Muslims are raised up in conservative families where intimacy talk is taboo , when my sister experienced her first menses , she kept it a secret for three months too shy to tell our parents , she even prayed with us during her menstruation 🤣🤣🤣
I wonder how much of our views and attitudes about certain issues has been influenced by the narrative of Christian colonisers? After Catholic Europe was exposed to Islam they viewed it and us as debauched! How things have changed.
اسلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته جزاك الله خيرا Shiekh, this is super helpful. As someone in my late teens, this whole intimacy series has been really helpful at diffusing my misconceptions, teaching me the sunnah, and also giving useful practical advice for intimacy. I'll definitely rewatch this series on a regular basis, especially as it's inspired me to get married as early as possible inshā'Allāh. Again, barakallāh fīk ❤
I find it purely illogical. Does her desire not boost your drive? I dont want to sound vulgar but I know that my pleasure would only be complete with hers.
What in the world are you talking about all due respect? Don’t just demean the actual good men for this. Ur saying American man blah they tend to be worse sometimes. SubhanAllah the Ummah is like this.
Stereotypes. Thats what ruins everything. Men say it should be like this and women say it should like that. Its not how you look its about how the 2 people are connected. When men say a woman looks hot , it does not necessarily mean she is hot in bed. To develop real intimacy the couple have to know eachother, used to eachother and on the same mindset. The stereotypes and non Islamic ideas we have adopted are going against us. Example: if you are a man in his late 40's let say and have had a few marriages that didn't work out . You matured with those women and had a high level of initimacy of course you are going to be more experienced . You can't then suddenly decide your next partner is going to be a 20's virgin and expect the same level of intimacy unless you are willing to sacrifice the first few years waiting for her to catch up with youl. It doesn't work like that and anyway women mature in sexuality after childbirth not before. Thats a fact! You see men don't take the time to understand women.
Well said. I guess people know women have desires; that's where female circumcision comes in pay. I would like for you to speak on that topic. How can sex withing marriage be so promoted yet women are circumcised to lessen their desires? How does that make any sense. Too many shuyukh who also promote female circumcision because they believe the women have too many desires. Some even take the example of Western women sleeping around. I find that lacking of understandment of the culture and values. Not every Western women 'sleeps' around, most of them have 1 bedpartners, and they don't sleep with men because of horniness or whatever but because it's deemed normal (just like how it's normal to have sex with your spouse). It's also those same shuyukh who give out weird intimacy etiquettes like the women not making too much noise and always pleasuring the husband. Things like that will put off people including myself. But i know better. I
Lol you should come see colleges. People do s*x party publicly, men and women not even choosing the person they have intimacy with. They don't sleep around isn't true at all
Al Romaani yaa Al Romaani! You are talking about sex too much. Life is complicated. Lets not make this more complicated than it is. Patience & Focus on the next life which will be better
But brother most of the case women have very little desire. almost 90 present of women llis like that.. I have many married brothers they are struggling.. this is because women are most desirable in their teen age .. and then they lose desire very much after 20
clown way of thinking🤣🤣…a REAL mean would definitely want to please his wife in all ways. if he only cares about is own that that is selfish & selfishness isn’t a masculine trait, rather it is a childish trait. intimacy is the right of both the husband and wife. focus on both ofc
@@princessdaphne444 Well said. But i was focusing mostly of a man maintaining his leadership status. A lion does not prance around whether her majesty the lioness are pleased. He sends them to work. A lion only joins when he masterful touch is necessary
@tonyausten2168 We are Muslims, and we have to follow the Quran and Sunnah. In Islam, a man has to sexually satisfy his wife as a woman has to satisfy her husband. There is no place of selfishness in Islam.
A wife that like it too much can be suspicious for some brothers I understand it, cause she may love it too much and she can cheat and other stuff. I don’t say that is a reason for divorce but I can understand why some man are « scared » about it
You are putting forward crucial topics that needs to be adressed
MashAllah upon you sh. Gabriel addressing a very important topic, moving the boundaries of taboo subjects al hamdulilah
As a 17 year old women hearing that women don’t have desire is such a joke
@King Sultan just like man they want it too.
Muslims are raised up in conservative families where intimacy talk is taboo , when my sister experienced her first menses , she kept it a secret for three months too shy to tell our parents , she even prayed with us during her menstruation 🤣🤣🤣
Somehow I was excited to tell my mom the minute I got 😂😂😂 but didn't had the courage to tell later on lol
@@hamidaothman4555 Lol yes that's our parents
I wonder how much of our views and attitudes about certain issues has been influenced by the narrative of Christian colonisers? After Catholic Europe was exposed to Islam they viewed it and us as debauched! How things have changed.
How you know that if she is shy about it
honestly this is so poor on the parents part
اسلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
جزاك الله خيرا
Shiekh, this is super helpful. As someone in my late teens, this whole intimacy series has been really helpful at diffusing my misconceptions, teaching me the sunnah, and also giving useful practical advice for intimacy. I'll definitely rewatch this series on a regular basis, especially as it's inspired me to get married as early as possible inshā'Allāh.
Again, barakallāh fīk ❤
He is not Shaikh but nevermind.
@@BlessedByAlMighty Read "she comes first". Great book on intamcy and sex in marriage.
