The Man's Weakness For the Woman - Hamza Yusuf
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I love that the purpose of the hijab for Muslim women is to put a woman's intellect, personality, and character above her sexual beauty. Because that's what society reduces her to - just a physical form or object. By the way, for anyone who didn't know, the rules of hijab in Islam cover rules for both men and women, and men are also taught to lower their gaze. Before some internet troll tries to comment.
But sister how often are Muslim women allowed to work I their intellect and such,not everyone is as priveledged ,culture is some,times stronger than religion,sometimes together they make a deadly combination...I believe in modesty and I believe promiscuity in society leads to chaos ,,....but many hijabi women are not respected even within their own homes,that is a fact.no matter how hard you try to deny it.women were not created to be respected,if they were,then they would have been respected long ago and would not have to demand it,only to get more hate am disrespect in return,God did not make us worthy of respect
@@nailanoorein2086 surely if women aren’t respected that isn’t the fault of the women, rather the faults of those who disrespect her. Can it be said that the Prophet ﷺ disrespected women? Of course not, so it shows there will always be noble men and women who treat all people well, and dishonourable men and women who treat people (more so women) poorly.
It's amazing how both genders have it's strengths and weaknesses and it's even more interesting how we're made to compliment one and other.
👑🌍💍👠💅💋❤️:This is so true! The BOOK OF PROVERBS is the BOOK OF WISDOM IN THE BIBLE people need read it💋❤️
Signs of the creator al hamdulillah
@KHABIB TIME!!! what about reading do you know what you're talking about:
sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70
sunnah.com/bukhari/67/93
sunnah.com/abudawud/12/76
sunnah.com/nasai/26/60
sunnah.com/bukhari/63/122
sunnah.com/muslim/16/82
sunnah.com/nasai/26/61
sunnah.com/muslim/16/84
sunnah.com/urn/1261940
sunnah.com/muslim/16/81
do you have an associate like this demon alla?
muhamed did
he was the creator of pagan idol alla, and the bible was his nightmare
@KHABIB TIME!!! : Excuse me ??and you don't have to respond right 😆
@KHABIB TIME!!! Oh and if you talk about out prophet peace be upon him
yes, I talk about your self-proclaimed "prophet", a sick pervert who forced married a six year old and raped her when she was only nine.
and you say you picked him as your prophet and perfect example?
please explain why you did that
and we will explain why we did not
OK?
she was a preteen and you worship a child rapist: do not deny the facts from your very own books
why do you lie about her age?
Muslim johny depp
But with Noor
Lol 😂😂😂😂😂
Hamza is more handsome
He doesnt even look like Johny Depp lol 😂😂😂
Don't be daft
Its just humour...no need to get angry
SubanAllah- My favorite part of what Shaykh Hamza Yusuf said was, "males are more aware of it" That totally makes sense... As a woman, I can only base something off of my experience, I have no idea how a man thinks/feels. May Allah swt preserve this beloved Shaykh. It actually pains my heart to see the negative comments that people so easily post without having any knowledge of this beloved Shaykh. May Allah swt strengthen and guide this ummah.
Sarah Civgin what do people say about him?
I can explain more to make you understand more. Just waiting for uploader to gv permission
Hamza Yusuf is a deviant perennialist
@@habashaman212 and a gay hiding in the closet
his high pitched voice betrays him tho
screaming like a scorned woman
Ameen
Shykh is a soul doctor..if ur heart is in disease he wud diagnose n give u cure from quran n Prophetﷺ sunnah. Only few men like him remains in this world.
May Allah subhanhutaala reward him for his efforts.
True.
Amen
This guy always talk about reality
too much that makes sense. I seriously despise listening to most of teh scholars who hardly talks any sense. The truth is Islam has been hijacked ! Humzah Yusuf is an exception!
@@jasonbourne151 ignore these type of ppl they have autism
@@worfoz U have no idea what you are talking about and are a very poor translator and/or reading very poor translators' interpretation of verses. U can't be more wrong and the scriptures you mentioned have absolutely NOTHING to do with the meaning of the verses.... I wonder what you are doing watching this video if u carry so much hatred and are projecting it into your interpretation of those verses. And not to mention, it is too clear that you are probably a Christian who is here out of curiosity and then decided to pour some bitterness into your comment. One simple sentence for you to contemplate on since you are not good with deep meanings and interpretations: "What would Jesus do?" And would he approve of what the Jews/Christians/Atheists are doing in the world to the Muslims and to eachother even sadly enough. Jesus man, even Tom Cruise who is a scientologist and filthy rich said & I quote: "I think it's appalling how we treat Muslims". Grow up mate. And interesting name though Wor-Foz. ;)
@@AbdulRahman-xn5bp Sorry Abdul Rahman, kindly delete your comments as they are reflecting badly on you and Islam. Please don't take offence in my words brother, but we don't use "autism" as a way to belittle someone. Secondly, as proper Muslims we definitely don't say "STFU". Cheers.
