Love Is Blind Season 3 is Unhinged & I'm Here For It (Season Review + Recap)
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- čas přidán 9. 11. 2022
- Love is Blind Season 3 has finished and what a ride it was. Sometimes sweet, sometimes dramatic and often unhinged this season was definitely entertaining. So as we approach the final wedding days for Cole and Zanab, Matt and Colleen, Alexa and Brennon, SK and Raven and Bartise and Nancy... will anyone be able to prove that Love is Blind? And how have the couples fared since the weddings in the Love is Blind season 3 reunion? Check it out in this season recap and review for Love is Blind season 3!
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Time will tell if we ever get another Lauren and Cameron but I thought this was a very entertaining season!
Alexa and Brennan give me Lauren and Cameron vibes a bit. I'm hoping they last!
I loved Alexa and Brennon, honestly, and thought they were very similar to L&C
Maybe but they aren't nearly as likeable, both seem like bitchy mean girls. Rooting for raven and sk!
Alex ,and brennon I was rooting for to get married. They just seemed to have such genuine feelings, and connections wishing them so much happiness.
Alexa seem to be controlling and Brennan seem like he would do anything to make her happy doesn’t matter what… def nothing like L&C.
How did I go from hating Raven to wanting the world for her. The second she shot down Bartise I was like okay girl.
Same!!!
Same! She definitely has morals and sense
Same! She is now my favorite!
And why did you hate raven?
You hated her for what? WILD
It was infuriating how they came at cole and let Matt get away with all his abusive behavior.
Yes yes!!! This!
@M Zay and Matt were both awful abusive people. Cole did not deserve anywhere near that level and Zay got away with murder.
Yes, I totally agreed. All of these boys (Coles, Matt & Bartis) need lessons in growing up and being respectful!
@@Joshpower57 Zay is a disgusting, pathological liar.
@@sassynchicago I hate how they pick peoppe my age that act like children. It makes us look bad.
Why is no one talking about how terrified Colleen looked at the reunion? I think Matt has a drinking problem and needs to work on his anger management skills asap.
Everyones talking about that wdym
I thought I was the only one that noticed. I was like “wink s.o.s. girl! And we’ll come get you!” She looked like a hostage.
Omg yeah me too she looked like she was about to cry at any moment. Or like she has something stuck up in her butt lol
Agreed!
Yea, I noticed that.
Why is it to that they're lazer-focused on Cole's immaturity but not Matt's abusive behavior? This is why there's so many domestic violence cases and not enough survivors. Because people just don't want to fuckin point it out
Thank you!!! 👏
To be fair in the Cole Zaineb relationship it looked like it ended with Zay being the psychological abuser. Oh the vindictiveness she shows. And Cole looks like a broken man
@@MrCph2200 it was pretty clear the editing was in Zay's favor. She did the majority of her complaining off screen. An when she was on screen she showed zero love for him, just mainly aggrevation. She's not a good person and uses the idea that she's a victim to gaslight and manipulate people.
I'm still in shock Matt and Colleen got married. Like, why? If I was Colleen it is a relationship with so many issues already. She basically ignored every red flag. An if I was actually critical of myself as matt(he obviously wasn't) why would I marry someone that I consider to have done something massively disrespectful(I'm saying matt made two giant deals over things and then still went on as if they didn't happen)? Colleen just looks extremely uncomfortable because she doesn't want to say or do something that starts an argument, it's very obvious. An everyone there basically decided to ignore it and side with Zay who is also an abusive partner.
Idk how Zay, matt, SK and Raven were let on this season. Two of them are mentally unstable, one is about to go to college and the last one was there for clout, not a marriage.
I think the show wants them to be a "success story" so that is why Matt didn't get criticism. I do feel that Matt and Colleen will not last.
@@lemonmuffin2656 I hope they don’t last, unless he does some real work on himself.
actively calling Bartise every name besides his own had me cackling 😂 that man is terrible
I truly hate him
He’s the worst. And there really wasn’t a lot of focus on him since Zanab and Cole took so much airtime.
"Barstool" sentttt me
Barnacle, Barstool, Barista…. Fantake I’m 💀🤣👏🏻🙌🏼🌟💯. You win all the internet awards!✨🎉🥳🌟🙌🏼💯
Bop-It 🤡 had me ROLLIN
Colleen: I haven't moved in with Matt in the entire 16 months since we got married 'cause I don't want to screw over my roommates
Translation: I'm terrified of that man
Usually leases are 1yr lol…and she must have forced her roommates out the house when they were at her place
I was SO PISSED that no one at the reunion called out Bartise for bringing up the abortion talk in front of his family and then let them tear into Nancy. Literally just led to slaughter and didn’t even try to advocate for her. He’s the wooorst and Nancy deserves so much better.
Yeah I was thinking the same thing, that is a discussion that's just for them. It's a personal decision and it should have stayed between them.
I hated Bartise so much. He was just so full of himself. I think Nancy is way more attractive than he is.
He's pretty all right; pretty fugly!
Bartise isn’t even attractive to be that full of himself… Plus that mole on his nose is distracting AF
Nancy’s so annoying. She attacked Cole instead putting Bartisse in his place for once
Let’s be real, Nancy is not as attractive as Bartise, but the way he went about the lack of attraction was trash.
I agree like not even more attractive then barstool but I think she’s more attractive than Raven personally yeah, I really hated how everyone attacked Cole and let Bartise get away with
We judged Raven too quickly when exercised through Bartise's speech, she was simply ahead of her time.
