She molested her students - The UK case of Rebecca Joynes

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  • Join me in this bonus true crime episode where I discuss the case of Rebecca Joynes, a teacher who had sexual relations with her students. Em xx
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  • @allisonholzer7948
    @allisonholzer7948 Před měsícem +217

    My son was groomed by his female teacher. He was 15, she was 24. The betrayal of trust is still indescribable. She was eventually jailed for having sex with someone under 16, but the damage done cannot be fully described. My son and our family unit is still trying to heal. Never underestimate the pain this type of crime causes.

    • @amber588
      @amber588 Před měsícem +23

      That's horrific. Hope your healing continues, with things like this, it ripples and impacts not just the victim but the families as well. In usual cases it's already an abuse of power, but to be a teacher, it's even more amplified (all are just as bad, not trying to compare here). Wishing you all the best.

    • @kellydonaldson1409
      @kellydonaldson1409 Před měsícem +4

      💜

    • @kamillakam548
      @kamillakam548 Před měsícem +3

      😢I'm sorry you all went through this

    • @annabanaz9049
      @annabanaz9049 Před měsícem +4

      This type of betrayal in the people trusted to nurture learning is horrific. I sincerely hope you are able to heal with your child x

    • @johnvalerieseppelfrick8289
      @johnvalerieseppelfrick8289 Před měsícem +1

      Did that take place in Michigan?

  • @kharriger6439
    @kharriger6439 Před měsícem +117

    We just had a male teacher get in trouble for writing love letters showing favoritism to some girl students in his class. The amazing thing is that a boy went to the authorities. They believed him that was so awesome that they did. Proud of him for stepping up.

    • @rydz656
      @rydz656 Před měsícem +2

      Yeah but the girls aren't gonna want him. His social life is cooked.

    • @viridityforever
      @viridityforever Před měsícem +1

      @@rydz656i doubt his social life is the main worry of his life atm, he’s probably dealing with being groomed more than girls not wanting to date him. i really don’t think he’s going to be wanting to jump into a relationship straight after this.

    • @NotAnotherKuromi
      @NotAnotherKuromi Před měsícem +1

      ​@@rydz656Why do you assume that the girls liked the love letters rather than finding it creepy?
      There will be plenty of the students who can correctly recognize the sensible and brave act of the boy to report the pedophilic teacher.
      Plus even if the girls did shun him, it will only be for a couple of years, he can move school if it gets really bad and he can feel relieved and proud that he did the morally right thing. So the pros outweigh the cons.

  • @wendyhart134
    @wendyhart134 Před měsícem +201

    As a teacher (female ) for twenty years , this makes me physically ill. Its such a betrayal of those you have to protect , we are trained to look out for all kinds of abuse . In most cases we are the front line even before social services .Its a complete reversal of everything a teacher should be.
    Sorry im a little triggered here !

    • @traceybanting3952
      @traceybanting3952 Před měsícem +14

      I too was a teacher, and it is triggering. When the vast majority of us spend our careers giving so much beyond the requirements of the job, to hear of this sort of behaviour is shocking, frustrating and heartbreaking! We already get a terrible press, without people like her dragging the profession even further down. Very well said!

    • @sondrakolb9628
      @sondrakolb9628 Před měsícem

      I cannot , in any scenario or point in life, imagine a child being sexualized to me. I am so disgusted that a woman especially, would look at a child sexually. Yes, men do, i get its a double standard butva woman to me is the protector

    • @Carolinel673
      @Carolinel673 Před měsícem +12

      President Macron nobody says anything about that relationship. He met her his teacher now wife when he was 14 she was 38 & publicly dated at 16 . I don’t see what the difference is it might be bc he’s a president.

    • @shawnnewell4541
      @shawnnewell4541 Před měsícem +1

      ​@Carolinel673 France's age of consent is way younger than US. And well, it's France 🇫🇷.

    • @Carolinel673
      @Carolinel673 Před měsícem +11

      @@shawnnewell4541 Teacher & pupil & age of consent in France 🇫🇷 is 15 . Emma was taking about grooming surely a 38 yr old woman/ teacher is wrong as well yet she is greeted the world over .

  • @daylewoolf8734
    @daylewoolf8734 Před měsícem +110

    Once you're someone's teacher, or any person with authority over someone, that person is untouchable! It's a total abuse of power! This is a repeat of Mary Kay Lataurno.

    • @lishamarlar4597
      @lishamarlar4597 Před měsícem +2

      Maybe one day she will marry him.

    • @MichelleHenry-lu9tn
      @MichelleHenry-lu9tn Před měsícem

      Married or not in the future, she's still a paedophile.

    • @TattooedLuna
      @TattooedLuna Před měsícem +2

      Urgh her poor husband was living in cloud cuckoo land for so long until he finally might have seen the relately.

    • @mxmmianaxo1160
      @mxmmianaxo1160 Před měsícem +3

      I can’t believe she married the man she abused 🥴

    • @irishhoopers6899
      @irishhoopers6899 Před měsícem

      Horrific

  • @jeanettehinds4253
    @jeanettehinds4253 Před měsícem +95

    It is an unforgivable betrayal. It puts the entire profession into disrepute. And parents need to wise up. It was completely inappropriate for her to have so much access to someone else's child.

    • @susiefoxy8130
      @susiefoxy8130 Před měsícem +8

      It’s not a new thing, there was at least 4 girls I can remember having ‘love affairs’ with male teachers when I was at school in the 70s nothing was done about it, one actually married the dirty perv when he got divorced and she left school, she posts on the school Facebook page and I’m so tempted to say something, but he’s dead now. She was a child, but a marriage with kids was destroyed…all sorts of wrong!

