Women with Strong Desires
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A big Issue facing Muslim men leads women to feminism is *BIDA!* It divides umma, & sufi batinis hide evidence & hence teach ext. taqlid, they justify with imam extremism leading to shirk & grave worship (Q 9 :31). Tawhid ties to safety (Q24:55) It leads to colonies, division & girls targeted by fatwas divide further, haram, society reunites after the bida on secularism, when they should of been united on Sunnah which would bring justice and optimization - so how do we not reject Bid'a for Sunnah? Sadly alot of imams don't teach Islam correctly to manipulate Muslims to get quick donations off of them just like those who pray to graves and ask for haram grave treasure buildings when sunnah is to lower the graves.
The 4 mathhabs many (Batini Sufi) imams use to push bid'a, they themselves said refer our statements to Quran and Sunnah!
Clear Sunni unity over blind bida'a division to beat liberalism on inside and colonies on the other side.
1) Abu Hanifah : "It is prohibited (23) for someone who does not know my evidence to give verdicts (24) on the basis of my words."
2) Imam Malik : look into my opinions: all that agrees with the Book & Sunna, accept it; and all that does not agree with the Book and the Sunnah, ignore it."
3) Imam Shafi : "Muslims are unanimously agreed if a sunna is made clear to someone, it is not permitted (33) for him to leave it for the saying of anyone."
4) Imam Ahmad : "The opinion of Awzaa'i, Maalik, of Abu Haneefah: all of it is equal in my eyes. However, the proof is in the narrations (in the sunnah)."
This is from the beautiful work of Sheikh Albani's Prophet prayer...
**When we say Muhammadur Rasulalah it means our isnad ends with Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him whenever able!**
The best interpretors of the Quran and Sunnah are the Sahabas, see Quran 9 :100!
sadly bros raised by feminists who say get a job/ degrees etc. with xina all over, finance is good but there are college couples whose parents help get married & chaste when studying, education is stretched post industrial revolt for saturated economy. feminism switches farm to c. bank debt slavery via timeline and admission - sadly some parent may be bad communicators and be shallow and jus follow non thinking cultural Islam and project that on their kids. Some women don't even
of course with all the xina the ummah shoudl do young nika, its sunna... we need to marry for deen and know other couples do then there kids can intermarry... yes learn red flags but learn green ones too...
especially feminists mothers, they aren't just selfish wives but selfish mothers that are single and treat sons like surrogates and they prevent good sons from marrying the women in soceity, Some women don't let younger sons marry before older sons who don't practice for image, shallow... Nisa aren't to lead, they internal and personal they are domestic detail oriented for a leader. Womb-man - the womb makes them insecure and go into fight or flight earlier, and generalize and making decisions with less info isn't good, ti can show their state of mind, and that same womb makes them detail oriented and like whats families
another thing, women need to talk about women on women selfishness to with regards to men...
having high desire and having many kids is healthy in a family and sunnah, May Allah guide the ignorant sufis who seaprate the ummah!
Continue being real and tackling these issues. I deal with the youth and I tell the parents the same thing. Maa shaa Allah…I can share these videos with them. May Allah reward you with good in both worlds, Aameen.
How
Much is counseling session with u br Romani? Thank you very much
People need to get married younger nowadays
of course with all the xina... we need to marry for deen and know otehr couples do then there kids can intermarry...
Sisters’ feelings, wants and desires are constantly invalidated and it’s so sad!
I used to be so happy and glad when I’d hear someone validate and acknowledge that women have desires!
Getting told you are too young to get married is so frustrating when you are in your 20’s. It’s not just physical desires, it’s also craving emotional intimacy with a man especially when you are a Muslimah that doesn’t talk romantically with non-mahram men, don’t have haraam relations etc!
