5 Signs Someone Is Suicidal
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
- After losing a wife and father to suicide these are five signs that someone is suicidal. If you are struggling with addiction and looking for resources www.aa.org and www.na.org are great resources to help.
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My friend gave me a really thoughtful card before he ended his life, he was an artist and a regular at my work, he was like family. He gave us his ashtrays as a gift for the cafe and we didn't think of it at the time as a sign. I would give so much just to see him again
Thank you for bringing awareness of these signs to look out for, you are saving so many people ♡
Heart goes out to you ❤️
Omg, was watching and getting emotional and when you said "hindsight is 50" then corrected yourself I had to laugh because I often say "hindsight is 50/50, you either had it then or you didnt"
…i told everyone and i ended up with everyone genuinely hating and abandoning me. its. so much worse when you try and you end up isolated and abandoned.
Exactly. People just don't want to hear about it
That’s horrible! I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m thinking that so many people don’t know what to do or how to handle it and are fearful of experiencing losing someone close to them from suicide. So maybe they are pushing you away out of fear and worry.
However, maybe there are better suited friends out there for you. Is there any church near by? Even if you aren’t religious, the church is a great place e to get counsel. A good church and pastor/priest will listen without judgment and will have compassion and empathy and resources to help too. Even if you never go there again, it’s worth walking into a confessional or the church office to see if you can have an impromptu meeting. Many priests even have an emergency number to call at all hours of the night!
Same here.
With me it just happened so fast. I live in constant physical pain, and my husband left town for a wedding I was too sick to go to. I was just tired of the pain and not participating in life. My husband arrived home just on time and found me. I ended up in a coma for a week and then another week trying to recover before they sent me downstairs to the psych ward for another month. I'll forever feel bad about what my husband and friends went through. I can't say I'm any better today, but I fight through it because I never did want to harm anyone else, I just wanted out of the pain. I'm very sorry for what happened with your wife. I'm sure she must have felt the same. Most people just want out of the mental or physical pain. There needs to be a lot better help out there because the hospital I was in was just like a holding facility until they thought I was safe to leave. My entire time in the hospital, not one person asked me why or really tried to talk to me about anything meaningful. That has to change.
This video is truly a gift from god. I applaud you for making this. This is one of the most valuable resources I found regarding suicide prevention. Some of my friends are suicidal, and I’m constantly paranoid (traumatized, frankly) that they’ll just cross that line and kill themselves. This video gives me peace of mind, a reassurance of when to step in and give them as much help as possible.
Thank you.
mental health issues are just nutrition deficincies, 92 percent of the population doesnt even know about nutrition deficiencies. its on purpose so the heathcare industry can make billions and cure nothing and keep you sick. a preservitive free myers cocktail iv and preservitive free d3 injjection or iv will cure almost all health issues in about a week. you just do them once a month. chemical imbalance/trauma/genetic reasons for mental health issues a scam and a lie.....
Move in with them?
I rlly don’t know but just an option.
This is a serious topic. Ashame that had so many views and not enough comments. Thank you for this video.
That's also what Ive seen when people know they're dying. My uncle and roomate both exhibited all 5 of those in the last year of their lives, and neither one committed suicide.
I think a big sign for me when I was at my lowest was giving up on my long time goals. Everything just became living from a day to the other and enjoying the moment.
I went back into some hold bad habits because I wanted to make the most of my happiness now and slowly drifted away from my regular routine meant to build long time happiness.
To the outside, I was looking at my happiest. Was really engaging with people, was enjoying the moment, I was worrying less and less. Because at the end of the day, I knew all my worries became meangless if I am just to, you know, stop existing in a short while.
Also, I want to tell everyone reading this: If you think you've fucked up and wasted a lot of time, effort and money while you thought you are going to end it all and now you can't really go back to your old life even if you wanted to, I am here to tell you, you can re build it if you stick around. There are people willing to help you, there methods you may have not even thought are there, and most importantly, there is hope and support. Is never too late to rebuild your life. No matter from how down you have to start. And when you will look back in years, you will be glad to give life a second chance
Absolutely. Ten years ago I was severely depressed after a terrible event. I thought about suicide most days for a long time. If I had given up, I never would have met my partner and have my two beautiful daughters. Its so wild to think I might never have experienced all the memories and love I've had, if I had given up.