  • @lilscrowlie
    @lilscrowlie Před měsícem +192

    I was SO BORED scrolling looking for something to keep me occupied and boom! Here you are! 🎉 Thank you, em!

    • @stephaniebrown7458
      @stephaniebrown7458 Před měsícem +9

      Same ❤smashing surprise x

    • @alyssam73022
      @alyssam73022 Před měsícem +9

      Same haha and I thought it was Sunday!!!

    • @traceybanting3952
      @traceybanting3952 Před měsícem +6

      Same!!! Well said! 😊

    • @ambervasquez9705
      @ambervasquez9705 Před měsícem +9

      HECK YES!!! ITS EMMA! I FEEL LIKE I WON THE LOTTERY, I WAS EVEN ON THE VERGE OF BEING KINDA DEPRESSED WITH EVERYTHING AND SEEING EMMA PERKED ME UP A BIT....SO THANK U EMMA! LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE FROM THE USA😅

    • @frankiesinclair6184
      @frankiesinclair6184 Před měsícem +3

      Sameeee iv never needed a video to pop up more. I was so bored 😂

  • @rachelluna7144
    @rachelluna7144 Před měsícem +68

    When this story broke online the comments defending her made me feel sick- the type of comments like “where were these teachers when I was a boy?” And how it’s a teens dream.. they wouldn’t say this if it was a male teacher! Paedophilia is not ok whatever the gender

    • @TheMellypants
      @TheMellypants Před měsícem +2

      There's some in here too 🤮

    • @brianasbury8315
      @brianasbury8315 Před měsícem

      Yeah it's sickening isn't it? What kind of ignorant blockhead would make such a stupid comment?

    • @laylaleannejepson7
      @laylaleannejepson7 Před 22 dny

      Those comments are disgusting! And really p*ss me off! 😢😡

    • @JessMurgatroyd
      @JessMurgatroyd Před 12 dny +2

      I saw them! It's disgusting.

    • @cheshirecat888
      @cheshirecat888 Před 12 dny +2

      Just read a few in this comment section. These people are seriously weird.

  • @mizread
    @mizread Před měsícem +52

    Your soliloquy as to how you want every young person to recognise their beauty was beautiful beyond words. Thank you Emma.
    I developed body dysmorphia at 10, and I can't blame teen magazines for that, as it was 1962. If we're unlucky enough to have parents who devalue us because they're screw-ups, it's so easy to hate our physical and internal selves. Its so easy to get derailed.

    • @crissiv8853
      @crissiv8853 Před měsícem +6

      I fully agree! ❤ And I wish someone said those things to me when I was a teenager

    • @HellsFurby
      @HellsFurby Před měsícem +2

      Especially as literal children, then when it’s a primary caregiver your Sense of Self or Self love can so easily be so destroyed before we even know what it is and some of us can never get it back no matter how hard we try 😓

    • @brianasbury8315
      @brianasbury8315 Před měsícem +2

      Yeah, I really wish I would have had adults in my life when I was a teen that gave me encouragement and made me feel valued and that I was smart and could be successful in my life. Thanks for that Emma

    • @mizread
      @mizread Před měsícem +1

      @@brianasbury8315 yep, that would've have helped us so very much..

  • @user-mk4fo3tj5z
    @user-mk4fo3tj5z Před měsícem +42

    As a Social Worker, all you have said is so true Emma. My husband just turned and said 'if that was a man, no way would he get contact with the baby (especially before his sentence). And he's right to a certain extent. However there are 2 things relevant to before she is sentenced- 1) Her baby has been being fed and cared for by her Mother thus far and so taking that away, for bubba's sake is a measured consideration and 2) just like with any child sex offender, the risk needs analysing- would she sexually abuse her baby? Unlikely. Is it acceptable for Mum and baby to be in a Mum and baby unit in prison? Only likely if Mum doesn't get a hefty sentence, which I think she will. Sad all round really. Hopefully the young man whom she abused and fathered a child with, heals and enjoys his daughter in the end even if it's years down the line, for the other young man, I hope he too has support, counselling and peace and a girlfriend his own age whenever he is ready

    • @EmmaKennyTV
      @EmmaKennyTV  Před měsícem +10

      I feel exactly the same as you. And thank you for the clear hard work you do to protect in your job x

    • @daphnethurlow5388
      @daphnethurlow5388 Před měsícem +5

      The boy is the father ofthe child .I hope HIS family steps up and offers to have he child. He is as entitled as Her family to look after the poor child, and see him/her when he wants..She however, deserves Nothing. Get to jail..

  • @2102mandaod
    @2102mandaod Před měsícem +70

    I met my husband when we were 14. Now 34 years later we are old and boring & at no point during my adult life have I ever looked at a child, teenagers or young adult and found them the least bit attractive. My 23yr old son has many friends and although they are all at the gym daily & 6” grown men they still all look like kids to me.
    To think that a teacher would put my son through something like this is honestly disgusting!

    • @Stopthisrightnow560
      @Stopthisrightnow560 Před měsícem +12

      That's just it. I get random shorts coming up on my feed at times and sometimes the girls look like they're 12 years old! Logically they could definitely be 16+ years old, but my head is just like, "CHILD."

    • @LeahDyson-kq4bd
      @LeahDyson-kq4bd Před měsícem

      She probably has a personality disorder

    • @lynsey4224
      @lynsey4224 Před měsícem +6

      Exactly. I have a nephew who is 30 years old, I'm 39. And him and his friends are all grown up now, families of their own etc. I could never look at these lads, even as grown men and think it was appropriate to be involved with them in an intimate way because I've known them since they were kids. I was a kid too for some of their lives, but eww, they're still the kids that hung out with my nephew to me. It's just so gross.