@@KS-cl8br I'm not married
@@BlessedByAlMighty I don't care. Comment was for OP.
Loool brothers divorced their wives over that. Smh
Thats just stupid. So many men would beg for a wife that’s interested in having alot of sex.
I find it purely illogical. Does her desire not boost your drive? I dont want to sound vulgar but I know that my pleasure would only be complete with hers.
It's question of éducation
Jezklahu kayren
Only a man from overseas would be this way. I’m blessed to be married to an American man.
What in the world are you talking about all due respect?
Don’t just demean the actual good men for this. Ur saying American man blah they tend to be worse sometimes.
SubhanAllah the Ummah is like this.
جزاك الله خير اخي الكريم
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Stereotypes. Thats what ruins everything. Men say it should be like this and women say it should like that. Its not how you look its about how the 2 people are connected. When men say a woman looks hot , it does not necessarily mean she is hot in bed. To develop real intimacy the couple have to know eachother, used to eachother and on the same mindset. The stereotypes and non Islamic ideas we have adopted are going against us. Example: if you are a man in his late 40's let say and have had a few marriages that didn't work out . You matured with those women and had a high level of initimacy of course you are going to be more experienced . You can't then suddenly decide your next partner is going to be a 20's virgin and expect the same level of intimacy unless you are willing to sacrifice the first few years waiting for her to catch up with youl. It doesn't work like that and anyway women mature in sexuality after childbirth not before. Thats a fact! You see men don't take the time to understand women.
Well said.
I guess people know women have desires; that's where female circumcision comes in pay. I would like for you to speak on that topic. How can sex withing marriage be so promoted yet women are circumcised to lessen their desires? How does that make any sense. Too many shuyukh who also promote female circumcision because they believe the women have too many desires. Some even take the example of Western women sleeping around. I find that lacking of understandment of the culture and values. Not every Western women 'sleeps' around, most of them have 1 bedpartners, and they don't sleep with men because of horniness or whatever but because it's deemed normal (just like how it's normal to have sex with your spouse). It's also those same shuyukh who give out weird intimacy etiquettes like the women not making too much noise and always pleasuring the husband.
Things like that will put off people including myself. But i know better. I
Lol you should come see colleges. People do s*x party publicly, men and women not even choosing the person they have intimacy with. They don't sleep around isn't true at all
@@benardio6193 Absolutely true
Yes May Allah curse all those people with hell forever - who do the forced or pressured female genital mutilation.
@@KS-cl8br Ameen
Alot of women suffer hyper sexuality from early exposure to porn and sexual assault. Which is really common.
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copy this brother a thousand times😂 mashallah
Are you a taxi driver lol most of your videos you’re driving
He’s a principal at an Islamic school in Malaysia
If I'll get these lessons I'll always call him for a ride lol
But no he's a school principal
Whatever it is
He is trying to use any period of time where he is not busy to do something useful
And that is a productive person thinking
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Al Romaani yaa Al Romaani! You are talking about sex too much. Life is complicated. Lets not make this more complicated than it is. Patience & Focus on the next life which will be better
Maybe thats the biggest problem today in the muslim society? Seems like that ...
It's always on our minds . he's just saying it
Woman make men lose desire. I'm 32 and unmarried and I just don't desire marriage nor sex anymore.
U need help my friend. Please seek it, women arent meant to put you off.
You a-sexual ?
Thats your own problem lol
But brother most of the case women have very little desire. almost 90 present of women llis like that.. I have many married brothers they are struggling.. this is because women are most desirable in their teen age .. and then they lose desire very much after 20
They probably have little desire because their husbands dont try to please them.
1st talk I heard from u where u weren't repulsive.
He has a lot of other videos where he's not lol
@@mspacey6230 Hmm. I have watched many of his videos and he seems like 95% against woman and acts like men are victims and need to control their wife.
@@KS-cl8br Looks like you're an emotionally weak person who feels like a victim and who prefers this world to akhira
A real man pleases himself, and things will take care of itself. If u focus on pleasing the woman, your erection will suffer
clown way of thinking🤣🤣…a REAL mean would definitely want to please his wife in all ways. if he only cares about is own that that is selfish & selfishness isn’t a masculine trait, rather it is a childish trait. intimacy is the right of both the husband and wife. focus on both ofc
@@princessdaphne444 Well said. But i was focusing mostly of a man maintaining his leadership status. A lion does not prance around whether her majesty the lioness are pleased. He sends them to work. A lion only joins when he masterful touch is necessary
@tonyausten2168 We are Muslims, and we have to follow the Quran and Sunnah. In Islam, a man has to sexually satisfy his wife as a woman has to satisfy her husband. There is no place of selfishness in Islam.
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A wife that like it too much can be suspicious for some brothers I understand it, cause she may love it too much and she can cheat and other stuff. I don’t say that is a reason for divorce but I can understand why some man are « scared » about it
Why will they cheat? Is desire a reason to cheat? I mean, do you know what happens to a married cheater in islam whether a man or woman??
women are not polyandrous by nature. No matter how strong they are (sexually) it is not natural for them to desire for multiple men...
Why would it make a woman cheat ? She had these desires for years and stayed a virgin, why would she cheat now that she is married ?