What this man did will haunt you (*MATURE AUDIENCES ONLY*)

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Komentáře • 18K

  • @PlaceStillMatters
    @PlaceStillMatters Před 3 lety +6375

    Elvis 13:08

  • @ImNotaRussianBot
    @ImNotaRussianBot Před 2 lety +5832

    Any stranger inviting me to spend alone time with them after several minutes of talking, no matter how friendly, is a huge red flag.

    • @karaamundson3964
      @karaamundson3964 Před 2 lety +30

      ...and may just catch a punch in the dickhole//kick in the vadge

    • @glenmorgan3683
      @glenmorgan3683 Před 2 lety +106

      I experienced this in the Ukraine and picked up on it quickly enough to get to safety.

    • @heyitsalannaluv
      @heyitsalannaluv Před 2 lety +38

      @@glenmorgan3683 oh wow what happened if you don't mind me asking? Situations like that are horribly scary

    • @labelladonna1800
      @labelladonna1800 Před 2 lety +86

      ESPECIALLY if they are friendly

    • @speteydog2260
      @speteydog2260 Před 2 lety +54

      Yes for sure! especially at night … so sad for the women

  • @mikeleaf952
    @mikeleaf952 Před 2 lety +3080

    I remember a documentary on this in which Hal gave an interview, and he said that he thought the lethal injection was too quick and if he had his choice he would have wanted the man to be drowned and brought back 3 times so he could feel what his family members went through.

    • @marisakennedy4066
      @marisakennedy4066 Před 2 lety +369

      i once heard of a man trying to get it on with a stallion, he died because a horse's pp is way too much for a human's large intestine. Seeing this guy didn't just drowned them, but diddled them first, I say, drown him the 3 times then give him "the horse."

    • @cloudforest4087
      @cloudforest4087 Před 2 lety +70

      @@marisakennedy4066 excellent

    • @bobsaturday4273
      @bobsaturday4273 Před 2 lety +66

      even thats way too good . what should happen to these scumbags can't be written down but the start of it would be trowing him into jailhouse population to be a bitch for enough time to begin to pay for his own assaults on his victims then the serious punishment could begin

    • @largefactory
      @largefactory Před 2 lety +16

      @@bobpop_2520 - wow, you’re a total clown

    • @ThenDarknessFalls
      @ThenDarknessFalls Před 2 lety +22

      @@bobsaturday4273 the sad thing is we should still be living by Hammurabi's Code if we wanted these to have an impact. Oh you did this? Have it back thrice over. You looked at them with evil eyes? Good thing we have a molten metal rod... And so on. This sickens me. These people have it way, way too easy. And in so many cases, dumb celebrities like Kim Kardashian rush in, no knowledge of the events, believe their all innocent saints, and send their army of idiots to attack and upend their intended meeting with the reaper.
      From where I sit, watching these people save vicious monsters, never once uttering the victim's name, they should join them.

  • @jamesh9174
    @jamesh9174 Před rokem +1671

    Can't believe you missed the most important part of this story that the hand writing was identified by a woman who saw it on a billboard that the police had posted the handwriting from the brochure because they had absolutely no leads and hoped someeone would identify it. and she matched it to handwriting she saw on a receipt from a contractor and she did a side by aide comparison and she knew it was him and called the police this was incredible and was what solved the case and they never would have solved it otherwise

  • @brookelianne007
    @brookelianne007 Před rokem +419

    That poor father. Some of the worst things that could happen to his family did, one right after another. I can't imagine his pain. 😞

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 Před rokem +17

      Yeah, poor guy. When I heard that only the girls will go, I IMMEDIATELY thought that the father should have go with them as well. Different times, back then, you should had at least one (trust-able) adult man with you when you go on trips.

    • @lorriefox7599
      @lorriefox7599 Před rokem +5

      And on top of that they had to rule that poor father out. So you’re grieving and on top of that you have to prove you’re not involved.

    • @EstablishedHeritage
      @EstablishedHeritage Před 10 měsíci +2

      Why didn't he go with them on the trip!?!?!?;?

    • @paigebarker1468
      @paigebarker1468 Před 10 měsíci +14

      @@EstablishedHeritagethey owned a farm and he had to stay behind to work it since they had no one else to do so after the pos uncle went to prison

    • @rooseveltday6687
      @rooseveltday6687 Před 9 měsíci +15

      ​@@EstablishedHeritagethe true question is why wld a married WOMAN accept an invite from a total make stranger on his boat while also placing their daughter's in harms way?

  • @lilianavarela7439
    @lilianavarela7439 Před 3 lety +5286

    I feel terrible for that poor girl that was assaulted by 2 different men in her short life... what an absolute nightmarish tragedy

    • @20807shane
      @20807shane Před 3 lety +138

      And also not believed by her own mother. Poor girl.

    • @AlottaBoulchit
      @AlottaBoulchit Před 3 lety +774

      @@20807shane her grandma not her mom

    • @cateatfood6634
      @cateatfood6634 Před 3 lety +97

      The mother was the downfall of that family. So sad.

    • @harrykoyl3784
      @harrykoyl3784 Před 3 lety +88

      That literally made me cry, and prayed that this guy is getting the very worse punishment in hell! First and only time I cried from a Mr. Ballen story, so far...

    • @mrjon75
      @mrjon75 Před 3 lety +29

      She might have been ok if she had a decent Mom.

  • @DevildogTV2
    @DevildogTV2 Před 3 lety +4185

    This is why you don't mess with strangers, especially inviting you the first few minutes of meeting you to get on a boat.

    • @dfgdfbsdfvv832
      @dfgdfbsdfvv832 Před 3 lety +54

      righttt, just reading your comment puts it in perspective bro XD definitly too good to be true but in this context they were women so for a man to be nice to women isnt so rare. even inviting women. if it was a guy to a guy you wouldnt think hes psycho but just gay right that older lady probly just thought he was into her or something i dont knowwwwww

    • @anonamoose2229
      @anonamoose2229 Před 3 lety +160

      IKR. I wouldn't have even wound down my window for him in the first place.

    • @kat.w.RBF444
      @kat.w.RBF444 Před 3 lety +221

      Exactly. Trust no one unless you’ve known them all your life. Even then, people can surprise you in the worst ways.

    • @-Enrico
      @-Enrico Před 3 lety +82

      Yep can't trust people like that, it's very unsafe.

    • @40AndAWakeUp
      @40AndAWakeUp Před 3 lety +113

      There are too many naive people in this world, unfortunately.

  • @iRJennyFromTheBlock
    @iRJennyFromTheBlock Před 9 měsíci +75

    It's HORRIBLE what happened to them, especially that little girl who already just went through so much, but why on earth would you go onto a boat with your two little girls and a dude you never met? 😕

    • @gemox3225
      @gemox3225 Před 4 dny

      It's a good point. The mother made a horrible decision. She didn't even know this guy at all.

  • @brunopereira2981
    @brunopereira2981 Před 8 měsíci +49

    I teach my kids no matter how nice a stranger is never accept or go with them never risk it..

  • @MW93249
    @MW93249 Před 3 lety +20614

    My goal in life is to never end up in one of MrBallen's stories

    • @samdipiazza7986
      @samdipiazza7986 Před 3 lety +467

      Same but the exact opposite

    • @scottcantdance804
      @scottcantdance804 Před 3 lety +359

      I can't imagine having to wait 3 years to find out what happened to your missing wife and two daughters. That's so horrible.

    • @owenhalverson25
      @owenhalverson25 Před 3 lety +164

      My goal is to find the Secret 🧐

    • @michellamoureuxm
      @michellamoureuxm Před 3 lety +50

      @@scottcantdance804 hello, am wife. Send help.

    • @thisguy2yt
      @thisguy2yt Před 3 lety +26

      What if you're on it but not in one of these types

  • @Poggy
    @Poggy Před 3 lety +3414

    "What this man did will haunt you"
    Me with severe anxiety disorder: I'm listening.

    • @modernNeanderthal800
      @modernNeanderthal800 Před 3 lety +49

      None of the stories before have wrecked me like this one. The way he toured them is literally the worst. OMG..... How do we stop people like this from ever getting their first kill?

