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He’s adorable 🥰

i saw you on cults to consciousness! could you collab with alyssa grenfell? <3

Where would the country be that you are going to?

I love your channel and it's content. May I ask if you can please speak a little slower. I had to slow down the speed in order to understand you and it didn't sound quite normal. That being said, I was not a Mormon trad wife, but a high school graduate left with two small boys 4 & 2.5) to raise alone until they got big enough that he enjoyed their company as teens. Fortunately, I knew how to type and take shorthand from high school, which saved our lives. I worked three jobs one year and always worked two until I met and married my present husband who stepped up and did what the father of my kids failed to do. I sympathize! I am now 75 years old and look back with pride at the way my sons turned out. Go back to school, even if only one course a semester, but this time take something that will help you. Try law school again! You can do it!!😊

Looks so good!!

OMG OMG I can't believe your sons are still in the cult! That's even sadder than whatever the in laws could say to you

Why are you in the hospital? 🥺 Hope you're ok.

The ballerina needs an anti-perspirant! Ewww sweaty pits.

You nailed the voice!

Haha Love it!

You’re a feminist. Yes we know. Turn to God

Financial investors have reported that the church is sitting on upwards of $100 billion in stock holdings. What would the Jesus as portrayed in the bible do with that? He would cash it in and give it to the poor. It's a massive business with tax exemption status.

😂❤ It's a tough job, but someone has to do it! You must be a Mormon.😂😂😂

Пожалуйста, сделайте видео о разделе имущества. Почему не работает "закон", все что в браке вы имеете - все делится пополам. Разве не так? Да, мужья скрывают доходы. Но даже дом в котором вы жили, нельзя было разделить между вами?

Hats off to you mama for building your life with your kids again from zero. I can’t imagine the struggle. You’re doing an amazing job. ❤

Imagine doing a video titled “Why are Jews so rich.” But I guess you assume it’s ok because you are a former member? And no one cares about disparaging Mormons,am I right? That being said, I think your analysis wasn’t too shabby. Utah, and many members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, have become incredibly wealthy in a few generations due to hard work, sacrifice, networking, and good money management. I think you missed mentioning low crime rates, lower divorce rates, less lawsuits, better health due to our health code, and more trust of others, which all contributes to lower costs overall. Since moving from Utah I pay a lot more in insurance and theft prevention. Was this just an informational video or are you insinuating something nefarious because many Latter-day Saints have become wealthy? I do think that money can corrupt and if you do become wealthy you have a duty to be very generous with your money, but are you a bad person if you become wealthy? Should you refuse to accept pay? Should a Latter-day Saint feel guilty because they were raised in a good home and taught a good work ethic, went to school, worked hard, stayed out of debt, married, stayed married, didn’t turn to substance use, became a valuable employee, and was compensated well for it?

It seems like a lot of people that throw shade on her and her way of life are very jealous of her. She is naturally gorgeous, happily married and a loving mom.

I can relate. Same thing happened to me after 13 years of marriage. I even have a degree, but after 13 years of not working because I was raising my children, nobody wants to hire me. Society places no value on raising children to be healthy, law-abiding citizens who add a net benefit to the economy. Very sad.

I can so relate to your story. I tried to go back to church after my divorce but I definitely felt the cold shoulder treatment .

THIS

But working women are more likely to be divorced.........

I could see this a mile away. That interview they did, it was clear that she wanted to pretend she was something she's not. Also I can feel the negative energy in her, that she's not actually nice at all.

I don't know why, can't put my finger on it...this brings to mind the KC Chiefs kickers commencement speach. I hope his wife sees this.

If somebody considers to become a tradwife, remember that deep in heart, the man does not for a second consider that he is really obligated to be with you for the rest of his life. No matter what he says he believes.

As a relatively feminine woman, I cannot fathom having someone take care of me unless I am disabled. I'm too independent. I also cannot "grasp" not paying my way when on a date, nor not having semi/regular sex if long-term partnered. Perhaps all of those characteristics explain why I've always gotten along better w/men than women.

"My husband & I" not "Me & my husband"

"My man would never--" Stop. You may well be married to a good man who would never cheat on you. Just remember, every woman who ever had her man leave thought the same thing. We all need to be aware that there is always a possibility that you will end up alone, either through divorce or even death! Horrible things happen suddenly every day, and you should always have a backup plan. PERIOD.