@@jasonbourne151 Don't you understand that your reaction is the way non-Muslims feel when those verses are read about them?
What I find disturbing and sickening deep down and I'm sure many woman agree is that men just see woman solely as an object of desire. But we hate that we are degraded to that level. I want to be desired for my inner beauty. My heart, my intellect, my personality, not just the mere looks. I don't blame men for being attracted to a women. But I blame them for not being able to use their brain enough to reason how dehumanizing it feels to be materialized.
There are plenty of men who have the brain capacity to look beyond the physical body of a woman. Not all men have this 'caveman' mentality. I'm sure respective cultures around the world have differences in the general values that men have in regards to women.
@@worfoz what is your problem man you seem to be frustrated probably because of high temperature of tropical region or maybe addiction to porn or jobless
I used to think the same way, but we shouldn't assume the worst of men, especially our brothers. Well i dunno but it's depressing to think that way... Anyways, our deen elevates us as women and protects us. Allahu 'alam.
@Iqbal Qadir You speak the truth brother. I got attacked by a woman for saying women objectify us men too.
Allah had to create this strong desire in the man so he wouldn't walk away from the responsibility of being the maintainers and protectors of women. If that desire wasn't there every religious man would turn to monasticism. Many have, famously, anyway.
I wish we men would be stronger in regards to women, that would make so many things easier and better
life is a test..
Then the human race wouldn't continue every thing Allah was for a reason.
@@minecraftfan7648 It’s one thing to feel attracted to a women and a completely other one having an obsession about women.
@@orientalboy86 Right
@@orientalboy86 I was in that hole since I was 13, now I am finally waking up after 13 years at age 26 alhamdulillah, all thanks to Allah he gave me knowledge, some brothers who showed me how important practicing is.
It is hard for me to control my urges. May Allah help me.
When I lower my gaze I feel a fire burning within me no joke. May allah give us strength.
@@afgnbliss01 I get that too. Take whudu. Try to discipline your mind. That is if you are married already. But Wat I will do is post a comment as I have two wives. One lawyer 2nd is house wife... Great cook. Lol
@@afgnbliss01 would you like me to comment further
Misree Sarguro yes please
Are you a married person, that is are you a male??
Anyways the prophet said if u look at a lady and it turns you on, then go to your wife, to protect your dignity, to protect you from from other women's gazing and...
A man tires out.., can get bored etc. So one things for sure... Both wives will know where he is and he must also understand that yes its a sexual gratification that needs fulfilling -and to give one wife or 2 chance to conceive. man is designed to get urges, it's natural NOT sinful as often females proclaim or find repulsive.
Also - consider the wrath of Allah if you don't listen to him.
To control ones urges is to do fasting.
True brother
@Black Recluse in islam we don't fast hours we fast from dawn to dusk then we break the fast try fasting 2 days a week for the light of day then eat moderate otherwise amd exercise
a true legend of islam until the end of days
Well explained, he has a great knowledge on both subject and shows his intelligence mashallah...may Allah preserve scholars like this...
Intermittent fasting can subdue the devil of lust.
What
Wait what.
@@queenbeyonce1538 Fasting helps with evil desires.
I’m doing it and it’s actually amazing
No God But ONE I would do that but I’m skinny so I don’t wanna do that
Thanks Mr. Yusuf...your lectures are gives immense peace to heart!!
He changed to deviance, to being a perennialist..
@@habashaman212 what does perennialist mean? you mean he went astray?
@@enescapkn68 are you gay too, just like this pagan yousuf?
@@habashaman212 maybe because he is convicted in his faith and found certainty in that?
Unless you mean something else, then please elaborate instead of just throwing unfinished thoughts and phrases without following up.
Peace
just ignore those who attack Shaikh Hamza Yusuf. in reality they have a problem with ahlus sunnah sunni islam. and sick in the mind that they are deviant takfeeris.
Men should always pray for Allah's blessings and help for self control. The One Who is the Creator, won't let someone at the mercy of insticts. InshAllah He will guide to towards real and everlasting beauty.
Subhanallah, realtalk
You don't understand the lecture
So true, jazak-Allah.