When I said I wanted to get married, I got such an overly dramatic reaction and was told that I have taken off my dress of haya, aka I’ve lost haya and have no haya! So no wonder me and other sisters act as if we don’t care about marriage, we not interested etc, but on the inside, we do care and are dying to get married! It personally made me feel kind of shameful and embarrassed, I don’t even want to talk about marriage so not to seem desperate or needy or allude to having desires!
We sisters have to fight so much to prevent this from giving us trauma and causing problems in our future marriages because of the shame we are made to feel.
I am sorry of what you get trough
Real muslim will understand you. But keep hiding isn't solution. If anyone want to fulfill their desires in Halal way it should not be wrong.
Everything is a difficulty because of the nature of this Dunia. Even when you want halal stuff, you will face difficulty. This is the wisdom of ALlah in the Dunia. Will you be patient or not..? Make plans and do them. More easy for us boys, but if you can outsmart your family, it can be done easily
Don't worry I know women have desires personally don't feel. Bad you are a women it's normal for a women to want and having sexual desires for a man I am saying this has your brother out of respect because I am a man too!!!! I understand women also have sexual desires but people use to tell me that women don't have those sexual instincts like man but I am 100%sure you ladis have 90 times more sexual desires than us
Perhaps we should "invent"another type of marriage somehow different then the "classical" one.A marriage just for fulfilling desires .Meeting in weekends while in the rest of time everyone with his life.Of course having children is out of discussion in this sort of marriage.
As a sister, I truly appreciate this episode. Nothin but love for this. JazakAllahu khayran Brother Gabriel!
Wa iyakum.
We need more women standing up for us Muslim men taking the lead against tyrant feminists who came only to switch women from farm to debt slavery and destroy the family.
astagfirullah , we put unislamic cultural practises over Quran and Sunnah
One of my son is 20 and i tell him about mariage because i want to protect him from zina.
Young peaple listen when i tell the mariage is first for young peaple.
May Allah swt guide the ouma teenagers.
But most women dont want 20 year olds because most 20 year olds cannot provide though.
@@93boxing81 some couples go to college together and their parents know, those women better be chaste then for an older brother, or why not follow model above? Some degrees make more money then others, brothers need to review halal money making as well! If they ahve a good transcript they can show to the wali, the hadith says if a man with good din and character comes...
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 it can work but there are risks. No matter how much a woman says she will accept a brother while hr is not that financially well off (because most young brothers are not the best financially yet).
When he cannot provide things that an older man can provide then she may start to get resentful towards him.
It has happened I have seen it. This is why I do not recommend that. Men should think and work hard on developing themselves before the age of 10 so they are financially well off before they are in their mid/late 20s. This is so they can get married.
Let me tell you. When I first wanted to marry I approached my parents at 21 because I wanted to marry a guy. My parents responded as if it was a dirty word. Eventually i had to wait until i was 25 to get married. Marriage is a sacred union of 2 people not just about wanting sex. Women are designed to have babies of course they have the desire for intimacy but marriage is more than that. Companionship, support, love , these are all reasons why people marry but in our culture you mention marriage and the first thing that comes to the parents mind is "sex" . Why? Do you lower it to that level when you were young once yourself. In fact they married even younger than we do today.
Why would anyone shame anyone EVEN if they just want to marry for sex.. sex is literally a need. I will never do that to my kids inshallah
Girls have an innate wish to make a home,nurture,raise and give love,have you ever noticed a girl child when she plays? she acts like a mum,makes the doll her kid, cooks in her small kitchen!! Yet when she grows up, that innocent dream of her is pushed aside by the parents and the society.
and sadly many feminist single mothers treat sons like a sorrogate , and prevent their marraige and objectify them which hurts the daughters of next generation.
Farzana, May Allah bless you...
Not every woman can havr kids and stop pushing little girls into the mother tin can so they can t have a child hood. My female ypumget cousin aleays hits her dolls
@TheReal Deal who is pushing feminism all I said that not all women can have children
@TheReal Deal thanks, and even then many sahabiyat were nurses and child carers even for kids other then there own, them not being able to have kids doesn't mean they aren't apart of our team!