We were all wrong about Raven. From the moment she was out of the pods, she commited 100% and was her true beautiful authentic self. The moments with SK's mom felt so genuine and moving. I hope she finds happiness and love with or without SK.
Yeah, I was not feeling her early on, but she ended up being my favorite. She stayed true to herself and took her time in letting the relationship develop with SK. Never judge a book by its cover, comes to mind!
@@tima.478 Absolutely! I loved how she was completely drama free and just focused on herself and relationship with SK. I hope we see more people like her on the show.
@@AudhamEnThaTokyo IKR, and I really hope they say some "I do's" at some point...lol.
I thought SK's Mother was so gracious. That, is what we call a Lady.
We? I loved her from the beginning😭
Matt and Barstool were wayyy more deserving of the heat that Cole got
Why are people calling bartise, barstool in this comment section 😆
100%
He who must not be named
There's no denying that Cole said and did things that were fucked up. But the way Zanab has tried to position herself as the victim the entire season (and esp. in the reunion) felt so calculated. Especially when she said harmful/hurtful things to Cole over the course of the season.
But what really pissed me off was that so much of the reunion was focused on Cole and not on the fucked up shit that Bartise and Matt said and did. Matt's blow-ups were SCARY and the things that Bartise said to and about Nancy were so fucked up and there was never any acknowledgment from anyone that those things were not okay. I still wish they'd let Nancy's family jump Bartise at thee wedding.
THIS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 puts my thoughts perfectly into words!! bartise got it easy, and matt?? matt had NO accountability and he was the most toxic one there
Honestly, I would've watched an entire hour of Nancy's brother chewing out Barfbag
Shutup woman, Matt’s girl hit on another guy when they were engaged. He has every right to be angry. If it was a man that did that, you would’ve called him a scumbag just like u did Cole. Why isn’t Colleen labeled the same? She reciprocated the same energy Cole did.
Matt looks like an alcoholic person who could physically abuse her if she opposed him. Bart was brutally honest and should not have blindsided Nancy. If Cole was constantly harping about her eating it would have made the air.
Coleen looked terrified when they started talking about the pool scene with Cole, like she has ptsd from hearing about it million times. She should run
The way that Raven and SK pulled the biggest redemption arc of all of reality TV threw me for a loop, but I loved it so much
EDIT: Once again, an internet comment ages like milk
I knew they would. Slow wins the race. Very wise desicion too of Raven and so classy not to jump into bed right away with SK, like other girls did! They literally took their time to get to know each other better first and slept after the wedding. Cool and wise couple.
I cheered like there was no tomorrow!
@@insatiate76 With marriage it is harder to break up so its smart to take it slow. If they can have a successful long distance relationship then maybe they can get married.
@@insatiate76 I feel the same way, but its their lives.
@@m.s9018 Was no huge flex of wisdom as to why she didn't jump into bed with SK. She was not feeling him physically when they met, it was clear to me, so that made it easy for her to wait, lol. Dude's personality got her and that superseded the physical, and now she's hooked!
Matt seems like the kind of husband who breaks stuff when he’s mad at something Colleen hasn’t even done.
100%. I hope she's okay
Yes! And that’s a sign to run from the relationship.
I KNOW. I was watching them teeter on yes/no, and I was like, “don’t do it, save some drywall!”
Cole was obviously talking about how big the supper was going to be. They probably were going to eat something large like a bbq plate or fish. For me, the worst thing about Zanab's behavior is that she would never sit Cole down to talk about her interpretation at these moments. That is why Cole is so shell shocked, because he thought everything was going okay from his pov.
Plus bartice did the same thing! He just didn't get the response like his girl. I hated him being such a jerk
Zay is an abusive person
What bugged me most about Zay was at the alter she prayed over Cole and asked for God’s blessing before she plunged the knife in his back a minute later. She has issues.
Cole says “a big old steak-o” or something similar as he is making the gesture.
He says porter house
Bartise was the real villain
Matt has an abusive behavior
Oh boy poor Cole I'm glad they showed the "cuties" footage
Right? Zanab is delusional. I hope he knows what a bullet he dodged! He may be right diagnosing her as bipolar too... 🙄 she needs therapy.
Totally agree with you.
Also the cuties scene was a non issue.. I don't know what the big deal was, but seeing it through Zenab's lens, it could be taken the wrong way, but he certainly wasn't "body shaming" her
Bartise is a f*boy and should have gone to love Island.
I agree with this completely, but I do think Cole has a bit more growing up to do before he gets married. He definitely needs to think before he speaks, whether brutally honest or not some things he said were most definitely out of pocket. I think Z definitely blew some things out of proportion, but they both desperately need to work on communication. I will say Coles ugly cry at the reunion made me very sad. I do think the internet would be way worse to him if the reunion had not gone the way it did, because Cole was definitely leaving a bad taste😅 in my mouth.
Come on guys, can't you tell that they are actor and almost everything is fake? It's so obvious!
I’m happy they aired the “Cuties” conversation. That exonerated Cole from her accusations of body shaming. That poor man might be immature but an emotional abuser he is not.
Girl, he was literally gaslighting her throughout the entire fucking show! What do you mean????? I never realised how easy it is for men to get away with breaking women down. WOW! A few tears a POOF he is the greatest guy alive and the women he constantly degarded and gaslighted is a victim. Please dont date. Youre too naive
He literally admitted that he wasn't attracted to her though, viewing this clip while acknowledging the whole context makes it easier to see why Z reacted the way she did.