Very well explained nice leacture 💗💗💗
mind blown! never thought of it that way, god bless you
It's all about interpretations and perspectives at this point.
Beautiful lecture...thanks alot
mashallah what a nice explanation of difficult things
Masha Allah. Very educative
Thank You for this clip..
I love this man 😔
Same
Love this video
2nd Best Video I've seen so far ! TY
May Allah rabbul izzat give all of us jannat ul firdaus for eternity in the afterlife. Ameen
I just love shaikh hamza!!
You make perfect sense always MashaAllah may Allah s.w.t continue to bless you
JazakAllah khair
Great speech ! Sir.
SubhanAllah!
Well explained the thing women don't understand is Allah created beauty & the best form to represent that beauty was the shape of a woman. & a woman has many colours of beauty that the man is automatically attracted to: her hair, eyes, body, walk, voice, her intelligence, her modesty etc. Whichever woman Allah created has 1 or more of these qualities.
This is why hiding her beauty & worshipping Allah sincerely she will be successful in the next life.
Allah is beautiful and He loves beauty. I dont think there's a proof that women are the epitomy of beauty in creation tho. Men love women and vice versa that's all. Greeks thought women were more attractive with clothes on and men have the more attractive body.
@@Diamondraw4Real lol wow
Men are attracted to femininity. More and more women are losing that and becoming manly and dominating. Men are repulsed by that. That is what the *system* of the Hijab is supposed to prevent. Hamza Yusuf says it's a 'flaw' of men to find women's bodies attractive and seductive. In fact, that is a healthy thing, otherwise, the man has psychological/hormonal issues that is going to manifest into other areas of life including impotency. In an ideal world (in crude terms), men are supposed to be aroused at the sight of female bodies. That's what Islam aims to preserve. That's why the khimr and the system of the Hijab
You forgot the beautiful Smile.
Men and women are equally beautiful. You just say that because you're attracted to women..
Mashallah.
This Battle for Spiritual and Worldly Gain is what people of modern cultures relate to as "The Game".
While Muslim Men use their Mature Masculine Male Energies for Allah and Wordly Wealth (Inner and Outter). Hustlers, Players, Pimps, Macks (either Muslim or Non Muslim; or later converted to Islam) use their Mature Masculine Male Energies for Wordly Wealth (Inner and Outter)
Alhumdulilah, Good Game
It's simply about the concept that men feel unsure that the offspring they are nurturing (conduit of the women), men feel uncertain and need reassurance that they are investing their resources in their genes.
Just lower your gaze.
I want you
And fast too. Lowering the gaze and getting married are really advised. Marriage helps lower the gaze. Fasting helps with libido. Allahu Aalam.
@@ubermensche60 lol tf
@@Diamondraw4Real what the. Im 14 and i have these problems. I COULD GET MARRIED?
@@ubermensche60 You just proved the point. Go fast. Men need to fast more and pray more than women as congregational prayer is a must on men. Allah knows best. Allah has blessed women with natural inner strength, hayaa. Our hayaa overpowers our desires. Not to say there aren't women who may not have inner strength or lack it or it can become vulnerable, etc. We are all human at the end of the day and need to guard ourselves against the ways shaytaan may get to us. We all have to work on it regardless of our gender, or where we are because Allah has made it clear that we are in a state of loss, we are forgetful, and we were created weak. Do you not aspire to be amongst the foremost forerunners as Allah talks about in the Quran? Read surah Waqiah!
Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you so that you may be come pious. Allah mentions this in the Quran.
Fasting isn't just restraining from food and water, we all know fasting is also no sexual activity either. For those single, fasting does naturally help curb sexual desires. Maybe not right away, but if you're reading Quran, doing consistent dhikr, praying in congregation five times day as men are commanded to and going to mosque or keeping yourself busy you will keep yourself in check and builder greater strength in yourself.
There is a study online [Decreased sexual desire]
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/25923156/
More than anything we need to be engaged in fasting of the thoughts, eyes, mind. Fasting teaches us discipline.
Allah tell a servant to fast. And he tells us he Grant's patience to the one who is patient. And Grant's contentment to the one who is content with what Allah has given him. SubhanAllah.
“The Messenger of Allah said: ‘Whoever among you can afford to get married, let him do so, and whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a restraint (Wija) for him.”‘ [Sunan an-Nasa’i]
‘“(Know) that if I have any wealth, I will not withhold it from you (to keep for somebody else); And (know) that he who refrains from begging others (or doing prohibited deeds), Allah will make him contented and not in need of others; and he who remains patient, Allah will bestow patience upon him, and he who is satisfied with what he has, Allah will make him self-sufficient. And there is no blessing better and vast (you may be given) than patience.” [Sahih Al Bukhari]
Women see man's weakness for woman as power - which is really stupid.