💯💯💯 brother please come to the subcontinent and explain this to the society here.
Another to the point video, thanks again
pls make a video on how muslims are getting ridiculed by other muslims (usally family or friends) for wanting a religous spouse
Build up your self esteem and tawakul in Allah. Its hard but if you only care about what Allah thinks then the people cant affect you
💯💯💯
I second you in every single word that you've said.
It's so relatable.
May Allah help us all and guide our walis.
One of the best videos ever ever
May Allah reward you with the best reward in this dunya and in the akhirah, brother Gabriel. And may Allah help you in opening the eyes of muslims regarding these important issues.
You are right thank you for telling the way it is I hope the parents understand and support there children
Ameen
I’m 30 and just because I don’t at all look my age my brothers have literally told me “your still young, focus on your career” funny thing is one of them got married 2years back in private and no one knows about it, not even his friends.
I literally have to look for someone on my own.
Doesn't matter what you look. Your fertility won't care about you looking young at 30
@@absolutelynobody3837 stop talking crap. Women can have babies easily up to 40 years. I see it everywhere around me.
@@alghurraba Nah once a woman gets around 30 her fertility declines significantly, just because you see women having babies at 40, doesn't mean it's the norm, it' an exception, older women find it very hard to have kids and that's a scientific fact.
@@alghurraba Just because Ibrahim (peace be upon him) and his wife had babies at old age, or because you saw a few in your locality, doesn't get rid of science overnight.
Sister. Yes please. May Allah help you in finding a righteous zawj.
💯 correct also when these type of community says u can't have desire for the opposite sex .. they then think its okay to be gay/ lesbian .. ie show desire to same gender .. hope I put it in the right content
You are correct!
Amazing my brother❤
In my home country if you are not married in your teens as a woman people look at you like there is something wrong. However my people who live in the west have abandoned this and now want the girls to get educated and work more than get married. It’s crazy how the culture you live in can change your previously held customs and norms.
it's not just your culture, but many cultures had these systems in place to make sure women got married early. It's only in the west where women delay marriage. However, these women are also having to pay a price for such decisions and this is something psychologists like Jordan Peterson speak up about because the women are becoming depressed at the lack of being able to settle down as they get older.
Yeah I notice this in the western Muslim society. What is the name of your country by the way?
And even if we do say we want to get married and voice our standards that we value in a husband, it is very often dismissed. For example, I tell my mother I do not want a lazy man with a belly who does not care about his hygiene or physique, because I myself do take care of my health and physique. I am ridiculed and told I am being silly, because why would a woman care what a man looks like? However, when they say a man has to be pure Bedouin Arab and from a certain tribe (not the bad ones, because some 1500 years ago, they didn't act according to some customs 🙄) and share our nationality, I am supposed to respect that, even though I do not value that at all. Moreover, they almost never mention piety and deen. It's always family name, nationality, money, etc... Nothing that is valuable to me.
I live in a country where there are barely 1,000 men eligible according to my parent's standards. I am never getting married at this point.
@htk If a man is religious with good personality and is able to serve his family, taking care of himself it’s Enough. Don’t look too much specifically to dark,tall mascular guys with attractive face and a six pack. Remember even yourself at 30s your beaut will start to decline very significantly.
@@idrisaabdillahibpxkijykbs4162 I am not even expecting a male model bodybuilder type to begin with. A man that is decent looking who takes care of himself is enough for me. خير الأمور أوسطها. I'm sure everyone is well aware that after a certain age, your appearance decline, but taking care of oneself doesn't. That should always be a constant.
Yes, of course. Deen is the most important aspect to me. I won't look at a man that is not religious.