@@14DANESSJ He actually never said that. He has said several times that he was attracted to her. He did say that she wasn't type he would usuallygo for, but only after she asked him about it. I really think y'all need to rewind the tape. I have. 😂
@@mongeekmongeek4523 He was having trouble physically connecting with her and told her other women were more attractive
@@14DANESSJ He was having trouble physically connecting with her because as he stated, in the pods when she was being sarcastic he pictured her saying it with a smile. But in person, she had a straight face. She was often standoff-ish. It had nothing to do with her physical beauty. He always told her he was very happy and pleasantly surprised when he saw her. He's not perfect by any means and he should have NEVER had that conversation with Collen. But he never tore Zanab down.
Poor Nancy, she's so beautiful and independent and sweet. She is waaaaaaay too good for Barstool.
Truth
Not next to raven😂 I see why he had cold feet
Nancy was sweet but Bartiste dodged a bullet with her crazy family, being $100k in debt with her ex-husband, wanting to abort a disabled child, selling her eggs to goodness knows who. Bartiste was sitting pretty at the reunion.
@@jamariomenesmith to me Nancy is more beautiful than Raven... she has this feminine soft beauty, super sweet face and perfect face ratios. Raven is beautiful, don't get me wrong, but Nancy is more conventionally beautiful. She also has curvy beautiful body!
Raven is all botox. Sorry, but it just doesn't even look natural anymore.
I will never forgive the men on this show for trying to make us think Nancy isn’t attractive. She’s like the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen
are you visually impaired??
Exactly! Nancy is absolutely stunning and Bartfart is a joke. I don't get it. She looked absolutely amazing on her wedding day.
For real though 😂 she is absolutely gorgeous
By the time Cole was apologizing in tears, I couldn’t take the self righteousness from Zanab claiming that she already forgave him back in the altar (which is a complete lie). Heck, the entire staff should apologize to Cole for treating him so unfairly.
For real! I felt this poor guy; his tears and shame were real. I dislike Zeynab massively! I may quit this streaming channel if that’s what they think I want to see. A female narcissist. Nope. Thanks. I’ll just drop your ass too!
If she had already forgiven him, then she didn't need to give her little girl power speech. Such a spiteful b!tch
If she really forgave him she wouldn’t of talked shit behind his back incessantly with the other girls after the show.
Those were pur crockodile tears babes.. Very alarming that you dont see the manipulation on Coles side. He was textbook gaslighting her the entire fucking show. The moment a man cries all his crimes all of a sudden washes away and now their victims are the villian its fucking pathetic that this is the world we live in. Cole could have probably full on cheated and ya'll would have been on his side just cuz he cried cuz the man was emotuonally abusive and the moment ya'll didnt agree with her interpretation ya'll jumped at villianising the women in this situation. Pathetic
Yeah if she had forgiven him she would have come with more class to the reunion show but she was still holding some grudge and anger so yeah I don’t think she forgave him either.
I felt so uncomfortable watching the reunion, or more specifically Colleen. I may be imagining this, but she looked almost terrified. With the way Matt was constantly glued to her side, they were giving me such bad vibes. I really hope that it was just an unfortunate snapshot and she isn‘t actually miserable.
I totally got the same feeling. She seemed terryfied when the pool conversation came up. May be she was as emotional as she claimed, but I got a bad feeling about it…
Yesss! I totally felt the same thing…I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who noticed. she didn’t have her bubbly sparkle anymore…She seemed very dimmed/terrified. That’s concerning considering the abusive/controlling vibes he gives us and has shown…I hope she’s okay because it seems like it could easily be an empath-narc dynamic. She seems like she’s always trying to please him and his outbursts. The way he seems like he has her in check with constantly threatening to leave and her bowing Down because she fears he’ll leave. I pray it isn’t 🙏🏼 but those relationships are so draining and awful, it sucks the life out of you& that’s exactly how she looked. I defiantly felt triggered.
There is a reason his previous relationship didn’t work out!
She also looked quite stressed as well. Hoping everything is okay at home
You are could be right but remember he also talk about her discipline and rigourous work schedule she may be just stressed and tired
I was so happy when bartise said no ....he only told her he didn't want her in like 12 different languages, and tones!
She is ridiculous ! And then act like she was surprised and so hurt duhhhhh🤣
How did she say yes to that pos!!?? She need to stop being so desperate
She said she was blindsided 🤨 girl bye
Bartise isn’t even attractive to be that full of himself… Plus that mole on his nose is distracting AF
I will say, this season of Love is Blind did a good job of pulling a M. Night Shyamalan twist revealing Zanab as one of the show's villains this whole time.
The good thing about women like this is that it's never enough and they eventually tell a lie that can be proven false and it throws everything else into doubt, like Amber Heard
Yessss lmao
Zay wanted her deepti moment so bad that she became the queen of gaslighting
Totally backfired on her.
she wanted the narrative for sure but to be fair her wedding happened before deepti’s season aired
@@zoe1482 Yes but she was able to see it before the reunion
Except Cole was no Shake
I'm sorry but the "Cuties story" was very eye opening. Zenab has also said some pretty hurtful things to Cole but the cuties footage completely shows Zenab distortion. Cole in no way commented on her body, he even said he tried to feed her earlier and she said no. He said the save your appetite for the feast they were having later BEFORE he found out she hadn't eaten anything. He said some messed up things but Zenab was cruel in that wedding speech and tried to make herself the victim the
Seriously! I just watched the Reunion episode and could not find anything wrong with that cuties story. I think she just got defensive and took it wrong. Even at the reunion she was clearly defensive even though she already “forgave” him long time ago.