It’s odd for us women to understand. Men rarely show weakness, but then they show it when they see you. Can you blame us for this mentality? May Allah(swt) guide us both.
@@khadijafulan8308 Yes so true. We want men to show emotions more. Very rare to see a man cry.
@@naynayonecreator8290 Trust me you don't want an emotional man. At least not imo
@@kingkatiin2658 I don't want an emotional man like a baby. Just one who knows when to be soft and cry.
@@kingkatiin2658 yeah me too. The only time your mate would cry is alone in prayer if he's feeling bad, or seeing something terrible like innocents being killed. But who wants to see them cry about things women cry about like silly movie clips. Men have to be strong and not as emotional #imo
I have come to similar conclusions based just on my own personal experiences of being a male. I used to think that women in west (I am eastern) are lusty and inviting because of the way they dressed and carried themselves in general. Then I had a chance to spend few years in one of the most sexually open countries in the world - Sweden. I observed and saw the western woman first hand. My whole understanding of womanhood changed during those years - and I ma glad that I get to experience that. The women in west may have let go of their clothing under the influence of social normalcy but I can vouch that most of them are honorable, dignified, faithful loving beings that are far from the crude judgement that I have had of them.
To men, women are those mythical amazing heavenly creatures that can confound and bedazzle their minds with just one look.
Personally, knowing myself as much as one can, I can give up world and everything there is in it - the cars, the luxuries, the house, the wealth - what I find utterly out of my control to overcome is the love of a woman. In a way, I am happy with this feeling - as long as Allah SWT keeps me in protection from falling prey to lust.
Hamid Hussein there’s harm and that is thinking you are better than other people. That’s riak and Allah hates people who are riak.
@Hamid Hussein You are mixing up two distinct things here. Do I think that Western social norms of encouraging (or even pressurizing) women to shed off their clothes is a good thing? Not at all.
But do I think western women, despite having shed off their clothes, are evil ? Nope. Far from it.
Are all women in West faithful and angelic in my opinion? Nope, wrong again. But most are - in my experience. And that is something I mentioned in my original comment.
Do I think all women who wear hijab or burqah are angelic? Of course not.
As a whole whatever becomes social norm in any society will have its influence on everyone living in that setup - positive or negative.
Gol Maal I agree with you.
it's even more difficult for me since I'm a girl myself. Whenever I get close to beautiful girls I seem to lose my senses. Your comment reminded me of an incident 4-5 years ago when I was 14 I was outside the mall waiting for my car and I saw a really hot girl....I remember starting at her for 2 seconds she was staring at me too (probably weirded out) For two days I couldn't get her out of my head. Just thinking about her gave me an electric shock. The problem is many boys find me pretty, I feel happy like I'm romantically attracted to boys but somehow thinking about sex with boys disgusts me to no end. On the other hand I'm not romantically attracted to girls but very much attracted to them sexually. I sound like a pervert😭😭 Does anyone also feel the same 😵😵 please help
@@caughtcrjfever2107feeling attraction to the same-sex is not haram but acting upon your desires is
how practical and logical this ground reality is.. and how best Allah has given us guidelines so that we could be protected. But wen one break the rules we see overall disaster as we are inter-linked in this ecosystem.
What beautiful assembly is this
This is from the 1990s
Alhamdullilah
Ma Sha Allah
Thanks
Alhamdulillah, sir you are quite right sir.
Subhanallah
jazakallahu
I have become an extremely sad and lonely person suffering from mental depression bothered by lust,no chance of marriage(due to studies) getting closer to fornication day by day 😢
Programmer May Allah help you in your struggles.
May Allah help you brother
Dua is the solution. Don't ask me what my problem is. Couldbe worse than you...
Try fasting if cannot start with water fasting, run for 10 minutes five days a week , don’t watch porn...
@@programmer4042 Lust is a problem if you allow it to be.
As a guy, getting hit by currents of lust, on thoughts of a woman is but natural. Recognise that everything is happening inside your mind. It rises in your mind, tantalises you inside your mind and what you do next is merely the manifestation of the 'thought current' inside your mind.
The way to work on lust, is not by working on the acts that lust leads us to. Those acts are merely physical ways of expressing something graver that takes place inside our heads.
Work directly on the root i.e your mind, because that is where it starts and ends.