    • @cwalker6911
      @cwalker6911 Před 3 lety +2

      😂 😂

    • @ashnicole6096
      @ashnicole6096 Před 3 lety +40

      Relatable. Some times I have to stop watching stories like this for a few days because I get anxiety about everyone and every where lol

    • @aaronsmith4940
      @aaronsmith4940 Před 3 lety +9

      @@modernNeanderthal800 Right question, that as far as i know we don't have an answer, bar yearly evaluations of literally the entire population, sick puppy's are usually made not born , do with that info what you will

    • @MarkFromNextDoor
      @MarkFromNextDoor Před 3 lety +10

      yeah i have mild paranoia but i can't stop

  • @boobmyst3475
    @boobmyst3475 Před 10 měsíci +49

    My heart breaks for this family. How could a human be so cruel and disgusting

  • @SnaXxz
    @SnaXxz Před rokem +20

    This is why I was told, "Trust no one" "Don't talk to strangers" I am so heartbroken about this loss

  • @themanthemyth2106
    @themanthemyth2106 Před 2 lety +3909

    The fact they went on the trip to get away from a evil man,only to run into another evil man,heartbreaking,condolences to hal and the rest of his family and friends

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 Před 2 lety +18

      they didnt take a trip to get away from an evil man. The uncle was already in prison when they left.

    • @leerichmond1459
      @leerichmond1459 Před 2 lety +238

      @@trawlins396 They left to get away from the THOUGHTS of what that evil man did. I can't understand psychopaths that do this to innocent people

    • @Melissacarlstrom
      @Melissacarlstrom Před 2 lety +29

      Exactly what I was thinking, it’s so awful!

    • @BYTHERULES1871
      @BYTHERULES1871 Před 2 lety +65

      This makes me sick why tf people just can't be regular damn it is it so Hard to be regular and not have alterior motives to try and kill torture or rape someone this world is just sick and things could all be so simple and easy but no you gotta look at people thinking they might want to kill you

    • @SadbutTrue84
      @SadbutTrue84 Před 2 lety +5

      I shutter to think how the memories of Michelle's uncle probably came back to haunt her as that "other pig" did the same thing once more to her, her mother and sister only to suffer a horrific death after the fact.😤😡... Just imagine after years of having to go though that it happens AGAIN and then you die. Sad, just sad..at least she's out of her misery now...😔💔.

  • @MarkSentMe
    @MarkSentMe Před 2 lety +3076

    Note to self: If a stranger invites you onto their boat, say NO. This is the second horrific thing that happened on a boat story :( I'm still sad for the couple that was handcuffed and thrown overboard.

    • @ChristelVinot
      @ChristelVinot Před 2 lety +204

      don't forget homemade submarines. never go on someone's homemade submarine. lol.

    • @genderfluidlygay7146
      @genderfluidlygay7146 Před 2 lety +38

      Ikr :'( both of these were nightmares

    • @CuriousConnoisseurs
      @CuriousConnoisseurs Před 2 lety +69

      Exactly! A Single Men has always an intention inviting a beautiful Woman. Its mostly something Sexual.

    • @catitude7117
      @catitude7117 Před 2 lety +72

      Me too that story about the couple on the boat is haunting aswell

    • @nirvana4346
      @nirvana4346 Před 2 lety +26

      These stories are horrifying. I wonder if the woman put up any kind of fight. I would have been kicking and tried to head butt him or something. But I wasn't there so maybe that was impossible. Just makes me so mad...all these stories like this. Wish his death sentence had been the same as what he did to his victims.

  • @86crud
    @86crud Před 8 měsíci +21

    This story will never leave you.

  • @devinb7805
    @devinb7805 Před rokem +113

    Man times were different man...who in their right mind nowadays would go take your children on a boat with a stranger that walked up to you randomly im a place you've never been?

    • @MyTimelord11
      @MyTimelord11 Před rokem +16

      No one anymore with what we know now. So unfortunate. May they rest in peace.

    • @ToasteredBread
      @ToasteredBread Před rokem +16

      Like you said it was a different time when hitchhiking was normal. We have more stories like this to use as reasons to not go with strangers

    • @mturley8414
      @mturley8414 Před rokem +5

      So FUCKEN sad

    • @morganablackwater2017
      @morganablackwater2017 Před rokem +11

      Good peoples don't assume someone may lie and want to hurt them

    • @Livinglife595
      @Livinglife595 Před rokem +8

      @@morganablackwater2017 that is so true. They imagine everyone is as nice and trustworthy as they are. So sad

  • @ItsMsSue2U7154
    @ItsMsSue2U7154 Před 2 lety +1783

    This story has haunted me since I first heard it years ago. That father must be shell shocked having lost his entire family. His kids and wife, his brother and his idiotic mother who thinks her grandbaby was lying. What an absolute nightmare!

    • @alexcisneros2980
      @alexcisneros2980 Před 2 lety +82

      Same. He literally said in the beginning that it's the type of story to leave a mark on you. But of course me being a stupid human was curious so I watched it anyways!

    • @siddharthshekhar909
      @siddharthshekhar909 Před 2 lety +17

      @Uncle Creepy don't laugh , you #*%£&@

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn Před 2 lety +1

      Nope 🤷🏾‍♀️ This MF caught an attitude because Florida police wanted him to come to Florida. This was on Forensic Files. He NEVER went saying he was to buy because he had a farm to run!!😲

    • @juliadesl
      @juliadesl Před 2 lety +17

      Man. I didn’t even think k of all that. He must be completely broken.

    • @drewgagneaux5193
      @drewgagneaux5193 Před 2 lety +7

      @Uncle Creepy we got an egdelord!!

  • @tracybowling97
    @tracybowling97 Před 3 lety +2449

    You didn't tell the most interesting part of the whole story: How he got caught! They put his handwriting on a billboard. Someone who was a customer of Chandler's had a receipt from work he did on that person's house.

    • @azmooriii4818
      @azmooriii4818 Před 3 lety +11

      @Randy Orton fax😔

    • @janine4047
      @janine4047 Před 3 lety +172

      I watched this episode on Forensic Files and im amazed on how they caught him through this handwriting. I miss forensic files on netflix 😔

    • @Luke-uw6dp
      @Luke-uw6dp Před 3 lety +69

      Wow, great information Tracy. Amazing that he was found from handwriting! Thanks!

    • @janine4047
      @janine4047 Před 3 lety +8

      @robert punu where are you from? I live in the Philippines and it’s not on Netflix anymore. They removed it last year. (Btw i checked today and still not there)

    • @tracybowling97
      @tracybowling97 Před 3 lety +7

      @@janine4047 prob. The US

  • @nicoleross356
    @nicoleross356 Před rokem +44

    This is so sad, the entire story. First the disgusting uncle who hurt the young girl and then to end up in such an awful situation with this murderer. I hope Hal is able to find peace in his life. I feel so heartbroken for him. I cannot even imagine.

  • @angelaspears4457
    @angelaspears4457 Před rokem +84

    Thank you for covering this. The other version of the tale I had seen didn't have the backstory and painted the dad as unfeeling and uncaring about what happened to his family. Sounds like he was overwhelmed my the magnitude of the tragedy that befell him and his family instead.

    • @rock_star2010
      @rock_star2010 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah, and sometimes something is so overwhelming that you just shut down and do what you gotta do. Box it up and unpack it later

  • @Bamiyanbigasf
    @Bamiyanbigasf Před 3 lety +772

    That poor dad not only lost his connection with his mother and found out his brother is a demon he also lost the people most precious to him... can you imagine him working that farm all alone for the rest of his life

    • @janethalken8269
      @janethalken8269 Před 3 lety +113

      i did read that he finally met someone through his friends and neighbors, and she had kids to raise, too, so he's blessed with people to love and take care of.

    • @monkeyballs512
      @monkeyballs512 Před 3 lety +67

      No. I’d have killed myself if I were him I think. Not that I’m endorsing that, but I know myself and I couldn’t live with that

    • @blainwilson7937
      @blainwilson7937 Před 3 lety +34

      @@monkeyballs512
      Exactly, how do you move on from that?

    • @EL-ISS
      @EL-ISS Před 3 lety +45

      @@blainwilson7937 you honestly don't.
      The pain may disappear from time to time but you bet your ass he has sleepless nights and anxiety attacks missing his previous family.
      Also just HOW they died too, so f**ked

    • @nifflofair6685
      @nifflofair6685 Před 3 lety +3

      @@monkeyballs512 it is so tragic but the human spirit is remarkable with h the proper support, he did nothing wrong .

  • @amysays3980
    @amysays3980 Před 2 lety +1530

    I can't even express how badly I feel for Hal. How can one even begin to deal with this kind of loss?

