The Truth About Success - Terri Cole

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  • čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
  • Here are the top 10 lessons that have helped me achieve the success I have as a psychotherapist and business owner.
    Let me know what tips you think I missed below in the comments! Let's learn from each other.
    This is Part 3 of the series where I am sharing 60 lessons I've learned in 60 years being alive.
    Part 1, on friendships, is here: • 10 Most Important Less...
    Part 2, on love, is here: • Top 10 Relationship Ti...
    Time Stamps
    0:00 - Introduction
    0:21 - 1: Find your passion
    0:50 - 2: Become an expert
    2:00 - 3: Support others
    3:05 - 4: Be a good leader
    4:19 - 5: Know & live your values
    5:10 - 6: Give back
    6:57 - 7: Work/life balance
    7:53 - 8: Find supportive women
    8:10 - 9: Innovate
    9:00 - 10: Be discerning about opinions
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    About Terri Cole
    Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free.
    For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.
    She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over 450,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see www.terricole.com/
    Connect With Me
    Instagram: terricole.com/ig
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    Newsletter: terricole.com/newsletter
    Resources
    Boundary Boss Book: amzn.to/44DZID9
    The Boundary Boss Workbook: amzn.to/3Ra7CRU
    Insight Timer: insig.ht/cpKnbJB4KDb (I have a bunch of free meditations on here and love this app!)
    BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/terricole
    I’m not currently taking any new one-on-one therapy or coaching clients, but highly recommend using BetterHelp to find a therapist that fits your needs. As a team, we have fully vetted BetterHelp's resources.
    www.terricole.com/gethelp/ -- If you are in a crisis or any other person may be in danger the resources on this page can provide you with immediate help.
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    #lessonsoflife #successtips #lifelessonsforbetterlife #entrepreneurshiptips

Komentáře • 32

  • @carmenl163
    @carmenl163 Před měsícem +3

    "Success is getting what you want.
    "Happiness is wanting what you get."
    It's one of the best wisdoms I've ever come across.

  • @theresaramirez6769
    @theresaramirez6769 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you Terri. You have been a blessing for me. Thank you. ❤😊 I appreciate your time.

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you for being here! ❤️

  • @theresamckeown8260
    @theresamckeown8260 Před měsícem +1

    Happy 60th birthday, Terri Cole! Whatever you are doing keep it up you look great! Happiness and peace are so essential.

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thank you, thank you, thank you!! ❤️

  • @Matt-xf3qg
    @Matt-xf3qg Před měsícem +1

    Happy Birthday Terri! It's a blessing to hear your wise words each week. Your unwavering work ethic and devotion to helping others have been a constant inspiration to me over the years. Thank you for generously sharing your knowledge and life skills across your channels; you've truly made a positive impact on countless lives worldwide!
    A huge thank you for being your brilliant self. I can’t wait to watch you continue to grow and spread so much joy. Wishing you many more years of happiness, love and success 🎉

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much ❤️ I appreciate your support!

  • @MonaLisa-57
    @MonaLisa-57 Před měsícem +3

    Happy birthday Terri 🎉❤love your videos and podcasts. It has thought me a lot!

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thanks so much for saying so ❤️❤️

  • @hollyrabjohns1812
    @hollyrabjohns1812 Před 28 dny

    Thank you Terri. I only found your channel 4 days ago, but I’ve learnt so much already! You have such a comforting presence ♥️💗♥️💗

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před 27 dny

      Thank you so much, and welcome! ❤️❤️

  • @shadeekamendez1743
    @shadeekamendez1743 Před měsícem +1

    I *emphatically agree* with all you've said.

  • @moen4645
    @moen4645 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you very much for this episode Terri.
    I found your success insights original and priceless as I can clearly hear that each one of them are based on your time experience, dedication to your passion, following your values, truth, and most importantly understanding. Very inspirational!
    In my opinion success goes hand in hand with self-believe first, and if anything missed is the importance of working on any self-limiting beliefs.
    Amaizing lessons & top gift thank YOU 💕 💝

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      You are so right- self-belief and self-confidence is key, too ❤️ Thank you!

  • @user-ul3gf8wh7b
    @user-ul3gf8wh7b Před měsícem

    Thank you and your crew for doing all you do!!❤

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thanks for being here and watching 💕

  • @frankie555
    @frankie555 Před měsícem

    In my experience, the better I got, the more haters I got (overt and covert sabotage, frienemies, rip off artists, copycats, gossip, smear campaigns, one-uppers). It got me really disapointed in people.

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem +1

      That can be really disappointing ❤️ My first video in this series was on friendship, and I talk about the importance of having supportive friends who are there for you (even when things are good!) and cheering you on for exactly this reason.

  • @saraheshetu6385
    @saraheshetu6385 Před měsícem +1

    🎉 happy birthday

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 Před měsícem +3

    You need to be in the trenches for years. Your not a specialest until you master the general stuff. When you learn you matter- as an old clinician once told me sonetimes were better with our patients than our self. Its telling what he said. Invest in yourself ; set boundaries. Save your energy. You been helpful to me.

  • @monikamikolajczak1902
    @monikamikolajczak1902 Před měsícem

    Happy birthday🎉

  • @Maliilse75
    @Maliilse75 Před měsícem

    I would add: know your worth. Women struggle with that A LOT. Also, take risks. I just got offered a principal's job at a consultancy firm to manage a new department on sustainability mandates. I don't really have the credentials, I've only been a self-employed consultant for less than two years. But I helped out this company for a year on a huge mandate. I was excellent, agreeable, reliable and knowledgeable and the team I worked with suggested my name to the associate for this new position. We are about to discuss work conditions, we'll see what happens. I want to make sure that I'll have the support I need internally because I've noticed that they are understaffed. Also 25h-30h max per week. I will set the bar high! Wish me luck!

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem +1

      Amazing, way to go!! 🙌🙌 "I want to make sure that I'll have the support I need internally because I've noticed that they are understaffed"

    • @Maliilse75
      @Maliilse75 Před měsícem +1

      @@terri_cole Thank you!

    • @Maliilse75
      @Maliilse75 Před měsícem +1

      @@terri_cole Would love to see more content on boundaries at work, if that is up your alley! As a recovering workaholic, it's a big one for me.

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem +1

      I'm still a recovering workaholic myself, lol! My team often works to ensure I can take days off.
      I have a few videos about boundaries and work with regards to coworkers, but it sounds like this one on taking an actual vacation may be more what you're looking for: czcams.com/video/SqbLrm-ETQc/video.html There are some elements you could borrow for everyday use. I think the biggest are: knowing what is your side of the street and what is not (so you can say 'no' accordingly), asking for help, proactively communicating (I can do this, but not this, or I can do this but at the cost of this), delegating, and figuring out what drives the workaholism (is it fear? ambition? what is THAT tied to?).
      You could even use the secondary gain tool: what do you get to not face, not feel, or not experience by working so much?
      Hope that helps ❤️

    • @Maliilse75
      @Maliilse75 Před měsícem +1

      @@terri_cole You are a rock star! Thank you!