Been working since I was 14

I need that t-shirt. When's the merch coming out. You need to trademark that slogan ASAP.

I believe your story because I can see the pain in your eyes. I experienced something similar. I don't think God ever wanted this for you. Although I understand you don't believe anymore, when I watched a video of how diligently you use to pray to help His children, in a way I think you are by speaking out against religious abuse and coercion, and what men are really capable of no matter how wholesome they appear and how much they say Jesus.

Well said! True followers of Jesus are known by their fruits.

I'm a stay-home wife and mom partly because of my very serious social struggles due to autism. I'm tremendously grateful that my husband provides for me. This allows me to always be in my comfort zone. If I had to be in the work force on a daily basis, it would be extremely difficult for me. I do have to trust day by day, of course, that my husband is remaining good and faithful. So far, he has. If he ever left me and I had to enter the workforce, I would still be grateful for the years that I've spent at home.

You're such an inspiration. I'm an inactive member, only because I am too afraid to have my name removed from the membership records. Your story is so powerful and I draw strength from your videos.

Never heard of The Ballerina Farm.

Agreed! Women, please have a job!!!!! It's important for your future and the future of any kids you have.

With the religious climate in the USA there should be a safety net from our government for displaced homemakers. Our religions tell us to get married.

Yes! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

So many women think “it will never happen to me. I chose well.” Forgetting about death, disability and betrayal. Betrayal is by the person you’d never suspect. Be smart.

Ah yes. Being a trad wife is the only job in the world where you are looked down upon for having prior experience. A man is NOT a plan! It might be fun to let him take the lead in the early years of marriage, but he will trade you in for a newer model after 10 to 20 years. It is just not worth it. Get a job ladies! Protect yourself from men!

Your spousal support will stretch you further when you already have a job. Plus it is easier to work part time and ask for extre hours than to start from scratch.

Thank you for warning other women. I just want to point out that even if you marry someone who would truly never abandon you, accident and illnesses can happen, and this can leave anyone unable to have a paid job. So please, get a paid job not only because your partner can abandon you, but also because unfortunately your partner can become too sick or disabled to work.

Ok and can we take a moment to realize she is exactly what these redpill guys are saying is a high-value, feminine women who they are supposedlysaving their good traits for while thwy run through "low-value" women?? Shes White, blonde, long shiny hair, beautiful, sweet, smart, was a young, loyal, agreeable, trusting home-making mother. But he still shamelessly cheated on her, disrespected her, put her life in danger multiple times and even discarded his own kids along with her to punish her for doing zero wrong. If it happened to her it can and will happen to anyone else, these guys are out here lying about who they will be good to

Any thoughts on me starting an OF? I feel like its better than povery but comes with social threats. Thanks

My Gradma was saying: men will not respect you if you are SAHM. I became 4B before it was trendy and it worked for me. As for married women I keep saying: never, ever under no circumstances leave a workforce to be with kids. All this crap about bonding is a crap to turn women into unpaid servant to be replaced once men is bored. Find a good day care or talk to friend who is at home with kids and pay her to taking care of own one. She will get a money and business experience. Never ever leave a workforce. Traditional men never respect wives who stay at home. The more money and assets we have the more respected we are. World has always been like that.

It's really a shame that social media is glamorizing just having a man as your plan. I thought having our own money as women was just common sense but apparently that's "masculine" now. HUH?

💯 Terry Martin Hekker was a former tradwife dumped by her judge husband on her 40th wedding anniversary. Ladies, do you want to be in your sixties (when most people retire) and have to job search (when most won't hire you after 50) with no job skills and nothing for social security/medicare/retirement?! and does anyone remember the case where another older woman had to resort to burying her husband in the deep freezer and not reporting his death (keeping it a secret) so she could receive his veterans benefits checks? I wonder if his wife was a tradwife her whole life with no work history-it's very likely. They received no social security money.

A man is not a plan, ever 💯

Yet everyone is SO smug and thinks it can never happen to them as if they can predict what will happen in 10 years…

As an unpaid domestic servant, there was no safety net. Thank you for the warning!

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