@@l.b.101 even if you take care of yourself it must disappear,I know everyone knows this but it’s a reminder as most of women are entitled and think their looks is everything. I respect you being honest on looks (belly) the thing wich majority of women hide and acting decent by mentioning only personality and deen matters. I know those characteristics you mentioned are the ones you really want you spouse to have خير الامور اوسطهاbut for other dishonest women go for height,six packs, attractiveness, mascular guys ,ect.
@@idrisaabdillahibpxkijykbs4162 people have preferences like some people like black some like white. Islam doesn't stop preferences. She's not telling someone like superman. She's telling just basic healthy and active guy. Is it too much? I myself have belly and my focus should be to reduce belly not finding excuses to be lazy. But I do agree most women have higher expectations because they are strong and independent than before decades so their expectations gone higher. Specially if she's 18 to 26 but once she get 30 her expectations will start to go down since her market value goes down. Women are the one setting the rules for this game even we like or not so a smart man will understand the rules and champion the game without complaining. Whatever we have to give priority to our deen.
@@muhammadmafaz8530 That’s exactly what I was talking about
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A very good point tbh, we have some really bad practices in our culture, women want it too
People do not know how to correct their parents when they are giving bad/unislamic advice regarding marriage and other topics in general. We need to be firm but respectful, ask them why they think it is shameful. Some are too scared to even open a discussion with their parents, sometimes it's a communication problem when the parents have been brought up 'back home' and the kids in the west.
good points and another thing is to be not wait last minute either and show some responsibility ahead of time but nto too ahead, sadly non Islamic parents also do bad plotting.
The problem is it’s hard to talk they are used to their way or opinion and you cannot even say something because they think it’s talking back even if you are respectful but because they are the parents we have to shut up and listen
At this point I just want to hug someone and so I want to in fact get married so I can do it in a halal way. I mean Corona. And my fam members Don hug me cuz it's too awkward. My frnds send me virtual hugs and we never meet up. I just want companioship and a 3 month long hug with someone who has my entire heart. So it can't be a mere frnd. Allah knows what I want. But i also wanna finish my degree. And the partner has to meet my standards in Deen and other matters.
You can do nikah with someone and once you complete your degree you both can start live together . Till you complete your degree he'll get chance to develop himself.
@@muhammadmafaz8530 I can't tell my parents that. They'll think me bad
@@skywa7183 That's the issue this Video talks about...
@@DawahforMuslims yea I know. And I'm not capable of changing it cuz I'm not brave enough to speak about it openly.
@The Alpha ameen ya rabb
True say brother some parents are selfish
especially feminists mothers, they aren't just selfish wives but selfish mothers that are single and treat sons like surrogates and they prevent good sons from marrying the women in soceity, Nisa aren't to lead, they internal and personal they are domestice detail oriented for a leader.
Same here as man
Can Brother Gabriel create a match making group/ site etc?
The majority of brothers here between 25 and 38 are not married. They don't know how because their families are not muslim or practicing.
Some brothers are really stuck they dont want to find a spouse through haram.
The quran was written in 7th century Arabic. However, the Quran states that it is, certainly, also present in the books of the previous. So, the Quran is the meaning and it is not confined to one language. The purpose is to understand and it can be in any language including anyone's mother tongue.
Al hayat” (life), 145 times; “al mawt” (death), 145 times“al-dunya” (mundane life), 115 times; “al akhira” (the afterlife), 115 times“malaika” (angels), 88 times; “shayatin” (demons), 88 times“ar rajul (man), 24 times; “al mar’a (woman), 24 times“as salihat (good deeds), 167 times; “as sayya’at” (wrong doings), 167 times“qul” (say), 332 times; “qalu” (said), 332 times“an nas” (people), 50 times; “an nabiya” (prophets), 50 times“al muslimat” (Muslim women), 41 times; “al muslimin” (Muslim men), 41 times"yawma-izhin" (That day), 70 times; "qiyama" (Judgment day), 70 times"dunya" (near), 115 times; "akhira" (far), 115 times"shitaa" (winter), 1 time; "sayf" (summer), 1 time"Isa" (Yahushua), 25 times; "Adam", 25 times
Iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times and seek refuge from iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times.