    • @JessMurgatroyd
      @JessMurgatroyd Před 12 dny

      I'm 32. I even see people who are legal and can drink etc (uk) look like babies..

  • @maryconner9173
    @maryconner9173 Před měsícem +33

    There is NO excuse for an adult doing this sort of thing! NONE!

  • @Im.sorry.ms.jackson
    @Im.sorry.ms.jackson Před měsícem +31

    Thank you for the bonus video! Im glad that you're bringing awareness to a sadly common crime that isn't spoken about nearly enough

  • @TaffyCrafting
    @TaffyCrafting Před měsícem +35

    Thank you Emma. I'm a teacher and just despair at the number of times we read about teachers overstepping safeguarding boundaries and grooming students. This particular case was shocking.

  • @christinacowan7644
    @christinacowan7644 Před měsícem +22

    Secondary school teacher here... Just no. I cannot wrap my head around this one.

  • @generaljo78
    @generaljo78 Před měsícem +16

    Thank you Emma. This is a conversation that NEEDS to happen in society. ‘Appearance’ comes up time and time and again - it’s happens in both genders and it’s irrelevant. No one has it stamped on their forehead, a predator is a predator. It’s never a question of “why would they when they could get anyone?” it’s really quite simple, they want the control and the forbidden.

  • @lynsey4224
    @lynsey4224 Před měsícem +16

    She's sick in the head. As a woman in her 30s and also as the mother of a son this whole thing disgusts me. How you can look at a teen boy and think of him in an inappropriate way is beyond me. And as a parent of a son, if someone were to do this to my child I would want her put away for a very long time. It's a pity they're often more lenient on women in these scenarios. If you ask me a predator is a predator.

    • @jesclifford88
      @jesclifford88 Před měsícem +1

      A predator is a predator regardless of gender, you are absolutely correct! It’s more shocking when it’s a woman as we are nurturers and in more positions of care where children are concerned but in no way should that affect punishment. Women should get as much as a man would get. I hope victims are feeling like they can speak out more because I’m sure it’s very underreported as is male victims of female domestic violence and rape etc 😢

    • @lynsey4224
      @lynsey4224 Před měsícem

      @@jesclifford88 exactly! That's why it's so difficult to comprehend, our natural instinct is to protect and nurture so to see this just gives me the ick. Unfortunately a lot of young men will be afraid to speak out because even people they know will say silly things like "where was that teacher when I was in school" and almost consider the young lad lucky. The way I see it is that some grown adult has stolen the experience of first time intimacy from them, he should have never have been put in that situation by an adult who is supposed to care. I just think she's stolen that experience from him and as he gets older he will have regrets about that and possibly even blame himself but the responsibility is not his, it's all on her and there should be no leniency just because she happens to be a woman. She's disgusting.

    • @Jess-wb4ux
      @Jess-wb4ux Před 9 dny

      I agree she was wrong and it was disgusting 🤢. But, I’m not sure she can be called a predator. She obviously has issues she’s tried to have relationships with these boys it’s very odd. Does she have previous history of this? She’s ruined her own life. It is different with women I think because most women don’t have sex on the mind all the time nor do they let thoughts take over their lives like some men do. She’s a silly woman and deserves prison, but predator I don’t think so.

  • @Danielle-rg5qp
    @Danielle-rg5qp Před měsícem +16

    Great coverage of this topic. Best I’ve seen by far. Most channels barely go in to detail beyond “pretty female teacher” and whether her partner stays with her. Never talks about the impact on the victims or the culture especially of older men when they hear stories like this making comments like “ wish I was this lucky, what are they complaining about” when if it was their daughter with a male authority figure, it would be completely different

  • @saragates2255
    @saragates2255 Před měsícem +58

    I'm convinced the reason we're hearing more about female sex abusers is because it's been incredibly underreported in the past and perhaps victims are feeling more supported to report it now.
    We've still got a lot of work to do on shaming victims but I hope we're headed toward progress.

    • @Stopthisrightnow560
      @Stopthisrightnow560 Před měsícem +10

      Oh, absolutely.
      Our generation has absolutely changed the conversation regarding sexual abuse, and I'm so proud of everyone who can reach out and speak about it.
      Even if you still can't, it takes a lot of strength to carry that with you everyday.

    • @ry.butterfly
      @ry.butterfly Před měsícem +2

      I hope you're right. While I hope to never hear another story of abuse again I wish it meaning I wish it just never happens, but not because somebody is too scared to speak out!

    • @shawnnewell4541
      @shawnnewell4541 Před měsícem +4

      Mary Kay LeTourneau in my home state of Washington was the first female in my state, if not the USA, who brought the subject of female pedophiles up. Ever since then there have been increasing numbers of females being prosecuted as pedophiles.

    • @user-xh8le3cp4l
      @user-xh8le3cp4l Před měsícem

      its becoming more acepted that men/boys can be victims to women

  • @evierose7881
    @evierose7881 Před měsícem +27

    I feel more sorry for the baby after hearing this story

  • @karls432
    @karls432 Před měsícem +7

    I remember a teacher at my school that slept with several of the boys in my year, (year 10,11) it was well known and at the time none of us thought of it as abuse, we knew she shouldn’t be doing it and would lose her job and didn’t want that to happen because she was coo, she smoked weed and ‘treated us like adults’, Looking back at it with adult eyes it’s so shocking to remember.