    • @christinamiller1927
      @christinamiller1927 Před 2 lety +169

      Yes, to lose his wife and daughters AND be stuck with his despicable mother and brother; my heart breaks for that poor man. 😥

    • @bartman9400
      @bartman9400 Před 2 lety +49

      I think if I’m not allowed to seek lawful vengeance, then life won’t be worth living.

    • @patsyhodge9071
      @patsyhodge9071 Před 2 lety +22

      @@bartman9400 Even unlawful in this case.

    • @Jsmash88808
      @Jsmash88808 Před 2 lety +11

      Yeah I think I'd try to figure out a way to get that man killed in prison. Then once confirmed I'd just blow my top off. What's the point in living if your family is dead ya know.

    • @amysays3980
      @amysays3980 Před 2 lety +37

      @@Jsmash88808 no never hurt yourself! If someone took away your family, never give them more by hurting yourself. The best revenge is to live well. And the best way to honor your family is to live the best life you can while you hold them in your heart. We all live on when someone holds us dear and remember us with love. NEVER hurt yourself.

  • @michellemurphy4150
    @michellemurphy4150 Před 6 měsíci +6

    You are the only person I binge on. The weird thing is that I found another person who loves your channel. She has a CZcams channel herself. Thank you for your work.

  • @mreza84
    @mreza84 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I would never understand how a human could do something so horrible to another human being!!!
    I can never do that, not even against an insect.

  • @MrBlair-ft2li
    @MrBlair-ft2li Před 3 lety +876

    This is why I say "Trust No One". Especially overly friendly strangers . . .

    • @ryanmorman7253
      @ryanmorman7253 Před 3 lety +16

      Excellent advice!

    • @adamnorvell
      @adamnorvell Před 3 lety +42

      It’s sad. I saw a little girl riding her bike in town late at night with no lights on her bike and she looked like she didn’t know where she was going and I wanted to help but I felt like someone might think I was going to do something to her so I stayed across the street and asked if she needed help

    • @BoredCanister
      @BoredCanister Před 3 lety +29

      @@adamnorvell 10 years ago it was expected that u look out for kids and vulnerable ppl unfortunately these days u try to help someone ul most likely catch a case its a sad world we live in now...glad there are is others with morals tho tc brother :)

    • @elizawatkins1855
      @elizawatkins1855 Před 3 lety +2

      39 clues vibes

    • @chrishandsome4267
      @chrishandsome4267 Před 3 lety +16

      Some people are just nice people though. It’s not that deep

  • @Eternal_11_Sasha
    @Eternal_11_Sasha Před 2 lety +2768

    You left out how he was discovered. He got away with this crime for many years however the text that was believed to be written by the suspect on that brochure was blown up and put on a bulletin board and happened to be seen by a woman who instantly recognize the handwriting. She remembered having a gentleman come and do electrical work in her home and he had written her a receipt up for the work she still had that receiptAnd turned it over to law-enforcement. It was analyzed and compared to the handwriting found on the brochure and was determined to be a match.
    Edit: by some strange coincidence, The episode of forensic files which features this story in an episode called waterlogged is playing right now as I just turned on my TV!

    • @SilveniumTheDrifter
      @SilveniumTheDrifter Před 2 lety +88

      I would have been SO effin freaked out. Such a sadistic person living and working just like everyone else for one... Two, wondering if they had been thinking about doing like that to you/what they might have done to you.

    • @davidkuzur5186
      @davidkuzur5186 Před 2 lety +21

      Well cool, thanks for that!

    • @Eternal_11_Sasha
      @Eternal_11_Sasha Před 2 lety +30

      @@SilveniumTheDrifter I’m sure the thought came through her mind in regards to being in such close contact with such a deranged person and what a close call she had

    • @birdytvcertified
      @birdytvcertified Před 2 lety +17

      So true that was the story i heard and i recognized the story as he was telling it but this detail was missing… this was the part of story that is so weird aside from tragic of course.

    • @joeround533
      @joeround533 Před 2 lety +66

      Who remembers hand writing like that from a random one time meeting years later??

  • @random_information7
    @random_information7 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Ever since I discovered this channel three nights ago, I've been watching tens and tens of videos.
    Most of the time watching the videos, then reading the comments endlessly.
    I'm having my finals coming up like in a week and I haven't even started my preparation but I'm super addicted to this channel lol.
    It's like I'd watch even at 4:30 am, even when I'm having panic attacks while watched i couldn't stop.
    It's just like the stories and the storytelling is that good.
    Everything is so easily imaginable, the way he says it makes me wanna watch these all day long but I'm scared of my exams so I'll stop for a while.😬

  • @tycoon214
    @tycoon214 Před rokem +4

    You don’t trust ANYBODY. Doesn’t matter how nice they seem to be. Damn smh. RIP

    • @Ooopss85
      @Ooopss85 Před rokem +1

      I'll never understand why Michelle, the silent victim of abuse, didn't occur to her to warn her mother about the potential danger of trusting a stranger.
      I was assaulted once by my cousin when I was like, 5 years old, and I've been having trust issues ever since.

  • @easyartshorts4993
    @easyartshorts4993 Před 3 lety +618

    A psychopath once said, "Helping people is the best way to fool them."

    • @cherylcalabrese200
      @cherylcalabrese200 Před 3 lety +20

      That's interesting. Do you remember who said that. I'm genuinely curious.

    • @truartist5379
      @truartist5379 Před 3 lety +28

      Ted Bundy I’m sure

    • @christianlords1340
      @christianlords1340 Před 3 lety +13

      That makes sense

    • @gailcoffey4950
      @gailcoffey4950 Před 3 lety +33

      This will always stick with me.
      It's also how a pedophile will get involved in families
      Charming and helpful, just beware

    • @rosesareblue73
      @rosesareblue73 Před 3 lety +18

      @@truartist5379 but it was the other way around with Ted Bundy. He faked an arm injury with his arm in a sling & would ask these young vulnerable women if they could help him.

  • @groowanderer
    @groowanderer Před 3 lety +555

    Guy lost his brother, mother, two daughters, and wife. My simple divorce doesn't seem bad at all now.

    • @julsteablog3677
      @julsteablog3677 Před 3 lety +11

      Going threw the same and said the same.

    • @ryanhillier107
      @ryanhillier107 Před 3 lety +11

      Nope ur divorce is super bad still

    • @groowanderer
      @groowanderer Před 3 lety +23

      @@ryanhillier107 no u

    • @renekackline2377
      @renekackline2377 Před 3 lety +24

      What a heartfelt assessment! You put your feelings aside to reflect on others and put the whole thing into PERSPECTIVE. You sound very intelligent and someone with a kind heart. 🤗

    • @renekackline2377
      @renekackline2377 Před 3 lety +13

      @@ryanhillier107 You missed what was being said. She knows what she is going through but she is putting things into PERSPECTIVE and realizing there are others out there who are going through worse. So if others can survive their ordeal, she thinks hers is pretty MINOR compared to some. Sounds like a wonderful person to me🤗

  • @M3GRSD
    @M3GRSD Před rokem +3

    That poor man, knowing his brother abused his daughter, then to have another man kill your daughter and wife. That's just awful luck.

  • @dustinice1077
    @dustinice1077 Před rokem +48

    Everyone says their goal is to not end up in one of Mr. B's stories, but honestly if I go out and shovel extreme or messed-up way I would think it's an honor to have my story told by him. The attention to detail and obvious care and hard work he puts in does every victims story justice

    • @just-dl
      @just-dl Před rokem +9

      If any one in my family ends up in one of his videos, there’s good odds he will be making another one about me. My wife and kids are my world. Messing with them would be a bad idea.

    • @fabmyride5181
      @fabmyride5181 Před 11 měsíci +3

      It's kind of creepy post.

  • @stackie10able
    @stackie10able Před 3 lety +2120

    I hope the father has found some kind of peace.

    • @jennygrant7484
      @jennygrant7484 Před 3 lety +82

      I hope so too. God this is SO horrific

    • @adamdixon6326
      @adamdixon6326 Před 3 lety +18

      Honestly

    • @WickManStick
      @WickManStick Před 3 lety +69

      @@squatonthecomet1306 The father did believe her. He was distraught over the fact that his own brother betrayed him and his family. It was the mother that didn’t believe her.

    • @Holly707
      @Holly707 Před 3 lety +128

      @@squatonthecomet1306 let's make this clear. The father did believe his daughter. It was his own mother, the girl's grandmother that did not believe her. Please listen more closely before you make a comment.

