumstances.
That is stoicism.
This is probably the best video on stoicism in CZcams. Thank you brother you're helping me great!
This is some Wizard level material. Never seen it presented like this.
Thank you 🙏🙂
Great video 📹, sir! After embracing stoicism, my whole mindset has improved dramatically.
You really think you can become something you are NOT? This stoic thing is a crock of shit. There are guys who are in control, and guys who are not. This power in silence, stoic mindset isnt something you can co-opt. If youre just quiet to act mysterious and like you are scheming and full of power, trust me you look like a weirdo who plans $cül shootings. And on top of that, if youre in a competitive job or organization, the men youre trying to act like will pick up on you acting like youre a top G and they will target you as cocky and phony and you will be attacked and ruined. Nobody making their videos and explaining that part. You are where you are because of who you are. All you do by trying to become an alpha or sigma or omega is create confusion in women you meet.
I like that a positive mental mind set.
Every morning when you wake up just tell yourself I’m the Fucking Shit
This Guy is like Coach Corey Wayne on Steroids
Casey, thanks for the great content you're sharing! One thing though - could you use a mic that is cliped to your clothes? Cause every time you turn your head to the board (and you do it often) - the sound goes weaker and it makes really hard to follow, especially in audio-only mode.
I showed weakness when I almost broke down about an ex, in front of a girl who was SO into me, and she stuck around for a week, didn’t fuck me, but then dumped me. I don’t know why I broke down then, I was just so tired and felt so down, maybe was getting too comfortable around her, so I let my guard down, and it ruined a beautiful thing
Yes and no. I say absolutely Yes that you effed up big time because unfortunately that kind of behavior is just a no-no. No woman, even the so called kind a caring one’s don’t want someone they just met to exhibit these types of behaviors. And no because….dude you’re a human being. You’re not infallible or as you already knew perfect. We go through stuff, everyone does and sure you could work on being better which is what this guy gets on about in all his vids but also recognize that you’re a person with many complicated emotions and feelings.
that's because you showed emotional weakness... women are higher in neuroticism and it's your job as a man to overcome hardship
if a breakup turns you into a little crying baby, imagine what actual hardship would do to you
that's what a woman feels, then she goes on to try to find a better protector/provider
simple as
get hard, soldier through, and pussy is just a byproduct
Happens to the best of us. they fail to acknowledge or even see that they make us happy and see her as a mate for the Long term, at first, they just want to believe they bagged a champion of men that them getting to experience that guys command of respect wherever they go as a couple is what she’s seeking and wants to feel and see them selfs in that reality and how he handles himself in the situations that scare her, is what she wants first, slay her dragon for her then you can start opening up, telling her how you feel or give an honest opinion, hopefully at that point you’ve established similar beliefs and traits you like. Then when you let your guard down, she knows it was on purpose to show her something she needs to understand or to balance the power of what they think you too are, cuz they will start to think they are in control when in reality a man allows it when she’s able to and shows he can share with her as equals with value to each other in their relationship. If she doesn’t appreciate it, she will get outa control, allow other men to have her attention and worst case she’ll go cheat because she thinks she can and get away with it, as woman emotionally convince them selfs of bullshit if a man doesn’t nip that shit in the butt
If you have to cry better to break down in front of a male best friend or your mum. Never in front of any other female. Lesson learnt.
Oh dear
This was gold. No Casey-isms, which aren’t necessarily a bad thing in and of themselves because they provide easy visuals. But anyone who’s watched multiple videos on this channel has heard “Idc if you’re Brad Pitt, Drake or Leonardo DiCaprio…6 pack abs…6 foot 5…” etc enough to when we hear it it feels like you’re listening to one of those infomercials that air at 4 o’clock in the morning. This video was just straight valuable information with great examples that reinforced the lessons. Thank you sir
Absolutely
Lot of game here, respect for the content
All Truths
Let’s go!
AMAZING CONTENT 🏆AMAZING
Great content man! Just discovered your channel and have been listening consistently the past few days
Resonate!!
Thank you, Casey.
Eating beer drinking wings😹😹
Great content, my new favorite channel
I LOVE THIS. THANK YOU MAN.
I’ve been on autopilot since quitting alcohol/weed. Thanks Casey.
Quiting weed is like night and day
Top work brother
EXCELLENT
I HOPE THIS CHANNEL GOES TO 6 Million!
Your advice IS more better for a better Life for a men than have a relationship!
Awesome message Dude. Keep it up🎉
Great! 💯💪🫡
Your best video yet mate 💥
Read meditations by Marcus Aurelius it's got all the knowledge you need on stoicism great topic man you are building a great community.
Letters from a Stoic by Seneca is a must read.
Appreciate the perspective Casey. Thanks for the intel and framing of the topics.
Enjoy listening to your philosophy.
@CaseyZander I wonder if you can do a video on quitting smoking - this is a major deal-breaker.
Best traits in a man: faithfulness, truthfulness, & ferocious lion w/ every one else & at work against adversaries, but Teddy bear 🧸 w/ me. Easy as 1, 2, 3.
Eatin beer and drinkin wings lol.. thanks for leaving that in.
My man !!!
Golden
As a Sigma female, Stoicism is my #1 😘
Excellent video my man.
Uncle C💪💪
You deserve a oscar man
Diggin the beard man. Haven't been to your channel in a while and, so used to you being clean-shaved!
Great video, thanks Casey
Thankyou Casey
You are Fkn gold brother
But isn't anger a traditionally masculine trait? What if someone crosses you or harms you, should you not illustrate anger and express that emotion at that person?
Run from a toxic situation, well that is kinda hard on your 9 to 5 job, have this situation rn with a woman that has a on and off switch on me so I have started to ignore her. Not a comfortable situation.
she’s probably a trixie
You are the observer.
Well said
Just a reminder this is only if your wanting the hot 8+ women. Most average looking women want someone who is fun, funny, caring and listens. Js.
Depends on their age, where they are in life. Not a one shoe fits all
Even though I do see several of these traits already in me, something essential must be missing, since I am still not seeing the respective results I want to see.
Awesomeness bro 🙏💯😃
Great video my brother 👊🏾🍻
Your Videos are life changing, If only i had this when i was growing up. Knowledge is power, (Legion of men) wants a chat with you
Metal sharpens metal! 💪🏾💪🏾
Bro God bless u man
God bless ya. Good advice. Thank you.