  • @MChealing
    @MChealing Před měsícem +13

    Something similar is currently happening in small town Alberta, Canada. A woman, that a few of my friends went to school with, is currently being investigated for crimes against boys on the local junior hockey team that she had worked with in some capacity - thankfully she didn't end up pregnant by these boys. I haven't seen any updates about it, though I haven't looked. But it goes to show it can be literally anyone. Regardless of how they look.

    • @EmmaKennyTV
      @EmmaKennyTV  Před měsícem +2

      I’m following this one!!!! Truly awful x

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 Před měsícem +15

    Boys too often do not get the same protection from predators. I’m always disgusted by the replies like “he’s not a victim.” Or “wish I had a teacher like that.” Or “it’s not the same thing when it’s a boy.” It’s the same! A child cannot consent. FULL STOP 🛑 It is a violation of that CHILD. I have sons and demand the same safety as I would if we had girls.

    • @johnbarlow4572
      @johnbarlow4572 Před měsícem

      At 15/16 i had a brain and knew hoe to use it . Was more than capable of saying no and not get involved in something i did not want to . Youth today seem unable or are unwilling to do that

    • @DA-db9bi
      @DA-db9bi Před 8 dny

      It happened to my best friend in high school back in 2018 and we still laugh about it today😂. She was gorgeous and my friend just WON 🥇

    • @johnbarlow4572
      @johnbarlow4572 Před 8 dny

      Lost virginity to an older lady at 15 about a month before reaching the age of consent and can guarantee 100% i consented . Left school at Easter and working for a living and this was at a Christmas party held in the office i worked in . The only child i feel sorry for in this is the one she gave birth to as it will grow up with two dumbass's for parents unless it is lucky to be adopted

    • @GenXfrom75
      @GenXfrom75 Před 8 dny

      @@johnbarlow4572 you might to think you’re a victim but you are. I love someone who didn’t emerge as happily as you did.

    • @robmaddison8645
      @robmaddison8645 Před 8 dny

      @GenXfrom75 Instead of seeking an external and official body to protect boys from such Teachers why not just develop the ability to speak to your boys and run this exact scenario past them? Boys at 15 are right on the edge of consent and unless told they will possibly make sexualised comments to an attractive teacher (as happened in this case). She was rightly punished but at the same time we molly coddle young men and seem to have brought up a generation of imbeciles. This woman was obviously very juvenile in her thinking herself and absurdly naive. I mean, what woman in a similar situation would try and keep a young boy around by way of a surprise pregnancy announcement. Yes this is predatory behaviour but we live in a society which promotes promiscuity and deviant serial behaviour; that women can behave like men and think with their genitals. Parents need to take a greater degree of responsibility for their children's upbringing and maybe this cycle of teachers grooming children will be lessened.

  • @roslynhill4923
    @roslynhill4923 Před měsícem +8

    I like both old and new coverage. Even if we've heard a story told many times before, through many other narrators, you add a flare to it. You bring it to life.

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 Před měsícem +11

    I'm so exhausted after doing so much housework today. To see an extra video from Emma is great. I can now sit back and enjoy.

  • @aye70aye
    @aye70aye Před měsícem +5

    Emma of COURSE we love this content! We would lap up anything you put out but I do really like the 'of the moment' discussions as well as solved cases. Love the less talked about ones and the over exposed ones as long as its from your perspective, cos we love you! (in a non creepy way)

  • @Jenniewren100
    @Jenniewren100 Před měsícem +2

    Emma! So eloquent as always. Very insightful. Thank you. 😍

  • @NiciLouBell
    @NiciLouBell Před měsícem +4

    This was a really refreshing change from what was already great content. I definitely like to hear about current cases and new developments.

  • @Sunny_7727
    @Sunny_7727 Před měsícem +4

    I was just fixing to workout and looking for something to listen to, perfect timing! Thank you!! 🎉

  • @hannahr3387
    @hannahr3387 Před měsícem +5

    Great idea to cover this, please keep covering these newer cases aswell. I hope those boys can heal and have the lives they deserve 🖤

  • @herekittykitty9151
    @herekittykitty9151 Před měsícem +1

    I came across you around a month or so ago and just have to say, I really appreciate the amount of research and work you put in to every case you cover. I studied psychology at uni but didn’t end up doing anything with it and I love the passion you have. I’m doing my best to get through all your content and also hope to come see you on your tour!

  • @sherriecoke8015
    @sherriecoke8015 Před měsícem

    You did a great job covering this. I love all you do!! You explain things so throughly.

  • @user-mi6ch6ku3t
    @user-mi6ch6ku3t Před měsícem +5

    Thankyou Em for being you and the hard work you consistently do 🌷💛😎 xx

  • @13alir
    @13alir Před měsícem +4

    Bonus video x Thanks Em x

  • @susiel9860
    @susiel9860 Před měsícem +5

    What a legend, Emma! I appreciate when you release surprise content for us! It’s like a little treat, love it 🌸❤️ As a teacher, I really appreciate you covering this case. I actually teared up when you described that nurturing feeling we get when working with young people. Absolutely 👍 x

  • @ellifins3857
    @ellifins3857 Před měsícem +6

    Emma you seem so kind and loving. Hoping the best for you and your family. Thanks for being so compassionate and sharing these peoples' stories❤

  • @nataliewest2105
    @nataliewest2105 Před měsícem +3

    You do spoil us thanks lovely 🥰 I read about this case but it’s nice to have the full story.