Once you are able to gain control over your mind, forge ways to work on it each time you're hit by such thoughts and do it over and over again.
We humans are products of habits. No matter how weak we may think we are, if we practise virtues on a daily basis, we are bound to change and become stronger.
Have faith in yourself and the almighty that if you are sincere and make sincere efforts, then you will make yourself strong and worthy enough, over a period of time, to be handle yourself and your thoughts in a better manner.
Practise meditation. It helps at multiple levels, in purifying our consciousness.
All the best :)
Combination of Jared leto and Johnny dep...but a greater smarter and a muslim...
He did look somewhat hollywood
The first 3 minutes narrowed down what i want to explain to my wife's partner in zina.masha allah.!
Lev Slater yes.so actually many times before this rock bottom level now.so mentually tiresome due to being married to a narcisisst.
@@dwaynejohnson9879 muhamed was a narcissist and he is the perfect example of the muhamedans
they are predators and vampires and only care about their own needs
worfoz narcissist behavior is a disease from the shaitan.the prophet was not endowed worth that behavior whatsoever.he came with the cure.
God help you. Try to get a mediator to sort out issues.
Very true.I agree with you.A man can rise and fall because of a woman.Great men downfall:wealth,women and power.My opinion.
A man can rise and fall because of his mind not because of a woman or wealth or anything if a man is smart and use his up head and not his down head then he will not fall easy!!!
@Moneyxl00 yes women also have desires for men some womwn less some more but men usually have stronger desire for women! Allah created them like this! There are always exceptions but an average man have strog desires about women just some control it some not! But the best is the one who control humself either man or woman! And Allah knows best!
Fatima Noor Ahmad trust me men is nothing without women and women are nothing without men every successful or not man is from a mom than when he is a grown up he opens a business or something he obviously needs a companion who helps him with everything
@@fatimanoorahmad8720 you always say the right thing!!
I don't hear the questions? and is there any 'amal or zikr that can purify the heart and control the urge?
Just get married mate
For a good man a women is never weakness! It's you whos not good In you're self! Most people believe sex is love but it's not! Allah set should be your weakness not women or men!
Well obv Allah should be but then again we live in a world we here God gave us these desires…
Ecclesiastes 7:26,27 and 28
MashaAllah ... sheikh Hamza yusuf
SubhanAllah my only fitnah is women. My weakness for women is huge. I see a woman & I desire her and crave for her.
Does she have to be hot or something ? Pretty at least?
Is there anyone that has achieved a state of purity? It's not something I've heard anyone talk about but I have some theories that I hope are true and would like to hear someones first hand account of if and how it changed you internally.
Who is this speaker?? Is he Arabic orgin?? He explains so calmly with correct interpretation...
He's a white american with irish origins
Sheyk hamza yusuf
Should i pray namaz i hv lots of enemies they curse me himulate me assault me says burn into fire bring fire the enemy is huge in number. WHAT should i do i dont know ?
Yes you should. Who does that to you
Are you good now?
I think the soul of both male n female is same, i.e, without gender, difference is only they r put into male n female bodies... control exists on both the sides, the natural intensity varies.....
Best
Best explanation for phaedopilia right ?
@@eleanorahallen9762 Child rape has nothing to do with pedophilia:
sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70
sunnah.com/bukhari/67/93
sunnah.com/abudawud/12/76
sunnah.com/nasai/26/60
sunnah.com/bukhari/63/122
sunnah.com/muslim/16/82
sunnah.com/nasai/26/61
sunnah.com/muslim/16/84
sunnah.com/urn/1261940
sunnah.com/muslim/16/81
May Allah reward the sheikh ....i persobally think that When u add al-Gazalian teachings to Imam Ibn Hambal u get a perfection of light ....i prefer one quoting directly from the prophet at least three words from a hadith like ibn hambal and ibn al jawzi.....The prophet said in hijjat al widaa "May the conveyed to, understand better than the conveyer".....In surat Al-Ìmran Allah says It does not fit a prophet or a believer when Allah gives them a book or a sign to use it to take men for servitude to himself but rather to ask them to asist him in serving Allah. May Allah guide many to the straight path
He looks like Johnny depp
But the Syeikh looks cooler than Johnny Depp
@baboo mohamed Exactly. Btw is he a revert bro? I just noticed him
@@ar-rys6330 yes converted at the age of 14
Jazakumullah khair
Yeah now a days most of such teachings of Islam wold be considered sexist. crazy times.
So Allah has put that weakness in man and at the same time says that man needs to overcome it?