The way she told the cuties story you could tell she was lying. It's hard to explain but when someone tells a story in the way that she did you know it's made up, just like how she says "what do you mean? this is a serving". It's just a way that no one talks in reality.
@@Aaron-kj8dv I agree with you that it came off like she was lying. But how is what you quoted from her not a way people speak in the real world?
@@dylanthevillian516 It was the tone of her voice. Like if someone was saying "Wow you're going to eat all of that???" her tone in response would be either defensive/angry/shy/embarrassed but the way she tells the story she plays like she doesn't understand that he's being a jerk (In her version of the story). If you go back and listen you'll see what I mean. It starts at 16:55
Exactly. Cole said a few stupid things along the way but he NEVER painted Zaneb as an abuser (even though she was) like the way she painted him. It's like everyone ignored all of her blinding flaws but really picked out all of his fairly minor ones.
That cuties scene continues with Cole saying "You only ate a banana today? Why? I offered you a poke bowl." Zanab lied.
Zanab was acting like the cuties conversation was some revelation but then after watching it was just a normal conversation. He was saying don't spoil your appetite before dinner, and just moments before he was talking about flying to England to meet her family. Kinda ridiculous that they just say "you know what you did" but if it was all moments like what we saw then he did nothing
Yeah, that was a nothing burger. He even told her that he would have made her a “poke bowl”.
Not to mention he offered her a poke bowl!
Yeah, basically, this! He was obviously really excited about that dinner they were gonna have, I mean, if he was limiting her food then he wouldn’t be enthusiastic about bringing her to a place that had large servings of food lol
Yup. All projections through her sensitive lens.
That clip def HELPED HIM
listening to you repeatedly mess up Barista's name for the entire video was such a satisfying comeback to all of his vanity and nastiness lol
I wonder how it all started, when did Bartease say something funny about his name lol?
Cole definitely is immature and inconsiderate but Zanab should have maybe given him that prepared speech ahead of time. He was clearly clueless and humiliating him in front of his family was just inappropriate. He was not a shake, he wasn’t even a bartise or Matt. We have to remember they barely knew these people so of course these attractions or feelings weren’t immediately going away
Or in private after the wedding even
I think she never forgave him for going around at the pool party and telling everyone who’d listen that he wasn’t attracted to her physically. I believe she wanted to humiliate him as she felt humiliated for him being so gaga over Colleen
Multiple women have said this man is manipulative and rude and y’all rather take his word cause he cried after being exposed for his actions
@@zeematthews372 but those women didn't live with him, they are taking Zanab's word.
@@Muffinga Yes I keep saying this she wanted him to pay for the way she felt she was so spiteful and never forgiven cole for it she made him pay for that comment every chance she got!
I honestly think Brennon had the hardest challenges to overcome. Religion, opposite personalities, and upbringing.
Yea I’m surprised everyone is just breezing over him converting to Judaism! That’s a huge commitment and proof of how dedicated he was to her.
There was nothing to overcome for him bc he’s just a spineless yes man 😂
@@jadechaya9025 yes! After only a few weeks of nothing each other too. Geez!
@@ALLLYYYYY1337 Ouch! But you kinda right
@@ALLLYYYYY1337 EXACTLY
Zae degraded him up to the wedding and purposely embarrassed him there and at the reunion. She came out vindictive and she INTENTIONALLY wanted to hurt him for her own issues. He may be immature but he never intentionally hurt her the way she did him.
Cole didn’t deserve the hate at the reunion.
Bartise deserved more tbh. Also instead of protecting the married couples, I so wish they would have addressed Matt’s scary anger issues.
YES! He’s trash, sure. But so is she!!!
Matt is soooo intense! How could he forget about that FaceTime even with all the alcohol. Colleen looks scared at the reunion.
Matt gives me red flags, Cole just seemed stupid and immature. Communication is so important in a relationship and the show just proves how important it is
Matt triggered me so badly the first time he got drunk. I've seen that face before with abusive drinkers.
Cole just needs to grow up. Matt just scares me. He goes from 1 to 100 in ten seconds.
Zanab went into this show with deep insecurities. Those insecurities were exacerbated by Cole's lack of filter and immaturity. Zanab started projecting unto him and began to put him down. Every chance she could she would point out his flaws. She was threatened by the charisma and charm of Cole. She does not possess these attributes, therefore she needs to make him feel inferior. She needed to put him down to place herself above him. This just showcases the amount of hurt and pain that she has to live with every day. Someone that holds on to their victimhood without ever being accountable, is someone I would want as far away from me as possible.
I hope that she can do the hard work and heal herself. We are all humans, faulty humans, and we are making sense of the world. Sadly she chose to be on a steaming network, where millions of people could witness this painful part of her story.
She won't, she distorts her reality so she's the victim and if you tell her she's being a toxic person, she will say you're bullying her.
It was just a bad match.
@@Joshpower57 I hope that she sees this as an opportunity for growth and development, maybe not now, but later in her life.
Sadly, I don’t think she’s self aware.
She is very covert narcissistic and plays the victim. She tried to gaslight him and was turning everyone against him. Even on the wedding day she did her best to make him the evil one even though she was the one saying no.
My friend knows Bartise and confirmed to me that he is just as insufferably big-headed as he is in the show.
I want to know who told him that he's God's gift to women. Like.....he's barely average and has no game at all. I don't get this massive ego of his.
Got that about him right outta the gate.