  • @amandanoble3
    @amandanoble3 Před měsícem +4

    Whoop! Thank you so much Emma ..this has made my Friday night! 🎉

  • @lesleychapman4678
    @lesleychapman4678 Před měsícem +11

    How do you do this???? with all you do for us on your youtube channel, bringing up a family, going on tour, designing merch etc. and now an extra case. I wish I had your energy!!! So grateful for the time you spend on your followers. Much love 🙏❤

    • @ktcooki276
      @ktcooki276 Před měsícem +1

      Yup, she's a working mum.

  • @AmyMunro_BlythesInBloom
    @AmyMunro_BlythesInBloom Před měsícem +1

    Yay!!! Thank you for the extra video Em! You've made my Friday night! 🥳💕

  • @elainemurphy5933
    @elainemurphy5933 Před měsícem

    Yey! You've brightened up my Friday. Thank you so much❤

  • @elshirley7964
    @elshirley7964 Před měsícem +33

    If this was a male teacher and a female student, it would be straight to jail, do not pass go. I do not understand how, when the gender roles are reversed, the gravity of the crime is downplayed. Disgusting.
    Thank you emma for expressing how wrong this is, and I’m so glad the prosecution did the right thing by these boys. I hope they recover x

  • @jeninestevens8905
    @jeninestevens8905 Před měsícem +4

    What a fantastic surprise to see this! As a teacher myself it was uncomfortable watching this but as usual Emma, you delivered the story eloquently and in a non sensational way. Lots of love 💕

  • @sarahfrith1984
    @sarahfrith1984 Před měsícem

    Thank you Emma, love a deep dive into more recent cases that I’m not familiar with!

  • @JDWGS2919
    @JDWGS2919 Před měsícem +1

    This was exactly what I wanted. I literally replied to your question the other day suggesting this case and youve listened to it 😀 thankyou xx

  • @lisajohns346
    @lisajohns346 Před měsícem +9

    Wow how lucky are we. Thank u Emma for the extra content. 💜

  • @Cello-Pam
    @Cello-Pam Před měsícem +30

    I think the most important perspective you gave is that those boys were in no position to consent. It's easy to understand that babies can't consent, less easy to understand that 15 year old boys can't. But it's STILL TRUE they were in no position to consent.

    • @user-xh8le3cp4l
      @user-xh8le3cp4l Před měsícem +1

      one of the guys who i went to school with, ended up being a teacher at the school we went to and was done for this with a year 10 girl at the skwl when my lil sister was their in 6th form.. my first question to her was he didn't try anything with you did he/...

    • @Cello-Pam
      @Cello-Pam Před měsícem

      @user-xh8le3cp4l that would be terrible! I really hope your sister was safe. (And how in the heck can anyone see a 10yr old that way?!?)

    • @emilyowen9716
      @emilyowen9716 Před měsícem +3

      @@Cello-Pamdoesn’t make it any better, but year ten not a ten year old x

    • @-LivingProof
      @-LivingProof Před měsícem

      ​​@@Cello-Pam She didn't say a 10 yr old. She said a year 10 girl.

    • @Cello-Pam
      @Cello-Pam Před měsícem

      @@emilyowen9716 thanks. Can you tell me what a year 10 girl means?

  • @florenciatettamanti4819
    @florenciatettamanti4819 Před měsícem

    Thank you Emma ❤ of course we love your extra content, what a treat! Keep it up 🎉

  • @corneliusclaassens
    @corneliusclaassens Před měsícem

    Ay!!! Love the extra video!! Also love having content that we don't know of yet, that is still ongoing. Thanks so much for making my day!!!

  • @lspbeautea4791
    @lspbeautea4791 Před měsícem +11

    Weeeeeeeeee that’s my Friday night sorted. Thanks Emma 😊

  • @kimberleighstark6960
    @kimberleighstark6960 Před měsícem +4

    Very important that we understand the dangers of giving a pass to the good looking offenders… beautiful or ugly, a predator is a predator..

  • @susanasp3065
    @susanasp3065 Před měsícem

    Emma just to tell you how much I enjoy your take on the cases but also the way you use the English language, the fluidity, complexity, variety is a joy for my ears to hear you narrating thanks!!

  • @rianettesouthey
    @rianettesouthey Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for this extra video, Em, I absolutely adore you!

  • @smilesforsunnie5571
    @smilesforsunnie5571 Před měsícem +3

    Bravo Emma, for putting this content on your true crime channel. This is a true, real crime that will affect these young boys for the rest of their lives. I have been a maternity nurse for 20 years so I have seen all sorts of situations in the case room. It is truly heartbreaking how many predators are out there. I also have a physically and mentally disabled 12yo angel of a daughter and I am constantly worried something will happen to her as she can’t walk or help herself in the bathroom etc. She is totally dependent on others to help her and she is so easily trusting despite the teaching I do with her.
    I appreciate you bringing more awareness of other areas of true crime that don’t include murder, although Rebecca has savagely permanently taken a part of them that they will never be able to get back.

    • @michellesartori6695
      @michellesartori6695 Před měsícem

      I understand what you're saying because I was just wondering myself how the maternity staff handled her labour and whether she got to hold her baby after birth. Also, was the young man who is the biological father of this child, at the hospital, and what on earth do he and his family think about him being a biological father as a teen? I'm in Australia, and over 34 years ago, I was training as a childbirth educator, and I had to watch a certain number of births and support the mothers giving birth. I was 6 months pregnant with my 4th child, and I had spent all day with this mother, and I was exhausted. But before I left for the day, I heard one of the midwives talking about a 12 year old who had come in in labour. Apparently in her culture, and I don't know what culture that was, it isn't unusual for very young girls to come in pregnant to a relative, so these midwives had a minefield to walk around with that case. I've often thought about her over the years and wondered what happened to her and her baby. Hopefully, her child wasn't subjected to the same treatment as her mother if the child had been a girl!