Hang in there people. If you're at rock bottom, the only way is up from there.
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I'm sorry for your loss Mr. Eric. Bless you for sharing this precious information. A co worker of mine sa6s that we all go through trauma that we never heal from and how we all need counseling at some point in our lives, however its hard sometimes to admit that your still hurting inside when your the person who's always been strong, the person who lifts everyone else up.
I always inpersonate myself in happy mood. It is exhausting! I never want people to know how i feel, how i really feel. I never talk about straggling, depression, hopelessness or even being sad. I don’t want them to know or to burden them. I would get rid of my items as to not leave another burden for them to deal with. Sometimes I wish i could just vanish and wipe everyone's memory of me. I never existed. I guess thats one. reason why i am still here.
I'm getting better with therapy and medication. Its amazing how it all starts to come together.
Be well!
Thank you for this video. However the sudden good mood before a planned suicide isn't always a facade, at least it wasn't in me. When I went out heading for the railroad, I was _genuinely happy_ that I'd soon be dead. Looking back now, that is so strange.
mental health issues are just nutrition deficincies, 92 percent of the population doesnt even know about nutrition deficiencies. its on purpose so the heathcare industry can make billions and cure nothing and keep you sick. a preservitive free myers cocktail iv and preservitive free d3 injjection or iv will cure almost all health issues in about a week. you just do them once a month. chemical imbalance/trauma/genetic reasons for mental health issues a scam and a lie...
It has been a long and horrible battle to get any help! i love my family. However, they are self-centered, and i have shown them my self-harm, begged them for help, and no one will help. Getting therapy when you don't have insurance is impossible unless you want students who know very little and you may see once or twice and that's it. i am tired of explaining to everyone. i spend the entire time telling them why i am there, then i have to do it again the following week. It's extremely overwhelming! Not everyone can get help when asked and begged!
I’m really hoping that you can be heard and receive any form of help ❤. One of my first thoughts is to try a church, even if you aren’t religious, a good church will counsel anyone and I’ve heard many beautiful stories of people who were just struggling so much and at their limit but stumbled into a church and found hope and help and love. Don’t let politics get in the way because that’s not
What this is about, it’s about you getting help because you are worthy of having a full and joyful life. I’ll be thinking of you ❤
I understand because I have the same problem with therapy, etc. What I've done is find something to live for but it hasn't been easy. Thankfully there's lots of videos here in CZcams made by professionals that have helped me. I can't afford therapy, I can barely afford the psychiatrist every 3 months for my medication. I keep my medications to a minimum and avoid the ones that make me feel different such as Xanax, etc. Anything that makes me feel like I'm not myself I don't take it because psychologically it makes me more depressed. What we need is to feel as normal as possible, when we're not ourselves is emotionally draining because we're aware of it and makes us feel like 💩. The thoughts about "I'm crazy", "I need all these medicines", "I remember when I didn't need to take all these pills"... It drives us crazy. Look how to help yourself and realize that nobody is above you, nobody is better than you, you can do it little by little. Have patience and elaborate a plan to research the medications, hobbies, what gives you hope, etc. Work on it every day and be patient with yourself, this is a daily battle but you can do it when you learn to use your own mind to help yourself. It's self-therapy 😊
thanks eric. I'm sorry for your losses, truly I am. But thank you for making this, now we can make sure others are ok. Peace out.
I love this dudes channel, he covers some REAL stuff
What if you don't give your stuff away?You just tidy up your room and make it look good
Thank you for your videos
so sorry for your losses. Glad you are still with us ... thank you for the video
This is amazing im glad you diced to make video to warm people so they can prevent this. I hope you can keep making these videos
I'm sorry to hear such stories. My condolences to you and any survived members left by your late father and your wife. Thank you for your video, for it may save souls in the process
When he said we hit really hard
I'm there. I've been there before. Now, it's just a matter of time. I've hurt so many people including my children... I want to fade away and allow those I've hurt to heal. I've tried my best to love beyond all the hurt. Those who know me will understand. My heart hurts so badly for all of my mistakes. Please forgive me. I'll love you unconditionally, no matter what, forever.