    • @jacobbryant1307
      @jacobbryant1307 Před 3 lety +54

      You never find peace, you just learn to live with it.

  • @JoBlo321
    @JoBlo321 Před 2 lety +1520

    The grandmother willing to lie about her granddaughter and spread those lies around town...even though her son was sentenced for the crime...yeah, I wouldn't want a grandmother like that! Can you imagine the girl's dad, Hal, knowing his own mother is bad mouthing his daughter after she went through 3 years of unspeakable abuse! What a pos she is!

    • @nettewilson5926
      @nettewilson5926 Před 2 lety +97

      Explains the son

    • @JoBlo321
      @JoBlo321 Před 2 lety +50

      @@nettewilson5926 You're right! It does! Funny how there is always one bad seed in the sibling pool.

    • @afrarunduml1170
      @afrarunduml1170 Před rokem +58

      She was afraid, someone would think, she was a bad mother. So instead her daughter in law is the bad mother to raise a liar like this. I assume a twisted thinking like this

    • @JoBlo321
      @JoBlo321 Před rokem +4

      @@afrarunduml1170 I agree!

    • @cindy4628
      @cindy4628 Před rokem +23

      @@afrarunduml1170 I've never thought of that before, I believe you are correct....there are nasty, narcissistic women out there

  • @bq-9238
    @bq-9238 Před rokem +5

    I narrated this to my mum and she burst out into tears. She couldn’t believe how some humans could be so wicked.

  • @violetsinspring5863
    @violetsinspring5863 Před rokem +18

    I saw this story on tv several years ago. And never forgot how horrifying it was! It broke my heart.

    • @VeganVampire.
      @VeganVampire. Před rokem +3

      Me too, I think it was on one of the old Forensic Files or FBI Files shows many years ago. I also never forgot this, so tragic and scary

    • @elaineburns4102
      @elaineburns4102 Před rokem +2

      I also seen a reconstruction of this years ago and it haunted me.

    • @nonkululekongobese3343
      @nonkululekongobese3343 Před rokem +2

      It's terribly heart breaking

  • @marcoyourfriendlyspacemari819

    Imagine being assaulted by your uncle, then being accused of making the assault up by your relatives. Then during the vacation, a vacation intended for you to unwind and forget all the drama that occurred in your home, a man you chose to trust, assaults not just you, but your loved ones as well, after which you were forced to witness their grim demise, while awaiting yours. Too cruel. They just wanted a normal life. They didn't deserve any of these.

    • @idkkimberlyanne
      @idkkimberlyanne Před 2 lety +16

      @Mr Mad Philosopher it’s hard not to dwell on how truly awful humans can be. We can be pretty fking amazing, too. I wish you the best.

    • @devanganamandal
      @devanganamandal Před 2 lety +2

      Hope is the light behind every dark cloud. We like to believe there's still some humanity left in the world. We are getting stronger every day, to fight the evil. We still come across kindness everyday... Not one person I know, has a spotless life. Everybody's been through some sh*t. Everyone keeps the hope alive...

    • @bkurtz85
      @bkurtz85 Před 2 lety

      @@idkkimberlyanne you are depressed in life because random people you don’t know were killed 30-40 years ago

    • @kimgysen10
      @kimgysen10 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm really angry at how irresponsible to mother was, although I don't intend to say she would have had to die.

    • @cyjanidybel
      @cyjanidybel Před 2 lety +14

      @@bkurtz85 how to say you're a sociopath without saying you're a sociopath
      but it's a youtube comment section. none of us know who you are so we can all avoid ever interacting with you

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache Před 3 lety +7132

    This is literally why the phrase "stranger danger" exists, you can't trust anybody

    • @that1oddball153
      @that1oddball153 Před 3 lety +12

      Yooo supsup

    • @davidhollenshead4892
      @davidhollenshead4892 Před 3 lety +97

      If you live that way, it will become soul-crushing...
      Fearing everyone will leave you living in fear...

    • @Wnuwk
      @Wnuwk Před 3 lety +47

      Yes you can. You can trust most people.

    • @pricklypear7516
      @pricklypear7516 Před 3 lety +422

      @@davidhollenshead4892 . . . There's a difference between "not trusting" and "fearing." Don't trust anyone enough to put yourself at their mercy, and it shouldn't come to fear. That's not "soul-crushing." It's just a good practice.

    • @chaiman8554
      @chaiman8554 Před 3 lety +5

      If u ever get married and u used the phrase "Stranger Danger" it might go threw D.N.A

  • @julesleg
    @julesleg Před rokem +9

    I remember this happening. To this day, it is still the scariest story I ever could imagine.

  • @meadowsong8560
    @meadowsong8560 Před rokem +2

    Those poor women. That is probably the cruelest thing I have ever heard. Not only how he killed them but making the other women watch? What a monster. Glad he isn’t breathing air anymore.

  • @yelanbbg
    @yelanbbg Před 3 lety +2310

    Who else recently discovered MrBallen and has been binge watching his videos like a netflix series?
    Because I am.

    • @kellyceurvels1022
      @kellyceurvels1022 Před 3 lety +8

      I found his channel through a youtuber who watches youtubers for "reaction" videos lol . I guess that's a thing?

    • @Mbsoulo
      @Mbsoulo Před 3 lety +5

      Meeeee!

    • @sleazykilla360
      @sleazykilla360 Před 3 lety +7

      no one cares.

    • @kellyceurvels1022
      @kellyceurvels1022 Před 3 lety +6

      @James Harris lmoa feel the same ! I always tell my family if I didn't have children I would dedicate my life as a vigilante assassin killing as many child trafficers as I can. Would need to aquire the skills though.

    • @memoraisedone4415
      @memoraisedone4415 Před 3 lety +4

      today

  • @scottphillips6005
    @scottphillips6005 Před 3 lety +373

    Props for the hotel manager who, of all people in these stories, took suspicious circumstances seriously and immediately reported it to police. No one ever does that. It may have been too late here, but at least he took it seriously. So many tragedies could be avoided if more people acted like him.

    • @johnjohnson5496
      @johnjohnson5496 Před 3 lety +28

      That's a really good point. Because of him, they were able to stop a serial killer. Who knows how many lives were saved because of that?

    • @chaiman8554
      @chaiman8554 Před 3 lety +5

      Maybe the manager watched horrer movies

    • @faeryfeathers
      @faeryfeathers Před 3 lety +6

      I'm a little disturbed by this comment. Their stuff was in a room untouched for a week the hotel didn't notice that they hadn't come home. I don't really feel like this guy did a great job at all.

    • @gregrobinette8620
      @gregrobinette8620 Před 3 lety

      Yeah, I'm surprised it was a Tampaon too, we usually just dont like phone calls

    • @scottphillips6005
      @scottphillips6005 Před 3 lety +10

      @@faeryfeathers He reported it as soon as he knew about it - doesn't mean he's the best manager, but he did a good thing when the opportunity presented itself. Also, who knows why no one noticed; no immediate reason to believe the manager screwed anything up there. Could just be the way the cleaning schedule was set up or something else. Could even be the fault of a different manager - doesn't matter. The point is, something was suspicious, and he reported it as soon as he knew about it. That's something more people need to do, and it's a rarity in these kinds of stories.

  • @CKJK954T
    @CKJK954T Před 6 měsíci +4

    I’m just a week in to this channel and, like many, can’t stop watching every single video one after the other. THIS one is the one that I just can’t shake off. 100% accurate title for this post- just one of the most terrifying things I’ve ever heard of. Just wow-

  • @johnnysmith863
    @johnnysmith863 Před 9 měsíci +4

    You're right, this does haunt me and has done since I first heard about this case a few years ago. It's simply one of the most horrible things I've ever heard.

  • @iandixon7641
    @iandixon7641 Před 2 lety +1105

    I wonder if the girls would of took that holiday if the grandmother hadn’t turned the whole town against that poor girl by claiming that her son was innocent and her granddaughter was making it up.Absolutely tragic.

    • @BadGuyGoodAudioReviews
      @BadGuyGoodAudioReviews Před 2 lety +40

      I thought same thing

    • @bentonrp
      @bentonrp Před 2 lety +78

      My thoughts exactly. They are now incidentally complicit in their murders, most likely. They victim blamed when there were pictures and video of the trauma and the abuse.

    • @PomPomPlush
      @PomPomPlush Před 2 lety +54

      Accepting someone you love dearly is a horrible person is tough. But living with the fact you defended a horrible person and unintentionally caused the victim's murder is tougher.