  • @catpuccino6186
    @catpuccino6186 Před měsícem +34

    Mentally stuck at the age of 15..!

    • @leticiafelix8579
      @leticiafelix8579 Před měsícem

      So true, I don't think it her fault, someone taught her this grooming behavior,it's so unusual for women . She was exceptionally awful. Hurt people hurt others

    • @shrimptonpalace232
      @shrimptonpalace232 Před měsícem +22

      ​@@leticiafelix8579you don't think it's her fault? Trauma doesn't excuse any of her actions, she knows what is right and what is wrong.

    • @malindaaddicott4940
      @malindaaddicott4940 Před měsícem +7

      @@leticiafelix8579Your joking right?! 👀

    • @WakeyWakeyEggsandBakey
      @WakeyWakeyEggsandBakey Před měsícem

      ​@@leticiafelix8579what?@ no. Just no 😮

    • @zalebplayz
      @zalebplayz Před měsícem

      @leticiafelix8579 if you really feel that way it's probably better you stay away from minors

  • @plurbaybee
    @plurbaybee Před měsícem

    I appreciate you giving us an extra video!

  • @hazelsamuel4752
    @hazelsamuel4752 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for this em ❤ xx

  • @stitchingandstuff3930
    @stitchingandstuff3930 Před měsícem +3

    When I was 16 and started college I had a weekend job in a shop in Rochdale, I managed to arrange to go for a drink after work with this guy who I liked who was 21. So we did, and he happily bought me a couple of vodka and cokes and we were talking about music, films and what I would consider normal stuff. It was actually in Riley's Snooker Bar which used to be at the bottom of Drake Street where he was a member. He then put two and two together and figured out that I was only 16, barely out of school and possibly quite immature for my age. I'm 38 now and I can still remember how uncomfortable he looked sitting there knowing he had bought me alcohol and then just got me a plain lemonade and cut the 'date' short, walked to the taxi rank outside Wheatherspoons, made sure I had enough money to get home and saw me off safely. He didn't fall out with me as we still had to work together and at the time I was gutted that I didn't get to go out with him again. Looking back now as an adult I respect him for that, respect him for not buying me more alcoholic drinks to try and get me pissed and for not thinking ahh fuck it, she's well up for it anyway so why not? I look back and think what a true gent, stopping the drinks and making sure I was on my way home safely. Could have easily gone the other way and left me feeling used and exploited. Although I was 16 and could legally consent he may have initially assumed I was 18 but upon finding out i was 16 got the ick.
    Love your vids and had hoped you would make a video of this vile woman xx

  • @paomedley
    @paomedley Před měsícem +2

    bravo emma, the message at the end was everything. 👏

  • @peppercat8188
    @peppercat8188 Před měsícem +1

    All videos from you are very welcome and thank you for this one ❤

  • @SlowlyRaisingWildOnes
    @SlowlyRaisingWildOnes Před měsícem +1

    Emma❤❤ is the only creator that I immediately hit LIKE before I’ve even watched the video! The best in my opinion! Watched every single video and always look forward to a Wednesday and Sunday at 7pm! Love a bonus video Emma! Thank you for all your hard work highlighting these cases! Absolutely stomach turning to think of how those boys must feel now and that poor baby, just really crazy that she thought she could get away with this undetected! And why she would even want to?!? Bizarre and disgusting 😰

  • @MS-wh7ec
    @MS-wh7ec Před měsícem +6

    Teacher cases are always awful but there is just something so sinister about knowing the training around safe guarding she will have learnt - a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Just awful.

  • @saraharmstrong7569
    @saraharmstrong7569 Před měsícem +5

    You've just made my washing up a lot more 😉 enjoyable, thank you muchly! 😊❤

  • @hayleykur5106
    @hayleykur5106 Před měsícem

    Yes, please make more of these videos! I love that you are spreading awareness of these issues in an informed and sensitive way. As a primary school teacher who is currently doing a Masters of Social work to get into child safeguarding, I also care deeply about much of the content you post, and I admire the way you do it with professionalism, honesty, true care for the victims, and a little humour thrown in. This is my first time commenting on one of your videos, despite having watched probably a good 40 of them, haha. I am not usually a commenter on CZcams (maybe I should change that to show support!). But honestly, you do a fantastic job of covering every single one of the cases you present. In my eyes, you are completely unique in the CZcams true crime world. No one else covers crime with the level of expertise, meticulousness, and charisma, that you do. Bringing an awareness to these types of predators is so important, and I am so glad you are doing it. Sorry, not trying to crawl up your butt here, but you are doing an amazing job, and I am sure many of us would love to see more of these harrowing cases covered by you. It always makes a difference when the person covering them comes from an obvious place of extreme care, knowledge, and experience. Keep up the amazing work! - From a weird little Aussie who has followed your work since I first saw you on Britain's Darkest Taboos many years ago, and cannot keep comments to an appropriate length haha x

  • @midget_princess2200
    @midget_princess2200 Před měsícem +2

    Oooh love a friday treat from our favorite CZcamsr!!! Thanks Emma!!!!!!