Good thing he said no. Nancy is too good for him. She deserved waaaaaay better.
He was insufferable and entitled to the very end like how he treated Nancy's family at the wedding? Very disrespectful😒
Even the way zanab argued with him about the word GOOD and GREAT. Girl has isssuuuuues😂
So cole told zae that he wanted to cheat the night before the wedding and she still went and claims she didnt decide until she got to the alter? Lies. Lies. Lies. Zae seems very calculated and insistent on being the victim. Almost all their fights were due to her passive aggressiveness and her insecurities
And she clearly said he met the girl AT the Bachelor party (at the rodeo), not at an afterparty somewhere which she changed the story.
@@AuntieL_ATL still
@@AuntieL_ATL good catch!
Yeah I wish they went into this deeper.
I actually think she told him that she had him on a leash the entire time
The most ironic part of the tell all show was Zaneb saying “this is working out really well for you Cole considering all the hurtful things you said about me” when in actuality SHE is the fortunate one because these things not being aired means she can accuse Cole of having whatever bad intentions she wanted him to have had so that SHE can look like the victim. The “cuties” clip was all I needed to see to determine who the victim truly was out of those two. Absolutely infuriating.
I’m not sure about Cole but that cuties clip was Zaneb making stuff up. He seemed genuinely shocked that she had eaten so little and even said he would have made her some food. I think it’s possible that after seeing the ballerina, she was insecure.
@@alstroemeria227again4 Clearly Cole has his own issues to work through, and I’m not trying to downplay those. All I’m saying is it was extremely frustrating that he was made to look like the villain when Zaneb was just as much to blame (if not more so) for their relationship not working out.
@@coltrain2024 I agree. The dude was crying at the end. She also completely destroyed him at the wedding and everyone clapped! She admitted at the reunion that she had told her family and friends some things about him. Obviously they got there hoping she would say “no”. She was terrible and needs to work on her own insecurities.
And she seemed to enjoy or at least, was on what was basically a smear campaign mission against Cole. It makes me wonder what she told the girls because they saw RED with Cole and he was just sitting there absolutely dumbfounded. And it’s weird how Brennan called him out for saying “insane”, he didn’t even call Zanab insane, he said the claims she was making were, which is a logical reaction when someone is making sh*t up about you.
After that cuties clip I would have serious doubts if Zanab was telling the truth about the bachelor party. Producers don't like to miss juicy stuff like that.
As a man who at one time struggled with many of the same things Cole struggles with (namely being an external processor who occasionally says hurtful things with no intention of being hurtful because he is talking through his feelings in the moment and speaking before thinking), I am SO grateful to have married someone as patient, loving, and supportive as my wife is. Zaneb took every opportunity to hold whatever she could against Cole, accusing him of horrible intentions because of HER own insecurities. Tough to watch for sure.
This! I really feel like they were such a toxic match for each other...
I just hated that she didn’t like the marshmallow blaster. I’m 40 and I love that stuff! I got these long range water guns last year and my hubby, kids and I got water all over the house. 😂 you gotta have some fun!
He does speak before thinking that's true...
And she could have been so much more patient!!! I was literally like girl relax, this man is not half as bad as you're making him seem.
She took everything so seriously
I’m sorry but if my husband spent all day telling me he thinking I’m uglier than his ex I don’t think I’d be that supportive…
@@emmadorothy3520 I don’t know if it’s fair to say he spent “all day” doing it. But I definitely wouldn’t have approached that topic in the way he chose to talk about it, especially considering he was paired with a woman who had already told him about her struggles with her image and self-confidence.
Zay wanted to be the Deepti of this season..
There was absolutely no need to crucify Cole infront of so many people. That was pure evil.
she wanted the narrative for sure but to be fair her wedding happened before deepti’s season aired
That's EXACTLY what i was thinking
Zay also said he was giving her the silent treatment when he clearly wasn't. She's kinda delusional and always looking for the worst, it's really sad bc it can make someone like Cole feel like an absolute monster even though it's just a misunderstanding.
Better season than 2 ( that bar was LOW) but still we are never getting another Cameron and Lauren. accept it yall.
there is also another couple that's still married fr that show, btw
Alexa and Brennan this season were pretty similar to Cameron and Lauren. They had no conflict and are very happy in their marriage.
@@MsDesiree39 they were never the fanbases favorite. Good for them tho.
@@ubadman1 oh pls, u r only going on cause she is blackm had she not dated out she'd be single, the other couple also did well
@@MsDesiree39 bro what💀 we like them because they are unproblematic, genuinely in love, and not shallow. Not bc of their race. I would have stanned Lauren and Cameron if they were both the same race or if one of them was from a small obscure tribe in the amazon…
Only thing wrong with Nancy is that she was into Bartise at all
Facts
that part.
Oh my gosh all the names you came up with for Benadryl were killing me😂
Lol so funny! I died when he called him Bopit and how he said it 😂
You mean Barista?
@@catguardian007 oh yeah sorry I forgot, Backgammon
Every name made me laugh. Get rekt Baccarat.
Okay bin-tease
Cole ,and Colleen were both probably wishing they had picked each other😬. My hearts goes out to both of them, that reunion was rough.
She should have said no to Matt at the altar and she and Cole should have dated afterwards. After the popularity of the show cooled down. I guess it wasn’t meant to be.
I truly wish they had, they would have had great time and made it easier on us watching this season.
Eh I dunno about that I’m pretty sure they’d have miscommunication issues based on after Colleen herself saying she was shallow, and then she flips it and says Cole called her shallow.