Yes, as this life is a test for the hereafter (The next life). And the reward if you pass this test is Jannah (Heaven), eternal life, eternal youth, eternal pleasure etc etc.
Do you think that ALLAH (GOD) is just going to hand you such a reward on the plate?
No, you have to work for it.
E.g.
If you were a owner of a business and you offered your employees a big raise at the end of each month, would you just hand that raise to them on the plate?
No, naturally, you would make them work for it.
Similarly, if you want heaven, you have to work for it, you have to follow the rules and regulations that GOD has set.
That is what a test! Is. To be tested knowing that it is your weakness and also knowing that you can overcome it!! So overcome and you’ve passed, don’t and give in to your desires and you’ve failed!!!
what a god lol
Yes, don't be lazy. Work on improving your weakness. That should be one's life mission. Overcome obstacles and weakness.
He has given not weakness, but an immense strenght, so strong others cant control. If u pour this force to lust you will be slave and drain ur energy to it and become useless irritable voilent and objectifying people needy addict to sex/lust, but if u discipline ur self and submit to god. This immense energy will be transmuted to productivity and good work and good health.
if any1 have these prob then a good idea i giving 4 him go and do married and if u married and u are a brave and good muslim u neva went to other girls.
♥️
1:45 what is the ayah no?
surah nisa v28
When it comes to desire, we also need to mention aversion. Both are part of the same coin, (coin used as metaphor). Both are reactions of the mind, and reactions lead to manifestations.
Desire means, we like, we want something, aversion means we dislike, we don't want something. Once we realise, that both desire and aversion, is just a condition of our mind, we can then through praxis, meaning Meditation, let go of this reactive part of our mind.
To me, it is ridiculous to talk about men being weaker when it comes to their desire for women, because it has nothing to do with weakness, or strength. It has to do with understanding the nature of desire and aversion, and knowing that one, as well as the other, keeps a person bound to the reactive part of the mind.
Obviously, the attraction that one sex has to the other, goes both ways, men to women, women to men, has to do with our in-built mechanism to allow for reproduction, but that has nothing to do with some extraordinary desire that men supposedly have for women. The Arab/Muslim obsession with sex, as seen from a male perspective, is completely absurd, and so outdated, it is pathetic and ridiculous. Arab/Muslim men, must realise that women have not been created to please the desire of men, and once Arab/Muslim men realise that women must have equal rights, there would be a lot less sexual obsession in their minds, because sexuality is not a prerogative that men have.
I understand why women may not understand this..
If i was women i wont too..
Its something men can feel and its really hard to articulate...
But i think its suffice to say tht the Prophet mentioned
"I leave behind no fitnah worse for the MEN of my ummah than women"
This should tell u how powerful the fitnah can be for men and their utter weakness in this regard except the one whom Allah has mercy on....
So yah i think it would be nice if some of sisters here try to atleast hv an understanding of it rather than repulse by it or shuting and shaming a men for hving the natural thought unless he acts upon thos animalistic desire which is bad
Well I am a girl and I understand it,that's just how men and women were created,and thanks for your empathy.
Johnny Depp!
I hope to marry a handsome and good guy like you
Lol nope
Looks like someone from friends
« Male species » 💔😪
Love this reaction 😄
But hey, embrace God's creation and you will totally understand where they come from.
Peace
Unfortunately, I stopped believing in such beings long time ago. But thanks for the offer 🙌🏼
نتعلم
Why did you stop believing in God ?
Just a genuine question.
The video quality reminds me of when bin laden used to shoot those cave videos way back when 😂
Lmfao u crazy ass 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just because some men cannot control their urges towards women shouldn't mean that women have to cover up or stand behind a man. That is their problem, not the females. Why are women in Islam always expected to make a mans life easier? Maybe Muslim men should be taught about proper values and respect at young ages so they don't grow up over sexualizing women? I mean, this video is kind of stupid ngl.
@UC60UpuNjMMOlvoSJtm00ovw Men are taught to lower their gaze, yet women have to cover up head to toe? Do you hear how stupid that sounds? What I said was not incorrect, Islam does not teach equal rights between men and women. Maybe read the Quran, especially the chapter where it talks about how hitting your wife is okay. And don't bother trying to guide me, God does not exist.
@Amirah M Bruh, please do not twist my words. I am well versed with Islam, since I was born into a very religious family. I did not use the word "beat". Your comparison between students taking an exam seems far fetched, this is about men and women. Obviously equality comes in different terms too, but in this situation it is MEN AND WOMEN. I am not ignorant, actually quite the opposite, the reason I was Islamic was because I did NOT know a lot about the religion, I just did what I was taught. It was when I started reading the Quran and learning more that opened my eyes.