Belief and disbelief 17 times
Clay and sperm 112 times (how ALLAH says he made us)
Charity and blessings same amount of times
The words "Sea" and "Land" are used 32 and 13 times respectively in the Quran. 32 plus 13 equals 45, and the two words make up 71.1 and 28.9 percent respectively of those 45. These percentages roughly correspond to what we today know the proportion of the Earth's surface made up of water and land to be."Human being" is used 65 times: the sum of the number of references to the stages of man's creation is the same:
al-Fatihah in itself has 7 verses, 3.5 dedicated towards our praise of the Omnipotent, and the next 3.5 dedicated towards our prayers to the Omnipotent.The words “salawat” (prayers) and "aqimis-salah" (establish prayer) are mentioned 5 times in the Quran, the same as the number of mandatory daily prayers.The word "alwan" (colors) is written 7 times, the same as the number of colors of the rainbow.The words "samawat" + "sab" (heavens + seven) are written together 7 times, the same as the number of heavens described in the Quran.There are 365 days in a year. The word "yawm" (day in singular) is written exactly 365 times.
Muslims circumambulate around the Qibla, seven times during pilgrimage. The word ‘Qibla’ is used in the whole Quran exactly seven times: 2:142:8, 2:143:15, 2:144:8, 2:145:10, 2:145:14, 2:145:18, and 10:87:12"
Isnt Nikah smt we should do? Wont the Prophet ﷺ be proud about our number in yawma AlQiyamah? Do they think that we ll stay our whole life without marriage? Are they dumb? I say that most of the problem is from tzem, and i dont care if i get heat for this, but they dont have tarbiyah nor knowledge
Your video has a high tone (like an old television that stays on). I've checked and no, it's not my phone/headset. It's the video.
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@@marcelolb1221 Stem voor mij.
@@ColonelFluffles maar de verkiezingen zijn allang voorbij broer
@@marcelolb1221 tfoe man. Volgende verkiezinge dan
Als ik op je stem, stuur je alle Marokkanen terug naar Istanbul? Zo ja, wanneer kan ik op je stemmen
Maybe scholars should come up with a solution.I don t know how,probably they should teach is schools or be more vocal about it .Muslim society should be more free regarding sex marriage divorce remariage etc just like in the time of sahaba when people did this things without any drama about it.
Make polygamy also the norm
Can u do a
Live with br Mahdi Tdijani❤? Thanks Salams
sadly some bros raised by feminists who say get a job and do degrees etc. with xina all over, yes finance is good but there are college couples whose parents help them get married & chaste when studying, education is spread post industrial revolt for saturated economy & feminism is after banks to switch farm to debt slavery... - sadly some parent may be bad communicators and be shallow and jus follow non thinking cultural Islam and project that on their kids.
I wonder what cultures these are? in my culture the parents always ask when we get married..
Yea in my culture too parents love marrying their daughters off early, sons not so much so. But it's changing, like it is in my family
Most girls r made to think they need to finsh their masters before marriage
Asian cultures mostly
Some or many Arab cultures..
some colonial cultures just want to make money at times.
Mashallah you are lucky
20s 🤣🤣🤣🤣 nah nah nah....as young as 11....The first time I personally felt attraction to a boy was when I was 11 ...Fortunately nothing wrong happened that young but this is 2021 and that was 2002-3-4 ....Now worse than ever....
May Allah protect you❤
I mean didnt think that women dont have desires but less than men. I saw videos on why the opposite genders cant be friends. The women said they can be but the men, the opposite. Also i studied that the libido is determined by testosterone and women have that less than man. That could only mean that women have less desires.