Hey I read this comment with no likes or replies and figured I was meant to read it, please for the love of God do not go through with anything you are planning, the fact that you still mention many people in your life proves there is hope, please read this and live a good life, thank you.
Please don’t do this. ❤ You’re not alone in this world and ending your life will not help your loved ones heal - especially your kids; it will do the opposite. Keep going. You know love and you are loved by others - more than you realize. Sending you strength and compassion and the world’s biggest hug. ❤
Hey, please do not try to unalive yourself. Doing that will not help them heal, it could do the opposite, your children need you to help them. Please keep going
Please, do not do it. Please don't! You may have made mistakes but that doesn't mean your family doesn't want you in their lives. You would hurt them so much more if you did it, than if you where around. Use your time to support them. They need their mom! Please!
Hey you 🤗 Remember, everybody has a reason to be alive. Just keep looking for yours ❤️ I'm sure you're more precious than you think and maybe you'll save somebody someday! Don't give up!!!
My brother committed suicide and on that day life changed for me... A part of me died... And life was just a struggle after that...
So good thank you
Absolutely
Sincerely it can get rough and hopeless out here, I am just trying soo hard to convince myself that I havent displayed any of such behaviour! Fact that I am trying so hard to convince myself😔!
So true, thankyou
Absolutely ❤️
No one comes
Hi, I have to throw a spanner in the works, 1:50 you talk about the person in genral does not share...... I did.
I had only 1 person relise how bad I was getting but not to the point of ending it.
It took me screaming out to other help, then the police coming and taking me to the hospital, then my Doc calling me to come in, the local MH nurse getting involved, LAMH (this is Scottish) and now the local councle getting involved.
Some would say, is 1 life worth so much?
Yes
I look back now the signs was literally blarrng I just didn’t see it he sold his guitar he told me he was going to stop smoking TOMORROW he threw away some pictures
Realising that I've been doing all of this in the past 2 months, and the only person who noticed I was acting different was my best friend….and just thinking about how empty I have really been feeling, I used to be scared of death and just ending it, but now after watching this, after thinking about it, the thought of death doesn't seem so scary anymore… but in a weird way… I feel like I'm be living the lies that I tell myself, to the point I feel “happy”.
This... actually describes my dad too well...
The way you‘re typing that tells me you just want attention lmao
@@Geilolp. Stop, you do not know this person at all. How did you ever find this video and place judgement on someone. Who cares if they're seeking attention, even if they who knows the reasoning behind wanting that attention, wanting help. If not, a reply stating what to do in such a situation can help them or someone who comes by this comment and truly knows someone displaying signs of suicide. Please do not judge over one comment. ♡
Please reach out to your dad and ask him if he is okay, really okay. And think about his past behavior, any signs of depression. If so, again reach out to him and just chat with him, even if it's for hours and hours and hours. Dedicate time with him to really understand his mindset. That's at least what I think would eventually make me admit to my plans. If someone suddenly spends more time with me and shows genuine concern, I'd repeatedly shut them down tho and maybe even get angry. But if they keep trying to stay in touch and check in on me daily, it would make me rethink, I'd have another breakdown most likely and be angry that I'm once again debating whether to kms or not but I'd be alive. And you'd have more time to get him help. Sending so much love! 🩵 This is just what I'd say would "delay" my attempt, enough to at least get help. I put delay in quotes to really mean stop me from attempting but there is a possibility the thoughts return.
People like me are born curse ,only to feel pain of life 😢😢😢😢
mental health issues are just nutrition deficincies, 92 percent of the population doesnt even know about nutrition deficiencies. its on purpose so the heathcare industry can make billions and cure nothing and keep you sick. a preservitive free myers cocktail iv and preservitive free d3 injjection or iv will cure almost all health issues in about a week. you just do them once a month. chemical imbalance/trauma/genetic reasons for mental health issues a scam and a lie...
Hey why would you think like that? You're a gorgeous person please live your life fully and enjoy every moment
If you truly feel cursed, I would try a binding prayer:
By the power of the precious blood by the holy name of Jesus and the holy intercession of Mother Mary and St. Michael, I command the demon of “enter sin here” to stop afflicting me and go to the foot of the cross to receive your sentence.