  • @crissiv8853
    @crissiv8853 Před měsícem +2

    The very same thing happened here in Italy a few years ago. The groomed boy was only 14 years old and the adult was 35 😱 The student was so traumatised that he didn't say anything to his parents for a long time. He was even forced to meet his baby in several occasions, because that crazy abusive woman (and pedophile) was convinced she was in love and wanted to live with him. How SICK and OUTRAGEOUS is it?!? She already had a kid with her husband, who was told the baby was his. He's now actually raising that innocent baby boy as if he was his child and his ex wife is obviously in prison. The victim's life is forever ruined on many levels though, he knows he is a father and no psychological therapy can erase that awareness... Many lives were ruined. Very shocking and sad stories.
    Thank you for your extra video, Emma ❤

  • @xSorryBabyx
    @xSorryBabyx Před měsícem +3

    I have cramps and am basically stuck in bed so imagine how thrilled I was at this lovely surprise gift you’ve given us! Thanks, Em! ❤

  • @ChopBassMan
    @ChopBassMan Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for covering this so completely!
    I've read articles and seen videos on child abusing teachers here in the US, but the coverage doesn't go any further than enumerating the criminal behavior,
    and/or making some sort of 'freak show' out of the cases.
    Your excellent tutorial on a predatory teacher (especially a woman) makes all of the broken boundaries and blatant eschewing of adult responsibilities the main focus and crystal clear!
    Again thanks for the extra video and subject!!💖 💖 💖 💖 ☕️ ☕️ ☕️ ☕️ ☕️ ☕️

  • @barbaraclose8819
    @barbaraclose8819 Před měsícem +1

    I absolutely found this fascinating and am so glad you covered this story.

  • @gemelizapsychicmedium_
    @gemelizapsychicmedium_ Před měsícem +5

    Ooh you’re treating us, Emma! ❤

  • @user-qi4ff5in9z
    @user-qi4ff5in9z Před měsícem +9

    When I was in high school, in the US, a teacher fled to another state with a female student. The student was returned, and the teacher basically disappeared. Six years later, while applying to multiple school districts for my first teaching position, I was horrified to learn that the offending teacher was now the district superintendent in a neighboring area. These districts were both rural and somewhat affluent, and known for actively hiding scandals. That’s when I was sure of one fact: the same perversions occur in all socioeconomic levels. The only difference is that the rich just have more resources to hide their crimes.

    • @annieannie2887
      @annieannie2887 Před měsícem

      The rich have the resources to hide their crimes and nobody cares about crimes against the poor.

    • @jesclifford88
      @jesclifford88 Před měsícem

      Wow that’s scary! They do occur in all professions also. I remember watching ped*file hunters and they are literally everywhere. Teaching, care, police, military, judicial…very worrying as to the extent it can be covered up and perpetuated 😢

    • @-LivingProof
      @-LivingProof Před měsícem

      How in the world was the teacher allowed to just 'disappear ' after kidnapping a student and traveling across state lines?! Then, he was allowed to stay in the teaching profession and became superintendent with no issues? No arrest warrant was issued or a background check done? The authorities just said "oh well?" Did you report him once you realized the position he was in? Seems very sus

  • @rouckova1
    @rouckova1 Před měsícem

    I enjoy every single episode, Emma! Thank you for such an insight 😊

  • @karenjenkins9414
    @karenjenkins9414 Před měsícem

    Bloody awesome Emma as usual, please just keep doing what your doing, love the older cases but love the newer cases just as much! ❤

  • @amandanoble3
    @amandanoble3 Před měsícem +4

    Thanks!

  • @jwsuicides8095
    @jwsuicides8095 Před měsícem +4

    A surprise bonus!
    Aside from that I hope people keep aware that women can also be abusers. Culturally we still need to discuss this more. Incidents may be less with women but they certainly can be harmful. There are so many subtleties of what it can be like for the boys, cultural "endorsements" of what happens to boys, and our understanding of their body reactions that are going to happen within certain stimuli that can cause further confusion for the victim.
    No excuses for any woman stepping beyond boundaries, and even worse when that woman is in a position of authority, power and control such as a teacher, etc.
    A child is a child and our job is to nurture and protect them.

  • @JessicaKing-es4gw
    @JessicaKing-es4gw Před měsícem

    Soooooo happy to have another surprise video to listen too whilst cleaning - I don’t know what to do on the in-between video cleans as I’ve gone back and watched every single one from the beginning 😂 thankyou! Looking forward to more recent case videos!

  • @kellym7608
    @kellym7608 Před měsícem

    this was my first time seeing your channel and one of your videos and you have such an engaging and interesting way of telling and commenting on a story like this. thank you so much for spreading this story!

  • @bryanbridgwood6923
    @bryanbridgwood6923 Před měsícem +9

    It annoyed me that she turned up for trial with a baby bonnet tucked in her waistband, but I'm hopeful the jury will see through that, and it will work against her.

  • @lisayoung3655
    @lisayoung3655 Před měsícem +8

    I’m sick to death of people like her who use their power, influence, authority and/or platform to manipulate teenagers.
    It’s also disgusting that adults think it’s ok and these teens must absolutely love the attention and should be flattered.

  • @tyametson-fy1rt
    @tyametson-fy1rt Před měsícem +1

    Thank you very much !!! From Canada 🇨🇦… I love your idea of being more current and willing to discuss the hard ones. Thank you again for and very informative video ♥️

  • @markoakerbee3220
    @markoakerbee3220 Před měsícem

    What an incredibly insightful video Emma. A dreadful case and you explain the psychology so well. Thank you for taking the time to deep dive this one.