I guess its more about emotional intimacy to them
@@buzznotaracist3755 I second that. It's emotional intimacy, yes. I was searching for a good word to put my feelings in
Generally less is not is not like having no desire at all. Let me tell you this, women do indeed desire *physical* intimacy just as much as men, and if done right she's just as hungry as the man
Lie not true they have more desires than us
@@rayyanbhai864 I honestly don't think that's true. Cuz, brothels.
Ofcourse talk about the struggles of men,why would this community ever.
Just the ignorance among this old people, they think they know Islam, but they dont listen to all hadith, they don't care about getting to know, they think they have experience in life and know everything they need but they actually dont
They are better than us
No they are not better than anyone that is arrogance if they they are good they will accept the hadiths
@@Mark-go7qm I m talking about those parents who think bc they went to the Masjid when they were young that they know everything, but actually in the end they do things like this to the children, i would love to know why this is. Is it due to ignorance? Or are they just arrogant and cultural.
@@rayyanbhai864 lol. Then why do prophet said, his ummah will lose Auliyah as time progress ? Coming generation will be less with auliyahs compared to us. As we don't have auliyas like previous generation
@@aymanus04 may be, we should look into ourselves
hahaha...some men think women dont have desires????hahahahaha...tis is hilarious...
They have but it's nowhere near as bad
😶i dont know what to say, why dont they get it, I am from Western world, dont they get this
انه الفراغ، الفراغ و مشاهدة الافلام طوال الوقت يقود الانسان الى ما لا يحمدد عقباه.لذلك فان العمل و القراءة و التمارين الرياضية....يشغل الانسان عن التفكير في اشياء لم يحن وقتها بعد
I taught in the past that women did not have desires.
Untrue.
Ye me too I thought that way
That’s just because you don’t see it much in action in Muslim cultures, in the West with open hypergamy it’s a completely different ballgame. At the end of the day, women have desires and that’s ok, they have a right to Nikah just as much as we do
assalamaualaikum i dont understand why parents have an issue if their children want to get married. I have 6 kids 4 daughters 2 boys mashallah ,. I wanted my daughters to marry very young. they refused because it was coming from us the parents, but Allah made them marry young. So i dont understand parents these days have issues
Where are these weirdo parents from? My parents got my older sisters married pretty young (18 and 22)
My dotorr must bicom Docter! Habibi
@@blueflame3531 🤣🤣 oh i see habibi hahaha
@@blueflame3531 a lot of girls that go uni end up not marrying till their late 20s and 30s, i know this first hand
@@iimiboy Yeah. It's also hard to get married to them. A top job requires alot of overhours and stress.
@@blueflame3531 agree also women want guys that aint gonna want them long term and get used, generally a woman should be better looking than her husband but these average girls want rich good-looking tall guys that want women to be beautiful models and those women want an Arabian prince 😂 its a vicious circle
another thing, women need to talk about women on women selfishness to with regards to men...
marriage is half the din oh ignorant fake sufi imams who demote marriage to use men for just donations.
Jzkl
hahahaha
One thing to bro Gabriel, stop this 'some cultures do this' line. Reality is your culture is American. Some people ..... Is a more inclusive, less accusatory approach and that type of approach is the Sunnah.
That minor point aside, this video smashed it
American?
@@observermanj8904 yeah he's Romanian born Canadian
More than men trust me
Lol no one trusts such extreme myths
@@absolutelynobody3837 clearly your not a woman or just don't know, give a women a good body shaking orgasm and see how they ask you for more everyday, multiple times a day
@@iimiboy calm down s imp.
@@pakamatpakamat8199 in this case he may not be wrong, not all women are the same...
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 trouble is most men don't care about the women's pleasure
They have endless belly ?
They dont want to be relaxed also do the movement ?
They press aggainst wall instead.
They choke you instead of only you.
Eww!! Astaghfirullah, women dont get desires. Fear Allah, this is a bad topic astaghfirullah why talk about this?
(is what I would say if I was ignorant)
Im not gonna lie you had me in the first half lol
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@@fastng 😂😂