@@amany8805 💯💯
I think they would have clicked. They both have flaws (as are all of us) but I think they would have clicked as they seem to be each others type and are both laid back kind of people.
matt and coleen ... as a child who grew up with a controlling abusive father ... girl run
can anyone highlight what he did. I can't figure it out
@@TheMisslili8 He got so mad at her and yelled, insulted her (I think) over pretty small issues. Like I get why he was hurt but his reaction was far from mature. It happened twice in the show. He talked about being disrespected when it was like 2 AM and she still wasn't home. Instead of being worried about her or talking to her like an adult. One thing that worries me is that he was very scary while the cameras were rolling. Like what would he have done with them off?
Rooting for SK and Raven. ❤️ Wondering if Colleen needs to be rescued. During the reunion show, it seemed like she was trying to be careful with her words so she didn’t trigger Matt. 😮
He cheats on her
Matt is an abusive control freak. Why wasn’t this addressed at the reunion?
He seem crazy
The host don't have security
@@spice4life67 security? It seemed like a conversational reunion where they could say what they wanted. I mean they even made fun of a guy from the show who wasn’t even there so obviously it wasn’t that…
My heart hurt for Cole watching that. Immature, maybe. Abusive, no
Exactly!! He was a bit childish but he is not a bad guy as the show made him out to be! I felt so bad watching the reunion! So unfair!!!!
Perfect screencap for this vid. Cole's perplexed expression as he's being continually gaslit.
Hope he's doing okay. If anyone had their confidence shattered, it's him.
Absolutely. She totally broke him and made him believe he was a horrible person, so much so he cried on that couch while she sat there high and mighty! She's sick and needs therapy.
Nancy deserves so much better. As difficult, and heart wrenching it was on that day she is so much better off without him. She will find her forever person who will love her, and treat her the way she deserves to be treated ❤.
Nancy was ridiculous!!! Wanting to marry a man who didn’t want her 🤣 And the way she burned her family at the end so she could just talk to Bartise is showing how desperate and stupid she really is
It looked like Zanab had a self esteem issue from the moment they got out of the pods. I think she was going to find fault with pretty much everything
Sad thing is she snatched cole’s soul in the process, he really did fall in love with her.. I think she wanted that just to tear him apart. Hopefully cole recovers
Being hispanic I could kindof understand Nancy's family. They were invited to a televised wedding, their beloved family member is out there trying to start a whole new chapter in her life with her supposed fiance. Then Barstool trys to get out of the supposed relationship IN FRONT of everyone important to her, after telling nancy its about her pro-choice oppinion and not about the fact he wants to go after another woman. I'm totally assuming but she probably downplayed what happened in the relationship, if not they probably cut off other stuff he said. Her family probably could sniff out the bullshit he said, then went overprotective. If he would have told her beforehand how much of an issue it was and ended it, instead of in front of everyone I don't think they would have responded as strongly. He didn't even try to work it out is probably what they thought and demonstrated his lack of maturity.
I can only imagine what they think of him after they see the clips on tv, he probably won't be invited to another carne asada.
And then he’s with a blonde all over social media a few days after. He’s a whole lie!!!
sounds like Nancy did not explain how the show works...
Please not Barstool 😂💀
Barstool💀💀💀
The different names for Barista everytime you mention him 💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂
Colleen legit looked terrified.
Honestly I’m really concerned Matt’s behavior wasn’t addressed. Makes me think about how these reality dating shows can end up with horrible relationships. Maybe Matt’s done some work on himself, but maybe he hasn’t. It’s kind of scary to think about.
Zanab thought they’re at the reunion and LIB has already aired the whole show which to her meant she could lie and make herself out to be a victim so the whole world could jump Cole (and she almost succeeded) but Netflix said na-ah
That Cuties clip gave Cole the redemption ark we didn't know he needed
Matt is 💯 abusive and will probably end up hurting Colleen one way or the other. She was so terrified of him during the unions
I feel bad for Cole. He got attacked over lies Zay told others. I’m glad they released the “cuties clip” at the end of the reunion. Definitely provided a clear prospective of their relationship and how she played victim. Also, Alexa and Brennon should mind their own business. Brennon should have just stayed quiet instead of coming at Cole for no reason.
forget about Cole's childish behaviour and Zeneb being a complete psycho. There's something very wrong with Matt and Colleen, she doesn't seem ok at all. I hope she's not getting physically hurt. Matt is all over her almost to show that all is fine between them, but she looks terrified of him!
The whole cuties incident reminds me of that time Demi Lovato was triggered by some yogurt shop that carried sugar free cookies. It's like that's a YOU problem. Take care of your own insecurities. And when Zanab tried to claim Cole destroyed her self esteem. From the footage I've seen she didn't have much to begin with.
Also, when Zanab tried to claim she didn't know what her answer was gonna be until she got to the altar yet she had a whole "girl boss" speech memorized. Even when she was talking to the camera right before the wedding she was talking about their relationship in the past tense and I knew from there she wasn't gonna say yes. She's so full of shit.
that part.
not the froyooooooo 😂
I feel so bad for him bc he seems like such a positive carefree and fun guy.
I love how loyal Nancy’s mum and brother are when Bumble said “No” at the alter.
Nancy's brother didn't like Barstool from the word go, his gut told him that Bumble was trouble....i also feel like Barstool was abit threatened by Nancy's success
BUMBLE LMFOAOOOO
colleen’s body language makes me so sad, they should’ve said no
Can't imagine what the hell she was thinking to say 'yes' to this dude.