    • @principlemethods5281
      @principlemethods5281 Před 2 lety +14

      Yeah.. also sad to say she shouldn't be going on dates and including her girls with strange men while she's married. She was basically on her way to cheating on her husband.

    • @iandixon7641
      @iandixon7641 Před 2 lety +9

      @John Nichols No you’re being a dick.I know my English grammar but on here I type the way I would speak.

  • @josephvellucci9522
    @josephvellucci9522 Před 3 lety +655

    I've never felt worse hitting the like button on a video before. The fact that Hal made it 22 years to see the death of the man who destroyed everything good in his life is a testament to his strength to survive for his wife and daughters. I don't know if I could survive such tragedy.

  • @stephensmith6156
    @stephensmith6156 Před rokem +4

    As a husband and father of two daughters this one cut deep. He never would have had the chance to sit on death row if he took away my entire world like he did to that man. I would have put a swift end to his days first chance I got.

  • @AndiSpiess
    @AndiSpiess Před rokem +2

    I have experienced extreme tragedy and hearing an interview of this man speaking on how he got through his grief gave me so much hope to keep going. ❤

  • @doucme66
    @doucme66 Před 3 lety +604

    My bestie and I are planning a trip and we discussed how our trip would go.
    1. Do not walk away with anyone.
    2. Do not allow anyone onto our room.
    3. If you do not finish your drink before walking away from it, leave it.
    4. Under no means will we separate from one another.

    • @murphdawgswizzle
      @murphdawgswizzle Před 3 lety +57

      make sure you have at least 3 other trusted friends/family members in a life360 group together so that your locations are always able to be tracked. i do this with my girlfriend and our group chat so if anything happens we can all discuss it together and quickly figure out what to do from there. we’ve actually had a friend that was taken by her significant other and her parents couldn’t find her. once we heard the news, we remembered our life360 group and found her location in this weird apartment complex a long way away. my dad, girlfriend and i drove out there and knocked on the door. significant other answered, we told them the situation and they asked what we were talking about, we showed her location and they went to get her. long story short, she was there against her will and the s/o was arrested and imprisoned for kidnapping.

    • @Moxie678
      @Moxie678 Před 3 lety +18

      Smart! And let loved ones know your itinerary! And where you might be on certain days, if possible.

    • @hollyfarr7209
      @hollyfarr7209 Před 3 lety +5

      Great tips!!👌

    • @tifa4594
      @tifa4594 Před 3 lety +17

      Whenever my daughter works late, is out of town and uses Uber or Lyft, she always sends me a link so I can watch her route and make sure she’s safe.

    • @rubiirae
      @rubiirae Před 3 lety +6

      In short...just use common sense.

  • @remissiveslave
    @remissiveslave Před 3 lety +398

    Finds his brother sexually assaulting his daughter just to fund out they got murdered on a vacation. Don't know how anyone could live their life knowing this.

    • @DougTheDad
      @DougTheDad Před 3 lety +18

      I would go insane.

    • @HeilRay
      @HeilRay Před 3 lety +7

      I’m afraid to google the guys dairy thinking he committed suicide.

    • @OnceUponReddit
      @OnceUponReddit Před 3 lety +26

      Right?
      You don't have to agree with me, but I believe committing suicide is a sin. But if this happened to me, I don't think I could live.
      This is the worst story yet

    • @marek9784
      @marek9784 Před 3 lety +28

      @@OnceUponReddit I respect your opinion, so don't take this as me criticizing your beliefs.
      I myself believe that ending your life should be a human right, we never chose to come into this world. There are many reasons why people's lives are completely miserable, and you should have the choice to humanly end it when they want to.
      A few countries have this for elderly people who are very ill, saving them from a painfull and horrible death. But why should a person who is so mentally or physically hurt not have the same choice.
      I do believe it should be a thorough process, where you first have to go to seek medical help, including stuff like doctors and therapy sessions, so it's clear all is done to help you.
      You should have the right to end your life, and if it's done medically, then you can still gather your friends and family around to say your goodbyes. while you can never do that if the only other option at the moment is the current ways of suicide, where no-one has closure.

    • @DOCHSFTP09
      @DOCHSFTP09 Před 3 lety

      @@OnceUponReddit 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️😂

  • @cvpidd_
    @cvpidd_ Před 10 měsíci +2

    I have watched this video more than once, and as a cold as steel person who has rewatched EVERY case on this channel... This one? Left a mark on me. I could not watch it again. I couldn't fathom watching it again, and that is saying a lot. This case? Breaks me. Tears me to pieces.

  • @philiprooney1147
    @philiprooney1147 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Love Mr ballet the fact he brakes every thing down for every one 2 understand he is brilliant 👏👍👌

  • @apebeats6631
    @apebeats6631 Před 3 lety +205

    Take a vacation to escape the nightmare that your home has become only to be preyed upon again by a complete stranger pretending to be a new friend. That poor family. Now he's the only one left. Such a tragedy.

  • @UncleRicoOSU
    @UncleRicoOSU Před 3 lety +511

    Life Pro Tip: Don’t go on nighttime boat rides with a guy you just met on the side of a highway.

    • @boxinsteadyeddie
      @boxinsteadyeddie Před 2 lety +11

      @Nachash If you think killing someone random you met on Tinder or whatever online service you catfish someone into meeting you is a great idea I hope you at least have the decency to off yourself before you’re caught, idk, immediately after.

    • @MossyTomb
      @MossyTomb Před 2 lety +18

      @@boxinsteadyeddie Maybe he should just do that before he kills the person 😉

    • @birdiebear1500
      @birdiebear1500 Před 2 lety +17

      That woman was an idiot for accepting a ride, especially when her kids are with her!

    • @nightstalkerck
      @nightstalkerck Před 2 lety +3

      Maybe he lied and said for them to join him and his wife or family and they were from a small town.

    • @MsStack42
      @MsStack42 Před 2 lety +1

      Tragic as this is, I almost think it's sweet how trusting they were. God bless them !

  • @angelmoore2453
    @angelmoore2453 Před rokem +7

    Some say it's a bad thing to think the worst of your fellow man, it's not. Most of the time it's a life saver, evil is real, never forget that.

    • @koheletsmoger2327
      @koheletsmoger2327 Před 6 měsíci

      I believe that there are more good people in this world than bad people

  • @Audrey378
    @Audrey378 Před 11 měsíci +4

    This crime is probably one of the reasons why people aren't as loose and open around strangers anymore. The 80s were a time where things like hitchhiking and hanging out with strangers were normal. But situations like this are so scary and sad. It's always better to be safe than sorry. The world is full of evil.

  • @lisamccullough5150
    @lisamccullough5150 Před 3 lety +866

    This is absolutely heartbreaking. The panic and fear those women went through is absolutely unthinkable.

    • @bahmdiggity9577
      @bahmdiggity9577 Před 3 lety +90

      It's situations like this that make me upset that the murderer gets such an easy death. He gets to relax and just go to sleep.
      I'm a firm believer that anyone truly guilty, beyond a shadow of a doubt, of such horrific acts should be put to death in the exact same manner they used to commit murder. Eye for an Eye, not sleep tight!

    • @nathan-jh2ku
      @nathan-jh2ku Před 3 lety +21

      It's terrifying to think that people, like this man that get a satisfaction out of bringing fear to others are still out there in the world. You might even know one.

    • @BrottenGuy
      @BrottenGuy Před 3 lety +4

      @@bahmdiggity9577 That’s actually not 100% true. That’s what they used to think & told people. Most tiles, lethal injection isn’t nearly as “humane” as they’ve led people to believe. The one being led to death actually does suffer quite a bit. They feel quite a bit of serious “discomfort” before dying. Some don’t go to sleep, at all. They don’t stop till they die.

    • @bahmdiggity9577
      @bahmdiggity9577 Před 3 lety +16

      @@BrottenGuy I know what you are saying is true. I know adverse effects can happen. I'm sure those waiting for their death go through some agonizing fears of "oh shit".
      However, I doubt that it compares to the fear and pain that their victims go through. If their victim were subjected to 10 hours of rape and torture, they should get 10 hours of rape and torture. There are a multitude of demented people in the world who do not act for fear of capture, put them to work. Sounds messed up right? It isn't if their particular proclivities have a way out by punishing someone who raped, tortured and murdered a child. Then rather than being a bane on society they have a purpose and a place. And if you were one of those people who had a thought it might be fun to give in to a twisted desire, you might think twice if you knew the punishment was as sick as the thoughts in your head.
      I realize that this is a rant that can go on for hours and a debate that's as pointless as 'gender is a social construct', and the 'we should be better than the best of us and not lower ourselves to the depravity of the worst of us'. You have a valid point, I think I have a valid point, and it will change nothing.