Also, yes men are told to cover up too, but not to the extent that women have to. It is simply not equal, why does the Quran only state that a man can hit, or strike a woman? Not the other way around?
Islam in a whole just does not make sense, I do not intend to offend you but you should look into how outdated some of the things Mohammed talks about is. There is a verse that talks about how God does not need pillars to hold up the earth. This would only make sense if the world was flat. But it is a globe. Where would the pillars go??
If more Muslims actually read the Quran instead of blindly following what was taught to them then they would realize that it's just a scam lol. Why do you think most of us are taught how to read arabic, and not to not understand it? Lmao, take care man. (Side note, I respect your right to believe in what you want, and this is not me attacking a part of your religion, I just think things like this need to be brought to light.)
Iqbal Qadir what do you mean? Men are not over sexualised like women, that’s just a fact.
Iqbal Qadir I never said it didn’t exist, of course it does. Bad things happen in every country, and religion. But what I’m talking about has nothing to do with this, so I don’t know why it’s being brought up.
Astra what do you want me to say? Lmao
why the heck you say that??
arent you aiming to be one of those 313
you have to be patient my bro ^_^
jaf TRUE WEEB
What about men attracted to men Sheikh Hamza? Could you be so kind to provide me with any links to any of your speeches which are about Homosexuality?
of course, he defends child rape so he hates gays and rejects Human Rights:
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I like this yusuf, he's the best comedian talking nonsense about islam
he knows everything is permitted in this sect except being honest about what you did:
sunnah.com/riyadussaliheen/1/241
but he is soooooo gay....
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@Iqbal Qadir I know of course. I just wanted him to talk about it. I wanted to learn more about the subject matter.
@Chloe Donahue You know nothing about Islam so stop typing crap you know nothing about. And hey your profile picture is disgusting.....honestly .
So allah said all these good things about self-control but couldn't manage to find a better person to be the prophet who could have set the standards that allah talks about for the all human to follow.
So what are you going to do ? this depends on the individual situation. Live a life void of passion and sex or become some kind of religious hermit. Sex women and pleasure is one one the greatest feelings. The prophet had 5 wives ??????
Hyper Hybrid 11 wives
@@fatimaachy5764 9 wives
Moonflower D. plus the necessary sex slaves.
@@fatimaachy5764 He was, is and will always be the greatest of all man kind no matter what you throw at him
He is purer than purity itself
May Allah guide you
Ahmed Zaoui too bad you are so brainwashed.
this should never have been a mixed interaction. its distatsteful and uncomfortable at times, especially for a refined audience.
Sallu Ahmad shut up. He is right.
No God But ONE - no he isn’t right
It’s misogynistic crap !!
Muslim matthew perry
I mean as women I think both men and women are equally attracted to each other but men are more action type they see the women they want to touch her have her but if a woman likes and is turned on my a guy she will not do anything ....
Not always
Fatima Noor Ahmad I’m mean most of the time
Trust🙌🙌🙌
@@salamkala14 blackmail, accusing man zina with him,
Khuliko al insanu daeefa. The human was created weak. Nowhere does it say man weak to woman this guy likes to read into things dam and makees things up not just in this video but another one "signs of end times" lawl
It's weak in multiple ways. This is just one of them
+notionSlave He's making things up?? Can men get seduced by women? Yes... What's made up??
@Jerome Syed most women or lesbians
@Jerome Syed exactly bro
Not all men are the same
Not all birds can fly
Not all women are the same
@@knight4633 what a joke
Obviously no two fingers of the hand are same,not all men and not all women are the same
Good to see white man doing this.
Better then to see more like him
I would never trust a word that this Muslim says.
@@jorgewinner4116 so true
@@jorgewinner4116 but you still here listening?
@@muneebiqbal5584 I would never trust a word what comes out of this man never.that is not hate it's something what I feel.
@@jorgewinner4116 Proud to be a Muslim Alhumdulilah
I am not here to listen to Islamic propaganda , but rather to expose it and demolish, which is super easy since Islam is evil, false, absurd, anti - logic , irrational , inhuman and the supreme manifestation of barbarism and ignorance .