  • @kylepellerinmjfmtributeartist
    @kylepellerinmjfmtributeartist Před měsícem +6

    It’s look like the case of Mary Kay Letourneau

  • @beckywiththesharpknife8331
    @beckywiththesharpknife8331 Před měsícem +3

    There better NOT BE "shmenz" in these comment talmbout: "WhErE wErE ThEsE tEaChErS WhEn wAs In sChOoL? 😒😡

  • @ames2727
    @ames2727 Před měsícem +1

    As a former educator of younger kids, this makes me sick. Truth be told I didn’t end up teaching high school kids because of my looking younger and fear of dealing with students thinking im younger or ANYTHING. I was just so scared of the entire issue all together that didnt teach high school. Ive had kids ask me if im in high school still and parents judge the moment they meet me. So there are so many aspects to this horrible topic but it is up to THE ADULT to know better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @johnbarlow4572
      @johnbarlow4572 Před měsícem

      Why do people want to be teachers? You are dealing with snotty knows kids . smart ass know it all teens , dumbass college students. On top of that you have the " my little darling can do no wrong " parents to deal with .

  • @user-is1zl6iy7n
    @user-is1zl6iy7n Před měsícem

    Thank you for the extra content! 🎉

  • @trudimccann5218
    @trudimccann5218 Před měsícem +3

    Oooh I need that jumpsuit ❤

  • @FallenAngelsNursery
    @FallenAngelsNursery Před měsícem +2

    My mother is a pedophile, and I’m the product of pedophilia. And has taken me my entire life to really mentally process that. Unfortunately, she was never prosecuted for it, called out for it, etc.. My biological father‘s family seems to be very toxic and itself and they allowed the abuse to continue. He was only 14 and she was well into her 30s… this woman is a lot like my mother. My mother is a narcissist, insecure, controlling, demanding abusive. Her ex was probably right and what he said about her described my biological mother to a T. And it’s crazy because my mother was also in a long-term relationship from the time that she was a teenager before she groomed my biological father. It lasted about a decade as well, and there were children from that relationship that were close to the age of my biological father. My mother had a very warped perspective on what love is.

    • @Stopthisrightnow560
      @Stopthisrightnow560 Před měsícem

      Oh, gosh. That must be so tough.
      I hope your dad managed to get away.
      And I hope you can find some way to separate yourself from all of this. ❤

    • @FallenAngelsNursery
      @FallenAngelsNursery Před měsícem +1

      @@Stopthisrightnow560 unfortunately my biological father died when he was only 21 so I guess in some light he did get away from her. By the time of his death, she had completely isolated him from his family. They weren’t allowed to come around while he was dying, etc., proving that he was merely a possession to her. I got away, though I went no contact about a decade ago, and it was the best decision I ever made.

    • @Stopthisrightnow560
      @Stopthisrightnow560 Před měsícem +1

      @@FallenAngelsNursery Oh, that's so sad.
      He definitely got away. I can imagine he's up there somewhere having a beer with some other friends of his, relaxing in the sunshine, telling everyone, "That's my kid down there. I made that." 🥰
      I'm so proud of you. 🩷
      I hope all good things come to you.

    • @FallenAngelsNursery
      @FallenAngelsNursery Před měsícem

      @@Stopthisrightnow560thank you that truly means a lot to me. ❤

    • @sharongrigg5336
      @sharongrigg5336 Před měsícem

      ​@@FallenAngelsNurseryyou sound like an incredible person, thank you for sharing your story. The other person's right, I've got no doubt how proud your dad must be. Best wishes ❤️

  • @bransonbeattie3441
    @bransonbeattie3441 Před měsícem +1

    Love this format too 👌🏻

  • @jolarkin8072
    @jolarkin8072 Před měsícem

    Love your content and more of this sort of video would be a great bonus!

  • @trudimccann5218
    @trudimccann5218 Před měsícem +5

    Thought as a teacher it was illegal to have a ‘relationship’ with a student whatever the age ??

  • @tolduso828
    @tolduso828 Před měsícem +4

    I think it’s important to use the correct language here. A pedophile is someone with a primary sexual attraction towards children of prepubescent age. Generally considered to be up to and including age 13. As much as she is a wrongen, she wasn’t actually a pedophile. This it’s important because it grouping these types of crimes together with offences against prepubescent children can actually take away some of the seriousness and shock value of those crimes.

    • @misfitm1457
      @misfitm1457 Před měsícem

      It's someone who is sexually attracted to kids, and kids are 17 or below

  • @melanieclark77
    @melanieclark77 Před měsícem

    So excited to watch a video tonight🎉🎉🎉🎉Thank you ❤

  • @EmmaPayne-rx5up
    @EmmaPayne-rx5up Před měsícem +1

    Loved this surprise upload, thank you for keeping me company whilst gardening 😅

  • @thedesolateone8260
    @thedesolateone8260 Před měsícem

    Didn't even see that thos episode was up. Thank you 😊 Emma & team

  • @jadeee2683
    @jadeee2683 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for another great video really enjoy your podcast over on Spotify too

  • @michellewilson3733
    @michellewilson3733 Před měsícem

    Thanks for the extra video Emma

  • @galexykidgames5903
    @galexykidgames5903 Před měsícem +2

    Now this just made my day seeing an extra episode ... thanks beautiful Emma .. and of course our majestic boy chase ❤

  • @rudellenaidu786
    @rudellenaidu786 Před měsícem

    I simply love Emma's energy. She brightens everyone's day!!

  • @bransonbeattie3441
    @bransonbeattie3441 Před měsícem +1

    What a BONUS!!! Thanks Em ❤.

  • @sienna3466
    @sienna3466 Před měsícem +1

    I was a secondary school teacher for ten years and this case has made me feel so sick. As a teacher your instinct is to protect those in your care. As a teacher you realise how vulnerable all kids can be and you are in a privileged position to keep them safe and ensure they can go into the world educated, safe and happy.

  • @leannebalmer5184
    @leannebalmer5184 Před měsícem +1

    Great video and very important message. This is awful, i feel for the families of victims and Joynes family.