@@tima.478 pressure to get married maybe, but she’s literally so young, & THE RED FLAGS WITH HIS DRINKING WERE FLASHING
@@tima.478 I feel like she *really* wanted the fairy tale. Matt was like her third or fourth option after she got rejected, right? She desperately wanted to get married and my guess is that at the wedding she got drunk by the pretty dress, venue etc. The problem is that a good long lasting marriage is actually the fairy tale you want. Not the stuff before.
I'm confused to why did Nancy said I do in spite of all the red flags Bartise was waving in front of her. Was she ignoring them, was he leading her on more than what was seen on the show, or was she sensing that he wanted a way out and didn't want to give him that satisfaction?
Ni, she s just stupid and desperate
Giving her the shot glass in response to her gift was misleading. He should have told her he wasn't feeling her in the note. But, the way he was crying over her gift bag, I thought he might have said yes for a minute.
The crying over the gift to me seemed more like remorse and guilt that he was going to break her heart. That she clearly loved him so much (for some unknown reason), and he knew that he was going to say "I do not".
Just like in any toxic relationship, you love the person and think that they love you. You know things are wrong but you kind of put the bad to the side because you want the good to be real.
Nancy's brother looked like he was about to set Bartise alight
I couldn't believe Bartiste told Raven "at a girl" smh...
Haha, the intro was the best. “say it!”. It was a weird moment. I wonder if Matt is even more unhinged behind closed doors.
Colleen was me, 28 years ago, when I was in an abusive relationship. I'm a survivor of intimate partner violence and I know the body language Colleen was giving. Her eyes. She looked scared. Please someone check on her and get her out of that relationship because I know how this goes. Having said that - Cole may have done some juvenile stuff (the pool party ... his bipolar comment), HOWEVER - Zaneb came into the situation with TONS of triggers and crappy self image and her own issues caused her to project things onto Cole. And what's up with no one calling her out on her outrageously horrible controlling behavior towards Cole? I cringed the entire chicken-cooking scene because Zaneb was being HORRIBLE to Cole when all he was doing was being kind enough to cook a meal, and playful enough to keep some lightness and laughter in their relationship. To me, Zaneb is the "real" villain of the season. I wanted to like her ... and I didn't want to like Cole ... but ... her behavior is terrible and she doesn't own anything, even post-season. Meanwhile, Cole is crying and apologizing and super humble. Oh, and Matt. He's a villain, too. Someone save Colleen from him.
Cole and Colleen would've been a natural fit I think.
You’re doing too much. Sit down. Lol
I feel so complicated about Cole and Zanab because they both did things that didn't sit right with me. When Cole tried cooking her dinner I was upset about how she acted, and then when he asked her if she was bipolar.... like it all just was a mess and they definitely weren't right for each other
The difference is he never ran around claiming she was abusing him. That's where her behaviour becomes unforgivable. Otherwise you could accept well she's a control freak and he's still immature. But she crossed that line by painting herself as a victim and turning everyone against him
I’m really glad (and surprised) that they chose to show that cuties incident. It makes me wonder how the producers of the show feel about the 2 of them. It felt the same way when they chose to show us the Andrew incident with the eye drops as if to say; yes Bartise is a bad choice but this guy isn’t any better.
Omg fantake you using Barista, Barftiese is bringing me joy! Yaaasss! I love it 🤣🤣🤣
Barnacle
Poor Cole, felt so bad for him. He surely wasn‘t portrayed as perfect, but for what I‘ve seen Zay‘s behaving was exremely unfair. Luckily (at least it seemed like it) he has got a bunch of good people around him (the friends of the wedding who supported him, that was great how they came to him to hug).
ngl matt has family annihilator energy, the way he keeps telling colleen to “say it! say it!” at their date is horrifying
I don’t like bartise but I have to hand it to him: he was very strategic at this reunion he was able to stay under the radar decently he really didn’t take much heat and just kept his mouth shut as much as he can and just threw those apologies out there before the fireworks went off
I think I am the only person who liked Bartiste and not Nancy.
@@Mitzi73 I didn’t like her either for the reason of how much of an idiot she was for going with this when she saw all the red flags
A master class in PR... (public relations)
He's a sleazy slimeball through and through
lol the scene between Matt and Colleen, i couldn't help but think about Edward telling Bella to "say it" 😂
v a m p I r e
Your not wrong I think Matt might have sucked out Colleen’s joy and bubbly spirit like a vampire sucking out blood. Her eyes change color, go dark when she’s unhappy. Then go light when she’s happy . Her eyes were completely dark during the reunion. He sucked the life out of her. It’s speculation at this point. No she didn’t look happy have to watch again for the fear factor. Though there is something going on between them.
After watching the reunion episode and that last video regarding the cuties, I think Zanab was extremely insecure. I don’t understand why she couldn’t express her concerns before the wedding. If you watch the whole “cutie” video, Cole mentioned that he tried to offer her some other food earlier in the day, etc. I don’t think he meant to demean her or control what she was eating. I think she was unnecessarily harsh. Also, if you ask your mate to rate the appearance of other contestants in a show called “Love is Blind,” you should expect that your mate might find other people more physically attractive than you. If you can’t handle that truth, don’t ask the question.
The first time I heard “Barf-tise” twice in a row, I had to rewind to make sure I heard it right 😂 Then all of the other names came trickling out and I was losing it 😂
I love Nancy's family for sticking up for her❤️
Yessss...I was upset that she was letting Bartise talk to them the way he was.