    • @venessarefrane8450
      @venessarefrane8450 Před 3 lety +22

      To think.. not only could mom not protect her from “uncle”..she then loaded her on boat with strange man to be assaulted again..then killed. I can’t help but get angry with mom/dad for being so naive. I mean honestly, would you take your two daughters (with no man for safety) anywhere with a strange man? ESP a boat, in an unfamiliar state, with a man you had only a few second talk with prior? Gonna have to be more clever to get at my daughters.

  • @Heather-xm9ul
    @Heather-xm9ul Před 3 lety +902

    All of Hal's suffering originated with his disgusting monster of a brother, and his terrible mother. I can't imagine how hard daily living must have become for him!

    • @aewhatever
      @aewhatever Před 3 lety +32

      Yeah that would make me question everything

    • @Chicago_Jay
      @Chicago_Jay Před 3 lety +32

      You hit that 100% on the head...

    • @bethshadid2087
      @bethshadid2087 Před 3 lety +35

      Amen.....hope mommy enjoyed knowing she backed a monster that started all this 😓

    • @mitchellzastey
      @mitchellzastey Před 3 lety +6

      I'm sorry but something doesn't add up to me... I find it suspiciously unlikely this just happens on their vacation. " Oh no, you guys go ahead to florida, ill just stay here " Can't quite put my finger on it, but doesnt sound right. I would take a second look at the Father, I could be wrong but js

    • @Tjejify
      @Tjejify Před 3 lety +25

      @@mitchellzastey Nah dude it’s a tragedy. I don’t think this was planned in any way😂 How would that dude just randomly find them if this was set up

  • @tinadeeks6437
    @tinadeeks6437 Před 11 měsíci +3

    This is beyond horrifying, I saw a documentary about this , can’t imagine what they went through when he put them alive in the water

  • @theworld667
    @theworld667 Před rokem +4

    That poor father losing them all is beyond sad

  • @TheOneHamster
    @TheOneHamster Před 3 lety +679

    A few years back my mother and sister were on vacation in Dublin. On the flight, there was this charming guy talking to my sister (we're german, my mother is not speaking english, my sister was studying english at the time) about the whole flight, getting in touch with them. So when they were about to land, he offers them to come visit them at his house in the mountains, watching the sunset together. My sister was still REALLY naive at the time and thought this was a good idea. My mother, thank god, wasn't having any of it, but she couldn't understand what they were talking about. My sister even gave him the location of their hotel. Later my sister told my mother and she was shocked. They weren't leaving the hotel that evening but from their room, they could actually see the guy from their window, pulling up with his car, waiting for them. To this day I think, if my sister did this trip alone, without my mother, she'd be dead. Thank god my mother was there to keep her safe.

    • @Skyismify
      @Skyismify Před 3 lety +101

      Traffickers use similar tactics as well. They kidnap people and sell them to the highest bidder. I'm glad your mom is level headed and knew it could be dangerous.

    • @jamesm8227
      @jamesm8227 Před 3 lety +51

      And I for one Commend your mother for having & trusting that all important sense and intuition..

    • @smarie923
      @smarie923 Před 3 lety +18

      Wow... scary close call

    • @Stopvotingdemocrat
      @Stopvotingdemocrat Před 3 lety +19

      Great mom

    • @darthwicket
      @darthwicket Před 3 lety +37

      Or she just missed out on the love of her life. 50/50 really

  • @beece16
    @beece16 Před 3 lety +260

    That poor dad. There are no words for what he's gone through.

  • @rachelthedogmum
    @rachelthedogmum Před 3 měsíci +1

    I've watched almost all stories on Mr Ballen's channel. And this one, is the most emotional one.

  • @pennystanton5346
    @pennystanton5346 Před rokem +4

    Back in the late 60's I was s***x attacked by a family member, I had told my parents and they didn't believe me so for over 40 years it was swept under the rug so to speak, not to much longer than I did get my justice at my grandmother funeral. I conforted him in public in front of all the family members that were there. I went into details about that day.!!! he didn't realize that it was me until I started shouting at the top of my lungs every detail like it was yesterday..his wife left him so did his kids. My mom and dad slapped him across his face 😐, at that moment then I realized that both of my parents did believe me just didn't know how to help me. Being doing great ever since!! Our voices are loud enough and powerful enough for everyone to hear.

  • @Seevawonderloaf
    @Seevawonderloaf Před 3 lety +354

    What a monster. I think it hurts extra knowing that they were on a vacation because that one daughter had already been severely abused only to fall prey to a worse predator. Poor dad, knowing what happened to his family. So so so sad

  • @keltar4071
    @keltar4071 Před 2 lety +791

    The brothers mother thought the granddaughter was lying even though there were pictures?? You gotta love denial.

    • @psykoShr00m
      @psykoShr00m Před 2 lety +32

      I think he said that the grandmother thought the pictures were real but that it was the little girl's fault for seducing her son / the little girls uncle

    • @misssweety1694
      @misssweety1694 Před 2 lety +6

      Pictures and recording

    • @aleewoolley
      @aleewoolley Před 2 lety +71

      @@psykoShr00m Christ all-F’ing mighty. Grandma should be in jail too. I get not wanting to believe that your child could do something like that, but that woman caused a lot of havoc by not believing (being in denial of) her granddaughter.

    • @psykoShr00m
      @psykoShr00m Před 2 lety +26

      @@aleewoolley yeah for real, people are messed up. Everyone likes to think that humans are the smartest animal on the planet, but I think we're the dumbest and the worst. After the next meteor hits the dolphin people will do much better than we ever could

    • @aleewoolley
      @aleewoolley Před 2 lety +8

      @@psykoShr00m Let’s be honest, the Dolphin people are probably just swimming around biding their time and laughing at us at this moment. They know it’s coming.🐬

  • @valeriafontoura8850
    @valeriafontoura8850 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Even if they had declined the boat party, they were in danger already.
    The guy knew were they were staying, and that there was only 1 woman and 2 teens.
    They only made his job easier by accepting his invitation.

  • @mntryjoseph1961
    @mntryjoseph1961 Před 11 měsíci +2

    May Joan (Jo), Michelle, and Christie Rogers all rest in peace.

  • @SH-ln1uh
    @SH-ln1uh Před 3 lety +457

    I remember seeing an interview that was done by a friend of the husband/father. He said that after the murder of his wife/children, he often slept on a family friend's couch. The family friends would leave their door unlocked so the husband/dad could come over whenever needed to sleep over.

    • @stephanieann8115
      @stephanieann8115 Před 3 lety +93

      That’s so heartbreaking. I can’t imagine how horrible he had to have felt. He lost almost everything, all at once.

    • @seechao
      @seechao Před 3 lety +38

      Lost my partner about two years ago. I also find sleeping on my friend's couch more comforting than my own bed now... My late spouse and I didnt sleep together at night. Makes me wonder.

    • @randomsub1976
      @randomsub1976 Před 3 lety +5

      @@stephanieann8115 what are you talking about lol....He did loose everything...why live after this fuked up situation. But yeah i get you...this is so messed up damn

    • @carastorey762
      @carastorey762 Před 3 lety

      I hope they DIDN'T have KIDS

    • @coldcases2332
      @coldcases2332 Před 2 lety +2

      @@carastorey762 what...

  • @danilo_z
    @danilo_z Před 3 lety +424

    Oh God I feel the need to give that father a big hug. This story is beyond sad.

  • @tommyplays131
    @tommyplays131 Před rokem +1

    I was blown away from Hals reaction in an interview........calm , relaxed and unfazed

  • @NewRevelationUniverseNru
    @NewRevelationUniverseNru Před 9 měsíci +12

    The more you fear something, the more it finds you. In this case, Michelle went through something pretty traumatizing, and against all odds, found herself face to face with another evil man. These creeps seem to have a trauma radar somehow. It's no coincidence that once someone experiences something traumatic, there is a high probability that they will go on to experience other traumas that are similar to some degree, if not worse ( in this case, raped again and then brutally murdered). This is actually a verifiable fact and I've come to realize there is a scary amount of truth to these statistics. You can't trust anyone, and it's better that you just don't. I'm wondering if some part of Michelle was actually hesitant about going, but decided to ignore it when her Mother and sister convinced her it would be okay. It's easy to believe that victims of horrible crimes are just overly paranoid, but maybe there is a legitimate reason for it, as the fearful are sniffed out from 100 miles away. How, I do not know. I just know it's a real thing.