Sufi scholar😅
Astaghfur Allah
Hahha lol too funny
The shiekh looks so white even when he's trying to dress up as a Humble guy I could tell those women are thinking "omg I can ask the shiekh a question and he'll take his time to answer because he's white." The reason I know this is because even though I'm a man sometimes I just pay super close attention to how a female feels when talking to a guy. Like if it's the most attractive guy in the world I'm not really going to act like a women I'm going to notice that the Man gets attraction from women though. I can tell shiekh hamza because he's intelligent he was smiling and complimenting the women on the fact that they don't feel as much attraction for Men which was making them blush in the backgroud. They kept asking more questions and he was smiling and they were giggling like ha ha ha. Like even on these videos no man watches these type of videos or asks another man these type of questions seriously they'll just joke about it in front of their friends but the girls they know the answer but still go and talk to people because they like getting that recognition and attention.
Salaam.I am a muslim man,with a very high sex drive.nevertheless, I can control my eyes.n my sex. Several times ,l refused the proposal of my work females colleague,muslim n non muslims to sex.mashaAllah.how could u explain this?
your faith is very high. keep it going. but be aware, it takes a moment to screw up
I didn't see any ayat in Qur'an says about Hizab for women.
Read verse 30 in surat Al Nur. Additionally we don't only follow Quran but Sunnah as well. There may be an aya in the Quran that the Prophet of Allah will elaborate on further to his companions. There are also rulings and prohibitions in the Sunnah which aren't mentioned in Quran. This line of questioning "show in me verse in the Quran that prohibits such and such" is a dangerous one because it completely excludes the Sunnah from religious reasoning. I've seen people who use this same logic to justify drinking alcohol or wearing gold for men.
Thank you so much. I saw in Surat Muminul, Mariam and Muhammad all surah said women will cover their private parts with the scarf. I do that always as a woman it's not for Muslim. I wrote you about Hizab, most of the women cover their hair and but their body is not covered by scarf.
I saw it was in Surat Noor and I underlined on it but somehow I skipped the word veil and it's meaning.
Thank you again.
Nasrin Sultana, you might want to watch this explanation by Nu'man Ali Khan czcams.com/video/AALgGKSnU2g/video.html
I must be stronger. Sex is so powerful desire
Wow these comments are beyond immature. This sexual repression makes you sexualise so much.
I haven't seen to many such comments. In fact, in a typical science-fact video I see more sexual immature puns then anywhere else.
A woman shouldn’t have to cover for the weakness of the man 🙄 get over yourself how stupid this argument is ...😑just because a man is so called weak doesn’t mean you act on it ...are you a savage? No!these are excuses
@Caramel Cupcake loll sis 😂 true though
@@gratitudeandlovee Thick women is major fitna for men, it can corrupt a mans head for the rest of the day
@@reezis1619 I see your point, men just need to be stronger at lowering gaze
@@1nv1nc3ble astaghfirullah
@@gratitudeandlovee Just saying that women should be aware of this. Let's say 60% of men can control their desires, but the rest will look at you as a sex object.
I mean come on we’re not created equal, he’s eloquent, intelligent and hot
What are you talking about
Women are not usually seen with bear breasts because female breasts have been sexualised. If the real purpose of the female breasts was taken on board, then their baring would be more understandable(this is seen in societies that have not been tainted by Western values). This explains why the sexualization of both men and women has created a sexual neurosis that is less evident in more primitive societies. This is what happens when a part of the body is hidden away and mystified......it becomes an object of desire to the point of fetishism.
Only talk about man/woman. Where is salvation?
No fap.
he is gay and he worships a child rapist
muhameds weakness was that he was a sex crazed mass rapist
yusuf thinks he is better than muhamed because yusuf only fancies men
yusuf akbar
Yes exactly! Lol
lol i didnt get it
I don’t take this guy seriously. It’s just a gig, means to make $.
If you think devoting 30 years of your life to learning just a gig then your a very stupid person may Allah give you hidayaa. Go read what it is to abise a imam or sheikh with your tongue.
You need to have a reality check
Bob Marley Where’s my disconnect with reality? Be specific please.
Nezha Chentouf Sure it’s possible, careers last way more than 30 years. He learnt his Islam from one of the most corrupt “Islamic” countries that is notorious for its war on Islam and for producing a whole line of “Imams” who are commercial-style Imams, tools of the state that you pay to gain legitimacy for the state in exchange for a salary. Hamza’s positions on human right violations in Syria are deplorable, you can’t possibly take seriously the religious credentials of someone who believes Syrians deserve to suffer and be oppressed. Screw him.. he can take his Iman and his piety and stick them up his mercenary ass. He’s just a tool of the state, he’s not worth more than that.
@@MaryRose007 look at his work over many years... Look at all he's done for the faith... How he's communicated with people around the world... Hence why do you say he's only motivated by money.... Hence the reality check....