I was very confused by that
I want to be adopted by them.
Bartiste dodged a bullet.
@@Mitzi73 why do you say that?
@@sfooshy4517 Because Nancy’s family was crazy, she owed $100k with her ex-husband, she said she would abort their child if he had a birth defect and she sold her eggs so she has several kids out in the world. That’s too much for one man who is still young enough to do better.
The reunion honestly just made me feel bad and icky
If my child is ever lucky enough to marry someone who truly loves them, I'll shed tears of joy too!
Serious question: Is Matt's ex-wife still alive? Or she's been buried somewhere?
😱 😳 good question.
He said she found out shes pregnant and he never saw her again
@@ladyvanilla3 🤡🔪🩸
😂😂😂
I always thought Nancy was conventionally attractive and so pretty. She deserves far better than someone who openly says he's not attracted to her. So excited for her after this
I am floored you didnt point out that Cole's last name is Barnett! When they said his last name at the altar I did a record scratch in my head. You compared him to Barnett in your first video (rightfully so lol) and then for this to come out.....too funny!
I have to say, I really appreciate all of your add ins. You are freaking hilarious.
Barista, baptise 😂 Thanks for your recaps!! They’re the best
Zay just came with a horrible passive aggressive response to everyone calling her out and deactivating her insta comment section. I would 100% say Cole dodged a bullet not marrying Zay. He is fun,goofy and a little naive but Zay has a low self confidence and super controlling and disrespectful. I’m so disappointed how everyone just took Zay side instead of actually try to listen to Cole’s side. I felt really bad for him cuz he really tried his best and shows improvement during the show.
It’s annoying because I didn’t like Cole from the get go but I still feel bad about how he was treated. Zanab always assumed the worst interpretation of what he said
His family was right! She was not for him
It also comes down to the fact that they're also not really compatible. He's an outdoorsman, and she doesn't even like to get her hair wet.
Cole got way too much flak at the Reunion - Bartiste/Barstool/Barhopper said just as much bad stuff to Nancy (if not worse from what we were shown), the difference was that he didn't care. Cole did care, and he was such a mess at the Reunion. He apologized to everyone, said he regretted everything, and he seemed so in love with Zeinab. You could tell that he was so low and regretful of everything he did/said. The "cuties" incident just proved that Cole is immature and hyperactive (clearly he just says whatever comes into his brain), and Zeinab is sensitive and insecure about her body. Granted, Cole shouldn't have said/acted on his attraction to Colleen - that only fuelled Zeinab's insecurities.
That being said, I think that what Zeinab did in front of all their friends and family was cruel. She asked to say a prayer with him during the ceremony, said how much she fell in love with him during their vows, and then proceeded to tear him down in front of everyone and leave him at the alter. But honestly, given their relationship, it's probably for the best that she didn't say "I Do". They weren't a great match - with his candidness and immaturity and Zeinab's insecurity and controlling tendancies. Like you said, she would always be the "parent" of the relationship and he would be the perpetual kid and neither of them would be getting what they want out of the relationship. I really hope that Cole realizes it's for the best and can heal from the experience. He isn't well suited for reality TV, where you need a really thick skin and sense of superiority like Bartiste/Banana/Bopit has.
Beanbag made a comment to Matt about him wanting to "pay to be" in his position. That was the harshest comment of the season to me and they didn't mention it. I guess it was too harsh.
he offered her a poke bowl, how could you not mention it? if he was so evil trying to control her food intake he'd not have offered her food. besides he seems genuinely shocked when she said she only ate a banana the entire day. zanab needs therapy and to stop lying
Cole is NO ANGEL but Zanab lied on Cole when she said he body shamed her. I'm glad they aired the "cutie footage". She needs therapy. Everything goes through the filter of her trauma....
It's crazy how no one is talking about how Zanab is clearly going through so much mentaly-wise and being extremely hard on cole. As someone how spend 8 freackin years having eating disorder I can tell you for a fact that the tangerine thing... happened all in her head. People going through e.d thinks everybody is seeing their struggle when its actually the opposite, we get mad with everyone around us and start acting like a bitch towards people we live with for not realizing our struggle. Cole had no freackin idea what she was going through, he was a trigger not a villain in that sense.
The names I've seen Bartise called on tiktok has me 💀: Barista, Barfoon, Bathwater, Barstool, Barqueef, Barnacle 🤣
Very appropriate renaming Bartise Barftise, 10/10
I’ve never watched a single moment of this show but I love your commentary on it!
My favourite part of this season was everyone’s family!
Why is no one talking about how Zay HUMILIATED AND COMPLETELY BROKE Cole at the altar ?? AND SHE FORGAVE HIM????
She's a horrible person
You don't do that to someone you love , even when they hurt you
Great, unbiased review! Your videos are the best.
"Nancy and Bop-it" 😂😂
These edits are gold 😂 good job
Zenab was Hella exaggerating that scene with the oranges at the end
Zenab acted with absolutely NO class at their wedding. She could have said no, pulled him aside and said her peace privately.
She's vindictive, bitter, insecure...etc. She's acting like an old hag and that's what she's going to be if she doesn't get a TON of psychological help.
She needed her Carlton "fuck a ring" moment
She was cruel and hurtful to Cole. She needs to deal with her own insecurities and low self esteem instead of blaming others.
I would never go on a show like this and they wouldn't want me because I avoid drama, but if I was going to say no I would never let it get to a wedding ceremony to save the other person embarassment
2 words for Bartise being picky about looks... HOLY MOLY!!!