    • @mandymentzer6357
      @mandymentzer6357 Před 6 měsíci +3

      As a trauma specialist, revictimization is so heartbreakingly common for so many even more heartbreaking and ruthless reasons.

    • @effaroundfindout
      @effaroundfindout Před 3 měsíci +5

      You are completely right. I became a "magnet" for physically abusive men, despite looking for all the red flags and being so cautious. After the last one I escaped to a DV shelter, went through serious therapy and decided that I'm going to stay single the rest of my life. I've been happily solo for seven years now.

  • @JustinProper
    @JustinProper Před 3 lety +369

    As if this family hadn't been through enough heartbreak, that poor man lost his entire family. My sincerest condolences to him & I'm happy justice was served.

    • @mjt1517
      @mjt1517 Před 3 lety +2

      Justice would only be served if the murderer had done to him what he did to them.

    • @xenech
      @xenech Před 3 lety +1

      @@mjt1517 Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth

    • @24get24give
      @24get24give Před 2 lety +1

      yes, this case makes me wish there really was a Dexter out there somewhere

  • @rebeccagledhill-wasstephen5737

    That man got longer on death row than those girls got to live in their whole lives.

    • @2sdd
      @2sdd Před 2 lety +7

      GOOD

    • @victoriaalexander512
      @victoriaalexander512 Před 2 lety +13

      You are so right! That monster should not have had 22 minutes to live after he was caught!

    • @2sdd
      @2sdd Před 2 lety +6

      @DrFreudstein bro I'd be very sad if it was otherwise. We want him to feel the punishment. Most preferably let him rot until very old age like 75+ and then execute him before court replies to another parole wish.

    • @2sdd
      @2sdd Před 2 lety +1

      @DrFreudstein you sentence them to death so they will never leave. mercy on execution leads to parole application.
      rest is flavor of feeling the scum got what he deserved, at least what humans are capable of providing.

  • @delilahboa
    @delilahboa Před 10 měsíci +4

    Such a devastating story, really devastating, but what on earth possessed mom to go on a boat with a man they had just met? I just can’t get my head around this 😢 xx

  • @lavanniarajalingam50
    @lavanniarajalingam50 Před 8 měsíci +1

    The last picture of the grieving father and husband is just so haunting

  • @basilprasad2837
    @basilprasad2837 Před 3 lety +709

    Never ever get on a vehicle with a stranger no matter how friendly they seem.

    • @janicesullivan8942
      @janicesullivan8942 Před 3 lety +21

      Always told that to my kids, never go anywhere with a stranger.

    • @imrealyboredbro
      @imrealyboredbro Před 3 lety +20

      I'm guessing you have never used Uber!?!? Lol

    • @dfernandez3482
      @dfernandez3482 Před 3 lety +3

      @@imrealyboredbro ikr 😂🤦‍♂️

    • @basilprasad2837
      @basilprasad2837 Před 3 lety +7

      @@imrealyboredbro oh right Uber is a thing. How could I forget?

    • @user-gn4ts8jb7n
      @user-gn4ts8jb7n Před 3 lety +12

      @@imrealyboredbro yeah and I never ever will

  • @janematete6588
    @janematete6588 Před 3 lety +644

    That poor father. Not only is he hating his brither and maybe mother, but his love of life ended by a serial killer for no reason.
    Condolences to the dad. This really broke my heart

  • @planningwithlyons9027
    @planningwithlyons9027 Před rokem +1

    I have listened to a lot of stories of Mr. Ballen and other stories that have just been horrific to listen to but this one so far has shaken me the most. ☹

  • @nathalielindberg3267
    @nathalielindberg3267 Před rokem +2

    I remember this 80s story. MrBallen explain it so well with respect for the victims.

  • @juanjawn7192
    @juanjawn7192 Před 3 lety +3029

    Only OG MrBallen fans will remember when he uploaded 3, 4, even 5 times every week

    • @ARorHR
      @ARorHR Před 3 lety +153

      I miss that. RIP sometimes even 5 times a week.

    • @TommyBlackTB
      @TommyBlackTB Před 3 lety +11

      Yup

    • @princezuko1588
      @princezuko1588 Před 3 lety +79

      Even if he didn’t do it it was just more catchy

    • @jairoportillo836
      @jairoportillo836 Před 3 lety +4

      😂😂

    • @keepinitreal2908
      @keepinitreal2908 Před 3 lety +18

      I feel ya....them were the good ole dayz!! Bait a switch! Not trying to come down on Mr.B but WHATS UP!!?

  • @otter4286
    @otter4286 Před 3 lety +733

    Can’t help but feel extra bad for poor Michelle. All that she went through with her uncle only to be murdered by another creep

    • @dallbauossenn6325
      @dallbauossenn6325 Před 3 lety +57

      What are the odds that she's gonna run into 2 psycho's like that. Just insanity....
      Also sad that someone got her in contact with them as well, wasn't her own mistakes. First her dad having a psycho brother that lived with them, then her mom accidently making contact with that last killer.

    • @catherinebirch2399
      @catherinebirch2399 Před 3 lety +34

      That poor girl and her family had no luck whatsoever.

    • @lisbethvandenberghe7323
      @lisbethvandenberghe7323 Před 3 lety +21

      And those poor girls chosen this destination themselves, so so sad! they should waterboarded this guy for the rest of his life instead of deathrow

    • @nativeamericanfeather9948
      @nativeamericanfeather9948 Před 3 lety +24

      Demons are amongst us. Dont trust anyone! This is why I conceal & carry. I rather be a survivor than a victim. These monsters have the right to kill us..then we should use our right to protect ourselves ♡ stay safe out there

    • @ignota9835
      @ignota9835 Před 3 lety +5

      She definitely lost the dice roll with life terrible luck

  • @royroyalu
    @royroyalu Před rokem +2

    Omgggggg I remember this from forensic files! This episode ALWAYS gives me the chills. Thank you for covering it and giving some more details the show left out! Yes, I’m a true crime junkie lol

  • @tfrankest1990
    @tfrankest1990 Před rokem +1

    Forensic Files made an episode about this.But hearing you tell it in story format 🤯 Well done Sir

  • @rickyspanishhh6007
    @rickyspanishhh6007 Před 3 lety +635

    Mrballen would be the best grandpa ever. Just imagine all the scary stories he's gonna tell his grandkids

  • @rainz62
    @rainz62 Před 2 lety +623

    The sad part is he didn't have to suffer when he died like his victims. He should have been given the same as he dealt!

    • @lucindiavanderwalt8867
      @lucindiavanderwalt8867 Před 2 lety +79

      Yup! The death penalty should be - you die the way you killed or assaulted👌

    • @ABitOfADegener8
      @ABitOfADegener8 Před 2 lety +11

      Problem is, there's nothing that could've been done to him to even come close to the suffering he caused. I just hope the existence those women are in now is absolute happiness.

    • @georgelustrea2912
      @georgelustrea2912 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes.. Absolutely...

    • @MarsLonsen
      @MarsLonsen Před 2 lety +20

      The thing is, they give them a concoction of different drugs, I've red that some of them are very painful but one does not see any reaction from them because they are also given drugs that stops them from moving but not unable to feel pain. Some, who for some reason survived say its like all their veins are on fire while they also suffecate. Either way, they deserve more pain.

    • @HannahTheHorrible
      @HannahTheHorrible Před 2 lety +7

      @@MarsLonsen came here to say this, they have found that lethal injection can actually be a very painful way to die. Ironic since we thought it was the most humane way once upon a time

  • @brittanyarford6353
    @brittanyarford6353 Před rokem +1

    I remember this episode of forensic files but you told it so beautifully. Really did justice to the three women’s beautiful but tragic lives

  • @dharmagirl5889
    @dharmagirl5889 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I shudder to imagine having to report my entire family missing, only to be asked for their dental records. What horror.

  • @TheMrsEmpty
    @TheMrsEmpty Před 3 lety +258

    Knowing someone in your family hurt one of your children is devastating. Right under your nose is worse. But to lose them at the hands of another monster after going through that.... I cannot express how concerned I am for Hal's mental health. That poor man. My god.