You are such a nice person 😊@@AndieFern
I've had mates who have taken their own life's I didn't know the signs though but in saying I had been going through my own mental health issues and have for years but my personal journey on my own mental health and tried to take my life more then once I had been in bad state of mind and I would shit my self of from the world being in a dark place of mind is not easy but I remind myself about simple things like having a cup of tea
Sorry for your losses, hold your head up high bro they will be remembered
@EricBZink could you explain why people cut themselves? I have a friend who does and and I know someone who does it, and I really don't understand why, we're all 15-16 years old so its a bit concerning for me, I'm a healthy guy who's trying to understand psychology by understanding why people do this
I’m not a professional by any means, and I know that I’m not the person that you are looking for, but I can at least try to help. I had a period in which I cut myself around the same age. If I remember correctly, cutting, alongside other forms of self-harm (hitting, burning, picking, etc,) can release chemicals in the brain that can give off a rush or “high” similar to that of taking light drugs. Cutting is the most common form of self harm, and provides a physical way to display one’s internal pain, even if they don’t plan on showing anyone (which most don’t.) Cutting can provide the feeling that for once, you are in control. In control of how deep you cut, how much, etc. Cutting can be used as a temporary coping mechanism that can easily become addictive, and can be hard to quit, much like nicotine, alcohol and similar substances that are regularly abused. People may get the idea to cut themselves from social media, friends, drawings, or any other sources that advertise it. I wouldn’t say that I was ever addicted, but it became a very regular thing that I didn’t think much of until after I quit. Cutting can risk infections if dirty blades are used, and arteries are at risk of getting severed and causing fatal bleeding depending on where you cut, (most often the wrists.) It is VERY IMPORTANT to note that nobody has to be suicidal, or even depressed to cut, it can just be a bad habit that someone may have picked up. If you plan on speaking to anyone about self harm, I would recommend that you asked advice from someone that you can trust. I personally have never been caught harming myself in any way, and therefore have never had to handle speaking out about to anyone before (technically, until now,) so I probably would not be the best person to look to for advice on speaking to a self-harmer. Hope this helps, and be easy on your friend. Above all else just try to be patient and understanding with someone who cuts themselves, despite how alien the concept may be.
For me it is like drugs, have some bad emotions and problems? Mask it with physical pain + there is a element of “i hate this person and want them to suffer” but that person is you yourself. Be there for your friend, listen to their problems and try to convince them they are loved
It’s a form of coping. In the persons mind it helps the emotional pain they are in
when you cause yourself physical pain, body reduces something in your body to reduce the pain and actually it helps with emotional pain. I cut myself because i thought if i will punish myself then life/God wont. Had lots ir therapy so i don’t do that anymore
It’s different for every person, if they’re willing to talk, it’s always best to just ask your friends directly.
I struggled off and on with cutting when I was 14-15, for me there was a kind of satisfaction, like if I had a physical injury to show for it, that validated the emotional pain i was in.
Problem is character...
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good bye
TELL JESUS THAT YOU NEED HELP
Tell everyone… no lol
Tell someone I guess that is trustworthy and ideally compassionate… the Priests at our church hear some crazy things and are super emphatic!
Tell it to Jesus. You cannot bear all your troubles alone. Tell it to Jesus. Tell it to Jesus. Jesus can help you. Jesus alone.Amen ❤
better stop giving off those singns
But surely being suicidal is a sign in and of itself, to the suicidal person? I might be way off base but is it possible to know that wanting to do that to yourself is not healthy and that means that one needs to seek treatment?
It is genetic
Get out.
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@@sheilawarner9550 now.
How about you try educating yourself from something you don't know
It is genetic in the sense that most people who commit suicide are the people who genetically predisposed to experience more negative emotion per given situation. That is the say that this person is more neurotic than others in their personality.
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Just type normally. Saying "suicide sucks" like that is basically making fun of people who commit suicide
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You got this! We care! Just have to find the right people. Those people may just be God. Amen. Andremember that God works through us. Amen. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹 We do care. I mean it. Amen.