My dating nightmare
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- čas přidán 7. 07. 2024
- Stalked and objectified my the priesthood holders during my divorce #mormon #dating #redflag #narcissiticabuse #relationship #exchristian #exmo #cheaters #adultery #divorce #metoomovement #church #churchofjesuschrist
Ugh yep, relatable. I grew up in strict Christian religion and same thing. Makes girls/women very vulnerable. Took me some time to figure out what I want and when.
I’m still figuring it out.
I have 3 daughters and I also would loose my mind if any of them came home with a mormon. No one needs to be treated like mormon men treat women especially your dog.
Agreed. No Mormon is going to have my children or grandchildren. I left and took my descendants with me!!
😅 thats so much you just said but I got caught up on you humorously scolding the lawyer for not knowing difference between snakes skin and cheveron
I laughed so hard when she kind of huffed and went "it's CHEVRON".
@@ClaireGreen-wd2gm lol well…snake skin had a different vibe than an chevron stripe. I wasn’t trying to be snake skinny😂
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I can relate. I definitely had some similar things happen to me on dates, like you described. I was fighting off their unwanted advances!! I didn’t have that experience with ALL LDS guys, but it happened enough times to give me pause.
I also asked myself later why I got into a vehicle with men I barely knew. Why didn't I just agree to meet them somewhere for the date... at least until I knew them better and felt like I could trust them? Seems like that's a better idea & would possibly help protect against date rapes. It's what I am going to encourage my daughters to do. Why are we so trusting? I feel we shouldn't be.
I did sometimes feel treated better by non-LDS men.
Good for you for reporting the lawyer. That is super creepy, unprofessional & such a turnoff frankly! I had an older LDS supervisor (owner of the company) in Mesa, AZ (he was married & it was circa 1995). He sexually harassed me as a 26 year old. He was in his 50s. I later found out it happened to multiple young women who worked there, most of us were LDS. He was a convert who preyed on younger single women. It's my theory that he must have joined the church (at least, partly) so he could have greater access to young, naive women like myself.
Girl!!! Good for you, complaining to the bar! ❤
Nightmare fuel... I'm so thankful that I didn't grow up in a high-control group
@@jinaolen786 you’re lucky!
I've said this exact thing before. The lack of teaching appropriate boundaries leads to inappropriate behavior. Since they've already crossed the line set by the religion, they don't know where the actual line is.
Wow that’s so crazy that happened. I’m so sorry. Literally I had the exact opposite experience. When I went out with nonmembers of the church I had only a first date because of this type of harassment. Then switched back to members of the church and had zero problems getting harassment or attacked. Hope you meet a great guy because you are amazing.
Because she thinks she can speak generally about every "Mormon". I understand why she's upset, but her bitterness has gotten the best of her. She prefers to just slander everyone. Meanwhile there are plenty who leave the church and can figure out that many of the bad experiences they had were also about their own family or are not a problem with every person in the church.
I had an LDS boyfriend, and we were sexually active. Very much. the garments were funny though
Funny. My Mormon narc ex husband (who is married) did this to a mutual friend of ours. She reached out and told me about it.
@@H.Michele oh wow! They aren’t ever taught self control.
In my view, if you are so bored with your marriage that you are constantly searching for opportunities to cheat on your wife, I don't want to hear any comment from you on the sanctity of marriage. I also tend to hold the view that those who are the most pious in public have the most sexually deviant private lives. Kudos to you for having the endurance to endure all of the stories that you described here.
And people think pretty women have it easy.
"Like every Mormon"....stop it. I'm sorry about your experience. I believe it. It's not good. And there are cultural problems and not all of them does the church get excused from culpability of. However, your parents are the main problem if you didn't learn about human sexuality and respect. It was a very important topic in my LDS home growing up because it was important in the home of my grandparents as well. Do not speak for all of us.
With that said, good on you for exposing that married man. So much respect for that.
Wow
There's another ex-mormon youtuber who claims mormons actually respect chastity vows, but I see it's not true... as I suspected
Unfortunately that study about Utah being the highest consumer of online corn is old & not very sturdy. Other studies have shown usage is definitely above average in usage, but isn’t the highest. It sure would be great to have another current more rigorous study published. Other studies have shown Idaho’s usage being very low, way below average & that don’t seem right either.
All so awful on every level
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What did you do to your face hon?
Please don’t ruin your beautiful face.
@@ellaenchanting2122 do to me face??? Super offensive questions. I haven’t ever “done” anything to my face. It’s just my face.
She’s gorgeous… you’re so jealous
Have you heard her story, she does not have time or money to do anything to her face.
Ella, that’s incredibly rude. You should apologize.
Ikr 😂😂 and yet she claims it’s not done. Gurl.. we are not blind😅
You know , you act like you don't bear any responsibility for not telling them to stop either... Yet you're so abhorred with their behavior But you're letting it happen as well
What even is this comment. I told ALL of them to stop, told their wives, in a few cases reported stalking to police, and filed a complaint with the state bar. Victim shaming is NOT allowed on my page.
@@lifetaketwo7662 you contuine to kiss this guy at the concert and can't leave or do not leave? You act like it's rape but your still there, he even let's another guy take a picture of you both making out and you can't leave at the time? Not buying it!
Oh my word, you’re so clueless. It’s as if you’re like the guys she is talking about who are disrespectful and don’t listen…
I had a high view of men, as I had excellent men in my family. When I lost my husband and dad in the same year, I found that all the other men I’ve interacted with are pretty much pigs like she said.
Again, I had a very high view of men. Was NOT a man hater. You have proven where you fall sir.
Jacob, Mormon men don't take no for a final answer, but if you bite their penis hard enough, they seem to understand that. Should women bite off penises when we are sexually assaulted because the human jaw has enough torque to crush and sever the human penis. I like science 😊
@@jacoblewis2961 I see you are the kind of man who licks cupcakes and blames the cupcakes.