    • @EmperorNerox
      @EmperorNerox Před 3 lety +18

      The mom is at fault. She should have absolutely seen the potential danger of being out on a boat w some strange man. Worst thing is she had to witness her fatal error

    • @BrennaDraws
      @BrennaDraws Před 3 lety +19

      @@EmperorNerox You're literally blaming a victim for being raped and murdered and watching her daughters be raped and murdered. Go sit in th idiot corner.

    • @nekokittycat4004
      @nekokittycat4004 Před 3 lety +8

      @@EmperorNerox And she didn't see the danger in uncle's behavior as well but it is unlikely that he didn't show the SIGNS. something in her mind blocked those red flags with abusers. so sad and painful

    • @bluetickbeagles116
      @bluetickbeagles116 Před 3 lety +16

      @@BrennaDraws The mom was at fault. She lacked common sense to say “no” and not show up hours later. She easily walked right into a trap. Yes, the victim is to blame here for lack of poor judgment. And yes, not all victims are to blame either, but she is to blame here for her stupidity.

    • @anadubar4819
      @anadubar4819 Před 3 lety +16

      @@bluetickbeagles116 yeah, of course, blame the victim. First of all, it's the killer's fault.
      Secondly, many many many serial killers are extremely good at disguising themselves. Which is why even trained cops can be duped by them.
      Thirdly, even if they were being naive, being from the countryside - that's not a fault, that's a human trait. Millions of people are from the countryside, and there is something wrong with a society that deems their behaviour wrong.
      Fourth, if you advide girls and women to not trust any man, people also get upset and call you a "feminazi". What now?

  • @AcidGlow
    @AcidGlow Před 3 lety +5032

    What a sad story. Losing your loved ones and not being able to help 🙁 It makes you realize how precious life is. You only live once. Value what you have and just be happy. Don't take it for granted.

    • @xHedSplttrx
      @xHedSplttrx Před 3 lety +20

      Some people rather be evil

    • @deafdanny6299
      @deafdanny6299 Před 3 lety +21

      "precious" is the word your looking for friend :)

    • @exlibrisross
      @exlibrisross Před 3 lety +13

      Well said Sir. Blessings ever from Belfast, Northern Ireland.

    • @iamnotpaulavery
      @iamnotpaulavery Před 3 lety +49

      And be very suspicious of "nice strangers" that pop up out of nowhere! In fact, the word "strangers" is a giveaway that something *extremely bad* might happen!!

    • @lf490
      @lf490 Před 3 lety +67

      @@deafdanny6299 "you're" is the word you are looking for friend :)

  • @colbybrand5326
    @colbybrand5326 Před rokem +1

    I freaking am obsessed with this CZcams page

  • @debbiejohnson7758
    @debbiejohnson7758 Před měsícem

    Been a subscriber of yours for quite some time now and I'm pleased to see you earned just under 9 Million subs at this point !!! Congratulations on your youtube success Mr B!!! ❤❤❤

  • @brian_b_music
    @brian_b_music Před 3 lety +512

    When a stranger asks you if you’re lost, the only correct answer is no. Then you get the heck out of there.

    • @trendkiller6611
      @trendkiller6611 Před 3 lety +28

      That's a very negative view. Most of the time people are genuine and just want to help.

    • @Schmorgus
      @Schmorgus Před 3 lety +23

      @@trendkiller6611 That's a very ignorant view.
      Statistics show that almost 16.500 people in 'merica were killed in 2019.

    • @petunia8425
      @petunia8425 Před 3 lety +2

      damn straight

    • @lone6718
      @lone6718 Před 3 lety +7

      @@Schmorgus you have to remember the 80’s were different. That’s when children started to go missing more often, but we were still letting kids be kids. The adults, even the cautious ones like me mother, were having to adjust.

    • @burnerbrecks5
      @burnerbrecks5 Před 3 lety +22

      It really depends on who it is and where you are, and who you’re with. As a petite blonde woman, I’ve traveled the world and met plenty of good people who helped me find my way.
      It’s more about reading people- understanding body language, understanding cultural expressions, and learning what kind of circumstances you were safe in. For example, in most cultures when families are out with their children, you have nothing to fear when a mother asks you if you are lost. That isn’t to say don’t trust your gut. That IS to say, not everyone is out to harm you.

  • @kgraydakota
    @kgraydakota Před 2 lety +533

    I've told my Daughter that she should never worry about possibly offending someone that offers to help her, take a picture of them, their car and licence plate and send it to a loved one. If the guy is a predator, he won't be stupid enough to do anything to her.
    Sadly, this crime took place before the age of cell phones.

    • @cincin4515
      @cincin4515 Před 2 lety +13

      I can't imagine too many people wanting to help your daughter.

    • @vitorfernandes651
      @vitorfernandes651 Před 2 lety +9

      If she thinks the guy is rich she will skip all that advice. Girls love a rich guy.

    • @dm-qy3yu
      @dm-qy3yu Před 2 lety +52

      @@vitorfernandes651 incel alert

    • @IIExhibitAII
      @IIExhibitAII Před 2 lety +2

      True but it was kinda hard for this family to do that in 1989.

    • @SureYoureRight
      @SureYoureRight Před 2 lety +9

      Very good advice. Thanks internet dad❤️

  • @justdrea4666
    @justdrea4666 Před rokem +1

    I just discovered your story’s and can’t help but feel thankful that I just have have CPDST from all the stuff I have lived though but I am so grateful to God that I am alive to tell my own horror stories of how ever this world really is. Some people watch stuff because it is truly entertaining but I also find it very educational. Just because something very bad has happened to you, doesnt mean it won’t happen again and doesn’t mean that something even worse can happen to you.
    Anyway thank you for stories.

  • @davidchambers9354
    @davidchambers9354 Před rokem +1

    I remember hearing about this story when I was in Clearwater fla for work. Thanks for telling these interesting stories! David

  • @glorygloryholeallelujah
    @glorygloryholeallelujah Před 3 lety +467

    This story is like the living embodiment of the quote: *”Expecting life to be fair because you’re a good person-is like expecting a bull not to charge, because you’re a vegetarian...”*
    None of them deserved the awful things that happened to them (especially Michelle and her sister😔).
    Life can be so awful to the most innocent- and a broken/disfigured mind has the capacity to imagine all kinds of violently depraved cruelty to inflict on others ...it’s so sad and horrifying. 😔😔

    • @rolandasmincenka1188
      @rolandasmincenka1188 Před 3 lety

      Good point but i dont like how complicated this ia

    • @georgemunro319
      @georgemunro319 Před 3 lety +7

      It's the main contributing factor why people become drug addicts and why so many people turn to drugs because of abuse psychological and emotional trauma

    • @kellyceurvels1022
      @kellyceurvels1022 Před 3 lety +3

      Great quote.

    • @glorygloryholeallelujah
      @glorygloryholeallelujah Před 3 lety +3

      @@rolandasmincenka1188 I’m sorry that you found it to be too complicated- but that’s just what the quote *is.* 🤷‍♀️

    • @ericalbers4867
      @ericalbers4867 Před 2 lety +4

      @@rolandasmincenka1188 not sure how that quote is complicated. It's just saying "don't live in a fantasy". The "I should be able to X without worry" fantasy. The world has never and will never work that way. Bad people exist and they will do bad things. Don't make yourself a victim. Or rather, don't increase your chances of being a crime of opportunity. That's exactly what their mom did by making an unfathomably idiotic choice. I feel bad for all of them and massive sympathy for the dad but with the mom there's also bewilderment and anger. She holds significant guilt for their brutalization and torturous murders. All she had to do was be a parent and not take herself and young daughter's on a private boat, alone, with a random man in an area they don't know, all without telling anyone 🤦‍♂️ You'd be safer swimming in shark infested water.

  • @QuackingUp
    @QuackingUp Před 11 měsíci +1

    I had only lived in Tampa Bay for a week when that happened. It still horrifies me to this day. That poor woman and her daughters… Oba Chandler rots in hell for eternity and I hope they don’t give him a minute’s rest!

  • @samanthacoelho428
    @samanthacoelho428 Před rokem +1

    When i was in Aruba we were looking for a boat attraction to go on and we asked 2 local men. They invited us to go on their own boat and they'd take us to the tourist locations for much cheaper price. I looked at my friend and simultaniously we both said no thank you. We paid 3x the price they were offering but we had a worry free excursion and we made it back home. There are risks you just dont take for the money. This story is horrific. I feel so bad for this father. He lost his entire family. Bless him